I am mexican and I understand this is a project for black females and I am hispanic. We were enslaved by Spaniards and there is just a lot of normalized wrong treatment on children that comes from the influence that they had and the culture. I am hispanic and I am here because I have a bad mother wound and I am in my early thirties and really need to heal this wound because it is eating me up . Your podcast is helping me like no other therapy and I need to be here. So am gonna be here. Thank you ❤
My dad looked me dead in my face May 30,2024 & told me I OWE them especially my mom. I already hated them but that there is pure disgusting. THERE IS NO DEBT!!!!!!! There is no debt ! I don’t owe you anything but a final good bye!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭 thank you for the validation !
I resonate with this alot. This video spoke to my heart and I can't stop crying! No one talks about this. Since getting into counseling I've tried to bring this up to some of my family and I'm outcasted or called crazy. I so appreciate you addressing this topic.
My mother rejects me, still to this day of my big age of 41. I've never felt safe in her care, and I want to confront her but knowing that she will manipulate. I don't owe my mother nothing! Nothing at all.
I love that you’re speaking on this topic because so many brown young girls and grown women are dealing with this common hurt with our mothers. Most of us need healing in this area of our hearts but don’t know how due to the lack of knowledge in our community. Thank you for being one of few to speak up and out! I pray women across the world find your platform and begin to listen, heal, and spread awareness about this topic as well. Please don’t stop what you’re doing, we appreciate this! 🫶🏾
I've been going on the same cycles all my life. Felt like I had a ceiling on my wealth and success.... no matter how much I achieve, I'm right back in the same place. I'm figuring out I have a set point and I'm almost sure it's related to this mother wound. I'm going to heal so I can live my life... not just survive. Thank you Jennifer ❤❤❤❤
It's not alot of places and spaces to talk about it but im just glad I can count one. I've been telling people since 17 that alot of us need to discuss our mothers. It doesn't have to be ugly or disrespectful but it can be honest and sincere
Your videos are so timely. I recently had to sever ties with my mother while burying my father. I will no longer endure her toxic mess and focus myself. A new day is dawning 💜
When you said you do not owe your mother anything ... I was waiting for lightning to come down from the sky and strike my phone because those words sounded blasphemous 😄.. but the things that you say definitely sheds light on all the things we are taught growing up
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!! I HAVE SOOOO MUCH TO SAY...THANK YOU! THIS IS WHAT I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO MAKE PEOPLE UNDERSTAND! AND THE IMPORTANCE OF FIGHTING FOR US COLORED WOMEN!!! THANK YOU AGAIN! THANK YOU I CANT SAY IT ENOUGH!
Hey Jennifer, I’m loving the content and the black mother wound is something that needs to be talked about. I’d like to lovingly offer a suggestion of being mindful to not use the word “retarded” as a colloquialism to describe something being unfair. It’s a really derogatory word and takes away from the message. Can’t wait to listen to more from this podcast.
I just recently discovered your interview on TikTok and I am so grateful that I found you because I’ve never felt so sweet and hurt and all my 37 years I have been trying for the past four years to feel that mother inside me without really recognizing and understandingall that I have been experiencing due to the trauma that I experienced the child. I look forward to your podcast episode and I’m so thankful for you.
I think you have struck a major chord here! I certainly can relate from having a mother who was born in the sixties and now having it come back full circle through my own daughters. ❤😢❤😢❤😢❤😢❤
I came across this podcast when I was driving. I'm 45 and I needed this! You have no idea how this spoke to me. By the end when you said "Everything that you say happened, that shit happened!..." It was at that moment that I literally broke down in tears! @Jenniferarnise THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!! I became a subscriber today.
I appreciate the sociological perspective incorporated in this episode. It did not feel like a tangent at all. Would love to hear a follow up episode on identifying common mother wound spectrums. You mentioned a few here but can you go more in-depth and share how those show up through behaviors of the mother and child and how they affect them in adulthood/parenthood? Thank you! 💕✨
Loved this episode, and a woman healing from my mothers wounds, its empowering to see another sister giving it truthfully. and the healing will always be a journey. Be nice to yourself. #podcaster
My mother allowed me to be emotionally abused for over 15 years in the home. At the time I acted out, became quite promiscuous and then eventually realised that I needed to change or I would be affected by this forever. I forgave her then I asked her to acknowledge it, in the process of her not acknowledging any trauma and always redirecting my abuse to it being my fault even though I was a child, I have now decided to go no contact with her. I won’t be changing this decision until she takes accountability.
I am mexican and I understand this is a project for black females and I am hispanic. We were enslaved by Spaniards and there is just a lot of normalized wrong treatment on children that comes from the influence that they had and the culture. I am hispanic and I am here because I have a bad mother wound and I am in my early thirties and really need to heal this wound because it is eating me up . Your podcast is helping me like no other therapy and I need to be here. So am gonna be here. Thank you ❤
Me too !
My dad looked me dead in my face May 30,2024 & told me I OWE them especially my mom. I already hated them but that there is pure disgusting. THERE IS NO DEBT!!!!!!! There is no debt ! I don’t owe you anything but a final good bye!!!!
😭😭😭😭😭 thank you for the validation !
I resonate with this alot. This video spoke to my heart and I can't stop crying! No one talks about this. Since getting into counseling I've tried to bring this up to some of my family and I'm outcasted or called crazy. I so appreciate you addressing this topic.
My mother rejects me, still to this day of my big age of 41. I've never felt safe in her care, and I want to confront her but knowing that she will manipulate.
