Some of my triggers are woman in good shape in tights, yoga pants, and bathing suits. One way I’m going to control these triggers is not looking at them. I’ve been doing that lately, I may look up and see a attractive woman but instead of trying to check her out as she’s walking away, I just focus on what I’m doing. I’ve had so much more clarity, and felt less shame by not looking at woman that way. I want a genuine connection with a woman, that’s not powered by lust. But by our energies, and characters matching. I feel so much better about myself and more confident knowing that I’m on a higher frequency.
You are the first woman i have ever heard that said stop masturbating. The crazy thing is, its for a good reason. The soul and body can not heal properly by doing unholy things! You have my respect 🙌 👏🏼👏🏼
There are several scriptures that express getting away from that temptation as quick as possible. One that comes to mind is 2 Timothy 2:22 - flee from youthful lusts or Proverbs 4:14-15-Avoid it, do not pass by it; turn away from it and pass on!
some insightful information/reminders spread throughout this 💯 🔮"energy is contagious" 🔮"do what you need to do" 🔮"you have to know your kryptonite" Appreciate hearing these gems over n over again, whether here or thru other people/places i interact with💎 Thanks Nikita
@@NikitaMaxwell I really appreciate the advice you gave us because your videos actually help me stop watching porn. God going to bless you for helping people.
A very mature and necessary topic. As you said Lust is everywhere. You hit on a lot of key points. I definitely miss being on that side of the fence but I want to see what else this world has for me.
@@NikitaMaxwell I descuved you on August 28th 2023. Congratulations for *great work* to help people out to be aware of *how to lead consciently their physical body, their thoughts, their émotions and their vital energies*. Be sure you are what is needed the most for Human beings. Your energies and yours vibrations are huge and lovely. I'm learning a lot from you. *Watch from Kinshasa D. R. Congo/ central Africa*. *Lucaya theManofRevolution*❤
Unfortunately, technology and fake beautifying the body has taken away our spirituality, so all we are left with is "basic Instincts." God (or whomever you believe is the creator) created us to mate have offspring and live fruitful, inspiring lives! Btw, our self-induced loneliness striving for material wealth ( the "me" syndrome)is replace with this crisis to be loved or in love, then in turn leads to wanting what we see (male to female, female to male) if not propogated, desperation and anxiety takes over! Which leads to ANY opposite sexual partner will do (lust)
I've recently discovered your channel. It was right on time because I'm actually battling lust as we speak. The good thing is I've literally been practicing everything you've been preaching in this video. I slipped and fell a decent amount of times. But I can honestly say that I've never stayed down, I've always gotten back on my feet do to the MOST HIGH YAH and continued to fight. Because when it all boils down to it , it's the battle between the flesh and the spirit. Keep up the great work beautiful , shalom.
I'm afraid i can only overcome with time..ive accepted it and am patient w myself...but ive been trying for so long but always seem to relapse...only christ can heal this brokeness within me. 🙏🏽
Nikita I stumble upon your channel and what you are saying is true. It's hard to overcome lust especially as a man because everything is oversexualize nowadays. Thank the good lord that I don't smoke weed or drink alcohol so I know for sure I am clean. Masterbation is something I have to overcome, but it's doable with the right mindset and exercising is a MUST to help me mentally, physically, and spiritually. Part of me wishes I can find people who are dealing with this and overcome it together.
Much love! 5 months celibate and only fapped a few times without porn. I don't want to fap at all eventually. Sex is absolutely not a need amd we need to save our kundalini sexual energy!
I saw your video and I clicked on it. Everypoint hit home, I am very greatefull for the best advice I ever received, I was not aware of everything you said to be honest. Much love I will continue to watch your videos!
facts tho. lust is such a basic energy and so many people are lost into it. True vulnerability and creative passion is so much more attractive, not to mention lends to way more exciting lifestyles. Porn is the worst especially
Overcoming lust is a tremendous challenge, specially for who is created in ocidental cultures. Everything turn around lust and sex, all our mental process is rooted in those patterns and beginning the process to avoid it is a hard exercise and we need to do it every single awake minute, including until we are sleeping rsrs. So we need to trust the process and stay tuned in the signals we intuitively took from our body and our relationships and anybody or anything who can took ourselves from our true path of peace and self-consciousness. When i fell triggered from lust, the practice of self-love, meditation and detachment is a precious key. So grateful to you for the opening to share these insights here.
Public comment. Understanding body and mind and soul reflecting one inner ability to control your taught and actions base on how you procieve life. Serving the true purpose in life. Creative thinking gives Positive results. Be simple be a sample and be an example in words and taught or deeds weather physical mental or emotional self realization is the key to success. Pure taught and actions. God loves you.
Public comment. One is face with lust greed and anger false pride and attachments jealous destroy one loyalty and respect. Fulfilling your needs . No lust by don't have desire and control your mind by choosing positive taught and actions base on how you procieve life journey begins with you. Self realization is the key to success. Pure taught and actions allow you to think about life before you act. Control your senses is vital. Pray and meditation and ficus on positive thinking. Knowledge is powerful use it wisely.
