Recently was in Walmart and used the women's restroom. On my way out, I saw a young father with a 4-5 year old daughter who was trying to figure out if it was safe to let her go into the women's bathroom without him. Understandable that he wouldn't want her to be exposed to men standing at urinals by taking her into the men's room. As a mom (of now grown children), I asked him if he would feel better if I stayed in the bathroom with her until she was finished. He was so relieved and thanked me multiple times. I introduced myself to his little girl and told her I would stand by the door so she would feel safe. No issues, but had a man tried to enter while she was in there, I would have asked him to leave until that child left the restroom. No way would I allow a grown man into a woman's space where a small child was present. As an adult, if a "trans" person enters a restroom and goes into a stall, I don't really care unless I see eyes trying to look through the spaces between the panels into my stall - but as for kids, it's just not appropriate. Maybe the answer is to offer a third bathroom and have a men's room, a women's room, and one for "others."
This exact problem is one of the few things that terrifies me right to the bone whenever I think about the future and what it would be like to be a dad. Having to make the choice of entering a space your not ment to be in and are unwelcome or take your little girl into somewhere she shouldn't be in or having to trust that she would be safe and capable to have no issues What you did was a massive thing and very kind thing
@@caesartercio3670 they'd start playing the victim and call the others bathroom transphobic beacuse it doesn't affirm their gender. Though it might be the More passive solution beacuse they get their own bathroom and women and children don't have to be scared from a middle aged bearded dude with a wig in a bathroom for women. I personally think we should scare them from even sugesting the possibility of entering a womens bathroom
Literally!! The scariest one is ‘gender neutral’ bathrooms at bars and clubs? I’ve only ever used one and there was drama? A creepy man peeing with the door open and walking around asking all of women he saw come in if he was ‘in the right’ bathroom when he clearly knew as it was marked. He used it as an opportunity to be a creep! Never again! I complained to the bar and they were like ‘get over it’ WHAT
I fear in the future it is going to begin escalating to violence and the minority that feels oppressed will become genuinely oppressed or even hunted down to extinction. I am not sayin I advocate it, I am just pointing out the direction things are currently heading if this type of thing continues. These mentally unstable people need real help before someone takes things way too far. And they are mentally unstable, the fact that he screamed at a woman uncontrollably over her telling him that he shouldn't have used a womans bathroom is evident of this. I think he was not telling the truth, I genuinely believe wholeheartedly he laid his hands on that poor woman. He is a mentally unstable and violent grown man, and a threat to society. He needs help before someone equally unstable sees him as a threat to society and takes justice into their own hands.
I have a hunch that these guys - men who claim they're transwomen but don't even *try* to pass as female - are more interested in riling up and harassing women, and now do this under the guise of trans rights activism. Back in the day, they would probably have been exhibitionists and their shenanigans would have been considered sexual harassment; but these those who take offense are the bad guys. It's truly a clown world we live in.
@@thezyreick4289 it already has a boy(trans woman) in grade school went into the girls bathroom and beat two girls up and not anyone from the school discipline that person(boy) for anything..
As a 21 year old woman I would be terrified to encounter him in a restroom. Does he not understand that his “safe space” (a WOMAN’S public restroom) comes at the expense of mine??
so true. i mean how much does it take for them to realize that making 50%+ of the worlds population uncomfortable just so that they can feel "safe" is not how the world works. i mean i'm a young man and i'm weirded out by those people, i can't even try to imagine how it must be for a woman to deal with those situations
@@loneghostwolf7388 You don't understand. For these men, making women uncomfortable is not a side effect, it is their desired outcome. It's part of their kink.
I recently took my 9 and 7 yr old sons to a water park. In crowded areas I make them stay with me and enter the women's spaces. Inside the changing room I made them face the wall while I changed them and then changed myself. An attendant asked me if everything was okay with my kids. I had to explain to her that little boys, while they are safer with mom in this area still need to be respectful of other women and girls who are changing out of their bathing suits. In today's world shielding your children from nudity in a way to protect their innocence and the privacy of other women is not comprehensible to many.
Father who has taken a young girl into the mens washroom, it is always 'eyes on the floor Sweet pea'.. I put her into the toilet stall, close the door and wait for her to finish.
They didn't have any available, it was beyond packed that day. We used our towles to maintain our privacy while changing. I've never seen a place as packed as it was that day. Typically yes we would have went into a stall together. They still would have had to face the wall when mommy changed. Lol
This isn't weird at all. I used to do that when I went with my aunt to the pool. She'd take me to the women's restrooms.and shower areas but I had to read a book while facing a wall
To somewhat play devil's advocate, and I don't condone her response whatsoever, but it was more than likely lashing out due to embarrassment and humiliation. Especially feeling like your own friends, being the ones you trust and feel safe with, seemingly turning on you. I advocare heavily for trans rights, but this one is a little tricky to handle even for me. Even if this individual had absolutely no ill intentions whatsoever, most times it wouldn't even matter on principle alone
I'm a male and I've been in a woman's locker room dozens of times. My ONLY reason for being in there was that I was a janitor. I would always ask a female co-worker to see if the locker room was empty before going in. If someone came in while I was in there, I got out. I didn't want to be uncomfortable, nor did I want the woman to be uncomfortable-let alone file a complaint or sue or anything. I made every effort to be as quick as I could while still doing a good job cleaning, and there were many times when that locker room wouldn't get cleaned on my shift because there would be someone in there every time I asked someone to check. Unless it's a person's job, no man has any reason to be in a woman-only area.
TBH I (female) would rather have 10 of you in the locker room with me than one "Woman". It's the people who want to be in our private spaces, and won't let anything stop them, that scare me the most. Especially when they're doing it for sexual gratification like so many of these people are.
I find this so frustrating. My daughter went into a bathroom at 8. I was literally outside the door. She took forever. I went in and found her half closed into a stall. The minute I came in the very obvious man wearing a woman’s dress finished using the sink and left hurriedly. My daughter was mad because she thought I had stuck her in the men’s bathroom when she saw the man at the sink. She went into the stall and didn’t come out because she didn’t want the man to know she’d gone into the men’s bathroom she said. When I had to tell her it was a women’s bathroom and the guy was in the wrong bathroom not her, she started to cry asking why he was in her bathroom. She’s 11 and had never been in a public restroom alone since. I’m always with her because these spaces aren’t safe anymore.
As the writer Helen Joyce has stated in her many talks on this subject - men and women have evolved as two sexes and it is imperative for both sexes to be able to immediately identify each other. This is especially the case for girls and women as we are physically weaker and therefore far more vulnerable to predators. A man in a dress is still a man in a dress - regardless of whether he has had surgery. (And the vast vast majority don’t). A horrible experience for your daughter.
@@moraymac2922 It would've been really good if those people ever realised or understood that ever. "A wolf can dress like a sheep","but that's still a wolf".
I had a similar experience last week with my niece. An old dude was trying to go after her in the restaurant toilet, I just told him, you might identify as whatever you want, but if you go in after her, you would be identified as none existent human. He tried to start a show, but I showed him I meant what I said. He actually got quiet and walked away.
I was 11 in Quebec with my family when I went into one of the public bathrooms. I went to the one for women, I remember being in the stall and hearing lots of men's voices coming in. I was petrified. I did not leave that bathroom until every single man had left and ran to my parents. I then was told how even though it said female, it was for everybody. I remember never wanting to go into a public bathroom again the whole trip. This was back in the early 2000s.
What worries me is that any guy, trans or not can put on a wig and a dress and enter into a female restroom and have access to women and young girls in an intimate space, any pedophile or sexual predator can use trans as an excuse to enter female-only areas
That is WHAT worries me. When is our space ever going to be SAFE AGAIN? I am trying to understand why not USE your male bathroom since it has URINALS for your private parts that are easy to do your business and not lift the bathroom toilet seat which you hate!
My daughter and i were in a situation like this. My daughter is special needs and has a hard time using public restrooms to begin with. We were in a public restroom at the airport when a man entered the womens room. My daughter started having a meltdown and the man began laughing calling me hateful and that i teach my daughter hateful things. She insisted leaving and wet herself as soon as we left the restroom. It was heartbreaking.
This is going to keep happening until women no longer even have restrooms to use when we’re in public. That’s what’s so disgusting about this. And the fact that trans women want to be women but don’t care how their harassment can have lifelong negative effects on cis women really shows that in their hearts, they don’t care about women at all.
As a Mom with a little girl, this whole thing worries me so much. "Where he feels safe?" What about my 7 year old daughter feeling safe? I think you can handle yourself better than a child could. As a now WOMAN who started her period at 11, it is beyond crazy that these MEN think we're trying to gatekeep periods. U have no idea what it's like to be an 11 year old little girl who has to start dealing with pads and tampons and leakage. Its embarrassing and not fun.
Yeah when I was 9 I had my periods and nobody knew when I was in the 4th grade as girls at tht time didn't get them which was in middle school so it was difficult. So gatekeepers this really thts just stupid to say when it's a difficult thing to get through
The men in question have no idea what it is like to be a woman. They just want the perks of being a woman without actually having to earn them. You have earned some respect just by being what you are.
except he can't handle himself better than a child, because he's clearly mentally ill. If he can't conduct himself appropriately in public, he needs to be hospitalized until he can.
One time at work I was in the change room and a trans women entered. I took a second look and they were still very much male looking. I was in my bra and they were staring, which weirded me out. I looked at others around me and all of them were trying their best to ignore this so I just went about my business. Now I'm wondering what this situation would be like with children. They can't seriously be allowing MEN to come in and expose themselves/perve on real women? Society is fucked up and something has to be done
Exactly, If I grew up during these times, they would be trying to convince me that I'm a transman, because I'm not into "girly" things , dress like a tom boy, and hate getting my period (as most women do). I grew up wanting to be a boy, because they seemed to have life easier and I liked the things they likes, but I didn't feel like a boy "trapped" inside of a girl's body.
I’m old and was a child of divorced parents. My 6’+ very masculine, Father would take me to the movies & I had to use the bathroom. He wasn’t taking me to the men’s room and couldn’t take his little girl into the ladies bathroom. I remember him, trying to find another Mother w/ their child he deemed trustworthy to accompany me to use the bathroom. While he waited outside. I miss my belated Father terribly and glad he isn’t around to see this insanity.
Until my daughter was secure enough to go by herself with me waiting outside the door, I always just took her to the mens restroom and guarded the door to the cubicle, we would wash our hands and go out and noone would ever be surprised or say a harsh word...... it was back in the 80s though but still, should not be so complicated......
"Kaylee" is physically more than twice my size. That alone is intimidating. High school guys are pretty small still, and girls can be taller at that age. So it's probably cute that you and your trans best friend can go into the same restroom and girl-talk trash about whoever when you're young. But when you're 30 something and some strange 6'2" 200+lb linebacker follows you into an empty bathroom, it's scary. It is.
I'm 6'2" and even I'm always aware when I'm in an enclosed space with another man, especially a large one, especially in some seedy bathroom. It is intimidating when you are aware another man could have his way with you. I can't imagine what it would be like for the average woman, trapped in a bathroom with some dude, huge or not. There are absolutely zero even kind of good arguments against the fact that female only spaces should exist.
A lot of people don't understand that, I am 5'2 and k ow a lot of people that are 5'6 to 6'3, I am constantly telling them just by default the height difference is intimidating to someone my height
I was a victim of sexual assault by a man multiple times, so if someone uses the "I'm trans" quote while going into a women's restroom I would be terrified.
I’ll be honest, if it’s a single occupant bathroom I don’t care if there’s a W or an M on the door, I’m using it. The label on the door is arbitrary if only one person can use it at a time and the door locks.
Funny, back when this trans crap first started I brought this up to women and was told I had clue what I was talking about and to go away. Now those same women are bitching that trans people are in women's bathrooms. Sorry but you had your chance to stop this when it first started. It's a little late now. Now the term woman doesn't even mean a person with a vagina.
I don't really care if a man will use it simultaneously if everything around is properly secured and he has no way of peeking into my stable. I use men's restrooms, so I'm not against men coming into our spaces
Imagine the other side! You're a father and go to the men's room with your little son and you both stand at the piscoussoir and then a "looks like a woman" comes inside, stands next to your son, lifts its skirt and pulls out its dingeldingdong...
I’m a13 year old girl and in my school there’s boys and girls (separated ) bathrooms for all ages . Omg day I was in the bathroom and I heard a very obviously voice come in so I got out of the stall and saw it was a 6th year ( so an 18 year old ) male . I confronted him and he told me he was “identifying as women for today” even though the day before he was still identifying as a male ? So I was really angry and decided to tell the principal , and I got told off because I was “discriminating” even though this huge adult male was in a female bathroom for ages 10-18 so yes , there was ten year old little girls there to 😡
There Where my fear goes, some man will take advantage of this just for bad intensions. I am sorry sweetheart you have to face that and you are brave for standing Against that male
That's because, sadly, the 'meme' is true. The one about how, if men would have been the ones to get cramps/periods, there would have been way more medical advancements made to help alleviate symptoms, stress and other things women experience when they're having their period. So... I'm not surprised. Disappointed, yes, but not surprised...
@@gracedee5274 Let’s see some hard evidence. Cause unless there’s a nation more successful than the US….you just look like an ignorant fool. You can’t just make claims like that without anything to back it up.
My gf sometimes sends me to the store to get tampons and they're damn expensive. If I see free tampons in a men's public bathroom I'm filling my pockets.
