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I am always saying WE GOT THIS in real life and online. We all have our own struggles and I believe we can get through anything together. When I was diagnosed with cancer in September, I thought this was my own struggle but I realised my cancer has affected everyone around me. I am a daughter, a girlfriend, a sister, a friend, a cousin, a grand daughter & more. I know my journey has affected everyone around me and I know now more than ever that I have no choice but to get better. Whatever life throws at us, we are going to get through it together. We Got This
love you lots xxx WE GOT THIS
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY my loving tiffanythinks family. I feel like everyday is love day, I love you a lot a lot a lot. I feel like I need to start loving myself, my mind and my body. Thank you for being so understanding that I need time for myself. we got this💙 IG, FB & TikTok: @tiffanythinks. Subscribe💙
Hope you and Matt are having a wonderful Valentines Day! 💙💙
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Happy valentines day Tiffany and matt 💞
You've got this tiff 💙💙💙
And a pinch of salt on the egg??!! 😋
Evening tiffany amma and matt
Such a great vlog as always and tiff u r looking better every day and we just love that u r keeping us informed and we love u 4 that cos we care💙💙💙
Did matt buy u anything nice 4 ur valentines day?
Did u get the pressys and card i sent u cos i sent another one b4 and i dont no if u got it
Give amma and matt my love as they r amazing and so caring
Love u guys💙💙💙✔️✔️✔️
Tiff, I’m a young viewer battling a disease and sometimes I don’t think I can fight anymore. But then I think, “If Tiffany can fight, then so can I.” Thank you for your smile and your joy. 🦋🦋🦋💙💙💙
Praying 🙏 for you
You Got This! Praying for you and your relief and healing in Jesus name I pray 🙏🏻
Praying for u 🙏🏻
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Sending you so much love and positive energy. Stay strong, you’ll look back and be so proud of yourself x
When my daughter was going through chemo 14 yrs. ago at 39 for st.3 colon cancer she asked me to make her soft boiled egg with broken up pieces of bread mixed in it. She has been cancer free..she had a colonoscopy the other day and is clear.
We got this, Tiff.❤❤❤
I'm so glad your daughter is cancer free!
Happy for your daughter, great news.
@@susanfleming496 thank you...me too.
So happy for your daughter and for you too XXXX
Amazing💙
Tiffany, you might ask the medical team about how you monitor for depression vs the normal process of recovery. You actually have experienced a form of trauma and a lot of loss over this past year. It would be understandable if your mental health needs as much support and healing as your physical health. 💙
I think this is a great idea to find out what the normal highs and lows of recovery should be vs anything that might be more of a depression. Have they offered you any therapy for all you are going through??❤xxx
And thrown into menopause!
Fantastic comment 👏.
Excellent suggestion 👏🫂
Absolutely 💙
I really am so grateful to see Matt standing with Tiffany through this difficult journey, I must admit he's a supportive partner, not everyone will stay during tough times ,but indeed he is a God sent to Tiffany ☺️ not forgetting Tiffany's Mom 😭 she's a Mom that anyone would wish to have
Amen!!
I feel like whoever would leave their long-term partner due to them having cancer would be a huge asshole tbf, I like to believe that the majority of people aren't absolute assholes. I think men tend to get credited for not leaving their partners in difficult times way more than vice versa which is worth pointing out, but either way they both seem like the most wonderful people
It’s what a true partner should do. It’s love. We stand by those we love. We don’t cower and run. We stand firm by those we truly care about.
@@mialia15104 I agree with you, i really do, however it is a type of cancer with life long changes, i think that is what the other person may have meant, i think it takes a very strong/special person to deal with what Tiff is going to have to deal with, if you know what i mean!! I have a feeling unfortunately not all men could deal with that, no matter how much they wanted to!!
Matt really is one in a million, but so is Tiff!
@@mialia15104 it happened to my friend who sadly passed aged 33 from cancer. Her husband cheated on her because he said, ‘he couldn’t cope’ 🤬
If we could’ve all had a mama like Amma, there would be little childhood trauma in the world 💙
I agree
This is so true!!
We’ve got this Tiffany!!! 💙💙💙
I think of you so often. Please know how much your TH-cam mail cares about you.
Girl, we can’t wait to hear an update from you in real time and see how far you’ve come. It’s amazing the strength you have in these videos. All the love to you on your COMPLETE HEALING journey ❤️
Please can you let us know your histology results were all waiting and hoping for the best. I don’t think it’s right to not tell us as you must know by now. Thank you 🙏
@@amill7917 maybe she will when she's ready. She doesn't HAVE to share everything with us.
Please let her heal and take her time. She can share as much, or as little whatever she feels comfortable with. You are doing so well Tiffany ❤
@@amill7917It’s actually not right to demand information like that from anyone. She has a right to keep private anything she wants to…being on TH-cam doesn’t mean she can’t some things to herself while she copes with them.
@@paulineparry214 💙 I agree!