I stopped sleeping with my hands on my genitals, I noticed that my hands would automatically go there so I had to consciously force my hands to go to my side. And it actually required effort. My subconscious mind wanted my hands there to arouse me during the night so I could make the same bad decision again and again.
@NikitaMaxwell I descuved you on August 28th 2023. Congratulations for *great work* to help people out to be aware of *how to lead consciently their physical body, their thoughts, their émotions and their vital energies*. Be sure you are what is needed the most for Human beings. Your energies and yours vibrations are huge and lovely. I'm learning a lot from you. *Watch from Kinshasa D. R. Congo/ central Africa*. *Lucaya theManofRevolution*❤
Call me sanctimonious but I learnt dying to self & Godly trust helped me become an over comer. Unit of ourselves we can do nothing but a TRUE relationship with Yoshua Messiah created an ongoing paradigm shift towards a wholistic way of life. Yoshua Messiah is the answer to ALL the ills in the world today. He admonishes all: Come to me, all who are laden with burden & I will give you rest… ❤
Came across your page 30 minutes ago keep posting watched this one, your celibacy journey and another one just subscribed have a blessed day 🙏 keep inspiring.
Ik ben blij dat je deze video's online hebt geplaatst. Sluit goed aan bij mijn huidige journey van semen retention. Ergens hoop ik dat je ooit weer NL vids maakt, zulke topics zijn zo nodig, chapeau voor je channel, top content👏🏿💯
Thanks. Great info. Energy exchange - so key. This is a hard journey. I would say don't live in guilt and be guide by the Holy Spirit. You mentioned be kind to yourself. Awesome stuff.
I just found your channel And I am grateful for that You confirmed one more time, everything I knew from religion about woman and relationships Thank you for sharing all this knowledge with us Thank you for making us better man Keep doing, big support
Thank you for making these videos. I just found your channel and have watched a few vids; great content. I've been run by lust for over 30 years! I've made a LOT of progress since my 20s/30s, when I had zero control, but have a lot of work to do still. I've been cultivating a meditation/spiritual practice through Buddhist philosophy for awhile now, but whenever my frequency rises, I end up getting pulled back down by lust(and weed... just coming out of a relapse). My main trigger is "I like big butts and I cannot lie", my kryptonite is definitely tights/shorts, and living where I do, in summer it's impossible to go anywhere without triggers everywhere. I'm reinvigorated after finding this video though, I plan to take your advice and dig my heels in for the next few months. I'll be coming back to this video again for sure. Namaste 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
True Self Realization, where the Self is realized within, true love. Only when true love is realized within can you make love with another Soul. Otherwise it's just lustful sex. Romance is also lust emotionally. Only in pure love can you meet another soul in pure love. Then sex becomes love making and the Souls intertwine in true love. Otherwise it's lustful animalistic sex that is degrading. If one is meditating within focused on self realization, the energy will rise higher than lust. This is the secret. It's not dancing or exercise. It's going within and self realizing. Stop the mind. Go within. Source. True Self. It will be transcended naturally.
I feel like this is an important topic, and should be discussed in school to be honest. 1 of my triggers are tits lol and food, I love boobs... But I also have a theory about breast obsession and childhood with breastfeeding or lack of how it can effect us. Our primitive response with breasts is "food, life support"... And the fact that it is censored only peaks curiosity with ego... ego says "oh that must be a big deal"... If we were all just nude all the time, we would get desensitized really fast. Here is a pattern that I caught with myself... but first.. a man who told me once that he reads his bible and goes to church etc.... said it's ok to look, it's an act of appreciation, but the double take is adultery. And that hit home. So I catch myself looking, and I notice my self not being so attached to the environment when I see attractive people when I don't double take since... I think it's important to appreciate this life and to appreciate the fruits. Just don't try to break a branch or take the tree home so speak . Porn is awful and even fantasizing.. It teaches ego to be goal oriented, to desensitize with emotions, and even the titles of these videos will program the mind to automatically default in fantasizing things that are above and beyond harmful to self and others in the energy field. Kinda like going to gym to work out muscles, neural pathways, programs we operate on like a computer, will build... and most of us are building perversion and enforcing them. We are focused on dopamine and depriving oxytocin. Love is oxytocin, lust is dopamine oriented. Karezza is where it's at. Practicing making love without orgasm, to cultivate oxytocin... As far as masturbation goes... I feel like there's a healthy way to masturbate... without fantasy..... making love to yourself unified with God... Touching the self, gratitude, appreciating the self etc. I think that's healthy. If you can masturbate with God without orgasm as the primary goal, you can manifest self love. We are having an experience called life, it is very subjective to a lot of us, I don't believe so much in right and wrong but cause and effect. Right and wrong to me is, does it lower or raise vibration? We can lust food, we can lust material, we can lust anything... lust=How can that serve me, I need pleasure.... What is healthy is conscious love making in a balance practice... we can raise vibration with love making, but we can also lower it if it is lust based. Men will wonder why they premature ejaculate or get ED... stop lusting, consume the senses with high vibrational things. This one time I met a women from Tinder, all I wanted to do was fu*k... And we did... I put it in, and took it out, one pump lol.. my ego got what it wanted. There was no emotional bonding... God is unconditional love, we are fractals of the same being. There will aways be diversity in perception because we are at different points of spiritual evolution. I'm at a point where I'm ok with having sex, but there has to be some level of connection now. And channeling that sexual energy into another creative outlet is necessity for me. I met my TF and making love with that woman has changed my life... we're in separation now for two knows how long but it changed my view on love making. I think when TF's make love it does something to the atmosphere's frequency that is beyond our senses. In order to come into union and harmonize with a TF, ego needs to heal a core wound in order to marriage consciousness into singularity. If you ever do a DMT breakthrough and experience ego death, it's like having an orgasm that doesn't end without a sense of identity/self. We will continue to reincarnate until we master unconditional love I feel. I can keep typing for hours lol I love these topics. Higher states of consciousness/dimension require a certain type of graduation, and earth is a school where we come to learn, teach, play. Great content!
