MERCY!😱 WOMEN DISCOVER THEIR BOYFRIENDS/HUSBANDS ARE ON THE DL: SIGNS OF A DOWN LOW MAN |TikTok Com

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  • WOMEN DISCOVER THEIR BOYFRIENDS/HUSBANDS ARE ON THE DL | HE’S GAY SIS! | SIGNS OF DOWN LOW MEN EXPOSED! | TikTok Storytime Compilation
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  • @JodiTheIslandGirl
    @JodiTheIslandGirl  9 วันที่ผ่านมา +53

    Hey Fam! Thank you for keeping this space fun, uplifting, and REAL-I appreciate y’all!❤️🌴

    • @ginaparis2212
      @ginaparis2212 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@JodiTheIslandGirl you're welcome and thank you for the great videos as well ❤️‍🩹

    • @Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose
      @Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @JodiTheIslandGirl It’s our pleasure, and thank *you* for keeping it that way 🩷🌴

    • @Wineanddinediva
      @Wineanddinediva 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Make him admit to you what tupe of arrangement he wants from you not to decieve you .its your choice. I think if you take him back you need a shopping spree ..

  • @jacquelinerencher7579
    @jacquelinerencher7579 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +63

    I feel that when men are DL and married their wife deserves to be told about their husbands for their own health and safety

  • @peacefulblessed2114
    @peacefulblessed2114 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +188

    Be careful ladies, I am not in the dating scene. I love my peace and immune system

    • @Nonofyabidnessbih
      @Nonofyabidnessbih 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Facts that’s why these men really be acting like they hate the women they are with. Just leave, but most of them carry on having whole affairs (and some with other men) it’s sick. I’m off it fr. I’m the priority and I’m at peace. ✌🏾

    • @ludoludo80
      @ludoludo80 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

      😂😂😂😂
      ” I love my immune system “😂
      Love the expression! 😂😂😂😂 🎉🎉🎉
      You are winning 🏆 the quote of the day!

    • @SpiritualWarrior96
      @SpiritualWarrior96 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Foreal it's just weird that they are on this with us like just come out of the closet 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @Naomi-xh6om
      @Naomi-xh6om 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🤣🤣

    • @ACSuperstar
      @ACSuperstar 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @SpiritualWarrior96 I agree. Most of us don't give a dam of their 'preference', just don't be pulling us into it. I don't understand it.
      It makes more sense if they're bi, but if they fully prefer other men, then why pull a woman & then stack lie upon lie so they can sneak off with a man?

  • @WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s
    @WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +181

    Dangerous times we are living in ladies when dealing with men ⚠️

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  9 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

      Our sad reality

    • @RestingVirgoFace
      @RestingVirgoFace 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

      Celibate for 8 yrs now.

    • @MississippiGirl0013
      @MississippiGirl0013 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Single and Celibate!, because some people will literally kill you, themselves and everybody else. Because some don't care, don't comprehend, don't care or realize the extinct of the things they do they can literally give someone a disease they can't get rid of or kill themselves later on. We living in EVIL times and I mean literally evil times! And it's so MANY people out here like this in these professions please be careful!

    • @WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s
      @WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      @@RestingVirgoFace 11+ years here babygirl🙌🏾Stay Safe and Sensible💖It ain't worth it these days

    • @melissahoneybee6395
      @melissahoneybee6395 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      Agreed 100% !!!... At this point I don't date... I don't trust men at all

  • @northernsegageorge6510
    @northernsegageorge6510 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +135

    The sheer amount of “straight” men on some of the LGBT pages on Reddit claiming they have a GF/wife and yet they are secretly cruising for gay men.

    • @WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s
      @WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      This sh*t is scary and dangerous for women as that particular category of men are highly susceptible to HIV & AIDS. Sounds harsh but women CAN NOT IGNORE THIS

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  9 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

      I’m wondering if there is some sort of thrill in the secrecy 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Facts 👏🏾

    • @northernsegageorge6510
      @northernsegageorge6510 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      @@JodiTheIslandGirl I read a post earlier on a gay page on reddit and he was saying his GF is laying next to him sleeping and has no idea he is looking at men to meet up with and looking at explicit pics of them and other commenters cheering him on. I probably see maybe 20 posts per week were they start of saying "i'm straight but...." and they nearly all have a GF/wife. Same issue my friend faces in his life being gay that he is constantly hit up by local men in the area trying to hook up with him and they are all married with kids. He is disgusted by their behaviour and tells them to go away.