HappyValentines day Tiffany & Matt. One step at a time Tiffany. I’m sure your probably slightly horrified at the extent of your scars, in time they will fade and settle down. Be proud of your body & the scars, they are a testament to your journey battling cancer. Sending loads of love & best wishes 💙💙💙
I have a large scar on my forehead from skin cancer and a couple of other places on my body. I also had pre cancer cut out in my 20's of my (visable with summer shirts) still "sexy at 60" breasts. I didn't hesitate to have my face cut on and don't wear makeup. I never tried to cover my breast scar. I'm simply grateful I don't have cancer today, and I think most people going through cancer feel the same. Some people learn the important things in life earlier than others. Tiffany said recently, "I don't care.", in regards to her hair being a mess. It's refreshing in this time of "influencers" who portray a "perfect" (mostly unattainable for most) life. We shouldn't be living our lives by other people's standards, and I love that Tiffany gets that. How miserable would that be? It's so liberating!
Your so strong. Love u!
My goodness, you’ve come so far. You’ve really not had an easy time of it, and I’m sure you’ve sometimes wondered how you’d manage ... but you’re doing it, you’ve done it, you’ve made so so much progress. Overcoming one obstacle at a time. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Remember to go easy on yourself, and give yourself credit for everything you’ve achieved, everything you’ve battled thru. You are a force to be reckoned with, Tiff, even when you don’t fully feel like it! You’re stronger than you even know. Hang in there, girl!!!! 💙💙💙💙💙
Grieving your life before all of this is so hard, but it’s okay. Most people feel that way when something big in your life changes. I still feel it after being diagnosed and being on disability for several years. You are doing so well recovering. I hope you’re able to take time to deal with the mental and emotional part of things. You have a bright future ahead.
Hey Jesus (God) can help you you just have to believe in what He's done on the cross and turn from your sins.
If you don't have faith then this video might help you. It's kind of long but even if you only watch a little bit it's worth it. He's a good teacher empowered by God.
Mike winger prophecies that Jesus fulfilled evidence for the Bible pt10
I hope your okay 🙂
You are so right. I once said to a specialist that I just want to feel like I did before the illness. I try not to think about it but it's not easy. Tiffany is so brave and strong and has the best family support one can ask for. We will all be ok. Happy Valentine's Day to Tiffany and all her supporters.
I agree. I mean I was born with a neuromuscular disease and have been ill all my life and I still grieve the life I wish I'd had. It's totally normal to wish for a healthy life.
@@ew7512 hello Ellen. Your reply touched my heart so. There are tears running down. I wish you all the best ( not sure what to say here), just know, I care, Susan
@@charlotteroblin5374 mike winger is an excellent teacher
As an Oncology you can't see how GREAT you are doing after this complex surgery. Keep your eye on the prize because YOU GOT THIS!!!! Happy Valentines Day to you and your family. Love and Prayers Nancy
I'm so sorry you are experiencing pain. I put a small pillow in between my legs when I sleep on my side it helps keep the pressure from my hip area. ❤
Great advice, Betty.
Me too Betty, helps so much 💝
Me as well. Sleeping on side isnt always comfortable
Hi our sweet Tiffany. I found your channel about a week ago. My heart goes out to you! I can't even imagine what you are going through and at such a young age. I love your positivity and your families support!! Honestly that's half the battle. My dad passed away from stomach cancer on March 20,2005. We found his cancer by accident and when we found it , it was stage 4 and the poorest grade you could possible have. He always went for his check ups and did all the age appropriate test. Nothing showed it and the symptoms he had was a stomach ache but nothing out of the ordinary. He was 70 when he passed. I was his caregiver. I have 3 sons and they were young at the time, plus I worked 2 jobs as being a single mom. Please never feel like a burden because you can't do things for yourself!!!! My dad felt the same way, and after we had a long talk he understood how I felt and he never felt like that again. I was always very close with my daddy. He was my everything. As tired as I was, there was never anything I wouldn't do for him!!! It was my privilege to care for him and give us both peace of mind knowing he was cared for in the best way possible. His every need was taken cared of by the people who loved him. We did in home hospice for him. How amazing it was for me..his daughter, ...his family...knowing that we gave him all the love, comfort and peace of mind till he moved on to a better place. I never regretted doing that for a single second. Your situation is temporary, your body has gone through so much...I know its hard for you but please give it the time it needs to heal and don't feel like a burden. Moma and Matt (by the way one of my sons is named Matt) want to help you, they love you more than you'll ever know. Focus on all the things that your able to do since the surgery and the things you will continue to do. One day soon you'll be able to do everything for yourself!!! My dads oncologist told us that having a positive attitude makes the body heal faster. He said when people aren't positive their bodies don't heal properly. He said that they have done studies on this. So keep that beautiful smile on your face and keep having positive thoughts. Let you sweet Darling Matt and your beautiful Moma take care of you. That's their job!!! Thats what makes them happy, knowing your getting the best care possible!!! Oh, by the way I live in NYC. I'm sorry this is so long, but wanted to maybe make you feel a little bit better. I'll be watching your process and will be praying for a speedy recovery for you. Happy Valentines Day sweet Tiffany!!!
