Eye Contact & Attraction 🤯The Science & Psychology Behind What THIS Body Language REALLY Reveals🤯

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  • @jamesconnor601
    @jamesconnor601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    this is so good! i always feel so vulenerable when i maintain eye contact for too long and now im 28 and realizing how important that connection is. it goes so much deeper than vocal communication, thanks for explaining!

  • @paradiseplayer5103
    @paradiseplayer5103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Attraction can be so difficult to clock. It helps if the person is also verbal about their thoughts. May ask for your name, your number or contact, etc. It’s so funny because when I see a girl that I like, one I’ve never spoken to, I’ll do everything I can to ignore her. I won’t look at her, I won’t speak to her, I won’t go near her. The joys of being an introvert 😭🤣

    • @abrahammendiola4446
      @abrahammendiola4446 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know the feeling bro 😂 😢

    • @Zeeshan12368
      @Zeeshan12368 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@abrahammendiola4446 Mee too!

    • @MrRashef
      @MrRashef 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ye I feel you bro

    • @tomzzx
      @tomzzx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      but if feels good doesn't it? 😂

    • @malkitsingh2141
      @malkitsingh2141 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

  • @fatherleo4603
    @fatherleo4603 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She reminds me of Emilia Clarke :D

  • @Powerarmed
    @Powerarmed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    You saved my day, just by being alive and watching you on the tiny screen of my phone! Now I'm a happy human being...

    • @israelarellano4981
      @israelarellano4981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      500% agree
      the way you look at the camera
      I could swear You're only talking at Me directly
      and many followers would agree.
      I watch your videos with the volume off ,
      I'm studying body language through
      You.
      I'm married so can You please stop flirting with Me?
      Lmao

  • @alwaysup4alaugh492
    @alwaysup4alaugh492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I love how Anna makes eye contact with us male viewers....unlike most women.🤣

    • @ctaigwoolsey3471
      @ctaigwoolsey3471 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Females don't give me and they never given me much eye contact at all I'm ,58 and I've approach thousand of girls thruout my life but I've never gotten any dates or had any girlfriends

  • @murraylindsay6880
    @murraylindsay6880 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I love watching your videos Anna but I know this chick likes me now. She gave me the steady gaze and I won the eye contact game. She looked down and blushed.

  • @bywodensbeard9841
    @bywodensbeard9841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    What about eye contact during a conversation?

    • @meer6365
      @meer6365 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It refers to caring

    • @laurafedora5385
      @laurafedora5385 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Even during casual conversation you will look away. It’s hard to maintain eye contact unless two people really dig each other

  • @candacegolden9904
    @candacegolden9904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This video has explained EVERYTHING, thank you!

  • @loudemarco4947
    @loudemarco4947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I’ve Been wondering how to interpret eye contact from the women I see at my gym. It’s hard to interpret lately when everyone is wearing masks 😷 .This video was a great help!! Thank you! Now I know their intentions when they maintain eye contact for a good 4-5 seconds . Time to make a move.

    • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson
      @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      HI ANNA JOYANIMA HOW ARE U DOING THIS MORNNIG. AND HAVE A GREAT DAY TODAY AS WELL ANNA JOYANIMA ARE U SEEING SOMEONE JUST AKING YOU IF THATS COOL AS WITH YOU ANNA JOYANIMA

    • @alwaysup4alaugh492
      @alwaysup4alaugh492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Are you from UK or what?
      I'm from the UK and all Gyms are *CLOSED.* 😔

    • @loudemarco4947
      @loudemarco4947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@alwaysup4alaugh492 wow that really sucks! Id be going crazy if that happened here. Working out is my life. I feel your pain mate. 😥I’m from the states. We Have to socially distance on free weights, every other treadmill is blocked off with a sign and all machines are spaced 6 feet apart. Thankfully they haven’t shut it down completely.

    • @mjchecksfield914
      @mjchecksfield914 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Careful, longer eye contact could mean she is interested OR she might think you are an idiot and is just seeking to verify that. OR she may just have been observing what excercise you are doing OR she is just being friendly OR she just happened to be looking your way by accident. The acid test is if it happens again and she either smiles back or blushes or quickly looks down, now you can be surer it is attraction!

    • @ctaigwoolsey3471
      @ctaigwoolsey3471 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What does it mean if girls don't give me and never have given me much eye contact in fact they have avoided giving it too me even if I'm walking down the towards them

  • @MrRashef
    @MrRashef 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I feel that 6th sense very oftent, but voice inside me tells me that I'm wrong , there's no possibility women find me attractive that often. I can always spot girls that im not interested being attracted to me , but not those that I want 🙃

  • @thehowtostudios1980
    @thehowtostudios1980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ever since i realized i had a crush on this girl from work i find it overwhelming to try talking to her so many uninvited butterflies i am gonna try to do eye contact even when they are looking back she has very pretty eyes. Might have to start a diary.