    • @WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s
      @WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@northernsegageorge6510 Social media is the (new) cesspool and breeding ground for debauchery. I learned many years ago by watching Walter Hampton that married men approach him and other men at the gym looking for 👀👀

  • @VanessaD82
    @VanessaD82 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +145

    That first dl doctor guy was NOT entitled to "grace". It is not the victims job to sort out the doctors sexuality for him. That is inner work the doctor needs to do.

    • @tiffanybrown368
      @tiffanybrown368 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Love your emotional intelligence with this take. Most women would accuse him of seducing her husband and trying to make him gay

    • @sls1776
      @sls1776 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The doctor is probably a narcissist and very good at manipulating people.

  • @RUNWAYBEAUTY
    @RUNWAYBEAUTY 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +200

    The first man had a whole love affair 😶 the way he pursued him is how men are supposed to court women. I’m happy he shared his story.

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  9 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

      Yes…I’m wondering why there are issues within the marriage, they don’t try to go to counseling etc if talking to your partner isn’t helping….instead they have an affair.

    • @Victoria-_
      @Victoria-_ 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Right??

    • @edbabine
      @edbabine 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The first dude sounds appreciative tho. I assume it makes it easier. In certain countries going 50/50 won't dictate the whole outcome if someone wants to see you again. People take advantage of that for sure.

    • @siantelove
      @siantelove 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      It's sad he didn't share with the man's wife 😢

    • @MississippiGirl0013
      @MississippiGirl0013 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      💯

  • @MicheleLockhart
    @MicheleLockhart 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +53

    So many women has contracted sexual infections and viruses due to their husband/man (grown boy) stepping out and also from them being on the DL. This is why i feel the side piece should inform the wife, coming from a caring and concerned place for the well-being of that person.

    • @mailvoor698
      @mailvoor698 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      they are not caring, they are using u for the beard

  • @samiraschadt8480
    @samiraschadt8480 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +117

    The guy with the DL doctor seems so kind.

    • @EmpressAcended
      @EmpressAcended 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Hey PREYED on him for THAT reason. 💅🏽

    • @ashleyw6160
      @ashleyw6160 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

      And cute...he def deserves better

    • @Ashcinnamon
      @Ashcinnamon 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

      I felt so bad for him! He's so sweet and self-aware

    • @ladyofthecentury
      @ladyofthecentury 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He doesn’t seem kind to me. He’s just as bad. He doesn’t care about anyone but himself either. He’s keeping that evil secret. he doesn’t care about that man’s wife. He is all for self. He says that is that man’s truth when we all know there’s no such thing as his or her truth.
      Just because someone is smiling and good looking, doesn’t mean they are kind and good . There’s more lessons to be learned from this story than just about a down low men. His character is also on display. I consider him a snake too because he’ll sit there and smile in your face while you sitting up there humping on a man that gay that he had and pretend like he doesn’t know a damn thing. Oh Please, he got what he wanted, which was sex and tohell with anybody else is what he’s really showing us

    • @thebilliexojean
      @thebilliexojean 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For real!

  • @christinerodriguez3976
    @christinerodriguez3976 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +142

    This disgusts me more than I can express. As much as I would love to get back into a relationship, the crap I see on social media makes me think that having the peace of mind that I do trumps dealing with the stress of relationships. 😤

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  9 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

      It’s crazy but good people still exist….its a bit difficult though …almost like finding a needle in a haystack 😩

    • @christinerodriguez3976
      @christinerodriguez3976 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      @JodiTheIslandGirl most definitely. But I'm actively staying off dating apps now because these men are crazy.

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@christinerodriguez3976 Getting more and more difficult to find a straight man out there! I think that most of them are into each other being gay/bi.

    • @UrielOrtiz-f5j
      @UrielOrtiz-f5j 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      No respectable women or man be on dating apps or even dates I have my son and been with plenty of women no dates no friends that are girls that's why society and the world is how it is people are OK with the perversion of sex without the intention of creating and that's garbage like people can't resist theirselves

    • @ACSuperstar
      @ACSuperstar 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I have a friend who has been on dating sites for at least 12 years. All she finds is garbage. And it's not because she's exceptionally particular. She just wants an honest guy who won't abuse her, and who isn't shorter than her (she's tall). But, every one she finds is either super weird, or they're lying, or they ghost her.