Do you want to know how to say thank you sweetheart? Just keep on getting WELL!!! You have absolutely no idea what an inspiration you have been and continue to be. You show the importance of faith and family in situations like this, with no apologies! I always see a smile on your face...and that smile, through ALL situations ..says it all. God bless my dear, and know that we all love you.
I’m 64 and have been dealing with health problems for a long time! Watching your cancer journey for a bit. Your strength is amazing and I have nothing to complain about! Healing prayers dear Tiffany!
Cheers from your friend in Toronto Canada 🇨🇦 I haven’t been able to comment for a while now & usually I do but i’ve been so unwell lately & having loads of tests for esophageal cancer. You are my inspiration Tiffany & honestly I want to say thank you so very much for sharing your cancer journey for the world to see because you are helping me & so many others by showing us that we too can overcome the hurdles & challenges that life is throwing at us. Your honesty, courage & vulnerability just proves that you got this & now I’ve got this too! You’re fighting for your life with everything you have been through & I know that everyday you are getting stronger & your journey will all be in the past one day! I pray 🙏🏼 for your health every single night & thanks to you I’m able to see the light at the end of the tunnel! You might not feel it everyday Tiffany but you are winning your battle with cancer & I know that you will be cancer free one day & do your boomerang dance in front of the hospital! Sending you a big hug from Susan, your friend always ❤ WE GOT THIS 💙 2:23
@@nettyjads5620 tysm ♥️ very kind of you!
I’ll be praying for you Susan. Keep the faith. Hugs from Reno Nevada.
@@Sedgies Tysm ❤️ my endoscopy is this saturday at 11am, I appreciate the prayers 🙏🏼
prayers for you from fellow Canadian ( Victoria,) you are part of tiffany thinks family, so you have our support too. We've got this goes for you too💙🙏
@@sandiriddett877 Thank you so much Sandi, so kind & thoughtful of you! I appreciate your support, it really means a lot to me ❤️🇨🇦
It has been a little over a year since my surgeries. Somewhat similar surgery but very different conditions. I am just now starting to recover. I feel 75 percent better. I still have bad days. I am not going to lie I have lots of new issues with my stomach and pain. I still don't have the strength I had before. Lots of problems with absorbing nutrition. But you adapt. I am still getting better everyday. 🙂 I am just so grateful to be alive! This is what keeps me going through the bad days! Each day you will get stronger. Your body needs lots of time to heal! I wish you could understand how well you are doing! 💙💙💙
Oh darlin! I'm a retired flight nurse and I have a neurological disease that is known as the suicide disease because it's so painful. Pain can be just as debilitating, maybe more, than anything else we face. Listen to your body and don't be afraid to Speak up if your current method of pain control isn't enough. There are so many options for pain control. You aren't being weak.....speak up and ask for help. Praying for you! Have a blessed day!
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Yes Tiffany, speak up if you think you’re having too much pain! I’m not a medical person but I’m sure there’s something they can give you. Praying 🙏🏽 for your comfort sweet girl. Oh! Happy Valentine’s Day ❤️
@@tonijordan4221 someone in the comments thinks she's on too much pain medication and becoming addicted.
Do you have Crps? I also have it
Happy Valentine's Day. A difficult one for me as my husband of 30 years died in Dec 2021, but I am getting through it. Am glad you decided to wear your seat belt in the car, even if it's difficult, as it is the driver who will get into trouble if stopped and passengers are not wearing one. I'm sure you wouldn't want that. If you can't manage it, you should definitely ask for hospital transport. Wishing you a continued safe and speedy recovery
Sorry to here about your partner Jayne. ❤️❤️❤️
Let’s not nitpick everything Tiffany does. She’s having a hard enough time. She’s an adult not a five year old. Wearing a seat belt or not is her choice. Please be a little more considerate.
@@dianaray1470 Says some Busybody nitpicking someone else's comment~Major Eye Roll:(
@@jaynekittycat9252 Thank you
Prayers for you
TO ALL WATCHING: Please remember, the care givers go through a lot of stress. They get exhausted too, please pray for them too and never forget them! It is exhausting. They love so much, but as well, they forget their needs. Love and thank you to ALL care givers!!!! We got you too!!!
I am holding a lot of love and light for you, Tiffany.
Will we get to know about your results soon. I am so anxious to hear that you are cancer free! 💙
Hi, Tiffany, please don’t neglect your mental health, it’s ok to be strong but that can take it’s toll. It is sometimes better to talk to somebody other than family so you don’t have to worry about their feelings. I didn’t open up and it took me five years to recover mentally. Physically I recovered within a year from three operations including a stoma, thankfully I was able to have a reversal. Had a large mass removed plus total hysterectomy after twenty one days found out it was not cancer, which was a big relief. Best wishes to all of you.
