This was hard to watch but you are so very good at interviewing. I felt each person had their own story to tell. Quite heartbreaking to see so many lives made so much harder simply because of their sexuality. Love this series Riyadh. :)
If you're not prepared for your child to be anything, whether thats LGBTQ+, or disabled, or a part of any other marginalised group, than you shouldn't be having children.
Why wouldn't you be the one to enlighten him right now? I am sure you could provide some decent arguments on why being a LGBTQ is totally fine and why exactly parents should be OK with the fact that their child is a disgrace for them. Act, please.
If SIlent were someone in my life then I would be more than happy to, and I have engaged in many discussions and debates with homophobic people in the past. From my experience, there is a fine line between educating people and fueling anger and division between opposing sides of LGBTQ+ issues, and I don't feel comfortable handling such a delicate balance on the internet where my words may be misinterpreted.
i'm really glad they talked with a bisexual person, i feel like we always get ignored in this sort of thing when bi people are such an active and important part of the community
If your pan, bi, ace or anything that's not gay or trans then we're often ignored in these sorts of things. I'm bi and I know how it feels to not have representation.
I would love to have that little apartment where no one knew me! I'd stay there with all my books, keep it clean and not get involved with anyone. I can't understand his sadness!
Riyadh, you conduct your interviews, and present these videos with such grace, intelligence, and compassion. You are amazing. Thank you, from Dongguan City, China
'turning gay' I think you need to educate yourself on sexuality and how it is hardwired from birth. It's not people 'turning gay', it's more people feeling like they can say they are gay due to less fear of being killed or violence etc.
All we want is equality, and yet somehow it's made to be so complicated. We don't care if you don't give a fuck, we just don't want to receive abuse because of it.
It's not about knowing we "exist", it's about fighting hate. I don't see those Christian activists in America protesting about straight people and saying they're going to Hell. Gay prides usually promote love and acceptance, big difference.
Kamuro Tetsu because they believe Man was designed for women only wich btw is correct and why should they accept something thats clearly wrong and disgusting? and i didnt know taking something up the arse is love lmfao 😂😂
I didn't know there was this situation in the UK and Ireland. Now I realize how lucky I am. I'm from the south of Spain, where we're supposed to be a little more traditional than the rest of the country, and I've never had to come out. I've always felt safe and accepted. I'm very sorry for this people and I hope their situation will improve soon.
differentboy96 well I guess there might be some people in Spain who suffer from a homophobic situation. But fortunately, during my short lifetime, I've never met anyone yet.
It actually really warms my heart that you see these people and with such kind eyes. Parental rejection can get internalised. You can loose your sense of self- rejecting yourself over and over again. If you dont feel like you belong inside, it is hard to feel like you belong outside, in the world. Homelessness is horrible. There is no comfort, inside or out. I hope these people find better days - and find a space in themselves to love and protect. Sounds woo-woo but I know what I mean.
Its moments like this when you realise just how fucking lucky you are. It makes you think about all the people who love and accept you and how much they have done for you in simply being there for you. With out those people who knows where I would be.
Anfaz that's not truth this is the best decay in lgbt of all this years.I'm aware that asshole continue and will continue to exist but there is a lot of freedom
With the advancement of robot-human technology, we'll definitely live to see less hate in the future. I know my comment sounds like a joke, but I'm serious....
I really love this series. Its greatly eye opening and I connect with it in so many ways. The presenter is great too.. and cant wait to see him grow and expand into the industry.
This series is so important, and Riyadh! Whoa! I have watched some of your videos before, but the curiosity, sensitivity and pure kindness you show in this episode especially is blowing me away.
Thank you for this amazing series! I hope to see more! It is very similar here, in America. As a Gay man in my later 50's, I hope this series will include more people over 40, as we are part of the Gay Community, as well.
This was hard to watch but it has made me appreciate more how grateful I am to live where I do and feel safe to be myself as I am a non-binary trans guy as well as being able to show affection to my boyfriend in public. Having a few friends who are loving and supportive no matter what can make such a huge difference, and I'm glad that this past year I have found these people. I really hope people become more accepting of those who are LGBTQ+ as no one deserves to be made homeless for being who they are.
I just ran into your series by accident and I'm watching my third video. I'm American, and of course, we have our own set of problems here, but it seems to me that in England the situation is far worse for LGBTQ+. I will continue to watch all your other episodes. Thank you for producing these.