  • @andreabobbette825
    @andreabobbette825 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +59

    Its disturbing how well people can lie and cheat and keep their real lives and personalities a secret. Its truly scary.

    • @LoudPackMuzikChannel
      @LoudPackMuzikChannel 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      We do it everyday at work. Unless you one of those people telling everybody all ya business.

    • @ACSuperstar
      @ACSuperstar 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@LoudPackMuzikChannel Yeah, but she's talking about people who you might have children with, who come sit at the dinner table like everything is normal, and then crawl up in the bed with you at night, telling you they love you.
      Not showing 100% of your true self at work is totally different.
      There are women out here being tricked for 20+ years because SOME men really are that slick.

    • @ACSuperstar
      @ACSuperstar 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @andreabobbette825 It _is_ disturbing. Almost as bad as being married to a serial killer & not knowing it.

    • @andreabobbette825
      @andreabobbette825 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@LoudPackMuzikChannel Staying private and being surface level ia a far cry from lying and manipulating a person. I don't do that at work, do you?

    • @LoudPackMuzikChannel
      @LoudPackMuzikChannel 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @ I understand your point completely and agree. I was only pointing out that the concept isn’t as far fetched as it seems. And yes! I’m a whole different person from 9-5 every weekday and I’m not the only one living this “double life”. The work place is full of manipulative people. In most cases the behavior is not only encouraged but rewarded with promotion or a degree of job security. Anyhow again, 2 different ends of the same spectrum. Except what these guys are doing is not only extreme but dangerous and hurting others.

  • @sewgeekdesigns9113
    @sewgeekdesigns9113 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +36

    I had a bi guy friend,dude was more into men and trans women. He was on all kinds of poly sites and men meet up sites. Then one day he changed his ok Cupid account to I’m a straight male who’s into women and monogamy 😅I said you can erase years of that kind of behavior. I don’t think his current gf knows how he really is…

  • @p_tiffanii
    @p_tiffanii 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    I respect people who stand in their TRUTH. The first guy is a gem. I truly hope he finds his forever person. ❤

  • @Naturallynatural3
    @Naturallynatural3 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I’ve heard men say, “the appearance of being a family man is more important than actually being a family man”. Marriage for a lot of men is about resources, married men are viewed better in society and have the opportunity to make more money.

  • @cassd4862
    @cassd4862 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Shout out to the guys who have some dignity to not turn a blind eye to these creeps being DL and holding them accountable to the women in their lives. Cause you could not care and still deal with the dude. So good look for standing for something!

  • @sunnysunshine6271
    @sunnysunshine6271 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +122

    Weird, how that woman wants to shame women for not wanting to be with bi men.

    • @boudicca272
      @boudicca272 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +36

      Ikr?? Like, ew...Just do YOU & let other women choose what they will & will not tolerate, sis.

    • @polinatalmeltzer450
      @polinatalmeltzer450 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

      Yeah, so weird. Like wtf, if I’m uncomfortable with such a deal, what does it have to do with you, goorl?

    • @come_on_barbie_123
      @come_on_barbie_123 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      It's more and more women doing that or saying it's ok. 😳😳😳😳. Well no it's not if that's not what you want!

    • @come_on_barbie_123
      @come_on_barbie_123 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They'll take a man any way, basically! They're trying to act like they're so "progressive" but it's desperation!

    • @ikkelimburg3552
      @ikkelimburg3552 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Agreed. Especially since she’s a woman herself. All these biological born men yapping on TikTok about lesbians not wanting to date a transwoman, bi men crying over heterosexual women who don’t want to date bisexual men (and thus the ‘reason’ why they have to be on the DL because they’re so ‘frigid’). They all need to leave women who know what they want and don’t want alone

  • @DawnWarner-t7y
    @DawnWarner-t7y 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I found out last year that my husband had been in a relationship with a man for 15 of the 25 years we had been together. It sucks, rocked my world. I still am trying to pick up the pieces. Do t wish it on my worst enemy.

  • @supremeguardianofmemory7598
    @supremeguardianofmemory7598 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +72

    When they said that this was a Man's world...they literally meant that shit!!

  • @l-pv5793
    @l-pv5793 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +49

    So gross woman stay safe!!!

    • @KaiPhD
      @KaiPhD 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Gross af.

