That is a good reply because it's hard to argue against it, and it indirectly tells her that if she doesn't have a good man by her side, she is probably not a good woman. If this doesn't get her to self reflect, the problem is her ego.
Gentlemen - as a 32 year old, black, six figure earner, with a doctorate degree - have hope. Clarity comes with age. The older you get, the more wisdom you have. You come to realize that good looking women are a dime a dozen. As you age, you'll transition from wanting a dime piece to wanting someone that has a head on their shoulders. Until then, work on your goals, chase your dreams, and don't get anyone pregnant. If you do this, you'll achieve all that you could ever want; career, financial, and relationship goals.
"If your mama is unmarried then she is still dating. If you are 25 and mom is 41, then y'all are most likely looking at the same kind of men..." DAMN THAT WAS THE MOST SAVAGE AND TRUEST STATEMENT. I see so many Mom and daughters compete with each other in this category that it's sad and they don't even realize it!
What makes it more crazy is that some mothers groom their daughters in such a manner like a doll or a pimp. Especially once the daughter hits puberty & fills out and ends up looking like a younger version of the mother.
If she's not going to be your peace, support, and inspiration, then she's just going to be a thorn in your side....remember it doesn't matter the race...a good woman is a good woman and last time I checked character didn't have a color.
@@aprilwilliam65 Don’t you know men get tired of hearing this “vice versa” “men do it too” bs we don’t even want the same things from each other so what’s the vice versa in what he just said? Women typically want Security, loyalty, provision and leadership what was the point in saying “vice versa”?
@@estrodenaro3359 Women can want peace, support and inspiration too. Men and women can want the same thing from each other. All men don't want the same thing. Neither do all women.
Wow! When Kevin said “Right of First Refusal”, I applauded, just APPLAUDED. It’s not called a superiority complex for nothing. Once you’ve discarded us, why subject us a SECOND time? A Man who has been rejected shouldn’t be seeking the affirmation of the Woman who rejected him. It’s laughable. It’s crazy.
“Black women want generational wealth, but don’t even have generations” yoooo no cap! Oh snap. “The black family is a black woman with her kids” - that’s a strong bar right there….
Actually they want money not so much wealth because wealth goes into many indicators such as investments i.e. stocks, bonds, bitcoin, real estate, and bw's for the most part do not comprehend those accumulative of those instruments of wealth they only know cash, credit cards, Bentleys and Berkin or Chanel nothing more. To build wealth empires which transcends to generational wealth.
@@frankjames6232 I know the difference between money and wealth bro. I don’t care what black women really want. But do I hear them say that exact line. I was simply quoting what KS said. Nothing more or less, but appreciate the full feedback.
@@Iamjoeycross I know you do and this comment wasn't directed to you in the way of you knowing the difference what I was getting at was the lack knowledge of what bw's knowing the difference between wealth and money no shade to you bro peace✌✌
@@justinw2232 black women tend to act like black men owe them something. So they treat us very horribly and constantly spin narratives to make it look like we just don’t want to be around. Then they say he was abusive etc. we as black men are waking up. We know that we can find better outside of our race. No matter what we’re told.
Bruh…I had a long talk with my dad 2 years ago about his marriage. All I gonna say is he made me look at my mom totally different. Broke my heart because my dad bit his tongue to keep the peace.
This is one of those important talks that truly lays everything on the table and leaves no room for miscommunication or misunderstanding. Got it saved to revisit and share.
This series here was actually a very good one. And even though she has her point of perception. To be 29 years old she actually listened. I don't know how much she retained. But for her age in the conversation through all of the series. It was actually a good piece..
That young lady was the epitome of every young lady that KS has tried to reach, nothing special. This was truly one of the best interviews/vids he's done. Thanks so much.
@@ryanj357 29 looking like that is a diamond for every last 40yr old dude I know. If she was on program with raising the next generation it would be over. After so many men it's impossible to change or make an impact. Too many years of flashbacks. I have women I dated in our Early 20s who now only get special treatment from older men and they have tried to come back. I've had to be honest and tell them the prize is gone for me personally when I'm literally dating a 22yr old who is almost twice as valuable to me. Sure my old ex makes over 140k as a manager of a military contractor office... But as a construction engineer the LAST thing on my list is a woman's income. It sucks to have had that talk
Man, Kevin is literally a surgeon. His verbal dissection skills are unmatched..it's definitely something to be valued..he has earned all the fame he has..💯
Kevin never lied. I used to date black women and wanted to marry one until I met a puerto rican woman and she makes the house peaceful, treats me like a king, cook, anything I DONT have to ask for. I feel respected and TRULY valued. Im not going back to black women anymore. Dating women outside the black race has been great
After i got grown i was so grateful that i had the dad i had. He literally had his shot gun ready for any man that wanted to take advantage of his daughters. He ran off a few except the ones that married my sister husband and mines.He saw something in them, that they was good enough to take care of us. As a young girl i didnt understand why he was so strick when it came to his daughter, but later on in life i understood. A for that i am so grateful i had a father in the house hold.
Men should choose the best option for them regardless of the person’s complexion. You have to live with the outcomes at the end of the day and that’s all that matters. Choosing to live with peace, quiet and freedom. If someone disrupts your peace then leave them alone.
It was a perfect question, she tells KS you know why and then was juking answering the question like Barry Sanders. It's such a tell when instead of answering they just laugh or deflect.
@@123pb no she can talk bruh don’t believe that for a second she’s just catching all the guys who will give her props for being pretty. She’s on Kevin’s show looking for a high value man and she might get it.
Because no matter how she responds, KS and you blk mn will berate her. Why subject yourself to that. This isn’t a real conversation where he’s truly looking to learn, he just wants to spew his talking points for his angry viewers
@@sheh.9163 he asked her real and honest questions that many black men, myself included would like to hear her opinion on and she just shut down. This clearly isn’t some overweight loud chick with big dreams and no work ethic. This is a gorgeous, in shape, business woman who many men would like to get to know and she showed she’s the same as most women. Smh. There are men who would be ready to take the next step with a woman like her but she wants to prolong and wait to see if she can get a better option AKA a rich/wealthy man.
Jessica has such a beautiful smile... It's almost a shame it's such a dead giveaway every time Kevin asks her a question she's knows the answer to but doesn't want to say for fear of outting her sisterhood.
@@JusTheKing. statistics prove that most bw are race loyal and statistics also show that BM are the least married out of all other male demographics so if you do the math statistic will tell you that the bulk of BW aren't getting married because they don't date outside their race and BM aren't marrying them or anyone else. Statistics also show that when BW do step out of that race loyal mindset that they have much more successful relationships. BW with WM have the highest interracial success rates and even the kids come out better looking and more self confident and intellectually grounded. Better do more research honey because the only thing holding BW back is their ignorant loyalty to the man who's at the bottom of the economic and social hierarchy. WM, AM and Hispanic men outdo BM in every category not to mention BM have the highest cases of erectile dysfunction 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@JusTheKing. and exactly what are you the king of ? Why do so many blk ppl give themselves these made up fairytale titles ? I bet you don't even own a home or have a wife let alone a kingdom. Kmsl 🤡
Men should go where they are appreciated and loved, period. If that's among black women, cool. Latinas? Cool. Becky? Cool. Asian? Cool. Go where you're appreciated.
My sister her husband is black happily married for 6 years . he said to us he is not attracted to women from his own culture . my sister told me his penis is huge . I want a black man toooo mmmm
That was the most epic engaging honest and healthiest conversation I’ve ever seen between a man and woman documented in media ever. Most of the time it’s a charismatic motivational speaker who manages to persuade his audience into agreeing with his provocative beliefs so he can sell shit. And same with the women. Kevin did a great job with keeping it real and honest. That’s very selfless of a man in his position to do so. I’d like to see another entry like this with fellow brother.
Judge your mama the same as how you judged your father. Forgive your father the same way you forgive your mother… Couldn’t be said better. Right on brother!
