Paul Merson Opens up on Addictions, Football Legacy & Losing Millions Gambling

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  • Paul Merson discusses his struggles with addiction, his legacy in football, and the dangers of gambling in the sports world. From his personal experiences to his thoughts on the industry, Paul shares his story with honesty and vulnerability. Watch now to hear from this well-known former football player and his journey to overcoming addiction.
    0:00 Paul Merson
    1:15 Having Panic Attacks
    3:12 I’m Addicted To Football
    6:15 I Should Have Been Sacked Sooner
    7:26 My Addictions
    10:45 Gambling Is The Worst Addiction
    18:27 How I Can Help You
    18:49 I Won Everything
    22:04 Alcohol is Everywhere
    27:29 I Lost Over £7Million
    32:59 I Spent My Pension
    37:07 Betting Companies
    40:22 Ivan Toney
    45:42 You ONLY Get Today
    46:39 Matt le Tissier
    51:27 I Wasn’t Underrated
    52:27 Middlesbrough Transfer
    53:40 Ultimate 5 a Side Team EVER!
    55:31 England & Southgate
    57:05 Arsenal, Chelsea & Man Utd
    1:04:23 Next Ballon D’or Winner
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  • @BenHeathPodcast
    @BenHeathPodcast  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Timecodes
    0:00 Paul Merson
    1:15 Having Panic Attacks
    3:12 I’m Addicted To Football
    6:15 I Should of Been Sacked Sooner
    7:26 My Addictions
    10:45 Gambling Is The Worst Addiction
    18:27 How I Can Help You
    18:49 I Won Everything
    22:04 Alcohol is Everywhere
    27:29 I Lost over £7Million
    32:59 I Spent My Pension
    37:07 Betting Companies
    40:22 Ivan Toney
    45:42 You ONLY Get Today
    46:39 Matt le Tissier
    51:27 I Wasn’t Underrated
    52:27 Middlesbrough Transfer
    53:40 Ultimate 5 a Side Team EVER!
    55:31 England & Southgate
    57:05Arsenal, Chelsea & Man Utd
    1:04:23 Next Ballon D’or Winner

    • @user-hu1ii6os6q
      @user-hu1ii6os6q 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      1.05. Self promotion. Buy my book. Book me for talks. So I can make money.

  • @liambrennan-graphic-designer
    @liambrennan-graphic-designer 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Nothing but respect for Paul Merson, Top man, hope he keeps doing what he's doing which can't be easy. All the best to him....

  • @ScottReviewsThings
    @ScottReviewsThings 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    So much respect for this man. The best player I’ve seen at Pompey. Lead our team to the premier league.
    But his honesty has always shone through. What a man. Deserve so much more for his talent.

  • @jacksmalling4265
    @jacksmalling4265 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    A genuine man who, scarily like all of us, can fall into a deep rut without a ladder. Glad he came out the other side and is with us

    • @philbrainy2399
      @philbrainy2399 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He’s a fucking traitor the way he sided with sky over le tissier

    • @nikobellic570
      @nikobellic570 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's broke, with young kids to look after and a crippling gambling addiction. He chose a roof over his kids and wife's head over politics@@philbrainy2399

    • @fergusmurphy3724
      @fergusmurphy3724 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He’s not gonna shag you m8

    • @fergusmurphy3724
      @fergusmurphy3724 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@philbrainy2399get a grip ffs

    • @omiethamsia9009
      @omiethamsia9009 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@philbrainy2399 le tissier is a fucking looney mate

  • @clivebonneywell6967
    @clivebonneywell6967 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Paul merson totaly loved watching him play never gave up and gave his all when playing

  • @muntari82
    @muntari82 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is the most real interview

  • @nogginnogg1788
    @nogginnogg1788 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a deep and genuine man. Football would do well to listen to people like Merson and Tony Adams who’ve lived the life and know the pitfalls. Great interview.

