Really. What would be your response if two men were spreading lied that your wife and sister are 304s sold by their parents for a price. What should happen to these two men.
@@billyjohnson9166 Really. When they went outside he had Dexter in front of him and Justin right behind him. They went outside to fight and it was two on 1. Someone tried to stop Justin inside the Coffee shop by grabbing his shirt but he pulled away. The words were Let's take it outside and it was 2 on 1 walking out that door. Moreover the video shows Justin turned around in his seat instigating the altercation. All I know is if I have one person who wants to fight in front of me and another right behind me I am not going to let either of them hit me first. Maybe you think it's okay to call one man's wife a 304 and her sister engaged to another foreign man a 304. Then refers to the parents as selling their daughters in return for major improvements to their house. This was the chismis spread by Justin and Dexter. Personally I would have just told the father and men in the two daughter's Barangay.
@@billyjohnson9166 So don't defend yourself against violence towards yourself? How do you defend yourself from aggressive violence? Run? Get hurt? What reality do you live in?
I have three goals. 1. To live my remaining days without posting a video 🤣. 2. To cultivate what ever it takes to remain a welcome guest in the country. 3. To find lasting peace.
@@mikesphilippineretirement Anyone that puts their life on video pays a price. Plenty of trolls out there so you need a THICK skin. The good news there is some real money to be made on TH-cam. If it ever gets to the point that I can't live in the Phil's on $3,000 a month I'll give TH-cam a shot. Otherwise my plan is to live a low key retirement to avoid trolls. I was glad to retire early from my $9K dollars a month HIGH pressure job! But I do miss the monthly $9K. I had no need to budget until I retired! LOL
Mike, when I first started watching you I actually was not a fan. But you won me over! You are a thoughtful man. I like your factual calm and straight forward talks. Keep up the good work.
@@mikesphilippineretirement Mike, I found your videos a few months ago, you won me over right away with your reasoning and logic. I will arrive there in Cebu in May, looking for a good place to settle down for retirement. I am a widower for 9 years now. Hopefully I will meet a good lady after settling in.
Excellent point about Steve. His whole TH-cam channel is focused on being helpful to random strangers. Takes a pretty small person to attack a man like that.
Mike, don't let those bums bother you. You run a nice clean channel with usesul information, those that need to use drama to receive views are a flash in the pan. They will be found out for what they are sooner than laterand and be gone. You have the best channel as far as I'm concerned.
Excellent video ! Love your calm and peaceful way of expressing your negative feelings about some TH-camrs. Keep your vibrant energy and nonjudgmental videos coming. Love them.
I'll be moving to the PI and am a veteran. My attitude about the youtubers criticizing and condemning the actions of others, shows the "true lack of character the people have." Proverbial crabs in a basket, trying to make themselves look better than others!
Agreed! We should be respectful of other's life decisions. Any low life can be critical. It only displays the ignorance and depravity of such a person.
If you’re coming here and you’re a veteran especially retired military, please check in with the RAO office. In Angeles city near Clark international airport..old Air Force Base..😊
Thanks Mike. Being fair levelheaded and positive -putting things in the correct perspective is why your channel is successful. After having met both Justin and Mike of Mikes Dauin Beach Resort in person I found Mike to be another choice for Dive training and certification. I would recommend interviewing him as well. I found him a professional, respectful and mature dive shop owner. He is a successful family man from the US as-well w 3 kids. His Padi Dive training is more flexible and accommodating to many needs. His shop even offers Padi training courses partly on-line for those w limited schedules. it’s good to investigate the various dive shop options.
thanks for the info about Mikes Dauin Beach Resort. When I get out there I want to check out several dive resorts and maybe review or update my certification and do some dives.
not really John I have the freedom to delated any comment that I find is making personnel attacks on others This is not the first time you have done this but it will be the last on my channel. If you have nothing good to say about a person and the business they have, you should not say anything. You can promote your friends business but not at the cost of putting others in a bad light
Mike, I'm like the others. Getting to know you is growing to respect you. I lived in the Phils from 2010 to 2021. I lived it the hard way, finding work and getting by. I was really lucky. I wish that I had advice like yours to guide me when I was there. I'm thinking about returning now. The USA is such a sad mess now. Same problems as you point out between expats there. People judging each other and hating each other. Plus mental health is horror story here. I hope we don't contaminate the Filipino culture.
There is drama everywhere in the world. People will be people. It seems like some people are not happy unless they are stirring the pot. If you mind your own business and ignore the people who love drama and live your best life you'll be successful and enjoy your life. Life is what you make it... so just live your best life.
Good Video! Everything I have heard about Dumaguete is that it is a laid back, peaceful place, with friendly people. To me it looks like the people who are talking about the drama are making the drama. May you and Janet have a Happy Easter!
I really respect your calm, common sense. Thank you for giving us your way of seeing things. I am married with a Filipino wife Berlita and we have a beautiful young daughter, here in Canada. We will be permanently moving and living in Philippine in the next few years. I personally have always found that if I treat Filipino's as brothers and sisters (equals) , then I get what I give .
Mike, You said it well today! As you, my wife of 30 years and I are coming to Dumaguete soon to join the local community. I am fast approaching 74 but still have that adventure for traveling. All we want to do is blend in and meet all of the good people there. After working overseas for 48 years in 60 countries all we want is a peaceful, simple, stress free life. We are looking forward to meeting you two. All the best!
I was born and raised in NYC .The lesson I learned over my lifetime when moving is that visit the location your planning to move too. I made the mistake of moving to a city to soon and it took me 12 miserable years to figure out I did not like it there. Then when I moved again after that i promised myself a shorter time line . Folks listen to this man he knows what he is talking about.
I agree with you, Mike. Our family's primary purpose for coming to the Philippines is mostly economical. We've never lived affluently, nor do we want to. I think things are going to get even more expensive as time goes on, so we just feel that we should live as frugally as possible and the Philippines seems like a very good place to try and do that. Secondly, our family embraces a peaceful life, and we'd like to continue that as well as make good close friends, lifelong friends, and to be left alone to live that peaceful life among friends for the rest of our lives.
