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@@wamyy5 thank you so much Amy!! I’m going to high school to find out what I really want to do, but your advice will still be so helpful ;)
Amy! Thank you so much for the video. Can you please make a video about maintaining a good time table and maintaining diffrwnt interests. When i mean Different, ALOT of interests. I've been struggling to stay consitent on my time table. Sometimes its difficult and i just give up. I been struggling with this for MONTHS. I did everything i could. I read books, wacthed videos and.......its not so good. Can u please make a video for it? I have messaged you in instagram but looks like you didnot see it. I am also 3days late from wacthing this video. You may not read this, but if yes please make a video on how to be consitent EVERYDAY and making it a habit. Love from Jack and all youre lovely subscribers❤ edit: im also gonna reply to ur comment so u gonna see it faster.
Best years of my live? Oh no...
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I’m 24 now I couldn’t wait to grow up. Now I’m in the worst depression ever. Not saying this to scare anyone but say it’s important to take actionable steps towards your future and what you want rather than what you are told to do.
I'm also 24 but have adhd so I'm pretty much mentally 18 😂😂 ig that's why I'm still not that worried about my career or anything like that, tbh I'm still in college getting my bachelor's and made peace with the fact that everyone goes at their own pace and it's almost never too late to do anything. If anything I'm having a way better time than when I was a teen since I just got less fuccs to give and am less reserved about going after whatever I want now
@@metaphysicalfreediverim not sure if I have ADHD or brain rot from internet usage. How do you know if its ADHD
@@seeksolace2059 i don't have adhd but i'm experiencing something similar and after researching a lot i think if you've had those behaviors since you were a kid then it is more likely to be adhd. however, a lot of factor could be at play and child adhd could be hidden or fly under the radar, so take it with a grain of salt
@@yes-iu1tz i just wanna be sure. I have a bad memory and I hate doing stuff. I gets restless and bored easily.
@@metaphysicalfreediver I'm in a similar spot! I'm 24, also have ADHD, and going to be a first year for the third time (and hopefully last) in September. I've learnt to accept that everyone's on their own journey. Comparison really is the thief of joy, I've spent my whole life being a people pleaser and it's gotten me absolutely nowhere. I'm finally ready to take my life into my own hands and prioritise my needs :) I wish you the best, we've got this!
You don't only get one shot at the age's of 18-24 that's a scarcity mindset. You get as many shots as you work for and make possible for yourself. Facts. Bet on yourself people. Because it's up to YOU to make anything happen which you can make whatever you want happen for yourself at ANY time provided you have the will power to do so. You can use any of the tools the world has to offer to make it. School, Trade School, Military, Contracting Jobs, Self Taught skills, Relationship Opportunities, or even if you have to work multiple dead end jobs in order to save to invest in other things. You just need to learn money management and budgeting from the start and build a plan from there. You don't have to depend on any school. I'm not discrediting schooling but you don't NEED it to be financially well off. Coming from someone who knows personally.
Yes! This is exactly my mindset as a 16 year old .I tmrralise finance is importance but it isn't a priority , my passion for my career and my love for social interactions are more important. Even if I were to go broke at the end of the day is have my passion and will to pick myself up.The world's idea of "the best life" is not always the best life for me
This is the response of someone who didn’t understand what was said. For starters, you are only each age for 1 year. If you are 19 or older, you will in fact never be 18 again, or have the exact same opportunities that society provides to 18 year olds. This is true for every age. Secondly, yes, you can try and try again as many times as you wish. The point is that there will come a time for all of us when there is no more time. Whether that’s due to sickness, life situations, or death. The point is to take advantage of the time you have NOW because we all lose time at some point.
This is so true 💯
No, we mostly get things in life out of privilidge. I got so much being privilidged and doing little effort, got so little after loosing privilidge and working my ass off. FACTS.
Thank you. These types of videos are lowkey fear-mongering.