Lust is like being lost in sex, sin, $, etc. The 7 deadly sins. Not a conspiracy theory controversy taboo/stigma, etc. Just Imagine the 10 commandments.
About question in the end of the video: there can be a such kind of an obstacle as a lack of healthy emotional connection with parents - especially with opposite sex parent during childhood of a person. If such a person make a decision to fight his lust, it can result in loss of even this tiny little bond to opposite sex energy which lust provides to him (or her). How to fix it? Maybe only by finding a person of opposite sex which can compensate this lack of healthy emotional satisfaction. Also because of this problem in "anamnese" it can be hard to define if an opposite sex person can be suitable for such kind of relationship.
I have only watched two video s of you but it seems to me that you(Nikita) need to go deep into the World of spirituality. May you. soon attend your real-self....
Is it possible to be in a celibate relationship with a woman?How do you avoid the desire but maintaining a state of chastity.Abstaining from sex is challenging but necessary for men.I also believe that the sexual manipulation of men by women could be stopped by averting eyes away from the woman when she in the state sexual energy and men watching.As i have matured i have embraced sexual abstinence and could possibly remain in the state of permanent celibacy.I have abstained for four years from sex and have discovered that i like having platonic relationships with women.
How long do you recommend cutting it out? I agree with quitting mindless lustful activities but real intimacy with a lover? That's a gift from the God's
It sure is a gift❤️🔥 But the goal is to cultivate that sexual energy and redirect it. Trying to understand your own sexual energy and urges. Thats difficult to do if you have sex every day or a couple of days per week. Try 30 days :)
Hello 🙏🏽, this is the type of truth that is part of the blue print of how to become your best self each and every single day. I totally agree with everything that was said and would like add the following To be mindful of what you feed your spirit with ( through eyesight, what you listening,and how you spend your time…) ENERGY FLOWS WHERE ATTENTION GOES. Spend most of your energy in things that elevate you: empowering thought, self-care , work on your passion,meditate, workout, learn a new skill…fill up your schedule with activities that makes you a better version of yourself, and by doing so , Lust will have less power over you because you keep for the most part your vibrations high, and Lust has more power over you when you keep your vibrations low. As for ➡️smoking weed : In the process of elevating your vibe it would be good to stop smoking, but just remember that smoking ain’t bad for you…you just gotta be mindful about the state of your energy when you smoke and keep your whereabouts in high vibrations activities… You will come to realize how weed can promote creativity when working on your passion, and promote Lust when the time is spent doing nothing productive and looking at the wrong content on social media & internet .
Can I be a contrarian here, somewhat. I truly appreciate what you say, the spirit etc. But one cannot stop looking...objects come into our fields of vision! I know many monks are instructed to guard their sight, but I dont want to. That seems perverse to me. I hope to be able to look normally but not crave or "lust after"...do you know what I mean...? That is not impossible is it? Or is the argument: oh we are too weak in the beginning, so we must perforce control our looking? What is the evidence that people in healthy loving - and intimate - relationships have problems with their bodies or minds? The world would cease functioning normally, no? 😮😊
new thoughts lead to new actions leading to new habits so yes and no as a male its very different females can just stop and are good our body stilll produces millions of seed everyday and they want out and you need to use and redirect that energy quite conscioussly to avoid this biological urge to take over and to avoid wet dreams, mantak chia talks about this on youtube but also in his book "Taoist Secrets of Love" he basicly starts with recommending to train the muscles around the perineum and and something in the english translation might be called "scrotum breathing" , do both of these things every day and when every you feel you need and you can first learn to live abstinent and slowly after many months of daily practise, you develope your sexuality to its, what i think of as, the most natural state - just checkout the book
Great video, but I disagree slightly. Isn’t masturbation/self-pleasure good? I’ve been celibate for almost 3 years now, but self-pleasure has actually helped me along this journey… I also don’t watch porn btw.