I'm 100% man and if I saw another man walking into a womans bathroom I would lose it, weather they are playing dress up or not, now if they walked or even TRIED to walk in there while my daughter was in there I would do life with a smile on my face every single second of it, we as men need to take a stand for a women against this insanity
@Tony Wells it's not for no reason though is it!!! It's to take a stand for our women and there rights and to rid this world of this disease that's currently infecting it
@Tony Wells who said I would do it in front of my daughter or anyone for that matter 😂 either way be 1 less ummmmmmmmm not sure what to even call them to be honest
What doesn’t go through this dudes mind is that if he’s in an argument and everyone, even his friends are against him, he doesn’t consider for a second that he’s wrong. In his mind, everyone in the room is in the wrong except him. That’s a whole new level of narcissism
There is a reason that it use to be mandatory to go through therapists before any form of trans changes could begin. Nowadays you just have to say whatever you feel and think and the world is meant to bend to you whim
@@electrocresent not only that but some therapists would encourage transitioning within a session or 2 after meeting their patients. Just saw a Jordan Peterson video where he was talking to a de transitioner about how they do stuff like that
I'm a female and a few months ago I accidentally walked into the men's at disneyland! I noticed when I went into a cubicle and it was disgusting so I went to go into another and saw a few men stopped looking at me. It was horrible. Seems like it should not be a big deal but I couldn't run out of there quick enough. Men and women need their own spaces for all involved. Those men felt just as uncomfortable with me being there as I did, even though it was extremely brief.
It can happen to anyone, but it is still super emberacing to make such a mistake. Most times it honeslty is just a person being not attentive enough (there is a cafe in my city with a bit strange WC design - in women's restroom there is art of mel shoues and a hat hanging on the wall; every time I pause before entering even though I know it's where I should go), but the moment you see someone whou shouldn't be there yu also doubt youerself and it is uncomfortable
I once walked into the womens restaurant in college. (apparently its ok to have two womens restrooms right next to each other[ one was on the first floor by the stares the other was on the second floor by the stares]) So that wing had 2 women's bathrooms and 0 mens bathrooms
Disgusting? I used to be the janitor at an office building when I was in high school a part-time job and by far the women's restrooms was much more filthy than the men's restroom. 😂
FOr most of teh men, the uncomfortable feeling stems from: "Is she going to have us arrested if we so much as look at her (fully clothed) or because she "saw" us.
once I went to the bathroom alone in the mall, I didn't realize that a man came in behind me, he tried to cover my mouth and push me into one of the cubicles when a lady came in with another woman and they practically saved me Imagine what would have happened if when they saw the man entering the women's bathroom instead of going to get him out of there they would go "oh well, she's a trans woman and if I tell her she can't be there she might be offended and feel excluded" Imagine I really don't even trust going to the bathroom in public spaces in general, I can't imagine just entering one and seeing a man there
"Facts don't care about your feelings is becoming harder and harder to stand by" that's so true Brett that's so true. These peoples feelings don't care about our facts. Your spot on Brett.
I have severe PTSD, I know what "triggers" are. This word is so misused by that community and it makes those of us with actual triggers afraid to speak up when we are actually triggered.
I have CPTSD, and I think that’s is a complete slap to the face every time people use the vocabulary of the abuse recovery community incorrectly. These people don’t know what they are talking about, and they never will.
With Social media so much words Gain the trend Podium and are Missused. words and Expression changes because no one factcheck after there mini tiktok, When they realize something (which is mostly wrong (short video no context)) they make a woke video themselves with there new born bias xD and the cycle dig deeper (telephone) Its so dumb xD We cant even speak anymore using proper eplxplaimatiin and real word ... they see only wind and continue arguing on a fact !! Well ...
@@winxclubstellamusa totally!! ... normalizing etc I see so much people saying they have ptsd when they are clearly not .. or people im just chilling with smoking weed, youll heart often people using the word paranoia ... But they have -300% idea what is is, how it work and how freaking intense it is irl in any way, shape or form(for them) ... etc Yes i just want to slap a dictionnary, open at the right page, right in the mouth
@@Hackanhacker me too… They have no idea what it’s like to actually have PTSD and actually get triggered, I feel angry, humiliated, and extremely hurt every time I heard people use these words improperly, to the point of actually getting triggered! I can’t wait until the trend of using the vocabulary of the abuse survival recovery community blows over, and they stop making fun and light of our burdens.
Bro same I was just saying outnloud that he'd get reminded he was a man while I choke him out. Maybe a knife in his junk A Crowbar. ? Hm choices. Anyone creative here?
I'd take a difference approach, I'd self identify as a woman for 10 minutes then when the court case comes its chick on chick violence no judge in any country would touch the case in fear of losing there job 😉🤣🤣🤣
Tonight when I was talking to a woman cashier at a store, another woman worker employee came over and said she was asked to clean the men's bathroom. She said the urinal smelled so bad that they couldn't pay her enough to clean it. This made me think about how our women's cleaner and more pleasant bathrooms were now endangered of becoming as uncomfortable as the men's. My son has told me several time how foul they often are. I am uncomfortable enough for modesty's sake went at work they had tried in the 80's to allow a trans to use our restrooms. This just makes me feel more evaded.
The women are just as gross, especially in public bathrooms. I found toilet paper covering the whole toilet seat + the hole, with piss and blood. Ive found someones shart underwear on the floor behind the toilet. I've found that someone took their whole dump on the floor. There's been butt bomb explosions that coated the toilet + the wall behind.
I was at a night club a few years back and was approached by a trans woman who started hitting on me. I turned her down repeatedly. At one point I went to the ladies where she followed me. At this point I was annoyed and stated, "look, I'm really not interested, I like cock". At which they said "it's ok baby, I still have one of those", and put their hand up my dress. Straight away I left and told security what had happened and how unsafe I felt. Security then told me that If I felt that way I should choose a different place to drink. I honestly couldn't believe it. I was being accused of being transphobic because I didn't want to get felt up in the women's bathroom. I haven't been out since.
The fact this grown man “lost it” after being told the truth is very alarming. This man needs to be locked up and treated by doctors. This is disgusting. Good on his friends are at least awake enough to try and put him in his place.
The fact that this guy clearly cannot control his emotions or/and behaviour is more than alarming. This not only confirm your initial worries about having a man in woman only restroom, but now it makes you also scared (if not already) for having such a person, and makes your mind create very nasty scenarios. Like, what if you happen to be alone there with that dude? And he just loses it? And what, if he can lose his shit just like that, what will he do if there's no eyewitnesses? It doesn't have to be escalated, true, but most likely, I'd say, it's very probable.
I had something similar happened to me. I was using the restroom and there was a person claiming to be a trans. Watching me through the crack in the door. While they pleased themselves. I threw my purse at the door and told him to get the heck out of my bathroom. And then that's when they claimed to be a transgender. I informed that they would be a no gender as soon as I got out.
this is absolutely disgusting!! our society wonders why there are so many sick people in this world well maybe it’s because we make it SO easy for them.
One time my family was at a restaurant and one of my relatives needed to go into the bathroom. She went into the bathroom, but almost right after two men followed her into the bathroom! Her mom realized this and went into the bathroom too. Thankfully she caught the two men before it was too late. She was all like "Idc if you're trans, you won't hurt my little daughter!" Some of the restaurant staff were called about this, but then one of my other relatives kept saying that there was nothing wrong and kept dismissing my relative's mom. So yeah, it was a confusing day. :/
My buddy who has a 13-14 year old daughter told me they were out somewhere once and she went into the bathroom. While she was in there, a, to use his words, "linebacker in a wig" tried to go in. He did what any father should do, stopped him and did not exactly mince words. "If you try to go in there I will kill you." If I know him half as well as I think, he's not even close to bluffing.
I'm a man who goes into women's restrooms but that's because I'm a janitor and janitors clean restrooms and whenever a woman needs to use the restroom I leave and let her do her business. Honestly the worst part of my job is cleaning woman's restrooms.
Been there done that. had to put up with some of these freaks heaidng into the womans room while i'm cleaning too. as guy it creeped me the fuck out as well and i was just cleaning the woman's room.
To answer your question, yes, I actually did see urinals in a Ladies Room just recently...sort of. I was in an Off-Broadway Theatre in NYC, and their setup for the public restrooms was the most insane thing I've ever seen. Instead of the two rooms being labeled Men's and Women's, there was a long-ass sign outside that said "We at this theatre believe in being inclusive of all gender identities and expressions, etc. Therefore, please enter whichever of these bathrooms you feel most comfortable using." The two doors didn't have the normal Man and Woman icons but instead each had long signs describing the rooms (Example: "This restroom contains urinals, stalls, and sinks" and "This restroom just contains stalls and sinks"). Now when I really need to pee, I'm not in the mindset to read such a long sign and process all this information. And I feel especially bad for anyone who may struggle to read a long sign because English is not their first language (which is very common in NYC). So I just walked quickly into the first restroom, which I then discovered was for all intents and purposes the Ladies Room, even if it wasn't actually called that. In other words, I was the only dude in a restroom filled with mostly women. I felt awkward, they all felt awkward, but no one could say anything. I quietly walked to a stall and used it. I can only imagine how much more awkward it was in the other room with the urinals. This absurd situation is only causing more confusion and uncomfortable situations, not actually creating inclusion.
My god I remember in the 90’s working in the oil patch in Alberta and being in camp with the guys I worked with and because there were so few women working in the field there would be one shower facility. The guys I worked with would take turns standing at the door when I took a shower or close by to let other men know I was in there. As soon as the men found out I was in the shower room no one wanted to go in there for any reason. They had respect for the gender differences and they didn’t question if you would be uncomfortable with them in there. They assumed it to be the case and just waited. If there was a woman’s shower they would stay out of that and I wouldn’t go near theirs. It just made life so much easier to navigate and respect boundaries. I miss that honestly.
I worked for Publix grocery for 17 years. We had a male employee that insisted on using the ladies restroom. He claimed the mens was dirty, no, all restrooms were cleaned every day. Many female employees complained about him, he took a long time and we were forced to leave our work area to go up front. We voiced complaints and he continued to do this. I noticed he had not been there for a few days and asked why. My manager said "he was taken off the schedule" and would not be returning. Later I learned he threatened to go to HR and complain that he felt discriminated against by female employees and he had the right to use the bathroom of his choice. He thought he could manipulate everyone and learned quickly from HR and Publix attorneys he deliberately showed lack of consideration, putting female employees in a compromising situation, firing offenses. Heads up for trans persons using bathrooms at any Publix. Use the bathroom of your gender at birth, as stated or risk getting asked to leave the store or get fired.
It both hurts my soul and ignites my temper when I hear *men* get free pads and tampons while I'm in my designated bathroom popping quarters or DIYing a pad until I can buy some or make it home. The *ONE* time I did try to go in the men's restroom for a free pad and I was called out for "stealing." The lack of self-awareness sickened me then and still does now.
@@miscellaneousviewing7916 I have no idea what they use them for. I just know I was called out and embarrassed as hell 😞 so admittedly my opinion on men being women and getting freebies bio women don't get is kinda biased.
That's disgusting! I have maintained that women should never have to pay for menstrual protection, and I really hate that these men don't have to. Pardon me but, WTF!!!😊
Tampons in the MENS toilets 🤣😅🤣😂 How effin ridiculous, what a Pathetic move. What do you think they do with them???? 🤣😂🤣😅 NOTHING, they DO Nothing with them because they are designed for WOMEN USE ONLY. 🤪😜🤪 This World is fckd.
You mean you went into the men's "safe space"??? Horrors!!!!! People should stop the continual rant of "equality between men and women" and replace it with "equity between men and women." Those asking for equality are making a huge mistake.
I'm in my 70's. When I had periods, I learned very early on to carry some pads and tampons in my purse. We had the pad/tampon dispensing machine when I was in college, but there was no way to tell if it was out of product. Now they put free tampons in men's rooms?!!! What the hell??
Yeah, I went to a service station on the way back from my holiday in the middle of the night and when I was in the men's toilet, I saw this sign on the wall talking about free period products and I was like" what is that doing in a man's bathroom??!" Men don't have periods whatsoever. End of.
What is a man going to use a frickin tampon for? 😂😂😂 We don't bleed, we only have one hole and there's certainly no point blocking it with something like that!
As a woman that lives off grid, having to deal with my period is probably one of the most stressful and painful experiences I have to go through every month. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. It feels insulating that someone that doesn't have female organs, that's never expected cramps, bleeding all over themselves, and mood swings is mocking us by putting this in men's restrooms. I get if it's for people that have women's organs but identify as male, but that's not how it's being advertised or promoted on social media. And if I went into a women's restroom with someone that isn't female, I would be extremely uncomfortable as well. I already have to be alert when I'm traveling and out in public. Now we have to be aware of it in the most vunerable places as a woman.
What people don't understand is that this is not what is happening. Men that are now identifying as women would be going, or at least attempting to go in the women's restroom, if they want pads they still pay the quarter or whatever because they aren't using the men's restroom anymore. The folks that would utilize a tampon/pad dispenser in the men's room would be folks that were women but now identify as men who are now using the men's room. They still have the parts, still menstruate because they aren't actually men.
