Nozipho has shared her life with us & taken us into her corner for many years, even when it became difficult to share when circumstances changed in a manner that depressed her, she remained true to being vulnerable with us. In this episode, we delve into this vulnerability. CLICK “captions” to view subtitles on this episode, trusting that you will SUBSCRIBE and get us to 100K! ❤️
I wish we can get to a time/period/era whereby women won't make marriage their ultimate achievement/goal. Yes, get married but have your own life whilst your in that marriage.
Yesterday I was chatting with some older ladies in the taxi n this topic yo mshado came up. And Hai shem Now most ladies are singing a different tune. they are no longer pushing the get married narrative ❤. They actually said put yourself first. Be happy first.
@molebogengmashego2824 Exactly. Because my gender, the males, seek to fulfill their individual life goals before, during and after the lobola negotiations. We put ourselves first in EVERYTHING 🙈🤭🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃...🤣
But you can't have your own life in a marriage.The Bible says the two shall become one, you have one life together, that's what needs to be brought back and taught that marriage is a 3 way covenant. God designed marriage to work and for a purpose.
You can do all that. But a man can still leave you and cheat on you. Women want commitment and truth. Nosipho is educated, she chose to be w stay at home wife to take care of the family, the children. So I don't understand what she did wrong.
Amen nozi, left my marriage at 45 and I'm 65yrs now. God took care of me as I chose "ME".. never found a man I wanted and ooh God ooh God I'm very good and love myself so much. Am a very pretty woman and aged gracefully. Love you and may God walk with you in ur next journey ❤
Lungelo, your aura reminds me of Steven Bartlett (Diary of a CEO)...even the all black attire. You are doing a great job mfana. Your professionalism is superb and you are able to connect with your guest. Well done mfana.
And this is a lesson that is never taught to us. This is a lesson we are now learning when we grow up ,usually when the man disappoints or humuliates you or does a very crazy thing that shakes you to your core. I hope that this generation of women pass this lesson on and make sure that our daughters, step-daughters, nieces get it!
How this man chooses to marry someone else when Nozipho is so wise so wholesome, so kind, so well put together and so beautiful is beyond me shame... it is indeed true that when a person cheats it's because something is lacking inside them, its got nothing to do with the cheated on.
The same man who left another or other women to be with her? The signs where always there sadly. And he is most likely to leave even the one he left Nozipho for.
@GodsFavourite2024 wait niyithathaphi leyo ? UNozipho never mentioned that there was someone else nje amfica... uthe he had kids before her just like she had a kid before him
The way I love Nozipho, it always excites me to see her face. Whenever I come across her face my heart bakes muffin. You are an amazing woman Nozipho. Hats off! for Lungile, his interviewing style is on another level.
Lungelo you’re very good at this . Your interviewing skills show a deep interest and respect for your guests story which is reflected by your good questions. Kukhombisa ukuthi you were actually listening to understand , not listening to respond. You also let your guest flow as they want to without interjecting. As a viewer I really appreciate that 🙏🏾 keep it up and I hope your channel continues to grow. To Sis Nozipho, God restores🙌🏾 thank you for sharing and goodluck with your new business venture ! 🙌🏾💞
That secret one month old at the beginning of this relationship tells a story about her husband's character. A prelude for the outcome of this marriage. This guy is the definition " put your self first" he puts himself first no question.
Nozipho is gorgeous bethuna. Her love for kids. I wish she should have chosen a career that is children centred. I dnt understand the husband....he was blessed, and he didn't realise it.
Nozipho ❤. What I am gathering is that he still supports her. They are not divorced but living separately (no ring). She's doing her own thing, but financially, he still maintains his household. She'd probably never get divorced because to her, this is a "season," and she will "die" in marriage. ❤ Love her. She's still deeply hurt by this "season." Hhaaaiii men 🙌🏼🙃
Man this woman is another gem made from a different kind of clay. May God bless her beyond her expansions coz she stands for the word of God and abides to it come hell or water. It all shall come to passing. One day she's gonna laugh it off and just say "Yah, neh God." ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I think it’s in his best interest to support his wife and kids cause legally he stands to lose much more if they divorce. He’s probably waiting for that day and hoping it never comes. She will probably make the first move and when she does, his world will collapse and I hope it does…monumentally. Nozi sisi, You mentioned that you helped grow your husband’s company. Use that knowledge and money to build your own and when you’re ready….do with that power and financial independence whatever you want.