I once heard " that if you mind your own biscuits, you won't have time to mind mine" Like your videos!!! Keep up the great work. I'm going to Cebu in Oct.
Always live your videos Mike and Janet!!! Good people giving sound advise. Let the haters hate and live life to your fullest!!! Be joining you one day my friend
Thank you for this message, Mike. I'm here looking for that peaceful "soft landing" over the next 10 to 15 years or more hopefully. I know I can live a comfortable life here and be respectful because I am the guest here.
One of your Best as I came to see if I could live there and traveled some of the islands and then I actually came to Dumaguete to meet some TH-camrs and got turned off by them at Ground Zero. Then I met some Filipinos and really clicked; then I met my Girlfriend and all of a sudden my focus changed as All I wanted was PEACE and NO STRESS.. So all of a sudden Sleepy Quiet Duma completely won me over and I'm now moving there in July and while my best friend from the States lives in Cebu, and other friends are up there or elsewhere that is the Life they want. I just want to keep my head down, and be a piece of sand on the beach and just be kind and good to those around me and those i encounter as I AM a reflection of how i treat those I see and meet everyday and just want to greet them with a smile and leave them with a positive note. Your a Good Man Mike and Jan is a doll who has truly blossomed and I avoid the whole Mark & Dexter incident and those gossiping as it so high school and beneath 99% of expats. Let's lift each other up and not compare or tear each other down as there will always be someone Bigger, richer, smarter taller etc. just Be Happy with yourself and who you are is my motto and this is exactly what i believe this video also shows. Thanks and look forward to someday having a coffee with you and Janet.
Mike, as always, you are on point. I love how down to earth you are. Keep up with good work. You may never be a "big" channel, but you will always be one of the top 3 reasons I have married a Filipina and will retire over there. Thank you. And, as I tell my Filipina, and as Janet should also be recognized as, both are the treasure of the Philippines.
There are so many TH-camrs. Many of them can't create interesting content on their own, so they jump on the bandwagon. Mike your channel is one of the interesting ones. I live here in Dumaguete and I like it here. No place is perfect.
Great video Mike, there’s also a relatively new name: WHORAGUETE. This had to do with the new batch of Filipina TH-camrs behaving badly. We have the wife of a well know expat youtuber who mainly does bikini videos in a very despicable way. They could be done with certain class, but this lady doesn’t have any shame showcasing young, teenager Filipinas shaking their “assets”. Shame. Then we have another young Filipina, single mother, who I believe is in the process of getting her K1 visa to USA, but is resourcing to 2 and 3 live streams daily, showing lots of skin or doing work outs wearing almost nothing or very short garments. Some female locals are certainly contributing towards Dumaguete notoriety. Best to you and Janet.
@@mikesphilippineretirement I guess Tess is referring to Mae and Jessel.... Jessel's behavior has changed drastically.., yes, she's engaged to an American fellow but it seems she's trying to attract the wrong type of attention with those semi-sexy videos.
i agree totally with you Mike, im the same as you, older, retired, just want to enjoy my time with wife & Daughter, i dont judge anyone, but expect no one to judge me. i watch you, and paul, goldfinger, i dont drink , but love coffee and chatting, i rarely talk with other expats because alot are in philippines for different reasons.
Me and my wife arrived in the Philippines on May 2nd. We are living here for peace of mind, enjoy the rest of our life- travel- new period in our life’s. We don’t like bad vibes- drama . I have watched many of your videos and enjoy your vibes. I am a friend of Steve.
Good video Mike and I totally agree with your views and approach to life. I don't think anyone can stop others from judging another expat or from complaining about what's happening in Duma. To make matters worse, drama garners views and views=money on YT. So there is monetary incentive to keep stirring the pot. There are underfunded expats who make their living by being a provocateur. With the expolosion of new PI channels, you can only make so many budget, apt or dating videos before you blend into the background.
I think you are a source of information for people that would like to relocate. No matter where you move you cannot avoid people that have their own issues to deal with. Its seems people that would have a tough time being able to afford living in America under today's inflation are trying to make it in the Philippines. I have prepared myself for a Western retirement and will just stay put until my time is up. Thanks for your perspective of life where you are living.
Good video Mike. I watch videos for information purposes and not drama. I avoid drama and try to stay out of everyone else’s business unless they ask for my help. Everyone should have the right to live their lives the way they want to unless it negatively impacts the lives of others. Even then it may not justify my involvement. As for me, I think your video was right on target. Thank you!
I faithfully support a small circle of quality TH-camrs. I stay away from the trash talking drama channels. I think that Dumaguete recieved that nickname because there are so many vloggers there, that any drama with expats is instantly known. I'm sure that any of the popular expat location in the Philippines sees it's share of drama.
Absolutely as to go there in "NO Stress, and NO Worries" so when i walked into Ground Zero and it was like a bunch of high school catty girls i just sat quietly and kept my mouth shut drank my coffee and left. Not the place for me But fell in love with the town and met a Great Lady so now i will lead a Quiet life in Dumaguete in July and hang out with mostly Great Filipnos
Watched in a few day some uploads from this channel and feeling thankful for the information you give me… Greetzzz from the Netherlands... End of this year, I am on my way to finding the love of my life. I already know the LUZON area is the place to be for me because of the lower temperatures...
@@mikesphilippineretirement I am watching uploads about Baguio. It seems like an interesting area. Seeking places where the temperatures are a little lower than constant 30+/86+ I will do my research. Planning to come for a long time. I can retire at the age of 56 and take lots of advice from your uploads..Thx 4 that...
Mike, well said. Negative people will be around and do their talk. They’ll get their karma & will regret it. Like the song say, “Don’t worry be Happy!” Good luck to everybody out there and enjoy life to the fullest and treat everybody with respect.
I found out early in my itty bitty channel that it doesn’t matter what we say or do, some viewers will react negatively. Great video, Mike. Love the view!😊
Great video Mike. Honesty is the best policy and you hit the nail on the head. People who cause problems with gossip are envious and bored with their own misery
Lived in Thailand for 16 yrs ..I avoided most Ex-pats due to too many bring their hostility & confrontation attitudes with them. I love Asian culture, food, respect and kindness ...I also love a quiet peaceful respectful life. Finally did find teachers, aid workers and a few retired professionals who were "like-minded" ..I can't understand WHY those who seem to love confrontation back in the states seem hang together here and make life difficult for others.
