The key is to compromise and not cut out. Do your nails (at home) and make an event of it! Something special so your brain gets that dopamine hit. I love hopping on Pinterest and searching for a fun nail design, then buying myself a chocolate bar and a fun drink during my grocery runs, lighting a candle, putting something on my TV or on TH-cam and doing my nails. Cultivating novelty in your everyday life using things you already own will stop you from spending $$ to feel that rush of happiness thats always so fleeting.
Your decisions make me cringe sometimes, but I truly appreciate how open and honest you are. You put yourself out here on brutal YT and still seem to remain positive. That’s such a great attribute 🖤
Not at all! Just an honest response. She’s admitted that she makes bad, impulsive decisions. I think it takes a lot of courage to put her vulnerabilities out there to the world, admit faults, and maintain a positive attitude. @justashton255
@@justashton255 Not at all! She’s stated before that she makes terrible decisions. I think it’s awesome that she recognizes it and still remains positive and motivated to make different, better decisions. Being honest with someone doesn’t mean you don’t support them.
Vanessa, I'm a nail tech! Just a tip for you. Order a system called "Dazzle Dry" its here in the U.S. Hopefully they can ship to you? Its a polish that lasts 2 weeks removes with acetone or nail polish remover. Game changer! Good decision making!
Congrats on cancelling those appointments! I would definitely try and find a lower price on your tenant insurance and car insurance and phone bill. I did that this past august and lowered our bill quite a bit and check to see if your work gets you any discounts with an insurance company too because I had no idea about that. I know switching companies and getting quotes is such a time suck, but it's totally worth it. I used to also write down our budget, but I switched to writing every purchase in google sheets and this helped me stay accountable to what I was purchasing too. I have adhd and got into cc debt a few years ago with some really bad impulsive spending and find writing purchases down very helpful to curb the impulses. Thanks for sharing something so vulnerable about your spending habits! I don't think I've ever verbally told anyone about my own decisions and how much debt I got into and out of because I felt so embarrassed.
I so remember when you bought the Barbie for $500. Wow, i couldn't believe it, however honestly i knew you were better than that decision. I'm still here and enjoy your honesty and your growth in decision making. I'm proud of you Vanessa. Keep up the great work. ❤
You need encouraging, not put downs. Prayers for you and precious Penelope. Keep moving forward, but make better choices. Times aren't getting easier. ❤🙏
Sweets the first thing to changing our bad habits are acknowledging them.. that means you are growing and recognize it. Well done ❤❤ can I give a tiny tip? If you are able try to next time you get paid , take half of your bills out at that time . That way it doesn’t hit so hard at the first with rent. Thats what my granny taught me to do .
There you go! Adulting sucks sometimes but I’m proud of you!! Don’t sell your stuff to pay for wants. I received a large insurance settlement last month. It SUCKED to use it to pay down debt instead of doing something fun to our house. It put us in a better position financially and it feels good…. But it really really sucked.
Great job on cancelling the appointments! Your hair is gorgeous, don't cut it. I've been making it a point to vote for Penelope daily. I hope she wins. 💛
Just like you justify spending that money Penelope will win for your debts!! Big hero!! Let’s praise and give her recognition to someone who truly doesn’t get it!!
Good decision cancelling the hair and nails! I cut my own hair and my daughter's hair as well. We both have the Brad Mondo butterfly cut. It actually turned out really well. Love that you treat yourself to Wendy's every couple weeks. It isn't that expensive and helps keep you going! ❤
Dye your natural color and then just touchup the roots when needed (if you get gray hair). Also, I always cut my own hair ;) you got this 😊 will save you so much money! I also use professional hair color on my hair by ordering online and mixing myself. So much cheaper and lasts so much longer.
I used to color my moms hair at home. I don't care for pedicures. You made me crave a Wendy's. I'm proud of you for not spending on nails/hair. Don't go crazy cutting hair. Don't do it....trim only. Have a great weekend.
I know you don’t know me so it doesn’t really matter but I am so proud of you for canceling those appointments! Also you definitely should be able to get Wendy’s on payday, that’s a good treat for you to look forward to!🙂
If a Wendy’s meal makes you happy on payday, then I think that’s awesome. You work hard for that paycheque and a fast food meal isn’t harming anyone. The hair and nails on the other hand, are not justified. Congrats on your growth and self awareness and putting you and your daughter first.