Cesar Holguin Holguin actually,the uk is better than America when it comes to LGBT issues.they do have anti gay groups but they are not as powerful as the ones in America.
To all the LGBT community I love you so much, I am straight and I will defend you with all my heart, no one should treat anyone this way, you are beautiful the way you are and I believe that God is love and He loves you, no matter what the stupid religious leaders out there say.
I don't know what devastates me more - the fact how these people have been treated, or the fact that I was so lucky with an understanding and loving home, and to so many this is not given.
Though it was only a second, I immediately recognized John's ringtone and it's Born This Way. Er Mer Gerd. Why do we live in this world where people can't accept others for being...just human?
Heart breaking💔 As an out married lesbian who has never experienced homophobia This breaks my heart I want to scoop them up and help them ALL When you've been privileged enough to not go through it you kind of forget it happens and it's very real I'm sorry people go through this Would love to know how I could do more to help Love to all ❤️
This series is so eye opening and it really plays on my heart strings. I am a straight Irish stereotypical 19 year old teenager with different personal issues of my own, and this series really really makes me teary and really puts a deep pain in my chest. The way these people are forced to live their lives, purely because of their sexuality is so heartbreaking. Sexuality does not define a person, and even if it did, being straight does not make you any more superior than anyone else. We are all human beings. Being born an LGBTQ+ person should not be shamed or looked down on, and its so sad that even in today's world, sexuality has been such a cause of pain to these people. It's horrific. Riyadh is really doing an amazing job of drawing attention to these issues, and is amazing for starting a conversation around the issues these people have to face on a day to day bases. Its so taboo, that as a straight irish female, i didn't even realise some of the issues mentioned in this series existed. This should be the type of stuff thats taught in schools, and it should be mended and prevented. Well Done Riyadh, you really have blown my mind with this series, and probably have helped thousands, if not millions of people around the world! Truly AMAZING
it warms my heart when Riyadh compares his coat and gloves with Damien's. It is very considerate and kind of Riyadh and he is doing a splendid job!!👏🏿👏🏼👏👏🏾👏🏼👏🏻
this is really some heavy stuff. good job BBC three for the v informative documentary.... and if any of y'all r having a tough time here in the comments section just know that faith hope love and compassion will lead you to the right places... pls spread the same thing as well!♥️
it's a huge issue, there and here in the US. I have several times. From alcoholic parents, to my own spiral into addiction on the streets to escape the hate and this self-medicating, affecting my employment, and housing.
im so scared to come out. my mums accepting but my family and school arent. im in fear every waking moment that my house will get egged again that ill step out the house and be stalked. this documentary helped me so much, im on the way to tell my mum right now this is a step in the right direction.
Im in year 9 and Im trangender. For the past 3 years, I've had all sorts of things said to me, done to me and thrown at me. Its shit. Its absolutly shit that school kids and random people are like that and its caused me to do stuff I wish I never tryed to do the first time.
The Wacko Green alien I'm so sorry that you've suffered that. try your hardest to turn the bad into something good. you'll be how you want to be soon, stay strong, focus on your future, your not alone in this.
Dez Lotto? Whoever you are? Whatever anyone did to hurt you and make you this screwed up, that you have to beat down someone who's already been beaten down just to feel better about yourself? I apologise on their behalf.
thanks for bringing this to light I haven't seen your channel in a little while but you have amazing parents and I don't know why or what went wrong with all these other people who are homeless I really thought people were more open in Britain or Scotland or Ireland I had no clue people were that prejudice there it's quite a shame thanks for bringing this to light for all these people have to hide in the shadows it's not right and it's not fair I had no clue it was like this there. you're brilliant Riyadh take care of my friend
The interviewer told the young blonde woman, Christina, she likely wouldn't survive homelessness. He isn't a longtime acquaintance of hers and therefore doesn't truly know her. We all become stronger when in harsher environments. The woman is already living with low self-esteem and self-doubt. Change in life is constant. If ever she does seem to be heading toward further poverty and possible homelessness in future that statement will negatively effect her thinking and self-esteem more each day. There was no need to say such a negative thing to her. He's meant to be encouraging to these individuals not to plant further seeds of insecurity and worthlessness or hopelessness. At the very least BBC should have edited out that part of their conversation.
