I Hate My Husband But I'm Married Anyway | FULL EPISODE | Ricki Lake

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  • @Ohsnapitzann
    @Ohsnapitzann 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +349

    I miss the 90s handwritten letters and face to face interactions are a lost art.

    • @user-zx5kq6hs9d
      @user-zx5kq6hs9d 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Me to, I’m a baby boomer😂🙏☮🌈

    • @SyedAli-r4e
      @SyedAli-r4e 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes the days were good eh

    • @tierra195
      @tierra195 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Handwritten letters are still some of my favorite things.

    • @RHathemoment
      @RHathemoment 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Absolutely. 💔😢😢.

    • @starlingswallow
      @starlingswallow 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I still write letters 🥰 I'm in the wrong era! I love dip pen calligraphy too!

  • @katgard3736
    @katgard3736 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    Wow if only 20yr old me could imagine the day I could watch Ricki on-demand with no commercials. Living the dream 😁

    • @chelleglenney156
      @chelleglenney156 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      And on our phones too, no less. I was 21 and loved these shows, Maury, Sally Jessy, Oprah, Ricki Lake and Jenny Jones. 😂

    • @HotFlushSummer
      @HotFlushSummer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same!!! This really is almost unreal 😄😄!

    • @puppetken
      @puppetken 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lots of mollet hairstyles.

    • @lakeshalewis6919
      @lakeshalewis6919 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂that's what i said

    • @Elyssiasenvy
      @Elyssiasenvy 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      i'm 20 right now. that's crazy

  • @AJustice-j2t
    @AJustice-j2t 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +501

    Any other 90s/before babies hear that theme song and just feel the overwhelming nostalgia?

    • @misscall_callmenow
      @misscall_callmenow 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      The theme song is so lit.

    • @Vibewiththelee
      @Vibewiththelee 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Born in 86 and this theme song takes me all the way back to the 90's and days where I would be home from school and this would be playing at lunch time while I'd be eating ham sandwiches 😂

    • @kevinr23
      @kevinr23 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@VibewiththeleeYa me too. It's so nostalgic. I wish sometimes they would post some music. Some other channels have.

    • @rickifan
      @rickifan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Will never compete with this amazing channel, but Ricki Fan channel does have some music you might enjoy!

    • @Ohsnapitzann
      @Ohsnapitzann 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      My childhood

  • @elainesmith7512
    @elainesmith7512 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +242

    This show was taped back in 1994 which was 30 years ago. I would be interested to know how these people ended up. They are probably in their mid to late fifties in age, and are more than likely grandparents! I hope they made the right choices!🤔🙏

    • @ciarajeanr
      @ciarajeanr 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      I'm curious to see if any of their children still talk to them.

    • @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood
      @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Same, I'm curious to see how they are today

    • @megthe_misunderstood_rebel9779
      @megthe_misunderstood_rebel9779 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I was thinking this also.

    • @Taki_Rad
      @Taki_Rad 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      A lot of them were actors. Sorry!

    • @BellaIsMyBaby
      @BellaIsMyBaby 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I wonder if any of them were harmed or killed by their spouse. That's what I can't understand.

  • @veronicamamiful
    @veronicamamiful 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +518

    Better to be alone than in a toxic unhappy relationship.

    • @SyedAli-r4e
      @SyedAli-r4e 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I so agree hon

    • @tiffanymcintyre8375
      @tiffanymcintyre8375 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly 💯

    • @LovePrettyNailsLady-Jay80
      @LovePrettyNailsLady-Jay80 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Unless you don't wanna work like the first person

    • @NoWaySmokey8889
      @NoWaySmokey8889 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@LovePrettyNailsLady-Jay80she is working. Being a stay at home mom is work. She just wants to prioritized her kids

    • @linnh940
      @linnh940 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Definitely, my mom says this all the time

  • @gigiiirenee1996
    @gigiiirenee1996 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +205

    Ricki's hair is so classy even in 2024 💯✨

    • @Michelle77Va
      @Michelle77Va 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She got married last year,I think?

    • @debbieoneal-qd5tb
      @debbieoneal-qd5tb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is a very idk video

    • @HotFlushSummer
      @HotFlushSummer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was so jealous of Ricki’s hair, it was always immaculate!

    • @Hevva67
      @Hevva67 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, none of those stupid hair sprayed 90s fringes. Ricki’s hair was straight and sleek an suited her face. I’d have had her hair.

