I think it’s funny that these people assume the sugar daddies don’t know what they’re getting into!!! It’s an AGREEMENT between 2 people! Those men ain’t no damn victims!!!
Those men are paying foe these women's youth! They're definitely NOT victims. Meanwhile the one lady is a permanent fiance for 8 damn years!!!! What's the hold up on him marrying her???
imho, if both parties know what it is thats what it is, Me personally, I would never pay a woman to be with me, im into genuine relationships, but i feel sorry for the black girl who thinks the guy who put her up in the condo really cares about her
@@mykoniichistorychannel men just don’t like it when women are honest about wanting financial security even though men are honest about wanting sex and beauty.
I’m still tripping off the fact this lady thought she was doing something when she said she was with this guy for 8 years and finally got ENGAGED not even married 🙃
Why is it acceptable for a man to use a woman for her body but a woman shouldn't use/desire a man for his money? The idea of love is only pushed on women.
EXACTLY!... If this was a panel of mostly "playas" from this era, virtually NO ONE would be whining about "love" to them OVER AND OVER AGAIN. They would just accept the old "boys will be boys" bs and keep it pushing.
@@UzitheSaint Men are known to use women, many con women just to get their manly urges met. Many deceive just to get in those pants! It shouldn't be widely acceptable but somehow it is the norm worldwide.
Perfectly fine as long as you have this mindset BEFORE you have kids Also im a successful dude. So it affords me options aka im just gonna have fun with these sorts of women and commit to a wholesome church girl
It’s the crowd clapping extra hard 😂 A lot of struggle love & angry faces in the stands. & it was a lot of smiles on the stage. What does that really tell you?
@@LurnWell of course they do! Most people are fake everything ain’t a damn gender war it’s life watch how people change when you win the lottery or come into some real money lol 😂
This is what I feel like the lady in the blue was trying to get at but the other lady kept talking over her and cutting her off. She said she why couldn’t she love someone who also has money. I forget what the movie is but Marilyn Monroe’s character had a quote that said if you spend all your time worrying over money how do you have any time to think about love and it’s true. Money is not all that matters in a relationship but money issues are a major cause of divorce
Most women, especially nowadays, have fallen for the proverbial "okie doke" and think that being "liberated" automatically makes them better people for some reason. Some these modern day feminists truly are some of the most hateful, vindictive individuals that only ever will care for self. ALL the women on the panel would do better just to stay in their own lane and not try to make all women fit into a monolithic perspective.
Man I struck Gold with this video. I remember growing up in the 90’s and watching Ricki Lake, Montell Williams & Jenny Jones. 90’s talk shows was the peak of the Talk show era.
"If you gold dig, you won't end up with love...in fact, you probably won't end up with each other" - but you will end up with MONEY, which is the POINT 😂😂😂 it ain't love-digging
When that rich man trades up and get a younger one than y'all will be on social media crying talking about what about love. We've seen this movie to many times.
@@memechanel4012 bullshit. W0men are crying and whining all over social media about not feeling whole after years of telling herself being single was a choice.
The dude that said "I wonder if she ever calculated her hourly rate" looks exactly like the men who pay for that type of stuff so you would know huh! 🤣🤣
These women have the right idea,PERIODT!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Men are BEAUTY diggers ; they’re looking for the most beautiful women they can find so why shouldn’t a woman look for the richest/generous guy she can find?? There’s absolutely nothing wrong with a woman being a GOLD DIGGER!! Just keep in mind that it’s all temporary one way or another and you definitely need to have either an exit strategy or some type of backup plan. Play it smart sis ❤
I like this. This makes me think of how a lot of men resent girls and women for wanting the bad boy type when boys and men want an Instagram model. We like shiny things when we first see them. And when we get close, some of us learn that not all that glitters is real gold. People blame people for being human and in the moment.
Whoever says love doesn’t buy happiness is PRIVILEGED AF!!! You’ve never had to worry about a roof over your head and food in your stomach! That’s the most depressing times of my life, nobody would even give me a cup of water!! I’ve gone weeks without eating and years without a place to lay my head of my own! There is not one thing in this World that you can get that doesn’t cost MONEY!!!! Food costs money, a place to live costs money, HEALTHCARE, even clean water! And honey, love is overrated! If we lived in a World where love is actually valued, then food and water would be available to everyone and children would not be abused
Yea I wish we lived in a world that actually valued love, we would all be valued and taken care of but since we don’t….get your coin sis! I spent too many years chasing love only to end up with nothing. Never again.
See how most of the "a woman doesn't need a man to take care of her financially" are hella unattractive? They want to be liked. Look...live costs a heck of a lot of cash. Even death costs..children are expensive as shit. That fat older lady is bitter and cannot attract a man moreso keep him. Yes we can work...but why have a man then if all he'll do is give you sex? Hellmwe can have better sex with ourselves as sex is most enjoyed and valued by men as is a woman's presence. This is why you keep your business to yourself. Broke men and pick me women will always act salty and butthurt. I love money and that will never change.
All these QUEENS. There’s nothing wrong with a man wanting to spend money on you or you wanting to be taken care of , that’s what housewives do what’s the difference! Marriage ? Lol
Yall dumb as hell a house wife does more than just be taken care of what is she doing a lot that you women wouldn't understand saying dumb things like this
The ex gold diggers and prostitute were trying to act like they were any better 🥴 especially the prostitute when she was like “that’s why your men come and see me.” Like okay? Some of them clearly said they didn’t want to sleep with them and wanted materialistic things in exchange for their company but she’s better for being willing to sell her body for an hourly rate? Weird flex but ok 😂
I as a disabled woman held my own HOUSEhold down, paid off two cars, had the same job for 15 years, raised a son, & now I’m graduating with my bachelors in a week. I NEVER depending on any one. I got it on my own! However, I met my life partner who doesn’t mind paying the bills but I don’t love them for that cuz I can get it on my own!
