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I am always saying WE GOT THIS in real life and online. We all have our own struggles and I believe we can get through anything together. When I was diagnosed with cancer in September, I thought this was my own struggle but I realised my cancer has affected everyone around me. I am a daughter, a girlfriend, a sister, a friend, a cousin, a grand daughter & more. I know my journey has affected everyone around me and I know now more than ever that I have no choice but to get better. Whatever life throws at us, we are going to get through it together. We Got This
love you lots xxx WE GOT THIS
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY my loving tiffanythinks family. I feel like everyday is love day, I love you a lot a lot a lot. I feel like I need to start loving myself, my mind and my body. Thank you for being so understanding that I need time for myself. we got this💙 IG, FB & TikTok: @tiffanythinks. Subscribe💙
Hope you and Matt are having a wonderful Valentines Day! 💙💙
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Happy valentines day Tiffany and matt 💞
You've got this tiff 💙💙💙
And a pinch of salt on the egg??!! 😋
Evening tiffany amma and matt
Such a great vlog as always and tiff u r looking better every day and we just love that u r keeping us informed and we love u 4 that cos we care💙💙💙
Did matt buy u anything nice 4 ur valentines day?
Did u get the pressys and card i sent u cos i sent another one b4 and i dont no if u got it
Give amma and matt my love as they r amazing and so caring
Love u guys💙💙💙✔️✔️✔️
When my daughter was going through chemo 14 yrs. ago at 39 for st.3 colon cancer she asked me to make her soft boiled egg with broken up pieces of bread mixed in it. She has been cancer free..she had a colonoscopy the other day and is clear.
We got this, Tiff.❤❤❤
I'm so glad your daughter is cancer free!
Happy for your daughter, great news.
@@susanfleming496 thank you...me too.
So happy for your daughter and for you too XXXX
Amazing💙
Tiff, I’m a young viewer battling a disease and sometimes I don’t think I can fight anymore. But then I think, “If Tiffany can fight, then so can I.” Thank you for your smile and your joy. 🦋🦋🦋💙💙💙
Praying 🙏 for you
You Got This! Praying for you and your relief and healing in Jesus name I pray 🙏🏻
Praying for u 🙏🏻
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Sending you so much love and positive energy. Stay strong, you’ll look back and be so proud of yourself x
I really am so grateful to see Matt standing with Tiffany through this difficult journey, I must admit he's a supportive partner, not everyone will stay during tough times ,but indeed he is a God sent to Tiffany ☺️ not forgetting Tiffany's Mom 😭 she's a Mom that anyone would wish to have
Amen!!
I feel like whoever would leave their long-term partner due to them having cancer would be a huge asshole tbf, I like to believe that the majority of people aren't absolute assholes. I think men tend to get credited for not leaving their partners in difficult times way more than vice versa which is worth pointing out, but either way they both seem like the most wonderful people
It’s what a true partner should do. It’s love. We stand by those we love. We don’t cower and run. We stand firm by those we truly care about.
@@mialia15104 I agree with you, i really do, however it is a type of cancer with life long changes, i think that is what the other person may have meant, i think it takes a very strong/special person to deal with what Tiff is going to have to deal with, if you know what i mean!! I have a feeling unfortunately not all men could deal with that, no matter how much they wanted to!!
Matt really is one in a million, but so is Tiff!
@@mialia15104 it happened to my friend who sadly passed aged 33 from cancer. Her husband cheated on her because he said, ‘he couldn’t cope’ 🤬
Tiffany, you might ask the medical team about how you monitor for depression vs the normal process of recovery. You actually have experienced a form of trauma and a lot of loss over this past year. It would be understandable if your mental health needs as much support and healing as your physical health. 💙
I think this is a great idea to find out what the normal highs and lows of recovery should be vs anything that might be more of a depression. Have they offered you any therapy for all you are going through??❤xxx
And thrown into menopause!
Fantastic comment 👏.
Excellent suggestion 👏🫂
Absolutely 💙
Grieving your life before all of this is so hard, but it’s okay. Most people feel that way when something big in your life changes. I still feel it after being diagnosed and being on disability for several years. You are doing so well recovering. I hope you’re able to take time to deal with the mental and emotional part of things. You have a bright future ahead.
Hey Jesus (God) can help you you just have to believe in what He's done on the cross and turn from your sins.
If you don't have faith then this video might help you. It's kind of long but even if you only watch a little bit it's worth it. He's a good teacher empowered by God.
Mike winger prophecies that Jesus fulfilled evidence for the Bible pt10
I hope your okay 🙂
You are so right. I once said to a specialist that I just want to feel like I did before the illness. I try not to think about it but it's not easy. Tiffany is so brave and strong and has the best family support one can ask for. We will all be ok. Happy Valentine's Day to Tiffany and all her supporters.
I agree. I mean I was born with a neuromuscular disease and have been ill all my life and I still grieve the life I wish I'd had. It's totally normal to wish for a healthy life.
