Was It A Mistake - Q&A with Baddaddy
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 พ.ย. 2023
- Was it a mistake for baddaddy to let us move in? Is it a burden? Does he have regrets? In this video, I ask him these questions and more to satisfy the curiosity of followers. In case you were wondering, baddaddy and I were married for 18 years, and we have been divorced for 16 years.
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The money arrangements between Val & Campbell is none of the community's business.
I think personally, it’s pretty obvious in the videos he is in that baddaddy loves having the family there. His interactions with Jessica and all show it. It’s awesome how you all work as a family and handle situations. Love this style of q&a.
Thank you!!
I think people in general find it hard to believe that divorced people can be friends. Being divorced doesn't mean that those people are not still your family. I have a very similar relationship with my ex. I don't live with him, but we do go on family vacations together, attend all of our grands sports events together, and do all holidays together. Hard concept for some people to grasp, but it works for us too!
I also gave a great relationship with my ex husband , even thou the kids are now 17,20 and 29
Your friendship shows a mutual respect for one another, a great sense of humor, and mostly, the love you both have for family.
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Bad Daddy hit the nail on the head about living alone for years, but missing having other people around! While I appreciate my alone time as an adult, it would be nice to have my family humans around for the companionship, and for help, when I need some motivation to get projects done! Kudos to y'all for having such a great relationship!!
They are his family. Of course bad daddy would help. They are a good family.
How sad that snarky people don't have something better to do with their lives. It's beautiful to see the blossoming relationships, and actually Jessica 's blossoming relationship with her dad! Redefining relationships is always ongoing for EVERYONE as we all grow and change. Think about the changing relationships we all have with our children as they grow up and we as parents age! Snarky people are energy zappers!
What I see is a loving family coming together for the betterment of everyone. If all lifts, the load gets lighter. I’m sure Bad Daddy appreciates HIS FAMILY being home with him. My husband and I are empty nesters and it gets so lonely to me. I’m glad y’all have each other. 💕
I can tell you ALL love each other.
I have seen the twinkle in Baddaddys eyes when y'all moved in! I think this was what he needed. Absolutely love you all! The love you all share towards one another is what family is about. You all 4 are truly blessed
I can't even believe the nerve some people have to actually post these comments. I am impressed that you can address this in good spirits even though you don't owe anyone these answers.
On a side note...I have never noticed until now how much Hannah looks like her daddy. Especially when she smiles. ❤
Agree
Yes she does resemble him more, and in their mannerisms! Very cute!
So true, the grace and patience with which they respond to such questions or comments.
Your family is one that all divorced families should strive for. What a healthy, loving family unit. I have divorced parents who get along wonderfully and what a difference that makes for the entire family structure! We enjoy life moments with both of them without any stress. This is lovely to see. I'm shocked that so many people have such nasty personalities to post such terrible things.
You three are surrounded by the best kind of gentleman, Bad Daddy, Grand Dad and Nathan are the best!
This was so sweet. We all need a bad daddy in our lives! 🫶🏻
As others have said, it’s really nobody’s business but yours. I do admire how you’ve all come together to make your living situation work so well and create a very positive, healthy environment in which Jessica is flourishing. As all 3 of you have caregiver roles I can imagine that each of you appreciates the support network within the household. I wish you well as you navigate your daily life together and share in the joy of the poodles and the kitchen shenanigans (your meals look super tasty!). You are an awesome family!
Being a family has many faces. I think it’s wonderful that yall are together as a family. Go Baddaddy !
Jessica and Hanna are Cambel’s Children?! Why on earth would they be an imposition?
That is exactly what I’m thinking
Good question ! Is he the father to others?
This was brilliant, such a beautiful family, if more divorced couples could behave in such a mature and grown-up way, the world would be a much better place. I feel it is very sad to think that some people are of a mindset that somehow Val needs to earn her keep, I just don't understand some people, but warmest thank you to you both so much for sharing and taking the time to do this Q&A.
I’ve seen a lot ableism in your comments over the years and since you’ve moved back in with Campbell the sexist comments started. You’ve told us many times that you worked as an RN for most of Jessica’s life. Campbell was not the sole provider for your family. The fact that people doubt Campbell’s sincerity and that they think he is soooo virtuous for being a good parent while you are seen as a burden…gosh people have a really low view of women.