Yes several men even some women are saying what Kevin is saying, I have seen a few Caucasian men and women as well as black male and female shows like Kevin. None of the ones I have seen are as knowledgeable as Kevin show was
I think the example about son husbands and daughters who are seen as competition by their mothers is the one that penetrated. She had an answer for everything till that one hit home.
Yes! I'm a black man in my 30's, and I'm victim of the son/husband dynamic. I wasn't even aware of it until fairly recently. But I tell you it's so true and very damming...
@@Iceman19852003 same for me. My mum recently divorced and I'm hearing from her way more now than I used to, sometimes it's nice and sometimes it's a hassle. Have to remind her that even though I love her that I'm not a substitute for her husband. If she needed to speak to me this much as a son then she would have done it when she was married
Good on KS for tackling this topic, it's one of those things that never really get spoken about but is always there. He hit the nail on the head when he said sista's think brotha's are their property, and that's exactly why they act so entitled! Men have to realise they are *nobody's* property in this world, no matter which background or culture you are from- you have to do what is best for *you* even if that means dating out because there are better options- the bottom line is, you don't owe anyone $hit! Do what is best for YOU
This woman is very slick folks. See how she deflects every question? Also, let’s be real, she doesn’t give a sh*t either. Watch the smiles and shoulder shrugs guys…
“Wife” is a biblical term as is husband. All these women claim to be so religious and yet they reject biblical teaching when it has responsibility attached to it.
Still want children tho whether they're ready for them or the man is good candidate. Since lots of women have been able to raise children alone fairly successfully they go into it feeling like they'll be good either way. With a man it's always worst case scenario of abuse but when they're single they'll birth the next LeBron James lol.
@@suntzu6122 bruh! Nailed it! This is why children have no respect for religion. And all these anti religion folks Miss the bigger point. When we were more religious, we were more disciplined! Screw all the slave talk. You cannot have it both ways. Either be religious or don’t. Nothing wrong with being agnostic.
Becky pursued me. Which made me stop perusing other women. She drove the competition away by doing something the other women I was dealing with wernt doing.
I love the number of times she gets that look you see on many black women's faces. She leans back and pushes her lips together with an internal scowl that she is trying to hide externally. That's the look you get when the truth hits but she doesn't want to accept it. It's happened more than once on every video of this series so far.
Bro y’all going out so sad, it’s weird to see how disconnected Kevin’s reality is from the comments. If finding a woman who isn’t braindead and understands what two people can bring to a relationship is hard for you, it’s likely you’re just not all that desirable. Or like the women who lose pretty privilege, you’re looking where you’re not desired, (AKA above you’re league)
@@duatchol7710 the Bible specifically said Eve was a helpmate to Adam. Monogamy was designed around business purposes. The best thing a woman can bring to a man is a clean slate.
Not like I'm for Becky, but I personally knew good BM who were ignored, and spit on by bw when we were younger. These same guys however, were recognized by Becky, or Maria. These same guys humanity, personalities, and aspirations were cherished by these other women, and when these guys became earners, rewarded the feminine, pleasant and sensitive Becky or Maria with their loyalty as husbands.
It finally hit me that this was a Historic Tragedy.. I didn't even watch his video's before he past. He could've helped millions of men and women with his brutal honesty. He must have been murdered for this reason.
Sometimes it seems as though some attractive women truly feel that their value isn't on the decline with age. The problem is when they finally realize that it's true it's already too late!!
Yeah. She said she wasn't as attractive in her younger years but came into it at a later age.....sorry, this just does not happen and men are the ones who decide this, not you. Look up lady, your just about to hit the wall.
That’s that woke virtue signaling sh*t. Can’t even look at American women seriously anymore. Rather just go foreign even if she is white. I just know this ain’t it in the states. Sorry stay mad then😂
It pains me to see so many of our young attractive sisters so lost and just don't fully understand how simple men are and how easy we are to make happy.
1000% Correct. Becky was certainly easy on the eyes, but clueless to what a simple effort it would be to educate yourself on what a man requests in a relationship. More effort, on a daily basis, wondering about the "next design" of a freaking bathing suit. Yeah......like we need another gas station, on another corner. Like there's no bathing suits in the stores, or online.......she'll be entering the Danger Zone soon....Wake Up, Becky!
They understand but they don't care, they are more self entitled due to success. That's why they tell men to step up. Men need to understand women too. That's where most men go wrong. You can't change women. BW are very controlling and hide it by playing dumb. Manipulative.
Black women feel like they own us excellent point! The long pause 🦗that Jessica gave was the girl code kicking in saying don’t tell the truth. KS filled in the answer correctly.
@@lindavelo3103 I want you to think about what you just said. If a black man has a child with any woman he will continue his legacy. Try not to get caught up in the pigmentation.
Wtf. She has not ONCE directly answered his question. She is another casualty. She has so much ego and that will ultimately be her downfall. Good job miss who ever you are 😃👏🏽
I kinda wish she had a strong POV...KS was strong here and there were a lot great moments from him BUT she was weak sauce. Just didn't assert anything of substance.
@@lindavelo3103 our women are stuck in the misconception that they can live without men. The math doesn’t work, men need women and women need men. Our culture is telling young women “don’t worry about a man, get your degree and focus on yourself” this stops then from wanting to get serious on their 20’s but for women who want children they’re golden years are their 20’s. If you want kids most DRs don’t suggest having kids after 35 so their golden years are 18-35. After college the time is 22-35 if you want multiple kids then the first kid should be around 30 at the latest. Our culture has mid 30’s and 40’s year old women wanting to finally settle down and start a family but biologically it’s too late.
@@khalilwilson2586 But all I see are black men bashing black women so why would they focus on you? Black men are only hopping to other races and their culture, no racial pride for their own. The number one thing I hear when black men want to date non bw is that they berate bw 1st inorder to get in? Who does that? Bashes their own race to appease another. What's the goal? To breed your race out because non black women are not praising black men on this level, unless it's a celeb.
I love the way the music cuts off at the end with reverb. Musically you should have the background music cut as well and have it all reverb and fade out. It creates a wanting more and reflection on what we just saw. Great show my brother.
"Different cultures...", a very problematic mindset. Black cultures have always been about family. In Africa, single motherhood is STRONGLY DISCOURAGED!
African Americans are Africans only in name. When my brother went to work two time periods in USA he was very shocked how culturaly different black Americans are with pure blooded Africans. His African coworkers where societing more with the estern Europeans then with the black Americans.
Damn Kevin! You are one of the most patient and disciplined men I’ve seen! It’s so hard to get down women to answer simple straightforward questions and take accountability for logical obvious facts! I’ve been through this and it’s exhausting! Makes you just want to say forget it! It’s not worth the stress and aggravations!
I'm feeling who he talking with lol. But KS spit facts. I got a relative like that. Soon as her son moved to college she went and had another kid at 38. It's been clear to me last 10 or so years that a lot of women think having a child will replace the need for an actual romantic partner. For some having a kid gives them a purpose and even an excuse for not reaching their full potential.
That’s their plan from day 1, little do guys know. They end up as nothing but sphem donors and financial lifetime support. And don’t seem to care they have become that I guess it’s good enough for them.
He's right about the mother son thing in many ways. I had to be the man that led my younger siblings and I too didn't know my father until I was 22 years old. He lived in the same city as me but wasn't allowed to approach me or be in my life as he should've been. I know him now at 38 but we barely talk about it because we both understand what happened and out of respect for my mom.
@@howard1852 Lol you make such a joke and you're probably really hurt inside. Only hurt people try to hurt people. But I understand how important it is for you to laugh 😉
She's actually a good candidate to be brought onto this show. Lovely conversation, she wasn't rude in any way but she's a typical example of how modern day feminism especially with black mothers have totally brainwashed black women like her in the current generation. It's a serious problem. U know there's a huge problem when u ask a woman why are u single? How do u keep a man? and she has absolutely no idea. That's the failure of her parents not passing traditional values to their children as well as so many other factors too. The problem is on both sides too not just women, however the same things are still expected of men to be providers and protectors which is why there's not so much delusion with men as compared to women's double standard. Sun Tzu said it best in art of war: knowing the enemy very well is half the battle won.
