Podcasts is a business, I don’t see why anyone would go on a podcast if you not looking for clout or at least want to promote your business. As for madam speaker it’s a business nothing personal she is here to make make money and raise awareness on stuff , I feel bad for the lady she is very naive and doesn’t understand how this works. Podcasts are there to make money go on there if you want to promote your business if not get a therapist.
Every business is about making money but any good business knows that to make money, you must treat your clients well. Common courtesy due to any client was lacking in this case.
Cylia is unreasonable,no one forced her to share her story publicly and podcastors are here to feed their families not to play psychologist ,we must bear in mind,if you need healing go to psychologist
Some of y’all misplace sympathy kodwa…. I was not there to experience the treatment she got. However, ukhalela iwater yena, her daughter needed a mother the first time she got violated but she didn’t get her to protect her. I’ve never seen people being interviewed by SABC or other news rooms on their stories being checked up on after that, NEVER.
Hey Sis! We are in deep shit in this country. We fight grapists and then women that do the cover up after the crime has been committed. She failed her daughter not once but every day she stayed with that man after that ejaculation incident
Problem here is that they are both content producers. Celia is not ready to share her story and she inadvertently joined a hashtag because she wanted views. She wanted Madam Speaker to affirm her that she didn't fail her chd because the sexual abuse went on for many years. She must seek therapy instead of seeking attention from celebrities.
Iam so dissapointed at how poeple r busy sympathizing with that women ,what kind of a mother is that ?she sacrificed her child to a monster so she can keep marriage ,m furious thers so much I could say about this what i know is that myself if somoene so much as touch my daughter the wrong way they going to hell, all these years when she could have left with the baby on the first incident I have nothing but disgust for women like this and the community that normalise such evil,shocking behaviour.
They way she was referring to her daughter as “ the child”, kodwa when she was referring to her husband, she kept on saying “my husband”. She needs therapy
Hey there was a part where she said she shared a bed with her husband after a positive grape test was confirmed on her daughter. She is on a victim campaign to cleanse her conscience. The day she let that first ejaculation evidence slide was the day she day she sold her daughter down the river all in the name of saving her marriage. The scourge of grape will never stop for as long as such women walk among us. She should be jailed right along with her demonic ex husband
After persuasion coz she didn't want to come to Joburg over this busy period but was persuaded and none even bothered to check whether she got back home safely. afterwards
I thought I was being insensitive by thinking that she should have gone for,first,second, and third opinion,and not only believe the psychologist and not go for medical test.She lacked somewhere and wished the problem away
How can she relax yena loSisi kudlule iminyaka after her child was violated like that? even if there was no penetration. She should have left that man and applied for custody of the child. She just wanted to keep her marriage at the expense of the child.
After listening to both sides of the Story and watching a commentary by Brother Ricky ,There was need for continuity .Madam speaker also indicated in the audio she sent to Celia that she was emotionally exhausted. I have personally learnt lessons from this whole situation.
But she just said what she wanted. Check up on your guests. Did they travel safe and make them feel welcome. Treat them like people and not just cash cows.
This is a sign of grief. This woman is still at the blaming stage as she could not ptotect her daighter. Please go and see a psychologist. See the interview as a positive note because you could open up and share your pain.
Kindness sometimes is important if you are tired because she was interviewing others she should have set time for them to speak to her further even if just listening
She is bleeding on Madam speaker, she still needs healing, madam speaker and other podcasters should partner with professional counsellors for her future guests even a once off debriefing event for them. Anyway CYLIA seems like she wanted more, she wanted a sisterhood from Madam speaker but unfortunately it was December she was also exhausted. At SABC or Mzansi do they expect the same followups?
@@tkbheje8876 u r not the only one. I’m subscribed bt been avoiding her videos like a plague bcz wow she has a sharp tongue like “no one tells m” Breaking point for m was that she stands for Ubuzalwane yet when someone asked if she’s single frm her divorce she replied “Me, single can never be m” then I knew right there and there she’s one of those bazalwane basezweni😂😂😂😂😂
What do you expect from someone who just refers to everyone as "my sister" or "hee bazalwane" she is just a Podcaster and you are just a next story nothing more.