  • @Michael-hk6dj
    @Michael-hk6dj 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He's a good bloke. I'm Irish and really respect Merson. The sitting in the pub wasting time really got me. I spent the last 20 years in the pub.

  • @fergusmurphy3724
    @fergusmurphy3724 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    For anyone to ever think that Rashford is ‘one of the greatest players to ever play for England’ is absolute madness. And I’m a United fan

    • @elicorcarwilson6675
      @elicorcarwilson6675 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nobody does .

    • @sionprice2432
      @sionprice2432 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not what he said

    • @fergusmurphy3724
      @fergusmurphy3724 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sionprice2432 yes he did. Use your ears

    • @sionprice2432
      @sionprice2432 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fergusmurphy3724 use your ears. He said on last seasons performances he could be one of the greatest players to play for England he didn’t say he is one of the greatest players to ever play for England.

    • @fergusmurphy3724
      @fergusmurphy3724 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@sionprice2432 that’s exactly my point you utter dope🤦‍♂️

  • @Mark-hi1cj
    @Mark-hi1cj หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I had a cousin that was a functioning heroin addict thet kept it secret for 10 years he never stole either never missed a day of work. paul reminds me so much of him. My cousin stayed clean for 6 years. His mum died and he went back to it and was found dead in his chair he was 57 .i hope paul can stay clean. YNWA

  • @brianwebb5503
    @brianwebb5503 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Carry on the good work Paul. I was gambling from the age of 12 on fruit machines. Did not find help until I was 24. Had to close all bank accounts. My wife gave me ten pound a week in pound coins and I had to make it last. As well as attending GA every week. I've now been clear of gambling 25 years. I can walk past machines now. Without even thinking about them. I wish you every success in your recovery.

  • @andrewforeman2168
    @andrewforeman2168 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He's just so upfront and honest about everything and the effects his addictions had on his relationships, finances and everything else are simply heartbreaking.

  • @hughzapretti-boyden9187
    @hughzapretti-boyden9187 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Big up yourself Paul! Maximum respect! I remember seeing Merse sat in a Golf GTi plotted at the top of my road at 1am waiting for someone to score for him, I know because i scored from there too.
    Drugs are NOT the answer.👍

    • @Thai.Farang
      @Thai.Farang 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why do you take them then?

  • @suttonj1991
    @suttonj1991 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love his honesty , real person Merson is

  • @jordanmorley7571
    @jordanmorley7571 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow, when Merson talks I’m glued to what he is saying, such an amazing guy and speaks so well, I think he would of made an excellent football manager, he is actually funny too 😅

  • @user-nc4wb8ph9z
    @user-nc4wb8ph9z 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The merse what a great player
    Unbelievable he had these addictions & was so brill
    Glad he is over his addiction
    What a sound bloke

  • @thechipman2473
    @thechipman2473 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    We love you Merse, keep going, an inspiration to all

  • @Africasideways
    @Africasideways หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Another great interview, keep em comin.

  • @gerardfoley9619
    @gerardfoley9619 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Paul is a top man ...

  • @joemorgan636
    @joemorgan636 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Paul Merson was a brilliant player runs down up through middle loved it use to piss up Mel Sterland of Leeds Utd time and time again and Leeds were bollocks in mid 80s won league. Remember those famous FA CUP replays time and time with Leeds always ran Arsenal close but Gunners, just had that to much in locker for them remember Anfield 89 the nuts Micky Thomas goal had to win by 2 clear goals and did mate the big Man Utd tussles in 90s paul was involved in all off it love this fella brought So much joy in our household. Just honest honest person.

  • @1quebert
    @1quebert 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great interview. Love this man, very open and honest and was a great footballer too. Best of luck in the future Merse.

  • @alanssnackbardailyrelaxati8155
    @alanssnackbardailyrelaxati8155 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Find this very powerful. I hope Mr merson is successful in his endeavour.