God pushes us to uncomfortable place for a reason. No growth in comfort zone. I am proud of you sister ❤ the best wisdom comes from the hardest struggle. Never run away from pain
Nozipho my dear, you are so factual, full of wisdom and have a big heart as well. May the Lord grant you the grace to write a book about marriage and blended family. The way you are so informative, this country will learn a lot from you my dear. You are so honest in your story telling. Please drop that book in 2025.❤❤❤❤❤
Kanti iYouYube channel yona usisi uthi uthi uyivusa nini siyilambele kangaka singo young single mothers of 3, siphoxiwe nathi imishadweni sibancane. We love you sisi, ukuphila kwakho kuyasiphilisa ❤🫂
I saw this TH-cam channel today. I am not a social media fan. I don't know this lady. But i love her so so so much. She is super amazing ❤️🤩. She is so matured and lovely
This is by far the best episode I’ve watched ,I fell in love with Nozipho she’s so smart and full of wisdom . I learned to much …plus I just love how she speaks she’s got a soft tone
Ngaze ngakhala throughout this interview wema! 🤧Thank you for sharing your story sis Nozipho. I love your energy and thought-process. uNkulunkulu akugcine njalo, Lungelo, thank you. You are gifted and we are blessed by your gift.
Ah I've found my tribe...I have no desire to have kids at all, and I feel nothing bethuna when it comes to maternal nton-nton. I'm the "rich aunt" and that's how I love it. Flowers 💐 for you ladies!
Thank you for stating the truth, there really is no formula to life. Women tend to think having kids within wedlock is the solution forgetting there is divorce
She clearly loved him. It’s so disheartening because she still speaks of him in the present then corrects herself! Healing is a hard and painful process, it has no timeline either. I pray she can find true love, even if it is her living herself ❤
Recently went through a divorce, I feel her pain. Mine was so bad. Been through all the stages of grieving. The depression is real. Literally lost ever one. Trying to rebuild is hard. But God is Gracious
Such a courageous woman, Love her to bits. Her heart is so pure and authentic, Healing looks beautiful on you mama💓Lungelo is an amazing interviewer, Keep it up big guy.
Nozipho is such a wise woman, just listening to her speak about a very difficult season in her life made me realise that whatever it is that I'm going through, I'm definitely going to be fine, I really love the fact the she never departed from God, this was such a profound interview.
She was definitely kept. Lungelo made no mistake with that statement whether she admits it or not. Her entire life revolved around him and the marriage. Financially and in other ways she was dependent on this man that she saw nothing outside of it. She probably didn't even see the red flags that he about to leave her because she was so kept. Mentally, financially, and physically kept you were babes. Kuyingozi ke lokho because indoda at anytime can say akasakufuni. We women need to love and build ourselves more.
Every time I listen to this podcast I get so amazed by the interviewer. Your line of questioning and they way you conduct your interviews man. Wow.. the future looks bright.
She looks rejuvenated she looks good her skin is like milk her face is filler body is tight . Know this is an example when God said" I will put a table and pull u up infront if people who broke you vengeance is mine" so God loves her.
Ao bagithi I didn't even realize she's the one who featured in the mommy club. She looks so different... you're right SimpleFaith, she looks well indeed ❤️❤️🎉
I’m realising as she speaks that it’s so important to have a life outside marriage/ relationships. Majority of failed marriages I’ve listened on podcasts those wife’s had put their happiness. They’re whole lives on husbands rather than God. I don’t know if I make sense but thank you for sharing your story. I’m Glad to hear this at my young age.
This is also a lesson that in life that you need to put yourself first, fetch your life and don't stop living because you are married, I really hope she finds herself and healing
I’m glad you allowed this amazing woman to express herself bilingually as it allowed her story to be told authentically… I hope you extend the same grace to all your future guests... I believe the people who watch this channel can navigate through most of the African languages reasonably well.❤
What a woman❤she's got to much grace to give and not to even mention the wisdom(unmatched). May the good Lord continue to heal her beyond her imagination.