Media also coddles women a lot. Every woman is a queen and no matter how big you are you're beautiful and your personality and working a job(no matter how good or bad it is) factors into you being a Dime. Women and media try to force men to be what most women don't actually find attractive...Well at least until their attention slows down.
@@Veon_Ray she’s on the closer end to 30. I don’t really think that anyone should judge the world that we live in by TikTok. That’s my point. If you’re debating with someone, does a TikToker’s personal view hold up against stats?
@@timboslice9905 doesn't matter, she's still in her 20"s. All "stats" are not facts, and all information found on social media is not automatically non-factual. It's not a "debate" it's a conversation....again, *not a big issue,* that's my point.
Indeed When I returned from my first trip to the Dominican Republic it is difficult dealing with American women. After returning from Colombia recently it's a wrap.
At least she was wonderful eye candy...makes Kevin's high value conversation so very much entertaining as he destroys each and every false preconception she had! Good work Godfather!!!
She could stand to lose about 35-40 lbs for starters, that’s too much meat for the beach. Secondly, her pretty privilege still has her single. She’s living in one of the finesse capitals of the US and she’s a finesser herself. She and her ilk strutting around south beach and Wynwood talking all that boss chick y’all are not ready to settle down, and the HVM’s in Miami know that.
@@bgood4449 She’s pretty tall at 5’9 so she should be around 145-160. Her profile said she’s 190 and she carries it well but yeah, IF she has kids, it’ll definitely blow her up if she ain’t on it fervently.
I wish brother would stop saying she look good .thats never been an issue..it's their hardware programming . That make you sound like a sim___! No disrespect
I see so many channels talking about this. Its like watching a car accident in slow motion. in about 20 years you're going to see an epidemic of single women in shelters not being able to take care of themselves but too proud to admit it was their fault...
Yessir by 2040 it's coming. High inflation and most of them make under $40k a year. They don't invest or plan for the future. Going to be a homeless crisis. I will never have sympathy or bail any of them out. Sit back and laugh like they doing us now tehehehehe
This series would have been so much more interesting with someone who was actually willing to answer the questions instead of shrugging and smiling more than half the time because they were too afraid to speak honestly
This is why I’m working on my self awareness & value now as a 24 year old. I’ll be booking a session soon! I would hate to be 30 with this mindset. I refuse to lose my chance with a good black man to Marisol, Becky or Mai Ling 🤷🏾♀️. P.S. Not all of us think like her (I’d say about 25% percent don’t). Just know there’s black women out here like myself that are ready to compete, cooperate & act accordingly for a black man!
@West west 💯 & it’s sad to see because it’s affecting the youth and our survival as a people. I don’t support divesting for that reason & others. At the same time though, what are black men expected to do when the majority of their women don’t respect or value them or themselves?
Good on you, that mentality will ensure you will end up attaining what you are seeking because you are actually willing to do some *work* for it and not just it there entitled expecting the Lord to drop a spouse on your lap! All best with it all 🍾
@@suadpattonbey7239 same here! I just started watching his (& others) videos last year & have been doing the work ever since. It’s not too late, we just gotta put our money where our mouths are (get coaching/go to the gym/therapy) so we can be found by a good man & husband!
Same here bruh.. I get approached by women worldwide…and when I used to live in amerikkka,I was always getting attention from latin and white girls…sistas wasn’t checkin for me until they saw a blonde on my arm.
My husband is black and he said married me not for looks but for my kind, humble, and sweet spirit. We have 3 beautiful children and make sure we love and respect each other everyday. Love knows no boundaries
Becky, Marisol, Ming Li & Fatima do not have a problem w/me being short. They have no issue with my attire or my penchant for nerdy shit nor do they fantasize about the "Thuggish" or "Hoodnigga" stereotype. They absolutely allow me to be me. Even when I led an extremely modest life they had no issue riding with me. We cannot force them to like us Black men especially when their standards are less than ideal or conducive to a nuclear family. Claire Huxtable was my goal but I have came to learn she's a rarity in this generation and those that do exist want an athlete or rapper lol. Even the 3's 4's and 5's think they can do better than me 😂😂😂😂😂😂 yet get upset when I return to the US with a foreign "bad b!tch" I left the US for Australia in 2008 and never looked back. Have better standards fellow Black men. Have some self respect. Expect better outcomes and do the work. We are not perfect but we are making progress.
I used to be so race loyal to BW until I noticed that other races of women were very much interested in me and they had less baggage than BW for example no kids and no attitude…I date women that appreciate me regardless of color tbh I would prefer a BW but I’m not going to limit myself to only them exclusively anymore
Donald Glover, Alphonso Ribeiro, and Byron Allen are just a few examples of black men who most black women consider "lame" or not "hood enough" and they eventually said ok peace out and hello Becky. I'm still down with black women but I don't blame those Brothas one bit
@@erictoomer5665 He was a dancer from a young age so I'm sure he liked black and latina women at some point but the attitudes and expectations are the issue Most guys that have money and/or options aren't going to deal with a bunch of attitude and BS unless they find one of the few that don't bring them either Becky and the Asian ladies knows how to play/fake the role the best for the most part
I appreciate that this sistah listened to learn and not just respond. I feel in the privacy of her own mind that she will realign her core belief based on the truth that we saw her come in contact with. I hope she continues to be successful in her life.
I got a Becky now. I love and prefer black women, but it just didn't work out that way for me with them. I did not go out and seek a white woman but I can say I have never been treated with such respect, honor, and with such submission. It's extremely refreshing and honestly I'm so used to a certain type of personality that I still can't believe I have such a great woman.
@@TheTeslaTy500Show they desire to have love Peace grace and harmony with each other . the Lord gave her to this man . You are rejecting this in an effort to satisfy your own selfish desires
My husband and I met when I was 19 and he was 21. We got married the following year. A lot of people thought I might be too young but I told them I’m not getting any younger. When I met my husband he lived in a camper in his grandparents back yard. But he was hard working, had a trade and good Christian old school family values. Our daughter was born when I was 22. Fast forward to today, been together 17 years and I wouldn’t have it any other way. At 36 years old I feel so tired all the time and don’t feel I could keep up with an infant.
Congratulations 🎉🎉 My Hubbs had the brains and a trade and was hard working as well 💕 Congratulations to us💕 being in a stable marriage feels so satisfying women our age just don't get it 😳
@@DeNi.NiCara exactly. I’m so glad that when my parents divorced I was home with my depression era grandma and grandpa who taught me old school Catholic values. The old school Italian Americans had strong family values and teach you a lot about marriage and family. I’m grateful to have had this knowledge that my millennial generation missed out on
This video I rank amongst the top 5 that the Godfather put out! I was in my tub motionless listening to this one. So much life counseling. So much TRUTH you know but don't realize until he shouts you out...breaks it down statistically..pro-family all the way. Thank you Mr. Samuels.
The Black Woman will always be my first choice. However, if y'all keep behaving like some of the chicks KS interviews on this channel and the ones I've encountered in person, I'm definitely looking elsewhere. Unapologetically.💯
I’m an average white guy currently dating a beautiful Indian girl and she’s probably the girl I’m going to marry. Dating outside of my race has been the best decision for me.
NOTE : with every smile after every question he offers, this is the part of the female ego being attacked by truth and hoping her smile can be the representation of her answer and in doing so she also provides an assemblance of Truth. When he asks, "what's wrong with you?", And she responds (with a smile) "I'm pretty" and nothing else. And the intelligent here where below average doesn't
I was in a club and some sisters where saying I hate that too, so joking I said I hate that too, laughing, talked to them ask the single one out, she said, she didn't have time to go on a date, I told her, you can make time to do anything you want to, but why did you ladies say I hate that too comment, she said, they hate Black guys chasing white women, and I said, the reason we date white women is because they have time for us Black men. have a good Night.
That's great! Dated Black men and now married to a White man and found that we just gelled really well. The Black men I dated were not bad people but we just weren't great fits or things just didn't pan out how we expected. I just found my person. See how I put that without putting down men of my own race. Try that some time.