I watched this podcast madam speaker gave her time to tell her story 2 hrs she did not pass judgement and asked her how she needs help and she Celia said nothing can be done etc. I feel this woman went to the podcast with high expectations as if going to oprah show. Im worried that her sense of reality is obtuse ..i have not passed judgements at her failings as a mother as she was quite deep and extensive with how and how things happened . She was presented with plenty opportunity to intervene in her childs life. Madam speaker has given her a platform a voice and passed no judgement. The story is her with no edit or manipulation from perceverance ..but she was her to be a psychologist psychiatrist or councilor ..she might have got up from her productio. And had to deal with her own personal issues or did not have it in her to provide aftercare. I feel this woman is unreasonable and possible milking her story or wants to milk it...that white cup was containing water she bought herslf ? I dont know but its blown out of proportion she shouldnt have gone if she wanted princess treatment..
She probably just needed a little tenderness considering how sensitive the story was and she had to relive it by telling it again, checking in on her after the interview would atleast show care and not to feel like a number.
Hhay bo, didn't she drink coffee/tea whilst narrating her story...she looked so chilled at that point! After all, she said there was nothing which could be done except for the perpetrator to confess. She didn't even understand why she cried on set cause she's at peace with ex hubby. She felt nothing about what happened in the past, then what's this???? It's not abt her, Madam Speaker invested her time and money(it's her bread) . This Lady must get over herself😮
This Yolokazi to even talk about mango juice I mean, if you willingly go to a potcast or anywhere, you can ask what are the questions, what you going to offer me, and what will I get after this, then decide to cancel and tell them I will not come because of this, and other postcasters like yolo want to always see other potcastors as bad people while seeing themselves as the best, aii maan.
Ubuntu bokwenzan kumuntu owayekelela ingane yakhe you can't say you let it slide kanjan kwingane yakho ayyy she's evil shame she doesn't even deserve to be felt sorry for.
And she isn't even a trained psychologist for her to be interviewing people about these issues. People need to go to therapy instead of going on Social media.
I wonder how the child is, she needed her mother. The child is the one scared for life yena o busy crying over Madam speaker ai maybe ake utlwi hantle hle. Mommy please go see a therapist. I hope this time you'll protect your daughter with everything.
This lady is the likes of thando mdletshe who really want to mk it to the top by pulling the most followed or favourites of you tube down....trying to squeeze in to the top thru the same people they envy n hate secretly
Madam speaker projects herself as a Girl’s girl. It’s reasonable to expect sisterly warmth from such a person. Atleast we now all know that this not the case in reality. She is like any journalist who is after a story. There is nothing wrong with that. The only problem is when one projects themselves to be something they are not.
Plp who say podcast is a business madam speaker is correct I get them thy have nver dealt with plp who have survived trauma. But for her who have dealt with many people in that position it was very shocking to hear her speak like that let's nt let our content be bigger than us.
Podacsters are humans as much as we invite guests for content make money and raise awareness. Ubuntu must come 1st. Iam a philanthropist and a Podcaster. I can nver do a story and leave it hanging hence Ive even gained a son... a sister... a friend a beautiful family from some of my guests. That's how touchy their stories were and I could not seat back and leave it at the studio. If you have humanity to followup check on your guest. Cylia is not being naive nor demanding what's unreasonable here. We r human before we are podcasters. Madam speaker was very rude even the apology is not sincere her tongue is sharp and it's like beka Qeda icala noku xolisa njee. Worse when yu make a person relieve the horror yu evoke emotions in a very painful way and by evoking those emotions yu must be sincere and keep it going cause such people get triggered by simple things. Ake sibe no buntuvtes it's for money but singa khohlwa singa bantu asiphile senze Ubuntu hlee. I have guests that I have taken to life coaching/therapy. Cause I felt I could nt seat back and do nothing after I've done the story lapho I was nt even making money from the podcast as I only started getting paid in October. When my guests arrive I offer coffee muffins water and even a meal for someone who has traveled such a a distance for me. Let's care nje the world will be a better place.
When they say NEVER MEET your “idols”; this is what they mean. Arg my heart goes out to her; she honestly thought that since she opened up to her; maybe some form of friendship would come from it. Have someone who can actually help her through these difficult time. Now I understand why content creator friendships never last. It’s JUST BUSINESS!! After they get the storyline, on to the next sana. 💔💔 checking up?! Forming real bonds outside of the CAMERA nje.. it doesn’t work out. Realistically speaking. But I forgive Madam Speaker. She can have some strong views about relationships etc.. but that’s a JOB to her. After the lights go off; life happens and it can get the worst of us.🥹💔💔💔
This year is definitely starting on a serious high note 😮😮
Cylia needs to heal.She is so venerable and needy
Podcasts is a business, I don’t see why anyone would go on a podcast if you not looking for clout or at least want to promote your business. As for madam speaker it’s a business nothing personal she is here to make make money and raise awareness on stuff , I feel bad for the lady she is very naive and doesn’t understand how this works. Podcasts are there to make money go on there if you want to promote your business if not get a therapist.
