Wow beautifully said! Become a loving person first.. Especially when you think about what you say about the mirror effect in relations. If you don't love yourself you will find trouble in relations (and so true) but if you are able to love yourself first, the mirror effect will give you more positive relations in life.. 😊❤️❤️
So true. I only just reached this stage last year at the age of 28! Better later than never 😅 Not only does it feel very freeing but not needing others somehow attracts others as you said and I've made so many new connections in the last year. It a bit cruel that the more you want something the further it gets from you but that's life apparently. ❤
amazing! honestly i love the way you spoke about it. Everytime i feel insecure or something like that i keep reminding myself that "if i don't give myself love for the way i am who else will?" and honestly it helps
I waited too long to watch this one. You're always on point, Joy. I actually use to tell people that if I had a daughter I would name her Joy. Thank you so much.
I’m actually the person I would want to date. I’m dealing with loneliness right now but I’m fixing that. The problem I have is trying to find a woman I have a spark with.
Listening to your channel after a 4 year long friendship turned sour, it always helps to hear what I have learned and read this year about relationships and listening to your channel brings me much needed understanding and appreciation for life itself. Thank you for the video but please try to record without the construction going on, I have headphones on and it scared the shit out me 😱
Sorry! I recorded this with my mic only to find out my mic was broken so I had to use the original iphone recording and couldn't edit the background noise out 😅
Love thy self, embrace & cherish the brilliance of your soul & the blind fold of fear, doubt and inadequacy will no longer tethered you to the yearnings, impurities/impulses or vices that taint, imprint or condition in our minds the seeds of all which afflict, restraint, suppress or deprive one from being the best possible version of ourselves. The clarity and insight you acquisition from the frequency of love will help you diffuse the toxicity and negativity which surrounds you in a more healthy, mindful and compassionate way. That impact alone will mirror and reflect how potent and meaningful your contributions to this world are because you are remarkable human being who needs to let go of fear, especially not to be scared to love, more specifically starting with loving thyself. The resonance of love is a wavelength that enlightens the mind, body and soul simultaneously and synchronizes you to attune with beauty which only true untainted love in its rawest purity provides and will never perish but instead will always burn more intensely like the eternal dance of the sky regardless.
most people dont know love, or even themselves. its hard to learn how to love yourself without any good role models. some people need to feel truly loved by another first before they can give that to themselves. otherwise its just one of many lies... id think i got my self-concept, self-care and good habits down pat, and then boom, nothing works. it all falls apart and its a deeper pit than before for having tried. im tired and discouraged. emotionally and spiritually exhausted. maybe im just disabled in a way most people can be independent while i cant. i have lifelong mental health problems after all. but life isnt gonna take that as an excuse and i wont want love any less for it. all i know is the feeling of not being enough, so im screwed haha... not to mention actually needing someone to protect me for health and safety reasons. its unattractive as hell but its the reality for someone like me.
I'm still in the first part of the video but like, how about when you see external situations that stop you from making the changes you want? Like, it's hard for me to feel good about myself because I live with my family and they sort of put me down... And I'm trying to be able to afford moving out but it's been tough...
I have hurt my man by continuously chasing him. Now I don't feel I'm in good energy, I don't feel complete and confident. He says in the process of chasing him and over explaining things, he has lost all the feelings for me and now he has no feelings left. He also mentioned he feels upset whenever it's my call or message and has no desire to talk or continue with me. Can I manifest him? Is it good or will it still disturb or hurt him by being obsessed/manifesting him?
There is something about someone around my age talking about my current issues with frightening accuracy. Your content is greatly appreciated, thank you! Now onto the criticism: I dont think the example with the diamond is very refined* because a diamond doesnt shine and doesnt think its anything, its a rock. Even figuratively its hard to make sense of it as there is no life let alone consciousness in that rock. Maybe the comparison would fair better if you took the diamond as an object of value and the talk from then holders perspective. Either way thats a minor criticism, i know what you mean and that is what counts, message delivered! *(no pun intended)
Someone spit on my face today because I stoped being religious and they were mad at the fact that I said "I don't believe in your God anymore." Infront of my house! I had a rush of violent thoughts and masked them with tears instead, cause if I go all out they wouldn't survive a beatdown. Still can't get sleep over what happened and I have the a thought of taking revenge but it's in conflict with my consciousness. Plus I don't think me trying to get revenge would address the root cause of my suffering, but rather mask the pain I feel (Temporarily.) The title of the video is great but I still don't understand why people mistake my patience for weakness? And how do you even deal with it when they act like animals and still expect to you to be civill. It's like beating a dog a hundred times expecting it not to bite once. I'm on the verge collapsing and next time this happens it may get ugly. I have forgiven and forgot my whole life, but at this point it's killing me. Any advice is appreciated💤
I let go him i dont want manifest him back cause it was really bad relationship i know it was because of my sc. But i really scare to see him with someone else
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Wow beautifully said! Become a loving person first.. Especially when you think about what you say about the mirror effect in relations. If you don't love yourself you will find trouble in relations (and so true) but if you are able to love yourself first, the mirror effect will give you more positive relations in life.. 😊❤️❤️
So true. I only just reached this stage last year at the age of 28! Better later than never 😅
Not only does it feel very freeing but not needing others somehow attracts others as you said and I've made so many new connections in the last year. It a bit cruel that the more you want something the further it gets from you but that's life apparently. ❤
I appreciate blessed when know your channel
amazing! honestly i love the way you spoke about it. Everytime i feel insecure or something like that i keep reminding myself that "if i don't give myself love for the way i am who else will?" and honestly it helps
Thank you for this gentle, loving and yet firm kick in the butt. I needed that today. You're awesome, Joy!