I'm 29, graduated from Harvard, now have a 100% remote full-time tech job, bought a big house, a nice car, and I have a boyfriend. I still feel like I've done nothing with my life. I need to do some soul-searching to see what to do for my 30s.
well first off, congratulations on achieving those things! it didn't happen without hard work on your part. it is in our human nature to want change. things get boring after a while.
you might enjoy making something with your hands, like sewing or painting, or being outside in nature. but i think the best thing you could do for yourself is give your childhood dreams a second chance. the things you dreamt of before money was a thing you fully grasped. chances are, those same dreams are still in you. best of luck and happy 30s! :)
@@sweetpeaon3 Thank you for that. I’ve been looking into creating new hobbies. I recently started journaling, and it feels productive and enlightening.
Maybe read the bible
That's why this video is nonsense lmao
This is actually how most “successful” women feel. Seems like corporate and money isnt something that genuinely fulfills them.
Just keep learning about yourself and dont give up!
1.choices are chain reaction...
Begin with end in mind
Be purposeful with yout time and effort.
2. Build your human capital...
Read self-development books such as Atomic habits..7 habits of highly effective people... Influence is your superpower..
Self study..work on time management skills...
More mature people are the one who constantly try to improve themselves...
4. Learn through other's life
5. Push yourself out of comfort zone..
6. Remember that it's your life..
Believe in your own judgement..
Don't put pressure on yourself to win in some arbitrary race. Don't feel the need to force some productivity or achievement rating on what you've done with your life.
•Treat your time like it's gold•
7. Priorities your happiness, health and fulfillment...
And apart from this video...one valuable lesson I have learned is that...Never let other people's perception of you dictate your behaviour..you will never grow as a person..But if you leave yourself open to experience despite what other think then you will learn and grow..✨🌼
Thank you so much for the summary!! I’ll also watch the video too ;)
@@tanyaram3805yes please! I spent a ton of effort and there are important explanations to listen to ❤
@@wamyy5You are actually great...thank you for advising us from your experience❤️✨
Imagine someone reducing ur hard work to a comment 💀. I’m grateful for u both 💖💖
1. Begin with end in mind
2. Being purposeful with time and effort
3. Learning from others mistakes
4. Not getting affected by others opinions of me cause they're only advisor not manager
5. Constantly seeking growth in life to improve myself
6. Prioritizing health and happiness
These are the keywords for me that i learned from this video. Thank you Amy 💚. Im really struggling through a lot these days but your videos give me a sense of hope that i can still achieve my dreams even though i failed a lot of times. And what im grateful about more is that i get to watch this video before i turn 18.
im currently 23 years old, and i feel stuck. stuck that i don't know what i'm doing. or am i really in the right path that i'm supposed to be. the pandemic took the "one shot in life" from me because those years are the height of covid-19. i never got to experience my first day in college or even attend my highschool graduation because it was cancelled with the growing number of covid cases in my country. everytime i think about those years lost, i look at myself and i still think that mentally, i'm my 18 year old me, waiting to graduate highschool and taking up the nerves to walk up on stage infront of 500 students in my class. but i never got to do that. i'll be 24 at the start of next year and i feel like i haven't experienced enough of life. maybe because i got depressed and 2 years was just me trying to keep myself alive everyday. it was a struggle to wake up. and i feel that i've wasted so much time accomplishing nothing. even now, i don't know if i'm doing enough to be where i want to be. the thought of my peers leaving me behind while they continue to go on and achieve amazing thing in life crushes me because i thought i would be there too right now, but that's not the case.
i stumbled upon your videos, and i hope i can learn and pick up some stuff to keep myself motivated to finish this degree. taking inspirations in life not as a life guide or self help book but a new way to see life itself, a new perspective on what to look for to finally enjoy living.
(so sorry for the "trauma dump," your videos really made me think about some stuff i would never think of on my own)
I feel you babe, me too trying to finish my degree now in 24, feel like haven't experience anything, been in depression for years.. I hope good things come for you soon, we just have to keep survive and doing it until the end of the tunnel.. Sending you lot and lots of love❤
i struggled just like you drifted for years but was able to get out of it and find purpose consistency doesn't have to be everyday you can off and on days just keep going I'm 23 just graduated and learned it's not what i want and now going back to be a doctor it's never too late or over never give up!! tough times don't last
Thank you for sharing this. I just turned 21 y/o and I feel the same way. I did 3 years of community college which I did very mediocre. I thought I could handle despite dealing with a toxic household, depression, unstable health both physically and mentally. I feel so behind even by those who are younger than me. I wish I could stop caring. I don't know what to do
Also don't forget all in all theres is no truly objectively "right" way to live life it's up to your interpretation! And thats the Beauty of it😄aint it swell?
hey) i'm 23 and don't know what to do with it too. everything's gonna be alright, just believe in yourself and improve your life the way u can 💌
I am days away from being 25 so this vid is still for me ehehe. Anw, “don’t pressure yourself to winning some arbitrary race” is sunlight to my withering confidence.