KandakeAmanirenas_and_MatriarchalChoctaw Im afraid that particular interviewer has a habit of condescension, he is not universally loved by the lgbt community here in Ireland.. trust me
jack henderson it's important to recognize the unhappy topics as well. obviously it gets better, but you should not try to ignore the real issues... that's why all these people are homeless... people don't want to talk about or hear about these situations... life is not all sunshine and butterflies... we should all recognize that these issues exist... and actually do something to help these people...
jack henderson I understand where you are coming from as I am a Journalism Graduate, but first I'd like to correct your misconceptions there is nothing "obvious" about this being targeted to a broad demographic... Infact BBC II! is an online only OTT service, it's not a TV Channel. The primary demographic is 16 to 34 year olds, within the United Kingdom, which is In fact, an extremely narrow segment of the population. Interestingly enough, the target demographic also happens to be the same group most likely to already be accepting of LGBTQ+ individuals. I am gay, 33 years old, and from Canada.... also as a side note, all episodes have already been recorded weeks ago. there's little likelihood of any changes to the 6 episodes. Journalism was probably a waste of money, not a waste of time as long as you went to a good school... but research skills should be second nature to you. ;-) good luck with your career.
I met a homeless trans to be in my local centre at the end of last year. She performed a poem to my wife and I, we gave her some money and I tried to give some guidance from my personal experience of being on the streets. She'd done all I could advise anyway. I have used she out of respect, in order to avoid hassle she was keeping to her original male appearance while on the streets, in itself that must have been tough. It was different for me, I hadn't been shamed, just kicked out. Because of this I could pull myself out of the situation more easily. I actually saw getting away from the place of my birth where I knew people as an escape. We're all different. The opposite of bravery, has always been conformity - Powerman 5000 If you want a cowardly child push them to conform against their nature. If you are a coward push them away. If you have courage and want your child to have the same, accept them for who they are and be there for them. I disagree on the statement that if you don't come from a loving environment you cannot give one. My wife and I both came from chains of this. We decided it had to stop with us, it's hard but worth it. My son has ripped my heart out on a number of occasions because he is loved and knows it. Net result is someone I am immensely proud of. He's unsure on his sexuality at the moment, finding some characteristics of both genders appealing. As such he declares himself bisexual, I think his mature approach to this is brilliant. He will never be on the streets while either his Mun or I are alive and he knows it.
This is so sad to watch. I really feel bad for them. Family must be the first to love and accept them but it turned out that they are the first who can't accept what they are. I want to give them a big hug for their strength for keeping their lives. A big salute for them 👏
Homelessness sucks. No one should ever have to go through it. But here's the contradiction: a very small minority of people _choose_ this option. They take a brain storm. They can no longer take all the endless bills, the mortgage, the relentless pressure of working most of your life just to _have_ a home, something in them snaps, and they walk. Next time you walk past a beggar, or a 'tramp' just ponder this: Who's the real slave?
I feel like there should be a free program for homophobic parents whose child is LGBTQ+ where they learn how to accept their children. Not force them to be pro-gay but to be able to accept and love their children as much as a straight child.
Agree but not just for parents. can be difficult for a loved one to come to terms with. A supportive place where they can come to terms with, and learn the best way to support their child/loved one. All parents want what is best for their children.
A REAL parent will always choose their child over some religion or society imaginary rule. Parents would die for their kids. This ia what the real bond of nature and love is like. Shame on those parents for failing their kids.
At 21:31... I love that . lol "#ISawYourDadOnGrindr".So true. It's usually the most homophobic people who are questioning their sexuality or are possibly gay. It's a deflection absolutely. This is an awesome documentary and I love all of your documentary segments And full documentaries.
I really hope all of these beautiful people feel at least a little better today and that if not, they will get to a better place soon. I wish them all the best.
You know, this is all really important and it's never discussed. The world needs more empathy... I'm the sort to try to solve every problem I come across, and I think that Universal Basic Income would really dramatically help people in situations like this everywhere. If everyone was given $1000 US a month, about 900 Euros, and had universal healthcare, then this would be so much better. Even if you were kicked out of your home for your LGBT identity, you could still get medicine, still get food, and even afford a place to live... With your basic needs met, you can not have your life so dramatically hampered by this. Homelessness could practically disappear, I think.
thank you so much for making these I'm really enjoying them I hope these episodes will help in creating a safer more loving and accepting environment for lgbt+ people
keep doing your good work. Awareness is the key to the journey to acceptance. Things are so different here in California. Not perfect, but a lot of acceptance. I now have friends who are gay partners. My wife and I love them dearly. That was not the case 20 years ago. I've changed. So must the world.