@@propheticjoe we know but they didn't do this for women I am not saying we shouldn't help them I am saying they should have done this for women also give us free tampons. Putting it into the men's restroom for free but not even providing women for tampons. Because I go to college and I haven't seen a machine for tampons while the men restroom just has it for free. The girls said so they did tht and at tht time I was a confused little more leftist person. Now I know thts just rude
@@propheticjoe I get if It's being used for women that identify as men. But the way it's being advertised on social media, by people that don't have women organs, gives the wrong impression.
If you don’t watch her I suggest Blair’s White. She did a video recently saying that it should be a requirement for trans women to actually understand women for the reasons you just listed. She’s a transwoman herself. I wouldn’t mind sharing space with her though because she is respectful and genuinely trans. Plus if you didn’t know her from the internet you would think she was just a woman who had a boob job and face work done. She’s so pretty and does not look just like Bruce or Dylan 😂
As a FATHER of FOUR Girls! "Your SAFE PLACE!" is NOT SAFE for You! My kids go into a restroom and "I See YOU! enter or EXIT the SAME! I will BE YOUR SAFETY PROBLEM! I'll trust the Judge has a Daughter, Niece, Sister, or Mother! IT WILL BE ON!
Yes XD i droped face book since 2015 lol Its was bad imagine now xD I just cant return. It hurt so bad each time i need it xD (only reason : find someone xD)
Gotta stop liking,sharing, supporting and commenting at these woke fantasy social med. These days things getting way to political just for attention and they're making money out of it.
Letting people into the bathroom because of their feelings (like this man feels like he is a woman and is clearly not medically transitioned) is just horrible. If I see a man walk into the woman’s bathroom I’d freak out and tell him to get out. It comes out as very suspicious and makes me feel unsafe.
@diluc this happened to me in NY, only thing is the man dressed as a lady was about 6’7” so I could not say anything. It is very scary and uncomfortable.
As a mother of daughters, it's horrifying to think about the possible situations my children and I could be subjected to because of this lunacy. Plain and simple, there is 0 reason I should need to worry about my daughters being exposed to male genitalia in a women's bathroom.
That's why everyone should follow Kellie jay keen Brett needs to find her too all women coming together to fight this will be the biggest glass ceiling in history if Kellie jay keen wins gender ideology will end.
I remember something JK Rowling commented about trans woman are not woman everyone blew upon her and went on bashing, I mean actors and actress came to promote the whole community, now I feel this community has gone crazy because of all the support.
The fact that you have to even consider that possibility is a disgusting reality that has been forced upon us by appaling, radical idealogues. As a father of 3 children including 2 girls I can say with absolutely zero regret that if that nasty, obese failure of the human species attempted to enter a bathroom that my kids were using, he'd quickly have a very different concept of what constitutes hate and aggression.
That and and the fact that these creeps can just stare at girls/women in spaces that are just for “WOMEN” & claim that they are “trans”. And the argument is that not all “trans” people are like that. Well that kind of answers itself no?
On our campus we had Free Tampons and Pads in Both bathrooms, but they were only restocked once per week, so we (the boys) always took out the tampons and pads and handed them over to the people who actually needed them. :)
Hey Brett. My wife pointed me to your show and after watching a episode or more I had to say; what you're doing gives me a tremendous amount of Hope for humanity's future. I've been watching humanity spiral out of control for most of my 63 years and am grateful that there are you and many other young TH-camrs coming out with profoundly sound reason and understanding about very Central issues to better understanding and supporting human happiness, health and prosperity. Keep doing what you're doing, Keep spreading your truth, Your Love, your sharp wit and your humor...all of these make great user friendly weapons against stupidity and ignorance.
Had a man try and lecture me in a campground bathroom when I was twelve because he kept trying to start a conversation with my younger cousin and he was CreepyPedoTM and we didn't want to talk to him. He was obviously the victim in that situation
We told the campground director about it and my aunt that we were with (who is aggressively woke) and they both pretty much just told us to be more tolerant of people. I think that's what made me realize that people care more about being politically correct than keeping kids safe. I was 12 and my cousin was 7
@@abrock5086 Never mind being tolerant of people. You need to set your boundaries. In another case, that creep could have been a child killer trying to find his next victim. Don't ever feel sorry for defending yourself.
@@mayloo2137 Oh I know, I just thought that it was sadistically ironic at the time that the adults around me weren't as concerned about that as they should have been. It was a big and confusing red-pill for little me but I'm just glad it never escalated farther than it did
@@mayloo2137 As they should have. There's no reason for grown adults to try and have conversations with someone else's kids in a public restroom because there aren't any adults in the room. Much less a grown ass man. My parents and her parents now have a strained relationship with that aunt because of instances like that and other things and we weren't ever allowed to travel alone with her again even if the distance was just into town.
I was sexually assaulted after coming out of the womens locker room after swimming class. I struggle with getting in elevators with men, I’m so scared this will happen to me in the restroom and no will help me because they might think I’m transphobic and in the wrong.
Am really sorry about that men like that are disgusting who just care about there desires , I can relate to something you said , the fact that your scared to speak out and then get called transphobic , I mean am a muslim and when I say it to anyone ohh *am terrorist * only in america these type of stuff happenes if only people studied about islam they will realize that islam love women and tells men that they should be the providers and the protecters of women, even our prophet said multiple things before he die and one of them is *take care of women* and he said it 3 times , but the television shows only the bad side of islam like you realize there is good and bad in all , yea there is bad muslims but there is good muslims too , sorry again that this happened to you , I hate america because the fact that men have free pads and tampons in there rest room but not women is crazy like WHAT
I'm sorry that happened, this is why I'm now very concerned about when males say they are trans but in reality they are perverts and evil people, women should feel safe in restrooms not feel like a man is breathing down their necks in a bathroom, I'm sorry for what happened to you, I may be a man but I don't want women to deal with pretend transgenders being perverts towards real women
@@SnailWhales oh so people being creeped on is the issue? Good to know, if fact while we're at it lets also ban Gay people from their gender associated bathrooms because they're also totally capable of perving out on other people in the bathroom. (No I do not think they should actually do that, but just consider the implications of the problems your brining up)
This happened to me before. Me alone and a guy like this came in and when I said I ran out and away as fast as I could, the trans people out there were like "there is no more reason for a trans people to rape you or harm you than anyone". Oh yeah? Well, the 14yo bone-thin me back then wasn't going to wait and see
There are reasons why females have separate spaces. The argument that 'trans women have no more reason to rape you than anyone else' is stupid. You could say that about any man - because most if them aren't rapists. So, in that case, why bother with separate facilities at all? We already have gender neutral restrooms/change rooms - they are single user at a time spaces.
As a biologically female university student, when I need pads, they're not always available in every restroom on campus. Sometimes I have to go through at least 5 restrooms and then would find ONE restroom with those things to get the pads. Oftentimes, those things need coins, which in 2024, not a lot of people carry cash. Those should either be free or have some sort of mechanism that it would accept cards as well. But hey! having those fully stocked, that too free, in men's washrooms is clearly a bigger priority here.
I have this situation in my workplace and we're not allowed to say anything about it. The man was married with kids and all of a sudden started wearing women's clothes and using the women's washroom. I feel uncomfortable with him being in there.
My work place told the man identifying as a woman (who looked like a man) that he wasnt allowed to use the womens toilet. He was allowed to use the mens or the gender neutral one but not the womens. Im so grateful for their sense and fairness
My husband had same situation at work place 4 years ago and women and men couldn’t say a word about it!! If anyone said anything they would lose a job making over 100k so people kept mouth shut about it.
I'm from Canada and recently some of the high schools in the city I live in have installed tampon and pad dispensers in the women's bathroom. It's a step forward, just sad that other high school girls are so immature and waste the free products all the time.
7:53 In my country, this ain’t a thing yet, and I’m SO glad its not. Period products for girls are free in my school, and when looking at this video, I’m very grateful for our free period products . :)
I witnessed a similar situation happen at a local food chain, was waiting for my Cuppa joe and out from the ladies bathroom came a very obvious man with no outward signs of being trans whatsoever. So a man, his wife and daughter next to me confronts him about why he was in the ladies room. He aaid im a Ma’am or miss not a sir. And said he is allowed to use any bathroom he wants. They all went over to the manager who came out to see what was happening to complain about the situation. Not two mins after this confrontation out from the bathroom comes a 9 maybe 10 year old girl who was visibly shaken and scared, she was crying and ran to her mother who was sitting waiting for her. She was scared that a MAN was in the ladies room with her and she couldn’t go to the bathroom out of fear because he was in there so she sadly ended up wetting herself. Well then mom lost her sh@t. Police ended up being called and he was trespassed by the manager and arrested because he also had a warrant for something else. This world is getting a tad out of control . Up is down , down is up, dogs are cats and cats are dogs. Whats next, Aliens?
What "triggers" me is implying that friends should only validate "your feelings." Sorry but friends also point out when YOU are in the wrong. They're there to help you in every way, even correcting you so that you can grow.
We woman get screamed at and blamed all because we don't want men like him in our restrooms. We the woman are the labeled the worst. This is messed up. 😩 Also, I fully agree with you, Brett. Love your content. ❤
This guy isn't transgender. He is an incel who has found a way to get the attention of women he wasn't otherwise getting; Making a mockery of women while trying to Lord over their private spaces and saying their feeling takes priority over any biological woman
@@doublec3 Most women nodded their head at this and screamed at men calling them sexist for trying to stop men from using the female restrooms and now trans men are dominating women's sports Men got destroyed socially by political correct people and guess what women only have themselves to blame.
Literally was in my college bathroom (with multiple stalls) waiting for one of the stalls to open so I could go in, and I kid you not a full grown 6 foot hairy man with long hair came out the stall. He smiled, and walked passed all the other young girls waiting for a stall and washed his hands like nothing was wrong with that picture. The fact that a grown man gets to be in the bathroom with a bunch of young women is insane to me. Not one girl went into the stall he had just used. It's so uncomfortable going to the bathroom during class, worried that a grown man is going to be in there with me. People are trying to make it seem like girls are cool with this, but when it comes to safety, wokeness goes out the window.
Every time I hear these stories it is frustrating how the women just accepted the violation as though helpless to express their protest. Until women stop being silent and just accepting this insanity then it will only get worse. It won't be until sexual assaults start becoming the norm that the issue will have to be addressed. Because passive silence means CONSENT. Right now heterosexual males are enjoying easy access to simply walk into female spaces and either creep them out as a form of harassments, peep at them in stages of undress . . . or worse. That man could have been on sexual registry as a rapist and testing out how easy it is to gain access. The majority of men claiming to be trans do not have gender dysphoria. I don't know why women are allowing themselves to feel fearful to use the restroom in public or risk a man exposing himself to them without any legal protection. Who cares if they call us a transphobe? Should we endanger ourselves or lose the ability to be modest in front of strange men out of fear of being labelled a false name?
I was just fired from my YMCA for pushing back on locker room policy after the CEO released a statement comparing Rebecca Phillips to a "scared animal"
I used to take my 4-year old son with me to the YMCA for swim lessons. This was in the early 2000s, before the trans laws begin. We would change our clothes in the women's changing room. Today, I would go home wet with my swim suit on. I would not take a 4 year old to a changing room, where predators may be lurking. They may try to kidnap small kids.
Had an experience with this recently. Within the last two weeks, I've gone back to a CC to get a new degree. Hadn't been on this campus before, had only taken classes online from this college so it was all new to me. Loved the feeling of being back on campus but besides the point. Anyway, went to take a piss between classes, and noticed the two bathrooms werent labeled. They were full, multi person restrooms, but were "genderless". They both straight up had urinals and stalls. Ok, weird. Anyway I notice a dude walks into one of them. So I decide alright, guys are going in there, I'll go there too. Anyway, I get to the urinals, do my business. At one point, a girl walked in. She was clearly uncomfortable, as she hesitated when she entered, seeing two dudes pissing in there. Nevertheless, she quickly walked into a stall. I was uncomfortable and kinda noticed the other guy seemed to find it odd as well. Needless to say, in one interaction, 3 people were made uncomfortable by the situation. Just insane to me that were creating this uncomfortable situation for 99% of the college population, in order to make 1% feel better. Obviously the girl couldve walked out, waiting, gone to the other. But I'm sure theres some deep feelings that she just has to play along and act like this is normal. Idk, was just reminded of what the lefty world looked like after having left it for a time.
Nailed it we are allowing the 1% ers to rule the world . This needs to stop or be resolved in a acceptable manner , how i dont know but it’s disturbing
The problem is that years ago a trans woman truly wanted to pass as a woman and you wouldn’t even question them. Now if you want to be a trans woman these days all you have to do is declare it. You can have a full beard, no boobs, look like a man but somehow everyone should look at them and right away know they are a trans women.
Real trans people aren’t like this. They just want to be left alone and live their lives. What were seeing in society now is a bunch of indoctrinated people who think you can choose to be whatever you want, which is not the case. It’s not even that they really want to be trans, it’s that the idea is planted inside them at a young age that they are. It’s disgusting, and the fact so many sane people are going along with it is just baffling.
It happened recently with a “self identifying female” who was a biological man who was a peadophile turned up to his court case after being caught with the highest level of child pornography and was released from court and set free on society purely because he self identified as a woman!! Disgusting!!
Transgender males that want to pass as a woman, are discreet, look and act like a woman are not the problem. The ones that wear womens clothes, have a beard and look like a very ugly woman that scares women and kids in the bathroom are the issue.