I realised that healing begins when you own your part and take accountability for that. Because you only have control over your own decisions. This lady is very mature. I wish Nozi all the best.
Siyabonga Lungelo boet! This episode❤❤What I took from this episode ukuthi uJehovah uyaphila! And kuyinhlanhla ukwazana naye! Beautiful podcast! ❤️ Onwards and Upwards!
You are absolutely a great Interviewer!! not only do u interview but also speak positive words to your guests....u are truly gifted! so refreshing..and i Love Nozipho so this episode is absolutely a fav🥰🥰🥰🥰
Nozipho is so full and loving and that's what her ex saw in her and he harvested that for himself. You can tell she's a super empath and suffers from positive self projection which is very dangerous for kind people because you get taken advantage of a lot. She really needs to start seeing people for who they are and realize it's not her place to heal them.
The miscarriages were a lesson or preparation that not everything is permanent and can be taken away at anytime. I also remember my Pastor saying God will give you what you want because you’ve been yearning for it to show you that He is there, then take it away because that thing is not part of His plan❤
I have so many nuggets and wonderful opinions I wanted to comment on in this conversation. I wish I listened with a diary, to note and quote. But I’m just going to settle for saying thank you to you Lungelo and Nozipho for this amazing conversation. 🙏
Nodipho....She is m dream girl. I finally decided to further my studies in educational psychology and inclusive education. Its due to me trying to change the education system and letting the parents understand that your child is not disabled but rather differently and specially able...Agh man Nosipho is such a positive energy but a bright light and huge uplifter to young divorcées,young moms,single moms,career moms,ex wives and baby mama's...Mxm man take this woman's words into great consideration.❤❤❤❤❤
There is so much I am taking away from this conversation. Siyabonga Nozipho for being so gracious and genuine in sharing your journey with us. You are such a powerhouse ❤
Thank you so much Nozipho for building me thank you so much from today i will wipe away my tears the pain is over yes that season have to come and its past now
A book worth reading would be that of Nozipho, there are no coincidences, regrets or mistakes in life all that she went through will work out for good. Romans 8 vs 28....
I think you are the best to ever do it Lungelo, so full of wisdom and empathy. I enjoy watching your podcast. Love and light to this amazing woman in Nozipho. God loves you. ♥️
Nozi speak woth so much grace nje....not mention how strong she is, fact that she knew what not to accept in a marriage and willing to leave says a lot about the woman she is ... big ups Sisi and may God see you through
I love her voice, how gentle she is. I laughed at the way she had to ask the elder gogo about the culture practice of marriage: "Bese kuthwani Gogo", ok then "Bese kuthwani Gogo".
Women must understand that you are an individual , you enter into a union, it’s 2 individuals choosing to make a team and jointly enjoy and experience life. This thing of marriage being a price or a goal is short sighted! People going into marriage as a price typically loose themselves and find it so hard. Add ontop of that blended family and children from outside! It’s a lot of work!
Lungelo’s questioning is really good. He taps into those parts that a psychologist normally would 😂 also Nosipho is a warm and lovely woman but I don’t believe that question about coming with a child being the real reason she tolerated so much from the husband was answered honestly. Because what do you mean a one month old didn’t throw you off, and all the other ones that kept mushrooming?
@@mmathapelomalekutu4647 I think what she means that her younger self, was not thrown off by that, yes in hindsight she would be…so it might be her truth cause her younger self saw things with marriage in mind.
Lungelo, you did a stellar job with this interview. Nozipho, I met you when my husband will meet you at Midlands mall he would say where is your other half. Mama lentaba oyinykayo manje uma usufike phezulu, bukela emumva ubonge ngokuthi you became stronger than you thought.
Thank you so much for this, I am learning from others and this woman has made me realise that I am bigger than being a parent and selfcare is important
Watching her on Mommy Club truly showed me that Nozipho was very unhappy I'm her Marriage. Thank you for coming out to talk about your family affairs. Truly takes gutts
Looove Nozipho, her energy and approach to motherhood inspires me, not to mention the calm soft spoken power. To Lungelo 🥂 love what you did with this conversation
Nozipho, my husband and I have a child with what they say it’s learning difficulties however I have learned to understand that, it’s a standard way our education system uses. From there I grew a desire to open a school that will be a tailored learning. I love how our children keep directing us to things we never thought we would do and all the best with your post grad.