Good job on the budgeting and canceling your appointments. Yes, self care is important, but if you plan for it, it will be easier on your budget. I try to set a little aside monthly, so that every 4 months, I can get my hair done. Same for mani/pedis! You are making smart decisions, so good for you and Penelope! Hopefully you will get child support for your new baby and that will help you too!
You weren’t expecting yt income. If I was in your position, I would put any money yt pays you directly on your cc. Get rid of that bad debt as quickly as you can. Also, your renters insurance shouldn’t be so high. I’m really glad you sold those dolls. Good choice.
I love your hair the way it is now! And yes, just do your nails at home. I'm sure they will look great! (P.S. You look so cute in your sweater and matching headband!)
I love all your videos ❤️ I love how full and thick your hair is, you should definitely do a tutorial lol maybe it’s just genetics lol but I would be interested in listening to! Xoxo…. PS !!! I didn’t even watch the entire video when I posted that comment about the hair ! Hysterical that you were thinking of changing it lmao … girl it looks amazing beautiful and bouncy and the color is fire lol 😂 so now that I’ve seen the entire video it’s even more funny lol
Vanessa you have literally to most gorgeous, rich, healthy hair I've ever seen! I hope you won't cut it 🙏 leave it one length blunt and keep growing that beautiful hair!! 🤩
Loving the frequent uploads. I’m proud of you! Your honesty and growth throughout your journey is admirable. Sending love from Toronto! 🥰 P.S. Thanks for the cheese sauce idea, yum 🍟
I cute my own hair also. Got scissors ✂️at walmart for less than 10$. Way to go. Thanks for sharing. I am not great with money so its nice to have someone be valuable and share.
Vanessa, I appreciate your honesty so much. I do believe that you have to treat yourself sometimes, but maybe small treats, like a nice coffee or something. I don't know if it's a good idea to cut your own hair. I do trim my own bangs though and that's pretty easy. Your hair looks gorgeous, by the way. Hugs and love. I have been voting for Penelope. I want her to win.
I relate so much to your channel. You deserve to treat yourself l, but I also get not being able to afford it. I hope you were able to do something! ❤❤❤❤ I'm terrible with money and have to utilize my food bank as well.
Such a good decision cancelling the appointments🎉 i think ur hair color is beautiful how it is u did a good job colouring it urself I use to trim my hair when it was long myself, i found it pretty easy to do after watching tutorials but i also dont have very thick hair so idk if that makes it harder! My fav Wendy's is a deluxe cheeseburger haha
As a Brit, it has taken a while for me to get used to the fact that Americans and Canadians call it biweekly! We say ‘fortnightly!’ I get paid monthly. Most jobs over here are monthly pay! 👍my husband gets paid every four weeks on a Thursday so it works out he gets paid an extra time a year compared to me. I think I’d struggle more to try and budget if I wasn’t paid monthly! We don’t have Wendy’s food over here. We do have a Tim Hortons a few miles from us now though! I don’t drive but my husband needs his car to get to work and I don’t have to go into my office very often as I work mainly from home - sometimes I go in once or twice a week but I haven’t ventured into my workplace in a few weeks now! I catch a train to work but they’re not very reliable and are expensive! I get my hair cut twice a year but have never dyed it. I’m 37 and going quite grey but honestly don’t care how I look now! My 11 year old twins are my priority so I need to ensure that they are provided for anyway
Just curious. How does the Canada child benefit work ??? Here in the Uk it’s no where near that amount. Equivalent of $25 ca. a week but only for the first child
So glad to hear that you cancelled the appointments. Nobody really needs professional manicures and pedid cures or $200. hair appointments. Since the prices have gone up so much, I cut my own hair and I no longer colour it. If I ever have a special occasion, I will have it do a professionally. As for you, great job of auditing and cancelling the appointments.