@@dorifrazer687 well said! It's never a need to bash black men. I wish black men who subscribe to Kevin's perspective did the same. It appears they take pleasure in being rude and mean to black women. I appreciate different perspectives. But got damn! These men have hate in their hearts. It makes me sad.
Same here, and my marriage has lasted 10+ years. My advice, cancel Netflix or even better throw out the TV altogether. My wife's attitude had become more westernized over the years and I highly suspect its from the RomComs and shows like Scandal and Grey's Anatomy where women are routinely talking down to men and acting masculine.
KS, I'm sorry you cannot change this woman mindset. She is only focused on hearing herself talk, and not open minded to this conversation. She deflect on questions you asked her. This was hard, sad, & realistic to watch.
Any time some woman whines "where are all the good men?", I always answer "they're with the good women."
Black women need to check their messed up attitudes, that's their biggest problems!!
That is a good reply because it's hard to argue against it, and it indirectly tells her that if she doesn't have a good man by her side, she is probably not a good woman. If this doesn't get her to self reflect, the problem is her ego.
wow lmao good for you
Cheek slaying gospels
That is an EXCELLENT response. Well said.
Gentlemen - as a 32 year old, black, six figure earner, with a doctorate degree - have hope. Clarity comes with age. The older you get, the more wisdom you have. You come to realize that good looking women are a dime a dozen. As you age, you'll transition from wanting a dime piece to wanting someone that has a head on their shoulders. Until then, work on your goals, chase your dreams, and don't get anyone pregnant. If you do this, you'll achieve all that you could ever want; career, financial, and relationship goals.
💯 but I really need the 1 million emoji. Fact on top of facts.
BIG facts.
So true bruh..
And you can lose it all by selecting the wrong female of any race. Men use your money and network to established arrange marriage with prenup etc.
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As polite and friendly as she is you can literally see her brain shut off and deny the truth that Kevin was laying out for her
She hit the wall but I hope she is true to what she is learning.
Many black women are like this. Stubborn, rude, think they all that with no money, drama/chaotic.
@@miketyler677 facts!
"If your mama is unmarried then she is still dating. If you are 25 and mom is 41, then y'all are most likely looking at the same kind of men..." DAMN THAT WAS THE MOST SAVAGE AND TRUEST STATEMENT. I see so many Mom and daughters compete with each other in this category that it's sad and they don't even realize it!
This scenario happened at my job the mother thought I liked her but I was interested in the daughter!
Bro it be crazy when the daughter give you choosing signals and the mom give you choosing signals.
What makes it more crazy is that some mothers groom their daughters in such a manner like a doll or a pimp. Especially once the daughter hits puberty & fills out and ends up looking like a younger version of the mother.
And when she can't get him, she going to fill her head up with feminist doctrine
@The Esquire of Sports ® stop. Stop stop. We need more accountability with our men. Not recklessness. That’s nasty brother. Just nasty.
If she's not going to be your peace, support, and inspiration, then she's just going to be a thorn in your side....remember it doesn't matter the race...a good woman is a good woman and last time I checked character didn't have a color.
Well said!
And vice versa
Amen brother
@@aprilwilliam65 Don’t you know men get tired of hearing this “vice versa” “men do it too” bs we don’t even want the same things from each other so what’s the vice versa in what he just said? Women typically want Security, loyalty, provision and leadership what was the point in saying “vice versa”?
@@estrodenaro3359 Women can want peace, support and inspiration too. Men and women can want the same thing from each other. All men don't want the same thing. Neither do all women.
Wow! When Kevin said “Right of First Refusal”, I applauded, just APPLAUDED.
It’s not called a superiority complex for nothing. Once you’ve discarded us, why subject us a SECOND time? A Man who has been rejected shouldn’t be seeking the affirmation of the Woman who rejected him. It’s laughable. It’s crazy.
Bw are not rejecting you socially you are the ones saying you’re not attracted to them yet love to play the victim
@@kitejohnson515 "play the victim". Lol
@@kitejohnson515 victim how?
"Right of First Refusal"...correct!
“Black women want generational wealth, but don’t even have generations” yoooo no cap! Oh snap. “The black family is a black woman with her kids” - that’s a strong bar right there….
Actually they want money not so much wealth because wealth goes into many indicators such as investments i.e. stocks, bonds, bitcoin, real estate, and bw's for the most part do not comprehend those accumulative of those instruments of wealth they only know cash, credit cards, Bentleys and Berkin or Chanel nothing more. To build wealth empires which transcends to generational wealth.
Y'all are just being openly racist like y'all are not black 😂
@@frankjames6232 I know the difference between money and wealth bro. I don’t care what black women really want. But do I hear them say that exact line. I was simply quoting what KS said. Nothing more or less, but appreciate the full feedback.
@@lindavelo3103 racist? Stop it. I quoted what KS said in the video. Where’s the lie though?
@@Iamjoeycross I know you do and this comment wasn't directed to you in the way of you knowing the difference what I was getting at was the lack knowledge of what bw's knowing the difference between wealth and money no shade to you bro peace✌✌
Black Women are my preference. But I refuse to be mistreated.
💯💯
💯!
Unfortunately if they are your preference, you will always be mistreated
What is the problem, exactly? As a white man who has never dated a black woman, I am curious...
@@justinw2232 black women tend to act like black men owe them something. So they treat us very horribly and constantly spin narratives to make it look like we just don’t want to be around. Then they say he was abusive etc. we as black men are waking up. We know that we can find better outside of our race. No matter what we’re told.
Bruh…I had a long talk with my dad 2 years ago about his marriage. All I gonna say is he made me look at my mom totally different. Broke my heart because my dad bit his tongue to keep the peace.
92 Alpha was my husbands MOS when he served in the army.
@@jessicanegrete6273 mine as well
We all ways do
It's sad that a man can't speak his mind, if so it's war, so we hold it in to " keep the peace "
This is one of those important talks that truly lays everything on the table and leaves no room for miscommunication or misunderstanding. Got it saved to revisit and share.
This series here was actually a very good one. And even though she has her point of perception. To be 29 years old she actually listened. I don't know how much she retained. But for her age in the conversation through all of the series. It was actually a good piece..
That young lady was the epitome of every young lady that KS has tried to reach, nothing special. This was truly one of the best interviews/vids he's done. Thanks so much.
She's not even young. She's about to hit the wall and she knows it.
@@ryanj357 she still training to be a mistress and not a wife.
@@keithsimon She probably will never be a wife. At least, not as described by KS.
Ikr, she was behaving like she's hot shit but she par for the course. Exactly the woman he talks about.
@@ryanj357 29 looking like that is a diamond for every last 40yr old dude I know. If she was on program with raising the next generation it would be over. After so many men it's impossible to change or make an impact. Too many years of flashbacks. I have women I dated in our Early 20s who now only get special treatment from older men and they have tried to come back. I've had to be honest and tell them the prize is gone for me personally when I'm literally dating a 22yr old who is almost twice as valuable to me. Sure my old ex makes over 140k as a manager of a military contractor office... But as a construction engineer the LAST thing on my list is a woman's income. It sucks to have had that talk
Man, Kevin is literally a surgeon. His verbal dissection skills are unmatched..it's definitely something to be valued..he has earned all the fame he has..💯
Truth. Well said!
Thats a skill very few has. He was amazing in this regard.
The verbal gymnastics from these women are insane
Black men are done trying to change combative, argumentative, masculine women, those days are over.
Y’all never tried to change those women anyway… 🤷🏽♀️… what are you talking about…
💯... I'm dating out of my race... Tired of their BS..
Kevin never lied. I used to date black women and wanted to marry one until I met a puerto rican woman and she makes the house peaceful, treats me like a king, cook, anything I DONT have to ask for. I feel respected and TRULY valued. Im not going back to black women anymore. Dating women outside the black race has been great
When the rappers stop wanting her to be in their videos, she will prioritize marriage.
