INNER CHILD HEALING EXPLAINED | Why Heal The Inner Child? | Wu Wei Wisdom
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☯️ EPISODE # 08 of our ‘Life Lessons’ teaching series
In this series Taoist monk and therapist, David James Lees, and wellbeing coach, Alexandra Lees, answer questions about YOUR life challenges and offer inspirational guidance and support to help you live in BALANCE, HARMONY and FLOW.
✅ IN THIS EPISODE:
Discover our practical, no-nonsense advice on the TRUE PURPOSE & BENEFITS of healing the Inner Child.
In this episode we answer the following questions:
~ Why do I need to heal my Inner Child? Understanding the Inner Child’s ‘VOW’ and ‘LIES’ that keep it stuck.
~ Is forgiveness part of the Inner Child Healing process?
~ How will I know when the Inner Child is communicating through my self-talk?
~ Is my Inner Child is fighting against me? Can I eliminate the Inner Child?
~ What happens when I heal the Inner Child? What are the benefits of Inner Child healing?
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Where does the chemical imbalance come in.
Hi Betty,
Thanks for your question.
The concept of a chemical imbalance that most people refer to are those released by your adrenal glands a surge of hormones including adrenaline, cortisol with increases heart rate and elevates blood pressure. Some people also refer to it as 'fight or flight'.
The Inner Child work is understanding the 'switch' or start of the process which has its roots in what you think or believe.
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David
Thank you so much for your insightful inner child videos. This is all very new as the doors have been firmly locked. It's now time !! Supernanny illustration resonated .One very angry reaction.
Im 40 years old and realized last night that my inner child has been running my life. Wow. This is extremely painful but freeing at tge same time. I have alot of work to do within myself for emotional and psychological healing. Damn.
Hi Keysha,
Great realisation, well done!
Enjoy the journey make it fun for you and you Inner Child :-)
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@@WuWeiWisdom Thank you! I will!
Thank you both. I pray that you both get a show, so that everyone can heal. The world is in choas and pain because of this...the inner child.
Thank you Maureen... we appreciate your support and for being our cheerleader! :) x
What’s stopping me from expressing my creativity: Jazz piano: not being good enough, how it may make people feel as they compare themselves to me and judge themselves as not good enough, that I might be disturbing someone with my music (not everyone likes jazz), the vow that I will only play for myself when no one else is there to listen. Football/soccer (how it might make others feel as they compare themselves to me, no one likes the ball being put through their legs, not being good enough, fear of making mistakes (which can result in a conceded goal), the vow that I will give the ball most often to other team mates so they can shine e.g. score a goal instead of me. Another fantastic video thanks - perhaps one of the most important ones for me so far. time to check out that inner child meditation.
My inner child says thank you so much and give you both a big big hug. Thank you so much, she was crying but she now know that she has to accept what happened to her past and get on the rollercoaster called life and roll with it. Thank you so much Alex and David, i am so happy to read your email and cannot wait to working with David. Stay blessed and stay safe
I like the way you have explained the inner child as I find as a Therapist that many clients find the inner child concepts confusing.
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Kind regards, David.
One day everyone will discover David and Alex because I think this is most profound work everyone needs to undertake before anything else, iam just so lucky I feel to have found you. Thank you universe.
So amazing! I was just wanting to find out yesterday how to heal my inner child and I came across this video today. Thank you so much! You both are wonderful, and so relatable.
Hi Keli - thanks so much for watching and commenting! If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos.
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Alex & David x
Thank you so much you are really making a huge difference to many of us!!
This video is bringing me to tears over and over again. I realized today that i was at constant power strugle with my inner child until today in my year long spiritual practice like its a bad entity.
Hi Zeeshan you Inner Child is not your enemy, it is just a frightened and misunderstood child. It want your love and attention and for you to show it the authentic way. You can do this!
Have you watched our other Inner Child videos?
• The Inner Child Explained: How to Love, Guide + Heal Your Inner Child ➜ th-cam.com/video/BM0lmfBlE2E/w-d-xo.html
• Inner Child Healing for Love Addiction, Codependency & Codependent Relationships ➜ th-cam.com/video/J1olSZ1wyz0/w-d-xo.html
• Reparenting Your Inner Child (Part 1) ➜ th-cam.com/video/SndWtblVf2U/w-d-xo.html
• Reparenting Your Inner Child (Part 2) ➜ th-cam.com/video/BYUxAQYpsKg/w-d-xo.html
• Inner Child Meditation - with Full Body Relaxation ➜ th-cam.com/video/2lhnEm8VCyM/w-d-xo.html
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Alex & David x
I love these videos! They’re really shifting me. I find my inner child locks down once I uncover a lie and tells me she’s deeply ashamed of being wrong and would rather shut down than risk being criticised again. Really really amazing work xx god bless you both !
Thank you Karen!