@@MaleboOldjohnTsindi 😍😍😍😍 These are things that make my heart happy. I believe kids can be their best if they are in an environment where they supported according to their needs 🌻 I pray that desire comes to fruition 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. I am rooting for you ❤️. Go mommy 🌸🌸🌸🌸
Nozipho has shared her life with us & taken us into her corner for many years, even when it became difficult to share when circumstances changed in a manner that depressed her, she remained true to being vulnerable with us.
In this episode, we delve into this vulnerability.
CLICK “captions” to view subtitles on this episode, trusting that you will SUBSCRIBE and get us to 100K! ❤️
You are a good host
I wish we can get to a time/period/era whereby women won't make marriage their ultimate achievement/goal. Yes, get married but have your own life whilst your in that marriage.
@@senzelokuhlenkabini6004 True.
Yesterday I was chatting with some older ladies in the taxi n this topic yo mshado came up. And Hai shem Now most ladies are singing a different tune. they are no longer pushing the get married narrative ❤. They actually said put yourself first. Be happy first.
@molebogengmashego2824 Exactly. Because my gender, the males, seek to fulfill their individual life goals before, during and after the lobola negotiations. We put ourselves first in EVERYTHING 🙈🤭🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃...🤣
But you can't have your own life in a marriage.The Bible says the two shall become one, you have one life together, that's what needs to be brought back and taught that marriage is a 3 way covenant. God designed marriage to work and for a purpose.
You can do all that. But a man can still leave you and cheat on you. Women want commitment and truth. Nosipho is educated, she chose to be w stay at home wife to take care of the family, the children. So I don't understand what she did wrong.
Waze wathandeka losisi🥺♥️ Aww! I’m wishing her the very best in life.
@suigeneris5193 indeed....she is so poised and a beautiful soul.
Lungelo is literally one of the BEST interviewers, he knows just how to ask the right questions!!!! You deserve 100K subbies and more.
God bless you for your kindness ❤
@@boikgantshomohlala5045 the host is so respectful, mindful and such a good listener
He is thee best struu. He knows i story sakhe.
He is definitely the best in the game
Amen nozi, left my marriage at 45 and I'm 65yrs now. God took care of me as I chose "ME".. never found a man I wanted and ooh God ooh God I'm very good and love myself so much. Am a very pretty woman and aged gracefully. Love you and may God walk with you in ur next journey ❤
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thanks for this testimony.
Sending u ❤🎉🎉 dear MaPulane❤..
Lungelo, your aura reminds me of Steven Bartlett (Diary of a CEO)...even the all black attire.
You are doing a great job mfana. Your professionalism is superb and you are able to connect with your guest. Well done mfana.
A man will always choose himself. You are doing well Nozipho and it gets better wirh time sisi.
And this is a lesson that is never taught to us. This is a lesson we are now learning when we grow up ,usually when the man disappoints or humuliates you or does a very crazy thing that shakes you to your core. I hope that this generation of women pass this lesson on and make sure that our daughters, step-daughters, nieces get it!
💯@@Reabona1
@Reabona1 yes sisi..."it is better the devil you know", "bekezela/nyamezela mntanam" - we were scammed.
Learned this the hard way. A man will always always put his needs first.
@KP-oq6vb been there, done that myself sisi.
"You have to mourn the life you thought you were gonna live"
How this man chooses to marry someone else when Nozipho is so wise so wholesome, so kind, so well put together and so beautiful is beyond me shame... it is indeed true that when a person cheats it's because something is lacking inside them, its got nothing to do with the cheated on.
They love the dumb ones that do not challenge their thinking
The same man who left another or other women to be with her? The signs where always there sadly. And he is most likely to leave even the one he left Nozipho for.
@GodsFavourite2024 wait niyithathaphi leyo ? UNozipho never mentioned that there was someone else nje amfica... uthe he had kids before her just like she had a kid before him
Most men don't know what they really want or need in life! 😮😮😮😮😮😮
@@GodsFavourite2024 Lies. He was never married before. Nozipho is 1st wife, he had baby mommas
The way I love Nozipho, it always excites me to see her face. Whenever I come across her face my heart bakes muffin. You are an amazing woman Nozipho.