Everyone isn't looking for love. Last I checked, love alone has never paid a bill. Everyone is different. While this isn't my lifestyle choice, I refuse to judge these women, similarly, I don't judge men who only use women for sex alone. Let people live their lives.
@@LurnWell We can agree to disagree. If there is no currency, bills are not paid. I'm not talking about this in a poetic, whimsical form. I'm talking tangible dividends. As beautiful as that sounds, "love" is not a deposit. Maybe a motivation for someone to get shit done... possibly. But a tangible object that actually functions logically in society, absolutely not. That feels extremely juvenile, as the last time I thought like that, I was one. As an older, married woman now, our "love" plays zero factors when we're sitting down at this table paying bills every month.
Her man was waiting 8 years because he was holding out in case a better woman came along 😂 Her degrees and pant suits weren’t turning him on. Most men know after 2 years.
I support it! The time, effort, and emotional labour I have sacrificed to men in exchange for pain and heartache makes me wish I had dated for money instead.
Or just heal and don’t put your trauma onto another men cause it’s not fair and what happened if the men u end up meeting was good to and show u love and respect and loyalty 🤦🏿💯
To be honest there’s only one gold digger out of the 5 they think were. I like how the Philly girl didn’t let them try to punk her. It was a lot of assumptions here, but I can agree that this can’t be a longevity type of career. Ma’am in the brown suit was getting played hard because to be not married in those 8 years being with that man is insane.
I’m off today and decided to go back to the 90s for the day and watch all of the shows I used to watch during my teen years. . Ending the day with Ricki Lake. Nice little escape and I feel good 😊….. now back to 2023
The “gold diggers” were smart women. The black lady with the brown top and black skirt was going in. Meanwhile, she was bragging on her man that she genuinely “loves” and she was ENGAGED for EIGHT years!!!!! Girl what lol.
I bet u any 💲😏they didn't get married. Who stays a fiance for 8 years, she needs to ask them ladies what's tea, cuz they have everything she is hoping for in her soon to be hubby ,😅in the future lol whenever, lol neva lol.
There are wealthy men who want company and will help you financially without s3x... It's not just based off looks but because you're offering them an experience aka personality, meeting an emotional/social/psychological need, fantasy, eye candy, companionship with complication, etc... Most women have the look but lack substance, so they have to compensate with s3x
And the big chick with the leopard print on was going off on the white lady because she was mad cuz she slept with everybody, she was offended the white lady knew how to get money without sleeping with the guy. 🤣🤣🤣 She was snapping on her so hard just because she said she didn't have to sleep with men to get them to give her money. I was a stripper for many years, and the truth is, some men, you don't have to. I don't care if he bought her a car. That don't mean she slept with him to get it.
Why was the two men coming at the black woman on the panel for wanting to have a man with money??? We are the only group of women shamed for wanting a man with a lot of money
@@sheniqueharris4879 A person who wants more when they already have more is insatiable at that point. When is enough, enough? There's people who have less and would love to have even a fraction of what they have! I agree with the lady at 10:20; a woman should have OWN money and not be a dependent to man for his. Edit: Don't get me wrong, love doesn't pay the bills! It never has and it never will! Love alone ain't enough! It's one thing to be in/want to be in a relationship where you're partner is financially secure because who the hell wants to be with someone who doesn't have money? A person who can't even pay for the first several dates? A person who can't pay the bills? That's understandable. Its another when you're in said relationship for money ALONE and nothing else! If I had to choose between two guys, one with decent look and money vs. one with decent looks and no money, I'm going with the guy who has money. I never said he had to be rich. He does however, need to be financially secure! And women need to ALWAYS have their own that their partner knows NOTHING about JUST IN CASE she needs to leave! That way she won't be left broke and destitute! Money = freedom and safety!
It's best to be independent and make your own boss queen money. At the end of the day an independent woman also needs a independent man who can help her when her health fails and hard time comes by. A broke man can't give you or your child shit.
There’s NOTHING wrong with not wanting a broke man. Broke men come with insecurities, they’re inadequate in every aspect except maybe sex, they are miserable because they can’t provide, they’re also resentful. Leave broke men alone if you want to keep your sanity. I also think men should leave women alone that are not self sufficient without them. A dependent liability for a woman is also a turn off.
@@floridagirl386 Speaking in a man’s place? What does that even mean? Everything I said was true about broke men. It’s deeper than just a not having money.
I’ll say one thing. As a young women who is currently going back and forth with my significant other about bill splits, this type of ideology is what I should have subscribed to because why am I having to hear the man I was with for almost 10 years and someone who I have my first and only child by complaint about having to pay most of the bills when I’m already busting my behind trying to provide my half. NO! See if I had this type of attitude life would have been more of a breeze for me. AT THIS POINT I condone women like this because at least they’re not signing up for a life of struggle. I’ve always been the “down type” that never judged a man from his pockets, or expected a man to pay my way, but now I wish I did because it completely sucks for a man to get upset with you about him being a provider, something that the great maker created him to be.
@@bsharp1533 girl tell me about it. Tell me why he told me the other day that I’m nothing and ain’t never had nothing and will never be anything without him 🥴 what a douche!
As a 33 year old woman, we should absolutely go for the money. Love in 2023 will have you miserable & broke. I tried that love route & it doesn't work. I can't pay my mortgage on love. Gimme the 🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑
I was just telling my 18 year old beautiful coworker the other day, “sorry but if he’s not spending he’s not worth your time”. She gotta learn how to use her beauty for personal gain because at the end of the day these lil boys aint serious and they’re gonna use you for time/attention/ cause they are bored or lonely or whatever they can use you for.