  • @Werday-bv7eh
    @Werday-bv7eh ปีที่แล้ว +2

    now i know why i think she is beuatyful even she is not too beuatyful, she is so feminime in my eyes, when we were far apart we stared at each other until it was as if we were stripping each other, but when we are close she steals glances, when I look at her she look down her eyes, when I try to talk to her she acts awkwardly, I think she is very sweat when she tries dare to speak ❤
    ah she also speak fast and loud, I was surprised that she answered all my chats when I told her about pizza 😂😂

  • @jerefernandez4019
    @jerefernandez4019 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you very much! Always helpfull since I discovered the channel ;)

  • @JoeMercersWay
    @JoeMercersWay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Must have filmed this a while ago or you must be the coldest woman on Earth (and that's some feat) to wrap up like that on the warmest day of the year so far

  • @stephenhumma4772
    @stephenhumma4772 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My eyes go even lower down to their t ts. That,s were my gaze ends.

    • @laurafedora5385
      @laurafedora5385 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s usually where they turn around and leave because talking to someone who’s starting at your chest is weird

  • @0077avi
    @0077avi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm The 9th Comment Just Right Over Here Anna😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃!!!!!

  • @stevejohnson8749
    @stevejohnson8749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So love your insights Anna!! Keep more coming. The dating world needs your help

  • @iknowthisone6844
    @iknowthisone6844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    what monsters live under your sweater?

    • @222333aaaaaa
      @222333aaaaaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Theyre making eye contact w me 😎👀

  • @Samalwinnie
    @Samalwinnie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I need an answer to this!....so there is this male guy who was on his teaching practice , am a nursing student, so the first day he came to my class , he went straight to the board and at that time there was commotion in class so he was waiting for people to settle,....... I was already settled ready to start class ,I was just casually looking at him , but then our eyes met .. We stared at each other for 30 magical seconds....I swear I fell in love , I don't know if he did to but I fell harder..I couldn't concentrate during his lessons , I would just stare and when he makes eye contact with me while explaining something he looks awayyy. ...unfortunately his teaching practice is over..he recently followed me in IG .. And I keep on posting things about love to see if he will make a move😫😫😫😫 I love himmmmmmm but I don't think he feels same

    • @Justchilll5555
      @Justchilll5555 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What about now are you together or just unknown

  • @kasperrasmussen2925
    @kasperrasmussen2925 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This Girl and i locked eyes fives times within an hour we both stared at eachother for over five seconds each time while we both had a Big smile on our faces, is she very interested in me or how should i interpret that?

    • @martacccc689
      @martacccc689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She is

    • @peterhansen5096
      @peterhansen5096 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She is, even if she dpoesn''t smile

    • @roser8911
      @roser8911 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@peterhansen5096lol true… I don’t smiles at him when we make eye contact but I like him a lot ❤

  • @14kurtismiller
    @14kurtismiller 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is so complex. Can I just ask a lady, why you checking me out?

  • @goodlife4843
    @goodlife4843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Anna your so beautiful can you give
    Ways to talk good 👍 with woman and attract them

  • @mjchecksfield914
    @mjchecksfield914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very nicely presented. Some witty bits and a nice delivery pace. After eye contact the next question is do they have anything interesting to say. Your are scoring well Joyanima! LOL

  • @leslierivera742
    @leslierivera742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have a hard time looking people in their eyes bc i have anxiety i hate it 😅

    • @CitiesOfAsh
      @CitiesOfAsh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Look at the top of their nose, itll look like you're looking at their eyes from their pov.

  • @ctaigwoolsey3471
    @ctaigwoolsey3471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm 58 years old and I have no problem approaching women at least I don't think I do and I've spp to coached many. Many females since I was14 years old and I've never had any women say yes to me when I have asked them for a phone number or a date so obviously I have never had any girlfriends .what I seem to get a lot of and always have gotten is the few gales that I have been able to even converse with me the don't give me much eye contact they don't smile at me I don't know of any females ever that I can remember at least striking up any conversations with me and very few females will ever ask me any questions about me and the few that have it's like they just don't want to hurt my feeling's or not to be rude it's only obvious to me for at least one reason or another that females just don't even find me attractive and interesting I do approach females everyday because that's all I really can do I suppose

  • @shoaibahmed9183
    @shoaibahmed9183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    HOW TO DATE ANNAAAAAAAAAA

  • @dexternjoku5196
    @dexternjoku5196 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So that person thought I was into them when I kept looking at their broccoli in their teeth now it all makes sense LMAO

    • @L20241
      @L20241 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂

  • @MissKittyyMeow
    @MissKittyyMeow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i struggle with eye contact because i get nervous

    • @laurafedora5385
      @laurafedora5385 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eye contact is difficult for all primates actually, as it relates somewhat to a pecking order and social interaction.
      That’s why it’s so interesting. 😊

  • @Parasite743
    @Parasite743 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thank you for pointing out the fact that there's signs of no-interest (i.e. EDIT actually You Don't Exist Yet gaze) because I really wasn't wanting to "deal with" the situation. So I avoided them completely by looking down. Now I know that it is a sign of no-interest. I will not do that next time.
    it helps to know that there's signs of interest but also signs of non-interest.