For context, i just started a new job unrelated to my major and/or previous skills, and everyone else is doing so much better. Thanks to this, I’m in no rush to beat anyone. Im just here to learn with my own best ability because I get and chose to. So thanks Amy, cheers!
good job 👍
I’m 25, just started a new course and am now studying something I actually love. It took me two failed courses to finally find out what I wanted to do with my life. I could’ve gotten my degree from my previous course but I’d have to work a job I hate (for minimum wage) and that thought terrified me. So at this point, even though I’ll only be able to start working in my field once I’m 30, I’m still glad I made this decision.
It’s never too late imo. After all, my mom got her psychiatry degree at 49 and her driver’s license at 52 so I’ve witnessed that you’re never too old to learn something new. It just takes courage and discipline.
Happy Birthday
I'm not 18-24 years old but I'm watching this video like that I am.
How old are you
I will eternally be 24 ( ^-^)ノ∠※。.:*:・'°☆
I will eternally be 24. ( ^-^)ノ∠※。.:*:・'°☆
It's never too late to learn something
Pblly under that range @@josephsoye-nd3pm
I'm 28 now but I would've loved to hear this 4 years ago. Or when I was 18 😅 Thanks for talking about this! I know a lot of "new adults" will appreciate learning this
28 is only a few years away from 24. I'm pretty sure categories should be 18-29 since 28 is also a young adult. New research shows brain development is at 30s instead of 25. You're still young and a new adult and can do this
@@dynaa4168exactly this!
I’m literally turning 25 in a few months and feeling so underwhelmed all the time thinking will it get better, my end has always been in my mind but I feel like I’m not worthy of that. I feel this guilt every time I am hanging out with friends and family
Hey Tanisha, right?
I'm here to tell you that it's not too late. Sure, you are 24 years old, and you probably graduated from college. I know it sounds cliché but nothing lasts forever. I'm here to remind you that time will pass. I think you should concentrate on what you love the most. I'm guessing the problem here is that you can't get yourself to do stuff? That's OK, take tiny steps . Life is a journey, please make it worth it.
Felt... I hope it looks up for you soon, remember to take care of yourself. You deserve to be happy just as much as anyone else
Please DO hang out with your friends and family as much as possible. Literally no one on their death bed regrets not working more and giving less time for loved ones.
what to do with your life? LIVE.
I am turning 20 in 2 weeks and I have realized that growing up is not at all easy..The decisions you take now will result in future so I have to take correct decisions but until now I depended on my parents decisions all the time so It's quite hard to chamge
Depending on your parents isn't bad. I still do it and I'm 27. They have a lot of wisdom and in most cases, they know you the best so they're in a position to steer you towards a good future. There are always those incidents where the parents are wrong and you can just feel that your decision that's different from their views is the right one, but that's another topic. I believe there's wisdom in listening to parents and family and valuing their opinions. It's helped me and my sisters a lot in life. I wouldn't be the person who I am today without them. Of course, this is only my opinion. God bless.
@@dreamsanddaytime I get what you mean..But what I meant is that sometimes even after listening to my parents what if I regret the decision but I can't even blame them or judge them coz they've done more than enough so when taking important decisions I try to listen to myself so the responsibility will be in my hands..And it is my future after all
Yeah same... I was always a "good kid" who did what was told. Now suddenly I'm at the age where I am supposed to CHOOSE FOR MYSELF :DDDDD GO AHEAD! CHASE THOSE DREAMS
Brother, what dreams? I don't even know what I want out of life I just know what everyone else does and thinks I should do. It's weird now having not just the right but the responsibility to pick and choose what path to take into my future when I have never had a good idea
@@aiiiia9971 you got me..This is what I'm going through
Allow yourself to make a few mistakes in life, don’t stress yourself in making the perfect choice but make sure each decision is backed by sufficient research and rationale. Trying too hard to make the “right” decisions will end up paralysing us and make us fearful of making the next step. Good luck!