What was madam speaker supposed to do
Every business is about making money but any good business knows that to make money, you must treat your clients well. Common courtesy due to any client was lacking in this case.
@@shirleymlombo2913 yeah madam speaker messed up here
Cylia is unreasonable,no one forced her to share her story publicly and podcastors are here to feed their families not to play psychologist ,we must bear in mind,if you need healing go to psychologist
Some of y’all misplace sympathy kodwa…. I was not there to experience the treatment she got. However, ukhalela iwater yena, her daughter needed a mother the first time she got violated but she didn’t get her to protect her. I’ve never seen people being interviewed by SABC or other news rooms on their stories being checked up on after that, NEVER.
She was hugging her when she was crying,kanti what else happened after the podcast that we know nothing of??
Doing that on a child is traumatic how did this woman let it slide?😮 Yhooo haibo
Hey Sis! We are in deep shit in this country. We fight grapists and then women that do the cover up after the crime has been committed. She failed her daughter not once but every day she stayed with that man after that ejaculation incident
Problem here is that they are both content producers. Celia is not ready to share her story and she inadvertently joined a hashtag because she wanted views. She wanted Madam Speaker to affirm her that she didn't fail her chd because the sexual abuse went on for many years. She must seek therapy instead of seeking attention from celebrities.
Iam so dissapointed at how poeple r busy sympathizing with that women ,what kind of a mother is that ?she sacrificed her child to a monster so she can keep marriage ,m furious thers so much I could say about this what i know is that myself if somoene so much as touch my daughter the wrong way they going to hell, all these years when she could have left with the baby on the first incident I have nothing but disgust for women like this and the community that normalise such evil,shocking behaviour.
Very shocking , athi wahlola ingane but saw nothing like wtf 😢😢
Like how do you let this thing slide from the first place💔💔 she turned a blind eye on her childs abuse ...she knew and she chose to trust her husband.
They way she was referring to her daughter as “ the child”, kodwa when she was referring to her husband, she kept on saying “my husband”. She needs therapy
Hey there was a part where she said she shared a bed with her husband after a positive grape test was confirmed on her daughter. She is on a victim campaign to cleanse her conscience. The day she let that first ejaculation evidence slide was the day she day she sold her daughter down the river all in the name of saving her marriage. The scourge of grape will never stop for as long as such women walk among us. She should be jailed right along with her demonic ex husband
Mina before I can go to the clinic I check my child myself hayi yena
The fact that she let it slide for the first time is where I see wrong with her and also, she willingly went to the podcast.
After persuasion coz she didn't want to come to Joburg over this busy period but was persuaded and none even bothered to check whether she got back home safely. afterwards
Nami ngimangele, how could she continue to stay with that man for years after the sexual misconduct, knowing the child is not safe around him?
I thought I was being insensitive by thinking that she should have gone for,first,second, and third opinion,and not only believe the psychologist and not go for medical test.She lacked somewhere and wished the problem away
Akulimaze umuntu avele athi
"bazalwane this, bazalwane that"
Lapho ubuntu ZERO😢😢😢
Sifike kanjani la🤔🤔
Ngeke ayibone into ewrongo ayenzile instead defend this behavior
Yhoooo tendency zabo vele 😢😢
Yho, I will never stay with a man who did that to my child ,not me ,I don't care what explanation that that man gave her.
How can she relax yena loSisi kudlule iminyaka after her child was violated like that? even if there was no penetration. She should have left that man and applied for custody of the child. She just wanted to keep her marriage at the expense of the child.
After listening to both sides of the Story and watching a commentary by Brother Ricky ,There was need for continuity .Madam speaker also indicated in the audio she sent to Celia that she was emotionally exhausted.
I have personally learnt lessons from this whole situation.
But she just said what she wanted. Check up on your guests. Did they travel safe and make them feel welcome. Treat them like people and not just cash cows.
@ When I commented I had only listened to one side of the story.I wll edit my comment or retract it. .