  • @elizabethedwards3607
    @elizabethedwards3607 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +193

    The first couple is why they come up with the show SNAPPED 😊

    • @tiffanymcintyre8375
      @tiffanymcintyre8375 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @finsta4979
      @finsta4979 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tempesttking5715don’t think they mean it like killed each other I think it means like they did well

    • @michellestelmaszek5728
      @michellestelmaszek5728 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was thinking the same thing!

    • @annablu
      @annablu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂 horrible horrible they all sound so narrow minded !!!

    • @AR-gg2su
      @AR-gg2su 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Second couple is more of a preview of Snapped episode

  • @ravenluna1650
    @ravenluna1650 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +187

    The days when prices were good and my future was still bright 🤧

    • @29micka
      @29micka 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      And fuel was 78 cents a litre

    • @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood
      @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂

    • @nadinedockery-green5192
      @nadinedockery-green5192 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😅

    • @jillhamster246
      @jillhamster246 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My future is bright , I have to wear Shades .

    • @johnpaulgarcia6906
      @johnpaulgarcia6906 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@29mickaThat comes out to $2.95 per gallon so that's pretty terrible for back then.

  • @kaheaisaac1
    @kaheaisaac1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    Ricki looks so pretty

  • @amfogbeer6485
    @amfogbeer6485 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    I was born in 1994 and it’s crazy to think these were the parents to my generation 😂. Honestly explains a lot.

    • @decks5982
      @decks5982 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep

    • @Girlhead
      @Girlhead หลายเดือนก่อน

      You would have been one of the babies in these messed-up relationships. It's crazy to think about!

    • @MeadeSkeltonMusic
      @MeadeSkeltonMusic 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      In 1994 I was 15. I can't believe it was 30 years ago

  • @oliviablackburn3907
    @oliviablackburn3907 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +282

    I went to college with a lady who talked about how horrible her rich ex husband was and how she wanted to kill him. I will never understand being married to someone you hate. There's no point. She seemed crazy though. I hated doing projects with her and my teacher wouldn't let me change groups or do it by myself.

    • @nastusalmander
      @nastusalmander 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      My condolences, I hope bro is doing okay now

    • @kingdoc3262
      @kingdoc3262 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Did you side with her story telling as 'we women have to stick together ' or did you figure out that the problem was her!?

    • @JohnPickup-CDHS-ze6qd
      @JohnPickup-CDHS-ze6qd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Did she ask about me?

    • @Admin-qy4zi
      @Admin-qy4zi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      It sounded like she was with him just to get to his money, but what do I know?

    • @oliviablackburn3907
      @oliviablackburn3907 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @Admin-qy4zi well I asked that and she said he was very stingy and controlling with it. He wouldn't give her any or spend any on her. That could be why she divorced him and why she married him. Lol.

  • @Elijah-bj8pv
    @Elijah-bj8pv 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Bring back talk shows and get rid of social media. It will save lives… how many people said Oprah saved their life??? I miss the Tyra show too .. I’m really impressed with how open and honest people could be in the 90s… ❤❤❤❤

  • @saramelle
    @saramelle 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +162

    What's even the point of marrying someone you hate??? These people make no sense...

    • @oliviablackburn3907
      @oliviablackburn3907 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      I said basically the same thing and I know couples like that. I know one couple that continuesly cheat on each other. I had to distance myself from them. Also the kids don't deserve to see the idiots arguing and fighting all the time. Sometimes it's better for the kids if they divorce.

    • @laurennkundimana173
      @laurennkundimana173 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Right. People confuse me

    • @smileyladyT
      @smileyladyT 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      The first couple the wife still loves the husband but he doesn’t love her, but he won’t divorce her afraid she will get all the money… beyond stupid.

    • @oliviablackburn3907
      @oliviablackburn3907 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @Shazzygirl that's true. You don't always see their true colors until after you say " I do" and they feel like they've caught you.

    • @maryoleary5044
      @maryoleary5044 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree with stay at home Mums!
      At least until children are in middle school!

  • @mirandamadison6409
    @mirandamadison6409 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    All of these couples are in dangerous abusive relationships and it’s being laughed at by the host and the audience. WOW, the 90s was so different

    • @Carolina_Panthers145
      @Carolina_Panthers145 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They could be doing better today

    • @OfficalDeathNote99
      @OfficalDeathNote99 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Nah a lot of these people in the audience are real af. Not people worried about a consensus. They were their own people not a clone.

  • @shellysbrewing
    @shellysbrewing 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    I am so grateful my husband and i met in high school, got married 3 years later when we were just 20. We didnt have much money, still dont have very much money but im able to stay home with our daughter. We love eachother though.

    • @michellestelmaszek5728
      @michellestelmaszek5728 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Same! My husband and I met at age 12 and 14. Dated for 5 years and then were married. We started with nothing. Still my best friend and even more in love. I’m so lucky, blessed, etc.

