Teen Claims Mom Has Always Cared More About The Men She Dates Than About Her
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.ย. 2024
- Deena says her 18-year-old daughter, Karenna, is intelligent, but also impulsive and manipulative. She claims that Karenna’s life is spiraling out of control because of her former boyfriend, Tommie’s influence.
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Karenna says Tommie is not the problem that Deena makes him out to be. She claims that Deena has always cared more about the men she dates than she does Karenna.
“My mom has been married three times. I don’t really know my dad,” says Karenna, adding, “In between husbands, she has had multiple boyfriends. It was very unstable.” Karenna says she has anger and resentment toward her mother and feels like Deena was never there for her.
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When Dr. Phil says to Deena, “You’ve been putting men ahead of her for a long time. She knows it, she feels it - and there’s been a revolving door,” how does Deena respond?
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Her daughter is telling her what is wrong mom is not listening
Daphney Nerette It hurt to watch, that girl was being so honest and her mom was being spiteful to her in return... I wanted to reach in and be like THATS YOUR BABY, SHE COMES BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE. If a man told my mama I had to leave HER house, I would have to bail my mother out of jail because she may harm him 😂
That mess had me HEATED..She's a selfish, self-centered narcissist, she can't even pretend she cares, smh.
sadly my mother is the same way. It sucks when they're mad that you don't want to talk to them and when you do, they get mad, defensive and get angry at you :(
Maggie Hart it will get better virtual hugs 🤗🤎🥺
@@mmaggiehartt mines too love... that's why I love from a distance. Its sad!
“And where was tommy? No where around? Huh? And neither were you.” 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Dr. Phil throws shade like no other.
That hit very hard.
I read this comment before I saw the clip and boy was waiting to watch so worth is 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
IKR He WENT for her THROAT 😂
Yaaash Dr Phil 👏🏼 👏🏼 😌🤣
She has had all these terrible men constantly in and out of her life, but when her daughter decides to date one guy, that happens to be black, that is when she decides to know what a good man is for her daughter? Alrighty
This 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Don’t let your bias mess your mind up
I mean, I don’t want to automatically say it’s because Tommy is black...It very well could be that. But I feel as though this mother would respond this way towards anyone in her daughters life. I think she wants to control her daughter and looks for anything to be upset with her about. I mean, they did point out how the mom and daughter have had issues since before Tommy came into the picture..
Exactly !
Merk You you can’t definitely say race has nothing to do with it either.
How can anyone think that haircut looks good. She be out here looking like lord farquaad
😂😂😂 I can’t unsee that now omg 😱
Stwap (In my Sammi voice) I'm crying 😅😂🤣😭
I see Kronk from Emperor’s new groove with a Karen cut.
*Screaming!* 😂😂😂😂
Amy Andersson I feel like the karens are limited to that one trademark of a hair cut lmfao
That is the Karenist Karen haircut I've ever seen on a Karen
Its the Super Karen cut, give me the head branch manager style.
Lolol
With extra Karen highlights
Ria Wally lmaoooooo
My old teacher had that hairstyle but she was actually the nicest teacher
She literally needs to find a job and move out. Just because its her mother doesn't mean she should keep her around. She's so toxic! Move on girl. You deserve so much more
💯
This started off bad, but yeah she needs to get rid of the mother from her life
It's not easy to move on
She literally needs her mother. She learns from her mother. And knowing it's wrong doesnt always stop the child from doing the same thing. I lived this life and living and learning Nd knowing are 3 totally different things.
Some girls dont make it in life with out a mothers love. Some boys dont make it with out a fathers love.
I agree with everything other than getting rid of her mother. I have been in the daughter shoes, now I’m a mother myself. My mom has changed drastically after TWO DECADES, but she did and I forgave her. 7 years ago I was in coma, that’s when she woke up. Now we still argue but we are very close! I no longer live in my country tho I moved to Germany 5 years ago for health reasons. I am 27, with a 17 month old daughter. Incase you’re wondering!
What is wrong with these woman picking men over their children! This girl is lashing out because of the damage her mother did to her. No matter what age you never make your children feel like they are not lovedZ
My mom did the same. Then I did the same as this girl. Now I have a lovely husband and God forbid if we get divorced I won't be doing this to my children
Alias be the parents to your children that you never had !