I'm 30 and feeling so purposeless right now... this video magically came upon my feed like it read my mind.
do not give up there is always a way you can find your purpose keep going
me as a 17-year-old here watching your video to prepare for 18-year-old life 💖💖💖💖
thanks Amy this video is really really helpful 🤗🤗
Same here! Idk why youtube pushed this video to me but I'll take it as a sign to improve myself even more and get the future life I desire.
Same here😊
Me as a 16 year old cause I’m turning 17 next month 😖
same going to college in a month
Me too I'm turning 18 this year entering college and i already am training for a job !!! 😼😼😼😼😼😼😼🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🤯🤯🤯
I'm 25, imma skip this
😂😂
😂😂
Don’t
don't worry. There are videos for age 25-30. Go watch it 😆
@@clickbaitpolice1750its s joke dawg
I just turned 20 and I’m so excited for this decade. I’m excited for the ups and downs, the successes etc… I’m so happy I found this video and I appreciate all the advice. I’m wishing everyone that watches this video all the best❤❤❤
No degree, grinded my life for the past 5 years...
Learned so much more than in college...
Making 6 figures now..
I hire people with 120k student debt getting payed half of what I do..
Makes no sense.. anyhow, im going to school for my degree. Idk why because for my end goal is not needed but Is just a personal goal.
Congrats, what’s your current job?
WHATS your job?
Really needed to hear that Thanks for sharing
@@stevecurry2249I'd imagine something in the trades, maybe opened their own business. That's the story I usually see
That’s good to hear, I wish the best for you
I love this video. This woman single handedly made me feel less guilty about my life. Every other video I watch tells me to hustle endlessly because once I'm 25 it's over. I won't be able to do anything. But she wiped that all away with this video. The fact that she focused on talking about the most Important aspects of life instead of those repeated, monotonous opinions fills me with intense relief. I am doing okay, and trying my best, she just re-affirmed that for me. Thank you so much.❤
Wake up babes!!! MOTHER HAS POSTED!!! 🎀✨
i am going to sleep here hehehe
bro why do we have insta comments on yt
@@straw4berry3 u srsly don’t know…
@@straw4berry3 The Glazing , that’s fucking problem
@@straw4berry3 The glazing
i don’t know if you get what i mean anyways
I’m 24 now, I don’t know what imma do with my future. I won’t be able to afford a house and to have kids. I’m in the most depressed part of my life
I am turning 18 in a month and man i am nervous 😭 thanks amy your content is always so helpful
You will be fine!! Sending you love ❤ I think my podcast will be really helpful because new episodes include discussions about growing up and feeling lost!
GRACIE ABRAMS!!!!!!
@@wamyy5 aw thank you and cant wait!!
@@melissa.dabbah YES!!
@@urrockstargf111 HOWD YOU LIKE TSOU!!!
17 year old me watching 💅
How can I not watch an A-team video! 🧡✨
Go A-Team!! ❤
@@wamyy5 🧡✨
@@wamyy5 about the application, don't be so stressed you can do this! Go Amy!
Have a great time with your family! 🧡
I'm 22 and working on my bachlor's in Interior design and even though I'm very overwhelmed now, I still enjoy designing so much.
Trying to finish my degree in interior design too. Sending you a good luck until you win in the end❤
@@kaykhairunnisa6644 You too thanks!
What's learning interior design like?
@@aiiiia9971 the main course is basically doing one project per semester, like designing a public space, or residential.. The higher semester you are in the more complex the object to design.. For example: apartment is the level 1, house is level two, and the next mostly public spaces.. And the other courses are classes like learning CAD, 3D modelling, designing furniture, interior decoration, interior business and ect. Lots of making technical drawing (using AutoCAD), 3D modelling (using sketchup), 3D rendering with output pictures and videos (using Vray, Enscape etc), making 3D maquette, lots of the exhibition events, and workshop
develop designs to suit clients' needs, their budget, and the type of building. prepare initial sketches and mood boards for the client to approve. advise on use of space, colour schemes, fabrics, fittings and furniture. work out costs and prepare estimates.