The reason some people air all their little grievances online to strangers is because they don't have any friends to talk to in private. Like he said, the moment someone disagrees or tries to actually help, they are done. The sad thing is that they don't realize that's why they are alone.
@@Jayne90 So wrong, it has broadened the horizons of many. Not everyone can have all known human experiences, social media helps in a big way towards this.
Agreed I was just about to say this. It’s a person who has aired my grievances online before I can tell you with full confidence that a lot of people don’t have what you have they don’t have a therapist to talk to you they don’t have a friend or family member or colleague anyone in real life or anyone they could talk to personally about it. But the one place that most people have access to is the Internet. And some people just want someone to see what they’re going through and someone to rent to, but they don’t really know how to approach anyone in real life so they just put it on the Internet. It’s a lot easier to drop a bomb online and to find someone to do it to. There’s some people who say oh why not get a journal but the thing about journals is that no one will likely see it and when I want to rent I want to rent to people sometimes I just want people to know stuff but I don’t know how to bring it up casually so I just put it online. But that’s why you see so much people putting things that you might consider private or personal online because they want someone to see it but they don’t know anyone in real life, and being online gives that feeling of anonymity.
I’ve said this to my good friend who is with me on this all being bs, that in 100 years this will be everything or nothing, and I damn sure hope it’s the latter
I agree. I think a lot of these so called trans women just want to peek at the women and girls In The rest rooms. I think they have figured out that this is the way to do it. So they claim to be women!! I would not doubt that some of the women are doing that too!! Absolutely disgusting!! 😡
That's a man. Can you believe I just entered that as a comment a few minutes ago, and TH-cam not only took it down, they gave me a warning about "hate speech". Oh, yeah, that's right, I called him a pervert.
@@wellidontknow1941 I have watched it. But, I also know that you can't detect a joke. 'Cause why the heck would there be urinals in a woman's restroom?
In my school they actually made a third restroom for all genders. So anyone that identifies as anything else could just go there. As absurd as it seems i actually prefer something like that over having an incident like this occuring. Then again, i’m not from america.
Those are just rape rooms is all they are....the old pervy cross dressers will just wait on the young brainwashed screwed in the head kids to come in and prey on them....
@Don K They actually are. Although I think it may have to do with the fact that the people i go to school with are just decent people and not the over the top feminists and such.
@@trith72 I would agree with you if i had no context but i have seen the restrooms first hand and like i've stated in a previous reply, the people i go to school with are decent people. But i do get your point. If that setup were to occur in a more public setting, then the story would be very different.
I've never seen free tampons in any womens bathroom and we have mens bathrooms with tampons and pads for free. Yes, Germany reached the same level, in some cases were even further ahead with the woke stuff than the US, especially when it comes to language. I told my boyfriend if he ever sees free tampons in a bathroom and no other guy is in there he should take all of them and give them to me to take them into the womens bathroom.
I am from Europe. I blame both American men who don't stand to defend their women who can be harassed in single female spaces. And I also blame American women who aren't vocal enough.
@@Helga7850 White American women set the world on this path we are on... They emasculate men through the women's movement, manipulate boys to show their "feminine side" and encouraged/supported men that they are "women." I see this still, firsthand. Now Pandora's box wide open, and it has spread to other countries. The world is doomed, because these mentally disturbed people are teaching in kindergarten to university levels... You are witnessing the outcome in real time.
A few decades ago a serial killer, who is now in jail, killed his first victim in a local, but isolated, woman's toilet. After all this time that event is well remembered in our area. I think I know the opinion of the women in our town to sharing with a trans woman.
I was minding my own business having a walk in the park when a man came up to me and said what I was wearing looked nice and asked where I got it from. I make majority of my own clothes and have had a lot of people compliment and asked where it is from and I tell them I make it myself. Then he started to ask if he could buy the dress I was wearing because he wanted to wear if for sexual gratification and gender validation . I was really freaked out by this and tried to walk off, he tried to grab me but I used the tactic of pretending someone nearby was a friend I arranged to meet and then he ran off. It was a terrifying experience and all this gender madness is extremely worrisome for me.
Oh that poor predatory male! All he wanted to do was to express his inner sexual deviance! He was being his true authentic self namely a pervert who sexually harasses women with malice aforethought. The poor lamb./s
When I was in my clubbing Days the women's bathroom was a safe haven for women to escape creepy men touching you on the dancefloor. That safe space is now gone! Creeps can just say they are trans and follow you into the bathrooms
Here's a suggestion to all the lads with girlfriends. Go into the men's room, grab all the tampons and give them to your girlfriends. The university will soon stop doing it. Incidentally, while we are laughing at the idea of a tampon machine in the men's room, the tampon dispenser company is also laughing - all the way to the bank.
Im gay and in my clubbing days ( I'm older gay lol ) I knew many trans women and had conversations, made questions and for the most part, they were very decent people, aware they were biological men but just wanted to be socially perceived as women, and they were years in hormones, surgeries, all very well put together with the intention to "pass" some were luckier than others on it, but you couldn't fault them for doing their best to do it, was almost a matter of pride to be able to convincingly pass as a woman, this dude from the video shows the very first sign that he is not a trans woman, the beard, even if he didn't have all the money for the surgeries yet he would double his efforts on the waxing, a wig or weave to cover that baldness, the makeup, the way he was dressed etc if he can go around telling people he is a trans woman and looking like that it means he doesn't have gender dysphoria and is just a creepy dude
@@AbdullahKhan-dc3vi haha of course I am dude dah ( not creepy because I'm quite good looking 😗and I date adults and I don't go to spaces that are not created for me ) not sure if you are aware but being gay has nothing to do with being trans, I'm very happy about being a man :)
kids affirm delusion and insanity, cause its the only way they feel valid (99% of them, don't wanna be a hater). So actual deluded and insane adults get to parade around scottfree when they actually DESERVE to be in a mental hospital
Imagine if your daughter was in a changing room getting undressed and "HE" walked in? It's absolutely unacceptable.
Now think of her in the bathroom and this guy comes to take a dump in the stall next door 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
dont let ya daughter try to be in ms america...they letting men join now...
It’s disgusting 😤😠
Yep absolutely unacceptable
If a man follows my daughter into a restroom,, I'm gunna need bail money..
Recently was in Walmart and used the women's restroom. On my way out, I saw a young father with a 4-5 year old daughter who was trying to figure out if it was safe to let her go into the women's bathroom without him. Understandable that he wouldn't want her to be exposed to men standing at urinals by taking her into the men's room. As a mom (of now grown children), I asked him if he would feel better if I stayed in the bathroom with her until she was finished. He was so relieved and thanked me multiple times. I introduced myself to his little girl and told her I would stand by the door so she would feel safe. No issues, but had a man tried to enter while she was in there, I would have asked him to leave until that child left the restroom. No way would I allow a grown man into a woman's space where a small child was present. As an adult, if a "trans" person enters a restroom and goes into a stall, I don't really care unless I see eyes trying to look through the spaces between the panels into my stall - but as for kids, it's just not appropriate. Maybe the answer is to offer a third bathroom and have a men's room, a women's room, and one for "others."
Thank you for that. Clearly the Father was at a loss on how to deal with the problem. He needed a woman's help.
This exact problem is one of the few things that terrifies me right to the bone whenever I think about the future and what it would be like to be a dad. Having to make the choice of entering a space your not ment to be in and are unwelcome or take your little girl into somewhere she shouldn't be in or having to trust that she would be safe and capable to have no issues
What you did was a massive thing and very kind thing
Honestly If a man playing woman is allowed in the woman's bathroom I'd happily allow a father to walk in to ensure his daughters safety ..
The answer is to have a restroom for biological men and one for biological women and to stop pretending anything else is possible.
@@caesartercio3670 they'd start playing the victim and call the others bathroom transphobic beacuse it doesn't affirm their gender. Though it might be the More passive solution beacuse they get their own bathroom and women and children don't have to be scared from a middle aged bearded dude with a wig in a bathroom for women.
I personally think we should scare them from even sugesting the possibility of entering a womens bathroom
This insanity has to stop. There is a reason we both men and woman have our own spaces. It's disgusting that this is acceptable to some.
Literally!! The scariest one is ‘gender neutral’ bathrooms at bars and clubs? I’ve only ever used one and there was drama? A creepy man peeing with the door open and walking around asking all of women he saw come in if he was ‘in the right’ bathroom when he clearly knew as it was marked. He used it as an opportunity to be a creep! Never again! I complained to the bar and they were like ‘get over it’ WHAT
I fear in the future it is going to begin escalating to violence and the minority that feels oppressed will become genuinely oppressed or even hunted down to extinction. I am not sayin I advocate it, I am just pointing out the direction things are currently heading if this type of thing continues. These mentally unstable people need real help before someone takes things way too far. And they are mentally unstable, the fact that he screamed at a woman uncontrollably over her telling him that he shouldn't have used a womans bathroom is evident of this. I think he was not telling the truth, I genuinely believe wholeheartedly he laid his hands on that poor woman. He is a mentally unstable and violent grown man, and a threat to society. He needs help before someone equally unstable sees him as a threat to society and takes justice into their own hands.
Why does he feel like he's in danger using the men's room? So strange.
I have a hunch that these guys - men who claim they're transwomen but don't even *try* to pass as female - are more interested in riling up and harassing women, and now do this under the guise of trans rights activism. Back in the day, they would probably have been exhibitionists and their shenanigans would have been considered sexual harassment; but these those who take offense are the bad guys. It's truly a clown world we live in.
@@thezyreick4289 it already has a boy(trans woman) in grade school went into the girls bathroom and beat two girls up and not anyone from the school discipline that person(boy) for anything..
Today I saw in my school a box naming "items for people who menstruate" we are out of our mind as a society
That must be really annoying like they could just label it “girls”
It’s not that deep
So, women who don't menstuate are men? How misogynistic.
@Damien-oq4wu exactly, why can't we just label it "for girls?"
As a 21 year old woman I would be terrified to encounter him in a restroom. Does he not understand that his “safe space” (a WOMAN’S public restroom) comes at the expense of mine??
Narcisist Personality Disorder doesn't understant other's boundaries.
I would call the police but stay out of his reach.
To be fair, I'm a 32 year old man...and some weird crazy people scare me as well.
Those guys are so weird. Most of them have scrambled brains.
No he doesn't, because he's a narcissistic a-hole
I am a man and this is extremely uncomfortable and the world is sickening. How has it come to this. I pray that the real women are safe and protected.
We need more people like you Myles. 🙌
I know man, this insanity has to stop. It all makes sense that Biden administration are trans.
I know, im a man and his is actually discusting, there are a lot of weirdos and freaks out there
I dont have any sympatycy for those womens. You know WHO lobbied for those frqs ? White leftist women
How has it come to this ? Governments allowing this (and pushing it).
"you don't know what it's like to be a transwoman"
"Well, you don't know what it's like to be a woman. That didn't stop you"
Thank you!
so true. i mean how much does it take for them to realize that making 50%+ of the worlds population uncomfortable just so that they can feel "safe" is not how the world works. i mean i'm a young man and i'm weirded out by those people, i can't even try to imagine how it must be for a woman to deal with those situations
@@loneghostwolf7388 You don't understand. For these men, making women uncomfortable is not a side effect, it is their desired outcome. It's part of their kink.
@@roaroa5291 exactly. It's jus the new way of flashing random people in the park at night.
Well said 👏
If a "person" that looked like that walked in the WOMEN'S bathroom and my niece was in there I would quickly Identify as a MMA FIGHTER 🤷
HAHA 😂👌
Hhahahah😂 me too, bro looks like a paedo that just got out of jail
😂😂😂good one
I recently took my 9 and 7 yr old sons to a water park. In crowded areas I make them stay with me and enter the women's spaces. Inside the changing room I made them face the wall while I changed them and then changed myself. An attendant asked me if everything was okay with my kids. I had to explain to her that little boys, while they are safer with mom in this area still need to be respectful of other women and girls who are changing out of their bathing suits. In today's world shielding your children from nudity in a way to protect their innocence and the privacy of other women is not comprehensible to many.
preach sister
Did they not have those cubbies you could pull a curtain to change in? At 9/7 they deserve a little privacy themselves when changing clothes too.
Father who has taken a young girl into the mens washroom, it is always 'eyes on the floor Sweet pea'..
I put her into the toilet stall, close the door and wait for her to finish.
They didn't have any available, it was beyond packed that day. We used our towles to maintain our privacy while changing. I've never seen a place as packed as it was that day. Typically yes we would have went into a stall together. They still would have had to face the wall when mommy changed. Lol
This isn't weird at all. I used to do that when I went with my aunt to the pool. She'd take me to the women's restrooms.and shower areas but I had to read a book while facing a wall
Ironically, that dude's friends were actually being real, good friends. Real friends call you out when you do something wrong.
To somewhat play devil's advocate, and I don't condone her response whatsoever, but it was more than likely lashing out due to embarrassment and humiliation. Especially feeling like your own friends, being the ones you trust and feel safe with, seemingly turning on you. I advocare heavily for trans rights, but this one is a little tricky to handle even for me. Even if this individual had absolutely no ill intentions whatsoever, most times it wouldn't even matter on principle alone
@@grandempress1947 Her? That's a MAN
@@grandempress1947 If he was a woman, he wouldn’t use the word trans, would HE?
Why would anyone want to be his friend?