@@DarksecretsConfessionstete musauye neplatform yedu kumastreet 😂
This is a sign of grief. This woman is still at the blaming stage as she could not ptotect her daighter. Please go and see a psychologist. See the interview as a positive note because you could open up and share your pain.
Kindness sometimes is important if you are tired because she was interviewing others she should have set time for them to speak to her further even if just listening
She is bleeding on Madam speaker, she still needs healing, madam speaker and other podcasters should partner with professional counsellors for her future guests even a once off debriefing event for them. Anyway CYLIA seems like she wanted more, she wanted a sisterhood from Madam speaker but unfortunately it was December she was also exhausted. At SABC or Mzansi do they expect the same followups?
Exactly my point. She is bleeding on Madam Speaker! As if Madam is a robot she cant get tired, am sure her work is exhausting
You are right, madam speaker needs to bring a licensed physiologist. She needs to stop what she is doing.
Cha ngivumelana nawe sis Yolokazi 🙌 Engaba owokuqala to complain about her but she is not the last one. Attitude yalo sis niyoze niyobone koda 🤞
Am I the only one sensed “mean girl” energy from Madam Speaker from the onset?
She apologised to her though. I think this is how she speaks
@@thandazah she is rude
@@thandazah the apology is not what she asked for, she asked for the video to be taken down
@@thandazahShe responded again asking Cylia who does she think is, that shows she regards her as a nobody
@@tkbheje8876 u r not the only one. I’m subscribed bt been avoiding her videos like a plague bcz wow she has a sharp tongue like “no one tells m”
Breaking point for m was that she stands for Ubuzalwane yet when someone asked if she’s single frm her divorce she replied “Me, single can never be m” then I knew right there and there she’s one of those bazalwane basezweni😂😂😂😂😂
What do you expect from someone who just refers to everyone as "my sister" or "hee bazalwane" she is just a Podcaster and you are just a next story nothing more.
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
U Cylia..ulenkinga naye. Bekumele nje from the 1st time umtwana telling her that daddy peed on me that was a red red flag
Imagine ignoring a 3 year old, a baby 😭😭😭
Something needs to be done. U tube is gradually turning into a Battle field, instead of being an entertainment channel.
Yes! Wow you have noticed 😫
Haibo😅 you wanted her to be your friend yini? You told your story and brought awareness ses that's it...
I watched this podcast madam speaker gave her time to tell her story 2 hrs she did not pass judgement and asked her how she needs help and she Celia said nothing can be done etc. I feel this woman went to the podcast with high expectations as if going to oprah show. Im worried that her sense of reality is obtuse ..i have not passed judgements at her failings as a mother as she was quite deep and extensive with how and how things happened . She was presented with plenty opportunity to intervene in her childs life. Madam speaker has given her a platform a voice and passed no judgement. The story is her with no edit or manipulation from perceverance ..but she was her to be a psychologist psychiatrist or councilor ..she might have got up from her productio. And had to deal with her own personal issues or did not have it in her to provide aftercare. I feel this woman is unreasonable and possible milking her story or wants to milk it...that white cup was containing water she bought herslf ? I dont know but its blown out of proportion she shouldnt have gone if she wanted princess treatment..
True
Heal Celia ,pray for healing, what Perseverance did, was not that deep. Amillion apologies .
I'm wondering why she's more concerned about princess treatment rather her daughter's state of mind after airing what happened to her online
She probably just needed a little tenderness considering how sensitive the story was and she had to relive it by telling it again, checking in on her after the interview would atleast show care and not to feel like a number.
Hhay bo, didn't she drink coffee/tea whilst narrating her story...she looked so chilled at that point! After all, she said there was nothing which could be done except for the perpetrator to confess. She didn't even understand why she cried on set cause she's at peace with ex hubby. She felt nothing about what happened in the past, then what's this???? It's not abt her, Madam Speaker invested her time and money(it's her bread) . This Lady must get over herself😮
Evil attack on Madam Speaker
Shooting a podcast cost a lot of money. Think before you go on these things.
Thank you for the summary I didn't know the background story you are beutiful
Just watched that story and sad to learn about the sad turn of events. 😮😢
5:26 don't lie I was watching the episode just now and the lady had a cup next to her she was sipping on something
This Yolokazi to even talk about mango juice I mean, if you willingly go to a potcast or anywhere, you can ask what are the questions, what you going to offer me, and what will I get after this, then decide to cancel and tell them I will not come because of this, and other postcasters like yolo want to always see other potcastors as bad people while seeing themselves as the best, aii maan.
