Beyond the Stereotypes: The Real Story of Nigerian Men Today
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.พ. 2025
- A Shift in Traditional Roles
From breadwinners to equal partners: Examining how societal expectations for men are evolving
The impact of feminism and gender equality on traditional gender roles
Exploring the rise of men actively participating in domestic chores and childcare
Breaking Stereotypes
Highlighting successful and progressive Nigerian men who are defying traditional roles
The rise of male empowerment movements challenging harmful masculinity
Encouraging a more nuanced understanding of Nigerian men
Why Nigerian 🇳🇬 Men Are in HIGH DEMAND!
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The truth is that Nigerian men were brought up to take care of women. We have this belief that the wort of man is his ability to take care of their family. Date a Nigerian man, show him respect and he will buy you the world 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬
When Nigerian men come outside, other men step aside.
Nigerian men are top of the food chain. It has nothing to do with Ghanian, Cameroonian or any other men. It is simply what it is
Ever since I have been living in Ghana🇬🇭 I've never seen a Ghana man buy someone a bottle of beer before, those men can be stingy to the core
Why should we buy you alcohol to destroy your liver? How in the world is that even a good thing?
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You are so right...Me in my 5 years living in Ghana I've never seen a single Ghanaian man buy 1 bottle of beer 🍺 and drink it alone, they're usually about 3 to 4 sharing a bottle of beer and later top it up with kai-kai which they call akpeteshi
And why should we buy you alcohol, knowing very well it will destroy your liver?
Chioma, your analysis is on point. Am a Nigerian and I appreciate the way you analysed this particular issue. 😊
This chi chi too get sense ....you are an epitome of womanhood...na only woman fit look you for face tell you truth about wetin you never even see....and thats if she cares about you .
She don give us the best of both sides by us i mean nigeira , ghana , cameroon , southafrica and ivory coast....she showers us love with a sprinkle of wotowoto and boy i am loving it ....good job madam.
The most important part of this video is the Advice you gave girls/women at the end.... weldone ❤️
Thank God Chichi has agreed she's not single😂😂😂😂
Watching from Spain as usual...
watching from London, ghanaians second name na stigen 😂
It's culture in Nigeria to take care of women. Growing up my mother taught me the importance of taking care of my sisters & protecting them. While already independent & making money I took full responsibility; their upkeeps, school fees, pocket moneys, clothing, and all that. So, it's natural that you'll do the same for your girlfriend or wife.
In Igbo culture, man's level of wealth is determined by the appearance of his wife/girl; be it expensive jewelry, clothes, cars & generally anything that makes a woman look good.
Igbo are considered best in terms of spending on their wives. It's cultural thing - I guess.
For Ghanaians, it's more or less absence of wherewithal/money besides cultural thing. However, in terms of physical affection (sex & romance) I give it to the Ghanaians. They know how to obey women, like literally doing everything for a woman BUT cash & gifts.
@@jacamara7612They know how to OBEY women? Ok o.
Her topic is about Nigeria men not Ghana men
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You understand Nigerian men!!😁😄 Lol..TRUST ME!! Darling Lyonga Chioma"..there are MANY Nigerian men watching this channel and are "silent" I pray the RIGHT one locates you and "puts a ring on it"...😊😇
It's a culture in Nigeria. You don't have to be rich to try to impress the woman. Even the hustler try to compete in this ministry and many have ended poor because of this attitude. In a general context, a Nigerian man knows how to spoil a woman, the women who are saying this have the experience first hand
As usual, we listen and we don't judge
....bad guy.
Brotherhood is proud of you.😂😂😂😂
Hopefully Nigeria man will marry you
Word on marble. " a relatuonship is not poverty elevation scheme"
Money talk 👄 it's love of money 💰 🤑 💸 💯 not real love
You spoke very well, women shouldnt come out wanting to compare men over how much they spend on them. This is making them very entitled. Why not they also spend on thier man too. Everybody should go and work their own money. All this unneccesary generalizatuon to me is not healthy.
You are awesome. I like your mindset, very different from the pack
@Darling lyonga you missed her context, she said she needs the full package not necessarily the cash only but admitted that money was part of it.
Caring was her top element.