Thanks for yet another easy to listen to video. I have yet to get to the PI - I’m planning September/ October of this year for boots on the ground / 60-90 days discovery trip. Thanks to you and all the other, sound sane vloggers, I’ve learned so much!! Keep up the great work! Peace !☮️
I really enjoy your videos, this one in particular. You are very grounded and have a healthy perspective on what truly matters in life. Im seriously considering retiring there and like you, I am a homebody. Dont want to see it all but just settle down and take it easy. If I meet someone to share that with, even better. Thanks.
Good video Mike. I spent a week in Duma didn’t like the place the beaches were crap traffic was bad I found Bohol a lot better just my opinion cheers 🍻
Youre one of a few vloggers that I continue to watch.Even when you rant you put a positive spin on it. I delete TH-camrs that get critical and negative and I certainly dont want to be around that type of person during my visits there. The Philippines and Dumaguete have a lot of great things going on and the good ex pats outnumber the negative ones by thousands to one. Keep promoting the good things.
I’ve been to Dummagette last year and it’s a decent place. I thought it was Philippino normal , it’s great that you lol it , Drama- that was when World Zoom got exposed, it was a laugh and still it , Thanks
@@mikesphilippineretirement Well, not really, Mike, I recall you also being pretty upset when Paul Cardwell (World Zoom) did his 'child brides of Duma' vid. Point is, we can all be laid back and cool about drama....until it affects us.
Mike you are very good at what you say. I am pleased that you have a young wife and you are happy because you are a honest guy. I also notice how good Janets English is since being with you she has grown in confidence. Well done to you both.
Great video, Mike. I'm starting my 4th month here - 5 if you include my boots-on-the-ground visit last July. I truly love this town. I'm living in Piapi near over off EJ Blanco and feel like everything is just minutes away by trike. We haven't gotten a scooter or car yet, and due to my age (68) I'm hesitant to do the scooter thing. I know lots of guys do it, but I enjoy the trikes, and we've never had to wait longer than 5 minutes for one to come by. I am considering renting a car for some 2-3-day short vacations in the area, though. One of the episodes I think you may be alluding to is a fight at a local coffee shop. I've been there exactly once, and that was it. I go to Multifit, a gym here in town, and I like it. Yes, some days, there are only foreigners there, and other days, very few of us. Either way, I put in my earphones, play my blues music, and don't talk to anyone. I like that gym because everyone does their own thing, and nobody gets bothered. It's air conditioned, and they've got really great machines that are well maintained. Their senior citizen rate is only P1,465/month, and I go 5 days a week, walking from my place with my girlfriend (about a mile), and while I'm working out, she goes exploring and/or shopping. There are multiple markets and vegetable stands as well as drug stores all along there. Other than the gym, I don't see a lot of foreigners around, just at the Robinson's mall, and even then, not so many. Those bloggers that say Dumaguete is overrun with them maybe don't have a good perspective, or they just spend time together where the foreigners spend time together - at bars and coffee shops and such. I really enjoy walking around downtown, and seeing and experiencing the hustle and bustle of daily life in the city. I love that almost ALL the signage is in English. Sure, I notice that building standards are different here than in the US, but I understand why, and I respect it. This is not the US. I just got my teeth cleaned at a great dentist's office here in town, and the cleaning (done by a dentist, not a technician) was really fast. I was seen almost before I sat down and I was 30 minutes early for my appointment (which I got from a phone call last week - not a 3 month wait like the US). Xray (modern equipment) showed I needed a tooth repaired that chipped and that was done the same hour as the cleaning. I spent a total of 45 minutes there and paid only P6k, including a special mouth rinse. The deductible would have been more than that in the US and I would have had 2 separate appointments. I couldn't be more happy with the service, price, and professionalism. I pay more than the so-called average Joe for my rent (P28k), but we have great amenities, and are in a secure compound with family neighbors that we like and who like us. Someone is bound to respond to this comment with something derogatory about what we pay for rent, Mike, but we really don't care, do we? We worked hard for the last 50+ years, and if we can afford it, well, screw 'em. Still working on my SRRV with C & G Consulting (Heidi, et al). Looks like I'll be making another trip to Cebu soon for some kind of PRA swearing in or oath taking thing, but that's ok. We'll plan a little Cebu vacation around it whenever it's scheduled. Thanks for all you do, and say "Hi" to Janet from Don and Chi!
Know a gal from Dinagat Island.Been conversing with her for over 4 years. Works in Manila, to support her family. She's owns 2 homes on Dinagat Island. She's 44, I'm 71. One in Basilisa, the other in Legaspi. Do you know anything about the Dinagat Islands, and these towns? Any input will be appreciated. Going to travel to Manila in the near future. Thanks, Mike I live in Traverse City, Michigan
I will be in cebu in september. I have been talking to my girl about eventully moving to Dumaguete after I retire. I still have 10 yrs to go. But Im going to try to retire earlly and maybe move there if I llike it, when Im 60 to 62.
Good morning from Lubbock, Texas. I appreciated your video today. As it is March 31st where you are it will be my birthday here on Sunday. I am so looking forward to coming there next year and relaxing. Y’all have a blessed week and please keep up the good work.
When we did a similar video telling everyone to be friendly I got The sarcastic comments of 'great advice I didn't know I should be that way ' etc. People are so nice 😁
Very well said Mike. The bottom line is go enjoy your lives as you see fit people. Don’t be a follower. Lead your pack and don’t look back… People bottom feeding on other channels shows a great lack of integrity. It’s as simple as that! Happy Easter Mike and Janet! J
Appreciation, Humility, Honor and Patients are things that westerners are losing or don't have at all. Thanks for keeping it real Mike. The gossip mill in any country is usually alive and well.
Very well said, too much ground to add to everything but I'll speak to this point you made: living within your means is honourable. If you know what your limits are no matter how much or little that is and you're responsible enough to colour inside the lines, I respect that. Live your best life and if you're happy with it and you're not hurting anyone else for it - what's the issue?
