Cole's Biggest Surgery In Years

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  • @allisont3159
    @allisont3159 2 ปีที่แล้ว +532

    I just realized that not only is Cole's donut eating method rather inventive, but he NEVER HAS TO HAVE STICKY FINGERS!!
    Genius.

    • @coleandcharisma
      @coleandcharisma  2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      True! Haha

    • @blumberg1982
      @blumberg1982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Stick hands though.

    • @AngieTheENTJ
      @AngieTheENTJ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤔🤔🤔🤔 I may have to eat my donuts like that. I dislike having sticky fingers...

    • @terryzachery4226
      @terryzachery4226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Given that they have so many challenges as a couple, it would be nice if they reference d their faith from time to time.

    • @kenzierocks1240
      @kenzierocks1240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@coleandcharisma my husband’s mom was quadriplegic from the time he was 8 months old. The first time I saw him eat a sandwich, I was confused🤣until he explained it to me. He grew up watching his mom hold her sandwiches, etc the same way Cole was holding his donut. Hey…whatever works, right?

  • @lifeadventureswithmamabev8459
    @lifeadventureswithmamabev8459 2 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    I really love Coles willingness to share. These educational nuggets helped people to understand the challenges of being in a wheelchair. God has truly blessed you with the most amazingly compassionate wife. Love that you cherish each other daily. All of your parents have done an amazing job raising such beautiful and thoughtful children! GOD BLESS!

  • @parisinthe30sx
    @parisinthe30sx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    Not everyone is lucky enough to find their soulmate, so so happy that you guys found each other. I hope you both continue to live Happy.

    • @ajl2232
      @ajl2232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      More like his caretaker.

    • @parisinthe30sx
      @parisinthe30sx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@ajl2232 you're probably in the group of "not everyone"and I can see why

    • @BellaJae
      @BellaJae 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙏🏼🙏🏼♥️♥️ amen

    • @jasminemiller7677
      @jasminemiller7677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hdh I can come to 👍

    • @Michelle32533
      @Michelle32533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@parisinthe30sx Great reply!
      😂😂😂

  • @judysanders5184
    @judysanders5184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    So glad you were able to take care of everything, Cole. Charisma, you are a God sent angel for Cole! You two are such a great team! God bless you both always!

  • @jeannettehood6
    @jeannettehood6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +387

    Praying for God's healing hand upon you and doctors for a successful surgery. Love you guys💕💕💕💕

    • @coleandcharisma
      @coleandcharisma  2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Thank you!

    • @shareemacrauser3584
      @shareemacrauser3584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Amen!

    • @kenya9540
      @kenya9540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Amen

    • @abbykuusisto4641
      @abbykuusisto4641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@coleandcharisma Is Cole Okay?

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      YES LORD IN JESUS NAME WE TOUCH N AGREE THAT COLE HEALS FROM THIS SURGERY SO THAT HE CAN DO ALL OF THE THINS THAT HE LOVES 💘🙌🏾🙏🏾❤👏🏾💙 TO DO WITH HIS FRIEND'S FAMILY N US (THE RWWC&C (ROLL WITH COLE N CHARISMA GANG) 1000,000% AMEN 🙏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾❤♥😊🙏🏾🙌🏾 WE LOVE U 💘💙❤💜👏🏾🙌🏾 COLE CHARISMA N SOPHIE GOD BLESS 🙌🏾💙❤💜💖💕🙌🏾 ALL THREE OF U

  • @bsturc
    @bsturc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +393

    me: googling autonomic dysreflexia to understand more about Cole and the way his body works. I'm disabled in a different way (cerebral palsy), but it is still super interesting to me to learn about how different parts of the body work together, or not work together, after a SCI. I appreciate how much y'all share! And tbh seeing Cole thrive w/ his disability helps me feel less alone in my experience, so thank you.

    • @twig265
      @twig265 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Having autonomic dysreflexia is absolutely horrible. There are times my body gets so hot my husband will put me in the bathtub and fill it with cold water. He does that in the summer. In the winter if my A-D acts up my husband will put the fan in the window and turn it on. Sometimes it will take hours for my body to cool down. I have to take pills to get my blood pressure down. I hate it.

    • @sallyduigan27
      @sallyduigan27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks

    • @elizabethhealing52
      @elizabethhealing52 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@twig265 so sorry to hear what you go through. Your husband sounds very supportive.