If a oarent can kick a child out just because they are LGBTQIA then they dont desrvre to be parents the scumbags,idgaf what theor views are you love your child unconditionally
imo i did not think it was rude he was simply being honest..as he thought he would receive a negative reaction(lucky riyadh still has his family) and end up on the streets like Damian... who was shunned by his own family!
It breaks my heart to see these people having it so tough.I wish I had lots and lots of money to help these people feel better about themselves.Maybe if they felt better about themselves then maybe they can do something with their lives.Having a healthy mindset can do wonders for a person especially if they were given a chance.
I feel so sad that there are people out there who would kick their child out just because they are not straight. That is awful beyond awful. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being LGBTQ+ . The world would be so boring if everyone was straight!!
Thank you to the amazing people who shared their stories with us. Episode 3 is a tough but important watch.
Riyadh K congratulations on this fantastic series; I really enjoy watching your work!
This was hard to watch but you are so very good at interviewing. I felt each person had their own story to tell. Quite heartbreaking to see so many lives made so much harder simply because of their sexuality. Love this series Riyadh. :)
Well, this put quite a few tears in my eyes.
Honestly I really love your compassion in all these videos. You seem very genuine, keep it up! :)
Glad you dropped the fur trim of your coat x
If you're not prepared for your child to be anything, whether thats LGBTQ+, or disabled, or a part of any other marginalised group, than you shouldn't be having children.
Lauren Ray I'm having kids and they end up on the street if they gay
silent Not willing to argue, hope that someone in your life enlightens you x
Why wouldn't you be the one to enlighten him right now? I am sure you could provide some decent arguments on why being a LGBTQ is totally fine and why exactly parents should be OK with the fact that their child is a disgrace for them. Act, please.
If SIlent were someone in my life then I would be more than happy to, and I have engaged in many discussions and debates with homophobic people in the past. From my experience, there is a fine line between educating people and fueling anger and division between opposing sides of LGBTQ+ issues, and I don't feel comfortable handling such a delicate balance on the internet where my words may be misinterpreted.
Sorry to ask but what does the Q+ mean?
"No matter what you are, someone will always pick something.." So sadly true. Shame on us, society.
this series is so inspirational and eye opening, really needs to be shown to kids in schools
I agree. My teacher said there is nothing in the curriculum about being lgbtq at all!
yup, just straight, cis peeps
i'm really glad they talked with a bisexual person, i feel like we always get ignored in this sort of thing when bi people are such an active and important part of the community
If your pan, bi, ace or anything that's not gay or trans then we're often ignored in these sorts of things. I'm bi and I know how it feels to not have representation.
littlelucy yeah! 💖💜💙
Nobody got beheaded for being 'ace', get outta here.
I agree, I am a bisexual/queer female and proud🌈💖💜💙
I’m bisexual and neurodivergent male who came out to my mom and sister ❤😊
is it just me or did anyone else just want to give John a really big hug when he said he felt lonely and isolated :(
i did..felt so sorry for him..i hope he is doing okay
I would love to have that little apartment where no one knew me! I'd stay there with all my books, keep it clean and not get involved with anyone. I can't understand his sadness!
Riyadh, you conduct your interviews, and present these videos with such grace, intelligence, and compassion. You are amazing. Thank you, from Dongguan City, China
That was extremely touching but also very important.
gay people don't seem to bother anyone, why can't straight people just live and let live...
'turning gay'
I think you need to educate yourself on sexuality and how it is hardwired from birth. It's not people 'turning gay', it's more people feeling like they can say they are gay due to less fear of being killed or violence etc.
All we want is equality, and yet somehow it's made to be so complicated. We don't care if you don't give a fuck, we just don't want to receive abuse because of it.
Poseidon DCUO tell us more, how does it affect you
It's not about knowing we "exist", it's about fighting hate. I don't see those Christian activists in America protesting about straight people and saying they're going to Hell. Gay prides usually promote love and acceptance, big difference.