Tiff, you have to remember you've had MAJOR MAJOR surgery. Don't push yourself to hard,the pain and tiredness will make you depressed from time to time,It will take 6 months at best for the wounds to heal enough to be really comfortable and for a 12 HR anaesthetic,morphine pain killers not eating for a long time it will be 12 months. Every day is a day further away from the op, and you'll never never have to go through anything so awful again.👍👍👍😃😃😃😃 Find foods and treats that are ok for you and tuck in.( Slowly of course) Every day is another victory. Sleep too ,you've a lot of lost sleep to make up for.😘
So good to see you a bit more relaxed at the end, you are doing so well!! The trouble with coming home so quickly after surgery is that even though you KNOW you're recovering and expect to not do things, subconsciously your brain wants to do all the normal things you'd do at home. Whereas when you're in the hospital you aren't in that familiar environment, you don't go to do all the little normal things especially as you're surrounded by all the staff that are there to do them for you. It's still such early days, but every day, week, month is a step closer to being more normal, as you said.
Sending love and a gentle hug, keep your chin up and know we're all behind you, supporting from afar. We got this 💙
Sending you a gentle hug. You are a trooper. You got this.
Tiffany, why can't you stand for a long while? You keep saying you can stand up for long? With my exact surgery plus my bladder removed, I could stand for as long as my body permitted.
Little steps..
I'm sure if the docs didn't think you could handle the ride then they wouldn't have had you scheduled it, no?
You are strong. U have TONS of support...more than most....u will survive!
Keep up the good work.
...and ur right Matt...her sleeping for 25 mins will do you all good!❤💙💙💙
You are the darlin' of the air waves. Everything lovely you receive is well deserved. Keep on truckin loverly Tiff :)
Hey Tiffany,
You’re doing great! Not an easy journey! I’m sending all things positive across the pond to you and your entourage! Happy Valentine’s Day!😊🇨🇦❤️
Saying Thank you, is enough!! Don't worry yourself about showing your appreciation. We know you are very humble, Tiffany. 💙💙💙
I’m not quite sure why you need constant reassurance from them. You have nurses on site to check, and you can go by pain. As long as you pain is less than it was (with the exception of the pain spike day 2, and days where you exert yourself a lot more , that’s your biggest clue that things are healing.
I mean even the surgeon cannot see the insides, only your stitches and stoma. I have had many colon surgeries and have an ostomy so I know the recovery.
Also even little things like the bandage. They said it can come off in the shower. If it’s sticky you can just gently remove it! Doesn’t mean you need to go in with 50000 questions that are common sense. And then trying to reschedule you was for your benefit because of the pain of enduring the car ride.
I don’t know, maybe it’s me, or maybe it’s bc I’ve had so many procedures, but i always felt super guilty about my hubby coming with me to surgeries , let alone just an appointment . I watch another channel where the woman has c also, she’s also very hesitant and reluctant to ever be alone, and her husband takes time off work and sits with her in the hospital even though they have 2 very young kids they need to get family to watch. I always felt guilty I was wasting someone else time just sitting there, like I was a little kid. Maybe I’m peculiar 😂
Anyway the pain shall subside soon, I found it easiest to sit leaning on one side, on a recliner, so there wouldn’t be pressure on my butt. Helped a lot. Those donuts were useless.
Hope your discomfort subsided soon.
Btw you’ve probably heard of the marshmallow trick but many with ileostomy sweat by having a few marshmallows before changing their pouch so they stop output and it doesn’t get messy. I don’t have to deal with as much mess due to having a colostomy but I usually take a few fiber gummies or a psyllium drink and it stops output long enough to change your appliance
WE GOT THIS💙 sending all my love you you Amma and Matt all the way from the Bahamas 💖
Dearest Tiffany, Amma, and Matt; I cannot imagine how difficult and painful, both physically and emotionally, these days and hours are. Only you truly do as you are living through them. Tiffany, my dear sister had rectal cancer and had her rectum and colon removed. During her recovery she used a medium sized authentic sheep skin under her bottom while sitting, and under her body when lying down in bed. She had a tiny body and we (myself and family, her support system) believe it prevented pressure sores and helped her be more comfortable after release from hospital. You are such a dear, dear woman and I pray that God, our heavenly Father shows you great favour and peace today and in the days ahead as you heal. Sharon G., Canada 🇨🇦 XOXOXO
As a nurse, authentic sheepskin was the primary thing we used to prevent bedsores. But I did nurse in Canada so maybe it’s a Canadian thing? It sure did work, kept the area dry and with good blood flow.
🙏🏻❤️from Montreal
@@laurelldockall2399 it's huge in Australia. Sheep skins are used right through the health system. In the last months of her life, my Mother lay on a sheep skin, apart from the therapeutic benefit, she loved the softness and comfort.
I’m so glad you’re seeing your surgeon. I wouldn’t want to wait either.
