If you are not prepared to live life on your own, without the need of another to complete your so called picture, you are no where near ready for a relationship.
Not always true, my mother for example is somebody who is about as good of a partner as possible to my dad and yet I can see that she would really struggle to be alone, and like any other human has an aversion to living life without a partner. There's a definite balance here, and I am speaking as someone who is generally very introverted and alone. Just wanted to correct it for those who read it. I still think it's great and incredibly important to be able to loosen that clinging even within a relationship and have some sense of true aloneness and independence.
@@user-fg3fv9hl3bI think one of the main points of spirituality is evolving to a place where you are whole and complete within yourself without necessarily needing a relationship. You can still be in relationships, but the need to be in one in order to feel complete is actually just codependency which is not a high state of being.
Reminds me of thi Raman Maharshi was dying, and a disciple asked, “Where are you going? Why are you leaving us?” And he opened his eyes, and he laughed and said, "Where can I go?"
Think he's a little bit dishonest here, for some reason. I'm shure he had been in such a "normal" realationship with sexual attraction and egoneeds and egohopes and disappointments etc. himself in his early years. (He mentioned it in one of his talks) And he knows A LOT about why people do this.
Love Adya, just pure honesty, no hubris or bullshit or convoluted spiritual theories or dogma
Wow. This gotta be one of my favorite talks of Adya. How's he so eloquent??)
How beautiful!
If you are not prepared to live life on your own, without the need of another to complete your so called picture, you are no where near ready for a relationship.
Soo true 🫶🙏
Not always true, my mother for example is somebody who is about as good of a partner as possible to my dad and yet I can see that she would really struggle to be alone, and like any other human has an aversion to living life without a partner. There's a definite balance here, and I am speaking as someone who is generally very introverted and alone. Just wanted to correct it for those who read it. I still think it's great and incredibly important to be able to loosen that clinging even within a relationship and have some sense of true aloneness and independence.
@@user-fg3fv9hl3bI think one of the main points of spirituality is evolving to a place where you are whole and complete within yourself without necessarily needing a relationship. You can still be in relationships, but the need to be in one in order to feel complete is actually just codependency which is not a high state of being.
Thank you, so beautiful and so helpful to see through the surface to see the divine ❤
What is your partner beyond humanness?...what have we learned thru our deepest challenges? Great questions to ponder. Never fails to amaze me
The intangible quality of each person. That mystery. I love that he pointed that out.
Even among Adya videos, a jewel. ❤
This is so clearly stated, and from my own life experience, so true.
If you are happy with & and in your Self and your aloneness you may find a person you want to live with
Yes and that kind of joy tends to attract the right people too!
❤gratitude
I miss Adya.
Reminds me of thi
Raman Maharshi was dying, and a disciple asked, “Where are you going? Why are you leaving us?” And he opened his eyes, and he laughed and said, "Where can I go?"
@ My sentiment is actually quite different. Adya is not dying. I just miss being in the same room with him. That’s all I meant.
Oh my goodness. Thank you.❤
Beautiful..☀️❤️
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Think he's a little bit dishonest here, for some reason.
I'm shure he had been in such a "normal" realationship with sexual attraction and egoneeds and egohopes and disappointments etc. himself in his early years. (He mentioned it in one of his talks)
And he knows A LOT about why people do this.