Dr. Drew on Narcissism, Cancel Culture, and Mob Destruction
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- Physician and media personality Dr. Drew Pinsky witnessed the rise of narcissistic personality disorders over his decades practicing medicine and now sees them exploding into the public sphere. He lays out the anatomy of narcissism, including its roots in childhood trauma, empathic failure, and the destructive effects of shame and envy. Dr. Drew believes that narcissistic traits are a primary driver of mob behavior, cancel culture, and scapegoating, likening today’s cultural dynamics to pre-revolutionary France. The grandiose pseudo-empathy of woke activism is, in his view, a telltale sign of narcissism, allowing troubled individuals to cloak their dysfunction by aggressively signaling their supposed care for others.
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It's interesting how he responded to "How do I know if I'm a narcissist?"
He actually describes in his answer how victims in constant contact with narcissists might feel. Narcissists know how to find their victims, and most victims have been groomed to be narcissistic supply.
Narcissists are unfair, they make you feel empty, you long for a better relationship with them or long to get away from them, you can't connect to them and they won't allow you to properly connect to others because they triangulate and manipulate which wreaks havoc in your relationships with others, and they cause people to feel anxious with their crazy making. Narcissists systematically make their victims feel like they're the ones with the problem.
My answer to that question of "How do you know if you're a narcissist?"
You never wonder if you are. That's how you know.
Narcs are drawn to empaths like me. They mistake my kindness for weakness. BIG mistake!
❤
Sure…
Seek therapy
Not even close. Do you think narcs either confirm or deny it to themselves if confronted? 95% percent of them don’t wonder if they are, being perfect in every way.
"Seek therapy"
Spoken like a true narcissist. I see you.
I was scapegoated by a mob of narcissists at my former workplace and it was awful…silver lining: I’m now privy to what narcissistic wounding and rage is, and how to identify a narcissist. I’ve learned more about discernment, my codependent habits, boundary setting, my own narcissistic traits…I’m learning about all of the traits and habits that placed me in resonance with attracting abuse and drama, and I’m healing it. I’m certainly not excusing their behavior….absolutely NOT, but rather than be the victim I’m taking responsibility and therefore my power back. And imo that’s the answer to this dilemma, is to take the time you need to heal your trauma, and learn how to individuate. ❤
Boundaries are one of my best friends. My "no" muscle is very strong.
@@angelbulldog4934 🙏🏽
@kristinanderson1983 my "no muscle" is very strong, too. I'm very independent and have a good sense of how to set and respect healthy boundaries. My biggest problem is that I'm too forgiving and give too much grace. But is that really a bad thing? I mean, I understand it greatly contributes to my appeal to narcissists, but I don't want to lose that part of myself in order to counter sick people. The very notion of that is pretty sad. I'm still trying to work through the best way for me, personally, to navigate these people. I refuse to believe that becoming more like them is the answer, but I think the world would have you believe that is the solution.
@ I’ve wondered about this too, and I think you are onto something about finding your own way. Maybe it’s like learning how to dance, when you learn a technique you integrate all the steps to improvise in a satisfactory and unique way.
Selflessness was replaced by entitlement and vain post-camera self-idolatry.
What happens when narcissm spreads? It turns into California.
LOL!
A lot of these people are damaged in childhood from entitlement and being spoiled feeling like they weren't important enough for their own parents to care and spend the time to instruct, guide and discipline them properly.
Boom. I am witnessing this firsthand. It often start with their parents. The failures of their parents. Why I think we are seeing such an uptick of Narcissism these days. Often, parents of who fall under the Millennials umbrella, didn't care, didn't "parent". So they grew up doing whatever they felt like doing with little to no consequences. This scenario is unfolding right in front of my eyes. In one way it's sad, in another way it is infuriating as now my own child is forced to deal with it, in a 3rd generation way. So I am on this channel to educate myself as much as possible, in order to help my own child navigate these often nightmarish individuals.
He’s saying what we’re all thinking about cancel culture but are afraid to say publicly
When I was young, we had "counter culture". We had no desire to eliminate of delete anybody. We just wanted to be left alone to live our lives. There were no Karens and people weren't offended by every single word.
I've recently experienced severe vandalism related to envy from a person who posed as a friend for 20+ years. I didn't think highly of this person when I met them in '98-'99. I didn't want to be prejudiced. I tried giving him a chance. I learned a lot from him, he is a few years older than me. In '08 I out performed him in a measurable arena. And I didn't know we were competing. They didn't try harder, their actions just became covertly vindictive, destructive, and dangerous.