Mike, I have been around a long time and have lived in a variety of places in my many decades here on earth. Ages ago I came to the conclusion that I can choose to be happy no matter where I happen to be. I am certain that I could enjoy and be very happy in Dumaguete. It is all in one;s attitude. I do enjoy your many informal youtube chats.
Good advice. I love your show ❤. We are from California . I married American for 37 years. We are ready to go back to the Philippines for good.. we will see soon. God bless you both of you😊❤❤
Great video Mike, I have lived off and on in a boarding house in California. It’s certainly not for everyone. Better for me than living on the street though.
Thanks so much mike the wisdom and experience I get from you, Mark, Paul and the other people interviewed, is so enlightening and greatly appreciated thank you)
Mike this was one of your best videos. You can tell the way you talk you are proud to live in Dumaguete. I don’t miss Dumaguete yet and I am enjoying Roxas City. Mid April going to visit a friend in Cadiz maybe I will like it there. I wish you and Janet all the happiness in the world. You both are a wonderful couple. See you the next time I am in Dumaguete.
Hi Mike and Janet ❤️. Your right leave your garbage behind. So many good points you make in this video my friend. Thanks Mike.. Missing Dumagete and the great people.
He described my life to a T here in Puerto Princesa, Palawa. I don't run around the Philippines visiting every tourist spot although I do travel to Manila a few times each year for shopping and enjoy what a big city can provide. I do not hang out in the bars - I've never been much of a drinker. Not so much of a womaniser, chasing every skirt in town but I do have some relationships. I do not strive to climb the social ladder in the expat community, but I do have a few expat friends I meet 2 to 4 times a month. I have plenty of local friends I meet with weekly. My life is built on a routine. I feel secure in maintaining my routine. I have a nice house that I fixed up to my liking - very comfortable. I have househelp that has been with me for 4 years. We have a trusting relationship.I keep up my garden. I stay within my budget and able to set aside some for savings every month. I do my cooking. I go for morning walks and do the gym. I live in peace. I thank God for all he has given me. I am blessed.
You are right on brother. Everyone should live their own life as well as they can. Trying to bring down others will never pick you up. Respect others as you would want them to respect you.
Yeah i'm stunned with it myself i went back and view the original videos i'm just comparing and boy what a hell of a difference! I'm glad he's having fun doing it but i can sure see a difference you just it seems different for the last few months.
Mark Thornton hitting another man. That was wrong and he should be punished. Maybe black listed from the Philippines for his actions.
Really. What would be your response if two men were spreading lied that your wife and sister are 304s sold by their parents for a price. What should happen to these two men.
@@RCFSULAW physical violence is always wrong unless your hit first.
your right we just cant act like that anymore im guessing i would only protect myself in self defence not for mouth running
@@billyjohnson9166 Really. When they went outside he had Dexter in front of him and Justin right behind him. They went outside to fight and it was two on 1. Someone tried to stop Justin inside the Coffee shop by grabbing his shirt but he pulled away. The words were Let's take it outside and it was 2 on 1 walking out that door. Moreover the video shows Justin turned around in his seat instigating the altercation. All I know is if I have one person who wants to fight in front of me and another right behind me I am not going to let either of them hit me first. Maybe you think it's okay to call one man's wife a 304 and her sister engaged to another foreign man a 304. Then refers to the parents as selling their daughters in return for major improvements to their house. This was the chismis spread by Justin and Dexter. Personally I would have just told the father and men in the two daughter's Barangay.
@@billyjohnson9166 So don't defend yourself against violence towards yourself? How do you defend yourself from aggressive violence? Run? Get hurt? What reality do you live in?
I have three goals.
1. To live my remaining days without posting a video 🤣.
2. To cultivate what ever it takes to remain a welcome guest in the country.
3. To find lasting peace.
enjoy and I hope you reach your goals
@@mikesphilippineretirement Anyone that puts their life on video pays a price. Plenty of trolls out there so you need a THICK skin. The good news there is some real money to be made on TH-cam. If it ever gets to the point that I can't live in the Phil's on $3,000 a month I'll give TH-cam a shot. Otherwise my plan is to live a low key retirement to avoid trolls. I was glad to retire early from my $9K dollars a month HIGH pressure job! But I do miss the monthly $9K. I had no need to budget until I retired! LOL
Mike, when I first started watching you I actually was not a fan. But you won me over! You are a thoughtful man. I like your factual calm and straight forward talks. Keep up the good work.
Thank you Jim
@@mikesphilippineretirement Mike, I found your videos a few months ago, you won me over right away with your reasoning and logic. I will arrive there in Cebu in May, looking for a good place to settle down for retirement. I am a widower for 9 years now. Hopefully I will meet a good lady after settling in.
best of luck Rick
Thanks, I have a quick question, can I fly in and get a tourist VISA, or do I have to get pre-approval before I get there?
@@rickstahl2066 There's visa on arrival for 30 days, renewable
Your honesty and calmness shows at every opportunity. You are a wonderful Ambassador to the US...
Thank you Jim
The message is "Mind your own business, live and let live" Anyone who has a problem with that, isn't worth your time.
Thanks for sharing
@christopherbradley5575
Great commentary Mike. You're a good man.
Janet stole your thunder there at the end.
as always
Excellent point about Steve. His whole TH-cam channel is focused on being helpful to random strangers. Takes a pretty small person to attack a man like that.
very true. Steve helped me before i move to the Philippines
Hey Mike, I agree with you 100% brother ✌🏽
We all do not have to agree on anything, to be kind to one another 🐸🙌
thank you Michael
Wonderful message of no judging, and just enjoying people for who they are. Just be you! Thank's Mike!
welcome!
Mike, don't let those bums bother you. You run a nice clean channel with usesul information, those that need to use drama to receive views are a flash in the pan. They will be found out for what they are sooner than laterand and be gone. You have the best channel as far as I'm concerned.
thanks Duke
Excellent video ! Love your calm and peaceful way of expressing your negative feelings about some TH-camrs. Keep your vibrant energy and nonjudgmental videos coming. Love them.
nonjudgmental videos I was judging
I'll be moving to the PI and am a veteran. My attitude about the youtubers criticizing and condemning the actions of others, shows the "true lack of character the people have." Proverbial crabs in a basket, trying to make themselves look better than others!