  • @MsRhondaRandy
    @MsRhondaRandy 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

    Wow! These episodes were really informing on so many levels. Makes me afraid to date nowadays. 😳😳😳😳

  • @sheilapearson5508
    @sheilapearson5508 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Well I don’t think the dr calling you solely because he’s missing you.
    He’s scared you are going to out him. 😢

  • @kayshawnsimmons5585
    @kayshawnsimmons5585 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +66

    Ladies don't ignore the signs and keep yo head on the swivel 🤔🧐

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      This‼️

    • @aundreabunnie
      @aundreabunnie 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Some of them ignore the signs out of security. My ex fiance is 100% DL with 4 kids now by two women. When I met him it was just one woman and three kids. Neither one of them can see what I saw the very first time we spent time together. I’m assuming they ignore it for his money. 💰

    • @spacebubble2187
      @spacebubble2187 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@@aundreabunnie What did you see? 👀

    • @Lovely0710
      @Lovely0710 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      What are the red flags of a dl man

  • @melissaj7535
    @melissaj7535 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +54

    I never clicked so fast in my life.

    • @shebbysavvas4200
      @shebbysavvas4200 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Same

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  9 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      This is the energy we live for 😅❤

    • @melissaj7535
      @melissaj7535 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Thank you beautiful queen!!!! ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊​@JodiTheIslandGirl

  • @JoanPowell-w9s
    @JoanPowell-w9s 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    U did the right thing to tell ur mom.

  • @alithedon4996
    @alithedon4996 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    You know it's interesting how these gay men never get bashed and call homewreckers the way a woman in his position would be. Even if she didn't know the Dr was married she still gets hate. Meanwhile there's support immediately for gay men caught in this nonsense. And some of them actually know the man be married and actually out them...but they are applauded while women are dragged to he!!... see how much favor this world has for men? Even when he's gay. Interesting.

    • @SuperMel81-j5l
      @SuperMel81-j5l 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      You are spot on. We get blamed for EVERYTHING.

    • @RebeccaReynolds-e5v
      @RebeccaReynolds-e5v 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yep… misogyny. It’s alive and kicking!!

    • @Naturallynatural3
      @Naturallynatural3 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      🎯🎯

    • @peggyh6257
      @peggyh6257 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      There are no standards for men.

    • @TheTruth7340
      @TheTruth7340 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Both are trash

  • @meltingmischief8575
    @meltingmischief8575 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    Not me watching this being divorced from a DL man I caught myself . Caught him on my girls night while he was out with his best friend IE the guy he was making out with when I walked in the restaurant

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      I'm so sorry for what you've been through!! There are just sooo many men out there who like men.

    • @meltingmischief8575
      @meltingmischief8575 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

      @ I’m not even mad anymore. They got married and lived happily for years and then his husband was hit by a car and killed. I since found my soul mate and we have 2 kids are in so happy it happened because it let me fine my true forever person.

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@meltingmischief8575 Awee..... I'm so happy for that!! ❤❤ So glad to hear this!!! 🥰

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@meltingmischief8575. 🙏🏽

    • @come_on_barbie_123
      @come_on_barbie_123 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      😮😮😮😮

  • @brandonryan6080
    @brandonryan6080 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    Keep up the great work! Quickly becoming my new favorite channel to listen, while working. 🎉

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Awesome! Thank you so much Islander 🌴

  • @ericacane1113
    @ericacane1113 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +44

    Sometimes I think being Alone is not so BAD🫤

  • @putangkiller
    @putangkiller 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Thanks for reading the text messages around 10:15, it was really helpful! Keep up the great content!!!

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  9 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      Glad it helped because I know some people are just listening while getting other things done ☺️

  • @boudicca272
    @boudicca272 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +49

    I know I'm 💯 WRONGETTY WRONG for saying this, but if someone just brings up the ATL,
    I'm ALREADY like 👀...😂
    I'm sorry ATL.

    • @andreabobbette825
      @andreabobbette825 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Its true. I feel like all of the stories are out the A, whether they are or not.

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@andreabobbette825 Yeah, are there any straight men in ATL at all?

    • @aestheticstorm6492
      @aestheticstorm6492 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@terjemarken2411barely

  • @FaithAndRepentance
    @FaithAndRepentance 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +51

    First question on my application for a husband: you ever been with a man?

    • @RUNWAYBEAUTY
      @RUNWAYBEAUTY 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

      They won’t tell you openly. Just pay attention to their actions.

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  9 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

      And we can only hope he’ll be honest 😣

    • @andreabobbette825
      @andreabobbette825 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Do you think you will get the truth?