I know a woman who was/is a gold digger,very materialistic thought men o her the world. Now years later she ended up with herpes 😂😂 I found out from her which in fact we dated off n on n that's why her life is living hell but honestly she got her ways from her mom. I'll never date a woman that's all about self.
Im 30, just discovering Ricki Lake on TH-cam. Watching these in 2024 is wild, this episode was filmed the same year I was born! So wild to see how opinions have changed so much in 30 years yet are still relatively the same.
Yes! The fat black lady with the short hair cut was trying it! Then what about the black guy in the audience who said you should follow your man to the end of the earth if you love him LOL
@@browngirl603you calling us men insecure yet you’re the one relying on our money to go get your fake eye lashes put it, fake nails, fake drawn out eyebrows (because yours are non existent), fake weaves, and caked on make-up to cover up your ugly face. If it wasn’t for a man, y’all women wouldn’t have the jobs you have today nor will you be driving the cars you drive! #realitycheckfordatass
i like how the one women started talking about her fiancée and made it a point to mention how successful he was first. nobody is going to be that proud about dating a broke dude and i bet she wouldn’t be able to answer if she was asked if she would
Aint nothing wrong with their decisions. Not everybody wants a man as a companion. Not all men want love. Many men want convenience. The audience is shaming these women but theres no reason to.
Notice it’s mostly the older women who are now all of a sudden against the goldigging lifestyle. Their time is over and they’ve aged so OF COURSE they don’t like gold diggers. Their husbands are cheating on them with these type of women and it is them pressed pressed PRESSED😂
I don’t care. I agree with them. I have a father who does any and everything for me and I expect a man to do the same. Not that I can’t do for myself but I’m not messing with no broke ninja.
Wow, people in the 90s really had a problem with women who had respect for themselves and had standards on the type of people they wanted to spend their time with and/or have a physical relationship with. 😔In my opinion, I think that Golddigger is a word used to shame women from having self-respect and standards for themselves, and to shame them from choosing their dating partners based on who can provide a good future for them. of course a healthy relationship is based on a lot of factors, but a good way to tell if you have a decent man on your hands is if he can hold down a good job, or is educated, has career options etc. Wouldn’t you want your daughter to do the same? Like helloooo common sense here people!! 🙄😂 (also I was born in 91 so I can see why I struggled growing up with a very pick me type of mentality. So sad)
Yeah but there's a difference having everything you want and having what you need. Some ppl are so spoiled rotten it's disgusting. Glad I was raised to be humble and simple
None of them was married to the men that they were dating though. Even if they're not whores, they appear to be to most people. Even today people see things that way, been like that since the beginning of time.
The black girl winning she living in a condo😂😂they know dang well they giving up 😼😼to get what they want i can't stand the lies...Me and my mother would watch this show back in the days #RIPPearlie❤️💯
Trust me you don't have to have sex with Alot of them they really just want to trick on somebody excess money with nothing to do with it they'll give up some money for companionship every now and then
The woman in brown is Determined to have these women be who she wants them to be in her head. No, lady, they don't have to fit your idea! Yes, wealthy men find them desirable just for their company! Sorry if you've never experienced that because your personality sucks lol. Rich men want a companion too, and these ladies are it. and the men have excess money where they can help people/women they like. I don't know why she insists that a man can only have good character if he is poor. Why does she feel the need to exaggerate on the goodness of poor men? Poor men can cheat too and do everything rich men do except vacation.
In todays generation it’s call standards but back then it’s was GR 😅😅😅😅! I used to watch this show straight after school 🏫 and I would have cringe 😬 watching this BUT NOW I respect ✊🏿 and understand these women hustle , I still won’t do it but I won’t judge them.
Smartest woman in the comments.. it’s just has gotten worse because that mentality wasn’t combatted and just past down from generations. Society will go downhill from here
To the people complaining, how come we can accept that a conventionally attractive person saying they are not attracted to someone not conventionally attractive & shrug it off and say hey it’s not who they are attracted to & go on with our lives 🤷🏾♀️??
I feel like the big chick in the brown is just there to bash the gold diggers but really she is no different from them she also has a man that can do anything for her and diffently provides for her as well she just thinks she different because she has a degree lol 😂😂😂😂
They walked so the City Girls could run 😂. Gotta love the honesty.
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Lmmfao my exact thoughts
😂and did
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This the post!!
I think it’s funny that these people assume the sugar daddies don’t know what they’re getting into!!! It’s an AGREEMENT between 2 people! Those men ain’t no damn victims!!!
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They was gettin on my nerves, wanting women to suffer because they more than likely are.
Those men are paying foe these women's youth! They're definitely NOT victims. Meanwhile the one lady is a permanent fiance for 8 damn years!!!! What's the hold up on him marrying her???
imho, if both parties know what it is thats what it is, Me personally, I would never pay a woman to be with me, im into genuine relationships, but i feel sorry for the black girl who thinks the guy who put her up in the condo really cares about her
Facts the men the tricks and the women are hoes
I need a "Where Are They Now!"
Facts
Right
Meeeee tooo
Yes
@@BrownSkinGirl96lmaooo doubt ir
I’m cryinnggg at how PRESSED these ladies have the audience 😂😂😂
If I were a woman, I’d be offended by them, too.
@@mykoniichistorychannel men just don’t like it when women are honest about wanting financial security even though men are honest about wanting sex and beauty.
@@mykoniichistorychannelthey can't see how it devalues them.
Yeah, like why do they care so much😂😂. My how the narrative has changed over the years
pReSsEd 🤪🙄
I’m still tripping off the fact this lady thought she was doing something when she said she was with this guy for 8 years and finally got ENGAGED not even married 🙃
Right, talk about pathetic and desperate. He don't love her lmao he just throwing up the white flag at that point.