Very true. Crab mentality, or utak talangka or talakang pag-iisip in Tagalog
Agreed! We should be respectful of other's life decisions. Any low life can be critical. It only displays the ignorance and depravity of such a person.
Agreed!!!
If you’re coming here and you’re a veteran especially retired military, please check in with the RAO office. In Angeles city near Clark international airport..old Air Force Base..😊
Thanks Mike. Being fair levelheaded and positive -putting things in the correct perspective is why your channel is successful.
After having met both Justin and Mike of Mikes Dauin Beach Resort in person I found Mike to be another choice for Dive training and certification. I would recommend interviewing him as well. I found him a professional, respectful and mature dive shop owner. He is a successful family man from the US as-well w 3 kids. His Padi Dive training is more flexible and accommodating to many needs. His shop even offers Padi training courses partly on-line for those w limited schedules. it’s good to investigate the various dive shop options.
thanks for the info about Mikes Dauin Beach Resort. When I get out there I want to check out several dive resorts and maybe review or update my certification and do some dives.
See John you could have talked highly of Mikes Dive Shop with out putting down Justin. What's the point John
@@mikesphilippineretirement Okay Mike. Thanks for the discussion.
not really John I have the freedom to delated any comment that I find is making personnel attacks on others This is not the first time you have done this but it will be the last on my channel. If you have nothing good to say about a person and the business they have, you should not say anything. You can promote your friends business but not at the cost of putting others in a bad light
@@mikesphilippineretirement I understand and agree. Appreciate the correction.
Mike, you are 100% correct. I enjoy your channel. I’ve been watching it for a month now. Hope to make my first trip there Philippines this fall.
Welcome aboard! Enjoy your trip when you come to the Philippines
😝 Janet’s photo bomb had me cracking up! I hope you guys enjoyed your day.
yes she is a funny girl
Mike, I'm like the others. Getting to know you is growing to respect you. I lived in the Phils from 2010 to 2021. I lived it the hard way, finding work and getting by. I was really lucky. I wish that I had advice like yours to guide me when I was there. I'm thinking about returning now. The USA is such a sad mess now. Same problems as you point out between expats there. People judging each other and hating each other. Plus mental health is horror story here. I hope we don't contaminate the Filipino culture.
Thanks Mark
There is drama everywhere in the world. People will be people. It seems like some people are not happy unless they are stirring the pot. If you mind your own business and ignore the people who love drama and live your best life you'll be successful and enjoy your life. Life is what you make it... so just live your best life.
well said Kenneth
Amen to that brother.
That is why I have few friends and stay to myself mostly. Too many expats acting like a bunch of old ladies.
Well said as always. Vent all you want. You made valid points. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for watching!
Good Video! Everything I have heard about Dumaguete is that it is a laid back, peaceful place, with friendly people. To me it looks like the people who are talking about the drama are making the drama. May you and Janet have a Happy Easter!
Happy Easter Mark
I really respect your calm, common sense. Thank you for giving us your way of seeing things. I am married with a Filipino wife Berlita and we have a beautiful young daughter, here in Canada. We will be permanently moving and living in Philippine in the next few years. I personally have always found that if I treat Filipino's as brothers and sisters (equals) , then I get what I give .
we all should earn the respect we want
@@mikesphilippineretirement Always heard from my mother , Respect is earned
Mike, You said it well today! As you, my wife of 30 years and I are coming to Dumaguete soon to join the local community. I am fast approaching 74 but still have that adventure for traveling. All we want to do is blend in and meet all of the good people there. After working overseas for 48 years in 60 countries all we want is a peaceful, simple, stress free life. We are looking forward to meeting you two. All the best!
Sounds great! see you when you get here
Thank you Mike, I enjoyed your message and it’s at a perfect time. I agree no one should judge anyone, we have only one judge!
so true
I was born and raised in NYC .The lesson I learned over my lifetime when moving is that visit the location your planning to move too. I made the mistake of moving to a city to soon and it took me 12 miserable years to figure out I did not like it there. Then when I moved again after that i promised myself a shorter time line . Folks listen to this man he knows what he is talking about.
thank you Marco
Being raised in Boston Massachusetts, I enjoy the city life in the Philippines.🇵🇭
I enjoy a week in Cebu City as something of a vacation from my retirement
I agree with you, Mike.
Our family's primary purpose for coming to the Philippines is mostly economical. We've never lived affluently, nor do we want to. I think things are going to get even more expensive as time goes on, so we just feel that we should live as frugally as possible and the Philippines seems like a very good place to try and do that. Secondly, our family embraces a peaceful life, and we'd like to continue that as well as make good close friends, lifelong friends, and to be left alone to live that peaceful life among friends for the rest of our lives.
thanks for sharing
I once heard " that if you mind your own biscuits, you won't have time to mind mine" Like your videos!!! Keep up the great work. I'm going to Cebu in Oct.
Thank you! Will do! you going on Vacation or to live?
@@mikesphilippineretirement I'm coming for a month to get a feel for the area. Travel around some , hopefully to a few islands.
enjoy your travel
@@mikesphilippineretirement Thank sir, I'm planning on it.
I’m living my best life here in the Philippines. I try to enjoy everyday. Tomorrow isn’t promised. Great video mike.
Sounds great! Thank you
HAPPY EASTER MIKE JANET & PJ! GOD BLESS!
thank you and Happy Easter to you also
Always live your videos Mike and Janet!!! Good people giving sound advise. Let the haters hate and live life to your fullest!!! Be joining you one day my friend
see you soon
You are spot on about all of this Mike , thank you, we love you and Janet. God bless!
Thank you guys
Thanks for all of your info. I have been watching your videos and enjoy them.
Awesome, thank you! James
Great video Mike! I think you did a wonderful job explaining. Thank you Sir.
Thank you
Thank you for this message, Mike. I'm here looking for that peaceful "soft landing" over the next 10 to 15 years or more hopefully. I know I can live a comfortable life here and be respectful because I am the guest here.
we all are a guest here and need to show some respect
Love your video's Mike, they are very informative and entertaining, thanks for making them. Keep up the great work.