@@alias201 Exactly the same. My mum kicked me out tried to put me in foster care because her bf didn't like me then 3 years later I told her it traumatized me and she told me if she picked me she would have killed herself lol
@@amycartwright6199 yeah my mom told me that I was the reason she will never be happy and will die alone. If I mention it now, she'll deny it, but it's true.
@@alias201 the main thing is that you know it's NOT you. It's her. We probably spent so long blaming ourselves and finally we saw the light and realised that we are not to blame for our mothers choices and emotions. That's on her. The best thing here is when we have kids, we know exactly what NOT to do. Consider yourself strong and don't let them tear you down again due to their own self hatred.
I have a major problem with this mother's face when she looks at her child. Her expression alone is enough to give a child inner turmoil and strife. I don't trust that she has good intentions. It seems like the mom is truly just trying to demonize and discount her kid.
Ok yeah I thought it was just me it’s like she looks at her in pure disguise.
Yep...i saw it as well
Moms face towards her daughter really breaks my heart. How could you even slightly look at your kid, while they're hurting and trying to open up to you, like that?
I just have a major problem with this mother's face. I will just call her "Other Mother" from the movie Coroline. I grew up with a narcissistic mother & that's what I see in this woman. Toxic to the max
This is my mom to a T. One of her fiances assaulted me and she still chose to keep him around until cps found out and made her kick him out. Men always meant more to her. So I feel this girl so much!
I'm so sorry!!
Cps should have had him prosecuted for assault of a minor and you should have been removed from your mother's "care".
You were a child, you did not deserve to be treated that way. I hope that you’re in a place now where you are protected and feel safe. Take care, love.
I feel you girl. Kick her out of your life ... It hurts very much even years later but sometimes it is better 💀
My mom was the same way
I feel like Karen is jealous of her daughter finding a good man and/or is racist.
Exactly correct
@@iMr.Jetpacks probably both tbh
She's such a bad vibe
She’s both.
Oh both and probably feels guilty for not being there so she’s projecting her self hate onto Tommy because he’s the only one who’s been there
A parent should always be there no matter what the condition is..
Jill Ellis facts
Jill Ellis it really depends on what they’re doing, the severity of their actions.. and if they’re trying to get better.
Yeah, the love is a little one sided.
I will be there for my children right or wrong. Being there for them doesnt mean I have to not hold him or her responsible for their actions. U can love ur children no matter what they have done. My son is 20 and I raised him holding him responsible for his actions. When he was a teen if he did wrong he dealt with the consequences but I was always right there for him. A parent loves their child unconditionally and if u cant or dont u should have never had children.
"Children" who are legal,18, are considered adults.. but it takes years of wisdom to be a true adult.. every person has to learn the hard way. It won't always work out as we hope for, and that's okay. But a good parent will be there if their kid loses their way to at least say they tried! If a parent wont be there for them, what is that teaching them? Maybe Karen didn't have the best parents and this is why she is this way. But never choose a man over your kid. Karen is about Karen. And her daughter is acting more grown than her own mom here. Maybe it's just me, but I could never not be there for my kids. If they're doing wrong, I will try to guide them.. if they're doing right, I'll praise them. At every age.
I’m just still trying to wrap my head around the fact we can leave comments now.
Michael Castillo same 😯🤯
Only on some videos. Comments are still disabled on certain videos
Right 😂
Lol finally
Oh wait...
Karen just doesn’t like that her daughter’s boyfriend is a black man. Let’s be real here
And she as the audacity to name her daughter Karenna when she's the Karen... SMH
This "mom" doesn't deserve her daughter... Run girl.
savage boyz 5th and? There's plenty that have whole farms of weed in rural areas
how can the mom label tommie like he’s the bad influence he’s such a nice guy and seems like the only one who cares about karenna in this
Thanks for saying it
If you can't manipulate, separate.
@@sorrychangedmyusername3594 divide and conquer
i agree. her mom is legit a monster
He almost ran her over with a car
Women who have the Karen haircut wonder why they’re being called Karen, she’s doin Karen things !
Lmfaooo right😭😭
Sounds like Karen has made bad decisions with men, but making Tommy take the blame and treating her daughter as such... smh
Her daughter is literally named Karenna
And how can her mom talk smack when she’s had NUMEROUS men in and out of their lives. She’s learned at the feet of a master 🤷🏻♀️
Not the feet of the master! 😅🤣🤣😂
Yeah but it's all Tommie's fault 🤷♀️.