🤣🤣🤣💯
A Classic! This clip should be seen by all BM and BW
After i got grown i was so grateful that i had the dad i had. He literally had his shot gun ready for any man that wanted to take advantage of his daughters. He ran off a few except the ones that married my sister husband and mines.He saw something in them, that they was good enough to take care of us. As a young girl i didnt understand why he was so strick when it came to his daughter, but later on in life i understood. A for that i am so grateful i had a father in the house hold.
Men should choose the best option for them regardless of the person’s complexion. You have to live with the outcomes at the end of the day and that’s all that matters. Choosing to live with peace, quiet and freedom. If someone disrupts your peace then leave them alone.
Choose those with the best attitude.
Exactly
Culture plays a role in how some women interact you! some cultures were taught to please their men no matter what it takes!
Everyone doesn't value peace male or female some love a little chaos
@@aprilwilliam65 then walk away
"If black men aren't "ready for marriage", why do black women get butthurt when black men date outside our race?"
The perfect question.
It was a perfect question, she tells KS you know why and then was juking answering the question like Barry Sanders. It's such a tell when instead of answering they just laugh or deflect.
It's called low self-esteem. All pro-black women have it.
That’s an excellent question
I still wanna know the answer to this
I've seen more BM get butt hurt over BW dating out.
Every time Kevin asked her a difficult question, she paused, smiled and stared at him, hoping pretty privilege was an adequate answer.
See young dudes miss things like that thinking with their little head. Lets face it she was boring
Hit the head on the nail.
The pretty privilege is strong with this one.
I noticed that as well, shes probably done that since grade school and got away with it but Kevin held her to it.
@@123pb no she can talk bruh don’t believe that for a second she’s just catching all the guys who will give her props for being pretty. She’s on Kevin’s show looking for a high value man and she might get it.
Heck ---- I was lapping it up!
This Is Still one of the Best channels to ever push the manosphere theology. It's All Facts
I've watched all 4 parts and every time KS hits her with that real she pauses and give off that nervous grin
Facts. I noticed that too
Almost like she vanished for a second lol
@@FacecardFlashy Lol.
Because no matter how she responds, KS and you blk mn will berate her. Why subject yourself to that. This isn’t a real conversation where he’s truly looking to learn, he just wants to spew his talking points for his angry viewers
@@sheh.9163 he asked her real and honest questions that many black men, myself included would like to hear her opinion on and she just shut down. This clearly isn’t some overweight loud chick with big dreams and no work ethic. This is a gorgeous, in shape, business woman who many men would like to get to know and she showed she’s the same as most women. Smh. There are men who would be ready to take the next step with a woman like her but she wants to prolong and wait to see if she can get a better option AKA a rich/wealthy man.
Jessica has such a beautiful smile...
It's almost a shame it's such a dead giveaway every time Kevin asks her a question she's knows the answer to but doesn't want to say for fear of outting her sisterhood.
Because she seen a lot of examples of what he saying she a very attractive woman she knows the game aint nothing wrong with admitting the truth
Jessica will be just fine. She can get a WM and an Asian Man. I feel bad that she is even considering dating a BM
@@TruthbTold777 Lol, statistics say otherwise.
@@JusTheKing. statistics prove that most bw are race loyal and statistics also show that BM are the least married out of all other male demographics so if you do the math statistic will tell you that the bulk of BW aren't getting married because they don't date outside their race and BM aren't marrying them or anyone else. Statistics also show that when BW do step out of that race loyal mindset that they have much more successful relationships. BW with WM have the highest interracial success rates and even the kids come out better looking and more self confident and intellectually grounded. Better do more research honey because the only thing holding BW back is their ignorant loyalty to the man who's at the bottom of the economic and social hierarchy. WM, AM and Hispanic men outdo BM in every category not to mention BM have the highest cases of erectile dysfunction 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@JusTheKing. and exactly what are you the king of ? Why do so many blk ppl give themselves these made up fairytale titles ? I bet you don't even own a home or have a wife let alone a kingdom. Kmsl 🤡
Shorty stopped smiling and laughing when he mentioned another non black woman learning about us I didn't see no smile after that
Reality setting in in real time😭
Men should go where they are appreciated and loved, period.
If that's among black women, cool. Latinas? Cool. Becky? Cool. Asian? Cool. Go where you're appreciated.
Got me an Asian. Best decision ever!!!!
Becky is starting to turn into Shaniqua unfortunately!
My sister her husband is black happily married for 6 years . he said to us he is not attracted to women from his own culture . my sister told me his penis is huge . I want a black man toooo mmmm
@@NoreLyne 😂😂😂
@@demanskytuba6057 I'm trying to get one too
That was the most epic engaging honest and healthiest conversation I’ve ever seen between a man and woman documented in media ever. Most of the time it’s a charismatic motivational speaker who manages to persuade his audience into agreeing with his provocative beliefs so he can sell shit. And same with the women. Kevin did a great job with keeping it real and honest. That’s very selfless of a man in his position to do so. I’d like to see another entry like this with fellow brother.
Judge your mama the same as how you judged your father. Forgive your father the same way you forgive your mother… Couldn’t be said better. Right on brother!
𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝
±𝟏𝟔𝟎𝟔𝟑𝟓𝟐𝟑𝟗𝟏𝟕
Let him know i referred you.......
Go where you are happy and appreciated..end of story. It doesn't matter what others think...they aren't living your life.
ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs,
𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝
±𝟏𝟐𝟑𝟒𝟐𝟎𝟑𝟐𝟑𝟔𝟕
ʟᴇᴛ ʜᴇʀ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ,
Sure. Just don’t ever say men ain’t shit. Instead say the men you choose ain’t shit.
I'm curious if anyone else is pushing the same message. Very insightful video
Yes several men even some women are saying what Kevin is saying, I have seen a few Caucasian men and women as well as black male and female shows like Kevin. None of the ones I have seen are as knowledgeable as Kevin show was
I think the example about son husbands and daughters who are seen as competition by their mothers is the one that penetrated. She had an answer for everything till that one hit home.
Yes! I'm a black man in my 30's, and I'm victim of the son/husband dynamic. I wasn't even aware of it until fairly recently. But I tell you it's so true and very damming...
Timestamp on that? Thanks
@@Iceman19852003 same for me. My mum recently divorced and I'm hearing from her way more now than I used to, sometimes it's nice and sometimes it's a hassle. Have to remind her that even though I love her that I'm not a substitute for her husband. If she needed to speak to me this much as a son then she would have done it when she was married
@@Matt-fq6ly 28min
There's probably a Greek tragedy with that as a theme.
Good on KS for tackling this topic, it's one of those things that never really get spoken about but is always there. He hit the nail on the head when he said sista's think brotha's are their property, and that's exactly why they act so entitled! Men have to realise they are *nobody's* property in this world, no matter which background or culture you are from- you have to do what is best for *you* even if that means dating out because there are better options- the bottom line is, you don't owe anyone $hit! Do what is best for YOU
This woman is very slick folks. See how she deflects every question? Also, let’s be real, she doesn’t give a sh*t either. Watch the smiles and shoulder shrugs guys…
The word Wife is like Kryptonite for a lot of women. They want Partners without the obligation and responsibility.
Man this is real. Sad also.
Yep... Women have attempted to remove and redefine the sex / gender role of wife and making it "gender neutral" term using the word partner.
“Wife” is a biblical term as is husband. All these women claim to be so religious and yet they reject biblical teaching when it has responsibility attached to it.
Still want children tho whether they're ready for them or the man is good candidate. Since lots of women have been able to raise children alone fairly successfully they go into it feeling like they'll be good either way. With a man it's always worst case scenario of abuse but when they're single they'll birth the next LeBron James lol.
@@suntzu6122 bruh! Nailed it! This is why children have no respect for religion. And all these anti religion folks Miss the bigger point. When we were more religious, we were more disciplined! Screw all the slave talk. You cannot have it both ways. Either be religious or don’t. Nothing wrong with being agnostic.
Black women get the FIRST RIGHT OF REFUSAL. But after that it’s the open dating market
Oowee. That Son-Husband thing is REAAAALLLLL
Black womens knowledge base revolves around social media
Sad but true.