    • @kairichardson3171
      @kairichardson3171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@twig265 p

    • @itumelengbelindasehlangu8116
      @itumelengbelindasehlangu8116 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your so beautiful, it doesn't matter your situation that doesn't define you. When I see your picture I don't see your disability or your challenge as I would like to call it but I see your beauty. 😊🌹you will have your happily ever after too and be happy don't you worry

  • @daisymichele2666
    @daisymichele2666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am a new subscriber and student of human diversity as a counsellor and psychotherapist, and I believe your channel is yet another contributor to educating all of us when it comes to understanding the nature of disability and its many requirements, such as kindness, respect and inclusion to name a few, and reminding us that every-single- person is an individual, trying to do their best in this world. - Thank you Cole and Charisma for you vulnerability and sharing on your journey, and teaching us all the value of family, friends, love and patience. Michelle (Brisbane, QLD, Australia)

  • @BSOG3
    @BSOG3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I love your hair, Charisma! Praying for Cole to heal without complications. He's such a strong man, going through so much with his body and being so courageous. And I can't say enough about Charisma...a true wife to her husband. Keep taking the vitamins and stay with God, regardless of the challenges. God bless you both.

    • @sandraatkins2539
      @sandraatkins2539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Charisma your hair looks lovely dear. May you and Cole be blessed.

  • @Slena55
    @Slena55 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Cole you were blessed to have a amazing wife. Shes a wonderful woman. God blesd your health .

  • @helenwilliams2675
    @helenwilliams2675 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Cole b encouraged I that our heavenly father is with u and that he sends his heavenly angles to b with you while u go through surgery. U have a very loving, sweet, loyal wife ur so blessed also thank u Jesus for a good report on Cole.

  • @thatlovelydancerIlao
    @thatlovelydancerIlao 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I just love your kindness to each other. So loving and patient with each other. Cole was so kind to share his experience and info about the surgery and I know Cole, you were hungry. You have a wonderful wife and she has a wonderful husband. Praying for a quick and full recovery. Rest and rest some more now, gn.

  • @dewdan11dnd46
    @dewdan11dnd46 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    💞✨You’re a champ Cole. Here’s to an uneventful recovery. Charisma by your side, loving, caring, Mac and cheese and doughnut sharing, it can only be successful.
    The editing is on another level. 👍

  • @patsyruth7860
    @patsyruth7860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    New subbie coming with prayers! Met y'all in the beginning and, as a matter of fact, was led to pray even before I saw this video. You are covered, and God is with you! Love!

  • @globalconcern4995
    @globalconcern4995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +362

    Cole with the sad face at home and going into the van. Looked so cute and worried at the same time.

    • @thatlovelydancerIlao
      @thatlovelydancerIlao 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes, the cutest. He did good though

    • @ReginaTrans_
      @ReginaTrans_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I know

    • @jackimccall4483
      @jackimccall4483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My same thought
      I felt like a mama bear 🐻××
      Thanx

    • @valeriea9779
      @valeriea9779 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah he was making her feel bad for him getting the surgery when it's not her fault he's doing it, cuz yeah he was a little worried.

    • @sefudibotlhole5652
      @sefudibotlhole5652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      His sad face reminds me of a puppy

  • @skygerspacher6891
    @skygerspacher6891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    This guy has really gone through it.

    • @a1dev755
      @a1dev755 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      And he is still a strong guy

    • @skygerspacher6891
      @skygerspacher6891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@a1dev755 like superhero strong.

  • @ursulaabrahams4779
    @ursulaabrahams4779 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Cole u were right when u said you got the best woman in the world i admire her , God has His plans for you both , very lovely couple an very bless , get better soon my prayers & much love from New Jersey..❤️❤️🙏

  • @gahongayirelillian966
    @gahongayirelillian966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Charisma you a such a good girl! Caring, patient, loving, making it easy for Cole to manage the challenge

  • @maryjackson2946
    @maryjackson2946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'M GLAD THAT THE SURGERY WENT WELL. I PRAY FOR YOU TO HAVE A QUICK RECOVERY. YES, YOU CAN'T GO WRONG WITH MACARONI AND CHEESE TO MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER. CHARISMA, YOU ARE LOVING WIFE. Y'ALL GET SOME MUCH NEEDED REST. MAY GOD BLESSINGS,COURAGE AND STRENGTH CONTINUE TO BE WITH YOUR FAMILY ALWAYS 🙂💖🙏🙏🙏

  • @charityoner8024
    @charityoner8024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wishing you a quick recovery from Nairobi, Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @okosobi44
    @okosobi44 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Cole, I am glad the surgery went well.... wishing you a speedy recovery ❤️❤️ May God continue to bless you both🙏

  • @williammcdaniel595
    @williammcdaniel595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Praying you heal nicely Cole and Charisma y’all keep taking care of each other!❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @rubychew6535
    @rubychew6535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    You two are so committed to each other. The love is definitely there.