She is trying to deflect from the damage she has done to her daughter.
The young man, seems like a good kid. I feel the mother is having some racial bias here.
He is a great kid. Thank you!
Tommy be like ffs I’m the normal one 😂🤣😅
He is the normal one of that bunch.
“And neither were you..” Dr. Phil ur a SAVAGEEEE
😂😂😂
Looks like the "other" mother from Coraline 😂
Omg,you're right!
What I thought
Lol I literally said that in a different video earlier. It’s so weird! 😂
THE BELDAM
"And neither were you" was such a burn 😂😂
“And neither were u”
ufff.... I can't 😂
Savage Squidward!!!!!!😀😁😂
damn
i literally gasped lol
That was a drop the mic part
Deena is the EPITOME of “KAREN” hair and ALL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The mother has abandoned her daughter physically, emotionally, and financially. She's a terrible mom.
How the mom had 3 husband and had multiple boyfriends while with them...I
Between them.... Not while with them
ǫᴜɪɴɴɪᴇ - what
she had the boyfriends between the husbands
"Huh...and neither were you." *SIPS TEA*
Damnnnn that last line "and neither were you"holy shiiiiii phil
She been in three marriages because of her ways. Them men didn’t want to deal when with her mess
By in large the only men who are willIng to put up with the single mommy package deal are the men who have no options or perverts.
Damion jackson right
He said “tommy wasn’t around for all of that, right?” “Neither were you” he’s such a savage I’m gonna cry
The mom looks exactly like spiderus. More like spiderus than spiderus does
She looks like Caroline's e evil mom
brooke arcoleo Omg
jose ruiz this is so true lmao
I feel for this girl, I know exactly what it’s like to be second or third place in your own parent’s life.
“And neither were you” MAN! That hit like CSI: Miami-Horatio-sunglass punchlines
Damn.. Dr. Phil’s ending burn was a good one. He’s my hero 🥰😂
THE MOTHER MAKES HER DAUGHTER SLEEP IN HER CAR AND SHE SAYS TOMMY IS A BAD INFLUENCE, GIRL GET YOURSELF A MIRROR CAUSE THE ONLY BAD INFLUENCE IS YOU.
"Huh..... And neither where you.. 🙄👀"
its the “and neither were you” at the end for me 😭😂
She abdicated her responsibility as a mother now she's blaming the black kid for her bad parenting. Her mother is a sad excuse of a human being.
THE END!! “And neither were you”, screaming!!!
That ending!! God damn phil!!!
2:56 mmmhhhhmmmm you tell her Phil.
when he hit her with that “and neither were you” like DAAAAAMN PHIL
No one
literally no one
Dr. Phil “I’m a savage”
when doctor phil said that last line "and neither were you"
me: OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Bruh it’s the “and neither were you “ at the end for me
If “let me speak to the manager” was a person 🤨
"huh, and neither were you" 😂 that stung
My 3 year old daughter knows that she comes first in my life. My Boyfriend also knows that she’s my 1st priority. I would never put something or someone above my precious lil girl.
“I smoke at night time to go to sleep”
Me: sure we all do 😏
🌬🌬🌬
The mom is just jealous of her daughters mutual and stable relationship
"And neither were you-"
Her mom is jealous. Been there done that. Mine said I was flirting with her husband when I was ten. I threw the whole person away 16 years ago and never looked back. Jealousy and cattiness is ugly ladies, let's do better.
💖
“Okay, I choose not” 😂😂
Tommy seems adorable and stable, while her mom is totally the opposite
🤸ooooooohhhhhhhhh🏃🏃🏃🏃🤾🤾🏄🚣🏊🏂⛷️ when Dr Phil says at the end "and neither were you"
She looks like the other mom from Coraline
Gheslaine Birkenberger this is it. This is the one
This daughter is very smart and mature. She deserves a supportive family.
Mother: I love you so much your the best daughter I can ask for.
*Tony comes along
Mother: huh?! I have a daughter 😲
Multiple boyfriends AND BEEN MARIED 3 TIMES....say no more
She belongs to the streets.
The only decent person in this situation is Tommy. Both the mom and daughter are lost causes. “I smoke a little at night to help me go to sleep” Girl you 18 years old, let your brain fully develop before you enjoy the ganja every day/night like that.