    • @yell50
      @yell50 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Then why are you here ?

    • @Luming-di9rf
      @Luming-di9rf หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yell50 This question doesn't even make sense.

    • @yell50
      @yell50 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@shellysbrewing 20 is far too young to get married however you could be one of the lucky ones only time will tell.

    • @shellysbrewing
      @shellysbrewing หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yell50 why are you?

  • @jolee3633
    @jolee3633 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +117

    The mentality of not wanting to your kids to be from broken home but are willing to raise them in one is an ignorant way to look at life!

    • @Barbieinawheelchair
      @Barbieinawheelchair 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      For real my parents were miserable together and they made me and my sister miserable

    • @swiftkarma4436
      @swiftkarma4436 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      But society says and stats show single parent household's are bad. (Sarcasm)

    • @tovah8841
      @tovah8841 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@swiftkarma4436Single mother households are actually really bad, you need a man “a provider/leader” in the household. This is why the black community is so backwards & have tons have issues.

    • @sunbeam9222
      @sunbeam9222 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      My parents stayed together. I spent my childhood daydreaming that they were divorced. And my adulthood getting over trauma I witnessed there.

    • @johnpaulgarcia6906
      @johnpaulgarcia6906 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My parents were the same way. As if it was so much better to stay married to each other" for the kids"

  • @starlingswallow
    @starlingswallow 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    It is TRAUMATIZING for a child to be in a family home where the mom and dad _hate_ each other, even if they try to hide it. Kids can TELL. And, you're teaching your CHILDREN that _this is what love and marriage is?!??_
    Ridiculous.
    I'd rather my parents be separated and happy, flourishing...than to be in an atmosphere of tension, anger, silence, neglect, lack of any emotional connection.
    I'm 43 and I'm still in therapy undoing the damage my parents did by staying together 😢

  • @Hexighost
    @Hexighost 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    that is one of the most idiotic reasons to marry someone i have ever heard; i married him so she couldn't have him . . .

    • @Monae6890
      @Monae6890 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Right? You hate him, just let her have him

    • @mikeylibra5233
      @mikeylibra5233 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's like......how almost all relationships start lol

  • @yomajesty2703
    @yomajesty2703 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +168

    The lady in the audience was in the same boat as the woman on the stage, but judging her? Her point was pointless

    • @lakeofalltrades
      @lakeofalltrades 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Yea she was talking out the side of her neck 🥴

    • @Itsoktoloveyourself
      @Itsoktoloveyourself 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Yea hers was more horrible, she said she had four children paying all the bills😐 I guess her husband was a stay at home dad.

    • @dimepiecetia
      @dimepiecetia 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I didn’t understand her comment at all

    • @Isabella-bt2qy
      @Isabella-bt2qy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      I think she felt the need to say something because she was jealous of her staying home because she was just waffling for the sake of it.

    • @bossqueenStar
      @bossqueenStar 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Very pointless. If the woman want to stay home that's ok because the husband is working.

  • @angelminor3654
    @angelminor3654 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    The velvet chokers 😂 Sweet memories 💕

    • @Whiskey_Jane
      @Whiskey_Jane 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Still hot 🖤

    • @jakethedude100
      @jakethedude100 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And bushy hair!

    • @chelleglenney156
      @chelleglenney156 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oooohhhh I rocked those bad boys!

  • @Dream-Me
    @Dream-Me 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    I got married to someone I didn't like. I was very religious at the time and thought God would help. Would not recommend this ever lol. Had a kid got divorced and that was when my real life began 😂Never been happier now 🥰🥰

    • @claudiatheobald9928
      @claudiatheobald9928 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      God didn't want you to be in an unhappy marriage with a horrible person that you don't love.

    • @Dream-Me
      @Dream-Me 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@claudiatheobald9928 You're so right 🥰I will find my person ❤️

    • @blademanx
      @blademanx 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You didn't like him but married him. Two sides to each story.

    • @jacqueline8559
      @jacqueline8559 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You CHOSE to marry someone you didn't even like? Then blame God ?! Come off it. God had NOTHING to do with YOUR bad decisions. He gave us free will, and you used it!

    • @Dream-Me
      @Dream-Me 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@jacqueline8559 Aww you are triggered 🤦🏾‍♀️😆😆

  • @DeplorableArab
    @DeplorableArab 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    That first woman is toxic as F! No wonder her husband feels the way he does.

  • @Latasha-rl8ch
    @Latasha-rl8ch 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    Loved the 80s and 90s

    • @sandhyathrasybule5686
      @sandhyathrasybule5686 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      and the 2000s

    • @michellebelle1204
      @michellebelle1204 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      But why did we all look old?