How did I not think about asking for a side of cheese sauce with my fries all of these years?! Lol I got it the other day & oh my goodness was it good! They gave me a small sauce container filled with it 😊👌 I also like mayonnaise with my Wendy’s fries 😀 Have you tried that? 😊
Aww thats good you decided to cancel appointments for hair and nails no point trying to stress yourself to sell stuff by end of month. Yeah barbies were a bad choice in hindsight but i totally get it when you are depressed and want something to make you feel better. I paid off all my credit cards aswell and then in a deep depression booked a holiday that was me back in credit card debt 🫣 we live and learn. Why not give yourself a wee trim i wouldnt try the bangs or anything complicated least a trim could be fixed your next payday if it went horribly wrong 😂 hope penelope wins she is so cute and cant wait to gender reveal ❤ xxxx
Your hair is always pretty but I LOVE your natural color. I watched your birth video yesterday and could not believe what a beautiful shade of red your hair was. You don’t actually need to color your hair at all. When I’m struggling in the area of spending, I try to remember how blessed I already am. There are so many people in the world who would love to be able to buy Wendy’s or be able to afford a new bottle of nail polish. What are little things to us might be luxuries to others 😢
Thank you so much!! I know but it’s funny I was bullied my whole childhood for having red hair and then eventually I get bored of it and want to change! But I agree it is a lovely colour. It’s darkening as I age.
I compromise may be to have mom with Penelope at her house, and you could do your own mani pedicure . Maybe you could listen to music or watch a show of your liking.
It’s a government supplement based on your family income to help with the costs of raising a child/children. It’s a monthly benefit until the children are 18 years or your income is too high to qualify.
🙋🏻♀️ 💁🏻♀️☝🏻Please remove the word "so" from your vocabulary.👍🏻 ☝🏻Only use the word "and" rarely as needed (I had an elementay teacher, 4th grade I believe, who assigned a 3 paragraph essay/report where we could ONLY use the word "and" ONCE)...My essays and term papers rockedlater in my education.👍🏻 ☝🏻Uhhh/Erm is another word that denote you thought process (brain) is dead therefore saying nothing at all (high school speech and debate)...I literally smashed this one against my opponents EVERY time.😉👍🏻
Better yet, don't buy "stuff" in the first place. You are selling things you don't need for a fraction of what you paid for them. Why did you buy them then in the first place? If you are paid bi-weekly, you get 26 pay periods a year. I budgeted for two pay periods per month. The extra pay period in the first half of the year I put aside for vacation. The extra pay in the second half was for Christmas. Of course, you need to use one to start an emergency fund and use the other to pay down debt for now. Have you done your maternity leave budget? Can you afford to take the whole year off? Maybe look at potential bad spending decisions as a choice between more time off with new baby or more junk you don't need. 😀 Easier said than done, I know! You've got this!
Stop thinking about yourself, and think about your family! What about emergencies, or if someone gets ill, or your car breaks down... You are in your 30s, GET REAL!!!
OMG! How rude and judgemental can you be? This young lady is doing amazing job all by herself! The least you can do is support her emotionally. She's not asking you for anythin g so try to be nice.
She is pregnant with the father of her first child. Obviously they are still in a relationship. She is far from honest. They are more than likely living together. Don’t believe everything you see on TH-cam
💕 VOTE for Penelope for Baby of the Year!!! 💕 babyoftheyear.org/2024/penelope-21
Voted! I have been voting every day. Such a sweet baby girl!
The key is to compromise and not cut out. Do your nails (at home) and make an event of it! Something special so your brain gets that dopamine hit. I love hopping on Pinterest and searching for a fun nail design, then buying myself a chocolate bar and a fun drink during my grocery runs, lighting a candle, putting something on my TV or on TH-cam and doing my nails. Cultivating novelty in your everyday life using things you already own will stop you from spending $$ to feel that rush of happiness thats always so fleeting.
Love this!! 🥰
🤔Do both Penelope AND her nails together...it's great mother and daughter bonding time😊
@faukerconsulting835 such a sweet idea 💞
I am so proud of you for canceling the appointments and for selling the barbies! You're doing an amazing job
Thank you so much!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
What about the couch?
Your decisions make me cringe sometimes, but I truly appreciate how open and honest you are. You put yourself out here on brutal YT and still seem to remain positive. That’s such a great attribute 🖤
Holy backhanded compliment 🙄. Much love to you Vanessa ❤
Not at all! Just an honest response. She’s admitted that she makes bad, impulsive decisions. I think it takes a lot of courage to put her vulnerabilities out there to the world, admit faults, and maintain a positive attitude. @justashton255
SO cringe.
@@justashton255 Not at all! She’s stated before that she makes terrible decisions. I think it’s awesome that she recognizes it and still remains positive and motivated to make different, better decisions. Being honest with someone doesn’t mean you don’t support them.