I love how aama and Matt laugh together it’s so lovely x
Happy Valentines Day Tiffany. ❤I’m glad to see you are doing well. I hope you continue healing. Wishing you and Matt, and your mother lots of happiness and love. 💝
It may not make the pain better but seeing the surgeon and knowing things r as they should b will give u some peace of mind! Keep hanging n there Tiffany! We r all praying for u🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
Tomorrow I get the results from my cancer blood test. I have a mass in my uterus and a cyst in my ovary. I’m scared but you have helped me Tiffany be positive 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I hope you get good news💙
I will be thinking of you tomorrow
Praying for you! ❤
Oh, Tiffany. I can tell you are in so much pain and even though you are suffering, your beautiful smile shines through. Believe me, Thank You is all you need to say.. We all love you and very much appreciate you taking us on this journey with you. 💕💕
Happy Valentines Day Tiffany an Matt.Hope your feeling better now.We love you alot alot!!We Got this💙💙💙
Hi Tina, well said. Just a thank you is enough. Im sure we all had such fun writing the cards, finding or making something small. I know I did. Take care
Watching you taking baby steps towards recovery gives us immense happiness... Bless u dear Tiffany 💙
Tiffany! Major surgery or injuries can cause trauma symptoms much like someone who goes through a home invasion or witnesses a death. The intense pain you are feeling due to recovery can also have severe adverse effects on one’s state of mind. It’s super important that you take care of your mental health with your physical health! And it’s normal to feel this way. I wish you the best! We got this 💙
🌸💙Happy Valentine’s Day to you three, Tiffany, Matt and Amma from America!. You are each precious and extraordinary, kind and most brave. Tiffany, my heart really aches for the pain and feelings of loss,including the feelings of emotional loss that you may be enduring. My heart smiles for the understanding that the healing that eventually time will bring really does exist…even though time can really bounce us around, staying the course helps, in whatever way you view your course.
My surgeries as a younger woman were similar although not as extensive. I’m more grateful and empathetic of a person now in my 6th decade, yet I went through difficult times to Genuinely,Truly ‘feel it’ within myself. Times between exhaustion and physical pain, and a body that to me felt and looked so out of whack; it was ‘what the ‘bleep’ to do? I grew to realize that often I was, ‘Gratefully Angry/Sad/Afraid’. It took time. I believe time is on your side. As your mind reels, maybe try…think about trying, something I still find useful. Try repeating often to self almost like a mantra, “Do the next right thing”. That can mean anything from brushing hair to from you eyes as you prepare to nap, to lifting a spoon. From shifting position to climbing a flight of stairs. ( And Dear girl,that many stairs is a huge victory🙂!!!) “ And victories can change, setbacks, or moving forward. Take a few seconds to ask/tell yourself,“ to do next right thing” helps keep thoughts zoned in on the present moment. Literally, moment by moment. I know you and, Matt and Amma know this, for me at least, it took a lot of concentration to focus in that way.
Thank you for being the inspiration you are Tiffany! My apologies if I sound pushy. I pray and believe that each of you three amazing people continue to heal in all ways. You have probably have heard this,still I share: “When we change the way we look at things,the things we look at change.” 💙We Got This💙 Love to you!
Matt showering you with kisses has to be one of my top 10 most favourite Tiffanythinks moments so far!
You are doing great... one day and one step at a time. Healing from such a huge surgery is going to take time, so don't rush it. Besides, you are already ahead of the game by being at home. I once had a huge surgery and was in the hospital for 3 weeks. I too was told that my total recovery would take at least a year. Slow and steady... WE GOT THIS - and with all the support from all of us and your incredible family, you are going to get through this.
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY TO YOU, MATT AND AMMA!! We love you all. I am so glad yjou got a good report from the surgeon today. It will take time for you to fully recover so take it slow. WE GOT THIS!!! Enjoy all your cards and letters - well deserved.
Sending love and prays for a speedy recovery!!
Tiffany, I needed to see this this morning. I have advanced Chrons and it’s seven years later. Your trio of love give me strength and encouragement on days it’s tough. Blessings darling. You are well on your way!!!!
Happy Valentine's day dear Tiffany and Matt 💙💙 Hope you are feeling a little better every day. Praying for your full recovery. Big hugs! 💙💙💙
Happy Valentine's Day to you, Matt and Amma. You're so loved.
It's a lovely that your home with your beautiful mum and gorgeous Matt, to hear you all laughing and just being together is great for your healing. Love you all lots xxx💙
TIFF, you Got This!!!! You took that step to do what you had to do to get better!!! Whatever has changed in your body for the new norm, is better than worrying about the cancer!!!my husband had prostate cancer and its been 6mos since the surgery, and he thank God is cancer free. The pain only lasts for so long, and you have a lifetime to only remember the pain. You are the strongest woman I know!! You totally got this!!! Love and Happy Valentines Day to you all!!!