She irritated me the whole time
But are YOU married?
She thinks she's worth more
The only way that is acceptable is if they met in high school. Ridiculous!
Why is it acceptable for a man to use a woman for her body but a woman shouldn't use/desire a man for his money? The idea of love is only pushed on women.
EXACTLY!... If this was a panel of mostly "playas" from this era, virtually NO ONE would be whining about "love" to them OVER AND OVER AGAIN. They would just accept the old "boys will be boys" bs and keep it pushing.
What are u talking about? Both have never been accepted
@@UzitheSaint Men are known to use women, many con women just to get their manly urges met. Many deceive just to get in those pants! It shouldn't be widely acceptable but somehow it is the norm worldwide.
@@UzitheSaint IF you were addressing me, I'll simply tell you to Google the phrase I quoted and have the day you deserve.
Girl yes !! Let’s be real.. most men are only in most relationships or dating the person for their looks.. the personality comes after!!
WHEN WOMEN PICK LOSERS THEY TELL YOU TO CHOOSE BETTER. IT'S YOUR FAULT.
WHEN YOU CHOOSE BETTER, THEY CALL YOU A GOLD DIGGER.
MAKES NO SENSE 🤷♀️
You should only give that much to your wife.
Exactly!! 🎯
Perfectly fine as long as you have this mindset BEFORE you have kids
Also im a successful dude. So it affords me options aka im just gonna have fun with these sorts of women and commit to a wholesome church girl
Depends if it’s a Mutual Relationship ?
Who’s the real loser?
These women were ahead of their time!
Absolutely going about it the right way don’t nobody want a man that isn’t or cannot provide I can do for myself don’t need a man for that
Absolutely going about it the right way don’t nobody want a man that isn’t or cannot provide I can do for myself don’t need a man for that
Yup
Women have been doing this for centuries, nothing new
Were they though 😂.
They were well ahead of their time. They invented sprinkle sprinkle 😂😂😂
It’s the crowd clapping extra hard 😂
A lot of struggle love & angry faces in the stands. & it was a lot of smiles on the stage. What does that really tell you?
That's why you not married
Men use women too especially if they’re broke and looking for a come up
true!
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They do.
Very true. Gold diggers come in all forms.
@@LurnWell of course they do! Most people are fake everything ain’t a damn gender war it’s life watch how people change when you win the lottery or come into some real money lol 😂
Using someone is one thing. But wanting to feel financially secure by your partner is another.
This right here!
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This is what I feel like the lady in the blue was trying to get at but the other lady kept talking over her and cutting her off. She said she why couldn’t she love someone who also has money. I forget what the movie is but Marilyn Monroe’s character had a quote that said if you spend all your time worrying over money how do you have any time to think about love and it’s true. Money is not all that matters in a relationship but money issues are a major cause of divorce
being mad at a golddigger is just being mad that u havent found a trick yet
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@@chrisy-ebitch you heard them!
right LMAO
Okay! Cos if many could - they would
... And every trick needs a hoe... And every hoe needs a pimp. 🏆
The girls that get it, GET IT. *sprinkle, sprinkle*
Word of advice to women: Keep your standards high, your purse and pocket tight, nevermind the judgement of others and you gone always be alright!
Girl I get judged on my appearance and I'm just basic and married with 4 kids. People are gping to judge no matter what so you do you. 🎉
I’m loving to see the all the hairstyles and clothes from back in the day
Tru I just appreciate it
That part
Uassss the girl in the red is fly timeless fashion, but the girl in blue Jean was trendy fly for the era!!!!
Right. The nostalgia is beautiful. I miss the 90s.
Tacky.
I hate when another woman tells other women what she should want in a man.
Most women, especially nowadays, have fallen for the proverbial "okie doke" and think that being "liberated" automatically makes them better people for some reason. Some these modern day feminists truly are some of the most hateful, vindictive individuals that only ever will care for self. ALL the women on the panel would do better just to stay in their own lane and not try to make all women fit into a monolithic perspective.
Righttt
I think it’s jealousy
That part
I hate it too cos like just mind your own business and shush it
Man I struck Gold with this video. I remember growing up in the 90’s and watching Ricki Lake, Montell Williams & Jenny Jones. 90’s talk shows was the peak of the Talk show era.
Glad you discovered us! :)
You and me both!
Yess these are pure gold
Yes I remember them and Mother Luv & Sally
And Geraldo
"If you gold dig, you won't end up with love...in fact, you probably won't end up with each other" - but you will end up with MONEY, which is the POINT 😂😂😂 it ain't love-digging
The audience was maddd lol knowing if they had the same opportunity 9/10 they taking it. These guests are gems especially jennifer LOL
Now that I'm married with two kids, I'm on the gold diggers side! 😂
Girl 😂😂😂
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Lolll good to have a balance !!
You ain't never lie. These dusties will have you working if you let them. Don't enable the dust, avoid it lol!
I think the audience is just a bunch of haters lmaoo im pretty sure it was a mutual agreement between them and the men they were with 😭
i see so many judging broke men ewww🤮🤮🤮
When that rich man trades up and get a younger one than y'all will be on social media crying talking about what about love. We've seen this movie to many times.