It’s really sad that these ideas persist that people are not inherently valuable, that love cannot be shared freely, that platonic partnership isn’t real, that we have to earn our place and earn our keep. For heavens sake, you’re just a family being a family. There doesn’t need to be any score keeping, nobody needs to earn their keep
Thank you for sharing your views on this. Those mindsets really are sad, especially considering most of those comments come from women. 🤷🏼♀️
So true!
Hello Suajjf, so brilliantly said and on point. This is exactly what I was thinking too. I'm a very new subscriber and this channel has helped me beyond words, and I just love what you said so much, warmest thank you!
You do what works for you and your family! Everyone has to do what works for them and what meets their need. People are always going to find something to complain about no matter what you do. 😢 you guys keep doing what you’re doing and ignore those who feel you deserve to give them an explanation! ❤
I think its a beautiful thing that you all get along and live together!! ❤❤
The living situation is a win -win for everyone. Such a great family.
You all belong together!!!!❤❤❤
I love how well you all get along with each other...Jessica is truly blessed to have you all together in one house...Keep up the good work guys...Have a Blessed day...😊🙂🫂🫶😊🙂
I truly believe y’all are a special family that knows how too enjoy each other. It’s also sad you have to feel to answer to those questions that are not anyone’s business. You have such class, bless your family and keep up the great work sharing videos ❤
This was a wonderful video to watch/listen to.
Not only are you, each, devoted parents to ALL your children, you, each, have developed an encouraging, trusting and loving relationship with your beautiful daughter, Jessica. It warms my heart to see how your family has ‘reblended’ into a ‘one home family’. Whether married or not, your family functions, loves, and respects more than many, many married couples, or even divorced families.
What you share has so many incredible ‘layers’ . . .
-Raising/living with an adult child with disabilities.
-The family dynamics of a family with a member who had disabilities.
-The day to day life of a wonderful family. Good days, in between days and low days.
Your family always makes my day, when you share a post/video.
Thank you, for sharing your Life with us. ❤️🙏🏻☺️
I think this is one of my fave videos of all time ❤️
Oh wow I would be so happy to have all my family together specially now my hubby and I are retired people need not judge others it’s realty great to watch y’all enjoy your family I love watching Jess grow because of y’all and even Marlo ❤
You’re family situation is beyond unique..it is amazing how it works for all of you! People are going to be curious..you put your life out there for the world to see. Questions are naturally going to be asked…that is only human nature! Thank you for addressing some of those questions.
I love that your family can still come together and be together for everyone. Enjoy your videos so much.
I can’t believe the comments you put up with, Val! Some of these things are no one’s business! But you handle it all with such Grace & humor.
I love the enteraction with Bad Daddy and you all. So glad that he is in the videos more often now. Love it
You guys are cute together and very successful raising such precious people! 🎉❤
so nice the relationship the two of you have 💞 sorry to hear that some people like to suggest things are " not as they may seem " sometimes I feel alot of it may be jealousy on their part who knows ? you certainly are such a joy to watch as you go about your daily life and I for one appreciate all of you 💕
The fact that Val and Campbell are such good friends even though the marriage dissolved is absolutely beautiful ! The family dynamic is just lovely ❤
It made me smile and laugh along to see the two of you laughing at some of the assumptions. :)
I can understand people being curious about your living situation as it is somewhat unique but it's unfortunate that some jump to negative conclusions when they don't understand things rather than just asking. You've always struck me as being very open to explaining and answering questions in general, it seems to me like people should sense that and ask questions instead of assuming. Especially odd that some seem to assume the girls are burdensome to him or essentially invading his space when they are his daughters. He does come off as very kind and accommodating but not weak or spineless...and none of you ladies come off as overbearing to me at all so I don't see how people read it as you forcing anything on him. Odd how people can have such different takeaways from watching the same content.
My favorite part, the laughter. Such a good hearted family and sense of humor.
I don’t understand why people would have opinion with this situation. Regardless of you and Campbell’s relationship, you are family. Why wouldn’t Campbell want to be a part of his daughters lives! I think the situation is fantastic for everyone! You guys are really lucky to have this relationship, and Jessica and Hannah are super lucky to have you and Campbell as their parents! Love all around!