@@RadiatingHigherI didn't mean no disrespect if that's the way you taking it. I just wanna to know if you think that's a sin for people to masturbate. I'm not saying that you be masturbated. I just wanna to know your opinion.
I don't fully understand why we shouldn't lust for someone. Yes I agree that we live in a time of lust, but also I think it's always been like that not just now. We shouldn't be lusting over every person who we find good looking or sexy and I think the tight clothing and revealing clothing can bring on a lot of these urges. Yes alcohol can cause this too and porn is terrible, especially as it gets into the hands of the young ones with the technology of today and so it's there from young ages and films and tv and even music and music videos are just as bad sometimes but why shouldn't we lust for a woman (or a man in a woman's case) that we love or we want to be with? Isn't it natural to find a person attractive and have sexual urges? We are made this way arent we? it's part of finding our spouse and its a part of reproduction, surely no one would have children if there was no lust. It doesnt mean that we are disconnected from our spiritual side, they are separate but they are both part of being human. It's just the way the Almighty made us. Yes we should learn to control it and there is a right time and place for sexual activity and it should be when a couple have a great bond and they feel happy and safe with one another and ready to step into a the next stage of a relationship or a marriage. People who are celibate are obviously not looking for that kind of love and are devoting themselves to the love of God or they may have another reason but for most of us I think that lust is important if it is understood properly and not abused. I love women and I find a lot of women attractive, it doesnt mean I'm going to start lusting for them all and when you find the person you love you have no need to look at others anymore, that's how it should be. When you find the woman you love, you don't need to lust for other women otherwise that just shows that you're not really in love and you're not devoted to that person.
You are a Beautiful Woman with a thoughtful Perspective but your Message is Unclear. I think you are misguided or unaware. Among other things, Sex is for the Propagation of the Species & the Pleasure therein is at the Core of that Expression.. Your Video Suggests that the degree of Attraction (Lust) is Evil). That Label Discounts Healthy Relationships & the Desire to Express Love! Without it We would Not Exist! Respectfully, ❤
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Some of my triggers are woman in good shape in tights, yoga pants, and bathing suits. One way I’m going to control these triggers is not looking at them. I’ve been doing that lately, I may look up and see a attractive woman but instead of trying to check her out as she’s walking away, I just focus on what I’m doing. I’ve had so much more clarity, and felt less shame by not looking at woman that way. I want a genuine connection with a woman, that’s not powered by lust. But by our energies, and characters matching. I feel so much better about myself and more confident knowing that I’m on a higher frequency.
When u try to look good for others, it means the lust is still at work at subconcious level.
Gotta overcome the thirst traps. They are at an all time high these days
True and it's quite shameful for men to thirst over half-naked women who in return will never show care of interest or acknowledge them.
You are the first woman i have ever heard that said stop masturbating. The crazy thing is, its for a good reason. The soul and body can not heal properly by doing unholy things! You have my respect 🙌 👏🏼👏🏼
There are several scriptures that express getting away from that temptation as quick as possible. One that comes to mind is 2 Timothy 2:22 - flee from youthful lusts or Proverbs 4:14-15-Avoid it, do not pass by it; turn away from it and pass on!
Hello family, hope all is well💜 Share your thoughts with me in the comments👇🏽
some insightful information/reminders spread throughout this 💯
🔮"energy is contagious"
🔮"do what you need to do"
🔮"you have to know your kryptonite"
Appreciate hearing these gems over n over again, whether here or thru other people/places i interact with💎
Thanks Nikita
Thanks for tuning in brother! ☺️🙏🏽💙
@@NikitaMaxwell I really appreciate the advice you gave us because your videos actually help me stop watching porn. God going to bless you for helping people.
Very helpful material. Good work nikita maxwell
On behalf of all men,, thank you
A very mature and necessary topic. As you said Lust is everywhere. You hit on a lot of key points. I definitely miss being on that side of the fence but I want to see what else this world has for me.
💙
@@NikitaMaxwell
I descuved you on August 28th 2023. Congratulations for *great work* to help people out to be aware of *how to lead consciently their physical body, their thoughts, their émotions and their vital energies*. Be sure you are what is needed the most for Human beings. Your energies and yours vibrations are huge and lovely. I'm learning a lot from you.
*Watch from Kinshasa D. R. Congo/ central Africa*.
*Lucaya theManofRevolution*❤
Unfortunately, technology and fake beautifying the body has taken away our spirituality, so all we are left with is "basic Instincts." God (or whomever you believe is the creator) created us to mate have offspring and live fruitful, inspiring lives! Btw, our self-induced loneliness striving for material wealth ( the "me" syndrome)is replace with this crisis to be loved or in love, then in turn leads to wanting what we see (male to female, female to male) if not propogated, desperation and anxiety takes over! Which leads to ANY opposite sexual partner will do (lust)
I've recently discovered your channel. It was right on time because I'm actually battling lust as we speak. The good thing is I've literally been practicing everything you've been preaching in this video. I slipped and fell a decent amount of times. But I can honestly say that I've never stayed down, I've always gotten back on my feet do to the MOST HIGH YAH and continued to fight. Because when it all boils down to it , it's the battle between the flesh and the spirit. Keep up the great work beautiful , shalom.