@@ew7512 hello Ellen. Your reply touched my heart so. There are tears running down. I wish you all the best ( not sure what to say here), just know, I care, Susan
@@charlotteroblin5374 mike winger is an excellent teacher
Girl, we can’t wait to hear an update from you in real time and see how far you’ve come. It’s amazing the strength you have in these videos. All the love to you on your COMPLETE HEALING journey ❤️
Please can you let us know your histology results were all waiting and hoping for the best. I don’t think it’s right to not tell us as you must know by now. Thank you 🙏
@@amill7917 maybe she will when she's ready. She doesn't HAVE to share everything with us.
Please let her heal and take her time. She can share as much, or as little whatever she feels comfortable with. You are doing so well Tiffany ❤
@@amill7917It’s actually not right to demand information like that from anyone. She has a right to keep private anything she wants to…being on TH-cam doesn’t mean she can’t some things to herself while she copes with them.
@@paulineparry214 💙 I agree!
As an Oncology you can't see how GREAT you are doing after this complex surgery. Keep your eye on the prize because YOU GOT THIS!!!! Happy Valentines Day to you and your family. Love and Prayers Nancy
Oh darlin! I'm a retired flight nurse and I have a neurological disease that is known as the suicide disease because it's so painful. Pain can be just as debilitating, maybe more, than anything else we face. Listen to your body and don't be afraid to Speak up if your current method of pain control isn't enough. There are so many options for pain control. You aren't being weak.....speak up and ask for help. Praying for you! Have a blessed day!
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Yes Tiffany, speak up if you think you’re having too much pain! I’m not a medical person but I’m sure there’s something they can give you. Praying 🙏🏽 for your comfort sweet girl. Oh! Happy Valentine’s Day ❤️
@@tonijordan4221 someone in the comments thinks she's on too much pain medication and becoming addicted.
Do you have Crps? I also have it
Cheers from your friend in Toronto Canada 🇨🇦 I haven’t been able to comment for a while now & usually I do but i’ve been so unwell lately & having loads of tests for esophageal cancer. You are my inspiration Tiffany & honestly I want to say thank you so very much for sharing your cancer journey for the world to see because you are helping me & so many others by showing us that we too can overcome the hurdles & challenges that life is throwing at us. Your honesty, courage & vulnerability just proves that you got this & now I’ve got this too! You’re fighting for your life with everything you have been through & I know that everyday you are getting stronger & your journey will all be in the past one day! I pray 🙏🏼 for your health every single night & thanks to you I’m able to see the light at the end of the tunnel! You might not feel it everyday Tiffany but you are winning your battle with cancer & I know that you will be cancer free one day & do your boomerang dance in front of the hospital! Sending you a big hug from Susan, your friend always ❤ WE GOT THIS 💙 2:23
@@nettyjads5620 tysm ♥️ very kind of you!
I’ll be praying for you Susan. Keep the faith. Hugs from Reno Nevada.
@@Sedgies Tysm ❤️ my endoscopy is this saturday at 11am, I appreciate the prayers 🙏🏼
prayers for you from fellow Canadian ( Victoria,) you are part of tiffany thinks family, so you have our support too. We've got this goes for you too💙🙏
@@sandiriddett877 Thank you so much Sandi, so kind & thoughtful of you! I appreciate your support, it really means a lot to me ❤️🇨🇦
Hi our sweet Tiffany. I found your channel about a week ago. My heart goes out to you! I can't even imagine what you are going through and at such a young age. I love your positivity and your families support!! Honestly that's half the battle. My dad passed away from stomach cancer on March 20,2005. We found his cancer by accident and when we found it , it was stage 4 and the poorest grade you could possible have. He always went for his check ups and did all the age appropriate test. Nothing showed it and the symptoms he had was a stomach ache but nothing out of the ordinary. He was 70 when he passed. I was his caregiver. I have 3 sons and they were young at the time, plus I worked 2 jobs as being a single mom. Please never feel like a burden because you can't do things for yourself!!!! My dad felt the same way, and after we had a long talk he understood how I felt and he never felt like that again. I was always very close with my daddy. He was my everything. As tired as I was, there was never anything I wouldn't do for him!!! It was my privilege to care for him and give us both peace of mind knowing he was cared for in the best way possible. His every need was taken cared of by the people who loved him. We did in home hospice for him. How amazing it was for me..his daughter, ...his family...knowing that we gave him all the love, comfort and peace of mind till he moved on to a better place. I never regretted doing that for a single second. Your situation is temporary, your body has gone through so much...I know its hard for you but please give it the time it needs to heal and don't feel like a burden. Moma and Matt (by the way one of my sons is named Matt) want to help you, they love you more than you'll ever know. Focus on all the things that your able to do since the surgery and the things you will continue to do. One day soon you'll be able to do everything for yourself!!! My dads oncologist told us that having a positive attitude makes the body heal faster. He said when people aren't positive their bodies don't heal properly. He said that they have done studies on this. So keep that beautiful smile on your face and keep having positive thoughts. Let you sweet Darling Matt and your beautiful Moma take care of you. That's their job!!! Thats what makes them happy, knowing your getting the best care possible!!! Oh, by the way I live in NYC. I'm sorry this is so long, but wanted to maybe make you feel a little bit better. I'll be watching your process and will be praying for a speedy recovery for you. Happy Valentines Day sweet Tiffany!!!
I’m 64 and have been dealing with health problems for a long time! Watching your cancer journey for a bit. Your strength is amazing and I have nothing to complain about! Healing prayers dear Tiffany!