  • @bernedettekuteyi3843
    @bernedettekuteyi3843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Sending you Cole God's divine presence and healing after your operation,🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

  • @christiannataylor2735
    @christiannataylor2735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Sending hope and care his way. I hope everything goes awesome.

    • @coleandcharisma
      @coleandcharisma  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you! Healing has gone very well 🤗

    • @christiannataylor2735
      @christiannataylor2735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@coleandcharisma I'm so glad to hear that 💖 You're a very strong couple.

  • @stephlet2001
    @stephlet2001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I love you charisma and Cole. Glad it went well. Love how you guys spread awareness

    • @GDSaved
      @GDSaved 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God bless u both…this journey you are on at the moment is making you both stronger…the love 💕 you both share is so special and God is always there for both❣️❣️❣️☦️💟💕❤️🌼

  • @sonianembhard9349
    @sonianembhard9349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My favorite couple wishing you a speedy recovery I'm praying for you always viewing from Jamaica 🙏❤❤

  • @carolyncornelius1492
    @carolyncornelius1492 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    BRAVO!! .. Cole handled the surgery very well!! ... Thank God for Charisma. You are both always so supportive of each other. That's what love is all about... I sure wanted some of those donuts you know!! ,, God Bless You Both! ... CC

  • @empressonthethrone
    @empressonthethrone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You guys make such a great team. Always look forward to your content. Prayers for you both 🙏🏾.

  • @JD.727
    @JD.727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ooo, Free Guy! Good choice!
    I got busy and forgot how much I love your channel. I'm learning a lot from Cole's perspective as someone who's physically disabled and explains things really well which is very interesting, but honestly, I feel like I'm learning even more about what a healthy couple relationship looks like.
    I love the way you encourage, communicate and work with each other. Wishing you the best in health and happiness!

  • @reneed.4322
    @reneed.4322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Sending healing, positive vibes your way!! Hope you have a speedy recovery!! But not too speedy!! Take this time to relax and cuddle with Charisma (and Sophie of course)!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Love you guys!!

  • @beutiful7112
    @beutiful7112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Praying for a healing Cole and a speedy recovery

  • @sherribell4032
    @sherribell4032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Praying for ya'll

  • @candisbar524
    @candisbar524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Thank you for explaining all this to us, Cole. I am glad they have all these procedures that help you to function more efficiently during your day. I wad just telling my husband how independent you try to be, and I really give you props for that. Your wife is also a wonderful companion, and is very patient and kind. Y'all are a great couple, and I've enjoyed your vlog for several years. God bless you and I pray for speedy recovery.

  • @ammytshabatau1840
    @ammytshabatau1840 2 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    His cranky face at the beginning is hilariously adorable 😂. Gosh I love this channel😍

    • @coleandcharisma
      @coleandcharisma  2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Thank you 😁

    • @LG-kx8xl
      @LG-kx8xl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Right! Cole makes the cutest faces. I bet he could get away with almost anything as a little boy. As a boy mom myself, he'd make that face & I'd melt. So sweet.🥰

    • @martharinebiseko1457
      @martharinebiseko1457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True

  • @thekontuli2828
    @thekontuli2828 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such wonderful souls...so connected! A blessing indeed.
    Man, You channel is so addictive. Keep well and rock on my people..

  • @Jazzlune
    @Jazzlune 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Sending out healing vibes to Cole for a speedy recovery! Charisma, keep doing what you're doing... you are the light in his eyes, as he is yours. ♥

  • @nicolelossen6511
    @nicolelossen6511 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Strong Woman Strong Man , love to you guys from Martinique, Caribbeans

  • @elaineb3215
    @elaineb3215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    Cole you look so cute pouting like a little kid. God has you in his arms and we are all praying for you. We love you both.

