I agreed with my ex about the breakup. We both needed to make changes and grow. But my intention was to always get back together, stronger then ever. We had nearly 4yrs together, and we may not get back, but I'm really proud of the person I am today. No contact is really hard, but you really need to concentrate on YOU. Never settle, you deserve the best.
Excellent presentation, Coaches. I particularly liked/ appreciated what Victoria said regarding the importance of anger in the right circumstances and how it serves to protect an individual. You both show a lot of love and compassion.
I didn’t wanna get back together with my ex BUT had a friends with benefits situation for half a year after he broke up and guess what happened? The first 3 months I was fine but at some point I started to feel utterly used and lied to (cuz we only hooked up and I couldn’t talk to him about serious stuff going on in my life: long story short: I freaked out & cut off contact once and for, plus having a lot of anger and resentment towards him. NEVER gonna put myself in such a situation ever again. NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS, Folks.
I think that he used his loss as an excuse to break up.with her. People don't leave if they really care. He sounds toxic...I dont think he would be honest with her. I would drop him. He betrayed her from the git go during those 18 months if not before.
I declined the friendship, even after being intimate with each other. I am proud I did it, cause guess what happened a few weeks later, they are dating someone else. Whooops…
I hate the term "settling" cause another coach plus well-meaning friends & relatives lectured me with it as they didn't approve of my polyamorous relationship. They projected how *they* would feel onto me. Woof. This is another can of worms. Another reason I don't date younger men, they are prone to G.I.G.S. like this. & blatant immaturity, not the subtle kind folks accuse my ex of. Her heart was clearly big but when you stay friends, let along FWB, with an ex you have your heart set on maybe recovering, you inadvertently train them *to get over you.* Literally. No Contact or try again. No in between BS. All or nothing. We deserve nothing less.
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I agreed with my ex about the breakup. We both needed to make changes and grow. But my intention was to always get back together, stronger then ever. We had nearly 4yrs together, and we may not get back, but I'm really proud of the person I am today.
No contact is really hard, but you really need to concentrate on YOU. Never settle, you deserve the best.
You can’t have your cake and eat it too as coach Margaret says
Excellent presentation, Coaches. I particularly liked/ appreciated what Victoria said regarding the importance of anger in the right circumstances and how it serves to protect an individual. You both show a lot of love and compassion.
I didn’t wanna get back together with my ex BUT had a friends with benefits situation for half a year after he broke up and guess what happened? The first 3 months I was fine but at some point I started to feel utterly used and lied to (cuz we only hooked up and I couldn’t talk to him about serious stuff going on in my life: long story short: I freaked out & cut off contact once and for, plus having a lot of anger and resentment towards him.
NEVER gonna put myself in such a situation ever again. NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS, Folks.
Victoria is amazingly insightful. Margaret must have been so proud of you two. Thank you for such a helpful video xx
I think that he used his loss as an excuse to break up.with her. People don't leave if they really care. He sounds toxic...I dont think he would be honest with her. I would drop him. He betrayed her from the git go during those 18 months if not before.
The face Victoria made when he said " He was seeing Someone"
This is an important (extreme) example of a crucial lesson the dumpees need to hear!! Thank you!
Craig and Victoria, thank you for all the content you provide for us during such a difficult time in our lives.
Goodness, sounds VERY similar to my story... thank you so much..
I declined the friendship, even after being intimate with each other. I am proud I did it, cause guess what happened a few weeks later, they are dating someone else. Whooops…
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Wow ! .. thank you , very insightful and good advise ...🙏👌
Hi Kenneth ❤ why I don’t see the thank you stamps on your channel ? It’s easier to donate and it’s fun!
He's name is Craig.
Never be someone's Plan B unless they're yours as well.
What was she thinking...He was using her.
I’m working on turning my love for my ex to hate. I won’t be his friend and want nothing to do with him. Hope he regrets his decision one day.
It's all good she saved from this guy and karma will get him, no worries.
I hate the term "settling" cause another coach plus well-meaning friends & relatives lectured me with it as they didn't approve of my polyamorous relationship. They projected how *they* would feel onto me. Woof.
This is another can of worms. Another reason I don't date younger men, they are prone to G.I.G.S. like this. & blatant immaturity, not the subtle kind folks accuse my ex of.
Her heart was clearly big but when you stay friends, let along FWB, with an ex you have your heart set on maybe recovering, you inadvertently train them *to get over you.*
Literally.
No Contact or try again. No in between BS. All or nothing. We deserve nothing less.