Not just black women
@@leonhenry4861 okay
Becky pursued me. Which made me stop perusing other women. She drove the competition away by doing something the other women I was dealing with wernt doing.
Ayyyyyy.
Intrigued. Can you share what she did?
Very masculine
how did she pursue you, if you don't mind me asking
@@Kinypshun And ask him does she have any single friends.
I love the number of times she gets that look you see on many black women's faces. She leans back and pushes her lips together with an internal scowl that she is trying to hide externally. That's the look you get when the truth hits but she doesn't want to accept it. It's happened more than once on every video of this series so far.
Man, he was all over this conversation...this was her capstone to her degree right here
bruh this is straight gold. this is why talking to women in general is kinda pointless unless you've literally found a unicorn.
@Nightmarelord
Well stated and dually noted.
You're 100% on point.
Bro y’all going out so sad, it’s weird to see how disconnected Kevin’s reality is from the comments. If finding a woman who isn’t braindead and understands what two people can bring to a relationship is hard for you, it’s likely you’re just not all that desirable. Or like the women who lose pretty privilege, you’re looking where you’re not desired, (AKA above you’re league)
I'm a good woman ❤️
@@duatchol7710 with your logic what’s wrong with the women cause they damn sure can’t find men
@@duatchol7710 the Bible specifically said Eve was a helpmate to Adam. Monogamy was designed around business purposes. The best thing a woman can bring to a man is a clean slate.
This talk is therapy for the black community. Great work brother
IM TELLING YOU ALL RIGHT NOW THAT THIS MAN IS THE REASON IM ENGAGED TODAY!!!
God and then Kevin…. Bless you 🙏🏾
@@erictoomer5665 I like that.
@@MrArtifacts205 Congrats big homie! I hope and pray I’m there one day but I gotta stay on my purpose for Father God FIRST!
@@erictoomer5665 that’s how you do it bro. Stay on your purpose. You have time on your side.
@@MrArtifacts205 Got to brethren 🙏🏾
Not like I'm for Becky, but I personally knew good BM who were ignored, and spit on by bw when we were younger. These same guys however, were recognized by Becky, or Maria. These same guys humanity, personalities, and aspirations were cherished by these other women, and when these guys became earners, rewarded the feminine, pleasant and sensitive Becky or Maria with their loyalty as husbands.
ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs...
Yeah I be trying to hold and wait for Keisha… But if Gudalupe gets here 1st 🤷🏽♂️
Exactly. If they recognize me then I know I’ll be recognized outside of the fishbowl😎
It finally hit me that this was a Historic Tragedy.. I didn't even watch his video's before he past. He could've helped millions of men and women with his brutal honesty. He must have been murdered for this reason.
Sometimes it seems as though some attractive women truly feel that their value isn't on the decline with age. The problem is when they finally realize that it's true it's already too late!!
So true.
Big Facts
Yeah its sadly common
Yeah. She said she wasn't as attractive in her younger years but came into it at a later age.....sorry, this just does not happen and men are the ones who decide this, not you.
Look up lady, your just about to hit the wall.
That’s that woke virtue signaling sh*t. Can’t even look at American women seriously anymore. Rather just go foreign even if she is white. I just know this ain’t it in the states. Sorry stay mad then😂
THIS IS YOUR BEST SERIES YET. PLEASE, SIR, DO MORE OF THESE!!!
I loved how calmly and respectfully she spoke throughout.
◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs..........
📞ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍*𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝
♱𝟏𝟓𝟔𝟏𝟗𝟖𝟎𝟖𝟑𝟑𝟗༻
ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ····...
It pains me to see so many of our young attractive sisters so lost and just don't fully understand how simple men are and how easy we are to make happy.
1000% Correct. Becky was certainly easy on the eyes, but clueless to what a simple effort it would be to educate yourself on what a man requests in a relationship. More effort, on a daily basis, wondering about the "next design" of a freaking bathing suit. Yeah......like we need another gas station, on another corner. Like there's no bathing suits in the stores, or online.......she'll be entering the Danger Zone soon....Wake Up, Becky!
They understand but they don't care, they are more self entitled due to success. That's why they tell men to step up. Men need to understand women too. That's where most men go wrong. You can't change women. BW are very controlling and hide it by playing dumb. Manipulative.
Black men (American) just don't want to reproduce black children.
They are only interested in their own happiness
Black women feel like they own us excellent point! The long pause 🦗that Jessica gave was the girl code kicking in saying don’t tell the truth. KS filled in the answer correctly.
💯
With Becky and the Latina's, you black men will breed yourselves out.
@@lindavelo3103 I want you to think about what you just said. If a black man has a child with any woman he will continue his legacy. Try not to get caught up in the pigmentation.
Its like they think they have the home advantage but still lose
@@503redbull
Yep even if you give them the other teams playbook, it's still a lose.
Wtf. She has not ONCE directly answered his question. She is another casualty. She has so much ego and that will ultimately be her downfall. Good job miss who ever you are 😃👏🏽
She might settle down when she in her 50's I guess
I kinda wish she had a strong POV...KS was strong here and there were a lot great moments from him BUT she was weak sauce. Just didn't assert anything of substance.
She’s extremely annoying. She thinks it’s funny.
I pity the fool that wifes her up.
@@RyouEnixDating What's her IG please?
Thumbs up as always. 👍🏼 The "Master Class" continues! Respect Kevin.
Black women need to level up culturally.
Facts
How?
@@lindavelo3103 our women are stuck in the misconception that they can live without men. The math doesn’t work, men need women and women need men. Our culture is telling young women “don’t worry about a man, get your degree and focus on yourself” this stops then from wanting to get serious on their 20’s but for women who want children they’re golden years are their 20’s. If you want kids most DRs don’t suggest having kids after 35 so their golden years are 18-35. After college the time is 22-35 if you want multiple kids then the first kid should be around 30 at the latest. Our culture has mid 30’s and 40’s year old women wanting to finally settle down and start a family but biologically it’s too late.
@@khalilwilson2586 But all I see are black men bashing black women so why would they focus on you? Black men are only hopping to other races and their culture, no racial pride for their own. The number one thing I hear when black men want to date non bw is that they berate bw 1st inorder to get in? Who does that? Bashes their own race to appease another. What's the goal? To breed your race out because non black women are not praising black men on this level, unless it's a celeb.
Men lead women follow
I love the way the music cuts off at the end with reverb. Musically you should have the background music cut as well and have it all reverb and fade out. It creates a wanting more and reflection on what we just saw. Great show my brother.
"Different cultures...", a very problematic mindset. Black cultures have always been about family.
In Africa, single motherhood is STRONGLY DISCOURAGED!
African Americans are Africans only in name. When my brother went to work two time periods in USA he was very shocked how culturaly different black Americans are with pure blooded Africans. His African coworkers where societing more with the estern Europeans then with the black Americans.
@@maligjokica I wholeheartedly disagree with your generalization.
@@dejumaboutique1305 what’s the generalisation?
I’m going to the gym and booking a session - I would hate to ever be mistaken to share the same thoughts of these women…
How the hell do you say your name!?
Book a membership sis a session not going get it
good for you, save yourself!
@@bmx687 yo lmao 🤣
@@j.s27 🤣 stop it! She didn’t name herself, at least, I dont think she did.
Damn Kevin! You are one of the most patient and disciplined men I’ve seen! It’s so hard to get down women to answer simple straightforward questions and take accountability for logical obvious facts! I’ve been through this and it’s exhausting! Makes you just want to say forget it! It’s not worth the stress and aggravations!
◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs........
𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝
±𝟏𝟓𝟔𝟏𝟗𝟖𝟎𝟖𝟑𝟑𝟗
Let him know i referred you........
I'm feeling who he talking with lol. But KS spit facts. I got a relative like that. Soon as her son moved to college she went and had another kid at 38. It's been clear to me last 10 or so years that a lot of women think having a child will replace the need for an actual romantic partner. For some having a kid gives them a purpose and even an excuse for not reaching their full potential.