Your an idiot People make mistakes but they can get past yhat Just the way you labeled the girl tells me your no better then her mother I sincerely hope you dont have children
@@larryhullinger8103 you're calling he/her an idiot when you can't even spell don't correctly. Its d o n t ' t.
Not dont. And don't even get me started on yhat. It's what. Go back to kindergarten.
@The Moon Knight Nobody even mentioned alcohol? How would you know my stance on alcohol to begin with? Don't really see how it has to do with what I'm saying.
My son has a good heart and he definitely tried to be there for his friend. But this is too much.
Michael Tapia bruh.. your comment has spelling mistakes too! It happens.
What a terrible mother. Just help your child out instead of being a right fighter.
I don't wanna be that person but....
she got that Karen haircut
Sad part is this boy the mom is complaining about is probably more of a support system than her mother is.
He was her support system. He really cares for her. But I'm happy to say he has moved on.
The mom sure made time out for her child and not let other get in the way of her being a parent because this happen at the age of 13 and the mom sure seen right there that something was wrong you don't put a child out when you see something is wrong and young man is telling the truth she's a bad parent God help her soul
Thank you
I had this same issue with my father. Gets tattoos of them on him, puts them on his insurance plans and neither me or my sister, and literally would cheat on my mother multiple times when we were kids before their divorce and leave my brother to watch us for years. Not only that but he was abusive too.
Nobody:
The comments: Karen
Her choosing her boyfriend over her child SAYS A LOT. A LOT. Kareena isnt even troublesome she's just doing what she can do to be good.
4:15 OH MY GOD
SOS Aura goddamn Phil! 😂
My mom remarried after 10 yrs to an abusive, fat, sociopath who would constantly yell everything and break different things in the house on a daily basis. One night a fight broke out between me him because I “slammed the door too hard”. I remember looking at my mom after the fight and telling her it’s either me or him because I’m not living in this toxic environment. I was 17 when she pointed to him and told me sorry. I still remember all the details of that night, literally shattered my heart.
The random cut at 2:55 to the audience member.... just..
~chef's kiss~
give that editor a raise.
This is gonna be Drascilla when she grows up with the way deavan hops from man to man.
🤣🤣🤣
His last statement sent me💀💀
Dude is Savage 😂😂😂😅
“Uh and neither were you” 😂😂
‘And neither were you’ ouch Dr Phil 😂
Why he do the mom like that "huh, and neither were you" 😂😂😂
4:20 the most savage comment ever by Dr.Phil. Lol
I feel bad for Tommy, he just wants to be with his girlfriend and is getting dragged into this Karen war.
She just doesn't want her daughter to date a black man....😐
Mom got them crazy eyes in those old photos 👀 🤣🤣
"Well, we just sort of, we got a pretty good relationship.(Beep)" Getting married 3 times and having multiple boyfriends. Not listening to your daughter. She's got commitment issues.
I recognized my mother in this Karen and can only tell you:
If your mom is caring more about anything else than you, leave.
My mom put everything else, including herself, before me. And it made me literally ill.
Now she doesn't have much people around her anymore, because she is so toxic, and she is trying to stick with me.
It was a long road to "recovery" (halfway) because the truth hurts, some mothers just don't or can't truly love anyone.
And neighter were you 😂😂😂
That "huh and neither were you line straight killed me"
That women has been married 3 times meanwhile I haven't been married once 😭 what the heck 🤣
"...and neither were you." Mic drop. 🎤
This is why I love Dr.Phil!!!!!
Wow!! That ending I felt in my soul!! Dr. Phil. Said "and neither was yOu" 🙏❤
😱, "and neither were you"! Tell her Dr Phil!!!
Not a good idea to steal from your job.
Damn... Dr. Phil pulled a damn joker card when he said, "yeah he was no where around...and neither were you" to the mother.
Wow. She acts all high and mighty. Girl you need to take resp for YOUR actions.
Love "neither were you" 🤣😂😂🤣
Her mom worped her perception , now she thinks she's going to find what she needs from a boy ....like mother does
If I were Tommy I would bounce this is not his fight & we all know what Karens are capable of. 🏃🏿♀️
He has bounced. Thank you
That Karen Straight up looks like Coraline's Other Mother, Chin and all. no joke!
OMFG 'and neither were you, huh.' IM DYING
“hmm and neither were you” iconic
DAMN DR.PHIL! Cut her to the quick🤣🤣 We ain't wasting any time😂😂
When Karen gets the kids...