Hats off! for Lungile, his interviewing style is on another level.
@@zimkitafilani8590 same here
Me to Cc, yooo ndiyamthanda nanku umntu❤❤❤
God does not hurt us, but He allow situations to happen to us for a purpose.
Cheers to that sister 🥂
True
Amen
This comment ✋🙏 Golden
So true,,every trial has God's plan in it.
What stood out for me is that she’s choosing herself, her pursing her studies is so empowering. It will get better in time, God is for all of us 🤍
Lungelo you’re very good at this . Your interviewing skills show a deep interest and respect for your guests story which is reflected by your good questions. Kukhombisa ukuthi you were actually listening to understand , not listening to respond. You also let your guest flow as they want to without interjecting. As a viewer I really appreciate that 🙏🏾 keep it up and I hope your channel continues to grow.
To Sis Nozipho, God restores🙌🏾 thank you for sharing and goodluck with your new business venture ! 🙌🏾💞
You’re exceptionally kind. Thank you ❤
she opens her mouth with wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness-Psalm 31:26
God is still yet to show off with this woman🙏❤
@@NakediAmanda what a kind thing to say ❤️❤️
That secret one month old at the beginning of this relationship tells a story about her husband's character. A prelude for the outcome of this marriage. This guy is the definition " put your self first" he puts himself first no question.
Most men are selfish about their happiness. They do not compromise for what they think will make them happy! 🤞🏾
Lungelo is such a good and brilliant interviewer. Yoo..you are sooo good my dear. Keep up the good work.
Nozipho has a pure beautiful heart that's so effortlessly how she loves all her kids
Nozipho is gorgeous bethuna. Her love for kids.
I wish she should have chosen a career that is children centred. I dnt understand the husband....he was blessed, and he didn't realise it.
Mfethu! Other people do not realize a blessing in front of them or even when it hits them in their face!
Educational psychologist a scarce skill, go for it Nozipho❤️ I love it for you.
Nozipho ❤. What I am gathering is that he still supports her. They are not divorced but living separately (no ring). She's doing her own thing, but financially, he still maintains his household. She'd probably never get divorced because to her, this is a "season," and she will "die" in marriage. ❤ Love her. She's still deeply hurt by this "season." Hhaaaiii men 🙌🏼🙃
Man this woman is another gem made from a different kind of clay. May God bless her beyond her expansions coz she stands for the word of God and abides to it come hell or water. It all shall come to passing. One day she's gonna laugh it off and just say "Yah, neh God." ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I think it’s in his best interest to support his wife and kids cause legally he stands to lose much more if they divorce. He’s probably waiting for that day and hoping it never comes. She will probably make the first move and when she does, his world will collapse and I hope it does…monumentally.
Nozi sisi, You mentioned that you helped grow your husband’s company. Use that knowledge and money to build your own and when you’re ready….do with that power and financial independence whatever you want.
What a wholesome, powerhouse of a woman Nozipho is. So wise and warm hearted
God pushes us to uncomfortable place for a reason. No growth in comfort zone. I am proud of you sister ❤ the best wisdom comes from the hardest struggle. Never run away from pain
When they say there is more to life, they are referring to her life. Pick yourself up and keep moving towards the next big thing. Seasons come and go.
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Nozipho my dear, you are so factual, full of wisdom and have a big heart as well.
May the Lord grant you the grace to write a book about marriage and blended family.
The way you are so informative, this country will learn a lot from you my dear.
You are so honest in your story telling.
Please drop that book in 2025.❤❤❤❤❤
I come from a house with a same mother and father. I don’t talk to my brothers at all. Relationships are built through knowing eachother. Not blood
@@zee-zm1io eish 😫
Your story is my story. Sending you lots of hugs ❤
100%
I'm also about to take abreak from my brothers as well. It will hurt my Mom but I have to do it for the sake of my mental health 😔
@@KP-oq6vbDo it! It's been 3 years for me. It was hard but better than the pain of constant disrespect.
Kanti iYouYube channel yona usisi uthi uthi uyivusa nini siyilambele kangaka singo young single mothers of 3, siphoxiwe nathi imishadweni sibancane.