And the show was just another check, jokes on them lol
@@fkhowyoufeelaboutit not everyone wants or needs love. Some people don't need to depend on someone to make them feel better about themselves
@@memechanel4012 bullshit. W0men are crying and whining all over social media about not feeling whole after years of telling herself being single was a choice.
the audience can’t say what they aren’t worth. They aren’t hurting anyone. all parties know what’s going on while other people are getting cheated on
They sex workers
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If you say so !
these women had it right! treat relationships like a business. when the business fails it's time to go
Bingo, so we can multiply it if he take away even from ideas, he dont deserve no other invesments of my breath
The dude that said "I wonder if she ever calculated her hourly rate" looks exactly like the men who pay for that type of stuff so you would know huh! 🤣🤣
These women have the right idea,PERIODT!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Men are BEAUTY diggers ; they’re looking for the most beautiful women they can find so why shouldn’t a woman look for the richest/generous guy she can find?? There’s absolutely nothing wrong with a woman being a GOLD DIGGER!! Just keep in mind that it’s all temporary one way or another and you definitely need to have either an exit strategy or some type of backup plan. Play it smart sis ❤
This is a fucked up mind set !!
periodddd
I like this. This makes me think of how a lot of men resent girls and women for wanting the bad boy type when boys and men want an Instagram model. We like shiny things when we first see them. And when we get close, some of us learn that not all that glitters is real gold. People blame people for being human and in the moment.
@@JMoKnow well-said!!
exactly . onlly thing i say is be able to do for yourself
I'm not a gold digger I'm just not messing with no broke dude
Facts 💯
@@honeychick4ever280Having Money And Not Being Broke Won't Matter When You're Dead.
So they just have to look rich
Whoever says love doesn’t buy happiness is PRIVILEGED AF!!! You’ve never had to worry about a roof over your head and food in your stomach! That’s the most depressing times of my life, nobody would even give me a cup of water!! I’ve gone weeks without eating and years without a place to lay my head of my own! There is not one thing in this World that you can get that doesn’t cost MONEY!!!! Food costs money, a place to live costs money, HEALTHCARE, even clean water! And honey, love is overrated! If we lived in a World where love is actually valued, then food and water would be available to everyone and children would not be abused
Yea I wish we lived in a world that actually valued love, we would all be valued and taken care of but since we don’t….get your coin sis! I spent too many years chasing love only to end up with nothing. Never again.
🗣️ PREACH!!!
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See how most of the "a woman doesn't need a man to take care of her financially" are hella unattractive? They want to be liked. Look...live costs a heck of a lot of cash. Even death costs..children are expensive as shit. That fat older lady is bitter and cannot attract a man moreso keep him. Yes we can work...but why have a man then if all he'll do is give you sex? Hellmwe can have better sex with ourselves as sex is most enjoyed and valued by men as is a woman's presence. This is why you keep your business to yourself. Broke men and pick me women will always act salty and butthurt. I love money and that will never change.
Preach it!!
I remember skipping school in the mid to late 90's to watch ricki and them...😂❤❤❤❤nostalgic❤
Ricki Lake has always been gorgeous
30 years later this episode is still relevant unfortunately 💯
People use people to benefit them even friends and family members too nothing new just watch who you deal and hang with
Agree 💯
True!!! 🤦🏽♀️😂
Ttrrrruuuuu
Well with all the dusty men coming up and not taking care of business these days, I would say go for the money too lol!
All these QUEENS. There’s nothing wrong with a man wanting to spend money on you or you wanting to be taken care of , that’s what housewives do what’s the difference! Marriage ? Lol
Exactly
Facts
I agree
Yall dumb as hell a house wife does more than just be taken care of what is she doing a lot that you women wouldn't understand saying dumb things like this
I was so on point with 4 these ladies had no clue 😂
I remember rushing home from school in time to watch ricki lake brings back memories
Same! I loved Ricki! And Montel.
Me too. My fave talk show of them all
Yes! Those were the days!!!
Me too 😂😂😂
@@heathers432 ooooh I forgot about Montel fine azz
Sprinkle sprinkle! ✨⚡️the dusties and EX gold digger are hurt and jealous 🤣🤣🤣
Omg the ex gold digger who just got a ring after 8 years on her high horse about "love and security"
The ex gold diggers and prostitute were trying to act like they were any better 🥴 especially the prostitute when she was like “that’s why your men come and see me.” Like okay? Some of them clearly said they didn’t want to sleep with them and wanted materialistic things in exchange for their company but she’s better for being willing to sell her body for an hourly rate? Weird flex but ok 😂
I as a disabled woman held my own HOUSEhold down, paid off two cars, had the same job for 15 years, raised a son, & now I’m graduating with my bachelors in a week. I NEVER depending on any one. I got it on my own! However, I met my life partner who doesn’t mind paying the bills but I don’t love them for that cuz I can get it on my own!
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@@EvaElyse😂😂
No one cares
Congratulations 👏🎉 you go gal
Speak for yourself.@@Sim-sim-mah
Everyone isn't looking for love. Last I checked, love alone has never paid a bill. Everyone is different. While this isn't my lifestyle choice, I refuse to judge these women, similarly, I don't judge men who only use women for sex alone. Let people live their lives.
This‼️
Love has paid plenty bills. Love for family built kingdoms... But I won't judge people for anything others consent to.
@@LurnWell We can agree to disagree. If there is no currency, bills are not paid. I'm not talking about this in a poetic, whimsical form. I'm talking tangible dividends. As beautiful as that sounds, "love" is not a deposit. Maybe a motivation for someone to get shit done... possibly. But a tangible object that actually functions logically in society, absolutely not. That feels extremely juvenile, as the last time I thought like that, I was one. As an older, married woman now, our "love" plays zero factors when we're sitting down at this table paying bills every month.
You ain't never lied 😂
Factssss
Ricki Lake Show was everything back in the 90’s!! 💯
Surely was!!! After-school specials!!!
💯
I'm engaged and I've been with this man for 8 yrs. 😂😂😂
Right, sick asl
Mess!
Ikr 😂😂😂
Her man was waiting 8 years because he was holding out in case a better woman came along 😂 Her degrees and pant suits weren’t turning him on. Most men know after 2 years.
