How to Know They're 'The One': Discernment in Dating

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  • Questions to ask yourself #christiandating #discernment
    Delphine shares some questions to help you discern whether the person you're dating is the one you should marry. It's hard to know for sure but if you can answer these questions, plus seek God's counsel, you're well on the road to discerning whether your partner should be for life.
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  • @mikaylabarnes3471
    @mikaylabarnes3471 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Thank you for the video, Delphine!! I am getting married in April of this year, and this channel has been a continuous positive place for me to learn, discuss, and grow important aspects of my relationship. My fiance is definitely a healing person for me! God bless this SALT channel, and thank you for your ministry. 💙💛🧡

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow, that's so encouraging to hear!! God bless you as you prepare for your marriage

    • @delphinediscusses
      @delphinediscusses 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Praise God! What a beautiful testimony - wishing you all the best with your wedding and marriage prep for this April. How exciting

    • @Zubzero353
      @Zubzero353 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for the beautiful and heart warming video. I'm a Christian who is based in Dubai. I pray to find a true love which is grounded in the love of Christ Jesus. Unfortunately, the Salt app does not work in Dubai. So sad and disappointing.

  • @kayz5428
    @kayz5428 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Always a pleasure hearing from you Delphine 🥰

    • @ryanwdavies1
      @ryanwdavies1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Really good ❤

    • @ryanwdavies1
      @ryanwdavies1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Big thumbs up 👍❤ Thank you

  • @JohnCGUNSNFREEDOM
    @JohnCGUNSNFREEDOM 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Not dating anyone at the moment so I can't answer that atm lol. I pray for her ,whoever she turns out to be.

  • @sunflowerglaze
    @sunflowerglaze 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    These are great points. I was smiling throughout.

  • @pelumiadewumi3879
    @pelumiadewumi3879 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Nice and balanced content. Always a pleasure to hear from you, Delphine. Hope to meet you in person someday.

  • @pamelabrown2028
    @pamelabrown2028 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for this post Delphine, and btw, your hair is lovely ❤

    • @delphinediscusses
      @delphinediscusses 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aw, thank you so much! The saying goes, a woman who cuts her hair is about to change her life ;) so I was ready for a new beginning. So glad you enjoyed the video. Have a wonderful weekend, Pamela!

  • @joesolomon2639
    @joesolomon2639 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Knowledge is power. Thanks for the update Delphine

  • @SigneStraarup
    @SigneStraarup 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so good 💕

  • @bettycooper2924
    @bettycooper2924 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good wisdom! And great haircut, Delphine. That's a very pretty color on you! 💚

    • @delphinediscusses
      @delphinediscusses 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh, Betty! This is the encouragement I needed today ;) Thank you for sharing and Happy Sunday!

  • @user-rd5ye5jn9y
    @user-rd5ye5jn9y 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    you somehow reminded me of Dallas Willard, the christian I most admire.

  • @leilawilliams8175
    @leilawilliams8175 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    While most of these questions were answered with a "yes" right from the get-go was very guarded about letting myself be attacted and drawn to the man that is now my husband until AFTER I had been convinced through prayer and the advice of my parents that I should marry him. So, since attraction in a relationship grows and it's actually wise to be guarded, be careful about making an absence of a "passion and attraction layer" be a deal breaker.

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's nice to hear a different perspective

  • @amoule131
    @amoule131 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This sound so wonderful! But Thats just Phantasie

  • @Kiaajordan
    @Kiaajordan 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you 🤍🦋

  • @user-rd5ye5jn9y
    @user-rd5ye5jn9y วันที่ผ่านมา

    esto siempre me da tanta paz que he llegado a pensar que es algo sobrenatural

  • @esther1618
    @esther1618 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing Delphine! Could you please share the resources of questions you recommend asking? Thank you! :)

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      th-cam.com/video/VrRXqd8bfXM/w-d-xo.html

    • @esther1618
      @esther1618 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@be_salt thank you! 😊

  • @spencerbungard3152
    @spencerbungard3152 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Delphine, great video and sound advice. I wondered on your thoughts about discerning marriage with someone who is not a believer? I know the Catholic Church permits such marriages so long as they commit to a premarital course and are wedded within the Church. What would constitute as being “unevenly yoked” if the Church permits marriage to potential spouses of different faiths and those with no faith? Thanks 😊

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This probably doesn't answer your question completely but check out this video where Delphine and Lauren talk about dating outside your denomination: th-cam.com/video/E30NMiHK0Pw/w-d-xo.html

  • @user-rd5ye5jn9y
    @user-rd5ye5jn9y 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amen

  • @user-rd5ye5jn9y
    @user-rd5ye5jn9y 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I just want to let you know I talk to God about you. I hope you're doing well. God bless you.

  • @cristianoalves-qu1ck
    @cristianoalves-qu1ck 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Vou começar a aprender inglês gostei do app . Internet conhecer outros países.

  • @stopomccampet
    @stopomccampet 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Where do I find the list for the suitability questions?

    • @be_salt
      @be_salt  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      For Delphine's handy list of pre-engagement questions click here: drive.google.com/file/d/1WEA-edE2RRZMcQGVjSnokVYBOTZM_RhU/view?usp=sharing

  • @user-dr7bx3uo6z
    @user-dr7bx3uo6z 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am opposed to the concept of dating as it currently exists. Basically, it's an advertising game, where you try to convince other people that you are better for them than any other person! The problem is that you always put your best foot forward. I will not try to "sell" myself to anyone. I am single living by myself, and that won't change. Life is a one shot deal and I chose not to participate in this aspect of "how the world turns."

    • @bettycooper2924
      @bettycooper2924 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I don't think it's about presenting yourself as better than anyone else. I think it's just about presenting yourself well, putting your best foot forward. If you put effort into appearance or a dating profile, for example, and show you're involved in your faith and have interests, then those things are attractive.

    • @user-dr7bx3uo6z
      @user-dr7bx3uo6z 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bettycooper2924 I suppose that's a good way to look at it. But there are other problems in my personality that prohibit me from dating successfully, so I will simply remain single permanently.

    • @bpeper1365
      @bpeper1365 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-dr7bx3uo6zwhat problems?