    • @SyedAli-r4e
      @SyedAli-r4e 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The best of course

    • @sharoncrawford7192
      @sharoncrawford7192 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Loved the 60s and 70s.

    • @dorothywillms115
      @dorothywillms115 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Remember interest rates in the 80’s? We nearly lost the farm at the time. And look at the hair!!!!! How bushy and overgrown.

  • @Provostialish
    @Provostialish 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Even crazier than the guests on the show is how the audience claps, cheers, and jeers for contradictory statements and messages.

  • @Sidehustle_chick
    @Sidehustle_chick 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +117

    Would love to know where they all ended up now 🤩

    • @beautifulb7562
      @beautifulb7562 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Divorced and dead 😂

    • @kara19999
      @kara19999 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Damn. That's morose!​@@beautifulb7562

    • @halalpolice23
      @halalpolice23 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Me too😂 I wish they do follow up videos of where they’re now.

    • @AB-lp8jd
      @AB-lp8jd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​I was literal going to reply "dead or divorced" myself 😂😂 ​@@beautifulb7562

    • @IamIam23-d9v
      @IamIam23-d9v 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      In 2024 mostly divorced or living with cats. Marriage is about duty over pure disney

  • @mariojenkins8913
    @mariojenkins8913 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    A happy little episode about the Cycle of Violence and Family Violence.......😃 I miss Ricki Lake so dang much!

  • @shali-.
    @shali-. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +168

    That lady who shamed the mom who wants to stay home with her kids is such a joke. Like congratulations that's your choice but don't shame HERS. There's nothing wrong by wanting to be a stay at home mother. Kids grow super quick.

    • @cymbolichuman433
      @cymbolichuman433 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I got static back in the days of being a woman and all that fluff
      about freedom and all. I took care of my kids and worked once they
      became school age. Work is work whether you get paid or not.

    • @StrawberryJam806
      @StrawberryJam806 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I mean I don’t care what people do but when women choose to do nothing with their life except reproduce and sit at home (and usually my tax dollars pay to raise their kids) and then they whine about how being a mom is “such a hard job”, that’s when I have a problem.

    • @Killercakes24
      @Killercakes24 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      No that's not the point. She is lazy she doesn't wanna work!!!! nothing wrong with stay at home... but being in a loveless relationship because you're too lazy to work. Big difference

    • @erikaolivia7200
      @erikaolivia7200 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Killercakes24facts

    • @XxThePhantomFreezexX
      @XxThePhantomFreezexX 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Ricki called doin housewife duties "a slave"

  • @John-ng5ow
    @John-ng5ow 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Taking care of 3 children , staying at home, cooking is a big full time job which is huge.

    • @Mark5023w
      @Mark5023w 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@gregorycook5305exactly.

    • @shewithabeshawit6721
      @shewithabeshawit6721 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@gregorycook5305well if not full time overtime I guess, unless you try it don’t you won’t understand

    • @lovelighttheotherside1251
      @lovelighttheotherside1251 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@gregorycook5305your right it’s not a full time job, full time jobs get a paycheque! If the wife worked there would be more problems

    • @tovah8841
      @tovah8841 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@gregorycook5305You prob wanna be a woman so bad, that’s our privilege 😊..We get to stay home and watch our kids grow & spend our husbands money, if you pick the right husband..😅

    • @tovah8841
      @tovah8841 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@gregorycook5305 I have time, plenty of time in my luxury house, vacation homes, my beautiful luxury cars & shopping sprees & just with one kid, I still get to stay at home.. Thanks to my husband” 🤭😁..You mad? I know, I would be too if I were a broke guy.. Gross.. Peasant..

  • @malihahan
    @malihahan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I’ve always thought that “a broken home” was a home where the parents weren’t happy and the kids lived in a horrible enviroment, not that it meant a divorce.

    • @Melinamiu007
      @Melinamiu007 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yup, means divorce. Created when divorce was not that common

    • @nardagraham1002
      @nardagraham1002 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're wrong. It means the parents are split up.

    • @sunbeam9222
      @sunbeam9222 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My parents stayed together their whole life, it was horrible, so much drama, so much tension, I would literally have panic attacks because these 2 wouldn't stop fighting.
      I divorced my husband we never went to court, always co-parenting peacefully, my son never witnessed a fight between us. To this day we have remained civil and friendly with each other . I have his back and he has mine, no romance whatsoever I still visit him, his wife, new baby and my in-laws and we get on great. He was meant to be my friend, not my husband I guess. It's a shame for my son that his parents didn't stay together but imo it's still better that we separated and kept respectful always towards each other and our son our number 1 priority.