Kamuro Tetsu because they believe Man was designed for women only wich btw is correct and why should they accept something thats clearly wrong and disgusting? and i didnt know taking something up the arse is love lmfao 😂😂
I didn't know there was this situation in the UK and Ireland. Now I realize how lucky I am.
I'm from the south of Spain, where we're supposed to be a little more traditional than the rest of the country, and I've never had to come out. I've always felt safe and accepted.
I'm very sorry for this people and I hope their situation will improve soon.
differentboy96 well I guess there might be some people in Spain who suffer from a homophobic situation. But fortunately, during my short lifetime, I've never met anyone yet.
It actually really warms my heart that you see these people and with such kind eyes.
Parental rejection can get internalised. You can loose your sense of self- rejecting yourself over and over again. If you dont feel like you belong inside, it is hard to feel like you belong outside, in the world.
Homelessness is horrible. There is no comfort, inside or out. I hope these people find better days - and find a space in themselves to love and protect. Sounds woo-woo but I know what I mean.
Line of the episode:
"No matter what you are someone will always find something to pick on you about"
Makes me feel better about myself!
Its moments like this when you realise just how fucking lucky you are. It makes you think about all the people who love and accept you and how much they have done for you in simply being there for you. With out those people who knows where I would be.
Yep, I'm so grateful for my family and friends
God bless Rick and Tasha and all the out reach workers.
Damian was an ex of mine from years ago.He was a sweet guy. I found out today that he passed away on the streets. Rest his soul
Jake Furness How did you find out?
This is common in the US as well. Thank you for doing a vlog on this.
Makes me sad that people can be so hateful. I hope that in the future humans can be themselves without getting hate
Yeah, good thing is that the tide is turning, you will see more and more homophobia around in the coming years.
Anfaz that's not truth this is the best decay in lgbt of all this years.I'm aware that asshole continue and will continue to exist but there is a lot of freedom
do you mean less and less?
With the advancement of robot-human technology, we'll definitely live to see less hate in the future.
I know my comment sounds like a joke, but I'm serious....
this is very sad. I hope these people will eventually find peace of mind. :(
I really love this series. Its greatly eye opening and I connect with it in so many ways. The presenter is great too.. and cant wait to see him grow and expand into the industry.
Brilliant and informative series.
This is such an important series.
Another amazing episode. I can't wait till the next one
This is such a sad situation. My heart really goes out to people in this kind of situation.
I'm crying so much... these beautiful people deserve so much more than any of those stupid homophobic people :(
This episode is so powerful; can't wait for the next one.
"What's the point in being miserable, where's it gonna getcha" - Damien
This series is so important, and Riyadh! Whoa! I have watched some of your videos before, but the curiosity, sensitivity and pure kindness you show in this episode especially is blowing me away.
"No matter what you are someone will always pick something"
La vraie vie est ailleurs sad truth
Excellent series - Very complete and well produced.
Many thanks !
Thank you for this amazing series! I hope to see more!
It is very similar here, in America. As a Gay man in my later 50's, I hope this series will include more people over 40, as we are part of the Gay Community, as well.
This is such an incredible series. So well done and so well researched. Great job!!! Important work!!!
Poor Damien, seems like such a nice guy.
This was hard to watch but it has made me appreciate more how grateful I am to live where I do and feel safe to be myself as I am a non-binary trans guy as well as being able to show affection to my boyfriend in public. Having a few friends who are loving and supportive no matter what can make such a huge difference, and I'm glad that this past year I have found these people. I really hope people become more accepting of those who are LGBTQ+ as no one deserves to be made homeless for being who they are.
Harri Messenger come to my city that will change in a cupple days
Screw you silent. Not only are you a pathetic, homophobic, transphobic scumbag, you are also poorly educated. The word is "couples".
I just ran into your series by accident and I'm watching my third video. I'm American, and of course, we have our own set of problems here, but it seems to me that in England the situation is far worse for LGBTQ+. I will continue to watch all your other episodes. Thank you for producing these.
Cesar Holguin Holguin actually,the uk is better than America when it comes to LGBT issues.they do have anti gay groups but they are not as powerful as the ones in America.
You must live in a major American city if you believe anti-queerness is worse in the U.K.
To all the LGBT community I love you so much, I am straight and I will defend you with all my heart, no one should treat anyone this way, you are beautiful the way you are and I believe that God is love and He loves you, no matter what the stupid religious leaders out there say.