Thanks, will do!
One of your Best as I came to see if I could live there and traveled some of the islands and then I actually came to Dumaguete to meet some TH-camrs and got turned off by them at Ground Zero. Then I met some Filipinos and really clicked; then I met my Girlfriend and all of a sudden my focus changed as All I wanted was PEACE and NO STRESS.. So all of a sudden Sleepy Quiet Duma completely won me over and I'm now moving there in July and while my best friend from the States lives in Cebu, and other friends are up there or elsewhere that is the Life they want. I just want to keep my head down, and be a piece of sand on the beach and just be kind and good to those around me and those i encounter as I AM a reflection of how i treat those I see and meet everyday and just want to greet them with a smile and leave them with a positive note. Your a Good Man Mike and Jan is a doll who has truly blossomed and I avoid the whole Mark & Dexter incident and those gossiping as it so high school and beneath 99% of expats. Let's lift each other up and not compare or tear each other down as there will always be someone Bigger, richer, smarter taller etc. just Be Happy with yourself and who you are is my motto and this is exactly what i believe this video also shows. Thanks and look forward to someday having a coffee with you and Janet.
Thanks for sharing Paul and thank you for your support
Mike, as always, you are on point. I love how down to earth you are. Keep up with good work. You may never be a "big" channel, but you will always be one of the top 3 reasons I have married a Filipina and will retire over there. Thank you. And, as I tell my Filipina, and as Janet should also be recognized as, both are the treasure of the Philippines.
You rock! Thank you
There are so many TH-camrs. Many of them can't create interesting content on their own, so they jump on the bandwagon. Mike your channel is one of the interesting ones. I live here in Dumaguete and I like it here. No place is perfect.
very true
Great video Mike, there’s also a relatively new name: WHORAGUETE. This had to do with the new batch of Filipina TH-camrs behaving badly. We have the wife of a well know expat youtuber who mainly does bikini videos in a very despicable way. They could be done with certain class, but this lady doesn’t have any shame showcasing young, teenager Filipinas shaking their “assets”. Shame.
Then we have another young Filipina, single mother, who I believe is in the process of getting her K1 visa to USA, but is resourcing to 2 and 3 live streams daily, showing lots of skin or doing work outs wearing almost nothing or very short garments.
Some female locals are certainly contributing towards Dumaguete notoriety. Best to you and Janet.
thank you never heard of that term
@@mikesphilippineretirement I guess Tess is referring to Mae and Jessel.... Jessel's behavior has changed drastically.., yes, she's engaged to an American fellow but it seems she's trying to attract the wrong type of attention with those semi-sexy videos.
i agree totally with you Mike, im the same as you, older, retired, just want to enjoy my time with wife & Daughter, i dont judge anyone, but expect no one to judge me. i watch you, and paul, goldfinger, i dont drink , but love coffee and chatting, i rarely talk with other expats because alot are in philippines for different reasons.
we should all just enjoy doing what we want to do and enjoy life here
Me and my wife arrived in the Philippines on May 2nd. We are living here for peace of mind, enjoy the rest of our life- travel- new period in our life’s.
We don’t like bad vibes- drama . I have watched many of your videos and enjoy your vibes. I am a friend of Steve.
Good video Mike and I totally agree with your views and approach to life. I don't think anyone can stop others from judging another expat or from complaining about what's happening in Duma. To make matters worse, drama garners views and views=money on YT. So there is monetary incentive to keep stirring the pot. There are underfunded expats who make their living by being a provocateur. With the expolosion of new PI channels, you can only make so many budget, apt or dating videos before you blend into the background.
so true but I don't have to like it but except that is what they are doing
I think you are a source of information for people that would like to relocate. No matter where you move you cannot avoid people that have their own issues to deal with. Its seems people that would have a tough time being able to afford living in America under today's inflation are trying to make it in the Philippines. I have prepared myself for a Western retirement and will just stay put until my time is up. Thanks for your perspective of life where you are living.
Thanks for sharing
Good video Mike. I watch videos for information purposes and not drama. I avoid drama and try to stay out of everyone else’s business unless they ask for my help. Everyone should have the right to live their lives the way they want to unless it negatively impacts the lives of others. Even then it may not justify my involvement. As for me, I think your video was right on target. Thank you!
thank you so much
I faithfully support a small circle of quality TH-camrs. I stay away from the trash talking drama channels.
I think that Dumaguete recieved that nickname because there are so many vloggers there, that any drama with expats is instantly known.
I'm sure that any of the popular expat location in the Philippines sees it's share of drama.
So true
good point Brent
AS A SRRV RESIDENT MY LIFE IS HAPPY JOYOUS AND FREE. LOVE WATCHING THIS DR PHILL GUYS TELLING EVERBODY WHAT TO DO AND WHAT TO THINK
That is my life now. Thanks for watching and making the comment
For Mike:
Outstanding job… keep doing what you’re doing.
Thank you.
Will
Thank you
Getting away from drama is why I want to move to the Philippines.
Absolutely as to go there in "NO Stress, and NO Worries" so when i walked into Ground Zero and it was like a bunch of high school catty girls i just sat quietly and kept my mouth shut drank my coffee and left. Not the place for me But fell in love with the town and met a Great Lady so now i will lead a Quiet life in Dumaguete in July and hang out with mostly Great Filipnos
Go for it John
Watched in a few day some uploads from this channel and feeling thankful for the information you give me… Greetzzz from the Netherlands... End of this year, I am on my way to finding the love of my life. I already know the LUZON area is the place to be for me because of the lower temperatures...
how much lower did you think it is in Luzon compared to Cebu or Negros
@@mikesphilippineretirement I am watching uploads about Baguio. It seems like an interesting area. Seeking places where the temperatures are a little lower than constant 30+/86+ I will do my research. Planning to come for a long time. I can retire at the age of 56 and take lots of advice from your uploads..Thx 4 that...
Mike, well said. Negative people will be around and do their talk. They’ll get their karma & will regret it. Like the song say, “Don’t worry be Happy!” Good luck to everybody out there and enjoy life to the fullest and treat everybody with respect.