    • @jasminemiller7677
      @jasminemiller7677 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hmmm and then I'll be home 🏡🏡

    • @SasaSasa-wy9wu
      @SasaSasa-wy9wu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He does look cute I was cracking up

    • @auxy9583
      @auxy9583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He is very handsome 🌷🌷

    • @auxy9583
      @auxy9583 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He is very handsome 🌷🌷

  • @teedee643
    @teedee643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great in sharing even this. Can be uncomfortable procedure to discuss exactly. Prayers for healing and you feeling more comfortable.

  • @ellenbedford3888
    @ellenbedford3888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The look on Cole’s face when he was getting in the van was the same face I made when I was going to get my last back surgery lol. I had to stay in the hospital overnight, and was able to get up after the surgery, so they let me go home. Still working on recovery tho. My hubby is the best tho! Here’s to a speedy recovery for you!

  • @RosaLopez-zw2ff
    @RosaLopez-zw2ff 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wishing you a quick recovery and good days ahead.

    • @ericksonwall7369
      @ericksonwall7369 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello 👋..... How are you doing today. ?

    • @RosaLopez-zw2ff
      @RosaLopez-zw2ff 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ericksonwall7369 Fine, thanks

    • @ericksonwall7369
      @ericksonwall7369 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RosaLopez-zw2ff Nice meeting you. Where do you live. I live in Atlanta and you

  • @ihaveamillioncookies
    @ihaveamillioncookies 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The way chole looks at charisma you can just see in his eyes how much love he has for his wife 🥺❤️

  • @laurie29google.comlaurence69
    @laurie29google.comlaurence69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "I love you daddy from Sophie girl" was so cute💕🐩💕 and had the perfect timing (I see you @Armando... l see you 😊😊) 👍🏼👍🏼

  • @Nan-Elle
    @Nan-Elle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The "look" in the morning. Yes, Cole, we all feel that way about heading to a surgery. I'm always glad when they start with the anesthesia, because I tell myself, "Well, it's' really over now, because it will seem like one minute when I wake up."

  • @tabithasuzuma
    @tabithasuzuma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sometimes it’s just the little things that show that you and Cole are such lovely people, and that the two of you have the best relationship ever. Like the way:
    - Cole puts on a cross baby face partly because he wants Charisma to feel sorry for him and baby him a little, and partly because he is genuinely a bit apprehensive over the surgery and its aftermath.
    - Charisma totally gets this, so lets him get away with it, without letting him wallow too much!
    - Charisma allows Cole to struggle alone as he tries to wheel himself up the ramp into the car. She only steps in to help just before he rolls back (in order to prevent feelings of failure). But after helping him she immediately tells him well done and finds the reason he struggled in the first place (too steep). This is not pretending or pandering - it’s actively looking for the reason that Cole might be finding something difficult; it’s appreciating the effort more than the success (just because Cole didn’t manage it alone this time doesn’t mean he put in any less effort than he usually does) and the result of all this careful ‘noticing’ by Charisma is that it keeps Cole’s mind focused on the truth - that he is constantly progressing in terms of the different movements and procedures he practises - without ever allowing him to think badly or negatively about himself and what he can achieve. Charisma actually does this a lot in all the videos and I find it particularly loving and positive. ♥️
    - Charisma says she doesn’t want to explain Cole’s surgery herself as it’s his body and up to him how much he shares.
    - Cole, as usual, shares in great unabashed detail, because he is too secure in himself as a person to ever get embarrassed about something like that. Also the way he jokes about how the ice down there is going to make him “shrivel” - just too funny, I couldn’t stop laughing!!
    🤣🤣🤣
    - Cole said ‘I’m baaaack after one of his previous surgeries - already so used to being a star on camera!
    - Charisma reminds him (and us!) that they have exciting times to look forward to, so that Cole remembers they are moving to Cali shortly and won’t be stuck in bed for long!
    … and a million other little things, in this video and in all your others, which in turn become the big things. Because all big things are made up of thousands of little tiny things.
    Get well soon, Cole!!!
    We’re all rooting for you!!!
    ♥️ xxx

    • @faithwilson6967
      @faithwilson6967 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What a wonderful response and rundown ... thank you it was a joy to read ...

    • @tabithasuzuma
      @tabithasuzuma 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@faithwilson6967 Thank you so much for letting me know! 😊

  • @madameceesay6785
    @madameceesay6785 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hope you feel better soon.

  • @izolachaffin3408
    @izolachaffin3408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You will be great, my two young friends. God is on your side, truly know this and life's ups and downs, will not be that.🙏👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨👏👍👌 Have Safe Travels To California!