Vanessa, I'm a nail tech! Just a tip for you. Order a system called "Dazzle Dry" its here in the U.S. Hopefully they can ship to you? Its a polish that lasts 2 weeks removes with acetone or nail polish remover. Game changer!
Good decision making!
I will look into this!! Thank you! 🥰
I use Dazzle Dry and love it! I have saved so much money by investing in this system and don’t miss going to the nail salon!
I have BPD and experience manic episodes. I can totally relate to impulsive decisions. Thank you for being real.
Thank you for saying that!! 🥰
Good decisions will make you feel better in the long run. I always trim my own hair.
I love the honesty on this channel. You got this!
I appreciate that! Thank you 🥰🥰
Congrats on cancelling those appointments! I would definitely try and find a lower price on your tenant insurance and car insurance and phone bill. I did that this past august and lowered our bill quite a bit and check to see if your work gets you any discounts with an insurance company too because I had no idea about that. I know switching companies and getting quotes is such a time suck, but it's totally worth it. I used to also write down our budget, but I switched to writing every purchase in google sheets and this helped me stay accountable to what I was purchasing too. I have adhd and got into cc debt a few years ago with some really bad impulsive spending and find writing purchases down very helpful to curb the impulses. Thanks for sharing something so vulnerable about your spending habits! I don't think I've ever verbally told anyone about my own decisions and how much debt I got into and out of because I felt so embarrassed.
Have fun and do your own nails. Also box dye your hair if you want a change. Still fun but doesn't break the budget. Good job Vanessa!!!
I box dye my hair all the time. I can't afford anything else. My hair looks fine too.
I so remember when you bought the Barbie for $500. Wow, i couldn't believe it, however honestly i knew you were better than that decision. I'm still here and enjoy your honesty and your growth in decision making. I'm proud of you Vanessa. Keep up the great work. ❤
It was more like $600!!! So stupid. Thank you for sticking around! 🥰🥰🥰
Your food looks so good! Good decision on the hair/nails. I haven't been to a hairdresser in 8 years, we do trims at home. God bless ❤
You need encouraging, not put downs. Prayers for you and precious Penelope. Keep moving forward, but make better choices. Times aren't getting easier. ❤🙏
Your not alone...I have the same struggles and I justify as well
Sweets the first thing to changing our bad habits are acknowledging them.. that means you are growing and recognize it. Well done ❤❤ can I give a tiny tip? If you are able try to next time you get paid , take half of your bills out at that time . That way it doesn’t hit so hard at the first with rent. Thats what my granny taught me to do .
I remember when I was pregnant the food smelled and tasted so good 😋😋😋😋
There you go! Adulting sucks sometimes but I’m proud of you!! Don’t sell your stuff to pay for wants.
I received a large insurance settlement last month. It SUCKED to use it to pay down debt instead of doing something fun to our house. It put us in a better position financially and it feels good…. But it really really sucked.
Good job!!!!! 💕
Great job on cancelling the appointments! Your hair is gorgeous, don't cut it. I've been making it a point to vote for Penelope daily. I hope she wins. 💛
Thank youuuuu! 💕💕💕
Well done, Vanessa! You listened to the big sister in you, rather than the little sister 🤣
I love doing everything myself - hair, nails etc.
Why don't you start putting up little by little each month until you have enough to treat yourself??! 😅 that way you can still do it!!
Such a good idea!!! 🥰🥰🥰
Just like you justify spending that money Penelope will win for your debts!! Big hero!!
Let’s praise and give her recognition to someone who truly doesn’t get it!!
My mother told me not to live by her examples and my dad was a saver (the reason they divorce).
Good decision cancelling the hair and nails! I cut my own hair and my daughter's hair as well. We both have the Brad Mondo butterfly cut. It actually turned out really well. Love that you treat yourself to Wendy's every couple weeks. It isn't that expensive and helps keep you going! ❤
Thank you!! 🥰
I'm glad you checked yourself and yes it was a good decision ❤
Thank you SO MUCH!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
You can totally give yourself a trim! ✂️
Dye your natural color and then just touchup the roots when needed (if you get gray hair). Also, I always cut my own hair ;) you got this 😊 will save you so much money! I also use professional hair color on my hair by ordering online and mixing myself. So much cheaper and lasts so much longer.