Tiffany I know your home aesthetic is very minimalist and clutter free. You don’t seem to have any art or photos on display.
Why not display all the cards and photos we sent you on your bedroom walls? And then do a dedication video?
@@mollymac8678 well yeah kinda! 😂😂😂 it would be nice to see a change.. also Tiffany said she thinks saying thank you isn’t enough so…. This is just a suggestion… 😉
@@MsBluheart yeah it’s very clinical and cold, some art and pics would be nice to see but I remember her saying she only bought the house to resell it it wasn’t meant to be her forever home.. and then sadly she got sick.
@@mollymac8678 exactly this is YOUR suggestion, I shared mine BASED on the fact that Tiffany said that saying thank you isn’t enough. A suggestion, an idea… i shared, you shared we all shared.
@@mollymac8678 exactly just as I said before… but I feel you want the last word so please have it. At the same time you are not Tiffany’s campaign management , security or protector so let everyone share their thoughts and stop trying to be holier than thou. At the end of the day this is social media, Tiffany is making a profit from her illness through TH-cam advertising, selling merchandise and affiliate links making a dedication video to hundreds of people who have sent gifts and cards isn’t going to interfere with her agenda.
@@mollymac8678 I honestly think everyone has an agenda, to support her , to protect her, to become her friend, to be part of her TT family, to gain her trust, to have their voices and experiences heard, to gather support, to make money, to seek recognition…to get attention, to be heard… that’s the way of the world now.
My darling girl I can't believe you didn't ask for transport so you could have gone back the way you came home. You don't have to be so stalwart, you are allowed to use the facilities the NHS offer because you are genuinely deserving of them.
Be as kind to yourself as you are to others my darling Tiff and trust that things will improve, it's just a difficult area to heal as it's always covered by skin or clothes. Keep strong and we'll keep praying.💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏
I had an incredibly painful major leg surgery in November and car journeys were the worst. Every jolt and bump so I really really empathise as your surgery was so much bigger than mine. Sending hugs 🫂 xx
Valentines' hearts are red
'We got this' hearts are blue
And with all of our hearts
We're rooting for you.
Happy Valentine's Day Tiffany, Matt and Amma 💙💙💙💙💙
We got this Tiffany! We all love you 😍 we are with you all the time.
Happy valentines day 💙 Be kind to yourself 💙💙💙💙 although your body has had a huge toll on it, don’t forget to take care of your mind too 💙 sending you love and strength 💙
Happy Valentine’s Day to you and Matt…Allow yourself time to heal physically and mentally..Sending warm hugs ..🤗
TIFFANYTHINKSFAM you need too get proper transport too the hospital please please ask the hospital too get u transport too and from hospital from now on.. This is too much for u.. You need too worry bout you ur TIFFANYTHINKSFAM will be there for you Always.. 💗💗
I absolutely adore Matt’s laugh! That initial burst of laughter gets me every time! Love it!😂❤ Praying for your continued healing and strength. Praying for Matt and Uma too, as caregivers. ❤️🙏🏾
Happy Valentines Day Tiffany, Matt and Amma. Sending you a big hug and prayers for healing.💙🦋💙🦋💙🦋
💙💙Daughter of Grace, you are loved. Wow wow congratulations to the whole team for a successful operation. She is getting better and stronger 💪 ❤️
That cushion looks no good for you. Have you tried a donut, a floatie, That would let your bum rest more comfortably.
I was curious to know about the bandage dressing on your neck, did you remember to ask them if your able to remove it yet or it still needs more time for it to come off on it’s own? I’m so happy that you went to see your Surgeon & the nurse today for reassurance that everything is going well & you’re on the right track with your recovery at home! Fantastic news today Tiffany! We got this 💙 16:11
💕 Happy Valentine's Day to you and Matt 💗🌸 I hope the doctors can do something for your pain. Sending you positive healing vibes.🌸🌺 stay strong 🌸🌺💗
Can’t believe the strength you have. Course what other choice do you have. I’m battling follicular lymphoma & breast cancer. This last year & half has been so rough. They say I’m now in remission. But I’m so weak & tired all the time still. Oncologist says because I’m coming out of it. Getting stronger. Idk I believe him. Trying to rest a lot & get stronger.
Matt is so great. Hope his issues are improving.
You’re such a darling & so inspiration. I’m totally asking GOD to help & save you! Please God! Help this darling brave person! 🥰😍
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Seeing you recovering is just amazing how strong you are and sooo inspiring 😘 Alma and Matt are right there right by your side ! Just fills my heart ❤️ love you all and sending healing energy to you Tiffany🙏🏻
Your strength and courage is unbelievable. I am so thankful that you documented this journey. It's a real look at recovery and the long road ahead. You remain so sweet and beautiful throughout this whole journey. I can't wait to see you in real time. I hope you've been able to pass the painful part and are your bubbly kind self. I hope you are eating and gaining and becoming stronger each day. You have the most beautiful smile. Blessings to you, your darling Matt and your mom. What a trio of super heroes!!