It’s so sad that women are being pushed out of our own private spaces. 💔
to be fair now they know what they did to men for a decade its not fun is it to have your private spaces stripped from you is it
As a guy I am saddened for American women, this is oppression at the highest level
Don't worry some of us still have your back
@@izzylevi. as a trans tennis shoe, I don’t agree. As someone within rational thought, I do.
The misogyny is real with men pretending to be women.
As a man with 2 teenage nieces and a 6 year old niece, I would NEVER let a man be alone with them in a bathroom. Over my dead body
The fact that this needs to be said is sick
I'm a male and I've been in a woman's locker room dozens of times. My ONLY reason for being in there was that I was a janitor. I would always ask a female co-worker to see if the locker room was empty before going in. If someone came in while I was in there, I got out. I didn't want to be uncomfortable, nor did I want the woman to be uncomfortable-let alone file a complaint or sue or anything.
I made every effort to be as quick as I could while still doing a good job cleaning, and there were many times when that locker room wouldn't get cleaned on my shift because there would be someone in there every time I asked someone to check.
Unless it's a person's job, no man has any reason to be in a woman-only area.
TBH I (female) would rather have 10 of you in the locker room with me than one "Woman". It's the people who want to be in our private spaces, and won't let anything stop them, that scare me the most. Especially when they're doing it for sexual gratification like so many of these people are.
For me there are two reasons why a guy should be In ther, medical emergency or cleaning.
I worked at a skate place, most was teenagers, I would ask a female co worker to check the bathrooms to make sure they was empty
You are a decent man
Don’t they normally block off bathrooms with the cleaning cart when the cleaner is in there? Maybe locker rooms are different.
I find this so frustrating. My daughter went into a bathroom at 8. I was literally outside the door. She took forever. I went in and found her half closed into a stall. The minute I came in the very obvious man wearing a woman’s dress finished using the sink and left hurriedly. My daughter was mad because she thought I had stuck her in the men’s bathroom when she saw the man at the sink. She went into the stall and didn’t come out because she didn’t want the man to know she’d gone into the men’s bathroom she said. When I had to tell her it was a women’s bathroom and the guy was in the wrong bathroom not her, she started to cry asking why he was in her bathroom. She’s 11 and had never been in a public restroom alone since. I’m always with her because these spaces aren’t safe anymore.
Oh wow how scary and so glad it didn't go any further than het hiding from him!
As the writer Helen Joyce has stated in her many talks on this subject - men and women have evolved as two sexes and it is imperative for both sexes to be able to immediately identify each other. This is especially the case for girls and women as we are physically weaker and therefore far more vulnerable to predators. A man in a dress is still a man in a dress - regardless of whether he has had surgery. (And the vast vast majority don’t). A horrible experience for your daughter.
@@moraymac2922 It would've been really good if those people ever realised or understood that ever. "A wolf can dress like a sheep","but that's still a wolf".
That is horrendous I'm so sorry
This is just WRONG!!!!
I had a similar experience last week with my niece. An old dude was trying to go after her in the restaurant toilet, I just told him, you might identify as whatever you want, but if you go in after her, you would be identified as none existent human. He tried to start a show, but I showed him I meant what I said. He actually got quiet and walked away.
Yah! More of this please. It's time to call them out - because most of them are predators, fake trans. You had every right to protect your daughter
Good man 🤝
This is the worrying thing, some men might just use the trans excuse to use ladies restrooms.
The polite answer : if you go in thee, one of us will go to jail….and it will not be you
This is what we all need to do!!!
I was 11 in Quebec with my family when I went into one of the public bathrooms. I went to the one for women, I remember being in the stall and hearing lots of men's voices coming in. I was petrified. I did not leave that bathroom until every single man had left and ran to my parents. I then was told how even though it said female, it was for everybody. I remember never wanting to go into a public bathroom again the whole trip. This was back in the early 2000s.
What worries me is that any guy, trans or not can put on a wig and a dress and enter into a female restroom and have access to women and young girls in an intimate space, any pedophile or sexual predator can use trans as an excuse to enter female-only areas
the sad truth is this happens there was a case where a guy claiming to be trans raped a girl in a high school bathroom (they were both high schoolers)
it should obvious by now, its not about womens rights. theres an elite ring of p3dos making these laws to destroy America and protect there sick kind
That is WHAT worries me. When is our space ever going to be SAFE AGAIN? I am trying to understand why not USE your male bathroom since it has URINALS for your private parts that are easy to do your business and not lift the bathroom toilet seat which you hate!
It has already happened!
That's right, that is the first thing that crosse's my mind.
My daughter and i were in a situation like this. My daughter is special needs and has a hard time using public restrooms to begin with. We were in a public restroom at the airport when a man entered the womens room. My daughter started having a meltdown and the man began laughing calling me hateful and that i teach my daughter hateful things. She insisted leaving and wet herself as soon as we left the restroom. It was heartbreaking.
that's terrible
This is going to keep happening until women no longer even have restrooms to use when we’re in public. That’s what’s so disgusting about this. And the fact that trans women want to be women but don’t care how their harassment can have lifelong negative effects on cis women really shows that in their hearts, they don’t care about women at all.
Thats appalling! I'm so sorry your daughter had to deal w a man in the ladies bathroom. It would freak me out to. Scary shit!
I'm so sorry that happened to you.
That man is absolutely disgusting for doing that I hope you and your daughter are doing well and I'm so sorry that that happened to you guys
As a Mom with a little girl, this whole thing worries me so much. "Where he feels safe?" What about my 7 year old daughter feeling safe? I think you can handle yourself better than a child could.
As a now WOMAN who started her period at 11, it is beyond crazy that these MEN think we're trying to gatekeep periods. U have no idea what it's like to be an 11 year old little girl who has to start dealing with pads and tampons and leakage. Its embarrassing and not fun.
Yeah when I was 9 I had my periods and nobody knew when I was in the 4th grade as girls at tht time didn't get them which was in middle school so it was difficult. So gatekeepers this really thts just stupid to say when it's a difficult thing to get through
Don't worry follow Kellie jay keen she will give you a voice
@@waterdragon55 follow Kellie jay keen more people need to see how we can win against this gender cult nightmare
The men in question have no idea what it is like to be a woman. They just want the perks of being a woman without actually having to earn them. You have earned some respect just by being what you are.
except he can't handle himself better than a child, because he's clearly mentally ill. If he can't conduct himself appropriately in public, he needs to be hospitalized until he can.
One time at work I was in the change room and a trans women entered. I took a second look and they were still very much male looking. I was in my bra and they were staring, which weirded me out. I looked at others around me and all of them were trying their best to ignore this so I just went about my business.
Now I'm wondering what this situation would be like with children. They can't seriously be allowing MEN to come in and expose themselves/perve on real women?
Society is fucked up and something has to be done
I feel bad for all the kids trying to grow up normal in this generation. Seriously what is happening to the world lol.
Kailey Limo: You think this is funny?
Exactly, If I grew up during these times, they would be trying to convince me that I'm a transman, because I'm not into "girly" things , dress like a tom boy, and hate getting my period (as most women do). I grew up wanting to be a boy, because they seemed to have life easier and I liked the things they likes, but I didn't feel like a boy "trapped" inside of a girl's body.
not in my country. its normal here.
-lol
Liberals and leftists took over
Because feelings matter more than facts
I’m old and was a child of divorced parents. My 6’+ very masculine, Father would take me to the movies & I had to use the bathroom. He wasn’t taking me to the men’s room and couldn’t take his little girl into the ladies bathroom. I remember him, trying to find another Mother w/ their child he deemed trustworthy to accompany me to use the bathroom. While he waited outside. I miss my belated Father terribly and glad he isn’t around to see this insanity.
what a lovely man he was!
Until my daughter was secure enough to go by herself with me waiting outside the door, I always just took her to the mens restroom and guarded the door to the cubicle, we would wash our hands and go out and noone would ever be surprised or say a harsh word...... it was back in the 80s though but still, should not be so complicated......
I kinda wish he was her to lead the charge against this bullshit!!
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Smart decision this day and age! women are so on edge about anyone not being a lady themselves in a ladies bathroom.
"Kaylee" is physically more than twice my size. That alone is intimidating. High school guys are pretty small still, and girls can be taller at that age. So it's probably cute that you and your trans best friend can go into the same restroom and girl-talk trash about whoever when you're young. But when you're 30 something and some strange 6'2" 200+lb linebacker follows you into an empty bathroom, it's scary. It is.
I'm 6'2" and even I'm always aware when I'm in an enclosed space with another man, especially a large one, especially in some seedy bathroom. It is intimidating when you are aware another man could have his way with you. I can't imagine what it would be like for the average woman, trapped in a bathroom with some dude, huge or not. There are absolutely zero even kind of good arguments against the fact that female only spaces should exist.
As a 6'2" biological female, I've still been overpowered by men smaller than me. It's scary stuff..
We should have a separate bathroom for us smaller guys (I'm 6 feet about 135 lbs)
A lot of people don't understand that, I am 5'2 and k ow a lot of people that are 5'6 to 6'3, I am constantly telling them just by default the height difference is intimidating to someone my height
The height and weight shouldn't be much of an issue if at all. I think it's the genitalia that matters.
I was a victim of sexual assault by a man multiple times, so if someone uses the "I'm trans" quote while going into a women's restroom I would be terrified.
Hope you heal! :( also, I completely agree, reading through these comments I’m legitimately so sad rn that people have to go through this
as a woman, i don't want to experience seeing biological men in a woman's restroom. please let us have our privacy america
I’ll be honest, if it’s a single occupant bathroom I don’t care if there’s a W or an M on the door, I’m using it. The label on the door is arbitrary if only one person can use it at a time and the door locks.
@Dustomatic at that point they shouldn't put a M or a W on it, just have it labeled "bathroom" if it's one person only
Funny, back when this trans crap first started I brought this up to women and was told I had clue what I was talking about and to go away. Now those same women are bitching that trans people are in women's bathrooms. Sorry but you had your chance to stop this when it first started. It's a little late now. Now the term woman doesn't even mean a person with a vagina.
I don't really care if a man will use it simultaneously if everything around is properly secured and he has no way of peeking into my stable. I use men's restrooms, so I'm not against men coming into our spaces
Imagine the other side! You're a father and go to the men's room with your little son and you both stand at the piscoussoir and then a "looks like a woman" comes inside, stands next to your son, lifts its skirt and pulls out its dingeldingdong...
I’m a13 year old girl and in my school there’s boys and girls (separated ) bathrooms for all ages . Omg day I was in the bathroom and I heard a very obviously voice come in so I got out of the stall and saw it was a 6th year ( so an 18 year old ) male . I confronted him and he told me he was “identifying as women for today” even though the day before he was still identifying as a male ? So I was really angry and decided to tell the principal , and I got told off because I was “discriminating” even though this huge adult male was in a female bathroom for ages 10-18 so yes , there was ten year old little girls there to 😡
Sorry there’s a few mistakes in there 😊
I am soooo sorry about this
There Where my fear goes, some man will take advantage of this just for bad intensions. I am sorry sweetheart you have to face that and you are brave for standing Against that male
Sounds like your principal's fine with girls getting raped. Buy some mace and carry it with you. Tell your parents, too.
early predator alert? I know 18 is still young. but since most laws say if ur 18+ "ur an adult" then, no?
i love how men get free period products but rarely are us women able to get them in our own bathroom
That's because, sadly, the 'meme' is true. The one about how, if men would have been the ones to get cramps/periods, there would have been way more medical advancements made to help alleviate symptoms, stress and other things women experience when they're having their period. So... I'm not surprised. Disappointed, yes, but not surprised...
You fake feminists deserve it. Reality vs dillusional
@@DvanderPluijm and if women were in charge of things, nothing would ever get done or finished.
@@ShaftCommanderlol tell that to all the women presidents. Btw nations governed by women did better than governed by men
@@gracedee5274 Let’s see some hard evidence. Cause unless there’s a nation more successful than the US….you just look like an ignorant fool.
You can’t just make claims like that without anything to back it up.
I fucking love Brett’s videos. She comes across so honest. Speaks with enthusiasm from her heart and with common sense. Keep it up!
My gf sometimes sends me to the store to get tampons and they're damn expensive. If I see free tampons in a men's public bathroom I'm filling my pockets.
As you should 😂
You the real MVP
Absolutely! 😂
Not a bad idea, I was just going to throw them in the bin until they are permanently removed. Men don't get periods. They never have, they never will.
You’re an AWESOME boyfriend!! Plus, all men should rip those dispensers off the wall.
I'm 100% man and if I saw another man walking into a womans bathroom I would lose it, weather they are playing dress up or not, now if they walked or even TRIED to walk in there while my daughter was in there I would do life with a smile on my face every single second of it, we as men need to take a stand for a women against this insanity
Murdering someone for no reason is also insane...
@Tony Wells it's not for no reason though is it!!! It's to take a stand for our women and there rights and to rid this world of this disease that's currently infecting it
@@NoLimitRC87 Not exactly practical is it. Murder someone in front of your daughter, then go to jail for 25 years. 🤣
@Tony Wells who said I would do it in front of my daughter or anyone for that matter 😂 either way be 1 less ummmmmmmmm not sure what to even call them to be honest
Thank You
Solid line "these people's feelings don't care about the facts" 💯
this is why feelings are a weakness
"🎵 facts don't care about your feelings" - tom macdonald / fake woke
I like that line
Glad you feel safe in the woman's! Too bad nobody else does when you enter where you don't belong.