Some people can't stand to see someone, who they believe is beneath them, succeed.
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Do not attempt to practice empathy and compassion with a cluster B. They will absolutely leverage it against you, and by the time you realize this, it will be too late.
Amen!
Cluster A personality disorders are the "mad". Cluster B are the "bad". Cluster C are the "sad". That's how psychiatrists refer to them in shorthand.
In my experience some of the most openly religious people are narcissists. They do that obnoxious "I'll pray for you" when someone disagrees with them.
They think they alone get to preach God's plan.
Blasphemy 🙏🏽
@@ExecutiveZombieRofl 😂
That’s blasphemy. You can hate religious people all you want but that doesn’t make you right.
@@Rscottphillips maybe you should pray for...
Interesting. I haven't experienced that, although I've heard of people doing that. I'll pray for you. (sorry, I had to add that).
Don't be part of a mob. You can be a unique beast!
Control. manipulationn, lying, faalse aaccusations, projection & gaslighting. Detroyed my family. Our triune God & yes living in His Word is the only hope & way to survive & choose to thrive though all has been stolen from you. Pray for them til your dying day.
8:18 he’s talking about what is often called “Virtue Signaling”
I used to think that I was narcissistic but now I know I’m amazing.
Has anyone ever met someone, whom thinks everyone else is a narcisist?
Yes, ironically they are often narcissist because projection is a tactic that they often default to in defense of their pathology or they may have trauma from narcissist which is why they anticipate it everywhere.
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*Who
@@peaceandllov Whom, who🤷😂
@@josefheinz5309 Good points.
I entered this world through a narc birthing canal. She died when I was 65, so I've had a lifelong education from living it. She's not the only one in my family or in my life. I think I may know one of the BIG things that could cause narcissism. I've mentioned it to a few professionals with channels here, but nobody will address it. I see what I see.
@@angelbulldog4934 please share here if you don't mind. I'm intrigued.
Please share ! ❤
What is it?!
My ex was picking her nails when we went to therapy and the therapist was literally talking to us while kind of motioning towards her with his hands while still being completely engaged because I really loved her and wanted it to work. She was 35, I was 36 when we met and she said at one point she could get any guy she wants and that was an eye opener because I knew there were certain behaviors that no one would be able to deal with some of the behaviors I was seeing. Hardest thing I have ever done is leave her. She was beautiful and very charming, great smile, great sex, etc but she got jealous of my ex wife because she was pretty to but I assured her I was in love and honestly was. Know it’s not my fault but I literally felt stupid for wanting her to love me or wondered why I still loved her after some pretty horrible things were said.
Easy brother she did things you liked.
Missed the point. She *could* gte any man she wanted, and obviously did in her 20s. Giant red flag, a may-day parade even.
Worthwhile discussion. Thanks, Dad.
We have too much trauma, because there is not enough Resilience in the world ...
We’re born with our personalities. Environment can influence us in a positive or negative way. Parents aren’t supposed to be everything to us, and if you expect that when they drop the ball in a game they’re still learning, often this is where our issues start with the “idea” that parents are all knowing gods, when they’re simply people who had kids. So, as an adult, it’s our responsibility to be honest with ourselves and find out who WE are, without manipulating others in order to help us do that. No “therapy” needed!🤷🏽♀️
Until our culture can go back to supporting the emotional/relational needs of children, all mental health issues will continue to rise. IMHO
No... if you have been insulted by someone on a date for no reason.. that is a narcissist. Narcissists love to insult you and break you down to get you to worship them. They will test you to see how much you will take on the abuse scale.. they will even go as far as to date you JUST to break up with you.
7:28 This! This is, unfortunately, the kind of narcissistic behavior my mother and grandmother and aunts take. I’m so glad to hear this kind of narcissistic behavior called out. Too often it is overlooked or even rewarded, and that’s how it continues to persist in the culture.
Narcissism hadn't changed. It's become a scapegoat. When people look out for their own interests, less capable people will pull out the narcissist card. There are psychopaths, but it's too easy to call somebody a narcissist who doesn't let you get away with screwing around.
A narcissist is someone who looks out for their own interests at the expense of others.
You're a narc yourself, you're ignorant on the topic, or you never were targeted by a narc. Which is it? And remember, the truth doesn't need your awareness or permission to be true.