  • @HarryStarks
    @HarryStarks 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well done Merse. One of my boyhood heroes. I got my 18 years sober on February the 15th. I've also worked in addiction services and agree with what Paul said about gambling being the worst addiction. It's a bottomless pit. I actually use the same description that Paul uses to describe the addiction. You drink a bottle of vodka and it is evident that you are under the influence. You can only stick so much coke up your nose, or so much junk in your arm. Plus you haven't spent as much money as somebody who is struggling with gambling addition which is a bottomless pit and your physical appearance doesn't change compared to alcohol or drugs so it's easy to mask. In my opinion gaming definitely is the worst addiction out there and the financial destruction it causes is claustrophobic.

  • @fergusmaher7490
    @fergusmaher7490 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Spurs fan here but have to say that since Merse became a pundit I have a lot of time for him. Genuine guy. Same goes for Wrightie too.

  • @Buck783
    @Buck783 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Talking about his issues is such a brave thing, plus it’s 2nd stage journey he is now on ❤️❤️⚽️⚽️

    • @josiekaposie5783
      @josiekaposie5783 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      what a load of tosh , sad old man trying to make himself relevant , he has been telling this story for twenty five year

  • @aa4172
    @aa4172 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    totaly agree with you Paul, too much gambling adverts on early morning radio

  • @MrDaciasandero
    @MrDaciasandero 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cmon who doesn't love Merse ...keep going Paul....awesome player in your day...and I'm sure an awesome fella as well

  • @user-vw5xy5ly5b
    @user-vw5xy5ly5b 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Paul merson was a really class player back in the day full respect for him

  • @Bradley-tp9df
    @Bradley-tp9df 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Paul merson your a legend and get it 110%

  • @aggie3344
    @aggie3344 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Respect to Paul merson from a man united fan

  • @DarrenSmith-tq2xz
    @DarrenSmith-tq2xz หลายเดือนก่อน

    I thank Paul merson for everything that he did when he was at the Boro was angry with him when he left and signed for villa all the best in the future mers

  • @kavp16
    @kavp16 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brilliant interview

  • @MXB1973
    @MXB1973 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a player Paul Merson was. In his pomp he would’ve got in any team in the world.

  • @muntari82
    @muntari82 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for this Merse

  • @ulfanfinneriksen4643
    @ulfanfinneriksen4643 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Gambling , drugs and alcohol is soul destroying.

  • @davidsanders2806
    @davidsanders2806 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brilliant podcast

  • @mrchickflick4444
    @mrchickflick4444 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Merson can waffle more than a waffle machine at times on sky but I actually think he’s a top bloke with actual intelligence especially around gambling in this country

  • @mrchickflick4444
    @mrchickflick4444 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m just happy at 18:37 that wasn’t a sky bet sponsor break 😅

  • @juniorjones79
    @juniorjones79 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cracks me up, top bloke Merse 👊👊

  • @user-hb4wm6lh9f
    @user-hb4wm6lh9f หลายเดือนก่อน

    Top player and top bloke, in todays market would be worth 75 Million

  • @oovreg5610
    @oovreg5610 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Respect!

  • @qed456
    @qed456 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Legend!

  • @darrenlee9237
    @darrenlee9237 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    "Sometimes it's not clever to be clever"
    "I keep my head down"
    Merson's take on his friend Le Tiss' getting sacked by Sky.
    Sounds like a clear acknowledgement that we're living in an Orwellian dystopia doesn't it.
    Christ, what a ride we're on... 🙄

    • @sevans606
      @sevans606 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Mad innit

    • @summan41man
      @summan41man 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Always speak the truth, or else you're cheating yourself.

  • @phillipmills5572
    @phillipmills5572 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If you liked this interview read his first book
    "How not to be a professional footballer" its like an open wound and a real peak behind the curtain, I'm a spurs fan but love the guy.

  • @formerarcadian8167
    @formerarcadian8167 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    6th sense footballer. The most gifted footballer I’ve ever seen play at Villa Park.