We love you sisi, ukuphila kwakho kuyasiphilisa ❤🫂
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I saw this TH-cam channel today. I am not a social media fan. I don't know this lady. But i love her so so so much. She is super amazing ❤️🤩. She is so matured and lovely
This is by far the best episode I’ve watched ,I fell in love with Nozipho she’s so smart and full of wisdom . I learned to much …plus I just love how she speaks she’s got a soft tone
Best interview, love how Lungelo did not put any pressure on her... keep it up buti wami
She looks amazing, she is glowing. I love her so much, she carries herself with so much poise.
I adore this lady. Her spirit is just too much, beautiful inside and out 💕🤞🏿
Ngaze ngakhala throughout this interview wema! 🤧Thank you for sharing your story sis Nozipho. I love your energy and thought-process. uNkulunkulu akugcine njalo,
Lungelo, thank you. You are gifted and we are blessed by your gift.
Ngathi ngingahlala noLungelo and vent about umgowo wami (off the record) sixoxe nje, he’s such a great interviewer.
Ngeke ugowe njengam 😂😂😂😂😭
I also think that I am not made to be a mom but I love and enjoy being an aunt😍
@@ntuthukontshiza Same here. Thought there was something wrong with me🥰🥺
Same my love same
And that's okay
You are me shame, 39 with no kids n zero regrets. Lapho I enjoy being an aunt sooo much
Ah I've found my tribe...I have no desire to have kids at all, and I feel nothing bethuna when it comes to maternal nton-nton. I'm the "rich aunt" and that's how I love it. Flowers 💐 for you ladies!
This life has no formula. I had my kids in wedlock and i am still confused as to what i could have done wrong to still go through divorce
I’m now a baby mama. Something I never wished I could go through. My divorce was so painful
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@@anniedeborahchinungo4434 you are an ex wife, there is definitely a difference
God restores....
Thank you for stating the truth, there really is no formula to life. Women tend to think having kids within wedlock is the solution forgetting there is divorce
Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers 😢God bless her
That is a lesson you sometimes find when you are in that situation. I am one of those people who learned it the hard way.
She clearly loved him. It’s so disheartening because she still speaks of him in the present then corrects herself! Healing is a hard and painful process, it has no timeline either. I pray she can find true love, even if it is her living herself ❤
Are they divorced now?
Co ask
@ayandakhumalo8692 also wondering .
@@ayandakhumalo8692she's not going anywhere
Recently went through a divorce, I feel her pain. Mine was so bad. Been through all the stages of grieving. The depression is real. Literally lost ever one. Trying to rebuild is hard. But God is Gracious
Such a courageous woman, Love her to bits. Her heart is so pure and authentic, Healing looks beautiful on you mama💓Lungelo is an amazing interviewer, Keep it up big guy.
Nozipho is such a wise woman, just listening to her speak about a very difficult season in her life made me realise that whatever it is that I'm going through, I'm definitely going to be fine, I really love the fact the she never departed from God, this was such a profound interview.
There will be fires, but God will be in the fire with us... That's what He promises us♥️
She was definitely kept. Lungelo made no mistake with that statement whether she admits it or not. Her entire life revolved around him and the marriage. Financially and in other ways she was dependent on this man that she saw nothing outside of it. She probably didn't even see the red flags that he about to leave her because she was so kept. Mentally, financially, and physically kept you were babes. Kuyingozi ke lokho because indoda at anytime can say akasakufuni. We women need to love and build ourselves more.
Wow🎉🎉.. she looks beautiful, I can see the glow.. she's happy❤
Every time I listen to this podcast I get so amazed by the interviewer. Your line of questioning and they way you conduct your interviews man. Wow.. the future looks bright.
She looks rejuvenated she looks good her skin is like milk her face is filler body is tight . Know this is an example when God said" I will put a table and pull u up infront if people who broke you vengeance is mine" so God loves her.
I was looking for this comment. She looks so well compared to when she was on mommy club.
Ao bagithi I didn't even realize she's the one who featured in the mommy club.
She looks so different... you're right SimpleFaith, she looks well indeed ❤️❤️🎉
She looks really good ❤
One thing about Nozipho, she'll maintain grace all the time. What a graceful and beautiful woman🥰🥰🥰
I’m realising as she speaks that it’s so important to have a life outside marriage/ relationships. Majority of failed marriages I’ve listened on podcasts those wife’s had put their happiness. They’re whole lives on husbands rather than God. I don’t know if I make sense but thank you for sharing your story. I’m Glad to hear this at my young age.