  • @patriciaanderson7954
    @patriciaanderson7954 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Praying for a successful surgery and recovery 🙏🏽 God is with you every step of the way.

  • @Jaacck45
    @Jaacck45 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Cole speedy recovery- God Bless You both 🙏🏾

  • @astridgaoan5379
    @astridgaoan5379 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Cole and Charisma..since I watch your channel I couldn't stop myself to watch more videos you shared everytime I take my rest or before sleep. Your love story inspired others not only for disabled person. My son has a problem to his lower spinal cord not because of any accident but because of his job carrying heavy stones.in short private gold miner. But he is not sitting in a wheelchair thanks God. He is suffering with pain mostly at night. We couldn't afford to pay his operation only doing therapy..I shared your story to them to encourage that life must go on. Believing to the power of prayers everything will be fine.God is in control no matter what. We just always remember to have a good relationship to His only begotten Son Jesus Christ. Trusting Him is so important to all of us nowadays for nobody knows when will be the last days.
    May God Bless and protect you both always. 😊
    Looking forward to watch your baby soon. Hopefully 🙏

  • @brettkelly8301
    @brettkelly8301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wish I hadn't looked that up, OUCH BRO.

  • @zivagoldman2001
    @zivagoldman2001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG, Cole's pouty face!!! So glad you are already on the road to recovery. My father had the same procedure, and all I can say is consider yourself lucky that you can't feel the pain! Take care of yourself!

  • @julievanderleest
    @julievanderleest 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I absolutely love Cole’s method of eating. The other video showed his fork and it looked brilliant! As someone who has nerve issues and has a hard time holding objects correctly, I will have to steal some of Cole’s methods. Hope you’re recovering well Cole! I’ve had dozens of surgeries myself and they never get easier. I just became naughtier.😜

  • @jrbland18
    @jrbland18 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wishing you lots of lucky. Sending prayers

  • @dalecorbin8655
    @dalecorbin8655 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Praying for a speedy recovery. Charisma talk to Cole like he is a baby when he is not 100%. 😂😂 Reminds me of my niece and her husband. So cute.

  • @elaidjajohnson4639
    @elaidjajohnson4639 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Was going to copy and paste the definition for viewers convenience but nope just look it up. Thank you for sharing! Hope you have a wonderful recovery!

  • @mamadeebuildsahouse
    @mamadeebuildsahouse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Cole's pouting face in the beginning, I was laughing my ass off. Men and their drama....

  • @mariomota45
    @mariomota45 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You definitely saved my life as I did not know about Botox treating constant urges to pass urine… I’ll approach my doctor here in London and ask about it. Wow

  • @qinisogregorini7590
    @qinisogregorini7590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sending you lots of love ❤️❤️❤️

  • @DamilolaOluyemi
    @DamilolaOluyemi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I subscribed to your channel a week ago and I'm so grateful TH-cam recommended your channel. I love everything about you guys😍☺️. You're so adorable and your family is so beautiful and blessed ☺️🥰. I've watched few of your old videos and I love them all. God bless you and prosper you always ❤️

  • @clairegordon7951
    @clairegordon7951 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Cole is such a "baby" at times when he is not too comfortable with a procedure that needs to be done but in no time he just bounce back and be his happy; bubbly self again.
    Never mind Cole we are all in it with you and rest assured you are in the right hands with the best wife by your side. Sofy is just as aware and loving as always. Take care of yourselves you all. Love you lots.

  • @virginialoman492
    @virginialoman492 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know it must be scary to be cut open. I’m sorry you felt nervous and scared. So glad you have good support!

  • @CAD9686
    @CAD9686 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Really could relate to Cole at the start, like going in for surgery and not being able to eat and that. All the best with the recovery. It's really interesting seeing like the long term side effects of your disability, like the problems that can occur and that. Also shoutout to Charisma for being a top supportive wife, not that any of us are surprised at that!

  • @yvonnebent2074
    @yvonnebent2074 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We’re all cheering u on. Cole be strong. Take good care of yourselves. God bless from ur friends in London 🇬🇧 xxx😍

  • @zerogaming566
    @zerogaming566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    🛑 Definition: HYDROCELECTOMY is surgery to remove a hydrocele. A hydrocele is a fluid-filled sac inside the scrotum. A hydrocele can happen on one or both sides of the scrotum. The doctor made a very small cut (incision) in your scrotum to drain the fluid from the hydrocele and to remove the fluid-filled sac.
    🤔 Look it up yourself...