    • @alayshiawilliams3084
      @alayshiawilliams3084 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      First thing I asked my man. Good thing he’s a manly heterosexual male all the way and has never. Thank you lawd😅❤

    • @Amara53
      @Amara53 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@alayshiawilliams3084 I thought that about my ex-husband too until I found out he was cheating with everybody and into pegging. Something I didn’t even know he was into. Probably because he knew I would’ve clowned his ass and dropped him immediately. These “men” are weird as hell.

  • @jessahgase6919
    @jessahgase6919 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +49

    First guy should have told his wife! Her husband is putting her in danger 😒

    • @missmi1133
      @missmi1133 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I 100 percent agree

    • @missmi1133
      @missmi1133 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      I understand he doesn’t want to tell the doctors truth but he put him in it when he played with his emotions not caring who gets hurt!

    • @jessahgase6919
      @jessahgase6919 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ exactly!

    • @AngelAngela
      @AngelAngela 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      & got the nerves to still try to understand what he identifies with…more concerned about competing with his wife than giving both of them a disease & traumatizing her kid. These dudes are 🦇 💩 crazy

    • @bleachedbrownsugarbabe3673
      @bleachedbrownsugarbabe3673 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That’s not his place lol that’s the husbands place sorry

  • @ohhmyyken
    @ohhmyyken 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +63

    I love the first guy, he’s a good storyteller

  • @Kazi_mm
    @Kazi_mm 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +48

    Maybe being single is not bad after all coz these man uhhuhh ✋🏽

  • @mellh6102
    @mellh6102 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    This video was a lot. A lot learned and changed my perspective. I never considered how being DL hurt the man in the relationship. Being hidden is also hurtful in and of itself. Also that lady trying to shame ppl about being with bi men needs her head examined. The guy with the DL step-dad shows not just how men break families with their behavior but how they cam be cruel in their response to the people In their lives when they find out about stuff. Plus he was right about men hating women but wanting to sleep with them. This was a great video

  • @chocolatedelight30
    @chocolatedelight30 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Bwoy Jodi. Yuh know how to pick the stories. Dis one have me hooked😊

  • @dorisx1705
    @dorisx1705 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I greatly respect you for ending the relationship. And also not divulging this person‘s issue and encouraging them to do that themselves. Also, I wish you lived in my city. You sound like an excellent friend.🥰

  • @86Kera
    @86Kera 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    He especially right about those comments form the men bc they hate women and their mom bc they think they should have had a better life

  • @2Clarence47
    @2Clarence47 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    This story time was crazy! The first guy’s story was crazy. He literally was in a relationship with a dl retired doctor and had no idea. Going on trips, going to each others homes, eating in public and going to events……smh. Only to see his partner at Walmart with his wife and he played that man in his face after seeking him out in the gym. That doctor was a predator and does not deserve grace. His wife and his secrete partner deserved grace and peace. The dl stepfather was evil and needs to repent!!!! What he did to his stepson, wife, and son was beyond sickening! As a gay man, dl men get on my last damn nerve.

  • @Ancient8x1
    @Ancient8x1 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Dear nothing is coincidence...you are grateful and you have abundance. Keep rising.

  • @HamletsMill1969
    @HamletsMill1969 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    I would never want to be subject to a Dr that is this mentally CONFUSED. Dr’s wife prolly knows but got too much to lose to leave him in his lies and crap. 💩

  • @ashleysli
    @ashleysli 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Jodii what do you have me watching today ??!!😂😂🎉‼️

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      😂 The truth about men

  • @ethelbaumgartner5320
    @ethelbaumgartner5320 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    People are terrible.... thank you for being such a wonderful person.

  • @carenasmith7
    @carenasmith7 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    This recently happened to me last week. I even asked my oldest brother if I was tripping n my bro said no. So this what happened. I matched with this guy against my intuition on hinge. The guy profile pic threw me off because he was blowing a kiss (duck lips) mind you usually girls be posting “kissing” pic up. I decided to have a conversation with him. I ended up telling his profile pic was giving DL. He asked me what is DL? I told him Down Low, as in gay, sassy etc. I thought it was cool n he didn’t take offense. Baby was I wrong because the next day I found myself blocked 😂😂😂😂😂 I wasn’t even mad… shit he did me a favor. I just deleted his text thread n call history from my phone.

    • @kingdomfirst4541
      @kingdomfirst4541 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Think I know the guy .. can you share as I think it’s the same one !!