Please check out our Inner Child video playlist as we have lots more helpful teachings on there: th-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq.html
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WOW! Thank you for the video. I love that you are so detailed about this topic, because I find it so essential. I am on the journey of reparenting my child, that's why me and my inner child are very thrilled about your new videos. :) Hugs from Serbia
Hi Jovana, glad you have found us :)
Thanks for watching and for taking the time to comment - we really appreciate it!
We have lots of videos on the Inner Child - this would be a good place to begin:: th-cam.com/video/BM0lmfBlE2E/w-d-xo.html
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Sending positive Qi to you in Serbia!
Alex & David x
The work you guys are doing is so amazing 👍🏽
Thanks for your kind words... we really appreciate your support!
If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos.
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Alex & David x
Your so Amazing for so many people guys.. thankyou so much for all you do.. been meditating/doing sleep hypnosis now each night for 5 years plus but nothing has ever helped me start to realise all you explain so well & in detail we all relate to along the way... I'll 100% take on your wise words in my everydays life but can't promise my brain will easily cope with the adjustment of thinking in way it has 37 yrs now...& definitely not with the endless amounts of traumas/grievances/hard times etc along the ways we live each day (all burying our inner child & all the fears from childhood that caused this all for us)
Thanks so much for your love..support..& caring enough for everybody needing this as i do xx
Hi Lou Lou, thanks for your kind feedback!
If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos.
If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our TH-cam Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ th-cam.com/users/wuweiwisdom
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Alex & David x
If you'd like to learn more about our unique approach to the Inner Child, we also have a full-length mp3 teaching album on this subject (includes a guided Inner Child meditation): 'Oneness ~ Loving & Healing Your Inner Child' - available here ➜ www.wuweiwisdom.com/shop/
Another great video on inner child work!
Thanks so much for watching Kai - we really appreciate your support! x
thank you 🌹🌹
Amazing video.
Thank you
You are both awesome too 💗💙🙏🏼
Thanks Lizzie - don't forget you can post any questions here too! :)
Another amazing video I'm lost for words
Oh thanks Raven.... as always, we appreciate your feedback and support! x
Brilliant!! I wish.......I could!!
You will recognize your inner child when you go into a toxic relationship and your inner child will literally break down hysterically, that’s what I experienced it’s like the person I was dealing with triggered my emotions from childhood and looking back it just came back to me..
So what you’re saying is we don’t use the words “I feel” but instead “I think” when addressing things?
I don’t think many people can control the inner child especially when it’s not healed
David you are literally speaking to my inner child
There is nothing more liberating then being responsible for your own feelings, creating your own happiness in yourself and having this peaceful bliss and once you understand this you will know what life is about - the only person you need is you ( this is why I am happier alone and relationships only bring me down)
But the only way to be with someone is if they’re adding to your happiness
Hi Jasmine,
Thanks for your share.
Yes, the Life Lesson is about teaching that part of your mind we are labelling your Inner Child that she creates her emotions, she is NOT the victim of them.
Situations, events and people will be challenging and dysfunctional, how you address them is your unique spiritual journey.
No one can trigger you if you refuse to be triggered.
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David
You are brilliant ,you reach core reason behind behavior pattern cognitive errors and spiritual guidence,i want to say much but cannot put in words
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Kind regards, David.
It's been over a week working threw inner child,also 30 yrs of counsel on medication as well
Thanks for sharing
You're welcome. Thanks for watching and commenting - we really appreciate it! :)
Alex + David x
Love you guys, tough love spoken how it is! Completely agree, the more creative you are expressing your true passions the more at one you become with your inner child
Hi Jason, thanks for your kind feedback - we're glad you enjoyed the video.
In what ways does your Inner Child like to express his/your creativity?
@@WuWeiWisdom A bit like you I love creating videos, i have another gaming channel, coming up for 4k subs its taken 2 years, but i love it so much its allowed my inner child to slowly come out and express himself with confidence! I absolutely love and resonate with this inner child analogy :)
@@jayong1977 that's great to hear - good luck with your channel... YT can be fun! :)
Love all your videos. They have helped me so much thank you ❤️
Hi Katy - good to hear the videos are helping you!
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Alex & David x
@@WuWeiWisdom I actually be very interested in hearing your insight on narcissistic parenting, and recovering from that childhood experience.
@@bjork914
Thanks for your suggestion for a future video. We will put it on our upcoming list of subjects.
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David
I like your 'Diane Keaton' looking smile 😊
What is stopping me? Fear of abandonment again. Although I have a huge background of abuse, sexual and emotional, verbal, abandonment seems to be my biggest issues. As far as feelings go? I don't feel much. I feel hurt, and depression. I do not know when I am angry. I have no clue what that feels like. I am 50 and still look outside for a mom and I find them, only to be abandoned again. Even by professionals.
Hello Candace,
Thanks for your comments.
As we said on the video what you have explained is concerning self-responsibility. When you do this you feelings and emotions will change.
You cannot abandon yourself!
Although you say you do not feel much, you then go on to explain just how much feelings are running your life: fear, hurt, depression etc.