I have a cousin who proclaims her 7 year old son is her “man”- little boy has never met his father
Exactly, literally a living distraction
Its called a son husband
That’s their plan from day 1, little do guys know. They end up as nothing but sphem donors and financial lifetime support. And don’t seem to care they have become that I guess it’s good enough for them.
He's right about the mother son thing in many ways. I had to be the man that led my younger siblings and I too didn't know my father until I was 22 years old. He lived in the same city as me but wasn't allowed to approach me or be in my life as he should've been. I know him now at 38 but we barely talk about it because we both understand what happened and out of respect for my mom.
Mom a thottie
@@howard1852 lmao im dead 🤣🤣
Damn sorry to hear that man 😔
@@dd470_ It's all good. Life is full of confusion, I atleast got the opportunity to understand certain things.
@@howard1852 Lol you make such a joke and you're probably really hurt inside. Only hurt people try to hurt people. But I understand how important it is for you to laugh 😉
These conversations are important because the younger generation is seeing the mistakes.
She's actually a good candidate to be brought onto this show. Lovely conversation, she wasn't rude in any way but she's a typical example of how modern day feminism especially with black mothers have totally brainwashed black women like her in the current generation. It's a serious problem. U know there's a huge problem when u ask a woman why are u single? How do u keep a man? and she has absolutely no idea. That's the failure of her parents not passing traditional values to their children as well as so many other factors too. The problem is on both sides too not just women, however the same things are still expected of men to be providers and protectors which is why there's not so much delusion with men as compared to women's double standard. Sun Tzu said it best in art of war: knowing the enemy very well is half the battle won.
Media also coddles women a lot. Every woman is a queen and no matter how big you are you're beautiful and your personality and working a job(no matter how good or bad it is) factors into you being a Dime. Women and media try to force men to be what most women don't actually find attractive...Well at least until their attention slows down.
One of my biggest issues with her (Jess) was that Kevin quoted facts and statistics. When she wanted to make a point, she quote some woman on TikTok.
@@timboslice9905 he's in his 50's, she's only in her 20's, so her quoting someone from TikTok is not a big issue.
@@Veon_Ray she’s on the closer end to 30. I don’t really think that anyone should judge the world that we live in by TikTok. That’s my point. If you’re debating with someone, does a TikToker’s personal view hold up against stats?
@@timboslice9905 doesn't matter, she's still in her 20"s. All "stats" are not facts, and all information found on social media is not automatically non-factual. It's not a "debate" it's a conversation....again, *not a big issue,* that's my point.
My Colombian Maria been more co-operative and feminine that i had so much peace with. Wouldn't trade her for no American woman
Got to love them..I'm loving the Afro Colombian women
@@marvl6472 yessss
Tambien
Indeed
When I returned from my first trip to the Dominican Republic it is difficult dealing with American women. After returning from Colombia recently it's a wrap.
@@trackandfield1906 I’m going to Colombia for my bday in June. We were in Cartagena back in November - that ish spoils you for real 😂
"Judge yo mama as harshly as you judged yo daddy and then give yo daddy the same forgiveness yo gave yo mama"....Sheer BRILIANCE
At least she was wonderful eye candy...makes Kevin's high value conversation so very much entertaining as he destroys each and every false preconception she had! Good work Godfather!!!
Let us see after a couple of kids. She definitely isn't the 5'4 125 or whatever proportion he mentions she should be based on her height.
He sliced and diced her up
She could stand to lose about 35-40 lbs for starters, that’s too much meat for the beach.
Secondly, her pretty privilege still has her single.
She’s living in one of the finesse capitals of the US and she’s a finesser herself. She and her ilk strutting around south beach and Wynwood talking all that boss chick y’all are not ready to settle down, and the HVM’s in Miami know that.
@@bgood4449 She’s pretty tall at 5’9 so she should be around 145-160. Her profile said she’s 190 and she carries it well but yeah, IF she has kids, it’ll definitely blow her up if she ain’t on it fervently.
I wish brother would stop saying she look good .thats never been an issue..it's their hardware programming . That make you sound like a sim___! No disrespect
I see so many channels talking about this. Its like watching a car accident in slow motion. in about 20 years you're going to see an epidemic of single women in shelters not being able to take care of themselves but too proud to admit it was their fault...
can’t wait
Yessir by 2040 it's coming. High inflation and most of them make under $40k a year. They don't invest or plan for the future. Going to be a homeless crisis. I will never have sympathy or bail any of them out. Sit back and laugh like they doing us now tehehehehe
Seeing this now lol
Which proves that marriage specifically and relationships generally are security blankets for women....
@@basemanawakens6089 yep after they make poor decisions they go for the blue pill guys to save them. Tehehehe exposing them all atleast in my reality
This series would have been so much more interesting with someone who was actually willing to answer the questions instead of shrugging and smiling more than half the time because they were too afraid to speak honestly
This is why I’m working on my self awareness & value now as a 24 year old. I’ll be booking a session soon! I would hate to be 30 with this mindset. I refuse to lose my chance with a good black man to Marisol, Becky or Mai Ling 🤷🏾♀️.
P.S. Not all of us think like her (I’d say about 25% percent don’t). Just know there’s black women out here like myself that are ready to compete, cooperate & act accordingly for a black man!
I am 26 and just discovered Kevin. Definitely need to book a session,hopefully its not too late
@West west 💯 & it’s sad to see because it’s affecting the youth and our survival as a people. I don’t support divesting for that reason & others.
At the same time though, what are black men expected to do when the majority of their women don’t respect or value them or themselves?
Appreciate and respect men who have built and maintained the world and you shall find what you want.
Good on you, that mentality will ensure you will end up attaining what you are seeking because you are actually willing to do some *work* for it and not just it there entitled expecting the Lord to drop a spouse on your lap! All best with it all 🍾
@@suadpattonbey7239 same here! I just started watching his (& others) videos last year & have been doing the work ever since. It’s not too late, we just gotta put our money where our mouths are (get coaching/go to the gym/therapy) so we can be found by a good man & husband!
I definitely get approached more by non black women than I do black women. They go hard when they want you for sure.
Same here bruh.. I get approached by women worldwide…and when I used to live in amerikkka,I was always getting attention from latin and white girls…sistas wasn’t checkin for me until they saw a blonde on my arm.
The only time they were probably checking you out was for disdain...lol
@@joshuasterling2144 🤣🤣thems is fax
I definitely see Black American women being ruder to black Men for no reason I don’t know how you lot put up with it 😭
In ALL ways. 😎
My husband is black and he said married me not for looks but for my kind, humble, and sweet spirit. We have 3 beautiful children and make sure we love and respect each other everyday. Love knows no boundaries
Becky, Marisol, Ming Li & Fatima do not have a problem w/me being short. They have no issue with my attire or my penchant for nerdy shit nor do they fantasize about the "Thuggish" or "Hoodnigga" stereotype. They absolutely allow me to be me. Even when I led an extremely modest life they had no issue riding with me. We cannot force them to like us Black men especially when their standards are less than ideal or conducive to a nuclear family. Claire Huxtable was my goal but I have came to learn she's a rarity in this generation and those that do exist want an athlete or rapper lol. Even the 3's 4's and 5's think they can do better than me 😂😂😂😂😂😂 yet get upset when I return to the US with a foreign "bad b!tch"
I left the US for Australia in 2008 and never looked back. Have better standards fellow Black men. Have some self respect. Expect better outcomes and do the work. We are not perfect but we are making progress.
How's the spider season down under mate?
What’s Australia like?
👏👏 My father always told me a 6”2 hood Harvard grad doesn’t exist. I will never forget it.
@@iiilliilllllliilliii7184 it really does need more discussion, BW would prioritize height over a stable honest working values.
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I used to be so race loyal to BW until I noticed that other races of women were very much interested in me and they had less baggage than BW for example no kids and no attitude…I date women that appreciate me regardless of color tbh I would prefer a BW but I’m not going to limit myself to only them exclusively anymore
Yess bruh I open up my horizons
I never was race loyal🤣🤣
This was my story as well!