I don't owe my mother nothing! Nothing at all.
I love that you’re speaking on this topic because so many brown young girls and grown women are dealing with this common hurt with our mothers. Most of us need healing in this area of our hearts but don’t know how due to the lack of knowledge in our community. Thank you for being one of few to speak up and out! I pray women across the world find your platform and begin to listen, heal, and spread awareness about this topic as well. Please don’t stop what you’re doing, we appreciate this! 🫶🏾
Thank God for black women who are breaking these bad habits and cycles by talking about and addressing our mother wound. Thank you so much! ❤
I've been going on the same cycles all my life. Felt like I had a ceiling on my wealth and success.... no matter how much I achieve, I'm right back in the same place. I'm figuring out I have a set point and I'm almost sure it's related to this mother wound. I'm going to heal so I can live my life... not just survive. Thank you Jennifer ❤❤❤❤
It's not alot of places and spaces to talk about it but im just glad I can count one. I've been telling people since 17 that alot of us need to discuss our mothers. It doesn't have to be ugly or disrespectful but it can be honest and sincere
Your videos are so timely. I recently had to sever ties with my mother while burying my father. I will no longer endure her toxic mess and focus myself. A new day is dawning 💜
Sending positive vibes ❤
When you said you do not owe your mother anything ... I was waiting for lightning to come down from the sky and strike my phone because those words sounded blasphemous 😄.. but the things that you say definitely sheds light on all the things we are taught growing up
Wow! This conversation is radically perfect.
Thank you , for validating my feelings. My family is very passive regarding the abuse from my mother.
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!! I HAVE SOOOO MUCH TO SAY...THANK YOU! THIS IS WHAT I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO MAKE PEOPLE UNDERSTAND! AND THE IMPORTANCE OF FIGHTING FOR US COLORED WOMEN!!! THANK YOU AGAIN! THANK YOU I CANT SAY IT ENOUGH!
Hey Jennifer,
I’m loving the content and the black mother wound is something that needs to be talked about. I’d like to lovingly offer a suggestion of being mindful to not use the word “retarded” as a colloquialism to describe something being unfair. It’s a really derogatory word and takes away from the message. Can’t wait to listen to more from this podcast.
I mean, that's a phrase in our culture though.
I just recently discovered your interview on TikTok and I am so grateful that I found you because I’ve never felt so sweet and hurt and all my 37 years I have been trying for the past four years to feel that mother inside me without really recognizing and understandingall that I have been experiencing due to the trauma that I experienced the child. I look forward to your podcast episode and I’m so thankful for you.
Thank you so m1uch ❤ for this podcast. Please have a mother wound conference in person! I would love to see you live and meet others. ❤
On my way, Jennifer!!!... I saw you lastnight on hardly initiated & now I start your class tonight, God is so good. 💜
Love this video and message. I needed to hear this so I can work on my mother wound and truly heal. Thank you from the bottom of my heaet,my sister. 💖
Just found your podcast. This is very needed.
This blessed my life
You don’t even trust yourself made me flinch 😅. Gotta get through these episodes slowly but surely.
I think you have struck a major chord here! I certainly can relate from having a mother who was born in the sixties and now having it come back full circle through my own daughters. ❤😢❤😢❤😢❤😢❤
Hello! New subscriber here! I really appreciate your channel and this message. This is the absolute truth!! We all need t his. Thank you!!
I came across this podcast when I was driving. I'm 45 and I needed this! You have no idea how this spoke to me. By the end when you said "Everything that you say happened, that shit happened!..." It was at that moment that I literally broke down in tears! @Jenniferarnise THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!! I became a subscriber today.
You're so welcome!
New subie here sending love and gratitude ❤❤❤❤❤🦋🦋🦋✨🦋✨🦋✨🦋✨🦋✨✨
I appreciate the sociological perspective incorporated in this episode. It did not feel like a tangent at all. Would love to hear a follow up episode on identifying common mother wound spectrums. You mentioned a few here but can you go more in-depth and share how those show up through behaviors of the mother and child and how they affect them in adulthood/parenthood? Thank you! 💕✨
Loved this episode, and a woman healing from my mothers wounds, its empowering to see another sister giving it truthfully. and the healing will always be a journey. Be nice to yourself. #podcaster
Thank you ❤
You're welcome 😊
Wow this is deep
Keep going !
This is so healing thank you 💯❤
My mother allowed me to be emotionally abused for over 15 years in the home. At the time I acted out, became quite promiscuous and then eventually realised that I needed to change or I would be affected by this forever. I forgave her then I asked her to acknowledge it, in the process of her not acknowledging any trauma and always redirecting my abuse to it being my fault even though I was a child, I have now decided to go no contact with her. I won’t be changing this decision until she takes accountability.
Wow!!!!! Just wow!!!!!!!!!
💖💖💖 thanks
Thank you so much for this podcast
Thanks for listening
I feel like the mother wound for me happened in that order. She abandoned, rejected then shame.
I can soo relate to this. My GOD
We owe people who sacrifice for us. Mothers are no exception. I owe those who died so that I could have the right to vote. I repay them by voting.
You are in captivity ....you better set yourself free coz no one will.
Perfect find at the perfect time. Thank you so much ❤
Well my mom was hard on me and easy on my sister.
July 17th '24....👌🏾🙏🏾
@10:40 Definition of the Black Mother Wound
Phew 😮💨!!!!!!!
I think our mother is our first God