If we could’ve all had a mama like Amma, there would be little childhood trauma in the world 💙
I agree
This is so true!!
We’ve got this Tiffany!!! 💙💙💙
I think of you so often. Please know how much your TH-cam mail cares about you.
Happy Valentine's Day. A difficult one for me as my husband of 30 years died in Dec 2021, but I am getting through it. Am glad you decided to wear your seat belt in the car, even if it's difficult, as it is the driver who will get into trouble if stopped and passengers are not wearing one. I'm sure you wouldn't want that. If you can't manage it, you should definitely ask for hospital transport. Wishing you a continued safe and speedy recovery
Sorry to here about your partner Jayne. ❤️❤️❤️
Let’s not nitpick everything Tiffany does. She’s having a hard enough time. She’s an adult not a five year old. Wearing a seat belt or not is her choice. Please be a little more considerate.
@@dianaray1470 Says some Busybody nitpicking someone else's comment~Major Eye Roll:(
@@jaynekittycat9252 Thank you
Prayers for you
Dearest Tiffany, Amma, and Matt; I cannot imagine how difficult and painful, both physically and emotionally, these days and hours are. Only you truly do as you are living through them. Tiffany, my dear sister had rectal cancer and had her rectum and colon removed. During her recovery she used a medium sized authentic sheep skin under her bottom while sitting, and under her body when lying down in bed. She had a tiny body and we (myself and family, her support system) believe it prevented pressure sores and helped her be more comfortable after release from hospital. You are such a dear, dear woman and I pray that God, our heavenly Father shows you great favour and peace today and in the days ahead as you heal. Sharon G., Canada 🇨🇦 XOXOXO
As a nurse, authentic sheepskin was the primary thing we used to prevent bedsores. But I did nurse in Canada so maybe it’s a Canadian thing? It sure did work, kept the area dry and with good blood flow.
🙏🏻❤️from Montreal
@@laurelldockall2399 it's huge in Australia. Sheep skins are used right through the health system. In the last months of her life, my Mother lay on a sheep skin, apart from the therapeutic benefit, she loved the softness and comfort.
Hi, Tiffany, please don’t neglect your mental health, it’s ok to be strong but that can take it’s toll. It is sometimes better to talk to somebody other than family so you don’t have to worry about their feelings. I didn’t open up and it took me five years to recover mentally. Physically I recovered within a year from three operations including a stoma, thankfully I was able to have a reversal. Had a large mass removed plus total hysterectomy after twenty one days found out it was not cancer, which was a big relief. Best wishes to all of you.
My goodness, you’ve come so far. You’ve really not had an easy time of it, and I’m sure you’ve sometimes wondered how you’d manage ... but you’re doing it, you’ve done it, you’ve made so so much progress. Overcoming one obstacle at a time. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Remember to go easy on yourself, and give yourself credit for everything you’ve achieved, everything you’ve battled thru. You are a force to be reckoned with, Tiff, even when you don’t fully feel like it! You’re stronger than you even know. Hang in there, girl!!!! 💙💙💙💙💙
Matt showering you with kisses has to be one of my top 10 most favourite Tiffanythinks moments so far!
I'm so sorry you are experiencing pain. I put a small pillow in between my legs when I sleep on my side it helps keep the pressure from my hip area. ❤
Great advice, Betty.
Me too Betty, helps so much 💝
Me as well. Sleeping on side isnt always comfortable
So good to see you a bit more relaxed at the end, you are doing so well!! The trouble with coming home so quickly after surgery is that even though you KNOW you're recovering and expect to not do things, subconsciously your brain wants to do all the normal things you'd do at home. Whereas when you're in the hospital you aren't in that familiar environment, you don't go to do all the little normal things especially as you're surrounded by all the staff that are there to do them for you. It's still such early days, but every day, week, month is a step closer to being more normal, as you said.
Sending love and a gentle hug, keep your chin up and know we're all behind you, supporting from afar. We got this 💙
I am holding a lot of love and light for you, Tiffany.
Will we get to know about your results soon. I am so anxious to hear that you are cancer free! 💙
It has been a little over a year since my surgeries. Somewhat similar surgery but very different conditions. I am just now starting to recover. I feel 75 percent better. I still have bad days. I am not going to lie I have lots of new issues with my stomach and pain. I still don't have the strength I had before. Lots of problems with absorbing nutrition. But you adapt. I am still getting better everyday. 🙂 I am just so grateful to be alive! This is what keeps me going through the bad days! Each day you will get stronger. Your body needs lots of time to heal! I wish you could understand how well you are doing! 💙💙💙
HappyValentines day Tiffany & Matt. One step at a time Tiffany. I’m sure your probably slightly horrified at the extent of your scars, in time they will fade and settle down. Be proud of your body & the scars, they are a testament to your journey battling cancer. Sending loads of love & best wishes 💙💙💙
I have a large scar on my forehead from skin cancer and a couple of other places on my body. I also had pre cancer cut out in my 20's of my (visable with summer shirts) still "sexy at 60" breasts. I didn't hesitate to have my face cut on and don't wear makeup. I never tried to cover my breast scar. I'm simply grateful I don't have cancer today, and I think most people going through cancer feel the same. Some people learn the important things in life earlier than others. Tiffany said recently, "I don't care.", in regards to her hair being a mess. It's refreshing in this time of "influencers" who portray a "perfect" (mostly unattainable for most) life. We shouldn't be living our lives by other people's standards, and I love that Tiffany gets that. How miserable would that be? It's so liberating!