What doesn’t go through this dudes mind is that if he’s in an argument and everyone, even his friends are against him, he doesn’t consider for a second that he’s wrong. In his mind, everyone in the room is in the wrong except him. That’s a whole new level of narcissism
it’s because the society keeps on pushing the trans BS so these narcissict becomes even more full of themselves
That's what their all like lol crazy fruitloops
There is a reason that it use to be mandatory to go through therapists before any form of trans changes could begin. Nowadays you just have to say whatever you feel and think and the world is meant to bend to you whim
@@electrocresent not only that but some therapists would encourage transitioning within a session or 2 after meeting their patients. Just saw a Jordan Peterson video where he was talking to a de transitioner about how they do stuff like that
I'm a female and a few months ago I accidentally walked into the men's at disneyland! I noticed when I went into a cubicle and it was disgusting so I went to go into another and saw a few men stopped looking at me. It was horrible. Seems like it should not be a big deal but I couldn't run out of there quick enough. Men and women need their own spaces for all involved. Those men felt just as uncomfortable with me being there as I did, even though it was extremely brief.
It can happen to anyone, but it is still super emberacing to make such a mistake. Most times it honeslty is just a person being not attentive enough (there is a cafe in my city with a bit strange WC design - in women's restroom there is art of mel shoues and a hat hanging on the wall; every time I pause before entering even though I know it's where I should go), but the moment you see someone whou shouldn't be there yu also doubt youerself and it is uncomfortable
I once walked into the womens restaurant in college. (apparently its ok to have two womens restrooms right next to each other[ one was on the first floor by the stares the other was on the second floor by the stares])
So that wing had 2 women's bathrooms and 0 mens bathrooms
Disgusting? I used to be the janitor at an office building when I was in high school a part-time job and by far the women's restrooms was much more filthy than the men's restroom. 😂
No, it should be a big deal. It is.
FOr most of teh men, the uncomfortable feeling stems from: "Is she going to have us arrested if we so much as look at her (fully clothed) or because she "saw" us.
once I went to the bathroom alone in the mall, I didn't realize that a man came in behind me, he tried to cover my mouth and push me into one of the cubicles when a lady came in with another woman and they practically saved me
Imagine what would have happened if when they saw the man entering the women's bathroom instead of going to get him out of there they would go "oh well, she's a trans woman and if I tell her she can't be there she might be offended and feel excluded"
Imagine
I really don't even trust going to the bathroom in public spaces in general, I can't imagine just entering one and seeing a man there
I’m so sorry that happened omfg I hope ur ok ):
I detest this type of sickness.
Did they "practically" save you or did they ACTUALLY save you? I would guess they ACTUALLY saved you...
Brett Cooper, your show rocks. I wish you a lot of success
"Facts don't care about your feelings is becoming harder and harder to stand by" that's so true Brett that's so true. These peoples feelings don't care about our facts. Your spot on Brett.
they also dont care about our feelings. 10 people could feel uncomfortable and yet some how their feelings would still be more important.
They are not "our" facts. They are THE facts
I have severe PTSD, I know what "triggers" are. This word is so misused by that community and it makes those of us with actual triggers afraid to speak up when we are actually triggered.
I have CPTSD, and I think that’s is a complete slap to the face every time people use the vocabulary of the abuse recovery community incorrectly. These people don’t know what they are talking about, and they never will.
With Social media so much words Gain the trend Podium and are Missused. words and Expression changes because no one factcheck after there mini tiktok, When they realize something (which is mostly wrong (short video no context)) they make a woke video themselves with there new born bias xD
and the cycle dig deeper (telephone)
Its so dumb xD We cant even speak anymore using proper eplxplaimatiin and real word ... they see only wind and continue arguing on a fact !! Well ...
@@winxclubstellamusa totally!! ... normalizing etc I see so much people saying they have ptsd when they are clearly not .. or people im just chilling with smoking weed, youll heart often people using the word paranoia ... But they have -300% idea what is is, how it work and how freaking intense it is irl in any way, shape or form(for them) ... etc Yes i just want to slap a dictionnary, open at the right page, right in the mouth
@@Hackanhacker me too… They have no idea what it’s like to actually have PTSD and actually get triggered, I feel angry, humiliated, and extremely hurt every time I heard people use these words improperly, to the point of actually getting triggered! I can’t wait until the trend of using the vocabulary of the abuse survival recovery community blows over, and they stop making fun and light of our burdens.
@@winxclubstellamusa Im so with you !
If my wife were scared out of a women's bathroom by this man, he would get a trip to the hospital, and I would go to jail with a 30 year smile.
A real man out there!
Gigachad
Chad!
Bro same I was just saying outnloud that he'd get reminded he was a man while I choke him out.
Maybe a knife in his junk
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Crowbar.
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Hm choices.
Anyone creative here?
I'd take a difference approach, I'd self identify as a woman for 10 minutes then when the court case comes its chick on chick violence no judge in any country would touch the case in fear of losing there job 😉🤣🤣🤣
Tonight when I was talking to a woman cashier at a store, another woman worker employee came over and said she was asked to clean the men's bathroom. She said the urinal smelled so bad that they couldn't pay her enough to clean it. This made me think about how our women's cleaner and more pleasant bathrooms were now endangered of becoming as uncomfortable as the men's. My son has told me several time how foul they often are. I am uncomfortable enough for modesty's sake went at work they had tried in the 80's to allow a trans to use our restrooms. This just makes me feel more evaded.
The women are just as gross, especially in public bathrooms.
I found toilet paper covering the whole toilet seat + the hole, with piss and blood.
Ive found someones shart underwear on the floor behind the toilet.
I've found that someone took their whole dump on the floor.
There's been butt bomb explosions that coated the toilet + the wall behind.
I was at a night club a few years back and was approached by a trans woman who started hitting on me. I turned her down repeatedly. At one point I went to the ladies where she followed me. At this point I was annoyed and stated, "look, I'm really not interested, I like cock". At which they said "it's ok baby, I still have one of those", and put their hand up my dress.
Straight away I left and told security what had happened and how unsafe I felt. Security then told me that If I felt that way I should choose a different place to drink. I honestly couldn't believe it. I was being accused of being transphobic because I didn't want to get felt up in the women's bathroom. I haven't been out since.
WTFFFF! Makes me sick!
Omg I'm so sorry that happened to you💔
@@lila_harris that’s when you stab the freak!
Should have clocked it unconscious the minute it touched you.
That’s disgusting! Both on the roach who wouldn’t leave you alone and the security for not helping you. Purely revolting.
The fact this grown man “lost it” after being told the truth is very alarming. This man needs to be locked up and treated by doctors. This is disgusting. Good on his friends are at least awake enough to try and put him in his place.
The fact that this guy clearly cannot control his emotions or/and behaviour is more than alarming. This not only confirm your initial worries about having a man in woman only restroom, but now it makes you also scared (if not already) for having such a person, and makes your mind create very nasty scenarios. Like, what if you happen to be alone there with that dude? And he just loses it? And what, if he can lose his shit just like that, what will he do if there's no eyewitnesses? It doesn't have to be escalated, true, but most likely, I'd say, it's very probable.
@@ple8379 it needs to be put down now before it snaps and kills a lot of innocent people 😡
I had something similar happened to me. I was using the restroom and there was a person claiming to be a trans. Watching me through the crack in the door. While they pleased themselves. I threw my purse at the door and told him to get the heck out of my bathroom. And then that's when they claimed to be a transgender. I informed that they would be a no gender as soon as I got out.
this is absolutely disgusting!! our society wonders why there are so many sick people in this world well maybe it’s because we make it SO easy for them.
@@idioticbagel2833 I know right? We literally make excuses for their horrible behavior. Enough is enough!
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That is so sick 😧
Absolutely wretched, I’m sorry you had to experience that. 🤦🏿♀️🤢
One time my family was at a restaurant and one of my relatives needed to go into the bathroom. She went into the bathroom, but almost right after two men followed her into the bathroom! Her mom realized this and went into the bathroom too. Thankfully she caught the two men before it was too late. She was all like "Idc if you're trans, you won't hurt my little daughter!" Some of the restaurant staff were called about this, but then one of my other relatives kept saying that there was nothing wrong and kept dismissing my relative's mom. So yeah, it was a confusing day. :/
My buddy who has a 13-14 year old daughter told me they were out somewhere once and she went into the bathroom. While she was in there, a, to use his words, "linebacker in a wig" tried to go in. He did what any father should do, stopped him and did not exactly mince words. "If you try to go in there I will kill you." If I know him half as well as I think, he's not even close to bluffing.
Legend
That was straight to the point and it killed me 💀💀💀💀💀
Right man
He’s a great dad
The thought of seeing this person in the bathroom just screaming and wailing out of nowhere is straight up horror material
I'm a man who goes into women's restrooms but that's because I'm a janitor and janitors clean restrooms and whenever a woman needs to use the restroom I leave and let her do her business. Honestly the worst part of my job is cleaning woman's restrooms.
Why? Are they nastier than the men's?
Been there done that. had to put up with some of these freaks heaidng into the womans room while i'm cleaning too. as guy it creeped me the fuck out as well and i was just cleaning the woman's room.
As a cleaner I agree. If a woman came in I'd leave the toilets until they were done.
@@tropicalpalmtree as a former office/toilet cleaner, I appreciate the respect of other cleaners. I got out of the men’s if a man walked in.
@@DenverStarkey yeah, despite the trans lobby saying “it never happens” when it’s been happening.
The insanity of these freaks is simply astounding
To answer your question, yes, I actually did see urinals in a Ladies Room just recently...sort of. I was in an Off-Broadway Theatre in NYC, and their setup for the public restrooms was the most insane thing I've ever seen. Instead of the two rooms being labeled Men's and Women's, there was a long-ass sign outside that said "We at this theatre believe in being inclusive of all gender identities and expressions, etc. Therefore, please enter whichever of these bathrooms you feel most comfortable using." The two doors didn't have the normal Man and Woman icons but instead each had long signs describing the rooms (Example: "This restroom contains urinals, stalls, and sinks" and "This restroom just contains stalls and sinks"). Now when I really need to pee, I'm not in the mindset to read such a long sign and process all this information. And I feel especially bad for anyone who may struggle to read a long sign because English is not their first language (which is very common in NYC). So I just walked quickly into the first restroom, which I then discovered was for all intents and purposes the Ladies Room, even if it wasn't actually called that. In other words, I was the only dude in a restroom filled with mostly women. I felt awkward, they all felt awkward, but no one could say anything. I quietly walked to a stall and used it. I can only imagine how much more awkward it was in the other room with the urinals. This absurd situation is only causing more confusion and uncomfortable situations, not actually creating inclusion.
Brett needs to pin this. 👏🏽
@@dancostello4872 Thanks. I’d love to share that story with more people.
Those long signs are the most obvious expression of what all of this is: an attempt to make basic things into the most complicated things possible
Can't believe you didn't go inside the other bathroom instead... unless there was a long queue of course :P
Omg
My god I remember in the 90’s working in the oil patch in Alberta and being in camp with the guys I worked with and because there were so few women working in the field there would be one shower facility. The guys I worked with would take turns standing at the door when I took a shower or close by to let other men know I was in there. As soon as the men found out I was in the shower room no one wanted to go in there for any reason. They had respect for the gender differences and they didn’t question if you would be uncomfortable with them in there. They assumed it to be the case and just waited. If there was a woman’s shower they would stay out of that and I wouldn’t go near theirs. It just made life so much easier to navigate and respect boundaries. I miss that honestly.
There is no way that person is a woman. Also how terrifying for the *real woman* he “lost” it on.
Notice he didn't lose it on a man. Coward.
@port nut 🤣👌
Where the hell are they putting a tampon 😂😂😂
really? you have to ask? its where their boyfriends put their cacks.
Up the butt morty, waayy up there. 😂
Probably up there ass😂
I worked for Publix grocery for 17 years. We had a male employee that insisted on using the ladies restroom. He claimed the mens was dirty, no, all restrooms were cleaned every day. Many female employees complained about him, he took a long time and we were forced to leave our work area to go up front. We voiced complaints and he continued to do this. I noticed he had not been there for a few days and asked why. My manager said "he was taken off the schedule" and would not be returning. Later I learned he threatened to go to HR and complain that he felt discriminated against by female employees and he had the right to use the bathroom of his choice. He thought he could manipulate everyone and learned quickly from HR and Publix attorneys he deliberately showed lack of consideration, putting female employees in a compromising situation, firing offenses. Heads up for trans persons using bathrooms at any Publix. Use the bathroom of your gender at birth, as stated or risk getting asked to leave the store or get fired.
Yayyyy… hooray for Publix! I’ll keep shopping there! 😊😊😊❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
I already like Publix,now I love them!
Thats just a creep not a trans person
It works both ways...........I have seen women in men's restrooms.
@@ROBERT-fd4kl Are you sure they're women? If they are biological men, that is acceptable.
Even for a man, it could be really disturbing to encounter this dude in restrooms: absolute pervert's vibes.
It both hurts my soul and ignites my temper when I hear *men* get free pads and tampons while I'm in my designated bathroom popping quarters or DIYing a pad until I can buy some or make it home. The *ONE* time I did try to go in the men's restroom for a free pad and I was called out for "stealing." The lack of self-awareness sickened me then and still does now.
@@miscellaneousviewing7916 I have no idea what they use them for. I just know I was called out and embarrassed as hell 😞 so admittedly my opinion on men being women and getting freebies bio women don't get is kinda biased.