“Small steps every day”. I saw this quote on a little wooden plaque yesterday and it made me think of you, Tiffany. Every small step adds up. 💙 You got this.
💙💙Happy Valentine’s Day to you, Matt and Amma💙💙. You handled the car trip and visit like a champ! Enjoy your loved ones and know you’re in my thoughts and prayers.♥️
Hello sweet Tiffany! Happy Valentine’s Day, to you Matt and Amma❤! Take your time Tiffany It’s you that is going through this, you have shared so much of your life with all of us and it’s ok to share only what you want and when you want. Your an amazing person who has gone through so much. It’s ok to grieve your old self I think we all do it when you go through such trials and tribulations in life! Thank you for sharing what you have shared. Keep your head up and that beautiful smile on your face YOU GOT THIS!!!💙💙💙 WE GOT THIS!!!💙💙💙 lots of love and prayers sent your way Tiffany .🤗🙏💙
Oh I can so sympathize! I had extensive rebuild of my perineum and a rectocele repair… along with a hysterectomy. My doctor actually had an emergency appendectomy straight after my surgery so I had a different doctor overseeing me. He sent me home in 3 days!! I live 45-60 miles from the hospital! I begged them because I couldn’t sit on my bottom that long but he didn’t care! Omgosh the pain! I ended up a week later with an infection in the stitches ( the ones on the inside of my vag. I had more on the outside as well, owie! )drove myself back the hour to the hospital, all alone, sick and shaking with a high fever and severe pain ! I don’t know how I made it there! I was changing into a gown and suddenly I felt a pop and it turns out that the stitches had burst open and there was blood everywhere! I tried calling out but there was no one near by when I hobbled to the door to look out for help. It was so awful and I know it was because I was sent home too early! My doctor was shocked! And I almost had to have another surgery. Actually that would have been better because it ended up not healing and I went through hell for months( I’ll spare you more gory details)😳😳😳😭😭😭😭😭 I’m so glad you have such great care!!!!
Sounds horrendous I hope you are ok x
Oh my Goodness! You are so brave. I hope you are well recovered now 😘
I am praying for healing!!!! Much love to you sweet girl! We here at the Tiffany Thinks Family love you very much and always concerned for your health!
Hi my darling. It's absolutely ok to grieve your old life. It's all new and you're not used to it yet. You've been through so much. Be angry, be sad...be whatever you need at the moment. You can feel fine and a second later you feel like screaming. Emotions can come in waves, let them all out. Don't let them build up inside. No one will judge you. There's nothing you can do or say that make us love you less 💙💙. I wish I could tell you when but I'm sure it will get better, this current stage is not your final destination. 💙💙
Lovely post 💜
You are so strong. You got this sweet Tiffany. We out here continue to pray and believe in you!
My mum was told to use sheep wool under her when she had surgery … Hospital told her it would help with bed sores and wld help when she was only able to lay on her sides … So happy for you that the car ride worked out, must have been stressful to think about the drive beforehand… Much love Tiffany💙💙💙💙💙
Happy Valentines Day, Tiffany! You and Matt are so sweet together. I pray your pain will get less and less each day. Take care of yourself and don’t overdo. Love from Mississauga ❤️🇨🇦
Tif, Thank you is enough 🙂. When I and my husband married we weren’t wealthy enough and a lot of people helped us. They gave us furniture, clothes and many other things. I used to worry how I ‚repaid’ them back. Eventually I understood that the point is to help when you can, those you can. When my financial position improved I started helping other people who were in worse condition than me.
You inspire a lot of people. Does it mean that they are obliged to make vlogs to inspire you? No! That’s not the point! ❤❤❤
Omg tiff. Cadburys have got a we got this chocolate bar out. I immediately thought of you . Youll have to grab a bar and show us all . Much love to you tiff ❤️
I just had a hysterectomy on Feb 13 and dealing with the pain I just think of everything you have gone through and you are giving me strength to power through the pain. So Thank u very much 🥰 from Canada
Lisa,
(It's Amy Headrick-Philip is my husband); I have Endometriosis and cysts and been through the surgeries and if need another endometriosis surgery it'll be the final surgery of a hysterectomy as I had 3 endometrial surgeries since diagnosed at 28 and now 40 but not with a cycle for over a year close to 2 years.
I feel like going home help plus getting the gas out of my stomach gave me enough relief to deal and get through the pain and I felt like 5/6/7 days after I was on the up swing not completely normal just enough to walk slower paced and flex 4 hours to see my husband while taking my meds when needed.
I was diagnosed and had to have surgery within 48hours as my husband company bought my plane ticket almost 2 months prior and we planned it out 1 month prior to my ticket purchase at 2 month. I had to get surgery within 2 days or I wouldn't be able and cleared to fly with my doctor note.