Please have another look at our videos on the Inner Child work, then ask yourself why you are still searching for outside validation and support? This video may be a good place to begin:
th-cam.com/video/J1olSZ1wyz0/w-d-xo.html
Why don't you consider joining our free Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
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David
Thx
You're welcome Betty - we're glad you enjoyed the video! x
Hello to you lovely people. I am so thankful that I came across your channel. I have a question, how can i recognize the voice of my inner child?
Hi Tania
Thanks for watching and commenting!
Here's our Inner Child video playlist: th-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq.html
On there you'll find lots of videos which explain the many different ways the Inner Child may manifest and it's typical 'voice' or characteristics.
These videos, in particular, may help: th-cam.com/video/_WazOFj7V6k/w-d-xo.html / th-cam.com/video/48KB46G_F6Y/w-d-xo.html
Alex + David x
After I know that Me and my little child believe that what happened in the past is not fair to us What’s the next step?
Hi David and Alex😀 I know the answer😀 this is my second comment posted as a question to which I had an answer the moment I sent it.
You always know the #truth ;-) x
Hi David and Alex. How do I forgive. On a conscious level I say and I want to forgive. I know that holding to a resentment does not help me. There is another level to forgiveness that I don’t have an access to. How to truly , once and for all forgive and move on? Thank you ☺️
This is such a strong and powerful video. It is just what I needed. Thank you so much !
Hi Evian.... we know you have now answered your own question (above)!
If you have more questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos.
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Alex & David x
@@joanbartolo3473 thank you as always! x
I get red light feelings about being lonely and feeling worthless. Do all red lighy feelings come from your inner child?
Hi Mildred, the red light feelings come from an inauthentic core belief that your inner child is still clinging to, such as: I'm not good enough... I can't cope... I'm unlovable...
Alex + David x
Come from 11 family sibling,, alcohol ,,being strapped,,I'm 60
Hello David,
I am confused. It seems the dominant purpose of developing this connection with your inner child is to learn to the gain the power and autonomy arising out of one's ability to accept responsibility. However, you've begun this discussion by pointing out that a child has experiences that are emotionally overwhelming and very disorganizing. The child then makes a vow (incorrectly, you imply) that their must be something wrong with him or her. But isn't this vow, this stating that "I am to blame," the first instance of a child's taking responsibility? I mean, when I think of someone's accepting responsibility, I usually think of them accepting blame. I have a suspicion of where I might be confused, if at all, but I would like to hear your take on this apparent inconsistency.
(Sorry, but as I continue watching I feel prompted to add to this.) I should mention that I have dealt with addiction to benzodiazapines for over twenty years. In the recovery scene, what you find is a seemingly inveterate and stubborn refusal to acknowledge that one's behaviors arose out of oneself. In other words, among addicts and alcoholics, what you often find is a fierce aversion to acknowledging that your problem isn't your parents, or the police, of the judges and lawyers and corrections officers, or your girlfriend's (or lack thereof); rather, your problem is centered in you. In short, we see a fierce aversion to acknowledging that there is indeed something wrong with me. Once that crucial insight is acheived, the process of recovery can then begin. Then again, on a deeper note, I should point out that the underlying motive for taking the drugs or alcohol is the desire to "fix" me in some way, which of course presupposes my awareness, however dim, that there is something wrong with me. So we end up with both addiction and recovery therefrom being rooted in the tangled web of thoughts about whether there is something wrong with oneself.
But the basic thinking seems to rest on the following syllogism:
There is something wrong with me. If there is something wrong with me, then I ought to change me. I can easily change me by ingesting chemicals or by the more difficult route prescribed in, say, the Twelve Steps. Therefore, I must change what is wrong with me by ingesting chemicals or by changing my lifestyle.
In this view, the notion that there is something wrong with me becomes the seed from which the personality is encouraged to change, to grow, to mature and blossom into the fullest expression of its highest potential. In other words, if I am enough as I am, if there is nothing wrong with me, then what is left to motivate me to change and grow?
Hi Bruce,
Thanks for your question - I'm replying here to your original (unedited) version...
A vow is a solemn promise committing yourself to a prescribed role or course of action. So, saying there's something wrong with me or I am to blame becomes your prescribed role and course of action for the rest of your life unless it is challenged and changed.
Taking responsibility does not equate to taking the blame. Taking responsibility in the Wu Wei Wisdom Inner Child process is about having authentic personal integrity, speaking and acting with truth and honesty.
You would have to supply more details for when you consider a child responsible or should be blamed for the actions and resulting circumstances created by adults or events out of their control.
I do not see any inconsistency in this teaching.
I hope that explanation helps with your meditations.
David
After I know that Me and my little child believe that what happened in the past is not fair to us What’s the next step?
You need to learn a life leason that life is never perfect. Thing don't happen according to us. Bad things should not happen but in reality these things happen, thus we need to learn how to deal with it without blaming ourself.