    • @carenasmith7
      @carenasmith7 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ do you live in Philly? lol

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@carenasmith7 I think that nowadays most men do swing both ways, Sis. Hard to find a completely straight guy!

  • @oleeshanorris5343
    @oleeshanorris5343 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    With all the social media, I'm I the only one that will PEOPLE CHECK a person?

  • @elonsdesignscreations9720
    @elonsdesignscreations9720 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I had a gay male friend who told me he stayed busy with the straight guys in our hood

  • @TransformwithTayani
    @TransformwithTayani 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    The DL stepdad story made me sad

  • @supersweet131
    @supersweet131 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Jodi. When I’m down, your videos help to take my mind off of things! Thanks!!!

  • @soniaspencer2715
    @soniaspencer2715 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The first guy handled it gracefully!

  • @Theeultimatedanielle
    @Theeultimatedanielle 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    42:19 its uncomfortable because im not interested in a man liking other men. Men who like men have habits and im not interested in learning them. Love whoever you want, but don't lie and force someone to accept something they aren't willing to.

  • @supersweet131
    @supersweet131 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    He sounds like he’d be a good friend. A shame people are deceived by irresponsible and inconsiderate people like the Dr. poor wife 😡😡😡😡😡

  • @cherylmailloux9647
    @cherylmailloux9647 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You did the right thing,you handled that with grace and maturity ❤😊

  • @xtinecarter8543
    @xtinecarter8543 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    The mom should have started looking for a job as soon as the husband left for Kuwait n before she confronted him. If they were having issues n not sleeping in the same bed, she should have known it’s time to take care of herself n her babies. So sad!

  • @harriettubman337
    @harriettubman337 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Great stories both of them told their truths Very well.

  • @thatdrapergirl6834
    @thatdrapergirl6834 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    No black Marge didn’t try to gaslight us into accepting it😂😂😂😂

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Right. These girls are nuts.

  • @intheknow2868
    @intheknow2868 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The dating pool has pee, 💩, vomit, trash and diseases floating all through it 😂😂! Staying single is the safest way to go!

  • @thecommentsection4725
    @thecommentsection4725 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    31:01 is he driving the first self driving car ever? He is tripping me out not watching the road and no hands on the wheel like he's telling this story in his living room.

    • @ninairish763
      @ninairish763 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Haha!!! I was wondering that the whole time. I was like is someone driving him while telling this? Then towards the end I was like oh ha!

    • @RestingVirgoFace
      @RestingVirgoFace 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Tesla's are self driving cars 🤷🏾‍♀️. They can drive with no one inside.

  • @nunyabizness573
    @nunyabizness573 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for this video. Its important and its long, long over due.

  • @lostintranslation57
    @lostintranslation57 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    15:49 I feel like he should at least tell this guys wife that he is cheating on her even if he doesn’t let her know that he is cheating with a man. Who knows how many other people he is cheating on his wife with

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  9 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      It’s quite possible! Regarding him letting the wife know I can understand but when you really think about it it’s really not his place to tell. For me personally I would’ve sent her an anonymous email so she can probably start looking into things a bit more.

    • @ssiegreen5292
      @ssiegreen5292 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@JodiTheIslandGirl Jodi, how is it not his place? Who else will tell her when her husband cheats - the one person who knows for sure is the other wo/man. The sooner she knows, the sooner she can make an educated and possibly life saving/altering decision.
      I've been on both sides of the cheating equation - I've been the stupid trusting wife who changed her entire life because I didn't figure out that he was not only cheating with both men + women but also had at least one full fledged affair, until after I uprooted my life, education, profession and home to come to USA with my husband. And I have been the stupid, trusting "side piece" who didn't found out that he was married until we were well into having a relationship, and got strung along for a few extra months after that with the "we're getting a divorce" sob story. The only excuse I had going for me back then, was that I was young, dumb and naive and grown up very sheltered. I just wish all the info that is now available on the internet was available back then [pre-computer/smart-phone/internet days] and someone would have taken me to the side and told me what was going on... These days - I would absolutely want to know!