@angelbulldog4934
Why would I let myself be targeted by a narcissist? It's just an excuse for being a gullible victim. Sometimes I wonder if those who are blaming their woes on "narcs" are the narcissists... but it's one of those words that has come to mean whatever the speaker thinks it means.
@@jamesjames5896
That makes sense. That kinda describes all of us, the difference being when and where to draw the line.
@@elgringoecMost people dont look out for their own interests at the expense of others. This is known as machiavellianism and is one of three interrelated personality traits that make up the dark triad (the other two are narcissism and psychopathy).
Very good! Thankyou for the video 😊 sharing it now 🙏
Rage + aggression = hangry (metabolic dysfunction)
Food not therapy… 👍
Idk my guy, I have known some marines that kick people through a wall with a full belly lmao.
I love this podcast and how much effort you have invested into production quality. Seriously deserves more views.
I suffered from many narcissistic traits and behaviors. I managed to reform my disposition and make life livable. If you want to recover from narcissism, you can. But you have to want to. There are a few cases of irredeemable narcissism, but that number is exaggerated. Don't feel like you're doomed to suffer from narcissism for life.
He's wrong about jealousy.
Jealousy is the feeling one experiences when something you have is threatened by someone or something.
Example: your spouse's love or attention, by their friend, work, schooling. Or your daughter's affection for another mother or father figure. Or your teacher's favorism toward another student (after favoring you).
Envy is coveting what someone else has that you don't have: a spouse, wealth, good grades.
Good discussion thank you. Fortunately there is a God above and he still heals those who will be healed.
Oh Vey… Dr. Drew, 🥵
I have Anger, Sorrow and Rebuking Lucifer (full narcissist) stories. 🤕
I have victory also tho! 😊 Phew. 🙏🏽😎
Called. “Christ.” 🫡
Envy CAN destroy. Dont let it! Jealousy is a valid feeling within boundaries.
Amen
Absolutely ❤ Pride and Envy are terrible and lead to very bad things. Pride is the gateway drug to even worse behavioral problems.
You can see it in the justice system or should i say, vengeance system.
The Just Us system.
Step one: survive.
Step two: make life easier, pursue happiness
Step three: everyone is narcissistic and directionless
Step four: medicate everyone until happy
"In crowds it is stupidity and not mother wit that is accumulated."
Gustave Le Bon, on explaining narcissism and modern woke culture
Excellent video! I’m so impressed with the variety of guest you have on.
In summary: Act like God is watching at all times. Funny how advice can be millennia old and still valid.
Doesn't have to be god.
There is always someone who sees/knows what you are doing. Even if nobody says anything.
The Hebrew God is the best thing to ever happen to humanity and people want to be rid of it "because I'm so clever and have desires" 🤡 Morons. The good news is they're easy to avoid having real relationships with 😂
It’s a spiritual disease.
I tend to agree with this in some respects.
We all need therapy and healing 7:59 now. We’ve suffered months of narcissistic abuse just by listening to some of the political candidates who think they are right, and tell us that they know everything. Narcissists don’t change.
Dr. Drew misses the mark here. Sorry, the narcissist cannot change. Telling a narcissist to "adopt the golden rule daily" is an utter joke!!!
That’s an online myth. Anyone can change if they work on themselves hard enough
@@michellesecrett1 Most personality disorders are incurable. Why that is is unclear, as far as I know. My guess is that the individuals think they are perfect or that others are at fault. Therefore, they do not want to change their mind. If it's genetic, you can't change your mind.
That's what I was taught in psychology at university.
That everyone can change their mind is wishful thinking, which is very prominent within certain ideologies. They believe in equality and their ideology is ruined unless everyone is malleable. It is inconceivable that some people are simply better than others.
@niklasmolen4753
"These are aweful people and can never change." I feel that sets an extremely dangerous precedent.
You are very misinformed. Pathological narcissism is treatable. The issue is that there aren't enough specialists to treat them. Psychoanalytic therapy seems to be the closest to figuring it out. Perhaps listen to Otto Kernberg, Diana Diamond, Frank Yeomans. The Heal NPD channel will also open up that rabbit hole. Codependents also play a huge role in enabling people who treat them poorly. We all need to focus on becoming emotionally mature and learning how to protect ourselves.
@@niklasmolen4753incorrect. It's just that people don't understand how to treat it. Psychoanalysis is probably the most successful. The psychiatric field hasn't got a clue. Even the DSM5 misunderstands pathological narcissism
Dr. Drew, God sees everything!