  • @gordonorante509
    @gordonorante509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes the James bond movie for your eyes only 😉😉😉

  • @CamilaVanilla
    @CamilaVanilla 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Is there a way to differentiate between attraction and confidence?

    • @stonecoldranblesfan862
      @stonecoldranblesfan862 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Confidence is having strong convictions and sticking by them. Not having to shut anyone down to hold respect but in fact making people around you better no matter their own confidence level.
      Attraction is biological.
      The rest is choice.

    • @ENFPerspectives
      @ENFPerspectives ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Let them know you are attracted and ask if they would be interested in going out sometime. If they say No Thank You, it is only Confidence. 👍

  • @TheInfamous730
    @TheInfamous730 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What does it mean when a woman stares at a guy when he's not looking at her and then when he looks her way she looks away quickly?

    • @youbetcha6880
      @youbetcha6880 ปีที่แล้ว

      It means she's fucking with you.

    • @peterhansen5096
      @peterhansen5096 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That she is likely interested but shy. Depends on her confidence and self-esteem. I often experience the opposite with a girl I often see. She keeps her stare even if I gaze back...we stare into each other's eyes for some seconds, and then she looks away, flushing a bit. So I assume she's not as shy as others are and is trying to tell me something with these gazes

    • @Deadpool-m2b
      @Deadpool-m2b 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@peterhansen5096 what if she does not look away when you catch her staring

  • @L20241
    @L20241 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What happens if they are your doctor and always maintain eye contact while talking to you 😂

  • @ifeanyiodiegwu3742
    @ifeanyiodiegwu3742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Some ladies when I have eye contact with them their eyes will start blinking fast as if their eye lashes wants to fall off. What is the meaning? Please I need explanation.

    • @peterhansen5096
      @peterhansen5096 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most women and men does that. We all blink after we stare too long at someone or something. Blinking rapidly as you describe it, could indicate nervousness and even panic

  • @AchillesRage501
    @AchillesRage501 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    its harder if you have a crush that is half the size of you and looks up

  • @dhammaboy1203
    @dhammaboy1203 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As someone with Autism - these subtleties are tricky. I'm going to look at these this week.

  • @Tray-5
    @Tray-5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is too much to remember. In my opinion, if she doesnt give eye contact, she is not interested. I am not taking the chance period.

    • @Deadpool-m2b
      @Deadpool-m2b 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes right eye contact is everything

  • @paaramjoy2878
    @paaramjoy2878 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Reduce background sound noises 😅😅😅nits annoying

  • @fadiga_fundz5946
    @fadiga_fundz5946 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She kept looking straight into my eyes for over 5 seconds while talking to me and as I was taking to her... What does it mean please??.. someone help me I love this girl alot.

    • @peterhansen5096
      @peterhansen5096 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That she's into you

  • @anthonycapili5055
    @anthonycapili5055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She often looks at me but without a smile. I don't know if she likes me or not.

    • @peterhansen5096
      @peterhansen5096 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because it would be too obvious if she smiles. She's trying to hide she likes you. She might be thinking: what if he doesn't smile back?

  • @cliveharman7237
    @cliveharman7237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interesting video,I've had women look at me while at work.

  • @BelowTheApron
    @BelowTheApron 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm overthinking it,

  • @JingVlogan
    @JingVlogan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why my husband staring at me side by side of my face during our conversation?

  • @kdlehel
    @kdlehel 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i never understanded this things. we are in 21 century and how in not posible to talk werbaly or comunicate or by writings on some sort. This sign and this body and eye contact communication i never understanded. Probably is the reason to i work in high technological and industrial environment.

  • @paulquick8806
    @paulquick8806 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't eyeball woman at the gym dude's... Let them eye ball you or approach...im 49...let nature take its course.. Forrest Gump said it best....

  • @nathantoth1527
    @nathantoth1527 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ha. At the 7:40+ mark , I thought you said if you want to bitch some more...binge! Ha!

  • @queenkaimikasa227
    @queenkaimikasa227 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is barely look a Gaze, quick glance and passerby gaze SAME?

  • @NoyonMalakar-rm3fc
    @NoyonMalakar-rm3fc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My crush looks at me from across the room and holds eye contact and comes close to me what does that mean HELP😊

  • @Ajan-X
    @Ajan-X 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a hetero male, i get somewhat uncomfortable when i get those lingering gays.

