3 Things That Will Change Your Relationship With Women
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ก.ค. 2024
- I've worked with a LOT of men and a TON of couples in relationships, situation-ships, and what have you. When it comes to what YOU as a man can do to craft a thriving partnership, there are 3 sort of "rules" that have come up again and again. They're also what changed the game for me and led to the wildly wonderful marriage I have now. Listen in.
(00:00:00) - Intro and rule #1: stop worshipping sex
(00:05:43) - Develop the self-esteem and willingness to walk away
(00:09:33) - Get into the right place in your life, THEN find a woman
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As a woman, I have tremendous gratitude and admiration for the work you are doing in the world with men. It is truly changing society and advancing civilization in profound ways. Thank you 🙏
I’ve been watching your channel for a year now and I gotta say you honestly give the best advice for men… im going on a date with a girl who actually has what im looking for in a women.. thanks bro
Thats amazing brother, well done! I hope the date goes really well. Thanks for tuning into the content and glad its supported you
As a guy that had to work through a ton of baggage around sex, exactly like you say. It's tied to insecurity, lack of self-esteem, lack of an ability to actually connect, I used sex for validation and as a replacement for an actual emotional connection. Everything you stated happened. Wife felt objectified and that she brought nothing to the relationship outside of sex. Obviously this wasn't the case, but I can now see why she felt that way. It nearly ended my 20 year marriage. Luckily I was able to work through all of that and start to hit the brakes, and we decided to give the marriage another go. Things are great now, but it was rough going for quite some time.
I’ve had my issues with sex in my younger days, but I had no idea I was using sex as a “fix”, in my mind, I was just doing what young guys do. Now that I’m actually AWARE of my issues, it seems it’s much easier to live a healthier life. I think awareness is half the battle.
So good to hear!! Nice work!!
A second chance! That’s great, and so good to hear you are putting in the effort!
Quiet part out loud: a lot of women are completely enotionally unavailable and sex becomes the only way to experience closeness. Now we're into "walk away".
Listen, a lot of us are raised and socialized in a way where we might arrive relatively late life at the realization that "no" is even an option with women. It will feel like a literal crime to say "no". Thats a lot to push past.
Good point. It amazes me how many husbands or boyfriends simply will not say ‘no’ to their wife or gf. They just keep giving into everything she wants because he wants her to be “happy”.. it doesn’t though and only creates a vicious cycle where she expects to get everything she wants.
Wonderful content. "Stop worshipping sex," is something I should've heard at any point over the last three relationships and 12 years of my life.
Also, I think a man who worships sex will appear less trustworthy. A woman may feel even more pressure, due to the fact that he might go sniffin around other women if she doesn't fulfill his desires in the exact way that he wants. Another reason why porn is such a detriment to relationships in general.
Very true, well said
Worshiping sex and intimacy with a new partner I met in 2021 led me to financial crisis and debts of almost 6 digits trying to save her financially for the sole reason that I was putting s*x with her on a pedestal (her being the all-time dream fantasy girl I always wished for). I am still not out of it and trying hard to get out of that vicious circle... And not asserting myself along the relationship to not disapoint her (to make sure I have as many intimacy moments with her) led my life to a complete chaos in all spheres of my life.
Thank you so much for this video..
Deprioritizing sex not only free’s you from the prison of carnal desires & the potential for poor decisions & manipulation, but when it’s a top priority, it’s obvious to women. Whether you want to believe it or not they can easily sense that’s all you’re after & that’s a major repellent. Getting over being on those puppet strings is the biggest favour a man can do for himself.
Love your channel & the honesty no rude remarks all helpful & supportive 💪🏾💪🏾🙏🏾
I very much appreciate these types of conversations. We are in an interesting time of history and a lot of many, not all, are in need of proper guidance and videos like this help that out.
I really have to say that those talks really help me a lot understanding my and the women's bevavious that I already experienced in my life. Thanks for those interesting thoughts!
Amazing content my friend! Thanks!
I'm still watching but I need to say this about the first part. I wish I knew it or had it told to me by someone, anyone, when I was 17-23 yo. My heart aches. I learned those lessons slowly and painfully. This is golden advice that must be taught to young boys entering their late teen years. An absolute must. Thank you for sharing. 🙏🏼❤️
This content is pretty healthy. I remember when I moved to a new town and met a girl, but I didn’t feel ready to date at the time. I would say to her, _”I’m just not ready for prime time.”_ A lot has happened since then, but the main thing was to change aspects about my health, that I didn’t know about, that had been ruining my life. There’s been a lot of learning and practicing and I know that getting to where I want/need to be in my health would make me unstoppable! It’s that meme where they say that, _G*d gave me this illness because without it, He’d know I’d be too powerful!_ I believe that. To be my authentic self _means_ to me, beating the living crap out of this disease, putting it into a pine box, giving these ailments a forever death. It has gotten confused for my emotions, my spirit, my shadow and so on, when it’s all just a gut issue. Thanks for your insights.