Na pure Nigeria girl Ghanaians should not claim her oo😂
Please Darling, talk about the ongoing beef between Burna Boy and Cubana Chief Priest. Pleasesssss.
African women talk about Nigerian men - good or bad. No one talks about Ghanaian men. They need to stop forcing the issue. It seems they are forcing people to mention Ghanaian men by comparing them with Nigerian men. There was a Ghanaian guy in Kenya who made a video asking Kenyan women to pick between a Nigerian and Ghanaian men. Most of the Kenyan women told him they don’t know much about Ghanaian men. It’s like he wants Ghanaian men to trend using Nigerian men. This jollof rice banter has suddenly turned everything in to comparing things, which is annoying and unnecessary. It’s obvious, both countries are not on the same level. It’s like night and day.
😂😂😂😂😂 so who is night and who is day😂😂😂😂
@@bestekezie1793Nigeria is on level 100, Ghana is on level 1…
Everything is not about Nigerians
Without Nigeria, nobody outside Ghana will know that they exist. They have to continue piggybacking on Nigeria to stay in the limelight.
@@sean-et4wr did you know nigeria is poorer than countries like Gambia, Senegal, Mali, Benin, Togo, Cameroon? LOL
Good job 👍❤🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬
Nice
She is not the only woman that has said Ghanaian men are stingy. What’s funny is these Ghanaian men are saying they are not stingy, it’s just that they don’t have the money, yet they have the audacity to call Nigeria poor..😂😂..people are beginning to realize that Ghana was overrated due to year of the return. The small country has nothing to offer. The reason Africans in the diaspora went to Ghana years ago is partly because of Afrobeats, and who dominates Afrobeats? Nigeria. Also, Nigerian artists were spending their time there, because Lagos was to noisy and crowded.
Have you noticed that for the last three years that Nigerian artists have stopped going to Ghana, the patronage by the diaspora has reduced? Any little recognition Ghana had in the past is because of Nigeria. The moment Nigeria decides to stop paying Ghana any attention, the small country is done, because no African country pays Ghana any attention, even its partner in crime South Africa don’t pay them any attention.
Partner in crime 😅😅😅😅😅 u wicked
You are very funny 😂, in the end how many Ghanaians do you see coming to Nigeria to hustle? We see the other way round🤫🤫
Lies, plenty Ghanaians dey my area here for Ibadan. And we treat them well.@@diamondmix9939
@@diamondmix9939U are definitely not exposed. There are thousands of Ghanaians hustling in Nigeria. A lot of them have even quietly blended in as if they're Nigerian.
You're a bad boy 😂😂😂
@sean-et4wr so who is night and who is day😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤. I don't like the comparison either its giving too much tension
It is all in fun... Don't take it too seriously.
Yeah, for that part, beautiful women always! Always! Always! Feel entitled. Like kilode, what is all this? Because you're fine, means you are entitled to everything you desire. I hate this part. No one is entitled to anything, you only get what you either deserve or what I feel like giving you, fine girls please get that into you head.
Fineness needs to be maintained. If you're not up to the task set aside and stop whining
Interesting 🤔🧐
Because we ddnt want them that his why ,his not by force to like them 😅
How can you take a woman out on a date and you want her to pay for the food she eat, or how can your girlfriend come to visit you and you can't give her some money for transportation? We Nigerian men are good at all these that is why women all around the world love Nigerian men,unlike some men from Banku nation and Sad African men. 🤣😭😂😭🤣😭😂😃😂😭🤣😭😂😭🤣😂
Why is West Africans always competing amongst themselves. Instead of coming together to help each other and why is Cameroon, Senegal, and the rest of west African countries not mentioned.
Where there's no regard for hierarchy, there can never be unity. imagine a small country like Ghana that is not up to 3 states in Nigeria, trying to rub shoulders with Nigeria.😂
@@margaretwumi751 they have never done anything for Nigeria it's always Nigeria doing for Ghana.. Ghana needs Nigeria.. Nigeria doesn't need Ghana.
YVONNE OKORO IS A NIGERIAN. HER FATHER IS NIGERIAN AND HER MOTHER IS GHANAIAN. SHE IS A NIGERIAN. Yvonne is an Igbo woman.