Don’t worry be Happy!
Mike, never disappointing and brutally honest as always. Thank you for sharing/posting.
thanks Ivan
Another good positive vid, thanks!
Glad you enjoyed it!
I found out early in my itty bitty channel that it doesn’t matter what we say or do, some viewers will react negatively. Great video, Mike. Love the view!😊
Very true! Wish you could join us in the mountains of Negros. Watch all your content from your vacation. EVERYONE CHECK OUT HER GROWING CHANNEL
@@mikesphilippineretirement I am ready to come back there now! 😂 thank you so much Mike and Janet!
Great video Mike. Honesty is the best policy and you hit the nail on the head. People who cause problems with gossip are envious and bored with their own misery
Thanks for watching and leaving a comment Robert
Lived in Thailand for 16 yrs ..I avoided most Ex-pats due to too many bring their hostility & confrontation attitudes with them. I love Asian culture, food, respect and kindness ...I also love a quiet peaceful respectful life. Finally did find teachers, aid workers and a few retired professionals who were "like-minded" ..I can't understand WHY those who seem to love confrontation back in the states seem hang together here and make life difficult for others.
Thank you for sharing about Thailand
Thanks for yet another easy to listen to video. I have yet to get to the PI - I’m planning September/ October of this year for boots on the ground / 60-90 days discovery trip. Thanks to you and all the other, sound sane vloggers, I’ve learned so much!! Keep up the great work! Peace !☮️
Thanks for watching and leaving a very comment Michael
I really enjoy your videos, this one in particular. You are very grounded and have a healthy perspective on what truly matters in life. Im seriously considering retiring there and like you, I am a homebody. Dont want to see it all but just settle down and take it easy. If I meet someone to share that with, even better. Thanks.
Good video Mike. I spent a week in Duma didn’t like the place the beaches were crap traffic was bad I found Bohol a lot better just my opinion cheers 🍻
many different places to live Dumaguete and the Philippines is not for everyone
Thanks Mike, for a different perspective, much appreciated 👍🇦🇺
My pleasure!
Your right on Mike I love your channel and Janet
thank you Samuel
POLITICS is a big NO NO if you are not a filipino. NEVER EVER MEDDLE IN OUR JNTERNAL AFFAIRS.
talking about US politics
Why not? A lot of things wrong in your country. Foreigners have made it better and are free to voice their opinion.
Youre one of a few vloggers that I continue to watch.Even when you rant you put a positive spin on it. I delete TH-camrs that get critical and negative and I certainly dont want to be around that type of person during my visits there. The Philippines and Dumaguete have a lot of great things going on and the good ex pats outnumber the negative ones by thousands to one. Keep promoting the good things.
Thanks Alex
Good video Mike. People need to grow up and act right, especially being in a foreign country.
true need to be good people and get along
I’ve been to Dummagette last year and it’s a decent place. I thought it was Philippino normal , it’s great that you lol it , Drama- that was when World Zoom got exposed, it was a laugh and still it ,
Thanks
yes but that is more Mark vs World Zoom
@@mikesphilippineretirement Well, not really, Mike, I recall you also being pretty upset when Paul Cardwell (World Zoom) did his 'child brides of Duma' vid. Point is, we can all be laid back and cool about drama....until it affects us.
Mike you are very good at what you say. I am pleased that you have a young wife and you are happy because you are a honest guy. I also notice how good Janets English is since being with you she has grown in confidence. Well done to you both.
Thank you for representing my people and educating expats.
You are wise articulate man who shares good sense to us all. Thanks
I appreciate that
I always enjoy the thoughtful, helpful vids.
Glad you like them!
Simply affordable..and seems like nice to live and the people seem nice. Just simply enjoy. Love the culture.
We agree!
Great video, Mike. I'm starting my 4th month here - 5 if you include my boots-on-the-ground visit last July. I truly love this town.
I'm living in Piapi near over off EJ Blanco and feel like everything is just minutes away by trike. We haven't gotten a scooter or car yet, and due to my age (68) I'm hesitant to do the scooter thing. I know lots of guys do it, but I enjoy the trikes, and we've never had to wait longer than 5 minutes for one to come by. I am considering renting a car for some 2-3-day short vacations in the area, though.
One of the episodes I think you may be alluding to is a fight at a local coffee shop. I've been there exactly once, and that was it.
I go to Multifit, a gym here in town, and I like it. Yes, some days, there are only foreigners there, and other days, very few of us. Either way, I put in my earphones, play my blues music, and don't talk to anyone. I like that gym because everyone does their own thing, and nobody gets bothered. It's air conditioned, and they've got really great machines that are well maintained. Their senior citizen rate is only P1,465/month, and I go 5 days a week, walking from my place with my girlfriend (about a mile), and while I'm working out, she goes exploring and/or shopping. There are multiple markets and vegetable stands as well as drug stores all along there.
Other than the gym, I don't see a lot of foreigners around, just at the Robinson's mall, and even then, not so many. Those bloggers that say Dumaguete is overrun with them maybe don't have a good perspective, or they just spend time together where the foreigners spend time together - at bars and coffee shops and such.
I really enjoy walking around downtown, and seeing and experiencing the hustle and bustle of daily life in the city. I love that almost ALL the signage is in English. Sure, I notice that building standards are different here than in the US, but I understand why, and I respect it. This is not the US.
I just got my teeth cleaned at a great dentist's office here in town, and the cleaning (done by a dentist, not a technician) was really fast. I was seen almost before I sat down and I was 30 minutes early for my appointment (which I got from a phone call last week - not a 3 month wait like the US). Xray (modern equipment) showed I needed a tooth repaired that chipped and that was done the same hour as the cleaning. I spent a total of 45 minutes there and paid only P6k, including a special mouth rinse. The deductible would have been more than that in the US and I would have had 2 separate appointments. I couldn't be more happy with the service, price, and professionalism.
I pay more than the so-called average Joe for my rent (P28k), but we have great amenities, and are in a secure compound with family neighbors that we like and who like us. Someone is bound to respond to this comment with something derogatory about what we pay for rent, Mike, but we really don't care, do we? We worked hard for the last 50+ years, and if we can afford it, well, screw 'em.