Your so strong. Love u!
I had 2 big surgeries few months ago. Not cancer related. Best advice I got from my physical therapist was “u will have good days. Then u will feel tired, fatigued, swollen, depressed. Just rest & go with it. It is all part of the healing process.” He was so right.
It's a lovely that your home with your beautiful mum and gorgeous Matt, to hear you all laughing and just being together is great for your healing. Love you all lots xxx💙
I love how aama and Matt laugh together it’s so lovely x
My mum was told to use sheep wool under her when she had surgery … Hospital told her it would help with bed sores and wld help when she was only able to lay on her sides … So happy for you that the car ride worked out, must have been stressful to think about the drive beforehand… Much love Tiffany💙💙💙💙💙
Do you want to know how to say thank you sweetheart? Just keep on getting WELL!!! You have absolutely no idea what an inspiration you have been and continue to be. You show the importance of faith and family in situations like this, with no apologies! I always see a smile on your face...and that smile, through ALL situations ..says it all. God bless my dear, and know that we all love you.
I’m so glad you’re seeing your surgeon. I wouldn’t want to wait either.
Watching you taking baby steps towards recovery gives us immense happiness... Bless u dear Tiffany 💙
TO ALL WATCHING: Please remember, the care givers go through a lot of stress. They get exhausted too, please pray for them too and never forget them! It is exhausting. They love so much, but as well, they forget their needs. Love and thank you to ALL care givers!!!! We got you too!!!
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY TO YOU, MATT AND AMMA!! We love you all. I am so glad yjou got a good report from the surgeon today. It will take time for you to fully recover so take it slow. WE GOT THIS!!! Enjoy all your cards and letters - well deserved.
Hi Tiffany, You are really in the very early stages of recovery. I remember my brother took a full year to recover and go back to work. He also had a colostomy and his friend took him to his appointments while Tom rode in the back of the station wagon on his stomach. I can’t believe how quickly you were discharged. My brother was in for about 6 weeks. Has anyone talked about a supplement drink for you, so you don’t get run down nutritionally. It takes a lot for our bodies to heal. You are an amazing young woman. I’m so glad you have your mom and Matt to support you. Get lots of sleep and nutrition. I’m rooting for you and your recovery.
TIFF, you Got This!!!! You took that step to do what you had to do to get better!!! Whatever has changed in your body for the new norm, is better than worrying about the cancer!!!my husband had prostate cancer and its been 6mos since the surgery, and he thank God is cancer free. The pain only lasts for so long, and you have a lifetime to only remember the pain. You are the strongest woman I know!! You totally got this!!! Love and Happy Valentines Day to you all!!!
Sending you a gentle hug. You are a trooper. You got this.
It may not make the pain better but seeing the surgeon and knowing things r as they should b will give u some peace of mind! Keep hanging n there Tiffany! We r all praying for u🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
Saying Thank you, is enough!! Don't worry yourself about showing your appreciation. We know you are very humble, Tiffany. 💙💙💙
I had an incredibly painful major leg surgery in November and car journeys were the worst. Every jolt and bump so I really really empathise as your surgery was so much bigger than mine. Sending hugs 🫂 xx
Tiffany, I needed to see this this morning. I have advanced Chrons and it’s seven years later. Your trio of love give me strength and encouragement on days it’s tough. Blessings darling. You are well on your way!!!!
Your strength and courage is unbelievable. I am so thankful that you documented this journey. It's a real look at recovery and the long road ahead. You remain so sweet and beautiful throughout this whole journey. I can't wait to see you in real time. I hope you've been able to pass the painful part and are your bubbly kind self. I hope you are eating and gaining and becoming stronger each day. You have the most beautiful smile. Blessings to you, your darling Matt and your mom. What a trio of super heroes!!
Happy Valentine’s Day to you and Matt…Allow yourself time to heal physically and mentally..Sending warm hugs ..🤗
Tiff, you have to remember you've had MAJOR MAJOR surgery. Don't push yourself to hard,the pain and tiredness will make you depressed from time to time,It will take 6 months at best for the wounds to heal enough to be really comfortable and for a 12 HR anaesthetic,morphine pain killers not eating for a long time it will be 12 months. Every day is a day further away from the op, and you'll never never have to go through anything so awful again.👍👍👍😃😃😃😃 Find foods and treats that are ok for you and tuck in.( Slowly of course) Every day is another victory. Sleep too ,you've a lot of lost sleep to make up for.😘
Happy Valentines Day Tiffany. ❤I’m glad to see you are doing well. I hope you continue healing. Wishing you and Matt, and your mother lots of happiness and love. 💝
You are doing great... one day and one step at a time. Healing from such a huge surgery is going to take time, so don't rush it. Besides, you are already ahead of the game by being at home. I once had a huge surgery and was in the hospital for 3 weeks. I too was told that my total recovery would take at least a year. Slow and steady... WE GOT THIS - and with all the support from all of us and your incredible family, you are going to get through this.