@@purplekisses171Men know after the first 3 DATES. 6 months TOPS.
I support it! The time, effort, and emotional labour I have sacrificed to men in exchange for pain and heartache makes me wish I had dated for money instead.
Or just heal and don’t put your trauma onto another men cause it’s not fair and what happened if the men u end up meeting was good to and show u love and respect and loyalty 🤦🏿💯
Me too
To be honest there’s only one gold digger out of the 5 they think were.
I like how the Philly girl didn’t let them try to punk her.
It was a lot of assumptions here, but I can agree that this can’t be a longevity type of career.
Ma’am in the brown suit was getting played hard because to be not married in those 8 years being with that man is insane.
Man I miss the 90s and early 00s. Talk shows had honest convos and an audience that can give their opinion with no backlash
Exactly
Yes!
💯
Now there’s Social media ! Without commercials !
not her calling people prostitutes then admitting to being a mistress for free
lmfaooo right
😂😂😂😂🤦🏾
That part!!!!
How condescending of that woman to be talking to that lady like that as if she wasn't once in that position.
I agree
I love Jennifer 😂😂 she was the realest one up there not trying to sugarcoat things
I’m off today and decided to go back to the 90s for the day and watch all of the shows I used to watch during my teen years. . Ending the day with Ricki Lake. Nice little escape and I feel good 😊….. now back to 2023
Boy! Pickmeisha was going hard core
😂😂😂I'm done The Name tho
😂😂 times have really changed because what..
Sprinkle sprinkle 😂
If Shera Seven was there she would destroy the audience.
I swear 😂😂😂 like SHUT UP
The “gold diggers” were smart women. The black lady with the brown top and black skirt was going in. Meanwhile, she was bragging on her man that she genuinely “loves” and she was ENGAGED for EIGHT years!!!!! Girl what lol.
I bet u any 💲😏they didn't get married. Who stays a fiance for 8 years, she needs to ask them ladies what's tea, cuz they have everything she is hoping for in her soon to be hubby ,😅in the future lol whenever, lol neva lol.
I think she was saying she was with him in general for eight years
@@crishnaholmes7730 and thats still too dam long
@@charliebharlie1621 mhm
Right LATania was a straight hater before the gram😂😂
There are wealthy men who want company and will help you financially without s3x... It's not just based off looks but because you're offering them an experience aka personality, meeting an emotional/social/psychological need, fantasy, eye candy, companionship with complication, etc... Most women have the look but lack substance, so they have to compensate with s3x
And the big chick with the leopard print on was going off on the white lady because she was mad cuz she slept with everybody, she was offended the white lady knew how to get money without sleeping with the guy. 🤣🤣🤣 She was snapping on her so hard just because she said she didn't have to sleep with men to get them to give her money. I was a stripper for many years, and the truth is, some men, you don't have to. I don't care if he bought her a car. That don't mean she slept with him to get it.
I had one friend and men used to take her to movie, dinner and in a walk plus drive her home and give her some money to share with me
Truth be told all the girls in the audience wanted to live like that regardless of their reaction 😂👍
7:17 “he can make you happy but happiness cannot pay for bills and what you want” PERIOD
Why was the two men coming at the black woman on the panel for wanting to have a man with money??? We are the only group of women shamed for wanting a man with a lot of money
Because they’re broke.
Love this. They should not be ashamed of wanting more.
@@8213apice HAHA literallyyy thats why there were so bitter trying so hard to throw shade and smiling so big acting like they did something LMFAO
@@sheniqueharris4879
A person who wants more when they already have more is insatiable at that point.
When is enough, enough?
There's people who have less and would love to have even a fraction of what they have!
I agree with the lady at 10:20; a woman should have OWN money and not be a dependent to man for his.
Edit:
Don't get me wrong, love doesn't pay the bills! It never has and it never will! Love alone ain't enough! It's one thing to be in/want to be in a relationship where you're partner is financially secure because who the hell wants to be with someone who doesn't have money? A person who can't even pay for the first several dates? A person who can't pay the bills? That's understandable.
Its another when you're in said relationship for money ALONE and nothing else!
If I had to choose between two guys, one with decent look and money vs. one with decent looks and no money, I'm going with the guy who has money. I never said he had to be rich. He does however, need to be financially secure! And women need to ALWAYS have their own that their partner knows NOTHING about JUST IN CASE she needs to leave! That way she won't be left broke and destitute! Money = freedom and safety!
@@marissa._ The women is hustling... last I checked thats what independence is. But, those women are just doing what they want at the moment.
I never dated broke and I didn't marry broke either.nothing wrong with what these "gold diggers" are saying.
It's best to be independent and make your own boss queen money. At the end of the day an independent woman also needs a independent man who can help her when her health fails and hard time comes by. A broke man can't give you or your child shit.
@Sunshine-jq9sw I never said to be dependent on anyone. I said I never dated broke.
@@grind-n-find214lol I don't blame you
So if they go broke like most business men do would you stay or no
😂🤡
There’s NOTHING wrong with not wanting a broke man. Broke men come with insecurities, they’re inadequate in every aspect except maybe sex, they are miserable because they can’t provide, they’re also resentful. Leave broke men alone if you want to keep your sanity. I also think men should leave women alone that are not self sufficient without them. A dependent liability for a woman is also a turn off.
So so so sooooooo true.
Facts.
You're speaking in a man's place as a woman, don't do that.
@@floridagirl386 Speaking in a man’s place? What does that even mean? Everything I said was true about broke men. It’s deeper than just a not having money.
@@Tiffany-un3hw sorry that was not meant to be here, I'm not sure why that happened.