I'm afraid i can only overcome with time..ive accepted it and am patient w myself...but ive been trying for so long but always seem to relapse...only christ can heal this brokeness within me. 🙏🏽
I agree with you on the energy part and lust as well it’s very contagious you can look at a woman and find her attractive then she has energy over you
Nikita I stumble upon your channel and what you are saying is true. It's hard to overcome lust especially as a man because everything is oversexualize nowadays. Thank the good lord that I don't smoke weed or drink alcohol so I know for sure I am clean. Masterbation is something I have to overcome, but it's doable with the right mindset and exercising is a MUST to help me mentally, physically, and spiritually. Part of me wishes I can find people who are dealing with this and overcome it together.
"Came to believe that a power greater than myself can restore me to sanity..." 12 steps of AA
Much love! 5 months celibate and only fapped a few times without porn. I don't want to fap at all eventually. Sex is absolutely not a need amd we need to save our kundalini sexual energy!
You made me realize that lusting is low vibrating.. Thanks.
I saw your video and I clicked on it. Everypoint hit home, I am very greatefull for the best advice I ever received, I was not aware of everything you said to be honest. Much love I will continue to watch your videos!
Many blessings to you🙏🏽
facts tho. lust is such a basic energy and so many people are lost into it. True vulnerability and creative passion is so much more attractive, not to mention lends to way more exciting lifestyles. Porn is the worst especially
I'm tempted by you! True❤ Picies one of the most authentich souls on earth.
Overcoming lust is a tremendous challenge, specially for who is created in ocidental cultures. Everything turn around lust and sex, all our mental process is rooted in those patterns and beginning the process to avoid it is a hard exercise and we need to do it every single awake minute, including until we are sleeping rsrs. So we need to trust the process and stay tuned in the signals we intuitively took from our body and our relationships and anybody or anything who can took ourselves from our true path of peace and self-consciousness. When i fell triggered from lust, the practice of self-love, meditation and detachment is a precious key. So grateful to you for the opening to share these insights here.
Thanks, Nikita, for your eye-opening words.You're doing tremendous great work to cure a neurotic society
I am indebted for it
Public comment. Understanding body and mind and soul reflecting one inner ability to control your taught and actions base on how you procieve life. Serving the true purpose in life. Creative thinking gives Positive results. Be simple be a sample and be an example in words and taught or deeds weather physical mental or emotional self realization is the key to success. Pure taught and actions. God loves you.
Public comment. One is face with lust greed and anger false pride and attachments jealous destroy one loyalty and respect. Fulfilling your needs . No lust by don't have desire and control your mind by choosing positive taught and actions base on how you procieve life journey begins with you. Self realization is the key to success. Pure taught and actions allow you to think about life before you act. Control your senses is vital. Pray and meditation and ficus on positive thinking. Knowledge is powerful use it wisely.
I stopped sleeping with my hands on my genitals, I noticed that my hands would automatically go there so I had to consciously force my hands to go to my side. And it actually required effort. My subconscious mind wanted my hands there to arouse me during the night so I could make the same bad decision again and again.
Triggered beautiful curly haired smart woman. ❤
@NikitaMaxwell
I descuved you on August 28th 2023. Congratulations for *great work* to help people out to be aware of *how to lead consciently their physical body, their thoughts, their émotions and their vital energies*. Be sure you are what is needed the most for Human beings. Your energies and yours vibrations are huge and lovely. I'm learning a lot from you.
*Watch from Kinshasa D. R. Congo/ central Africa*.
*Lucaya theManofRevolution*❤
Call me sanctimonious but I learnt dying to self & Godly trust helped me become an over comer. Unit of ourselves we can do nothing but a TRUE relationship with Yoshua Messiah created an ongoing paradigm shift towards a wholistic way of life.
Yoshua Messiah is the answer to ALL the ills in the world today.
He admonishes all:
Come to me, all who are laden with burden & I will give you rest…
❤
Came across your page 30 minutes ago keep posting watched this one, your celibacy journey and another one just subscribed have a blessed day 🙏 keep inspiring.
I have a very high sex drive but praying an fasting has been helping I also just listen to sermons throughout the day its still very hard
It needs to be natural...otherwise u will be repressing which can lead to deviance. Try finding a partner who does not have high sex drive.
Ik ben blij dat je deze video's online hebt geplaatst. Sluit goed aan bij mijn huidige journey van semen retention. Ergens hoop ik dat je ooit weer NL vids maakt, zulke topics zijn zo nodig, chapeau voor je channel, top content👏🏿💯
This comes way harder and somehow way easier when your libido skyrockets after you start daily consistent physical exercise.
Thanks. Great info. Energy exchange - so key. This is a hard journey. I would say don't live in guilt and be guide by the Holy Spirit. You mentioned be kind to yourself. Awesome stuff.