I waited too long to watch this one. You're always on point, Joy. I actually use to tell people that if I had a daughter I would name her Joy. Thank you so much.
I’m actually the person I would want to date. I’m dealing with loneliness right now but I’m fixing that. The problem I have is trying to find a woman I have a spark with.
I understand this so much and I started adopting the perspective that I am dating a person a like me. Since I am in a relationship with myself
Love your channel and vids please keep posting I could see your channel blowing up
Listening to your channel after a 4 year long friendship turned sour, it always helps to hear what I have learned and read this year about relationships and listening to your channel brings me much needed understanding and appreciation for life itself. Thank you for the video but please try to record without the construction going on, I have headphones on and it scared the shit out me 😱
Sorry! I recorded this with my mic only to find out my mic was broken so I had to use the original iphone recording and couldn't edit the background noise out 😅
Love thy self, embrace & cherish the brilliance of your soul & the blind fold of fear, doubt and inadequacy will no longer tethered you to the yearnings, impurities/impulses or vices that taint, imprint or condition in our minds the seeds of all which afflict, restraint, suppress or deprive one from being the best possible version of ourselves. The clarity and insight you acquisition from the frequency of love will help you diffuse the toxicity and negativity which surrounds you in a more healthy, mindful and compassionate way. That impact alone will mirror and reflect how potent and meaningful your contributions to this world are because you are remarkable human being who needs to let go of fear, especially not to be scared to love, more specifically starting with loving thyself. The resonance of love is a wavelength that enlightens the mind, body and soul simultaneously and synchronizes you to attune with beauty which only true untainted love in its rawest purity provides and will never perish but instead will always burn more intensely like the eternal dance of the sky regardless.
FIAR
most people dont know love, or even themselves. its hard to learn how to love yourself without any good role models. some people need to feel truly loved by another first before they can give that to themselves. otherwise its just one of many lies...
id think i got my self-concept, self-care and good habits down pat, and then boom, nothing works. it all falls apart and its a deeper pit than before for having tried. im tired and discouraged. emotionally and spiritually exhausted.
maybe im just disabled in a way most people can be independent while i cant. i have lifelong mental health problems after all. but life isnt gonna take that as an excuse and i wont want love any less for it. all i know is the feeling of not being enough, so im screwed haha... not to mention actually needing someone to protect me for health and safety reasons. its unattractive as hell but its the reality for someone like me.
thank you, saw this at the right moment
Love your channel 👍
I'm still in the first part of the video but like, how about when you see external situations that stop you from making the changes you want? Like, it's hard for me to feel good about myself because I live with my family and they sort of put me down... And I'm trying to be able to afford moving out but it's been tough...
You've finally found me.
I have hurt my man by continuously chasing him. Now I don't feel I'm in good energy, I don't feel complete and confident. He says in the process of chasing him and over explaining things, he has lost all the feelings for me and now he has no feelings left. He also mentioned he feels upset whenever it's my call or message and has no desire to talk or continue with me.
Can I manifest him? Is it good or will it still disturb or hurt him by being obsessed/manifesting him?
Love it!!!!!!!!!!!
little wise cookie
There is something about someone around my age talking about my current issues with frightening accuracy. Your content is greatly appreciated, thank you!
Now onto the criticism: I dont think the example with the diamond is very refined* because a diamond doesnt shine and doesnt think its anything, its a rock. Even figuratively its hard to make sense of it as there is no life let alone consciousness in that rock. Maybe the comparison would fair better if you took the diamond as an object of value and the talk from then holders perspective. Either way thats a minor criticism, i know what you mean and that is what counts, message delivered!
*(no pun intended)
Thanks🙏🙏
Someone spit on my face today because I stoped being religious and they were mad at the fact that I said "I don't believe in your God anymore." Infront of my house! I had a rush of violent thoughts and masked them with tears instead, cause if I go all out they wouldn't survive a beatdown. Still can't get sleep over what happened and I have the a thought of taking revenge but it's in conflict with my consciousness. Plus I don't think me trying to get revenge would address the root cause of my suffering, but rather mask the pain I feel (Temporarily.) The title of the video is great but I still don't understand why people mistake my patience for weakness? And how do you even deal with it when they act like animals and still expect to you to be civill. It's like beating a dog a hundred times expecting it not to bite once. I'm on the verge collapsing and next time this happens it may get ugly. I have forgiven and forgot my whole life, but at this point it's killing me. Any advice is appreciated💤
I let go him i dont want manifest him back cause it was really bad relationship i know it was because of my sc. But i really scare to see him with someone else
Why? How can i help myself
Is this only relate for a woman or also for a man?
You're very pretty. Sorry for being that guy, but I just had to say it. 😄✌❤
Mfs who say first, here ya go🍪
All I want is to have sex. So to manifest sex I have to stop caving sex and be happy without sex? Fml idk how that is possible