Ubuntu bokwenzan kumuntu owayekelela ingane yakhe you can't say you let it slide kanjan kwingane yakho ayyy she's evil shame she doesn't even deserve to be felt sorry for.
Hai ngeke, Such entitlement
Haibo you guys are reaching Nikis . It’s unfair how she was treated but she apologised. 1st complaint in so many years hayiiii
Sangene lomama akakhonjwanga ngesbhamu
Madam Speaker is mean, she gives off that vibe
And she isn't even a trained psychologist for her to be interviewing people about these issues. People need to go to therapy instead of going on Social media.
Madam Speaker is a fierce Witch 😢😢😢
season ,"Bazalwane " has just been a cover up this whole time
Ubuntu guys nothing else jst ubuntu😢
You will never see that right now , you are one of the few
I wonder how the child is, she needed her mother. The child is the one scared for life yena o busy crying over Madam speaker ai maybe ake utlwi hantle hle. Mommy please go see a therapist. I hope this time you'll protect your daughter with everything.
This lady is the likes of thando mdletshe who really want to mk it to the top by pulling the most followed or favourites of you tube down....trying to squeeze in to the top thru the same people they envy n hate secretly
Humanity is Gone...ubuntu is dead.
Sad truth and we can justify
Well said, my love ❤❤❤
My question is how was she used? I’m not bias on this case but I’m curious
This is so confusing really 😂😂😂😅
how are we seeing mean girl from afar yo guys NO.
Does she always speak this fast because wow 😢
She spoke very slow on the podcast that I even wanted to fast forward some parts.
Cylia expected courtesy. Maybe uSis P gave her a different impression hence her having expectations.
Madam speaker projects herself as a Girl’s girl. It’s reasonable to expect sisterly warmth from such a person. Atleast we now all know that this not the case in reality. She is like any journalist who is after a story. There is nothing wrong with that. The only problem is when one projects themselves to be something they are not.
Plp who say podcast is a business madam speaker is correct I get them thy have nver dealt with plp who have survived trauma. But for her who have dealt with many people in that position it was very shocking to hear her speak like that let's nt let our content be bigger than us.
Yolokazi..... Nawe you are making money out of this story.
😢
Podacsters are humans as much as we invite guests for content make money and raise awareness. Ubuntu must come 1st. Iam a philanthropist and a Podcaster. I can nver do a story and leave it hanging hence Ive even gained a son... a sister... a friend a beautiful family from some of my guests. That's how touchy their stories were and I could not seat back and leave it at the studio. If you have humanity to followup check on your guest. Cylia is not being naive nor demanding what's unreasonable here. We r human before we are podcasters. Madam speaker was very rude even the apology is not sincere her tongue is sharp and it's like beka Qeda icala noku xolisa njee. Worse when yu make a person relieve the horror yu evoke emotions in a very painful way and by evoking those emotions yu must be sincere and keep it going cause such people get triggered by simple things. Ake sibe no buntuvtes it's for money but singa khohlwa singa bantu asiphile senze Ubuntu hlee. I have guests that I have taken to life coaching/therapy. Cause I felt I could nt seat back and do nothing after I've done the story lapho I was nt even making money from the podcast as I only started getting paid in October. When my guests arrive I offer coffee muffins water and even a meal for someone who has traveled such a a distance for me. Let's care nje the world will be a better place.
M shocked
Lets cancel Madam Speaker angeke guys
Who is Celia what is hoing on vele im so out of place shame i dont even follow these foward woman vele
On subdays o madam speaker will be taking pictures qnd telling us about sunday vibes
Venda girls 😮😮😮
When they say NEVER MEET your “idols”; this is what they mean.
Arg my heart goes out to her; she honestly thought that since she opened up to her; maybe some form of friendship would come from it. Have someone who can actually help her through these difficult time. Now I understand why content creator friendships never last. It’s JUST BUSINESS!! After they get the storyline, on to the next sana. 💔💔 checking up?! Forming real bonds outside of the CAMERA nje.. it doesn’t work out. Realistically speaking. But I forgive Madam Speaker. She can have some strong views about relationships etc.. but that’s a JOB to her. After the lights go off; life happens and it can get the worst of us.🥹💔💔💔