I just found your channel
And I am grateful for that
You confirmed one more time, everything I knew from religion about woman and relationships
Thank you for sharing all this knowledge with us
Thank you for making us better man
Keep doing, big support
🙏🏽❤️ I appreciate this comment a lot. Thank you! And I’m very glad it was helpful.
Thank you for making these videos. I just found your channel and have watched a few vids; great content.
I've been run by lust for over 30 years! I've made a LOT of progress since my 20s/30s, when I had zero control, but have a lot of work to do still.
I've been cultivating a meditation/spiritual practice through Buddhist philosophy for awhile now, but whenever my frequency rises, I end up getting pulled back down by lust(and weed... just coming out of a relapse).
My main trigger is "I like big butts and I cannot lie", my kryptonite is definitely tights/shorts, and living where I do, in summer it's impossible to go anywhere without triggers everywhere.
I'm reinvigorated after finding this video though, I plan to take your advice and dig my heels in for the next few months. I'll be coming back to this video again for sure.
Namaste 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
You didn't mention fasting, and the type of food you put in your vessel because that has alot to do with how hour mind functions.
You are right brother thank you🙏🏽👑
facts bro
My triggers are everything you said in this video
This is great to hear from a woman!
Great video. Everything you share resonates. But it is challenging exploring this topic with such a beautiful woman. 😂
True Self Realization, where the Self is realized within, true love. Only when true love is realized within can you make love with another Soul. Otherwise it's just lustful sex. Romance is also lust emotionally. Only in pure love can you meet another soul in pure love. Then sex becomes love making and the Souls intertwine in true love. Otherwise it's lustful animalistic sex that is degrading. If one is meditating within focused on self realization, the energy will rise higher than lust. This is the secret. It's not dancing or exercise. It's going within and self realizing. Stop the mind. Go within. Source. True Self. It will be transcended naturally.
Our minds are compatible: Bless you
Amazing perspective and also cool That u as a women speak directly to us men
Great video! Very eye opening, even though gave up that trash a while back. Interesting
Dankjewel voor deze video weer. Jou ziel is zo mooi. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Er zijn zo weinig mensen met deze mindset. Drm zijn jou videos echt een must en belangrijk om ze zo te verdelen echt goed nikita amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾😘😘
Dankje Serano. Dat waardeer ik! Gelukkig zijn de mensen met dezelfde mindset te vinden op mijn kanaal🙏🏽💫
You opened my eyes again. Thank you
It's my first time seeing a humble cute girl who mastered her desires and I wish having a wife like that
What do you think
Is this possible?
This was very informative. Thank you!
Start the journey now.
Meditation on the Lord Jesus Wins!
This is the most difficult thing for me. I'm doing well in all other aspects of life but this is one thing i'm still trying to beat
Lessss gooo!! Transmute da tension 🌊 thank you very much Nikita!! 🙌🏾
Very true words. Thankyou.
Thank you, I recently caved and saw my ex after she sent me nudes. That was a huge trigger. Not going to let that happen again 🙏
I feel like this is an important topic, and should be discussed in school to be honest.
1 of my triggers are tits lol and food, I love boobs... But I also have a theory about breast obsession and childhood with breastfeeding or lack of how it can effect us. Our primitive response with breasts is "food, life support"... And the fact that it is censored only peaks curiosity with ego... ego says "oh that must be a big deal"... If we were all just nude all the time, we would get desensitized really fast.
Here is a pattern that I caught with myself... but first.. a man who told me once that he reads his bible and goes to church etc.... said it's ok to look, it's an act of appreciation, but the double take is adultery. And that hit home.
So I catch myself looking, and I notice my self not being so attached to the environment when I see attractive people when I don't double take since... I think it's important to appreciate this life and to appreciate the fruits. Just don't try to break a branch or take the tree home so speak .
Porn is awful and even fantasizing.. It teaches ego to be goal oriented, to desensitize with emotions, and even the titles of these videos will program the mind to automatically default in fantasizing things that are above and beyond harmful to self and others in the energy field. Kinda like going to gym to work out muscles, neural pathways, programs we operate on like a computer, will build... and most of us are building perversion and enforcing them.
We are focused on dopamine and depriving oxytocin. Love is oxytocin, lust is dopamine oriented. Karezza is where it's at. Practicing making love without orgasm, to cultivate oxytocin...
As far as masturbation goes... I feel like there's a healthy way to masturbate... without fantasy..... making love to yourself unified with God... Touching the self, gratitude, appreciating the self etc. I think that's healthy. If you can masturbate with God without orgasm as the primary goal, you can manifest self love.
We are having an experience called life, it is very subjective to a lot of us, I don't believe so much in right and wrong but cause and effect. Right and wrong to me is, does it lower or raise vibration?
We can lust food, we can lust material, we can lust anything... lust=How can that serve me, I need pleasure....
What is healthy is conscious love making in a balance practice... we can raise vibration with love making, but we can also lower it if it is lust based.