Okoro na Igbo name
Ghana is a matriarchal society so its common to go with mothers side
You are right 👍 but she is Nigeria
@@truethots3088 Depends on the ethnicity.
I am a Nigerian, but I will not just give you money because you are a woman. Only give your exceptional girlfriend or wife money. I am with Ghanaians on this one.
Cameroon men and Ghanaian men are on the same bracket .. 😂
Who Dey even talk about Cameroon men? Those one are coupe de cale you know dem ones 😂
Cameroon men aren't stingy at all but the problem with them is that they don't save a dime from any money they make, they spend their money on alcohol and wears. They're drunkards but ain't stingy
Looks like the entire continent is in need of masculine men because sadly Nigeria can’t cater to the entire continent plus the diaspora
Don't worry we can handle that. You remember me when we used to give Ghanaians gbas gbos in African Tigress channel 2 to 3 years ago with my old TH-cam channel with the name David Cecconi
@ oh yes I remember, how you dey nie?
I lived with them , they Save 1 dollar
Really
Have you dated a Ghanaian man before? Shuuu people with experience are talking
My sister, it's now time for you to get married and have kids. You are not looking any younger. Do it now before your eggs harden
cant you talk about something? Nigerian this, Nigeria that
Did you setup your platform for Ghanaian people. Why you always talk about Ghana having squabbling with Nigerians. Why don't you talk your own Country Cameroon 🇨🇲
Nigeria culture about Nigeria man different from other man whether you rich or not your responsible is to take care your wife your children bcuz you are d king in that family your wife is queen of your family when things wrong your man is work to correct it that Nigerian man work my child most better than me that Nigerian man thinking 🤔 mind
What is this Ghanaian-Nigerian identity card?
Shior!
Why Ghana Man should be throwing money 💰 to women. Any hard working person wouldn't throw money like that .some I say some Nigerians I mean not all some are really thief ,419,drug money,kidnappers,some kills and some do juju Man.Ghanain are different
😅😅😅😅 yeah saint Ghanaians. We all live in Saturn. We are not earthlings, so we don't know what goes on in Ghana. Abeg go one corner.
419 IS CALLED SAKAWA IN GHANA. SOME OF YOUR STUDENTS RECENTLY FALSIFIED THEIR SCHOOL RESULTS AND SCAMMED A UNIVERSITY OVER 300000 THOUSANDS DOLLARS IN THE US. MY GHANIAN BROTHER, STOP FOOLING YOURSELF. 1MILLION DOLLARS CASH WAS FOUND IN THE HOUSE OF ONE OF YOUR MPs, HE SAID THE MONEY BELONGS TO HIS BROTHER WHEN HE WAS ARRESTED BY THE POLICE. YOU CANT LECTURES, I CAN GO AHEAD AND GIVE YOU FACTS ABOUT GHANA BUT IT IS NOT NECESSARY. WE ARE NOT JEALOUS OR ENVIOUS ABOUT PEOPLE'S SUCCESS YOU GHANIANS AND SAD AFRICANS
Says the poor man 👨 😂😂😂😂😂
@@chriskewe4238we are clean 🇬🇭
Ghanaman, it's more cultural in Nigerian major cultures to take care of your woman. To marry in Nigeria whether Igbo or Yoruba, you are like pleading to take the woman from her parents with a promise to take good care of her showering her and her family with gifts to show you are capable. For Hausa or Fulani cultures, men get beaten in the course of the marriage rites and men who dont betray their emotions i.e cry are deemed as "man enough" to protect and take care of the woman. You miss the point when you talk of drug or kidnapper money bla bla as reason to spend on a woman
This Cameroon woman TH-camr is shallow minded. She just sycophants and just need Nigerians to subscribe her TH-cam.she lack maturity 😊 and content.
Niqqa dey hate on her😂
You are a grown up nincompoop for saying that.
She is demon always trying to set fights among 2 countries
Looks like the entire continent is in need of masculine men because sadly Nigeria can’t cater to the entire continent plus the diaspora
@sean-et4wr so who is night and who is day😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤. I don't like the comparison either its giving too much tension