This is a walk down memory lane!! I’m here for the fashion and 90s talk
I’ll say one thing. As a young women who is currently going back and forth with my significant other about bill splits, this type of ideology is what I should have subscribed to because why am I having to hear the man I was with for almost 10 years and someone who I have my first and only child by complaint about having to pay most of the bills when I’m already busting my behind trying to provide my half. NO! See if I had this type of attitude life would have been more of a breeze for me. AT THIS POINT I condone women like this because at least they’re not signing up for a life of struggle. I’ve always been the “down type” that never judged a man from his pockets, or expected a man to pay my way, but now I wish I did because it completely sucks for a man to get upset with you about him being a provider, something that the great maker created him to be.
I got a new s550 and weed.. wanna netflix and chill?
Preach
Well, he needs to be your ex significant other.
@@bsharp1533 girl tell me about it. Tell me why he told me the other day that I’m nothing and ain’t never had nothing and will never be anything without him 🥴 what a douche!
Girl never ever get into a 50/50 relationship with a man. If a man can't fully provide for himself you have no business being with him
Ain’t no way I’d be engaged to a man for 8 years 😂
She thought she did something with that comment 😂
What makes u think shes been engaged for 8 yrs? Shes been with him for 8yrs but how much of that time is she engaged. 1month? 6 months? A year?
@@angelcharms7297even then, it took him 8 years to propose?! 😩😭
😂 right
Lol I was thinking the same thing
Sprinkle sprinkle baby 😂
haha exactlyy
As a 33 year old woman, we should absolutely go for the money. Love in 2023 will have you miserable & broke. I tried that love route & it doesn't work. I can't pay my mortgage on love. Gimme the 🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑
I was just telling my 18 year old beautiful coworker the other day, “sorry but if he’s not spending he’s not worth your time”. She gotta learn how to use her beauty for personal gain because at the end of the day these lil boys aint serious and they’re gonna use you for time/attention/ cause they are bored or lonely or whatever they can use you for.
Many men are lonely and looking for a nurse or purse!
Lesson learned! Get these men money that’s it!! I completely agree with these ladies
I know a woman who was/is a gold digger,very materialistic thought men o her the world. Now years later she ended up with herpes 😂😂 I found out from her which in fact we dated off n on n that's why her life is living hell but honestly she got her ways from her mom. I'll never date a woman that's all about self.
Yup
@@MichaelDonaldson-w2kjust say you’re broke 😂
Even if I were a billionaire,I wouldn't waste my time on women like these.
@@MichaelDonaldson-w2kplenty of people have herpes and don’t even know it 🧐🤔
Sprinkle sprinkle💅🏽🤩🥰 All the men mad because they were broke 😂😂
Sprinkle Sprinkle princess💎✨🌹! Lord forgive them for they know not what they do! Shera is the truth✨!
#shera even changes lives
It’s the men’s facial expressions for me 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's giving broke and stingy 😂😂😂😂
@@elle_9136 truee if im in that show i will slap their face a hundred times.
You notice that tooo 😅
The guy that asked about her hourly rate 😂
Im 30, just discovering Ricki Lake on TH-cam. Watching these in 2024 is wild, this episode was filmed the same year I was born! So wild to see how opinions have changed so much in 30 years yet are still relatively the same.
“Gold Digger In Training” 😂😂😂😂
Deborah in the leopard print (9:20) went on to write the cheetah girls books that turned into the Disney channel movies.
Did she really?
Yep! Deborah Gregory
And she’s wearing cheetah print! Can’t make this up lol
Omg I'm going to look that up. Ok I just looked it up! I'm happy for her
I feel really stupid cuz I thought Deborah was a guy
Pickme culture was on 100 in the 90s.
Yes! The fat black lady with the short hair cut was trying it! Then what about the black guy in the audience who said you should follow your man to the end of the earth if you love him LOL
You learned something on Internet sdfu
I would never date a man with no money.
I don't know anybody that would.
Right, they’re insecure and blame you for everything
I would never date a hoe 😂
@@browngirl603you calling us men insecure yet you’re the one relying on our money to go get your fake eye lashes put it, fake nails, fake drawn out eyebrows (because yours are non existent), fake weaves, and caked on make-up to cover up your ugly face. If it wasn’t for a man, y’all women wouldn’t have the jobs you have today nor will you be driving the cars you drive! #realitycheckfordatass
Enjoy last place with the rest of the city girls and collect food stamps.
Omg would love to catch up with these woman 30yrs later!
I love how the older woman defending them I love that for these girls ❤❤🥰🥰
i like how the one women started talking about her fiancée and made it a point to mention how successful he was first. nobody is going to be that proud about dating a broke dude and i bet she wouldn’t be able to answer if she was asked if she would
And She said she was engaged after 8 years...not a flex 😂😂😂
@@Blissedxhell yeah 😢😂
Ricki Lake was the best show back in the 90’s growing, this was my mothers favorite program to watch every afternoon!!!!😂😂😂
Aint nothing wrong with their decisions. Not everybody wants a man as a companion. Not all men want love. Many men want convenience. The audience is shaming these women but theres no reason to.
That man could have lied he all that to get with intelligent woman, she dont need nothing than booty call
Right?! If the agreement is mutual, why not?
I miss the 90s 😢
I knew it was #4 he was so calm & quirky then he said Joe Boxers that glows 😂 humble guy
All the women on stage preaching independence, getting a job, falling in love, etc. are “Pick Me’s”😜
@@Shaa-Belle Okaaay! A Quintessential mamy!😂😂😂
Notice it’s mostly the older women who are now all of a sudden against the goldigging lifestyle. Their time is over and they’ve aged so OF COURSE they don’t like gold diggers. Their husbands are cheating on them with these type of women and it is them pressed pressed PRESSED😂
@prettykitty5416 so that will also be all of yous in a few years so
Exactly!