That's disgusting! I have maintained that women should never have to pay for menstrual protection, and I really hate that these men don't have to. Pardon me but, WTF!!!😊
These picks are sick need a smack in the face 😳
Tampons in the MENS toilets 🤣😅🤣😂 How effin ridiculous, what a Pathetic move. What do you think they do with them???? 🤣😂🤣😅 NOTHING, they DO Nothing with them because they are designed for WOMEN USE ONLY. 🤪😜🤪 This World is fckd.
You mean you went into the men's "safe space"??? Horrors!!!!! People should stop the continual rant of "equality between men and women" and replace it with "equity between men and women." Those asking for equality are making a huge mistake.
This is getting so out of hand. Our society has gotten waaay out there to the point of ridiculousness
I'm in my 70's. When I had periods, I learned very early on to carry some pads and tampons in my purse. We had the pad/tampon dispensing machine when I was in college, but there was no way to tell if it was out of product. Now they put free tampons in men's rooms?!!! What the hell??
This... not to mention many women's bathrooms as is don't have them at al...
Yeah, I went to a service station on the way back from my holiday in the middle of the night and when I was in the men's toilet, I saw this sign on the wall talking about free period products and I was like" what is that doing in a man's bathroom??!" Men don't have periods whatsoever. End of.
😂😂😂
Thank you for this 👏👏💯💯
What is a man going to use a frickin tampon for? 😂😂😂
We don't bleed, we only have one hole and there's certainly no point blocking it with something like that!
As a woman that lives off grid, having to deal with my period is probably one of the most stressful and painful experiences I have to go through every month.
I wouldn't wish this on anyone.
It feels insulating that someone that doesn't have female organs, that's never expected cramps, bleeding all over themselves, and mood swings is mocking us by putting this in men's restrooms. I get if it's for people that have women's organs but identify as male, but that's not how it's being advertised or promoted on social media.
And if I went into a women's restroom with someone that isn't female, I would be extremely uncomfortable as well. I already have to be alert when I'm traveling and out in public. Now we have to be aware of it in the most vunerable places as a woman.
What people don't understand is that this is not what is happening. Men that are now identifying as women would be going, or at least attempting to go in the women's restroom, if they want pads they still pay the quarter or whatever because they aren't using the men's restroom anymore. The folks that would utilize a tampon/pad dispenser in the men's room would be folks that were women but now identify as men who are now using the men's room. They still have the parts, still menstruate because they aren't actually men.
@@propheticjoe we know but they didn't do this for women I am not saying we shouldn't help them I am saying they should have done this for women also give us free tampons. Putting it into the men's restroom for free but not even providing women for tampons. Because I go to college and I haven't seen a machine for tampons while the men restroom just has it for free. The girls said so they did tht and at tht time I was a confused little more leftist person. Now I know thts just rude
@@propheticjoe I get if It's being used for women that identify as men. But the way it's being advertised on social media, by people that don't have women organs, gives the wrong impression.
If you don’t watch her I suggest Blair’s White. She did a video recently saying that it should be a requirement for trans women to actually understand women for the reasons you just listed. She’s a transwoman herself. I wouldn’t mind sharing space with her though because she is respectful and genuinely trans. Plus if you didn’t know her from the internet you would think she was just a woman who had a boob job and face work done. She’s so pretty and does not look just like Bruce or Dylan 😂
You live "off the grid" but have internet?
Society needs to be straightened out!! 🙏 There are too many people doing unacceptable things, then crying about it when held accountable.
@nainshimpykh Do mind freaks doing what they like then. Like the twisted he/she in this article.
As a FATHER of FOUR Girls! "Your SAFE PLACE!" is NOT SAFE for You! My kids go into a restroom and "I See YOU! enter or EXIT the SAME! I will BE YOUR SAFETY PROBLEM!
I'll trust the Judge has a Daughter, Niece, Sister, or Mother! IT WILL BE ON!
Getting off of social media is the best thing I’ve ever done for myself. These people really need to do the same seriously.
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Yes XD i droped face book since 2015 lol
Its was bad imagine now xD I just cant return. It hurt so bad each time i need it xD (only reason : find someone xD)
TH-cam and Discord are the only "social media" apps I use... I'm glad I never really got into big social media apps
TH-cam is also social media…
Gotta stop liking,sharing, supporting and commenting at these woke fantasy social med. These days things getting way to political just for attention and they're making money out of it.
Letting people into the bathroom because of their feelings (like this man feels like he is a woman and is clearly not medically transitioned) is just horrible. If I see a man walk into the woman’s bathroom I’d freak out and tell him to get out. It comes out as very suspicious and makes me feel unsafe.
Men can never be women!
@diluc this happened to me in NY, only thing is the man dressed as a lady was about 6’7” so I could not say anything. It is very scary and uncomfortable.
It is unsafe. Young girls in female bathrooms have been raped by supposedly Trans women!
He can "transition" himself all he wants he will NEVER be a woman.
@@robl0xgamer258 I'm shocked! Next you'll be telling me unicorns aren't real and the moon isn't made of cheese!
As a mother of daughters, it's horrifying to think about the possible situations my children and I could be subjected to because of this lunacy. Plain and simple, there is 0 reason I should need to worry about my daughters being exposed to male genitalia in a women's bathroom.
That's why everyone should follow Kellie jay keen Brett needs to find her too all women coming together to fight this will be the biggest glass ceiling in history if Kellie jay keen wins gender ideology will end.
I remember something JK Rowling commented about trans woman are not woman everyone blew upon her and went on bashing, I mean actors and actress came to promote the whole community, now I feel this community has gone crazy because of all the support.
The fact that you have to even consider that possibility is a disgusting reality that has been forced upon us by appaling, radical idealogues. As a father of 3 children including 2 girls I can say with absolutely zero regret that if that nasty, obese failure of the human species attempted to enter a bathroom that my kids were using, he'd quickly have a very different concept of what constitutes hate and aggression.
That and and the fact that these creeps can just stare at girls/women in spaces that are just for “WOMEN” & claim that they are “trans”. And the argument is that not all “trans” people are like that. Well that kind of answers itself no?
Among the many other issues with this, it’s also making it easier for creeps to put recording devices in restrooms.
On our campus we had Free Tampons and Pads in Both bathrooms, but they were only restocked once per week, so we (the boys) always took out the tampons and pads and handed them over to the people who actually needed them. :)
Mega based momwnt
Literal kings 🙌
You dropped this 👑
As a woman, I thank you! ! You and your friends are kings ❤️
This is validating mental illness. What do men have anything to do with pads and tampons?
Hey Brett. My wife pointed me to your show and after watching a episode or more I had to say;
what you're doing gives me a tremendous amount of Hope for humanity's future. I've been watching humanity spiral out of control for most of my 63 years and am grateful that there are you and many other young TH-camrs coming out with profoundly sound reason and understanding about very Central issues to better understanding and supporting human happiness, health and prosperity. Keep doing what you're doing, Keep spreading your truth, Your Love, your sharp wit and your humor...all of these make great user friendly weapons against stupidity and ignorance.
Had a man try and lecture me in a campground bathroom when I was twelve because he kept trying to start a conversation with my younger cousin and he was CreepyPedoTM and we didn't want to talk to him. He was obviously the victim in that situation
We told the campground director about it and my aunt that we were with (who is aggressively woke) and they both pretty much just told us to be more tolerant of people. I think that's what made me realize that people care more about being politically correct than keeping kids safe. I was 12 and my cousin was 7
@@abrock5086 Never mind being tolerant of people. You need to set your boundaries. In another case, that creep could have been a child killer trying to find his next victim. Don't ever feel sorry for defending yourself.
@@mayloo2137 Oh I know, I just thought that it was sadistically ironic at the time that the adults around me weren't as concerned about that as they should have been. It was a big and confusing red-pill for little me but I'm just glad it never escalated farther than it did
@@abrock5086 i grew up in the 60s and 70s. If this happened back then, the police would have been called.
@@mayloo2137 As they should have. There's no reason for grown adults to try and have conversations with someone else's kids in a public restroom because there aren't any adults in the room. Much less a grown ass man. My parents and her parents now have a strained relationship with that aunt because of instances like that and other things and we weren't ever allowed to travel alone with her again even if the distance was just into town.
I had multiple breakdowns watching this video, geez.
I was sexually assaulted after coming out of the womens locker room after swimming class. I struggle with getting in elevators with men, I’m so scared this will happen to me in the restroom and no will help me because they might think I’m transphobic and in the wrong.
Am really sorry about that men like that are disgusting who just care about there desires , I can relate to something you said , the fact that your scared to speak out and then get called transphobic , I mean am a muslim and when I say it to anyone ohh *am terrorist * only in america these type of stuff happenes if only people studied about islam they will realize that islam love women and tells men that they should be the providers and the protecters of women, even our prophet said multiple things before he die and one of them is *take care of women* and he said it 3 times , but the television shows only the bad side of islam like you realize there is good and bad in all , yea there is bad muslims but there is good muslims too , sorry again that this happened to you , I hate america because the fact that men have free pads and tampons in there rest room but not women is crazy like WHAT
I'm so sorry that happened to you.
I feel soo sorry for you and your not being transphobic your being rational and I support the LGBTQ community but this is just too much
I am so sorry. I am a feminist progressive and part of the B in the LGBT but I support you and I am against this too!
I'm sorry that happened, this is why I'm now very concerned about when males say they are trans but in reality they are perverts and evil people, women should feel safe in restrooms not feel like a man is breathing down their necks in a bathroom, I'm sorry for what happened to you, I may be a man but I don't want women to deal with pretend transgenders being perverts towards real women
Love the way he says it's his safe place😂 it's a women's safe place from men like that.
Who calls any public bathroom a safe place😂
@@rhondabenz3150fr that’s so weird, I hate public restrooms, I try to get out of one in at least 1 minute
Convince me he’s not a creeper preying on women. 😅
@@SnailWhales oh so people being creeped on is the issue? Good to know, if fact while we're at it lets also ban Gay people from their gender associated bathrooms because they're also totally capable of perving out on other people in the bathroom. (No I do not think they should actually do that, but just consider the implications of the problems your brining up)
Surprised none of them got police on the case
This happened to me before. Me alone and a guy like this came in and when I said I ran out and away as fast as I could, the trans people out there were like "there is no more reason for a trans people to rape you or harm you than anyone". Oh yeah? Well, the 14yo bone-thin me back then wasn't going to wait and see
There is literally zero chance of a fellow female raping you in the women's toilets. They are so willfully delusional.
Fuck what they have to say! Protect yourself at all costs!
There are reasons why females have separate spaces. The argument that 'trans women have no more reason to rape you than anyone else' is stupid. You could say that about any man - because most if them aren't rapists. So, in that case, why bother with separate facilities at all? We already have gender neutral restrooms/change rooms - they are single user at a time spaces.
I know that’s right
As a biologically female university student, when I need pads, they're not always available in every restroom on campus. Sometimes I have to go through at least 5 restrooms and then would find ONE restroom with those things to get the pads. Oftentimes, those things need coins, which in 2024, not a lot of people carry cash. Those should either be free or have some sort of mechanism that it would accept cards as well. But hey! having those fully stocked, that too free, in men's washrooms is clearly a bigger priority here.
I have this situation in my workplace and we're not allowed to say anything about it. The man was married with kids and all of a sudden started wearing women's clothes and using the women's washroom. I feel uncomfortable with him being in there.
If I were you I'd speak up.
My work place told the man identifying as a woman (who looked like a man) that he wasnt allowed to use the womens toilet. He was allowed to use the mens or the gender neutral one but not the womens. Im so grateful for their sense and fairness
stay safe
My husband had same situation at work place 4 years ago and women and men couldn’t say a word about it!! If anyone said anything they would lose a job making over 100k so people kept mouth shut about it.
You feel uncomfortable around him because he has a mental illness. Trust your instincts.
screaming and cussing out sane people because you cant handle them challenging your ideology is how a lot of people end up identifying as was/were
Nice.
i love this
As a woman I’ve literally never seen free tampons in the bathroom. 🙃
Only time EVER was at my government job and half the time they were out
And it was the push one in the urinal Video. Not this organic name brand bougie shit
The homeless shelter here had a shit ton and that's the only place I've seen them
Ikr?! And the dispensers are literally always empty
I'm from Canada and recently some of the high schools in the city I live in have installed tampon and pad dispensers in the women's bathroom. It's a step forward, just sad that other high school girls are so immature and waste the free products all the time.
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In my country, this ain’t a thing yet, and I’m SO glad its not. Period products for girls are free in my school, and when looking at this video, I’m very grateful for our free period products . :)
I witnessed a similar situation happen at a local food chain, was waiting for my Cuppa joe and out from the ladies bathroom came a very obvious man with no outward signs of being trans whatsoever. So a man, his wife and daughter next to me confronts him about why he was in the ladies room. He aaid im a Ma’am or miss not a sir. And said he is allowed to use any bathroom he wants. They all went over to the manager who came out to see what was happening to complain about the situation. Not two mins after this confrontation out from the bathroom comes a 9 maybe 10 year old girl who was visibly shaken and scared, she was crying and ran to her mother who was sitting waiting for her. She was scared that a MAN was in the ladies room with her and she couldn’t go to the bathroom out of fear because he was in there so she sadly ended up wetting herself. Well then mom lost her sh@t. Police ended up being called and he was trespassed by the manager and arrested because he also had a warrant for something else. This world is getting a tad out of control . Up is down , down is up, dogs are cats and cats are dogs. Whats next, Aliens?