You are spot on! I've enjoyed watching your videos - keep it up. You are inspiring.
Thanks man, appreciate you tuning in!
Another brilliant video. I strongly resonate with all 3 points. My partner and I watched this and she also resonated with them. We thank you Connor. 😊
Appreciate that Ryan. Glad they hit home with her as well.
Thank you!
Very good!
Solid! 10/10
I'm finally ready and I'm in the right place ❤😁👍 !!! Now all I need to do is find the right woman... and I think 🤔💭 that I have.
Funny fact: last week I told this to a friend and was think about to talk about this on internet
Cheers from Brazil
I’m a queer woman who struggles with some of these same issues. Your advice has helped me with perspective. Thank you‼️❣️
This site is full of good vibes and healthy male energy! Sure toxic masculinity is a thing. Tho sites like this help men find balance and strength without toxicity. Much appreciated!!!
This content isn't sexy nor what men want to hear, but rather what we need to hear
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Interesting video. How would this be navigated with an avoidant partner? Definitely wouldn't work being so stern im assuming
True.
Geez, in this day and age if we men wait until they feel they are secure in their life to commit, we are often looking at an age when it is way too late for a woman to realistically have children..
I can't even imagine a relationship, where a woman will have a respect for boundaries and I will have the confidence to stand by them, due to how much women manipulate a situation to make them seem like the righteous one. how fucked up is this because I wish I didn't have to say this. I've just never met a decent woman who treated me well
I'm a worrier. Because of that fact, I'm quite prone to impostor syndrome. Do you have any advice for how to recognise when i'm at the right place in my life? Would it be certain life milestones/goals such as moving out, having a certain schedule, amount of money? Thanks! (I'm 25)
In very crude language: I've been there. I got sucked into a very unhealthy relationship with a woman once. She wasn't good for me but she made my body go splat and I didn't have the self-advocacy to say "no means no". Women get taught this, as they should, but as men, we have to take a page from their playbook and learn to say "no" until there's a damn good reason to say "yes"!
Totally agree with point three. I am 25 and just came out of a 3 year relationship. I only realized now how deep down I never once put my girl above my mission and goals during the whole relationship. This despite me moving across the globe for her. When things got heated I checked out. like you said, I´m still in my development phase as a man building my career and sense of self. It hurts to think though that she was the right girl at the wrong time. I hope shes doing well.
Do you think it was the wrong move to check out when it was heated? You don’t think you did enough? What caused the heat? I want to know more as it would probably help me.
No such thing as right girl wrong time bro. The right woman will be the right woman. Y’all would have made it work. Some relationships are just there for experience and to collect data
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I wish the manosphere would have existed when i was a young man... Oh well... appreciating it now... thanks man
9:11 🔑🔑
I think that this is all true, but the TV show example was bad without some more context.
Im 22 and I haven’t had sex in a long time, right now all what im thinking of everyday is sex.
It’s because our society is so sexualized. Images everywhere selling everything. The way the EGO works though is the pursuit of sex, just like any other pursuit, is better than the actual end result. That is why when it finally happens, it rarely lives up to the fantasy.
@@Jesse-qk1uy I get where you are coming from but you need to acknowledge that mèn have $èxual need for their mental well being. Think about it - would you wanna marry a gìrl if you knew that she would never have $èx with you at all? There needs to be a BALANCE.
@@Jesse-qk1uySoooooo true!
Make a video on dead bedrooms and advice if she won’t change
Why not take porn off the pedestal. It’s a relationship destroyer and kills your brain.
Absolutely. I have a few videos on that as well. For me, porn is in the category of sex for most men.
Why do women feel compelled to test men in the first place?
When women have done this with me it's just gotten under my skin because it suggests they don't respect me to begin with, so they'd rather just see what they can get away with. It puts me on edge and has me in a state of caution around them and walls-up rather than just being able to relax.
Aka, no one wants to be poked and prodded like that.
CORRECT … MARRIAGE IS BUSINESS …….
See the video entitled"it isn't easy"for my comment.
3:20 I have experienced several times that women wanted me "for the sex". And i am an absolutely average and now old guy. Can't really follow your theories. Not my experience. Woment wanted sex but not a relationship with me, thats what i experienced more than once.
Maybe they tested you and the result is that you are only ok for sex and nothing else. I am in love with a man that reach me just for sex and he seems only interested in sex stuff ( he is around his fifties). I would like to have a relationship with him ( I felt for the potential thought) but in reality he got only his cock to offer at this moment 😢
Your wife thinks she’s going to slowly break you down and then one day, you’ll be a fully domesticated, “Bachelor-watching” beta husband, lol.
she doesn't exist in 2024 western society bro.
Why were you ever doing that anyway
Socialization, and the rarity of emotionally healthy male teachers like video creator.
@@jamesloop i don’t agree
@@user-oq3et5kc6v ok. Do you have another theory as to why it is not uncommon for men to view relationships in this way?
Guilt tripping for subs....shame