Men will wonder why they premature ejaculate or get ED... stop lusting, consume the senses with high vibrational things. This one time I met a women from Tinder, all I wanted to do was fu*k... And we did... I put it in, and took it out, one pump lol.. my ego got what it wanted. There was no emotional bonding...
God is unconditional love, we are fractals of the same being. There will aways be diversity in perception because we are at different points of spiritual evolution. I'm at a point where I'm ok with having sex, but there has to be some level of connection now. And channeling that sexual energy into another creative outlet is necessity for me.
I met my TF and making love with that woman has changed my life... we're in separation now for two knows how long but it changed my view on love making. I think when TF's make love it does something to the atmosphere's frequency that is beyond our senses. In order to come into union and harmonize with a TF, ego needs to heal a core wound in order to marriage consciousness into singularity.
If you ever do a DMT breakthrough and experience ego death, it's like having an orgasm that doesn't end without a sense of identity/self. We will continue to reincarnate until we master unconditional love I feel. I can keep typing for hours lol I love these topics. Higher states of consciousness/dimension require a certain type of graduation, and earth is a school where we come to learn, teach, play.
Great content!
Powerful words here bro👌
These videos are helping me in a tough time right now. Thank you for sharing.
You're so real for this. Thank you
Beautiful content Ma’am!! Peace,Power and Positivity!!!
Food can be lust provoking...
Glad i found your Channel❤️❤️❤I relate to all the things your speaking....thanks for the wisdom🙌
Thank you. You hit all on your list. I been struggling myself. I will try some of your suggestions. 😊
Lust is like being lost in sex, sin, $, etc.
The 7 deadly sins. Not a conspiracy theory controversy taboo/stigma, etc.
Just Imagine the 10 commandments.
About question in the end of the video: there can be a such kind of an obstacle as a lack of healthy emotional connection with parents - especially with opposite sex parent during childhood of a person. If such a person make a decision to fight his lust, it can result in loss of even this tiny little bond to opposite sex energy which lust provides to him (or her). How to fix it? Maybe only by finding a person of opposite sex which can compensate this lack of healthy emotional satisfaction. Also because of this problem in "anamnese" it can be hard to define if an opposite sex person can be suitable for such kind of relationship.
Thank you Nikita, such an important subject!
Thanks you for sharing. I love you honestly
Awesomeness ❤very true!
I have only watched two video s of you but it seems to me that you(Nikita) need to go deep into the World of spirituality. May you. soon attend your real-self....
What about the food?
Thank you verymuch! Very good content😊
Is it possible to be in a celibate relationship with a woman?How do you avoid the desire but maintaining a state of chastity.Abstaining from sex is challenging but necessary for men.I also believe that the sexual manipulation of men by women could be stopped by averting eyes away from the woman when she in the state sexual energy and men watching.As i have matured i have embraced sexual abstinence and could possibly remain in the state of permanent celibacy.I have abstained for four years from sex and have discovered that i like having platonic relationships with women.
There’s almost absolutely no way to overcome lust looking at beautiful women like you my God😫
Nikita you are so correct thank you love you🤗.
If I could put 100 likes on here, I definitely would.
That was excellent. You are very wise and I am positive you are helping a lot of people. Thank you !!
This video is spot on, thank you!
looking at you talk about how to overcome lust is like looking at an icecream cone talking about how to overcome vanilla
I need to avoid weed and drinking .. when I’m high all sexual fantasies come to life lol
Being sober and abstinence go hand in hand
@@jasonm42 🙏 your definitely right
Thank you. Another great video.
How long do you recommend cutting it out? I agree with quitting mindless lustful activities but real intimacy with a lover? That's a gift from the God's
It sure is a gift❤️🔥 But the goal is to cultivate that sexual energy and redirect it. Trying to understand your own sexual energy and urges. Thats difficult to do if you have sex every day or a couple of days per week. Try 30 days :)
You and these damn thumbnails be getting me.
Hello 🙏🏽, this is the type of truth that is part of the blue print of how to become your best self each and every single day.
I totally agree with everything that was said and would like add the following
To be mindful of what you feed your spirit with ( through eyesight, what you listening,and how you spend your time…)
ENERGY FLOWS WHERE ATTENTION GOES.
Spend most of your energy in things that elevate you: empowering thought, self-care , work on your passion,meditate, workout, learn a new skill…fill up your schedule with activities that makes you a better version of yourself, and by doing so , Lust will have less power over you because you keep for the most part your vibrations high, and Lust has more power over you when you keep your vibrations low.
As for ➡️smoking weed :
In the process of elevating your vibe it would be good to stop smoking, but just remember that smoking ain’t bad for you…you just gotta be mindful about the state of your energy when you smoke and keep your whereabouts in high vibrations activities…
You will come to realize how weed can promote creativity when working on your passion, and promote Lust when the time is spent doing nothing productive and looking at the wrong content on social media & internet .