Very good, although so-called 'trauma' is totally overblown.
If you were not subject to bad childhood trauma, then you have no idea what you're talking about.
To try to minimize/invalidate another person's experience = textbook NPD stuff.
thats a very insightful interview!!
some years ago i realised for myself 'we are living in the age of the self'
well, i better replace 'self' with 'narcissism'
I blame a lot of this on the law of attraction stuff. I've read a few books and generally it's about you, you, you, you. flush all the people that need help and force only on you. Life is about balance, and it ain't all about you!
That’s a good point and main character syndrome is rampant, we’re all a side character in other people’s story
LOL OK 😂😂
@@kni9ght You are definitely correct on that! Most wont/ever see that tho, because their heads are so far up their own butts. I see it every day. Kindness to each other is pretty much gone unfortunately.
Nahhhh, law of attraction is about self love, it’s just being misused as a main character tool. Its a self love hack that reminds you of your core self so that you can become solid in your morals/values and not let another person, no matter how close they are to you, especially narcissistic people, take over your own autonomy. Life IS about balance and the law of attraction is about manifesting who you are into form. You can clearly see what someone is about by what where why and who they are surrounded by and how they use this tool. Scapegoating LofA is not it.
@ yeah, everybody talks about investments and such but kindness is the only one you can 10x to get back a hundred fold with no taxes
what happens when a narcissist becomes a psychiatrist.
They become psychologists/psychiatrist to hide the fact that they are narcissists. There are many such. Many other factors come into play, so they can do their job well, even though they are bad individuals.
They play abusive games with people seeking help.
*celebrity psychiatrist
I agree with everything the Doc said. Great questions and thanks for the interview.
Thanks again.
Gotta be a nerd on the Dr.'s description of Jealously (I have a bit of a Greek Frenzy generated imparitives to object).
His description of Envy is splended, and resonates to the Envy spiral of Socialists. I often liken it to Aphrodite's Girl from Iponema effect on the mob.
Jealousy is harder to speek impeccably on. Coveting of what is already yours. In light of Yahweh's reputation, I ask if "he" wants to be known, or works against it. Very Melpomene.
Keep up the great work.
Drew should be an expert on this by now working next to Adam for the past 25 years.
This was very helpful, thank you
I think we arrived here "all at once" due to a ton of dysfunctional families that were tied to specific jobs and those children are at specific ages . Also once 1 opens up others recognise they have similar issue
He's right that we are in the midst of a narcissism epidemic. However, he couldn't be more wrong about the nature of narcissism. Narcissists don't have a deep-down sense of shame. They are too shallow to have anything deep down, and they feel no shame. Shame is the feeling that goes along with being in a subordinate social position, which narcissists refuse to occupy. Narcissists are people who are trying to occupy a higher rung on the social ladder than they can successfully defend. If they perceive that someone is challenging their social rank, they can become enraged. The so-called narcissistic rage is just dominance aggression. Dominance aggression is something that occurs in animals that are too primitive mentally to recognize themselves in a mirror, so it can exist even without a sense of self. The "narcissistic supply" that narcissists so desperately crave is just expressions of fawning submission from subordinates. The difference between "grandiose narcissism" and "fragile narcissism" is merely the absence or presence of a perceived challenge to their social rank. Narcissists can go from grandiose to fragile in a nanosecond if they encounter someone who is unquestionably superior to them in some way or if someone simply refuses to fawn on them. I correct other people's grammar for a living. As a result, I have seen far more raging narcissists than most psychiatrists have.
The only way a narcissist could ever change is if circumstances "force" him to change. It's the only way. Forget words, because he'll lie his ass off!
Great conversation! Thank you for this video
How someone feels? when they know deep inside that they are bad people.
Thank you Dr Drew!
Beautiful🌹Thank You Dr. Drew♥️
Wonderful interview, so well done
Camera, golden rule, thanks
Trump's surgeon general (if i were s betting per$on,) is either Dr Drew 👆🏻 or
Dr Phil
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Yes Dr Drew
So i hear this as an advertisement for "Narcissism". Let me become a better narcissist to combat the elevated levels in society.
Feelings indeed matter.
But what's crucial is that we all understand that feelings are easily-manipulated through the incredibly powerful propaganda that we are constantly subjected to.
Just think of what all has occurred over the past 5 years alone?
Also, to not deal with the truth cause/source of the problematic, recurring bad feeling that one has.. and rather try to blame another person for "causing" that in us, is all kinds of dysfunctional and is essentially what NPD is.