Thanks for the tips! 🥰
I used to color my moms hair at home. I don't care for pedicures. You made me crave a Wendy's. I'm proud of you for not spending on nails/hair. Don't go crazy cutting hair. Don't do it....trim only. Have a great weekend.
Thanks so much!!! You too 🥰🥰🥰
I know you don’t know me so it doesn’t really matter but I am so proud of you for canceling those appointments! Also you definitely should be able to get Wendy’s on payday, that’s a good treat for you to look forward to!🙂
Thank you so much!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
"Treats" AFTER bills. NO food banks.
@@PuppyLove-pp8gr Well I guess I’ve been told!
Voted for Penelope! ❤ I can imagine as a single mom of 2, that would be a tremendous help. Good luck!
Thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️
"Am I going to stick to it" ughhhh girl I'm so bad for sticking to the budget not gonna lie.
Great video. Proud of you for selling the Barbies.
Thank you so much! 🥰🥰🥰
If a Wendy’s meal makes you happy on payday, then I think that’s awesome. You work hard for that paycheque and a fast food meal isn’t harming anyone. The hair and nails on the other hand, are not justified. Congrats on your growth and self awareness and putting you and your daughter first.
Good job on the budgeting and canceling your appointments. Yes, self care is important, but if you plan for it, it will be easier on your budget. I try to set a little aside monthly, so that every 4 months, I can get my hair done. Same for mani/pedis! You are making smart decisions, so good for you and Penelope! Hopefully you will get child support for your new baby and that will help you too!
You weren’t expecting yt income. If I was in your position, I would put any money yt pays you directly on your cc. Get rid of that bad debt as quickly as you can. Also, your renters insurance shouldn’t be so high. I’m really glad you sold those dolls. Good choice.
I love your hair the way it is now! And yes, just do your nails at home. I'm sure they will look great! (P.S. You look so cute in your sweater and matching headband!)
Thank you so much!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Your hair is so beautiful 😻
Thank you!! 💕💕🎀🎀🥰
I love all your videos ❤️ I love how full and thick your hair is, you should definitely do a tutorial lol maybe it’s just genetics lol but I would be interested in listening to! Xoxo…. PS !!! I didn’t even watch the entire video when I posted that comment about the hair ! Hysterical that you were thinking of changing it lmao … girl it looks amazing beautiful and bouncy and the color is fire lol 😂 so now that I’ve seen the entire video it’s even more funny lol
I do remember those times of struggle
Vanessa you have literally to most gorgeous, rich, healthy hair I've ever seen! I hope you won't cut it 🙏 leave it one length blunt and keep growing that beautiful hair!! 🤩
Thank you so much!!!! 🎀🎀🎀🩷🩷
Well done Vanessa for resisting the urge to spend money. It’s not easy to turn your back on temptation. But you have done well. Keep going . 😊
Thank you!! ❤️
Loving the frequent uploads. I’m proud of you! Your honesty and growth throughout your journey is admirable. Sending love from Toronto! 🥰
P.S. Thanks for the cheese sauce idea, yum 🍟
Thank you so much!! 🥰🥰🥰
I cute my own hair also. Got scissors ✂️at walmart for less than 10$. Way to go. Thanks for sharing. I am not great with money so its nice to have someone be valuable and share.
Thank you so much!! 🥰
You should try to take rent out half and half of each pay during the month
Proud of you!!!!
Thank you so much!!! 💕🥰💕
Do not give yourself layers or curtain bangs. A trim yes...
Your hair is great.
Vanessa, I appreciate your honesty so much. I do believe that you have to treat yourself sometimes, but maybe small treats, like a nice coffee or something. I don't know if it's a good idea to cut your own hair. I do trim my own bangs though and that's pretty easy. Your hair looks gorgeous, by the way. Hugs and love. I have been voting for Penelope. I want her to win.
Thank you thank you!! 🥰🥰
I relate so much to your channel. You deserve to treat yourself l, but I also get not being able to afford it. I hope you were able to do something! ❤❤❤❤ I'm terrible with money and have to utilize my food bank as well.
Such a good decision cancelling the appointments🎉 i think ur hair color is beautiful how it is u did a good job colouring it urself
I use to trim my hair when it was long myself, i found it pretty easy to do after watching tutorials but i also dont have very thick hair so idk if that makes it harder!