Don't listen to the judgemental folks they have to be jealous of something. If they aren't jealous they certainly act that way.
Val, Hannah, Jess, Marlow, and Cambell included too...I find you all delightful and so honest and real too. I could easily hang out with you guys and not get tired of ya. Love you all to the moon and back.
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I think it’s sweet and great that yall can be together and help each other..
A mom & a dad making it work living together yet divorced. It isn’t weird to me. We did it in our family. I don’t understand why or how people seem so bothered by it! It’s called co-parenting. ♥️ You guys do you. ♥️
You are awesome Baddaddy. 💜
Thank you!
Val I love that laptop stand, I've never seen anything like it. Then I noticed your haircut, wow!! Very fresh and bouncy.
I personally feel that anyone who was a fan of your family's before you moved could easily see why this arrangement is completely healthy and good for your family. Campbell always came over to your house almost daily to help and hang out. Jess still needed sleepovers at dad's house. It just makes sense.
It’s not just being alone in a big house versus now having two dogs and three humans, but having four people who feel safe and trusted and confident together, camaraderie and familiarity and shared memories and even shared blood. When people are in a home together, no matter the relations, there needs to be trust, respect, kindness. Y’all have all that in spades. ♠️♠️♠️♠️♥️
I think you guys are great. You are all so supportive and accepting of each other, which is so cool. That's something a lot of people struggle to find. I think that coupled with that you guys are a little unconventional, makes it a little difficult for people to believe you are all really happy and content with how things are. Sometimes people can't see past their own lived experience.
I love your family, and this is a good video to straighten out what a few people might think. Good job. BTW, is that a massage tool that is between the bookcase and the wall? It looks like what I have, and I just love how it can reach behind the shoulders, etc. for those hard to reach aches and pains.
Yes it is! 😃It works wonders when my back is sore.
This video was the best! I loved your true/false, multiple choice format. It made me laugh and smile. Thanks for sharing.
I think it is wonderful how well the family dynamic works between all of you. It's a unique situation, and you all make it work so seamlessly. That shows how much love and respect you all have for one another, and we are blessed to be invited into your lives. Have an AMAZING week! ❤❤❤❤
I absolutely love that yall spend time together as a family. My parents did this for us after they got divorced and we still to this day have Holiday meals and Birthday meals all together as a family with our kids and grandkids! My parents are in the late 70's now. Of course people always said it's so weird that your parents get together for Holidays and things. It was the norm for us though. It just makes things easier for the kids I truly think! Keep doing what yall are doing and what makes yall happy. People in general will never understand!!
It’s such a win for children and extended family alike. Hopefully it’ll become easier to understand over time.
Thanks for the video, I understand why you made it, but in this way you also do give the negative people (the real negative ones I mean) attention that they don't deserve.
Most people like you as a family, well, I do! Hugs from the Netherlands!
This was such a Great video!!! Lol I’m home with Covid trying to figure out Xmas lights and I was excited & laughing just with preview of this video!! You guys share so much and don’t have too! But it was funny and so enjoyable to see you guys ask n answer these questions!! Way to go Family!!!❤️
I hope you recover soon!
In my opinion...like it really matters...LOL...I think your living situation is awesome! I am certain that you girls didn't just bulldoze your way into Bad Daddy's home and take over. Just how many people can move into their EX'S home, get along, make decisions together, and live a joyful/peaceful life? I say keep doing what you're doing because it's working! Peace, Love & Happiness
In my opinion, I think it has been a lot less stressful for the girls and mom since moving in with dad. And I can see the improvements Jess has made in her skills in being independent. You guys are an amazing family!
I can not believe any of those questions/statements were thought about enough for them to be put in the Comments Section 😮.. PEOPLE you have to realize this is his FIRST Priority - HIS FAMILY!! Like Me or Hate Me but something's are Not the Publics Business, they share their family as a courtesy to US
Well said
Wow!!! Talk about putting him on the spot!! Wow
Man you guys are just desperate to find something to dislike 🤦🏼♀️
It's wonderful that y'all can live together and share your time with Jess
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It’s not like he let a bunch of strangers move in! You are all family! You are all a blessing, and a testimony, to what Family really means! Haters are gonna hate ❤️
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People are so rude to even assume these things. Y’all make a great team and it’s nobody’s business! Love y’all!