🌸💙Happy Valentine’s Day to you three, Tiffany, Matt and Amma from America!. You are each precious and extraordinary, kind and most brave. Tiffany, my heart really aches for the pain and feelings of loss,including the feelings of emotional loss that you may be enduring. My heart smiles for the understanding that the healing that eventually time will bring really does exist…even though time can really bounce us around, staying the course helps, in whatever way you view your course.
My surgeries as a younger woman were similar although not as extensive. I’m more grateful and empathetic of a person now in my 6th decade, yet I went through difficult times to Genuinely,Truly ‘feel it’ within myself. Times between exhaustion and physical pain, and a body that to me felt and looked so out of whack; it was ‘what the ‘bleep’ to do? I grew to realize that often I was, ‘Gratefully Angry/Sad/Afraid’. It took time. I believe time is on your side. As your mind reels, maybe try…think about trying, something I still find useful. Try repeating often to self almost like a mantra, “Do the next right thing”. That can mean anything from brushing hair to from you eyes as you prepare to nap, to lifting a spoon. From shifting position to climbing a flight of stairs. ( And Dear girl,that many stairs is a huge victory🙂!!!) “ And victories can change, setbacks, or moving forward. Take a few seconds to ask/tell yourself,“ to do next right thing” helps keep thoughts zoned in on the present moment. Literally, moment by moment. I know you and, Matt and Amma know this, for me at least, it took a lot of concentration to focus in that way.
Thank you for being the inspiration you are Tiffany! My apologies if I sound pushy. I pray and believe that each of you three amazing people continue to heal in all ways. You have probably have heard this,still I share: “When we change the way we look at things,the things we look at change.” 💙We Got This💙 Love to you!
I absolutely adore Matt’s laugh! That initial burst of laughter gets me every time! Love it!😂❤ Praying for your continued healing and strength. Praying for Matt and Uma too, as caregivers. ❤️🙏🏾
Hi my darling. It's absolutely ok to grieve your old life. It's all new and you're not used to it yet. You've been through so much. Be angry, be sad...be whatever you need at the moment. You can feel fine and a second later you feel like screaming. Emotions can come in waves, let them all out. Don't let them build up inside. No one will judge you. There's nothing you can do or say that make us love you less 💙💙. I wish I could tell you when but I'm sure it will get better, this current stage is not your final destination. 💙💙
Lovely post 💜
I am surprised an experienced visiting nurse has not been sent out to examine you, to avoid you having to make this trip.
We ALL care deeply about you and your recovery. Your positive attitude gives us all smiles ❤️🙏❤️
I just had a hysterectomy on Feb 13 and dealing with the pain I just think of everything you have gone through and you are giving me strength to power through the pain. So Thank u very much 🥰 from Canada
Lisa,
(It's Amy Headrick-Philip is my husband); I have Endometriosis and cysts and been through the surgeries and if need another endometriosis surgery it'll be the final surgery of a hysterectomy as I had 3 endometrial surgeries since diagnosed at 28 and now 40 but not with a cycle for over a year close to 2 years.
I feel like going home help plus getting the gas out of my stomach gave me enough relief to deal and get through the pain and I felt like 5/6/7 days after I was on the up swing not completely normal just enough to walk slower paced and flex 4 hours to see my husband while taking my meds when needed.
I was diagnosed and had to have surgery within 48hours as my husband company bought my plane ticket almost 2 months prior and we planned it out 1 month prior to my ticket purchase at 2 month. I had to get surgery within 2 days or I wouldn't be able and cleared to fly with my doctor note.
So I only had a week from surgery to flying 4 hours alone and having that set time helped me work tiny things to help couple times of day and somehow end of day 5 felt 50% better than day 1 and kept to my meds schedule; it wasn't the easiest deal even unknowingly popping 3 stitches it was manageable compared to surgery day up till day 3/4. Which I never stayed in a hospital, 1st surgery of any kind, while being alone.
Hope you get hormone replacement boost if needed, and its opposite end of the experimental formula trying whatever is new bc I'm young and I shouldn't be out of whack.
Recovery time is the time to give ourselves a free pass to doing anything and everything we need want can.
Hope you find relief in any way possible one at a time.
Darling Tiffany, I know like any other person battling this dreadful illness at stage 4, you have been given no choice but to be brave but my goodness the people that you have helped and inspired through this truly major surgery must be vast and widespread.
I lost my husband 18 months ago, I have followed you long before your cancer journey, I have never met you but you have truly touched my heart.
God bless you Tiffany, Amma and Matt xxx
Happy Valentines Day, Tiffany! You and Matt are so sweet together. I pray your pain will get less and less each day. Take care of yourself and don’t overdo. Love from Mississauga ❤️🇨🇦
I remember when I had a very invasive surgery & riding in a car was miserable. What I found (eventually) was that putting the seat as flat as possible & a very simple small air mattress was the most comfortable I could be. I hope I explained this well enough. You can still wear your seatbelt too.