Thank You Amy Wang for posting this video!!! I realized that most of the time, I had a low perception of myself. I always think if things didn't go well then it is my fault. If other people opinions most of the time are better than mine. That other people is better than mine. Somethings like this, makes me doubt myself, felt like im less better, not confident, lower than other people. But in reality, I'm not like that. Maybe this perception of mine is happening because of the past or my environment. But I should not feel that my value is lower than other people, I should not feel that my ideas, my opinion is not as good as other people. I should believe in my own value. So when I watch this video, and find out that I will be okay as long as I realize in my own value, my education, my skills, my habit, and other things, I will be alright. Right now I'm still learning to be more confident and learn to believe in myself more. I hope I'm getting better and better. Once again, thank you Amy!!❤❤
Everyone is talking about how much they have achieved and yet still haven't felt fulfilled anything, meanwhile me being grateful and praising God no matter the sitsuation is.
I personally believe like the apostles and disciples, and especially solomon, that we can get all the richest and freedom we want but there will always be an empty spot that our spirit has been longing for, and that is a relationship with God, Welcoming God to your life and letting him fill that empty space, he will fill it with reasurrance, peace, true joy, unfailing love.
I'm 14 but I want to get ahead >:)
Hahaha I’m 14 too!!!
I'm 14 too,there 3 of us haha
omg same
me tooo
You’re a child, just focus on doing great in school, enjoying your teens and figuring out what you’d like to do with your life in the future.
Amy is my SAVIOUR, I have my exams going on and she is motivating me so much!!! Love you always🤩I hope I get good marks so I can make ya proud😁
Aww you working hard already makes me proud ! ❤
Exam gang 😎🤝
@@wamyy5 ❤
I’m happy with how you always end these kinds of videos with prioritizing your happiness and satisfaction in life- many times when I try to be productive, I go too far and end up feeling anxious and worn out, but now I’m learning to enjoy myself while being productive. Thank you so much!
Something that I realised is that we aren’t supposed to find ourselves or our purpose in life but we should create ourselves and our purpose.
I just wanna say thank you for this because yesterday I was questioning all my life choices, comparing myself with the people who clearly have different goals. I just wanted to remind myself of the choices and the chain reactions of the same and what my ultimate goal is. Thank you.
I turned 20 this year, and it hit me. I'm 20, this is really refreshing to watch, knowing that through the highs and lows that I've experienced in the past 20 years, I've actually subconsciously started implementing a lot of these tips and applied this mindset!! I love videos like this, especially as the eldest daughter in an Asian household, thank you so much for making this, I really relate to this
Just turned 17 few days ago but still watching the video because the earlier the better...
Btw sister u are looking stunning as always ❤❤
I was looking for your podcast on Spotify and your video notification popped up 😭💙
Wow so magical hehe
Amy's magic ✨@@wamyy5
Couldn't skip a single second of this 😢. Tks Amy!
I’m 30 this year everything feels impossible to reach I have so many dreams and hopes they’re all fading now
Nowadays we feel like our life is over by the time we reach adulthood, but an average person lives, what, 80 years? So you're not even half-way through your life. Hold on to your dreams. If they don't work out now, they will in the future, as long as you keep working towards them-you still have a lot of time left. It's really tiring how hard and how long you must work for your goals, but if they were easy to get, they wouldn't be worth fighting for :-)
I love you so much, but more than this I admire you. Even as a stranger, you've helped me think outside the box and stopping being depressed that I am almost 25 and I finished 2 universities, but not a job.
3:51 💀the editing is crazy
What a good timing! I will be turning 25 in a few months, so i think this is going to be useful.
i'm turning 25 in a few months but honestly i wish I heard these when i was younger. I haven't got anything figured out. I'm moving out of town for a job next week and i'm scared tbh, but this video just ensured me to take a step outside of my comfort zone. Thanks for making this video!
I'm in awe. You can't be kept down. You definitely deserve to succeed and get everything you worked so hard for.