    • @chantellea9938
      @chantellea9938 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@sunbeam9222 I commend you both for being able to stay civil. You don't see this nowadays

  • @HoneyB93
    @HoneyB93 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    These people were doing *The Most* with their hairstyles.

  • @Suzi64grad
    @Suzi64grad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I married the love of my life when I was 18 and he was 19….1965! Married 59 years here in 2024, and I can’t imagine ever being without him! I adore this man! We still are passionate together too….I feel sorry for those who don’t have love, and passion! I was lucky and stayed home with my 2 children,,,I started working in education when my son started school and we had the same hours! Worked out great!

    • @jasminejones9937
      @jasminejones9937 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well bully for you 🙄 You're in the overwhelming MINORITY

    • @blakemrolfsensanchez547
      @blakemrolfsensanchez547 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Congratulations. I hope you 2 will be happy for the rest of your lives

  • @perpelflameandcompany
    @perpelflameandcompany 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thank you for the upload! What a brilliant episode - Bring back 90's-esque talk shows!

  • @suesmith3744
    @suesmith3744 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    When you are married to a narcissist that love rapidly turns to hate , somewhat different than this situation but yeah ….

    • @charliemonroe722
      @charliemonroe722 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Nah that first lady is a textbook narccist and it sounds like the husband of the second one is too

    • @rawr333r
      @rawr333r 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@charliemonroe722YES! the second husband was absolutely very abusive

    • @wLBlue
      @wLBlue 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Everybody a narcissist

  • @rlprincipe
    @rlprincipe 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    "He deserves everything he gets if he allows it."
    The second couple was worth a LOT more digging into.

    • @LX-kt90rx
      @LX-kt90rx 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yeah, she seemed like SHE was the crazy and violent one. HE needed to get out

    • @rosameijering5161
      @rosameijering5161 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@LX-kt90rxfor sure because she still wanted to be with her ex

  • @Marimar917
    @Marimar917 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I'm so worried about Margo 😢
    Worst of all, this was 30 years ago 😮
    I hope her life turned out for the better and that she is still safe

  • @lcm4951
    @lcm4951 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Still so addicted to watching this era of daytime TV!

  • @sensuouseze8194
    @sensuouseze8194 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I wonder how it worked out for them since the show aired?

  • @stephaniepantalonie
    @stephaniepantalonie 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    What in the world. The first couple do not love each other but have kids and dont want to divorce. The second couple endangers each other to the point of death threats/attempts. "What's wrong with you?"

  • @sylvialupehernandez9154
    @sylvialupehernandez9154 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Rex said together forever, this was 29 years ago, wondering where they are at now?

  • @MarsMellow84
    @MarsMellow84 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you for this time capsule! I looooooved watching Rikki! ❤

  • @radcliffemoncrieffe8392
    @radcliffemoncrieffe8392 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I'M A MAN DIDN'T GROW UP WITH A FATHER AND I THINK I AM ONE OF THE MOST RESPONSIBLE MAN AND A SINGLE PARENT TOO

    • @wLBlue
      @wLBlue 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You are the exception to the rule

  • @SadelovesJesus
    @SadelovesJesus 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is soooo 90’s 😂 I love it 90s baby!! Also you can tell that Rex is a good guy, his heart is in the kind of right place and he’s obviously being very honest and blunt. Her on the other hand is so.. nvm I’ll keep that to myself. Her character is just not great at all… I hope she changed, likely so. I myself was a nightmare of a person in my 20s thankfully I didn’t have kids or marry in that mindset lol. Also, Dude keeps a machete under the bed and sharpens every week?? Threatens people with it? Like what??? How is everyone calm?

  • @pclady95
    @pclady95 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    She just married a meal ticket. I would have loved to stay home with my children, and didn't have that luxury. Now that they are grown, I'm glad I worked, as I know I can make it on my own without any help. I'm not someone's doormat. I'm on marriage #2 (29 years now)--we don't argue much, because there's nothing to argue about. My ex left me, and I am so glad that I was able to make it on my own without help. I would not have received any help, and would have probably been homeless. As a result, I have raised 2 wonderful women that are Warriors--not Doormats!

    • @sharoncrawford7192
      @sharoncrawford7192 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      But there are women that enjoy being a fulltime stay at home mom, taking care of their home and family fulltime. I did, and never desired a job or career. Although I was out of school 4 yrs and worked while out of school and some while I was married. Until I had a baby.

    • @maryoleary5044
      @maryoleary5044 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Well said Sharon!