What does weed have too do with lust ? Just a question 🧐
I think my triggers are weed social media tbh the main ones
444views...As always, ur videos are always so helpful to me, ur really an Angle😌 to me who keeps me guided In my life. Thank u so much❤🧚🏾♂️✨
444😍✨I have been seeing that everywhere lately. And it’s my pleasure brother😊🙏🏽❤️💫
@@NikitaMaxwell ❤🙏🏾✨
@nikitamaxwell where are you from? I can't place your accent?!! I'm usually good with that...
Wise and inspiring❤
Can I be a contrarian here, somewhat. I truly appreciate what you say, the spirit etc.
But one cannot stop looking...objects come into our fields of vision! I know many monks are instructed to guard their sight, but I dont want to. That seems perverse to me. I hope to be able to look normally but not crave or "lust after"...do you know what I mean...? That is not impossible is it? Or is the argument: oh we are too weak in the beginning, so we must perforce control our looking?
What is the evidence that people in healthy loving - and intimate - relationships have problems with their bodies or minds? The world would cease functioning normally, no? 😮😊
Thanks! Has anyone overcome lust to control it and use it when necessary?
Or is it a one way street? How to quit smoking
new thoughts lead to new actions leading to new habits
so yes and no as a male its very different females can just stop and are good our body stilll produces millions of seed everyday and they want out and you need to use and redirect that energy quite conscioussly to avoid this biological urge to take over and to avoid wet dreams, mantak chia talks about this on youtube but also in his book "Taoist Secrets of Love"
he basicly starts with recommending to train the muscles around the perineum and and something in the english translation might be called "scrotum breathing" , do both of these things every day and when every you feel you need and you can first learn to live abstinent and slowly after many months of daily practise, you develope your sexuality to its, what i think of as, the most natural state - just checkout the book
Great video, but I disagree slightly. Isn’t masturbation/self-pleasure good? I’ve been celibate for almost 3 years now, but self-pleasure has actually helped me along this journey… I also don’t watch porn btw.
I wanna ask you a question @RadiatingHigher do you think that when a person masturbated are sinning?
@@Jaygame28 No I do not.
@@RadiatingHigherSo you don't think it's bad to masturbate.
@@RadiatingHigherI didn't mean no disrespect if that's the way you taking it. I just wanna to know if you think that's a sin for people to masturbate. I'm not saying that you be masturbated. I just wanna to know your opinion.
Can you make video about karmic relationships?
I will hopefully soon❤️💫
Thank you.
Excellent❤
Make more videos Nikita love ❤❤❤
I don't fully understand why we shouldn't lust for someone. Yes I agree that we live in a time of lust, but also I think it's always been like that not just now. We shouldn't be lusting over every person who we find good looking or sexy and I think the tight clothing and revealing clothing can bring on a lot of these urges. Yes alcohol can cause this too and porn is terrible, especially as it gets into the hands of the young ones with the technology of today and so it's there from young ages and films and tv and even music and music videos are just as bad sometimes but why shouldn't we lust for a woman (or a man in a woman's case) that we love or we want to be with? Isn't it natural to find a person attractive and have sexual urges? We are made this way arent we? it's part of finding our spouse and its a part of reproduction, surely no one would have children if there was no lust. It doesnt mean that we are disconnected from our spiritual side, they are separate but they are both part of being human. It's just the way the Almighty made us. Yes we should learn to control it and there is a right time and place for sexual activity and it should be when a couple have a great bond and they feel happy and safe with one another and ready to step into a the next stage of a relationship or a marriage. People who are celibate are obviously not looking for that kind of love and are devoting themselves to the love of God or they may have another reason but for most of us I think that lust is important if it is understood properly and not abused. I love women and I find a lot of women attractive, it doesnt mean I'm going to start lusting for them all and when you find the person you love you have no need to look at others anymore, that's how it should be. When you find the woman you love, you don't need to lust for other women otherwise that just shows that you're not really in love and you're not devoted to that person.
What is normal , NORM - AL. ....NORM - standard, pattern, model.
yes, cut off the wrong people out of your lives.
What if u are a scorpio sun,moon,rissing and venus ......😅
I am a Scorpio sun, and rising but I’ve been abstaining for a year and have been using my energy to build my life up. It’s possible
For the algorithm
Music is a big trigger for me
cant make a video about overcoming list without being that said lust can ya? Lol 👀 nice shirt 😆👌🏾
My problem is when I’m bored I become more lustfull
Fill your life up more, move around. Being idle, especially in the beginning is the number one way to relapse back into temptation
@@jasonm42 fasho thanks bro
My main trigger is lifting weights. I turn into an animal.
Love ur vids, but its kinda hard overcoming Lust seeing *ehem* that teasing top😈😂
You are a Beautiful Woman with a thoughtful Perspective but your Message is Unclear. I think you are misguided or unaware. Among other things, Sex is for the Propagation of the Species & the Pleasure therein is at the Core of that Expression.. Your Video Suggests that the degree of Attraction (Lust) is Evil). That Label Discounts Healthy Relationships & the Desire to Express Love! Without it We would Not Exist! Respectfully, ❤
Thanks