My fav Wendy's is a deluxe cheeseburger haha
Thank you so much!! I will definitely watch a few tutorials lol 🥰🥰🥰🥰
As a Brit, it has taken a while for me to get used to the fact that Americans and Canadians call it biweekly! We say ‘fortnightly!’ I get paid monthly. Most jobs over here are monthly pay! 👍my husband gets paid every four weeks on a Thursday so it works out he gets paid an extra time a year compared to me. I think I’d struggle more to try and budget if I wasn’t paid monthly! We don’t have Wendy’s food over here. We do have a Tim Hortons a few miles from us now though! I don’t drive but my husband needs his car to get to work and I don’t have to go into my office very often as I work mainly from home - sometimes I go in once or twice a week but I haven’t ventured into my workplace in a few weeks now! I catch a train to work but they’re not very reliable and are expensive! I get my hair cut twice a year but have never dyed it. I’m 37 and going quite grey but honestly don’t care how I look now! My 11 year old twins are my priority so I need to ensure that they are provided for anyway
So interesting!! 💕💕
Wow! 100.00 for a tank of gas?? Canada is expensive!!! Yikes!!
I voted for her! I hope you win!!
Thank you SO MUCH!!! 💖💖💖💖
I am in Texas it was 100 today. I haven't had fall weather much since moving here years prior. I miss fall!
You look so cute! Love the green stripes
Thank you!! 🥰
On a serious note, have you considered counseling?
That costs $$$.
Doesn't Canada offer free Healthcare? Also there is assistance based on income.
@triciam3014 I honestly have no clue how the Canadian Healthcare system works.
@@tonic.1917It sucks, that's all
@@triciam3014no psych counselling doesn’t count
Very, very proud of you. 😊
Thank you!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
You dont get a lot of cheese sauce in that tub..😮😮
Save money on the car wash, do it yourself, save a bit of money..😄btw i love your channel..❤
Great clips $20 haircut
Ultracuts is my favorite. 25$ nothing fancy gets the job done
Just curious. How does the Canada child benefit work ??? Here in the Uk it’s no where near that amount. Equivalent of $25 ca. a week but only for the first child
I know. Then I was thinking is similar to tax credit/ universal credits. I'm in UK aswell. Different how different countries work. 😊
Too much. Obviously.
So glad to hear that you cancelled the appointments. Nobody really needs professional manicures and pedid cures or $200. hair appointments. Since the prices have gone up so much, I cut my own hair and I no longer colour it. If I ever have a special occasion, I will have it do a professionally. As for you, great job of auditing and cancelling the appointments.
How did I not think about asking for a side of cheese sauce with my fries all of these years?! Lol I got it the other day & oh my goodness was it good! They gave me a small sauce container filled with it 😊👌 I also like mayonnaise with my Wendy’s fries 😀 Have you tried that? 😊
Mayo is yummy too!!
This is excellent news. One good financial choice will lead to others. Treating yourself to Wendy’s twice a month is fine.
You did great 💜
Thank you!! 🥰
@@heyvanessamartin Your welcome 💜
I just ran upon and enjoy your content and I'll comment ❤ all your videos but I little request if u not smack ur food?
Aww thats good you decided to cancel appointments for hair and nails no point trying to stress yourself to sell stuff by end of month. Yeah barbies were a bad choice in hindsight but i totally get it when you are depressed and want something to make you feel better. I paid off all my credit cards aswell and then in a deep depression booked a holiday that was me back in credit card debt 🫣 we live and learn. Why not give yourself a wee trim i wouldnt try the bangs or anything complicated least a trim could be fixed your next payday if it went horribly wrong 😂 hope penelope wins she is so cute and cant wait to gender reveal ❤ xxxx
You got this Vanessa! ❤❤❤❤ P.s. I think the hair cutting video is a winner 🥰
Yay! Thank you! I think cutting my own hair makes for great content! 😂😂😂🥰🥰🥰
If you do your own hair make sure to tag Brad Mondo, maybe he'll add you to one of his reaction videos lol.
I will for sure!
Girl! I also live in the Thompson-Okanagan region and my tenants insurance is only like $200/year! How come you’re paying so much? Haha.
I need to investigate this! lol 😂
Watch Brad Mondo and he shows how to do a butterfly cut , it would be cute on you ❤
I definitely will!! That’s exactly what I want 🦋
O no don't chop your hair off. You have beautiful hair girl.