  • @Buck783
    @Buck783 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Merson is a legend ! Had a few beers with him in Tenerife , we are both now tea total 👌👌💪💪⚽️⚽️

    •  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sounds boring as fcuk

    • @hundal45
      @hundal45 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tee you thicko

  • @liamharvey2053
    @liamharvey2053 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Top man 👌

  • @100sky3
    @100sky3 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Isn't this exactly the same line-up as Jeff Stelling's podcast? How many pods is too many?

  • @scottsaul
    @scottsaul 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Self sabotage was a big problem for me .

  • @adamnuttall7383
    @adamnuttall7383 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Top man Mers

  • @anthonymcnamee6297
    @anthonymcnamee6297 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice n straight

  • @Mike72-vv5zr
    @Mike72-vv5zr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Honesty from Mers what a player know where he’s coming was addicted to every drug under the sun 19 years clean but it’s a horrible existence it’s like a full time job

  • @grsl4026
    @grsl4026 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You don’t get a better footballer than Paul Merson. Absolute legend of the game

  • @londonlifeexplorer3915
    @londonlifeexplorer3915 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    36:50
    39:32
    41:00
    46:29
    49:40

  • @joemorgan636
    @joemorgan636 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Paul Merson, running millstone and ragged down the wings, just make me laugh, just take the piss out of him. Paul was good man. Used to call him a Magic Man hearing his name on the radio all the time. Capital gold sport 1548 MW commentator was Jonathan Pearce. Great great Memories. Well well done paul brilliant career back then Liverpool Arsenal Man Utd top 3 side consistently.

  • @Scott1433
    @Scott1433 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When it comes to football Paul Merson sometimes has some wacky opinions. When it comes to addiction, I would actually consider him an expert. He understands addiction so well and has some very sensible ideas about tackling it

  • @tikemyson5627
    @tikemyson5627 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Proper chels is Merson

  • @londonlifeexplorer3915
    @londonlifeexplorer3915 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    14:20
    19:14
    19:47

  • @user-nw3wk1pn9q
    @user-nw3wk1pn9q 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I Still think Paul could be a great Manager but I think a mistake ex players make is going into it too early. Early 40s you still have things to learn about yourself and there is still room to learn new things about your profession. At 50 plus, people can look at things and deal with things very differently, and then people considerably younger than you react to YOU differently. But Merson has the best job in talking about football, he is great at it, much better and more interesting than 90 percent of other pundits.

  • @tonygarforth539
    @tonygarforth539 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i thought he was talking about me he is so true it is the worst of the worst it will always fetch you to your knees gambling is the root to all evil believe me i should no i have lost everything when you go on one of them unlucky runs its game over

  • @ProfessorJay-sc6vd
    @ProfessorJay-sc6vd 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I see Paul in the local bookies in West London 😅
    Man of people, Paul
    Top Man
    Still gambling 👍🏼

  • @joemorgan636
    @joemorgan636 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mel Sterland Leeds Paul take him for a Run down the Wings or down the middle of pitch ran him ragged so funny 😂😂

  • @user-uf6sk4uw9c
    @user-uf6sk4uw9c 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤ merse

  • @vanmarko6654
    @vanmarko6654 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Shocked he didn't even mention Liverpool when asked who was going to win league 😮

  • @Rossboy2112
    @Rossboy2112 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Paul is a lovely fella a genuine nice guy brilliant player he’s an Arsenal legend he has his demons like most human beings nobody has a bad word to say about merse I wish him all the best in the future I love Arsenal FC and Paul along with Ian Wright were the reason I started supporting the Gunners in 1991 both brilliant players And Arsenal legends he won 2 league titles a league cup the FA Cup and the cup winners cup and also reached the final again in 1995 that 1991 Arsenal league winning team was very underrated in my opinion George Graham was a very underrated manager people say he was to defensive I don’t agree he won 6 major trophies built the best back 5 iv ever seen play as a unit phenomenal defence with flair players like Wrighty Merse Limpar Rocky Rocastle R.I.P David ❤ COYG