Right. Only racists think color matters.
Men have children too
This was a REAL conversation. One our women NEED to hear.
Happiness is everything, color doesn't matter anymore or mean better
ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs...
Donald Glover, Alphonso Ribeiro, and Byron Allen are just a few examples of black men who most black women consider "lame" or not "hood enough" and they eventually said ok peace out and hello Becky.
I'm still down with black women but I don't blame those Brothas one bit
Carlton don’t like Black Women at all though
@@erictoomer5665 why would he? Black women use him as an archetype of a man they don't want.
BW don't want Carlton?
They don't want Will, either.
Jada cucked out Big Willy hard, there's no hope for any BM.
@@erictoomer5665 He was a dancer from a young age so I'm sure he liked black and latina women at some point but the attitudes and expectations are the issue
Most guys that have money and/or options aren't going to deal with a bunch of attitude and BS unless they find one of the few that don't bring them either
Becky and the Asian ladies knows how to play/fake the role the best for the most part
@@doupnetwork Look up how he speaks on white women in particular and you tell me with a clear conscience that that’s fake.
She’s mad gorgeous. Hope she’s a great person to go with it.
It’s like strong independent women forgot strong independent men exist as well
Damn! Say that again….sheeesh
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Lol, not in the blk community, most BM don’t have $10K in their bank accounts
@@sheh.9163 most black men are also single and childless and in the middle class… independent
@@sheh.9163 average black man makes 41k
I swear, sometimes it looks like they're damaged beyond repair. God changes minds, heart's and behavior. Stay prayed up.
I appreciate that this sistah listened to learn and not just respond. I feel in the privacy of her own mind that she will realign her core belief based on the truth that we saw her come in contact with. I hope she continues to be successful in her life.
When he asked her that question… she was like… 😬😬😬😬😬😬… I thought the video froze she was so quiet!!!!!
And she tried to ask a question without answering his question first to avoid it because she didn’t know what to say
@@TradGuyTravels hell yeah… Kevin was like… nah.. get cho ass back over here and answer the damn question…
I got a Becky now. I love and prefer black women, but it just didn't work out that way for me with them. I did not go out and seek a white woman but I can say I have never been treated with such respect, honor, and with such submission. It's extremely refreshing and honestly I'm so used to a certain type of personality that I still can't believe I have such a great woman.
I understand bro( I have many blk female wanna get with me but they can't even pass the fitness test dey over weight,sassy I don't even respond
Y'all are very much exaggerating 😂. Even white men don't act like this.
@@lindavelo3103 Now Men cant even LOVE a woman without getting shiii'd on...
You are a lucky man 👍
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Ayyyyyeee Shoutout to Jessica!!! BIG MOVESSS!!!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳
Jessica what???@
My Only Daughter Married at 19 Met her Husband in College, I didn't Fail Her so so Proud as a Mother ❤️💯
aww so cute 🤍 you are the best mommy
That's too early to get married
@@TheTeslaTy500Show your hate will send their marriage to an early grave .
@@NoreLyne bo it's facts they don't even know what they want to do with life yet and divorce lawyers aren't cheap
@@TheTeslaTy500Show they desire to have love Peace grace and harmony with each other . the Lord gave her to this man . You are rejecting this in an effort to satisfy your own selfish desires
My husband and I met when I was 19 and he was 21. We got married the following year. A lot of people thought I might be too young but I told them I’m not getting any younger. When I met my husband he lived in a camper in his grandparents back yard. But he was hard working, had a trade and good Christian old school family values. Our daughter was born when I was 22. Fast forward to today, been together 17 years and I wouldn’t have it any other way. At 36 years old I feel so tired all the time and don’t feel I could keep up with an infant.
Congratulations 🎉🎉 My Hubbs had the brains and a trade and was hard working as well 💕 Congratulations to us💕 being in a stable marriage feels so satisfying women our age just don't get it 😳
@@DeNi.NiCara exactly. I’m so glad that when my parents divorced I was home with my depression era grandma and grandpa who taught me old school Catholic values. The old school Italian Americans had strong family values and teach you a lot about marriage and family. I’m grateful to have had this knowledge that my millennial generation missed out on
@@CMM726 oh how I love it💕💕 stay blessed 💕
This video I rank amongst the top 5 that the Godfather put out! I was in my tub motionless listening to this one. So much life counseling. So much TRUTH you know but don't realize until he shouts you out...breaks it down statistically..pro-family all the way. Thank you Mr. Samuels.
◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs.............
𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝
±𝟏𝟓𝟔𝟏𝟗𝟖𝟎𝟖𝟑𝟑𝟗
Let him know i referred you............
The Black Woman will always be my first choice. However, if y'all keep behaving like some of the chicks KS interviews on this channel and the ones I've encountered in person, I'm definitely looking elsewhere. Unapologetically.💯
Man should of been looking else where
I’m an average white guy currently dating a beautiful Indian girl and she’s probably the girl I’m going to marry. Dating outside of my race has been the best decision for me.
Black women are all over the planet besides the States
Exactly why we need to do better before it’s too late… 💯
NOTE : with every smile after every question he offers, this is the part of the female ego being attacked by truth and hoping her smile can be the representation of her answer and in doing so she also provides an assemblance of Truth. When he asks, "what's wrong with you?", And she responds (with a smile) "I'm pretty" and nothing else. And the intelligent here where below average doesn't
Love whoever you want
◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs..........
📞ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍*𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝
♱𝟏𝟓𝟔𝟏𝟗𝟖𝟎𝟖𝟑𝟑𝟗༻
ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ····...
This one hit different especially that last 10 minutes. SALUTE KS
I was in a club and some sisters where saying I hate that too, so joking I said I hate that too, laughing, talked to them ask the single one out, she said, she didn't have time to go on a date, I told her, you can make time to do anything you want to, but why did you ladies say I hate that too comment, she said, they hate Black guys chasing white women, and I said, the reason we date white women is because they have time for us Black men. have a good Night.
Really solid interview ... very cool!
I love Beckie's , Keisha's but I love loyalty, respect and femininity more so whatever color she is having those traits. I'm locking her in.
ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs,
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@@user-rn8io3vy6t 😂😂😂 I sure will O.G.
I feel the same, I personally never been loyal to one race of woman. I'm from east coast so diversity is normal to me.
Facts
Dated black and Latin women all my life. Stopped looking at color/ethnicity and found that WW treated me so much better.
@@Edwards4567 y’all just be saying shit
That's great! Dated Black men and now married to a White man and found that we just gelled really well. The Black men I dated were not bad people but we just weren't great fits or things just didn't pan out how we expected. I just found my person. See how I put that without putting down men of my own race. Try that some time.
@@dorifrazer687 well said! It's never a need to bash black men. I wish black men who subscribe to Kevin's perspective did the same. It appears they take pleasure in being rude and mean to black women. I appreciate different perspectives. But got damn! These men have hate in their hearts. It makes me sad.
My favourite video you have made to date..both are well spoken and provided valid points. Thank you.
They so worried about them Becky's but it's the Maria's you need to be worried about!
The wild card
Lissette
Ofn grave
Mai Ling too
Ling ling what we looking for
I got me a traditional beautiful African Queen 👑. But I learned the hard way
Same here, and my marriage has lasted 10+ years. My advice, cancel Netflix or even better throw out the TV altogether. My wife's attitude had become more westernized over the years and I highly suspect its from the RomComs and shows like Scandal and Grey's Anatomy where women are routinely talking down to men and acting masculine.
@@MoneyIsSilver I think alot of people underestimate the power of these western movies and music how toxic they can be to an innocent mind
This Sister is Everything, and Absolutely Awesome...... Everything is Everything!
She is stunning!
This looks like a date. I LOVE THIS!!!
Excellent work!
Amazing show Mr. Samuels. Thank you for fighting the good fight!
KS, I'm sorry you cannot change this woman mindset. She is only focused on hearing herself talk, and not open minded to this conversation. She deflect on questions you asked her. This was hard, sad, & realistic to watch.