    • @ghents565
      @ghents565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maybe its kinda of embarrassing for Cole?

    • @StandupGirl-ym3ey
      @StandupGirl-ym3ey 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Correct!

  • @KimberlysCreative
    @KimberlysCreative 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Cole and Charisma! Glad the procedure went well..I keep missing your vids as I just got out of the hospital. But slowly on the mend.

  • @marlawilliamson86
    @marlawilliamson86 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Prayer that God will line everything up with his God for a complete Healing.💕💕❤️❤️

  • @peggyesquibel8353
    @peggyesquibel8353 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy all went well with your procedure! Healing energy coming your way! Love and hugs to you both!

    • @ericksonwall7369
      @ericksonwall7369 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello 👋..... How are you doing today. ??

  • @ms.suzylucy6868
    @ms.suzylucy6868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Awe poor baby. Cole man you’ve really been through a lot! Both you and Charisma. To be two young people dealing with a lot, the two of you are amazingly strong with kind hearts and beautiful spirits. You two inspire, encourage and uplift thousands of people. This just goes to show that you never know what people are dealing with; nevertheless it doesn’t make you ordinary people, your EXTRAORDINARY people because of your CHEERFUL & PLEASANT disposition which is very hard to come by these days. - I am praying for you and wishing you a speedy recovery. (Please pray for me too)! I love you guys!!!

  • @missromiea
    @missromiea 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Praying for a speedy recovery Cole. So glad that the surgery went well. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @celyncelyn8750
    @celyncelyn8750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Charisma, you are an angel! I was wondering if Cole gets stress out and you lose your patience sometimes. Anyway, good luck to you guys!

  • @maryfrancisgatewood4605
    @maryfrancisgatewood4605 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God please keep his hands on you Cole and Charisma . Bring you through successfuly

  • @SimoneandPat
    @SimoneandPat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Lol I can't with Coles face aww you'll be okay love.
    Praying for you always Cole!🙏🏾

  • @zeritushashego5712
    @zeritushashego5712 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i wish you to recover from your pain. both of you are true love teachers for this world

  • @rhondaclipper2421
    @rhondaclipper2421 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Hey you guys. I'm praying and believing all will go well. J\I noticed that Charisma laughs when she's nervous. Just showing love and support. Both of you take it easy and get your rest. Whenever I had to get surgery, I reminded myself to enjoy the sleep and that God is in charge, say a prayer because no prayer is little. Blessings.

    • @jasminemiller7677
      @jasminemiller7677 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rh factor of the morning 🌞🌄🌞 and I will

  • @heiditobin4341
    @heiditobin4341 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sending kind and positive thoughts for quick healing!

  • @fflipao
    @fflipao 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    All the best to him and a fast recovery! Thank you for loving him so much!

    • @conniealphonso7158
      @conniealphonso7158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Prayers are going up to heaven for you both. Much love🙏🏾❤️💕

  • @barbaralindsey9729
    @barbaralindsey9729 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Praying for a speedy recovery.

  • @ashleyterryYT
    @ashleyterryYT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I pray GOD touches and heals his body right now in Jesus’ Name

  • @vilmawatson5443
    @vilmawatson5443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So happy surgery went well....sending healing love n speedy recovery Cole. Charisma you are a blessing......may God continue to give you health n strength each day. Love you both😛😍😘😍❤❤❤❤

  • @veronicah5270
    @veronicah5270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Cole’s facial expressions were too cute. So appreciate you two and all you share of your lives with us. Much love! 💜💜

  • @jame4930
    @jame4930 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pray the surgery was a success. Have a blessed week. 🙏🏾😊

  • @bernadettedavis7141
    @bernadettedavis7141 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Cole is so cute the look in his eyes when it’s time for surgery wanting Mac n cheese. Like the rest of us child hood memories to make us feel better 💕

  • @Shayechique
    @Shayechique 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad everything went well with surgery and thank you for being so transparent with your challenges

  • @cookiliciouskitchen
    @cookiliciouskitchen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I pray for charisma that she continues to love and live with Cole for ever.. I adore you both so much... your love and care for each other is amazing...I really believe in miracles..I know one day, he will be well.

    • @dawnharris3503
      @dawnharris3503 ปีที่แล้ว

      I tell you, Charisma and Cole, despite their challenges have restored my faith in the human spirit to love, be good and reset both physically, mentally and emotionally. God's richest blessings to both of them.