People are forgetting that Jess and Hannah are Campbell’s kids! Of course a father wants to be around his children as much as possible even after they are grown! It’s hard out there now and many families are living together or generational living together because it is more cost effective. I don’t think it’s weird or odd or anything. I don’t even think you both had to make this video because as Jess would say this is “Nun-Ya” as in None of our Business! ❤
Right! The way we see it is that it all makes sense just like it is.
Great summary Bad Daddy!! Family is a joy and the company and companionship is priceless! 🤗😊❤
Love this so much❤❤
How can some people be so blatantly rude!! You are such good parents to jess... and your personal life is your own!
I watch from Britain 🇬🇧 ( have done for quite a few years!) ... I can't wait for Christmas recipes and cocktails!!
Carry on the good work! Much love 😊😊😊❤
That was a good Q&A. Not that I would ever comment on issues I feel are of a personal nature. Thank you, nonetheless, for taking the time to address the "curiosity" of some of your followers. "Bad Daddy", so glad you are part of the videos, it's always fun to see and hear you. Love this family's dynamic. It's beautiful to see how you all help one another and the family bond. I can't wait to see the projects in the home. Lastly I enjoy seeing you all interact with each other the love, respect, and family unity. 🩷🩷🩷🩷
Thank you ❤️
What in the world is more important than family?!? Sometimes people forget what love and family are! What better of a gift does God give us? Our special children and the different life perspective that gives us, is priceless and a gift from God!❤
This is really interesting. Thanks for sharing!
Baddaddy is a great guy! He obviously loves them being there. The situation works great for all. I have seen a change in Jess, since being there, she is happier. Jess seems to feel more secure, she loves her new room. I hope ya'll never move, it works for all of you. Val and Baddaddy want what's best for Jess, and as long as she is happy, it works!❤
I’ve been absent for a bit. Oh how I enjoyed this video. Frankly it’s no one’s business what y’all do. I understand there’s people that must insist they poke their noses at what y’all are accomplishing since being in a public forum but I’m happy with knowing just what you guys want us to know. I’d love to have you as neighbors and friends any day. Thank you for sharing ♥️
Thank you!
I’ve asked before in a joking sense ( hopefully it came across that way ) To me it just feels like these are extra special times to spend with his daughters. I just jokingly say wow the ladies are taking over, like him being the only male. I think it’s great that Val and bad daddy are able to co exist in a friendly matter. I’m glad it’s working out. 💜
Yall did great, appreciate what yall do..
I’d give anything if I had the same situation with my ex. Congratulations on successfully navigating life that so many folks don’t do as well. 👍👍👍👍👍👍
This was very informative and helpful. Thanks
I think the way you All work together as a family is Amazing ❤️we do kind of the same thing at our house with my daughter And her son, which leads to many people wonder. Why does she live with us when actually she is such a help and we all lived together, not her living with us we all live together. I think it's silly that you have to explain it But I truly understand because we do too have to explani lol I just know I enjoy watching you all together and think what amazing job you all do and we love you all and love watching you.
Living together vs living with. I like that.
Divorced or not you all are still family. I love to see the love of family it's very rare these days.
I wish my parents were like you two! Your kids are lucky 🍀! You set a great example for all!! ❤ Thank you, for sharing your lives.