Huge hugs, love, light & prayers to you & all your loved ones. Sincerely Florida USA
Oh, Tiffany. I can tell you are in so much pain and even though you are suffering, your beautiful smile shines through. Believe me, Thank You is all you need to say.. We all love you and very much appreciate you taking us on this journey with you. 💕💕
Happy Valentines Day Tiffany an Matt.Hope your feeling better now.We love you alot alot!!We Got this💙💙💙
Hi Tina, well said. Just a thank you is enough. Im sure we all had such fun writing the cards, finding or making something small. I know I did. Take care
Tiffany! Major surgery or injuries can cause trauma symptoms much like someone who goes through a home invasion or witnesses a death. The intense pain you are feeling due to recovery can also have severe adverse effects on one’s state of mind. It’s super important that you take care of your mental health with your physical health! And it’s normal to feel this way. I wish you the best! We got this 💙
A simple "thank you" is fine! People sent you cards because they wanted to do it for you! No need to repay - you need to accept that people you've never met care about you and want the best for you! It helps people to do a little something to brighten your day. Face it, Tiffany; people around the world love you and want you to recover successfully. 💙💙💙 That's because we can see what a loving and caring person you are.
You're doing so well, Tiffany! And are so blessed to have Amma and Matt.
I was born with a faulty immune system, and a genetic condition. So, I have EDS, SLE, Sjogren's, Scleroderma, RA, OA, MS, Hashimotos Thyroiditis; had a stroke at 25, heart attack at 45. So yes, I can say every day is a huge challenge. I completely understand some of what you're going through. I look absolutely healthy, and try to be as active as possible. This too causes challenges, because people who don't know my health history don't believe I'm sick. Or it can't be so bad because I look and act fine. Hang in there, Tiffany. Much better days and times are ahead. Love and hugs from Michigan USA 💗🤗🙏
I love how respectful you and Matt are to each other❤
I very rarely comment on TH-cam videos but I just want to say that your relationship with Matt is so lovely to see. You can see how much you love each other and it’s so endearing ❤
So glad you’re recovering well and you look so much more upbeat in this video ☺️ long may it continue xoxox
I was curious to know about the bandage dressing on your neck, did you remember to ask them if your able to remove it yet or it still needs more time for it to come off on it’s own? I’m so happy that you went to see your Surgeon & the nurse today for reassurance that everything is going well & you’re on the right track with your recovery at home! Fantastic news today Tiffany! We got this 💙 16:11
“Small steps every day”. I saw this quote on a little wooden plaque yesterday and it made me think of you, Tiffany. Every small step adds up. 💙 You got this.
I am praying for healing!!!! Much love to you sweet girl! We here at the Tiffany Thinks Family love you very much and always concerned for your health!
Happy Valentines Day. So glad that you have Matt and Amma. Sending you love and prayers for a full and healthy recovery. You are loved by so many. Please take all the time you need to take care of you!! We are all with you. We Got This!
Oh I can so sympathize! I had extensive rebuild of my perineum and a rectocele repair… along with a hysterectomy. My doctor actually had an emergency appendectomy straight after my surgery so I had a different doctor overseeing me. He sent me home in 3 days!! I live 45-60 miles from the hospital! I begged them because I couldn’t sit on my bottom that long but he didn’t care! Omgosh the pain! I ended up a week later with an infection in the stitches ( the ones on the inside of my vag. I had more on the outside as well, owie! )drove myself back the hour to the hospital, all alone, sick and shaking with a high fever and severe pain ! I don’t know how I made it there! I was changing into a gown and suddenly I felt a pop and it turns out that the stitches had burst open and there was blood everywhere! I tried calling out but there was no one near by when I hobbled to the door to look out for help. It was so awful and I know it was because I was sent home too early! My doctor was shocked! And I almost had to have another surgery. Actually that would have been better because it ended up not healing and I went through hell for months( I’ll spare you more gory details)😳😳😳😭😭😭😭😭 I’m so glad you have such great care!!!!
Sounds horrendous I hope you are ok x
Oh my Goodness! You are so brave. I hope you are well recovered now 😘
Hello sweet Tiffany! Happy Valentine’s Day, to you Matt and Amma❤! Take your time Tiffany It’s you that is going through this, you have shared so much of your life with all of us and it’s ok to share only what you want and when you want. Your an amazing person who has gone through so much. It’s ok to grieve your old self I think we all do it when you go through such trials and tribulations in life! Thank you for sharing what you have shared. Keep your head up and that beautiful smile on your face YOU GOT THIS!!!💙💙💙 WE GOT THIS!!!💙💙💙 lots of love and prayers sent your way Tiffany .🤗🙏💙
Can’t believe the strength you have. Course what other choice do you have. I’m battling follicular lymphoma & breast cancer. This last year & half has been so rough. They say I’m now in remission. But I’m so weak & tired all the time still. Oncologist says because I’m coming out of it. Getting stronger. Idk I believe him. Trying to rest a lot & get stronger.
Matt is so great. Hope his issues are improving.
You’re such a darling & so inspiration. I’m totally asking GOD to help & save you! Please God! Help this darling brave person! 🥰😍
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Take your time to heal Tiff. Each day you will be closer to recovery. You have a wonderful mom and boyfriend let them help you. They love you very much. Never forget how far you have come. We all love you lots and lots. You’re such a beautiful person inside and out.