So I only had a week from surgery to flying 4 hours alone and having that set time helped me work tiny things to help couple times of day and somehow end of day 5 felt 50% better than day 1 and kept to my meds schedule; it wasn't the easiest deal even unknowingly popping 3 stitches it was manageable compared to surgery day up till day 3/4. Which I never stayed in a hospital, 1st surgery of any kind, while being alone.
Hope you get hormone replacement boost if needed, and its opposite end of the experimental formula trying whatever is new bc I'm young and I shouldn't be out of whack.
Recovery time is the time to give ourselves a free pass to doing anything and everything we need want can.
Hope you find relief in any way possible one at a time.
Tiffany it would be amazing if you could do live here on youtube someday when you feel better. Your Tiffany Thinks Family would really appreciate if we could've ask you some questions and just chat and spend time together. And if you're not comfortable with live maybe some q&a video? This is just an idea, no pressure. Whatever makes you happy :)💙
Tiffany I look forward to see you and hear all your progress as well as the amount of love and care you have from all your loved ones ! Matt is such a darling.
Best wishes and may u get stronger everyday. Bless u
Your thanks is enough Tiffany.
It shows how real you are and how much you care.
I love you and Amma and Matt.
Dear Tiffany...you are such a warrior! And an inspiration to all of us! I can't imagine how you do it all with such grace. I hope that you are healing well. Love and hugs to you , Matt and your mom ! 💙💙💙
19:18 that laugh is the "Matty Special" too. HAA!! 🤣😂🤣
You are such a sweetheart, Tiffany! You care so much about your viewers and so sweet to want to thank them all. I’ll say it again , you are a inspiration!! 💙 WE GOT THIS 💙
I remember they would make me soak in a huge bathtub in the hospital, but this was 1963....
Did the surgery get all the cancer?
A simple "thank you" is fine! People sent you cards because they wanted to do it for you! No need to repay - you need to accept that people you've never met care about you and want the best for you! It helps people to do a little something to brighten your day. Face it, Tiffany; people around the world love you and want you to recover successfully. 💙💙💙 That's because we can see what a loving and caring person you are.
I totally get the anxiety going to appointments on bad days. I have a chronic illness and if appointments hit on a bad day oh good lord it’s so difficult to make it through. Congrats on the car ride !
Same.
Tiff I think you should do a tee, sweatshirt, hoodie with "a lot a lot a lot", I just love when you say that. Do what doctors say. Please don't be hard on yourself. Love yourself, all of you, no matter what. ❤️ you got this.
It's sure not easy, but you're doing it dear Tiffany, with the help of Amma and Matt! I'm so glad you did decide to go to the appointment, and not reschedule it. The extra reassurance from the doctor, as to your progress, was very good news! Carry on, Tiffany. Sending love to you all.
Happy Valentines Day. So glad that you have Matt and Amma. Sending you love and prayers for a full and healthy recovery. You are loved by so many. Please take all the time you need to take care of you!! We are all with you. We Got This!
U r so strong. I’ve decided to just do palliative care. I jus can’t fight anymore. Stay strong everyone. You’ve got this. I’m just worn out.
Much love from Kentucky, Lesley and Medical Service dog Jake. Take care.
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I just saw something that was kind of a red flag. I will leave it at that. Tiffany, honey, just remember that you are going to live a long, healthy life now. And also remember that some people come into your life for a moment. Some people come into your life for a season. Some people come into your life for forever. Never forget that. 💙 We've got this!
Glad to hear you healing nicely even though it takes time. Sending you lots of love, prayers and a big hug…💙💪🙏
Recovery from injury, infection or other diseases has pattern. Many patients in hosp[ital want to go home asap but they do not realise how compromised they are and how long the healing process takes. You are provided wuth every support in hospital, but the being at home brings many challenges. Sickness and injury trigger healing and a powerful response in the body.Appetite is supressed , long periods of sleep, depression limits activity and aids healing. Healing may take months . Your quiet coping with every challenge is a special type of courage.
I always hate when I complain about something because then I always think, someone is going through way worse. You’re so strong! I can’t imagine what you’re going through but you’re doing great! I love you! 💙💙💙💙💙
Happy Valentine’s day to you Mat and mom ……. hugs and prayers ❤❤
Hi Tiffany! Happy V Day!♥️♥️♥️. I'm not sure where your pain is coming from but have you seen the donut hole pillows? I have one for my chronic lower back pain and it helps. I'd love if you posted the date when you recorded the video. It worries me to see you in so much pain and pray that you are much better today Feb 14th. Thank you for sharing your cancer journey and know that you got this!!!♥️
So good to see you ❤❤❤ I loved seeing your half boiled egg 🥚 I was raised by my grandparents.. my grandfather was from Wales 🏴 and anytime I wasn’t feeling well or for a snack that’s what he or my grandmother would make for me … with toast to dip in!!! ❤❤❤❤❤ You are so strong and sweet … you’ll get there soon to be able to be more comfortable ❤❤❤ I love your family you are all so sweet and caring ❤ The way to thank everyone is to just keep healing ❤