Anna Alaa if you’re religious you shouldn’t be calling religious leaders stupid
I don't know what devastates me more - the fact how these people have been treated, or the fact that I was so lucky with an understanding and loving home, and to so many this is not given.
Please keep up the good work!
I'm 'enjoying' your documentaries.
Love. Peace.
Maurice from Holland.
Though it was only a second, I immediately recognized John's ringtone and it's Born This Way. Er Mer Gerd.
Why do we live in this world where people can't accept others for being...just human?
This is so hard to watch... made me cry
Heart breaking💔
As an out married lesbian who has never experienced homophobia
This breaks my heart I want to scoop them up and help them ALL
When you've been privileged enough to not go through it you kind of forget it happens and it's very real
I'm sorry people go through this
Would love to know how I could do more to help
Love to all ❤️
This series is so eye opening and it really plays on my heart strings. I am a straight Irish stereotypical 19 year old teenager with different personal issues of my own, and this series really really makes me teary and really puts a deep pain in my chest. The way these people are forced to live their lives, purely because of their sexuality is so heartbreaking. Sexuality does not define a person, and even if it did, being straight does not make you any more superior than anyone else. We are all human beings. Being born an LGBTQ+ person should not be shamed or looked down on, and its so sad that even in today's world, sexuality has been such a cause of pain to these people. It's horrific. Riyadh is really doing an amazing job of drawing attention to these issues, and is amazing for starting a conversation around the issues these people have to face on a day to day bases. Its so taboo, that as a straight irish female, i didn't even realise some of the issues mentioned in this series existed. This should be the type of stuff thats taught in schools, and it should be mended and prevented. Well Done Riyadh, you really have blown my mind with this series, and probably have helped thousands, if not millions of people around the world! Truly AMAZING
This is so incredibly beautiful. Thank you.
it warms my heart when Riyadh compares his coat and gloves with Damien's. It is very considerate and kind of Riyadh and he is doing a splendid job!!👏🏿👏🏼👏👏🏾👏🏼👏🏻
this is really some heavy stuff. good job BBC three for the v informative documentary.... and if any of y'all r having a tough time here in the comments section just know that faith hope love and compassion will lead you to the right places... pls spread the same thing as well!♥️
it's a huge issue, there and here in the US. I have several times.
From alcoholic parents, to my own spiral into addiction on the streets to escape the hate and this self-medicating, affecting my employment, and housing.
im so scared to come out. my mums accepting but my family and school arent. im in fear every waking moment that my house will get egged again that ill step out the house and be stalked. this documentary helped me so much, im on the way to tell my mum right now this is a step in the right direction.
lioaoa all the best
Im in year 9 and Im trangender. For the past 3 years, I've had all sorts of things said to me, done to me and thrown at me. Its shit. Its absolutly shit that school kids and random people are like that and its caused me to do stuff I wish I never tryed to do the first time.
Im so sorry. Im in year 9 too and i know how people can be treated
The Wacko Green alien I'm so sorry that you've suffered that. try your hardest to turn the bad into something good. you'll be how you want to be soon, stay strong, focus on your future, your not alone in this.
The Wacko Green alien same I'm in year 9 , my name is Jackson and I'm ftm
+silent shitty troll is shitty
Dez Lotto? Whoever you are? Whatever anyone did to hurt you and make you this screwed up, that you have to beat down someone who's already been beaten down just to feel better about yourself? I apologise on their behalf.
"What's the point in being miserable? Where's it going to get you?""
Said the homeless man. We have a lot to learn from this.
Amy's parents are just lovely and I'm glad that Kristina got her own flat
thanks for bringing this to light I haven't seen your channel in a little while but you have amazing parents and I don't know why or what went wrong with all these other people who are homeless I really thought people were more open in Britain or Scotland or Ireland I had no clue people were that prejudice there it's quite a shame thanks for bringing this to light for all these people have to hide in the shadows it's not right and it's not fair I had no clue it was like this there. you're brilliant Riyadh take care of my friend
Just a heads up, but the subtitles are in the middle of the screen?
I think you can move them?
Never mind. I can't move them
you can turn them off. the gear on bottom
I know, but I need them ;) Can understand English just fine, but not those heavy accents.
Lucinde S some people are deaf...
The interviewer told the young blonde woman, Christina, she likely wouldn't survive homelessness.