Hey Tiffany,
You’re doing great! Not an easy journey! I’m sending all things positive across the pond to you and your entourage! Happy Valentine’s Day!😊🇨🇦❤️
I’m not quite sure why you need constant reassurance from them. You have nurses on site to check, and you can go by pain. As long as you pain is less than it was (with the exception of the pain spike day 2, and days where you exert yourself a lot more , that’s your biggest clue that things are healing.
I mean even the surgeon cannot see the insides, only your stitches and stoma. I have had many colon surgeries and have an ostomy so I know the recovery.
Also even little things like the bandage. They said it can come off in the shower. If it’s sticky you can just gently remove it! Doesn’t mean you need to go in with 50000 questions that are common sense. And then trying to reschedule you was for your benefit because of the pain of enduring the car ride.
I don’t know, maybe it’s me, or maybe it’s bc I’ve had so many procedures, but i always felt super guilty about my hubby coming with me to surgeries , let alone just an appointment . I watch another channel where the woman has c also, she’s also very hesitant and reluctant to ever be alone, and her husband takes time off work and sits with her in the hospital even though they have 2 very young kids they need to get family to watch. I always felt guilty I was wasting someone else time just sitting there, like I was a little kid. Maybe I’m peculiar 😂
Anyway the pain shall subside soon, I found it easiest to sit leaning on one side, on a recliner, so there wouldn’t be pressure on my butt. Helped a lot. Those donuts were useless.
Hope your discomfort subsided soon.
Btw you’ve probably heard of the marshmallow trick but many with ileostomy sweat by having a few marshmallows before changing their pouch so they stop output and it doesn’t get messy. I don’t have to deal with as much mess due to having a colostomy but I usually take a few fiber gummies or a psyllium drink and it stops output long enough to change your appliance
Tiffany I look forward to see you and hear all your progress as well as the amount of love and care you have from all your loved ones ! Matt is such a darling.
Best wishes and may u get stronger everyday. Bless u
Don't be disappointed in yourself. Take the time to be pampered and cared for, you have been thru a lot and deserve the time to recuperate and regain your strength. I had to have a complete radical hysterectomy a few years ago, they removed everything including my appendix and also did some reconstructive surgery it took about 6 months before I really felt like things were getting back to normal. So just relax, don't put any pressures on yourself, you have Amma and Matt who love you dearly and are happy to see you get everything you need, and of course your Tiffanythinks family here praying and cheering you on from the sidelines. XO
Tomorrow I get the results from my cancer blood test. I have a mass in my uterus and a cyst in my ovary. I’m scared but you have helped me Tiffany be positive 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I hope you get good news💙
I will be thinking of you tomorrow
Praying for you! ❤
Seeing you recovering is just amazing how strong you are and sooo inspiring 😘 Alma and Matt are right there right by your side ! Just fills my heart ❤️ love you all and sending healing energy to you Tiffany🙏🏻
Dear Tiffany...you are such a warrior! And an inspiration to all of us! I can't imagine how you do it all with such grace. I hope that you are healing well. Love and hugs to you , Matt and your mom ! 💙💙💙
Glad to hear you healing nicely even though it takes time. Sending you lots of love, prayers and a big hug…💙💪🙏
Wow what a journey for you going to the hospital Tiffany. Everyday you are healing and it will get easier. I’m glad that you are getting to share all of your cards and letters and parcels together. You are surrounded by love which is exactly what you need. We love you xxx💙💙💙
I totally get the anxiety going to appointments on bad days. I have a chronic illness and if appointments hit on a bad day oh good lord it’s so difficult to make it through. Congrats on the car ride !
Same.
Dear Tiffany ⚘️⚘️⚘️. You are doing so well, prayers,love, and hugs for an amazing recovery.
It's Valentines today, Feb 14.💗
Hugs to you Matt,& Amma,
LOVE. Always and forever
So good to see you ❤❤❤ I loved seeing your half boiled egg 🥚 I was raised by my grandparents.. my grandfather was from Wales 🏴 and anytime I wasn’t feeling well or for a snack that’s what he or my grandmother would make for me … with toast to dip in!!! ❤❤❤❤❤ You are so strong and sweet … you’ll get there soon to be able to be more comfortable ❤❤❤ I love your family you are all so sweet and caring ❤ The way to thank everyone is to just keep healing ❤
Your thanks is enough Tiffany.
It shows how real you are and how much you care.
I love you and Amma and Matt.
We got this Tiffany! We all love you 😍 we are with you all the time.
Be kind to yourself Tiffany. So many changes to take on board. You're doing so, so well - you've come so far in such a short time! Rest, relax and keep yourself cosy 💙
It is nice to see you at home with family - every day is a day closer to being fully healed - enjoy the simple things like - home cooked meals - peace and quiet away from the stress in the hospital. I hope the days of Spring and Summer with warm sunshine and nature of birds and flowers will help you get thru the pain. God Bless
You are such a sweetheart, Tiffany! You care so much about your viewers and so sweet to want to thank them all. I’ll say it again , you are a inspiration!! 💙 WE GOT THIS 💙
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY TO YOU, MATT & AMMA! The 3 of you represent & radiate what love is truly all about. ❤💙❤ You are about to hit 96K followers Tiffany!! How wonderful! This is also proof of how you are loved and appreciated The WE GOT THIS 💙 sweatshirts and hoodies are so beautiful. The teal is stunning!! I am wearing my pink WE GOT THIS💙 hoodie and thinking of you all today! So, here at home in Montreal, Canada, we say ''soft boiled egg'' Also, I stir my tea clockwise! 😃Such good news that the doctors said all is healing the way it is supposed to. 🙏 Enjoy your bullet journal Matt! It is so nice! Sending you all a big hug and much love! WE GOT THIS💙
WE GOT THIS💙 sending all my love you you Amma and Matt all the way from the Bahamas 💖
Tiffany I am glad you are home, but it is so sad to see you struggling with pain and discomfort. Please continue to keep your amazing attitude! You were brave going to the hospital, that in itself is a big accomplishment. As you like to say, tick tick tick! We got this!