And sadly this is on teh rise, and I dont think it'll stop.....
Poor girl.
What "triggers" me is implying that friends should only validate "your feelings." Sorry but friends also point out when YOU are in the wrong. They're there to help you in every way, even correcting you so that you can grow.
Friends that tell you the truth when you're wrong is the only kind of friend there is. The rest is not a friend.
We woman get screamed at and blamed all because we don't want men like him in our restrooms. We the woman are the labeled the worst. This is messed up. 😩 Also, I fully agree with you, Brett. Love your content. ❤
Its because you guys are the worst for not accepting it. End of story.
This guy isn't transgender. He is an incel who has found a way to get the attention of women he wasn't otherwise getting; Making a mockery of women while trying to Lord over their private spaces and saying their feeling takes priority over any biological woman
@@doublec3 Most women nodded their head at this and screamed at men calling them sexist for trying to stop men from using the female restrooms and now trans men are dominating women's sports
Men got destroyed socially by political correct people and guess what women only have themselves to blame.
@@doublec3 Are you joking or something?
@@MoonIbis yeh I guess so.
We aren't allowed to be women anymore. And he says he lost it! What a joke.
Literally was in my college bathroom (with multiple stalls) waiting for one of the stalls to open so I could go in, and I kid you not a full grown 6 foot hairy man with long hair came out the stall. He smiled, and walked passed all the other young girls waiting for a stall and washed his hands like nothing was wrong with that picture. The fact that a grown man gets to be in the bathroom with a bunch of young women is insane to me. Not one girl went into the stall he had just used. It's so uncomfortable going to the bathroom during class, worried that a grown man is going to be in there with me. People are trying to make it seem like girls are cool with this, but when it comes to safety, wokeness goes out the window.
Every time I hear these stories it is frustrating how the women just accepted the violation as though helpless to express their protest. Until women stop being silent and just accepting this insanity then it will only get worse. It won't be until sexual assaults start becoming the norm that the issue will have to be addressed. Because passive silence means CONSENT. Right now heterosexual males are enjoying easy access to simply walk into female spaces and either creep them out as a form of harassments, peep at them in stages of undress . . . or worse. That man could have been on sexual registry as a rapist and testing out how easy it is to gain access. The majority of men claiming to be trans do not have gender dysphoria. I don't know why women are allowing themselves to feel fearful to use the restroom in public or risk a man exposing himself to them without any legal protection. Who cares if they call us a transphobe? Should we endanger ourselves or lose the ability to be modest in front of strange men out of fear of being labelled a false name?
I was just fired from my YMCA for pushing back on locker room policy after the CEO released a statement comparing Rebecca Phillips to a "scared animal"
Wow... thats disgusting. I'm sorry this was done to you
The more I hear about the state of things at YMCA the more it angers me. I'm sorry you lost your job
I used to take my 4-year old son with me to the YMCA for swim lessons. This was in the early 2000s, before the trans laws begin. We would change our clothes in the women's changing room. Today, I would go home wet with my swim suit on. I would not take a 4 year old to a changing room, where predators may be lurking. They may try to kidnap small kids.
Yikes……sue
Jesus, that's horrible. They have zero sympathy even for minors. Good for you for fighting back!
Had an experience with this recently. Within the last two weeks, I've gone back to a CC to get a new degree. Hadn't been on this campus before, had only taken classes online from this college so it was all new to me. Loved the feeling of being back on campus but besides the point. Anyway, went to take a piss between classes, and noticed the two bathrooms werent labeled. They were full, multi person restrooms, but were "genderless". They both straight up had urinals and stalls. Ok, weird. Anyway I notice a dude walks into one of them. So I decide alright, guys are going in there, I'll go there too. Anyway, I get to the urinals, do my business. At one point, a girl walked in. She was clearly uncomfortable, as she hesitated when she entered, seeing two dudes pissing in there. Nevertheless, she quickly walked into a stall. I was uncomfortable and kinda noticed the other guy seemed to find it odd as well. Needless to say, in one interaction, 3 people were made uncomfortable by the situation. Just insane to me that were creating this uncomfortable situation for 99% of the college population, in order to make 1% feel better. Obviously the girl couldve walked out, waiting, gone to the other. But I'm sure theres some deep feelings that she just has to play along and act like this is normal. Idk, was just reminded of what the lefty world looked like after having left it for a time.
We can only hope that the world stops spinning crazy and OBamBam and Big Mike get booted out of office.
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I don’t want to use the restroom next to a dude, I don’t care what he thinks he is!
Nailed it we are allowing the 1% ers to rule the world . This needs to stop or be resolved in a acceptable manner , how i dont know but it’s disturbing
imagine letting the 1% from the BOTTOM DICTATE our lives, at least the top 1% give a false sense of inclusivity in getting us all fucked.
New trend is NO URINALS in men’s room. I have had to go back outside to make sure I am in the right place.
The problem is that years ago a trans woman truly wanted to pass as a woman and you wouldn’t even question them. Now if you want to be a trans woman these days all you have to do is declare it. You can have a full beard, no boobs, look like a man but somehow everyone should look at them and right away know they are a trans women.
Real trans people aren’t like this. They just want to be left alone and live their lives. What were seeing in society now is a bunch of indoctrinated people who think you can choose to be whatever you want, which is not the case. It’s not even that they really want to be trans, it’s that the idea is planted inside them at a young age that they are. It’s disgusting, and the fact so many sane people are going along with it is just baffling.
It happened recently with a “self identifying female” who was a biological man who was a peadophile turned up to his court case after being caught with the highest level of child pornography and was released from court and set free on society purely because he self identified as a woman!! Disgusting!!
Transgender males that want to pass as a woman, are discreet, look and act like a woman are not the problem. The ones that wear womens clothes, have a beard and look like a very ugly woman that scares women and kids in the bathroom are the issue.
were r the 3 other comments?
The reason some people air all their little grievances online to strangers is because they don't have any friends to talk to in private. Like he said, the moment someone disagrees or tries to actually help, they are done. The sad thing is that they don't realize that's why they are alone.
Also attention, they want attention, it's all about the clicks now. Social media has been the death of this generation
@@Jayne90 its mostly the attention, inbetween 80-99% for the attention.
@@Jayne90 So wrong, it has broadened the horizons of many. Not everyone can have all known human experiences, social media helps in a big way towards this.
Agreed I was just about to say this. It’s a person who has aired my grievances online before I can tell you with full confidence that a lot of people don’t have what you have they don’t have a therapist to talk to you they don’t have a friend or family member or colleague anyone in real life or anyone they could talk to personally about it. But the one place that most people have access to is the Internet. And some people just want someone to see what they’re going through and someone to rent to, but they don’t really know how to approach anyone in real life so they just put it on the Internet. It’s a lot easier to drop a bomb online and to find someone to do it to. There’s some people who say oh why not get a journal but the thing about journals is that no one will likely see it and when I want to rent I want to rent to people sometimes I just want people to know stuff but I don’t know how to bring it up casually so I just put it online. But that’s why you see so much people putting things that you might consider private or personal online because they want someone to see it but they don’t know anyone in real life, and being online gives that feeling of anonymity.
If this isn’t stopped now, it will never be stopped! I say this as a father of teenagers of both sexes.
I’ve said this to my good friend who is with me on this all being bs, that in 100 years this will be everything or nothing, and I damn sure hope it’s the latter
I agree. I think a lot of these so called trans women just want to peek at the women and girls In The rest rooms. I think they have figured out that this is the way to do it. So they claim to be women!!
I would not doubt that some of the women are doing that too!! Absolutely disgusting!! 😡
That's a man. Can you believe I just entered that as a comment a few minutes ago, and TH-cam not only took it down, they gave me a warning about "hate speech". Oh, yeah, that's right, I called him a pervert.
Just imagine a little girl like, 4 years old, goes to the bathroom and sees not only sees men there but sees them using urinals 💀
genderless bathrooms are the product of allowing actual retards to run things, cause "no kid left behind" huh?
There are urinals in the women's restroom?
@@ericpratt984 watch the video
@@wellidontknow1941 I have watched it. But, I also know that you can't detect a joke. 'Cause why the heck would there be urinals in a woman's restroom?
@@ericpratt984 where is the joke? If you tried to be sarcastic, it didn't work - you just seem like an idiot
Scientifit test to tell if you're a woman or not: if somebody calls you a man and you get so "triggered" that you start screaming, you're not a woman.
In my school they actually made a third restroom for all genders. So anyone that identifies as anything else could just go there. As absurd as it seems i actually prefer something like that over having an incident like this occuring. Then again, i’m not from america.
That is kind of ridiculous but
Those are just rape rooms is all they are....the old pervy cross dressers will just wait on the young brainwashed screwed in the head kids to come in and prey on them....
@Don K They actually are. Although I think it may have to do with the fact that the people i go to school with are just decent people and not the over the top feminists and such.
@@trith72 I would agree with you if i had no context but i have seen the restrooms first hand and like i've stated in a previous reply, the people i go to school with are decent people. But i do get your point. If that setup were to occur in a more public setting, then the story would be very different.
thats ridiculous, but its a good compromise. We have those too, its called the handicap stall 😆
love how he said its the one he "feels" safe in...
I've never seen free tampons in any womens bathroom and we have mens bathrooms with tampons and pads for free. Yes, Germany reached the same level, in some cases were even further ahead with the woke stuff than the US, especially when it comes to language.
I told my boyfriend if he ever sees free tampons in a bathroom and no other guy is in there he should take all of them and give them to me to take them into the womens bathroom.
I am from Europe. I blame both American men who don't stand to defend their women who can be harassed in single female spaces. And I also blame American women who aren't vocal enough.
Great idea, I should do that lol
@@Helga7850 White American women set the world on this path we are on... They emasculate men through the women's movement, manipulate boys to show their "feminine side" and encouraged/supported men that they are "women." I see this still, firsthand. Now Pandora's box wide open, and it has spread to other countries. The world is doomed, because these mentally disturbed people are teaching in kindergarten to university levels... You are witnessing the outcome in real time.
A few decades ago a serial killer, who is now in jail, killed his first victim in a local, but isolated, woman's toilet. After all this time that event is well remembered in our area. I think I know the opinion of the women in our town to sharing with a trans woman.
I was minding my own business having a walk in the park when a man came up to me and said what I was wearing looked nice and asked where I got it from. I make majority of my own clothes and have had a lot of people compliment and asked where it is from and I tell them I make it myself. Then he started to ask if he could buy the dress I was wearing because he wanted to wear if for sexual gratification and gender validation . I was really freaked out by this and tried to walk off, he tried to grab me but I used the tactic of pretending someone nearby was a friend I arranged to meet and then he ran off. It was a terrifying experience and all this gender madness is extremely worrisome for me.
He wanted to buy it on the spot- what did he expect you to do, take it off? This is all really just a disguise for creeps.
Oh that poor predatory male! All he wanted to do was to express his inner sexual deviance! He was being his true authentic self namely a pervert who sexually harasses women with malice aforethought. The poor lamb./s
Very disturbing indeed, Should NOT be allowed
When I was in my clubbing Days the women's bathroom was a safe haven for women to escape creepy men touching you on the dancefloor. That safe space is now gone! Creeps can just say they are trans and follow you into the bathrooms
Here's a suggestion to all the lads with girlfriends. Go into the men's room, grab all the tampons and give them to your girlfriends. The university will soon stop doing it. Incidentally, while we are laughing at the idea of a tampon machine in the men's room, the tampon dispenser company is also laughing - all the way to the bank.
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There's tampons in men's bathroom...?
@@bugcatcherjacky1334yes 😭 I’m a 14 year old girl and in a public school in California there are tampon and pad dispensers in the boys bathroom 💀💀
@@kayti_i I-
I don't have words. Just... Why? I mean- no don't answer that. I think I know why, but also... Why...?
@@kayti_i are there dispensers in girls bathrooms too ?
Im gay and in my clubbing days ( I'm older gay lol ) I knew many trans women and had conversations, made questions and for the most part, they were very decent people, aware they were biological men but just wanted to be socially perceived as women, and they were years in hormones, surgeries, all very well put together with the intention to "pass" some were luckier than others on it, but you couldn't fault them for doing their best to do it, was almost a matter of pride to be able to convincingly pass as a woman, this dude from the video shows the very first sign that he is not a trans woman, the beard, even if he didn't have all the money for the surgeries yet he would double his efforts on the waxing, a wig or weave to cover that baldness, the makeup, the way he was dressed etc if he can go around telling people he is a trans woman and looking like that it means he doesn't have gender dysphoria and is just a creepy dude
You’re a dude also 😅
@@AbdullahKhan-dc3vi haha of course I am dude dah ( not creepy because I'm quite good looking 😗and I date adults and I don't go to spaces that are not created for me ) not sure if you are aware but being gay has nothing to do with being trans, I'm very happy about being a man :)
Some them don’t even TRY.
So much respect for an account of true trans!! These new generations are absolutely insane babe ❤
kids affirm delusion and insanity, cause its the only way they feel valid (99% of them, don't wanna be a hater). So actual deluded and insane adults get to parade around scottfree when they actually DESERVE to be in a mental hospital
In 20 years we will look back and say what were we thinking !!