  • @jasminjones6043
    @jasminjones6043 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Ima say Everyone don't ignore the signs instead of just saying women because man men are hurt and lied to in the process of these dl men living their lies so yall we all have to pay attention to not ignore the signs together❤

  • @TraceyHixon-n5y
    @TraceyHixon-n5y 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for not being nosey, but you found something out that you knew would hurt your Mom but you showed her the the truth about her husband & and it started out hard for y'all at first but look at you now, and you have the best love in the world is your mom. Congratulations and stay blessed and safe 🙏🏾 ❤

  • @sostew7518
    @sostew7518 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    DL term existed in the 90's. It was ALWAYS referring to Straight Acting Gay/Bi men.
    DL men always gay bash for no reason.

  • @femaleprofessionaldriver7650
    @femaleprofessionaldriver7650 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    The guy is probably faking being a doctor as well. He's probably really a Nurse Practitioner or Physician's Assistant or maybe even just a medical tech or CNA.

  • @Validheart
    @Validheart 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    It literally disgust me to hear another man talk about gettin it on sexually with another man. Like whats wrong wit em Lord. Don't they know about the second death. 🤨😔

    • @gwendolynallen3218
      @gwendolynallen3218 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      It is the second death and they are spiritually dead. No, they are not aware and neither are the women or children.

    • @kingmaafa120
      @kingmaafa120 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Beyond disgusting 🤮

  • @Sekhm.Laveau
    @Sekhm.Laveau 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I've been single over 10 yrs because of this. I walked in on my ex having sex w/ his own cousin.

    • @bringiton3457
      @bringiton3457 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      😮😮😮😮😮😮 OMG! A male cousin?

    • @Sekhm.Laveau
      @Sekhm.Laveau 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @bringiton3457 Its not just cousins...its uncles, bros, etc.
      Some of them don't care who it is because a hole is a hole.

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Sekhm.Laveau OMG!!! 😰 Your ex have had sex with several male relatives??

    • @kingmaafa120
      @kingmaafa120 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Wow

    • @DoubleZippea
      @DoubleZippea 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@Sekhm.Laveauyesssszs that’s happening nowadays too bros , friends cousins uncle yeah right

  • @jeansmith5139
    @jeansmith5139 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    The 1st guy with the Doctor........Sir, your skin is on fleek....#IwokeUpLikeThis

  • @Moon-boom57
    @Moon-boom57 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    The gay men don’t gross me out it’s the hateful dl men that are putting this people at risk and should be shamed now notice they never showed the men’s faces to ward them off from this happening to someone else.i just lost my favorite cousin to aids yes he was gay idk who he was with but it was because of a unsafe man like these DL men his funeral is in 7 days it just makes me mad hearing these story’s stay safe out there guys.

    • @MiiPhiMuah
      @MiiPhiMuah 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Condolences to you and your family❤🙏. I lost my uncle to aids, as well.

  • @helenwilliams6744
    @helenwilliams6744 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is crazy! The first guy's story is a true testament as to how unbelievably selfish one person can be. That man had a whole relationship with him whilst being married with children! Cheating is absolutely disgusting behaviour and will always lead to horrific outcomes.

  • @ronberg2024
    @ronberg2024 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Mi nah suck man, woman mi run down...-shabba ranks (foundation)

  • @Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose
    @Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    PSA for Today: *Do NOT Film Yourselves While Driving! Please!!*
    OMG 31:44 IS HE STEERING WITH HIS KNEES?? 😭 ⚠️

  • @ONLYLOVEIZATION
    @ONLYLOVEIZATION 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Much Respect to the gay gentlemen speaking up on this video. Thank you for supporting and showing women your love, care and consideration through your selfless actions. Men like you are rare 💎 God Bless you all 😘❤️ x

  • @TrapicanaHannah
    @TrapicanaHannah 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    you have been on it girl!

  • @ResponsiblyRenee
    @ResponsiblyRenee 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    @42:16 She cannot be serious. SMH.....great video Jodi!!

  • @shannonbrown630
    @shannonbrown630 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    The one that I encountered with treats me secondary. Everything was good at first but when his son came to town things changed and that's what made me realize something is up. I had to always ask to spend time instead of him just taking the time to spend with me. Hey you always got excited about his stepson who he claims is his son who I think is his lover

  • @peekaykay7004
    @peekaykay7004 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    He is calling to talk just to make sure you don't tell a soul. He has a lot to loose.

  • @carmelvillard
    @carmelvillard 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I respect people that tell the Internet their lives stories. That could never be me.

  • @SiddityPrincess
    @SiddityPrincess 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Oh y’all ladies still out here dating after these stories? In 2025? That’s risky behavior the first story proves it’s not just happening to women it’s gay men too!