💙💙Daughter of Grace, you are loved. Wow wow congratulations to the whole team for a successful operation. She is getting better and stronger 💪 ❤️
Next time Tiffany please do ask for transportation to & from the hospital it’s better for you & perhaps if the walk is too much for you on any given day, get a wheelchair if you’re not up for the long walk, just take your time & don’t ever worry about asking for help when you need it ok 👌🏻 you’re a trooper girl!! I know it must be so hard not having your independence but one day you’ll have it all back, I promise ❤ We got this 💙 12:21
My darling girl I can't believe you didn't ask for transport so you could have gone back the way you came home. You don't have to be so stalwart, you are allowed to use the facilities the NHS offer because you are genuinely deserving of them.
Be as kind to yourself as you are to others my darling Tiff and trust that things will improve, it's just a difficult area to heal as it's always covered by skin or clothes. Keep strong and we'll keep praying.💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏
There are special pads and pillows that can keep you from getting bed sores and muscle aches from lying in the same position again and again. This is still early days. It takes a very long time to heal and even longer to adjust to a new way of living. It will come.
Right now anxiety hinders you but that will get much less as your confidence in your healing process becomes greater. Pain is awful but actually fear is crippling and you are coping well considering all you have been through.
One more thought, Tiffany, you need to keep track of your weight. With your new digestive system gaining weight back isn't really easy. Most people lose weight after surgery. So I assume you are smaller too. You need a little cushion on those hips you are relying on as you turn from side to side. You can't overeat but you must ask the nurse what might help you regain your weight.
A lot of the sleeping is healing but some is medication too. You are going to have quite a few more trips to doctors in the next months. Remember that life is beautiful so as Spring nears in coming months, be sure to get outside to parks and places where flowers are blooming if only for a little while and to see the sun and rain bring the world back to its glory as you are getting stronger at the same time. Look forward to a quick trip to the garden center in April or May. That will remind you how good this life is. That's what keeps me going. I have an irresistible urge to plant bulbs, set flowers in pots and watch things grow. Plan what you will put out to grow as you heal. You can do the planting on a table with a tray beneath the pot so the mess is easy for someone else to clean up. I know Matt will help just to watch your happiness. By Summer you actually might SIT outside and enjoy your pretty pots of plants as you did before surgery last year. Half an hour outside with green plants in the sun is so healing. It's really a thing!
You've done well! Bravo.
Happy Valentine's Day to you, Matt and Amma. You're so loved.
Please never worry about what people think of you struggling to sit down. I have that problem and not had your type of surgery. Please just worry about yourself, others what they think and not understanding, don’t matter. That is what I believe. That is wonderful you can walk so far. Bless you. For my it took a year for each many surgeries. Takes patience. But you are laughing, so that is great progress. And even better healing well.
I always hate when I complain about something because then I always think, someone is going through way worse. You’re so strong! I can’t imagine what you’re going through but you’re doing great! I love you! 💙💙💙💙💙
19:19-Gets me every time. And it's so nice to hear your mom laughing!
19:18 that laugh is the "Matty Special" too. HAA!! 🤣😂🤣
Some soft massage and light stretching can help subside some of the pain. Relaxing the muscles around the affected area can do wonders. Muscles tighten around areas that have been traumatized by surgery and sleeping in awkward positions to stay off of your bottom will cause other areas to become sore....even the neck. So if you can get a massage therapist into your home to do some light massage that could really help you out. Massage can even improve your over all mental state due to the nice endorphines that are released during massage. Happy healing. You will get there soon. God bless.
💙💙Happy Valentine’s Day to you, Matt and Amma💙💙. You handled the car trip and visit like a champ! Enjoy your loved ones and know you’re in my thoughts and prayers.♥️
I laughed so loud when you told us how your mum read the sign “just be nice” your loving family have a very refreshing sense of humour even through the sad and frustrating times. Just love it ❤️
Tif, Thank you is enough 🙂. When I and my husband married we weren’t wealthy enough and a lot of people helped us. They gave us furniture, clothes and many other things. I used to worry how I ‚repaid’ them back. Eventually I understood that the point is to help when you can, those you can. When my financial position improved I started helping other people who were in worse condition than me.
You inspire a lot of people. Does it mean that they are obliged to make vlogs to inspire you? No! That’s not the point! ❤❤❤
It’s good you go to your doctor appointments so you know you are healing and if everything you are feeling is normal. 😀 Glad you made it ok.