    • @lasantuzza777
      @lasantuzza777 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i am happy to be a stay at home mom. for me it’s a beautiful life and fulfilling. i’m certainly not a doormat. the only time i ever felt like a doormat was when i was working for a toxic manager who was ungrateful and very unkind to us working for her. women need to reframe their mindset and try not to make sweeping judgements about one another. i’m glad that you’re happy to have had a career but i’m also happy to be doing what i do. in absence of a career i am still valuable and intelligent.

  • @et9093
    @et9093 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    All these couples just love the drama.

  • @kaylakarrion9885
    @kaylakarrion9885 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    You should never subject your children to a toxic and abusive relationship.

    • @johnpaulgarcia6906
      @johnpaulgarcia6906 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It happens more often than we know

  • @meghanwilliams4295
    @meghanwilliams4295 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    When the American Dream turns into a nightmare...

  • @Noodley-Doo
    @Noodley-Doo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    “Hi honey I’m home” is what I look forward to hear everyday.

  • @bibbilagermand8397
    @bibbilagermand8397 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    First one is one sick puppy

  • @blackamerica3045
    @blackamerica3045 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Damn I miss the 90s

  • @catherinevineyard5942
    @catherinevineyard5942 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    My parents got married 4 months after their first date. They were married for 36 years. My Father passed away 4 months before their 37th anniversary

    • @elizlikethequeen
      @elizlikethequeen 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      When you know, you know. This is super sweet. ❤

    • @tara4925
      @tara4925 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

  • @eimearnighriofa1116
    @eimearnighriofa1116 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    The audacity of the audience to laugh and clap to hear about the first woman biting and physically attacking her husband because he was "making her jealous". If it was the other way around they would DESTROY him.

    • @wLBlue
      @wLBlue 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Double standards

    • @HotFlushSummer
      @HotFlushSummer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s awful that it’s taken so long for people to recognise the seriousness of DV against men. Yes people did laugh it off. And when you think of the difference between male and female self-unaliving to attempt to use YT language, although we know how much harder it can be for men to talk about their problems, I feel haunted when I wonder how many of them were trapped in an abusive marriage or even bumped off by a wife in the days before DNA? When police probably fell for women who could easily appear vulnerable? In fairness a couple of the guys were behaving really badly too, where the women were underplaying how much fear they were feeling for their family and friends (like the guy who threatened to kill the woman’s pastor,) and that was sort of laughed off too. It’s quite triggering (in the literal sense, as in PTSD/CPTSD,) to remind ourselves what living through those times was actually like and the sexism that went both ways - as well as the assumptions, distasteful jokes and narrow mindedness depending on where and how you grew up. I must admit my stomach is in knots after watching this one, the seriousness of what was going on in all the cases on the stage would be considered too dangerous to televise now - they all need to run! I just hope they all broke up after this aired 🙏🏼🙏🏼 It doesn’t take long for this kind of behaviour to escalate to potentially fatal proportions every time a new boundary is broken.

    • @HotFlushSummer
      @HotFlushSummer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We need one of Derek’s hair battles next to soothe our 90s kid souls 😅🩷

  • @michellejensen632
    @michellejensen632 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Am I the only one, who get that one Offspring song everytime hearing the name Ricki Lake......? 😎

  • @LuciixLucci
    @LuciixLucci 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Patty does not seem like the woman she’s trying to portray to them… 🧐😬

  • @ashw7105
    @ashw7105 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    not the lawyer giving “advice” 🤪🤣🤣🤣

    • @tiffanymcintyre8375
      @tiffanymcintyre8375 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Fr 🙄🤣🤣🤣

    • @IamIam23-d9v
      @IamIam23-d9v 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ricki Lake might as well be the lawyer. Shes pushing for all guests to split..

    • @kingzana
      @kingzana 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She has pretty good questions

  • @LuciixLucci
    @LuciixLucci 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    24:58 lol
    Everyone’s hairstyles are 80s in the 90s 🫢

    • @xemnas9098
      @xemnas9098 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      The late 80s was still lingering in early 90s. Around 94 is when the 90s started, but that's how every new decade starts...takes a few years for it change out of the previous one.

  • @gradetrend8138
    @gradetrend8138 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    This lady had 3 kids under 8, one being a baby 3 months and her husband has the nerve to say on National TV that she does NOTHING all day and it’s “easy” is this guy out of his mind ?