I don’t care. I agree with them. I have a father who does any and everything for me and I expect a man to do the same. Not that I can’t do for myself but I’m not messing with no broke ninja.
Period !!!!!!
Money don't make you no man
@@thegreatandsigmaticgiants8307not being a provider makes you a fairy
@@sb416 💯😂😂😂
Good.
Chileeeee and to think I was a kid watching this show. Ooo the memories
Wow, people in the 90s really had a problem with women who had respect for themselves and had standards on the type of people they wanted to spend their time with and/or have a physical relationship with. 😔In my opinion, I think that Golddigger is a word used to shame women from having self-respect and standards for themselves, and to shame them from choosing their dating partners based on who can provide a good future for them. of course a healthy relationship is based on a lot of factors, but a good way to tell if you have a decent man on your hands is if he can hold down a good job, or is educated, has career options etc. Wouldn’t you want your daughter to do the same? Like helloooo common sense here people!! 🙄😂
(also I was born in 91 so I can see why I struggled growing up with a very pick me type of mentality. So sad)
I like the way you think.
Yeah but there's a difference having everything you want and having what you need. Some ppl are so spoiled rotten it's disgusting. Glad I was raised to be humble and simple
None of them was married to the men that they were dating though. Even if they're not whores, they appear to be to most people. Even today people see things that way, been like that since the beginning of time.
@@mgtowchristianmonk9743 define “whore”
the Black woman with the bangs is absolutely stunning 🌟
OMG, Ricki Lake is the perfect Host! Great follow up questions! Miss her show during this era.
they actually took her show off in order to make room for That Hideous manly looking Wendy Williams show which is HORRIBLE. I'll never forget that😢😢😢
Ricky ended in 2004 Wendy started on 200&.. 4 year gap???
2008?
@@Mariamaria-bb9mn Wendy Williams started her TV show in 2008.
She's the best of all time
Thank you for full episodes of ricki! ❤
You got it! More are coming
Especially, The Ones With The Bad Kids On There As Well.
I need a "WHERE ARE THEY NOW" 😅
Me too 😂😂😂
They are all wealthy now
@damongipson-dg8pc how do you know?
Cuzz they all came in to money
@@damongipson-dg8pc 😂😂😂 uhok
Love these old shows from the 90s
Oh wow, The Ricki Lake Talk show brings me back to my elementary school memories, that's nostalgic when I was a kid watching TV ❤
The black girl winning she living in a condo😂😂they know dang well they giving up 😼😼to get what they want i can't stand the lies...Me and my mother would watch this show back in the days #RIPPearlie❤️💯
Right that black lady bragging about f’ing a broke man just because she has some feelings.
Trust me you don't have to have sex with Alot of them they really just want to trick on somebody excess money with nothing to do with it they'll give up some money for companionship every now and then
I'd LOVE to see what the condo girl is up to today and what she looks like today😮
@@Sunshinestarryroselol
Yep cause she know she was
Daaaaaannnnnngggg, I remember being like 6 watching Ricki Lake 🤣🤣🤣🤣. I had no business!!!
The woman in brown is Determined to have these women be who she wants them to be in her head. No, lady, they don't have to fit your idea! Yes, wealthy men find them desirable just for their company! Sorry if you've never experienced that because your personality sucks lol. Rich men want a companion too, and these ladies are it. and the men have excess money where they can help people/women they like. I don't know why she insists that a man can only have good character if he is poor. Why does she feel the need to exaggerate on the goodness of poor men? Poor men can cheat too and do everything rich men do except vacation.
Bring back shows like Ricki Lake!!!!!
So I’m subscribing to Talk Show Rewind. This was so nostalgic!
Me too
15:21 Who gets engaged for 8years?? That's insane. How much you want to bet he didn't marry her.
I bet he didn't 😂
@@lanahusain9367 😂😂
I don’t think it’s being a gold digger, that’s just their standards
In todays generation it’s call standards but back then it’s was GR 😅😅😅😅! I used to watch this show straight after school 🏫 and I would have cringe 😬 watching this BUT NOW I respect ✊🏿 and understand these women hustle , I still won’t do it but I won’t judge them.
To a degree typically
These are the parents and grandparents to todays City girls
Smartest woman in the comments.. it’s just has gotten worse because that mentality wasn’t combatted and just past down from generations. Society will go downhill from here
“De-nile” is a river in Egypt. These are the women men truly WANT. They just too broke to admit it.
Knew this channel yesterday and I have already watched over 20 videos, the videos give me 90s vibes and are just great.
All those Dusty's and pickme in this show 😂😂😂
90s memories- looking at this episode I just want to sing MARTIN or Living Single theme song and maybe even NY Undercover lol
The black lady with the brown blazer is a mammy. She has no standards and she assumes that they don’t work or go to school.
Right she played into the overly strong black woman trope
😂😂 right her mannerisms are manly of course ain't nobody checking for you on that level 😂
And the other ladies are better. Gtfoh
My question the whole time if it wasn't so important why did you wait 8 YEARS to get ENGAGED 😂
To the people complaining, how come we can accept that a conventionally attractive person saying they are not attracted to someone not conventionally attractive & shrug it off and say hey it’s not who they are attracted to & go on with our lives 🤷🏾♀️??
What is conventionally attractive?
RICKI LAKE TALK SHOW: 90’s:
Ricki Lake has the grooviest theme show opening 🎵 🎼 🎶 love the drums and that funky bass guitar!
These outfits and hair...I am here for ittt!!!! We had no business watching this as kids...ou my Gawd!
I feel like the big chick in the brown is just there to bash the gold diggers but really she is no different from them she also has a man that can do anything for her and diffently provides for her as well she just thinks she different because she has a degree lol 😂😂😂😂
Big ass pick me