NPDs hold others responsible for the crappy feelings that they have, that they refuse to work on.
at 12:57 Dr Drew said that Narcissistic personality disorder wasn't as common in the 1800's. That would concur with the bible's prediction in 2 Timothy chapter 3 that in the end days men would be "lovers of their own selves"... sounds like narcissism to me! Here's the rest of the passage..
This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.
For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
Tools
Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,
Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.
For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts,
Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.
Now as Jannes and Jambres withstood Moses, so do these also resist the truth: men of corrupt minds, reprobate concerning the faith.
But they shall proceed no further: for their folly shall be manifest unto all men, as theirs also was.
Thank you so so much dr drew.
good video , subbed. Thanks!
Etiquete, Golden Rule Ready…😎🙌🏽
Insightful. Thank you
Somebody's watching me.
Envy has been the root to anti- semitism for so long. They are envious of our intelligence and success and our ability to make wonderful things out of nothing or despite the hatred.
Great insights here; I think the good doctor is describing all the "Karen's" and road rage we see so much of.
And the paranoid.. people who feel they are victims when they are clearly not victims.
Im the past it went all over the place but no one had therapy nor awareness.
Mine used to come to do damage control by gaslighting the therapist..s.
If there’s an increase in narcissists then there is also an increase in psychopaths .
Do psychopaths feel that deep level of shame
I don’t think so
This video is interspersed with accurate and inaccurate (or straight up misleading) advice on narcissistic personality disorder. Beware of this video unless you have the knowledge/experience with this particular PD to weed out the inaccuracies and even the political leanings of Drew. He says just enough accurate things in this vid to make you want to believe the inaccurate ones. Let's just say that if I were a narcissist, the kind with total NPD, I would LOVE this video. It totally generalizes the disorder and makes it seem like tons of people have it (makes it easier for me to fit in), plus it calls for other people to be empathetic with MY condition so I am free to get that supply from pretending to be vulnerable. If I were a full blown NPD narcissist, I'd be promoting Drew's take on this for sure. BUT, he's supposed to be a Dr. and should know better. His political leanings may be getting in the way of his ability to share unbiased information.
i caution against "assuming there is a camera on you."
dont end up making your whole persona a performance.
The guy who does promos for V-Shred is lecturing about an epidemic of narcissism? Hahaha. Cool story
So it begs the question, what is the precursor for the childhood trauma that eventually leads to narcissism?? Is it completely random with ebbs and flows from historical events. Or is it planned?? Are seeds planted and grown in such a way to guarantee cultural “churn” -a thinning of the herd so to speak??
So scientific.
In terms of being treated, that might be possible but you need to get them to the psychologist first. If you sift through the comments, you will see some great explanations and processes that need to happen. I was once told by a friend who was involved with one, she had suggested going to a marriage counselor, and the narc said rather arrogantly, “I will counsel the counselor.” So that wasn’t going to happen.
So they continue on with their path of destruction with one victim after another. And peoples lives are ruined.
Scapegoating! Blaming everything on Robespierre!
This video is kinda misleading around the 4 minute mark. It just shows that he is an elite who wants to keep elite status and has to quell the inequality talk by saying your a narc if you are mad that your dirt poor working hard while someone else sits around and does nothing throwing money in your face while actively working to make you worse off.
Sorry, but I have to laugh. How perfect: Dr. Drew on narcissism. If narcissism were intelligence, Dr. Drew would be a genius. He's intimately acquainted with narcissism. It took him from late-night talk radio where he dispensed bad advice to vulnerable women, to the heights of his narcissistic achievement we see now: interviews on TH-cam.
Can a narcissist stop themselves from doing/saying damaging things? Can they be a narc but still be a decent person?
Pathological narcissism is one of the three interrelated dark personality traits. Pathological narcissism is the anithesis of being a decent person. The other end of the spectrum is altruism. Sense of Shame and empathy are primary deterrents to performing harmful actions towards others. Narcissists avoid shame and lack empathy. Further, narcissists delude them selves and create a false idealised self, thus they dont think there is anything wrong with what they do. They transfer blame and shame onto their victims to protect the false self.
Sometimes the world is the problem. Pathologizing the response to that is convenient for anyone invested in a system.
What would you classify the obsession people have of posting nothing but pictures of themselves on instagram? Id call that abject Narcissism.