This is also a lesson that in life that you need to put yourself first, fetch your life and don't stop living because you are married, I really hope she finds herself and healing
I’m glad you allowed this amazing woman to express herself bilingually as it allowed her story to be told authentically… I hope you extend the same grace to all your future guests... I believe the people who watch this channel can navigate through most of the African languages reasonably well.❤
Read our pinned comment to understand why 😉. Everything happens a the right time 🤝
Wow, so excited to see you again, looking so beautiful and glowing my dear Nozipho. I love your smile.
Yhuuu... I love Nozipho, shes so calm and love her kids. Wish her all the best❤
Lungelo is a brilliant and encouraging host. Nozipho is incredibly smart, sharp and clear. Wishing her all the best.
What a woman❤she's got to much grace to give and not to even mention the wisdom(unmatched).
May the good Lord continue to heal her beyond her imagination.
Nozipho is such a wholesome woman!❤
I realised that healing begins when you own your part and take accountability for that. Because you only have control over your own decisions. This lady is very mature. I wish Nozi all the best.
Nozipho and Lungelo❤❤❤❤I've never been so glued kwincoko ukogqitha le❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤well done Lungelo!
Siyabonga Lungelo boet!
This episode❤❤What I took from this episode ukuthi uJehovah uyaphila! And kuyinhlanhla ukwazana naye!
Beautiful podcast! ❤️ Onwards and Upwards!
You are absolutely a great Interviewer!! not only do u interview but also speak positive words to your guests....u are truly gifted! so refreshing..and i Love Nozipho so this episode is absolutely a fav🥰🥰🥰🥰
Lungelo you were born for this ❤Beautiful interview . Love Nozipho and her authenticity ❤
Favoured. Thank you ❤️
“God takes away the illusion of perfection to remind us that He’s the source!” Mmmhhhh
I thoroughly enjoyed this interview, watched it in one go too which is not common nowadays. Thank you Lungelo and Nozipho
I was about to download it but then dropped everything, and I just have to listen to this woman. I love the way she thinks and reasons.....
@@Dikeledi_Thulo dude
55:35 graceful and commendable. What a lady ❤ wishing Nozi love and light. Lungelo is a skilful and respectful young man.
This is a beautiful and full of healing conversation. God bless you both. Nozipho Jesus will heal your broken heart ❤
Nozipho is so full and loving and that's what her ex saw in her and he harvested that for himself. You can tell she's a super empath and suffers from positive self projection which is very dangerous for kind people because you get taken advantage of a lot. She really needs to start seeing people for who they are and realize it's not her place to heal them.
The miscarriages were a lesson or preparation that not everything is permanent and can be taken away at anytime. I also remember my Pastor saying God will give you what you want because you’ve been yearning for it to show you that He is there, then take it away because that thing is not part of His plan❤
This!😭
Hmmmm!
Such an elegant, classy lady❤ this episode was nothing short of amazing. And Lungelo, Aahh man impeccable interviewing skills 👌🏽
I have so many nuggets and wonderful opinions I wanted to comment on in this conversation. I wish I listened with a diary, to note and quote. But I’m just going to settle for saying thank you to you Lungelo and Nozipho for this amazing conversation. 🙏
So interesting to listen to an independent & mature woman.
Nodipho....She is m dream girl. I finally decided to further my studies in educational psychology and inclusive education. Its due to me trying to change the education system and letting the parents understand that your child is not disabled but rather differently and specially able...Agh man Nosipho is such a positive energy but a bright light and huge uplifter to young divorcées,young moms,single moms,career moms,ex wives and baby mama's...Mxm man take this woman's words into great consideration.❤❤❤❤❤
She is not alone🙌🏾🙏May the Lord strengthen her through it all.
There is so much I am taking away from this conversation. Siyabonga Nozipho for being so gracious and genuine in sharing your journey with us. You are such a powerhouse ❤
Thank you so much Nozipho for building me thank you so much from today i will wipe away my tears the pain is over yes that season have to come and its past now
It's not the new wife Lungelo, it's the dad.
Dad should lead. Wives follow the lead.