He isn't a longtime acquaintance of hers and therefore doesn't truly know her.
We all become stronger when in harsher environments.
The woman is already living with low self-esteem and self-doubt.
Change in life is constant. If ever she does seem to be heading toward further poverty and possible homelessness in future that statement will negatively effect her thinking and self-esteem more each day.
There was no need to say such a negative thing to her. He's meant to be encouraging to these individuals not to plant further seeds of insecurity and worthlessness or hopelessness.
At the very least BBC should have edited out that part of their conversation.
KandakeAmanirenas_and_MatriarchalChoctaw Im afraid that particular interviewer has a habit of condescension, he is not universally loved by the lgbt community here in Ireland.. trust me
I don't think he meant any harm by that.. I really don't!
this is a crying shame never seen anything like it I guess I've been lucky I really do I feel like crying when I see this unbelievable.
Riyadh is gorgeous.
Great documentary! Thanks to make me aware of all the struggles LGBTQ people go through.
This made me cry it's so sad what people have to go through I want to help them so bad no one deserves to live on the streets
Sophie again
I'm glad you're covering important issues but I hope episode 4 covers a happier topic. The LGBTQ experience can be beautiful too! :)
jack henderson it's important to recognize the unhappy topics as well. obviously it gets better, but you should not try to ignore the real issues... that's why all these people are homeless... people don't want to talk about or hear about these situations... life is not all sunshine and butterflies... we should all recognize that these issues exist... and actually do something to help these people...
jack henderson I understand where you are coming from as I am a Journalism Graduate, but first I'd like to correct your misconceptions there is nothing "obvious" about this being targeted to a broad demographic... Infact BBC II! is an online only OTT service, it's not a TV Channel. The primary demographic is 16 to 34 year olds, within the United Kingdom, which is In fact, an extremely narrow segment of the population. Interestingly enough, the target demographic also happens to be the same group most likely to already be accepting of LGBTQ+ individuals. I am gay, 33 years old, and from Canada....
also as a side note, all episodes have already been recorded weeks ago. there's little likelihood of any changes to the 6 episodes. Journalism was probably a waste of money, not a waste of time as long as you went to a good school... but research skills should be second nature to you. ;-) good luck with your career.
Adam Vallee haha yeah I know it's already recorded! Just hoping the sentiment would get through, but thanks for your words anyway :)
Its never been good for me
I met a homeless trans to be in my local centre at the end of last year. She performed a poem to my wife and I, we gave her some money and I tried to give some guidance from my personal experience of being on the streets. She'd done all I could advise anyway. I have used she out of respect, in order to avoid hassle she was keeping to her original male appearance while on the streets, in itself that must have been tough.
It was different for me, I hadn't been shamed, just kicked out. Because of this I could pull myself out of the situation more easily. I actually saw getting away from the place of my birth where I knew people as an escape. We're all different.
The opposite of bravery, has always been conformity - Powerman 5000
If you want a cowardly child push them to conform against their nature. If you are a coward push them away.
If you have courage and want your child to have the same, accept them for who they are and be there for them.
I disagree on the statement that if you don't come from a loving environment you cannot give one. My wife and I both came from chains of this. We decided it had to stop with us, it's hard but worth it.
My son has ripped my heart out on a number of occasions because he is loved and knows it. Net result is someone I am immensely proud of. He's unsure on his sexuality at the moment, finding some characteristics of both genders appealing. As such he declares himself bisexual, I think his mature approach to this is brilliant. He will never be on the streets while either his Mun or I are alive and he knows it.
This is so sad to watch. I really feel bad for them. Family must be the first to love and accept them but it turned out that they are the first who can't accept what they are. I want to give them a big hug for their strength for keeping their lives. A big salute for them 👏
Homelessness sucks. No one should ever have to go through it. But here's the contradiction: a very small minority of people _choose_ this option. They take a brain storm. They can no longer take all the endless bills, the mortgage, the relentless pressure of working most of your life just to _have_ a home, something in them snaps, and they walk. Next time you walk past a beggar, or a 'tramp' just ponder this: Who's the real slave?
I feel like there should be a free program for homophobic parents whose child is LGBTQ+ where they learn how to accept their children. Not force them to be pro-gay but to be able to accept and love their children as much as a straight child.
William Coleman I think watched something a doc, where do that, it is set in America I think.