    • @L20241
      @L20241 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂

  • @abhishekraj8818
    @abhishekraj8818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Second comment Anna!!! Waah I'm so early today

  • @Kingflores150
    @Kingflores150 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There's this girl at the gym we always lock eyes, today she lock eyes, she looked away for a sec and lock eyes again with a smirk..

  • @Greenwitch_Garden
    @Greenwitch_Garden 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So happy my steady gaze with a smile at my crush was my first instinct ❤ and so glad he steady gazed right back.

  • @amberhibdon5981
    @amberhibdon5981 ปีที่แล้ว

    I realize I have sexual tension with my coworker

  • @who_is_dis
    @who_is_dis ปีที่แล้ว

    There's a bunch of other tells that are more obvious. I look at peoples mouths sometimes as I'm listening just to make out their words clearer.

  • @queenkaimikasa227
    @queenkaimikasa227 ปีที่แล้ว

    What are normal multiple quick glances quote and same exact time it's averted

  • @kiileetsoku2397
    @kiileetsoku2397 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is so insightful !

  • @minecraftgirlscreations9849
    @minecraftgirlscreations9849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely love her accent!

  • @henryoh4653
    @henryoh4653 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    the one looking away at 3 : 13 she seems to be a redhead but it looked like the video was editted to make it unnoticeable

  • @mohammadabu5061
    @mohammadabu5061 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    alhamdulillah great, from Bangladesh

  • @jaymedalbeth6962
    @jaymedalbeth6962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like your lipstick beautiful Anna!💄

    • @sloebone7399
      @sloebone7399 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Creepy

    • @jaymedalbeth6962
      @jaymedalbeth6962 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sloebone7399 Keep negative comments to yourself thank you

    • @stantheman4964
      @stantheman4964 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah smh in the world

  • @jdmans
    @jdmans 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Answer: No one, no where, no how, never happened, ever. case closed, no need for the video

  • @AchillesRage501
    @AchillesRage501 ปีที่แล้ว

    its different and much harder to tell at work if i had to guess up until i found out my crush is seeing someone i also work with her she would often use the lingering and the steady gaze possibly barely a look gaze also

  • @djoubayrouathie672
    @djoubayrouathie672 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Ana I’m happy with you always I wache ur video is very important ‘but I want to nkwo relationship distance how to I nkwo she love me we are not living together thank u good luck 👍

  • @kylekenan2321
    @kylekenan2321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What about the solid 20 second gaze?

    • @palps5190
      @palps5190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Feels so good man

    • @kenthepen4857
      @kenthepen4857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I managed a 10 second gaze (and a rather nice smile) off a lady I see occasionally. After watching Anna's video, I reckon things are looking up! (pun intended).

    • @kylekenan2321
      @kylekenan2321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kenthepen4857 nice!

    • @robogreek3157
      @robogreek3157 ปีที่แล้ว

      what the hell would be stair that long for without approaching? thats weird

    • @kylekenan2321
      @kylekenan2321 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@robogreek3157 we were sitting across from each other at a table and already knew each other.

  • @elouaililili
    @elouaililili ปีที่แล้ว

    Some of these can go either way, watchout :D

  • @zataman
    @zataman 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was sitting across the table from a girl who just gave me stare. Eyes were fixed on me and pupils we're not dialated

  • @cristianprieto9248
    @cristianprieto9248 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Umm excuse me . Can u tell em where u learned that frm.. ?

  • @JohnnyBravo-se5gz
    @JohnnyBravo-se5gz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent video, lots of info to digest.

  • @Lifeline_drone
    @Lifeline_drone ปีที่แล้ว

    She just locks her eyes on me and doesn’t look away but doesn’t smile idk

    • @peterhansen5096
      @peterhansen5096 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Because she might be thinking: what if you don't smile back! Some girls won't show the obvious so a long stare with a neutral face might be her careful way to tell you something

  • @gloriousforever3451
    @gloriousforever3451 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bianey🤤

  • @rsuresh8602
    @rsuresh8602 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks

  • @humphreykarua5241
    @humphreykarua5241 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks a lot madam under ot

  • @mikes7446
    @mikes7446 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hip hip cheeriO

  • @chriswalls5831
    @chriswalls5831 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let's get it

  • @chaosdromanah8620
    @chaosdromanah8620 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🖒🖒🖒

  • @talltree4252
    @talltree4252 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Being attractive is of a precautious approach of high unpredictable emotional sensitive Intangible reaction of utmost behaviour...

  • @peloi111
    @peloi111 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Here because of this thing between my second cousin and myself.🤡

  • @rusherthapa9413
    @rusherthapa9413 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you ❤ You look so pretty 😍 😍