  • @keciaanderson6317
    @keciaanderson6317 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Prayers for healing Cole.

  • @sheritaedmondson8601
    @sheritaedmondson8601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I'm praying for you Cole. I know your wife has your back.

  • @christo-chaney
    @christo-chaney 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was just wondering how the both of you were doing. Then I spot this video. Good to hear from you two again. Best regards always!

  • @ldburnett713
    @ldburnett713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I absolutely love how yall love and take care of eachother 💗 one of the sweetest couples ever!

  • @ingridhenryherbert330
    @ingridhenryherbert330 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cole. Don’t worry. Everything gonna be alright. God is in charge and all is well. Sending lots of 💕. Stay positive.

  • @bleonard1803
    @bleonard1803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Poor Cole looked like a pet being taken to the vet in the morning 😂😂. But seriously, I’m glad all went well. I’m glad to know I’m not the only adult that still loves Mac n cheese.

  • @roselamb163
    @roselamb163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your long hair style are the prettiest on you honey🙏Cole is in my prayers🙏GOD Bless you🙌🙌

  • @motherof3pearls
    @motherof3pearls 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    That is awesome about the botox Cole! May God continue to bless your efforts! 😃🙏❤️ stay positive!! 🥰

  • @justonebethanne
    @justonebethanne 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So glad you are recovering well Cole. I am sending all my love to you and your lovely wife Charisma💗

  • @berthagreen1620
    @berthagreen1620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    You’re both so sweet and caring. Get well soon Cole.

  • @mariaflorentino2049
    @mariaflorentino2049 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm praying for you Cole from Canada.

  • @beverlydust5381
    @beverlydust5381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Glad Cole is feeling better ,Charisma great job taking care of the post surgical patient. Mac and cheese is a classic comfort food. Good luck 9n your trip to California.

  • @danitapenn-green2347
    @danitapenn-green2347 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lord, thank you for giving them the strength to get through. Charisma, you are a gem.

  • @cjmac2766
    @cjmac2766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I've had 23 surgeries, including many spinal fusions and procedures. I can't imagine all that you have managed! God bless you in your recovery, Cole, and God bless you both on your loving journey!

    • @carlasuannelockett1694
      @carlasuannelockett1694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have had over 100(first one was before I was even a day old and then at i believe one month and here I am almost 42 years later and I have almost died several times)

    • @irenedavo3768
      @irenedavo3768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow! That's a lot

    • @irenedavo3768
      @irenedavo3768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@carlasuannelockett1694 hope you finished them now!

    • @carlasuannelockett1694
      @carlasuannelockett1694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@irenedavo3768 unfortunately I will never officially be done with them Due to hydrocephalus and I have had the botox in bladder due to a neurogenic bladder(I believe Cole said he has the same thing) I have had a catheter since my early twenties and originally it was in the normal place but after about 10 years or so my doctor decided to move it to stomach and unfortunately I have had 5 or 6 hernia surgeries and they would have to move it to the"original" spot to give that area time to heal up before they could actually do the surgeries and then they would move it back to stomach and then cycle starts all over again and I could have died Nov. 8, 2018 bcuz they had to relay the tract for the actual cath AND I was awake for the entire thing the doc who was doing it kept asking if I feel tired yet(despite my mom and I both told THEM it takes a lot to knock me out and I was just like yea so he would start and then I almost died bc of the combination of meds used(and they sent me home even though I was throwing up and they said oh well and we left despite that fact that I have could have died so we get home and then mom was heading to the door to get the meds and snacks and she didn't even make it to the front door and I started puking beyond belief. I had to be rushed to another 🏥 and if we'd ✋ even ✋ 5-10 minutes I could have died turns out that I had I was in septic shock and thyroid storm and at some point one of my legs literally turned and then the hospital went into lockdown for a fire and then a missing child alerts so it was. Awhile before I was officially admitted and my middle nephew came to check on me and couldn't leave until the drills were over so he said a prayer for me and then when I finally got to a room all my stuff had "normalized" and we started laughing so hard the people in the room looked at us and was like WHY are you laughing and mom explained it and they started laughing too I was hospitalized from Thursday through Sunday

    • @sincerelysandi
      @sincerelysandi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Peace to you all who have endured so much💜☮️💰

  • @GETYOBAGMONIQUE
    @GETYOBAGMONIQUE 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Charisma is such a great wife she's paitent and calm and not lazy