I think you should just do a trim Vanessa, you have beautiful hair. ❤
I voted! Cute sweater. I love the colors. Maybe just go get the haircut and color it yourself. Than your still being treated but not as much money
Thank you so much!!! 💖💖💖
I wish electric was that cheap in the USA.
Your hair is always pretty but I LOVE your natural color. I watched your birth video yesterday and could not believe what a beautiful shade of red your hair was. You don’t actually need to color your hair at all. When I’m struggling in the area of spending, I try to remember how blessed I already am. There are so many people in the world who would love to be able to buy Wendy’s or be able to afford a new bottle of nail polish. What are little things to us might be luxuries to others 😢
Thank you so much!! I know but it’s funny I was bullied my whole childhood for having red hair and then eventually I get bored of it and want to change! But I agree it is a lovely colour. It’s darkening as I age.
Hey Vanessa you are very open and honest and I love that please don’t cut your hair it’s beautiful. Can’t wait for gender reveal ❤
Payday is always a good excuse for takeaways 🎉
good job on making good decisions 💯💞❤🔥❤🔥🥘🎃🎃🎃🎃🎃🎃 Ur hair is pretty i wouldn't cut it
Thank you!!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I compromise may be to have mom with Penelope at her house, and you could do your own mani pedicure . Maybe you could listen to music or watch a show of your liking.
That’s a good idea!!! 🥰🥰🥰
Don’t cut your hair. It’s gorgeous!
What is the Canada child benefit??
It’s a government supplement based on your family income to help with the costs of raising a child/children. It’s a monthly benefit until the children are 18 years or your income is too high to qualify.
i do not want to see you cutting your own hair lol.
but i love the honest relatable videos ❤😊
Now I want Wendy's 😂 proud if you V! 🥰
Thank you so much!!!! 🥰🥰🥰
your hair is beautiful. Don't cut it.
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💁🏻♀️☝🏻Please remove the word "so" from your vocabulary.👍🏻
☝🏻Only use the word "and" rarely as needed (I had an elementay teacher, 4th grade I believe, who assigned a 3 paragraph essay/report where we could ONLY use the word "and" ONCE)...My essays and term papers rockedlater in my education.👍🏻
☝🏻Uhhh/Erm is another word that denote you thought process (brain) is dead therefore saying nothing at all (high school speech and debate)...I literally smashed this one against my opponents EVERY time.😉👍🏻
$25,000 would be a great start for Penelope's college fund.
She’s using it for her debts not her daughters college sadly😞
If you sell stuff and pay off debt with the money it will make you feel so good. Please don’t cut your own hair. 😬 😳 You can do this!
Totally!! I only have so much crap to find around the apartment to sell though. Unless we start literally posting kitchen table/tv stand etc. lol 💕💕💕
Better yet, don't buy "stuff" in the first place. You are selling things you don't need for a fraction of what you paid for them. Why did you buy them then in the first place?
If you are paid bi-weekly, you get 26 pay periods a year. I budgeted for two pay periods per month. The extra pay period in the first half of the year I put aside for vacation. The extra pay in the second half was for Christmas.
Of course, you need to use one to start an emergency fund and use the other to pay down debt for now.
Have you done your maternity leave budget? Can you afford to take the whole year off? Maybe look at potential bad spending decisions as a choice between more time off with new baby or more junk you don't need. 😀
Easier said than done, I know! You've got this!
Stop thinking about yourself, and think about your family! What about emergencies, or if someone gets ill, or your car breaks down... You are in your 30s, GET REAL!!!
OMG! How rude and judgemental can you be? This young lady is doing amazing job all by herself! The least you can do is support her emotionally. She's not asking you for anythin g so try to be nice.
I stand by what I say. She wants positive and negative comments, so she says!
My " treat" to myself is always food lol
I wouldn't recomend buying scissors from the $ store
Your hair is so thick it would ruin it
She is pregnant with the father of her first child. Obviously they are still in a relationship. She is far from honest. They are more than likely living together. Don’t believe everything you see on TH-cam
lol I wish!
@@heyvanessamartin well you are still sleeping with him. Unless it’s a Christmas miracle. Your channel is obviously a scam.
Again - I wish! lol
You certainly entertain. Today is car confessions and a month or so ago you were the garbage lady😂
😂😂 still garbage lady!