  • @ginaparis2212
    @ginaparis2212 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Thank you for this info ❤

  • @missmi1133
    @missmi1133 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    One thing I love about us women 98 percent of the time we go let the other woman know may not always be the best way but we got let em know because we know we would want to know ourselves if it was the other way around. Doctor getting away with it so he going to find someone else behind wife back. She go end up catching something. I feel so bad for the wife. Everyone knows except her. 😢

  • @ClaesClarke
    @ClaesClarke วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sometimes they just need companionship help him truly find himself and live in his own truth .

  • @Lacavadoe
    @Lacavadoe 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The Panamanian man story is scary!

  • @MsTwilightSpeaks
    @MsTwilightSpeaks 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My wife and I are having problems is always the lie 😂😂😂😂 9:52 And not him being a SWITCH... lordt

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Always! Men always say they're having problems in marriage. Problem is that hubby likes men!

  • @charlottesometimes1278
    @charlottesometimes1278 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    This man is so self-aware, insightful and caring

    • @p_tiffanii
      @p_tiffanii 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      The comment I was looking for! He is! I appreciate it. He's calm, has self-respect and healthy boundaries. I hope he finds true love. ❤

  • @zyongslife
    @zyongslife 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    This makes me not want to date.

  • @Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose
    @Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    My dad just told me what “Down Low” meant in the early 2000s and he’s gobsmacked that it means this now

    • @TiffanyDivmond
      @TiffanyDivmond 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Huh?..

    • @AKB-1111
      @AKB-1111 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I think it used to just mean secret, right? Now it’s a secret on a whole other level.

    • @alithedon4996
      @alithedon4996 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yeah cause when I was younger, that term meant like what they'll call a "sneaky link" now? But it sounded like a secret relationship one had, or specific secrets i guess... cause it use to be sang that way in r&b songs. But after it switched to straight men who are secretly involved with men.

    • @sostew7518
      @sostew7518 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      DL term existed in the 90's. It's meaning Never changed. Ever.

  • @1111ScorpQn
    @1111ScorpQn 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This is one of the best gay story time videos. Thanks for sharing!

  • @yolandamoore4321
    @yolandamoore4321 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    20:11 he don't know how to bring it up, but he sure knew how to pull it out.😮

  • @itscruz2588
    @itscruz2588 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The dl stepdad story was sad. That man was wrong af

  • @lindathomas534
    @lindathomas534 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Ive been with my husband 25 years i would be destroyed if he did that

  • @ClaesClarke
    @ClaesClarke วันที่ผ่านมา

    Talk to him. He's hurting and struggling. Be his friend.

  • @elonsdesignscreations9720
    @elonsdesignscreations9720 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He never told me who but he did agree to let me know if anyone i was dating was on the DL.

  • @karlareadstheclassics217
    @karlareadstheclassics217 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Physician's bios usually include their marital status. Did the first guy even check? Six - seven months is a long time.

  • @christellen3077
    @christellen3077 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Giving grace is not about being a homosexual adulterer with a man betraying his familly.
    Forgiving while staying at a dista ce is giving grace.

  • @Cortesan2u
    @Cortesan2u 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    ' Tell the truth and shame the Devil.. '

  • @thebilliexojean
    @thebilliexojean 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I can tell the first guy is a good person. It’s so unfair, the doctor doesn’t deserve his wife or this man.

  • @ashleyw6160
    @ashleyw6160 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    15:39 Awww 💔😢

  • @derrickrobinson4519
    @derrickrobinson4519 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bru you a whole grown man. How you the one with the poor me story.😂

  • @ClaesClarke
    @ClaesClarke วันที่ผ่านมา

    Look at him as one of us. 😢

  • @miriambarco8832
    @miriambarco8832 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Be safe out there... it coulda gone left. Good that yo didn't meet up in person.

  • @MicheleLockhart
    @MicheleLockhart 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Scene 20:00, of course the married man is going to say he's having problems at home. If everything was good he would have stepped out. Also this is always what the cheater says. Also, you say you wanted to hear him out to get so called "CLOSER" which is bull. You listened to your weak heart chose to hear him out. You already have answers, which is , he is a married man who lied about his wife, his children and is a liar that is nothing but self-righteous, self-centered and maybe a narcissist. I would inform his wife because she needs to know what kind of husband she really has and that she is in jeopardy of possible catching a sensually transmitted condition do to him having unprotective sex outside the married.