Dr. Drew is an internal medicine doctor, not a psychiatrist.
All I can say is - watch where we point the fingers ;o)
I’ve noticed this as well. How do u tell a narcissist they are one?
you don't EVER tell someone that they are a narcissist; they will annihilate you verbally and sometimes physically
Interesting concept I came across is how often narcissism is misdiagnosed as autism.
Was listening to a doctor talk on the subject, I forget his name, though. I could try to find the video later. I wonder how much it's true and if it's true I wonder if this autism spectrum idea is actually a narcissism spectrum.
I think you’re absolutely correct! There has always been a concerted effort made by the ruling class to prevent the peasants from becoming aware of how absolutely trashed society is. It is well understood that cluster B conditions are primarily a result of childhood trauma, but if there was an explosion in childhood trauma(which was brought on by the massive changes in society), that would be something that the ruling class would want to keep hidden. How did they do that? By turning a trauma based condition into a genetically based condition, i.e., “you’re not traumatized from living in such a broken world, you’re inherently dysfunctional”. Same goes for ADHD, though that’s a bit different. It’s eerily similar to the idea of original sin, which makes sense, considering that psychiatry, and the medical industry broadly, has largely taken the place of religion and clergy as the controlling arm of the ruling class. But you know what? I don’t actually think children are more traumatized than they were 50 years ago, or throughout history. In fact, i think they are much less traumatized. When a child is traumatized deeply enough, and absolutely terrified of the adults in their life, they become like little robots. Totally dissociated and easy to control. But when they feel more safe with the people around them, they are much less dissociated, more aware of their emotions, and more difficult to control. So as children have become less traumatized and less abused, they have become more conscious and aware, making it appear as though they are suffering more than children were 70 years ago. Unless we live in a world that is natural, where we do not have to repress our feelings at all, there will be suffering, but again, the very fact that humans now feel safe enough to express that suffering indicates that we are moving away from suffering and not towards it. I hope that makes sense!
0:53 Or she spends most of her time dealing with narcissists who scapegoat their partners lol
America tried to guillotine me.
Robert J Lifton researched the ideology behind a cultural revolution. Is this what happens in authoritarian dangerous high control groups/ideologies which create pseudo-personality (M. Singer) overlays?
Always
Felt
Jealousy bad
Envy good
Shame on me😊
No my husband grew into full blown npd in his 30s omg
I want to hear from Dads Of America on how millennials & Gen Z were raised by boomer narcissistic parents in which the creation of therapy children came to be. The prior generation has destroyed the concept of being a parent.
I am always being watched. I have lesrened ro KNOW i am always being wsyched and i always imagine my kids are watching me.
Since i want my kids to be indapanant and empjwered and able to get aling i role model those behaviours.
I’ve had arguments with people about the vague definition of narcissistzzzzz
I find it funny how most every girl that had a guy break up with them, they instantly start calling him a narcissist.
@@gunsandpoker7432 True NPD = delusions of superiority and infallibility/aka the "I can't be wrong!" silliness.
14:57
College students have long had it pounded into their heads, that the US is all kinds of "bad" for doing the exact same thing (over 100 years ago).
= Why they are po'd
Don't get it twisted!
What is the golden rule?
Love thy neighbor as thyself. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Modern Christianity has turned into doing the exact opposite of what Jesus said in order to "go along to get along". Professing Christians think it's Godly to justify the wicked and condemn the just, even though God said those who do that are an abomination to Him.
People don't read the Bible. They just imagine whatever they want it to say then persecute anyone who actually follows the Bible because they are "judgmental bigots". Those same "judge not" people always say "judge not" right after falsely accusing you of nonsense. You can't have a rebuttal. They accused you so you're guilty, even if what they accuse you of is literally physically impossible. People try to force you to live the narc's delusions so the narc isn't "offended" or "upset". They don't give a damn how much damage the narc causes. It's all your fault anyways. You made them do it! Judge not!
I think the golden rule only makes sense if you are the same as everyone around you. If you are different and have different wants and needs the golden rule will get you into trouble. A better rule is do unto others as they would have done unto themselves. With the caveat that it's not harmful to them or others.
Or do unto others as they would do unto others which is more of a game theory type rule. Tit for tat. Though if they would be harmful you can skip harming them and walk away
They've developed it over lifetimes. People develop their traits over lifetimes on various planets.
Is earth out of balance? Yes, it is at the moment.
The human is not the problem. Lies and false teachings is the problem. Copyrighted.