Agree but not just for parents. can be difficult for a loved one to come to terms with. A supportive place where they can come to terms with, and learn the best way to support their child/loved one. All parents want what is best for their children.
A REAL parent will always choose their child over some religion or society imaginary rule. Parents would die for their kids. This ia what the real bond of nature and love is like. Shame on those parents for failing their kids.
I have two boys and one girl and IDC what sex they prefer there my kid and I love them
Gage Lacey there needs to be more people like you in the world!! Thank you so much for being so accepting❤️❤️
*insert Edgy/emo band names here* * exactly more parents need to be like her and sam and Lorraine riyadhs parents love is love !
EVERYONE should be VALUED for who they are, As a gay person myself I LOVE my LGBTQ+🏳️🌈 family across ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
IT IS HEART-BREAKING
Society has to
Learn that we are all different and must love and support each other regardless
this is so sad and scary. I can't believe how a parent could reject their children like that.
I can't wait for episode 4
Its so sad to see this.May God them strength. And live the way of life who they are.😢
I shaved my head and raised £500 for the Albert Kennedy trust
Briony English good for you they do great work
Well done!! They do really good work❤️
I always get so emotionally invested in these lgbtq+ people in documentaries and I cry every time.
To each their own live & let live .Peace to all.
I never realised how lucky I was to be quite honest..... These stories broke my heart!
At 21:31... I love that . lol "#ISawYourDadOnGrindr".So true. It's usually the most homophobic people who are questioning their sexuality or are possibly gay. It's a deflection absolutely. This is an awesome documentary and I love all of your documentary segments And full documentaries.
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As lgbt we get to choose our familly the community the ally the friends and supporters they are our familly im ur familly and we all love eachother
Really sad stories 😭😭
i pray john is doing well. they really touched my heart
I live in a place like Kristina does, homelessness changes you
I really hope all of these beautiful people feel at least a little better today and that if not, they will get to a better place soon. I wish them all the best.
Just discover your videos . Very interesting and motivating
Three wonderful human beings. Why does it seem that society in certain parts of the country hasn't improved since the last world war?!
I love this Documentary So dam Much!!!!!!!!
John needs a hug so badly
anyone else on the edge of tears?
when will we as a society learn that you don't have to put others down to measure your own self worth
You know, this is all really important and it's never discussed. The world needs more empathy... I'm the sort to try to solve every problem I come across, and I think that Universal Basic Income would really dramatically help people in situations like this everywhere. If everyone was given $1000 US a month, about 900 Euros, and had universal healthcare, then this would be so much better. Even if you were kicked out of your home for your LGBT identity, you could still get medicine, still get food, and even afford a place to live... With your basic needs met, you can not have your life so dramatically hampered by this. Homelessness could practically disappear, I think.
Greetings from Melbourne Australia 🇦🇺 Another great presentation 👍🏻
thank you so much for making these I'm really enjoying them I hope these episodes will help in creating a safer more loving and accepting environment for lgbt+ people
Riyadh, congrats in this honest and risky (and very much needed) work
Great documentary
keep doing your good work. Awareness is the key to the journey to acceptance.
Things are so different here in California. Not perfect, but a lot of acceptance.
I now have friends who are gay partners. My wife and I love them dearly. That was not the case 20 years ago. I've changed. So must the world.
If a oarent can kick a child out just because they are LGBTQIA then they dont desrvre to be parents the scumbags,idgaf what theor views are you love your child unconditionally
This made me so emotinal
My heart break watching this !
At the start that music in the background I think is from the social network
Kristina reminds of me, I can relate to her even her overly possive mother although my mother was out love that was too strong. She is so sweet
" I literally thought I was gonna end up in the streets, like you." damn that was rude.
Landon Howell I think that was simply honest.
it was honestly rude
imo i did not think it was rude he was simply being honest..as he thought he would receive a negative reaction(lucky riyadh still has his family) and end up on the streets like Damian... who was shunned by his own family!
It breaks my heart to see these people having it so tough.I wish I had lots and lots of money to help these people feel better about themselves.Maybe if they felt better about themselves then maybe they can do something with their lives.Having a healthy mindset can do wonders for a person especially if they were given a chance.
I feel so sad that there are people out there who would kick their child out just because they are not straight. That is awful beyond awful. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being LGBTQ+ . The world would be so boring if everyone was straight!!