    • @halalpolice23
      @halalpolice23 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yeah I was shocked to hear that too. I’m surprised how she survived that long in that house with 2 kids with a father like that. I had 3 months old few months ago and I would’ve lost my mind with such husband 😂

    • @Melinamiu007
      @Melinamiu007 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      A lot of men think that way

    • @werdacommunityprojectproje9194
      @werdacommunityprojectproje9194 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They still sleeping together 😮😅

  • @gradetrend8138
    @gradetrend8138 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    She should have let the ex have him!! Wouldn’t have been a loss

  • @d1mples91
    @d1mples91 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    The first couple are something else. If you are unhappy then leave, your kids will surly pick on on that and start acting out.

    • @KristyCard
      @KristyCard 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Their both even are getting defensive with the audience too to prove they don't hate each other...absolutely ridiculous

  • @marymilo9916
    @marymilo9916 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Angel's hair is a whole mood

  • @AmandaHW1984
    @AmandaHW1984 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    The audience member who admits that she only somewhat loves her husband shouldn't speak.

    • @And1one757
      @And1one757 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That was very valuable insight... she was from a generation that used to just work ish out for the kidz wasnt so selfish... modern day women think everything is about happiness

    • @sattasana7753
      @sattasana7753 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@And1one757 so why she was criticizing Patti 😂

    • @socalknight5482
      @socalknight5482 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right, she added nothing to the conversation lol😂

    • @MidnightSonnet
      @MidnightSonnet 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@And1one757 how DARE modern women want happiness and a loving relationship! 🙄

    • @mikeylibra5233
      @mikeylibra5233 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@MidnightSonnethow's that goin?

  • @shali-.
    @shali-. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I wonder where they are nowwwww. I wanna knowww

  • @monie2514
    @monie2514 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I missed the 90s but some of these shows I wish they had an update. As it's well over 32 33 years later and in some cases 25 years later😢 if somebody don't want to be with you you should go ahead and leave immediately

  • @Im_so_Retro85
    @Im_so_Retro85 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I miss the Ricki Lake show 😂 It was so entertaining.

  • @c-note3519
    @c-note3519 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I don't even know were to start from.Most of the people get married for wrong reasons.These relationships are all toxic.Stay single,do you until you find someone that will treat you right and reciprocate.These were the 90's but now it's worse.Stay strong kings and queens and enjoy yourselves period❤.

  • @Amy.Mayfeather
    @Amy.Mayfeather 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Lady Audience member in the red blouse and vest was on point- “broken home” excuse over separation and a healthier childhood for the kids.

  • @kkkkkkk7
    @kkkkkkk7 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    The alternative to marrying another person when you DO NOT LOVE the person is hell on earth ...so make DIVORCE YOUR OPTION.

  • @kimberly-gm9nq
    @kimberly-gm9nq 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    But she doesn't understand the damage it will cause to her children.

  • @kaylakarrion9885
    @kaylakarrion9885 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    It’s not about women do this and men do that, it’s about emotional maturity.

    • @maryoleary5044
      @maryoleary5044 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Great comment!

  • @lynetterice8413
    @lynetterice8413 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Patty is the problem💯

  • @tahneeyuh3382
    @tahneeyuh3382 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    “She’d take half my business”
    “Excuse me don’t you think she deserves half?” It’s a little crazy how back then we’d openly say stuff like this

    • @IamIam23-d9v
      @IamIam23-d9v 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Lol whats new....

    • @toprightchannel3080
      @toprightchannel3080 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Rex's points all seemed valid and he sounded ahead of his time.

    • @tahneeyuh3382
      @tahneeyuh3382 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@toprightchannel3080 I agree. There’s no reason she should automatically just take everything 🤦🏼‍♀️ Shame on Ricki for saying it like that

    • @rosameijering5161
      @rosameijering5161 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@tahneeyuh3382 half is not everything if she indeed helped to set up the business. Why he never valued that?

  • @Ash-kf1zc
    @Ash-kf1zc 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    that woman's hair at 24:58 is certainly something! OMG.

    • @rawr333r
      @rawr333r 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      OMG LOL

    • @raquellara5877
      @raquellara5877 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🐩

  • @LaChichi1
    @LaChichi1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    A bunch of people who willingly entered a situation they knew was bad. I don't feel sorry for any of them. I only feel bad for the kids. Then they wonder why this exact generation are cutting off their parents and going no contact now. These pple are ridiculous and have no self-respect. And the guy saying 17 isn't a baby needs to be investigated.

  • @rachelfernandez9899
    @rachelfernandez9899 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    We need a 'where are they now?' follow up.