Still working on my SRRV with C & G Consulting (Heidi, et al). Looks like I'll be making another trip to Cebu soon for some kind of PRA swearing in or oath taking thing, but that's ok. We'll plan a little Cebu vacation around it whenever it's scheduled.
Thanks for all you do, and say "Hi" to Janet from Don and Chi!
Happy you are liking your stay here in Dumaguete
Good job of presenting your .message
Know a gal from Dinagat Island.Been conversing with her for over 4 years. Works in Manila, to support her family. She's owns 2 homes on Dinagat Island. She's 44, I'm 71. One in Basilisa, the other in Legaspi. Do you know anything about the Dinagat Islands, and these towns? Any input will be appreciated. Going to travel to Manila in the near future. Thanks, Mike I live in Traverse City, Michigan
SRRV, relaxation and enjoyment of living a simple, peaceful life❤
Hi Ted yes a happy and peaceful life is all most men want
I will be in cebu in september. I have been talking to my girl about eventully moving to Dumaguete after I retire. I still have 10 yrs to go. But Im going to try to retire earlly and maybe move there if I llike it, when Im 60 to 62.
enjoy your visit in Sept.
Thanks Mike I really enjoyed that vidio excellent thinking
Glad you enjoyed it
LOVE WATCHING YOU GUYS ATTACK AND REACT VIDEOS ABOUT EACH OTHER.
Keep watching more to come
❤your positivity and honesty 🙏
Good morning from Lubbock, Texas. I appreciated your video today. As it is March 31st where you are it will be my birthday here on Sunday. I am so looking forward to coming there next year and relaxing. Y’all have a blessed week and please keep up the good work.
Happy birthday!
exactly everyone live they own life they own way , no one can judge someone else way of life well said Mike ✌
Thank you
Nice video mike!!
Glad you enjoyed it Jeff
Very relatable… Thank you Mike…
thank you
sir your just a good human being God bless you enjoy life....
Excellent video and I totally agree with live and let live, that’s how I’ve conducted my life for many years.
great to hear than. good life healthy life
You answered my question mike about gym say Hi to Janet
Thanks Mike. Your wisdom shows by the wife you chose.
Wow thank you
When we did a similar video telling everyone to be friendly I got The sarcastic comments of 'great advice I didn't know I should be that way ' etc. People are so nice 😁
Exactly!
Very well said Mike. The bottom line is go enjoy your lives as you see fit people. Don’t be a follower. Lead your pack and don’t look back…
People bottom feeding on other channels shows a great lack of integrity. It’s as simple as that!
Happy Easter Mike and Janet!
J
Absolutely
Appreciation, Humility, Honor and Patients are things that westerners are losing or don't have at all.
Thanks for keeping it real Mike.
The gossip mill in any country is usually alive and well.
yes the gossip mill hahaha
Very well said, too much ground to add to everything but I'll speak to this point you made: living within your means is honourable. If you know what your limits are no matter how much or little that is and you're responsible enough to colour inside the lines, I respect that.
Live your best life and if you're happy with it and you're not hurting anyone else for it - what's the issue?
Thank you
Mike, I have been around a long time and have lived in a variety of places in my many decades here on earth. Ages ago I came to the conclusion that I can choose to be happy no matter where I happen to be. I am certain that I could enjoy and be very happy in Dumaguete. It is all in one;s attitude. I do enjoy your many informal youtube chats.
Thanks for sharing
Good advice. I love your show ❤. We are from California . I married American for 37 years. We are ready to go back to the Philippines for good.. we will see soon. God bless you both of you😊❤❤
Best of luck! Hope you get back to the Philippines soon
Great video Mike, I have lived off and on in a boarding house in California. It’s certainly not for everyone. Better for me than living on the street though.
hope everything works out in your life
@@mikesphilippineretirement Oh yeah, it was a choice, I managed to save about 70% of my income and have spent the last year in Thailand.
Well said, Mike.
Thank you
Good message here. Bottomline; be nice, be who you really are and don't create dramas in DUMA.
good advice
Thanks so much mike the wisdom and experience I get from you, Mark, Paul and the other people interviewed, is so enlightening and greatly appreciated thank you)
Our pleasure!
Mike this was one of your best videos. You can tell the way you talk you are proud to live in Dumaguete. I don’t miss Dumaguete yet and I am enjoying Roxas City. Mid April going to visit a friend in Cadiz maybe I will like it there. I wish you and Janet all the happiness in the world. You both are a wonderful couple. See you the next time I am in Dumaguete.
Thank you Tom. Be safe and be happy
Hi Mike and Janet ❤️. Your right leave your garbage behind. So many good points you make in this video my friend. Thanks Mike.. Missing Dumagete and the great people.
Glad you enjoyed it. Herb and thank you for the reply on the Newsletter
He described my life to a T here in Puerto Princesa, Palawa. I don't run around the Philippines visiting every tourist spot although I do travel to Manila a few times each year for shopping and enjoy what a big city can provide. I do not hang out in the bars - I've never been much of a drinker. Not so much of a womaniser, chasing every skirt in town but I do have some relationships. I do not strive to climb the social ladder in the expat community, but I do have a few expat friends I meet 2 to 4 times a month. I have plenty of local friends I meet with weekly.
My life is built on a routine. I feel secure in maintaining my routine. I have a nice house that I fixed up to my liking - very comfortable. I have househelp that has been with me for 4 years. We have a trusting relationship.I keep up my garden. I stay within my budget and able to set aside some for savings every month. I do my cooking. I go for morning walks and do the gym. I live in peace. I thank God for all he has given me. I am blessed.
Thanks for sharing
You are right on brother. Everyone should live their own life as well as they can. Trying to bring down others will never pick you up. Respect others as you would want them to respect you.
thank you Gerald
A good common sense video. Excellent vlog Mike
Thanks Tom
Another good video Mike. Thanks
Glad you enjoyed it
I must say your content is really getting better ever day .top class well done
thank you guys
Yeah i'm stunned with it myself i went back and view the original videos i'm just comparing and boy what a hell of a difference! I'm glad he's having fun doing it but i can sure see a difference you just it seems different for the last few months.