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Y’all are killing me ! I have laughed so hard at you all
I think you are amazing family wish I Still had my family
I lost my husband after 40 years of marriage October of 2022. He was only 68 and passed from brain cancer. All I want to say about this video is, and people may say it's none of my business but I think you two are cute together and I feel some chemistry😉
I’m sorry for your loss. My mom passed at the age of 67 in 2014. My parents were married almost 47 1/2 years ago when my mom unexpectedly passed. My dad just passed August 2022 after fighting Parkinson’s dementia for 5 or so years
Oh Lord! This was HILARIOUS!!! I don’t know how you all do it with these insane comments!!!! Thank you for this genius content! It was great! PS. I’m still hoping you and Campbell get back together and go live on TH-cam with the wedding video!!! 😂😉 JK or maybe not… I love you all! 💒❤
Idk how people could say this stuff u all f family married or not y’all have a family together ❤
You guys are so nice people are crazy I can’t believe peoples automatic judgment ur an amazing loving family ❤❤
What a humble and beautifully kind man bad daddy is ❤ I love the way you all enrich eachothers life in so many different ways, I will never cease to be stunned by the rudeness of people that feel that because open your heart and lives to us that it give them the right to be so dam rude and intrusive into your living arrangements, these people make me ashamed to be a fellow human and I apologise on behalf of the "handful of ballsacks" that feel the need to interfer with your private affairs... I love watching you all, I love the way you love eachother but most of all I love the way you go that extra mile to ensure Jess is always put first and looked after in the best possible way. Please know you all lift me and make my day complete ❤❤❤xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️
For one Val, your hair looks amazing! Very pretty haircut/style. Second, everybody loves BD!! I think a lot of the questions come from seeing a very loving, supportive, functional family and the curiosity (although none of our business) of why the marriage ended and is not renewed. We've all seen marriages far less than your current state of whatever you are. People are always rooting for love and when they see two people so compatible it's hard to wrap around why it's working "this" way instead of our own little "ship" vibes. Everybody always wants mom and dad back together and happy again, so yeah, it's like that. We're like come on already Ross and Rachel!! I think that's most of it, some don't articulate it in a nice way bc the medium of anonymous posting lends itself to saying things in a way you wouldn't in person. And rarer still, there's the unfriendlies. I personally enjoy your family and your real life on goings and the way you work around and with some of the specific challenges you face. Thanks for sharing and God bless!
Thank you! 💕
Do folks really ask these questions? It’s insane to me.
I feel that Val & Campbell have a nice relationship that doesn’t need to be defined by anyone but them. All divorced couples should be this friendly. Campbell loves his family as much as Val does.
I think the whole situation is sweet and life teaching.
So, thanks for teaching us! ❤️❤️
Yes read their comments it's absolutely insane how people are. They are quit forgiving.
Val, when you move I hope it will be near bad-daddy. I’m afraid that will be a sad day for him. Better yet, sell bad daddy’s home too and and continue sharing a home. It seems financially beneficial for both of you.
PS, I freakin LOVE this video! 🎉👏🏼
I am team Val and bad daddy all day long and hope you all co exist for as long as possible.
No matter what you are family and friends for ever. ❤
Hello from west Virginia I'm divorced and I'm civil I wouldn't say we're friends but to this day if I see my ex mother in law I'll give her a hug and tell her I love her and still call her mom . Listen we only know your life as much as you choose to share with us, but from outside looking in all yall look healthy and happy 😊 my opinion if it's worth anything is keep the videos coming cause I enjoy them all no matter what the content is luv yall ♥
Beautiful family ❤❤❤❤
Can I just say as a parent of an almost adult (18 in a few days) asd son, I find it odd ppl would ask if Jess dad tolerates her in his home. As if a parent of any kind at any age tolerates their child or as if it’s not home to Jess as well. My children all of them always have a place with me in my home if they want or need and I love them and enjoy every moment I have with them. Tolerating them is never on my mind.
Exactly!
Great video !!! Thank you for sharing
Thanks for watching!
Thanks for this. I love all of you!
Thank you too!
Live this family. I’ve watched your videos forever. I think most questions come from people who don’t understand that just because you’re no longer married to each other that you can’t remain a family. I have great admiration for both of you !!💜💜
Sorry for the dang typos!!
Not true honestly some people are simply clueless. They will see this and still not get it.
Love the new haircut Val!!
I think this was a great video not that you need to answer anybody but for me I like the idea that you both are seperate but get along so good
Campbell is truly a good man. It is obvious he loves his family very much, including Val.
Some people just lack maturity and consideration when co-existing with others 🙄 I think it’s beautiful how you do it so well.
Love this❤
❤ God Bless Baddaddy ❤
Family forever❤️
Loved this video. Thanks for sharing. 👍🥰👏👏👏👏👏💙💖💖💖💙
Thank you too
I just like ta see bad daddy smile..cause all kind of handsome happens. 😊
What you all have as a family is beautiful!
Your commitment to give Jess the best life possible is a testament to your love for one another. Thank you for allowing us the privilege of being a part of your family! I think the world of you both. ❤
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