  • @CC-qy5ux
    @CC-qy5ux 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I miss the days of corney talk shows during the day 😭😭😭😂😆

  • @maria7689
    @maria7689 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    The first guy isn’t cheating? Yea, right…

  • @SuzieQue42
    @SuzieQue42 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The 90’s nostalgia! ❤ I remember watching Ricky Lake after school some days.😂

  • @KayB-l5h
    @KayB-l5h 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The first couple as soon as those kids are 18 she is gonna be broke and alone.

  • @sarahl.7442
    @sarahl.7442 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This account is an internet gem! Thank you! 💎

  • @Uptownboo84
    @Uptownboo84 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    The kids eventually grow up....now what?!

  • @garylagstrom3864
    @garylagstrom3864 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    RICKI LAKE TALK SHOW: 90’s:
    Ricki Lake has the grooviest theme show opening 🎵 🎼 🎶 love the drums and that funky bass guitar!

  • @XxThePhantomFreezexX
    @XxThePhantomFreezexX 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    mom used to watch tf out this show ... she left my pops in '98

    • @fp4477
      @fp4477 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I can see why. There’s so much man bashing and lack of holding women’s feet to the fire.

  • @KerryJames-l6z
    @KerryJames-l6z 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Trust love communication is important in a marriage a deaf ear helps and a big syomach to stomach it all helps

  • @Dana-kc7gl
    @Dana-kc7gl 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Back when women tolerated and settled for marriage out of fear of judgement from society

    • @DinaMule
      @DinaMule 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Out of fear of being labeled a spinster or old maid.

    • @Dana-kc7gl
      @Dana-kc7gl 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@DinaMule also before narcissism was understood

  • @alybran28
    @alybran28 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Going through this right now with a man I have been with for 10yrs but thankfully we are not married we just have a kid together and every time I want to leave he asks her to pick a parent and tells her that I am breaking up the family. He is mentally draining to everyone and is always starting fights in front of our kiddo I tell him I don’t want to do this in front of her but he always says she’s part of this family too and needs to see us fight. She is 6 and it frustrates me that he dosnt care. Iv tried locking myself in rooms to stop the fighting but he has removed the locks.

    • @rosameijering5161
      @rosameijering5161 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Run away from him for your daughter

  • @web7014
    @web7014 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    why did they air out their business out like that omg😂

  • @dorothygregory3184
    @dorothygregory3184 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My husband and I have been married 5 years and have never had an argument

  • @sharoncrawford7192
    @sharoncrawford7192 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Im 67 and still with my first and only husband. No marriage is perfect. Thats how it is. Its not a never ending fairy tale.

    • @aleishadarrell9801
      @aleishadarrell9801 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Never a fairytale… but do you hate him? Are you as toxic as they are?
      There is no love between them.

    • @clareshaughnessy2745
      @clareshaughnessy2745 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Girl, if you think your marriage is like this then you need to get out. There is absolutely no credit to staying in an abusive situation

    • @IamIam23-d9v
      @IamIam23-d9v 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dont listen to these modern feminists. Most modern women are not willing to fight for their marriage. This generation is screwed

  • @travisr2222
    @travisr2222 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dude I miss these days so much! This is when America was great!!

  • @ShivaLadiva-sb9nw
    @ShivaLadiva-sb9nw 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Raising children with a man you declare you hate is toxic for the kids

  • @sharonrose50
    @sharonrose50 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Oh my goodness none of those people on stage need to be married and it’s even worse in the current time we are living in.

  • @mamaraah2578
    @mamaraah2578 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Rex was a good looking man. No way he was faithful to a wife who hates him and in a loveless marriage.

  • @Jimmyboygohome
    @Jimmyboygohome 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    It’s a little concerning that the black woman said that her husband was going to be the death of her and then right after admitted to them being violent towards each other. I wonder where they are now.

  • @beehungry6190
    @beehungry6190 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Had better topics and conversations back then and people weren’t cancelled! Miss it!

  • @blackbutterfly233ify
    @blackbutterfly233ify 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    The first couple is actually a very realistic marriage

  • @chelseatiara8777
    @chelseatiara8777 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I remembered when I was younger I always wanted to be a stay at home parent but say things don’t work out, I won’t have anything for myself.

  • @gradetrend8138
    @gradetrend8138 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Why did Patty and Rex get married to begin with?

  • @SuninSchorpio25Tarot
    @SuninSchorpio25Tarot 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love love love these older shows ❤

  • @LuciixLucci
    @LuciixLucci 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    32:28 this dude over here thinkin “this mf right” 😭😭

  • @houseofyarbs623
    @houseofyarbs623 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We need an update on these people!! (I’m sure they’re divorced but I still wanna know lol)

  • @ieishacrenshaw
    @ieishacrenshaw 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    So patti Is the abuser I see. Rex sweeping it under the rug . Both alittle slow