I like her so much…may God show off with her one day…♥️♥️♥️
A book worth reading would be that of Nozipho, there are no coincidences, regrets or mistakes in life all that she went through will work out for good. Romans 8 vs 28....
Gosh...now this was lovely! She was asked questions and given space to answer! Absolutely wonderful!!!
Love uses the craziest of way to help us to get back to ourselves....
You can say that again.
What a profound statement! Ezy
So profound ❤
I think you are the best to ever do it Lungelo, so full of wisdom and empathy. I enjoy watching your podcast. Love and light to this amazing woman in Nozipho. God loves you. ♥️
Nozi! Thank you for sharing your journey with us. Ungasakhali sthandwa sam, dlulisa.
Nozi speak woth so much grace nje....not mention how strong she is, fact that she knew what not to accept in a marriage and willing to leave says a lot about the woman she is ... big ups Sisi and may God see you through
@@ntsakomavunda9018 but she did not leave
What a beautiful episode love Nozipho! Very authentic! And she has saved me just by being REAL!
I love her voice, how gentle she is. I laughed at the way she had to ask the elder gogo about the culture practice of marriage: "Bese kuthwani Gogo", ok then "Bese kuthwani Gogo".
Women must understand that you are an individual , you enter into a union, it’s 2 individuals choosing to make a team and jointly enjoy and experience life.
This thing of marriage being a price or a goal is short sighted! People going into marriage as a price typically loose themselves and find it so hard. Add ontop of that blended family and children from outside! It’s a lot of work!
I'm here for a mature woman like her who has her head in the right place ❤
9:02 Awww...she met him when he had a 1 year old and a 1 month Old🥺...now it gives a bit of closure,it was a red flag🚩
She looks like Promise Makunyane
5min into the video,beautiful interview🥺💕. This woman's voice is soothing..beautiful,so refreshing
Lungelo’s questioning is really good. He taps into those parts that a psychologist normally would 😂 also Nosipho is a warm and lovely woman but I don’t believe that question about coming with a child being the real reason she tolerated so much from the husband was answered honestly. Because what do you mean a one month old didn’t throw you off, and all the other ones that kept mushrooming?
He is so good 😊
@@mmathapelomalekutu4647 I think what she means that her younger self, was not thrown off by that, yes in hindsight she would be…so it might be her truth cause her younger self saw things with marriage in mind.
Woooow! Nozipho and Lungelo very matured human beings
Those who have ears will listen and hear her.
Interviewer and interviewee are so good
Oh Lungelo you are so good at this👌🏽🥺👏🏽🙌🏽
I love Nozi so much♥️
Lungelo, you did a stellar job with this interview. Nozipho, I met you when my husband will meet you at Midlands mall he would say where is your other half. Mama lentaba oyinykayo manje uma usufike phezulu, bukela emumva ubonge ngokuthi you became stronger than you thought.
We will be okay. Thank you Sis Nozi❤️. You said it and I believed it. Am happy to see you this far in your healing journey. Toy are beautiful Mama❤️
Thank you so much for this, I am learning from others and this woman has made me realise that I am bigger than being a parent and selfcare is important
Watching her on Mommy Club truly showed me that Nozipho was very unhappy I'm her Marriage. Thank you for coming out to talk about your family affairs. Truly takes gutts
Looove Nozipho, her energy and approach to motherhood inspires me, not to mention the calm soft spoken power.
To Lungelo 🥂 love what you did with this conversation
You are exceptionally kind. Thank you ❤
This was so powerful, I’ve learned a lot from this. Love you Nozi to bits❤️❤️❤️you healed a lot of people by sharing 😘
Nozipho, my husband and I have a child with what they say it’s learning difficulties however I have learned to understand that, it’s a standard way our education system uses. From there I grew a desire to open a school that will be a tailored learning. I love how our children keep directing us to things we never thought we would do and all the best with your post grad.
@@MaleboOldjohnTsindi 😍😍😍😍 These are things that make my heart happy. I believe kids can be their best if they are in an environment where they supported according to their needs 🌻
I pray that desire comes to fruition 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. I am rooting for you ❤️. Go mommy 🌸🌸🌸🌸
@ thank you 🙏
I love her aura,I love the fact that she's real and very wise I must say ❤