  • @bollocks224
    @bollocks224 หลายเดือนก่อน

    great chat

  • @paulmorganmorgan7541
    @paulmorganmorgan7541 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Paul I have walked in similar shoes when it comes to gambling and coke
    But last year I would never of had Rashford even in that conversation but that's just my humble opinion

  • @thegreasystrangler7012
    @thegreasystrangler7012 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👍👍👍👍

  • @jrothweldo7
    @jrothweldo7 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Don't know why ppl say Stuart Peace is a hardman joke

    • @thegreasystrangler7012
      @thegreasystrangler7012 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Stuart Peace was overrated

    • @tikemyson5627
      @tikemyson5627 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      An hard man in football not in the street lol

  • @scottcuk1
    @scottcuk1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    One moment he says betting adverts are ok, it's the addict's choice to walk out the room / turn the channel over. Next minute he says footballers have no choice but to bet. Which is it?

    • @Adam-jn3yr
      @Adam-jn3yr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think what he meant was they shouldn't hand out 10 month bans to footballers for gambling because it does nothing but feed their addiction. But I suppose it is still their fault

  • @lukebillingham1946
    @lukebillingham1946 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Merson and Gerrard - 0 left foot but didn’t need it, with a sexy outside of the right.

  • @captainhawdy
    @captainhawdy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ok working for sky though advertising gambling every few minutes

  • @fergusmurphy3724
    @fergusmurphy3724 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Like Merse but the ‘City are the best football team ever’ is absolute nonsense

  • @theorgazoid4918
    @theorgazoid4918 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Gambling companies are absolute scum. Adverts need banned.

    • @michelleaspden6586
      @michelleaspden6586 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why don’t gamble I lost 70 grand in 6 months life is life 😂😂 mr not michelle

  • @tomscott9685
    @tomscott9685 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Help me please

  • @brentinnes5151
    @brentinnes5151 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Matt has got a pair..Mers too afraid..thats all there is to it

  • @TheCAPTAINDESTROYER
    @TheCAPTAINDESTROYER 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Please learn some basic English. As an English born person over the age of 2, you should know that’s it “I was taught by someone”, not “I was learned by someone”. For God’s sake! Come on, so basic!

    • @samsimpson565
      @samsimpson565 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who cares? He’s not in an English lesson, he’s a professional footballer not a grammar expert and has said in previous podcasts he suffers with dyslexia. This guy is pouring his heart out, laying out all his demons but you’re quibbling about some trivial grammar issue. What the fuck are you on?

    •  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      More than a few spelling mistakes in your comment aswell

    • @samsimpson565
      @samsimpson565 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why have you deleted my comment?

    • @TheCAPTAINDESTROYER
      @TheCAPTAINDESTROYER 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No mistakes actually, by me.

  • @bluey7007
    @bluey7007 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Didumms

  • @shiftylad9938
    @shiftylad9938 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jesus Mersin really must have been a bad punter. Said England will win the Euros and players from other countries (squads) wouldn’t get in their team. So French or Spanish players must be shaking in their boots 😂😂😂😂

  •  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Is merson still banging on about his gambling😂😂give it a rest dude

    • @philbrainy2399
      @philbrainy2399 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can’t say that! You have to call him a brave man for speaking out ! 😂😂😂

    •  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂hes mind numbing mate wish he would get back on it and shut the fcuk up

    • @DT-rb7ro
      @DT-rb7ro 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He lost 7 million quid!

    •  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Really?7million is it now? I remeber this story when it was 4 million,his fairytales go up with inflation😂

    • @user-hu1ii6os6q
      @user-hu1ii6os6q 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He lost a lot of money. And he states its a illness. Good for him. Its a warning to others. This can destroy you.

  • @ianhunter412
    @ianhunter412 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You lost me regarding Toney and bellyaching about his ban He bet on FOOTBALL and his own teams outcome!!! He knows the rules and could have gambled on horses so your point doesn’t hold any water!

  • @kanofcola984
    @kanofcola984 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The messed up thing is that your TH-cam advert in this podcast was Ladbrokes gambling. Disgusting