I just turn 22, I’m still looking for a job and it’s really tired. Sometimes I feel so useless, but after watch this video, I think I need to be happy cuz I need to treasure my youth!❤
You are so inspirational. I didn't get into any of my dream colleges despite all my hard work. I will try again next year but I want you to know that you are doing so good ❤
Better things are coming ❤💫
Best of luck 😁
Don’t worry, keep trying and you’ll get into a BETTER college!! I believe in you ✨💖🫶
@@wamyy5 thank you girl ❤
@@tanyaram3805 thanks behen tujhe bhi dher sara pyaar ❤
Amy thank you for your video. I'm 24 years old, never went to college and only now started my self improvement journey. Your video has put me at ease knowing that I'm not the only one who hasn't figured out what i want to do with their life and that there's others out there just like me.
Me recently turning 25: 💀
l love this video so much thank you for posting it l am 22 this year and l am starting uni in October, I feel like everyone else is so ahead of me the course will take me five years and I'm not sure if it is the right fit for me but l am trying to remain positive I cried watching it
You've got this 🙏 I believe in you !
Thank you very much for this, I'm at this age where i have to start figuring out stuff myself and especially being far from everyone so yea its kinda hard, i needed something like this to hear cause i was really doubting myself and figuring how to be motivated despite liking what choices I made I felt a bit lost thinking i might fail.
It feels like you're my older sister who is guiding me. Thank you for your advice. Much love.
Damn, the infamous quote "Time is gold" really feels a lot more relevant now
Unexpectedly the least anxiety inducing video on this topic! Thanks so much for this!!
just turned 21 studying a degree i don't have an interest in and i feel so so lost right now. even the first advice in this video: start with an end in mind, is so hard for me lol. i just don't know what i'm doing anymore or what to dod next. hopefully i'll be able to know what i actually want out of life soon :')
18-35 is more appropriate since that’s ‘YA age range’ though that’s just for marketing and census purposes
in general, just focus on your own personal timeline and what fulfills you most of all. i’m still just in my 20s yet for the past few years i’ve decided to hammer in on healing at my own pace, because life feels way more fulfilling that way. then 2y ago i started to hone in one what i actually want to do with my life, and after that i am here now with more resources, communities, and a healthier mindspace, all because i prioritized my soul first
the Process is the destination itself. don’t worry about age ranges, just keep being alive, live in the present, do your own thing, and enjoy yourself; Bill Hicks said it best
“today a young man on acid realized, that all matter is merely energy condensed to a slow vibration, that we are all one consciousness experiencing itself, subjectively; there is no such thing as death, life is only a dream, and we are the imagination of ourselves. Here’s Tom with the weather.”
thank you older sister!
I’m getting my associate degree bc my parents are willing to pay for two years of college. After that I’m traveling the world, it has been my dream to travel and I hate staying in one place. My end is having these experiences, settling down with my S/O maybe in the Netherlands and starting my own daycare center.
Turning 24 in a few months. I have nothing under my belt! Starting computer science right now and cant help but feel like my destiny is already decided by the years wasted behind me. I’m far below average in many ways.
I'm 18 from India
I used to be a people pleaser until I was in school but when I entered high school or 11th class I moved to another city and there I saw whole new world everyone was running behind something which they don't even know if that's what they want and even I was in that race
I studied my whole strength courage A DEEP THANKS AND MORE THAN THAT TO MY MOM WHO HAS BEEN THROUGH THAT ROLLER COASTER WITH ME
Then I landed in a medical college not much prestigious but kind of standard and good but really STRICT
I don't know why but I started to feel this is not my path in life s
So I have to analyse myself
Deeper to see what would make me happy
And keep my priorities straight and
I really hope that u would get through this phase and find my happiness in some thing I love to do
I understand that life needs a goal
Like said in the video I need to visualize the end first rather than just blindly engaging in a road trip not knowing the destination
OK ITS A LONG ESSAY I GUESS😅 SOO IF ANYONE HAS GOT ANY SUGGESTIONS LIKE HOBBIES OR THINGS TO DO WHICH MAKES YOU HAPPY
PLEASE SHARE 🙏 ❤
Very inspiring video! It works for people in their 40s!
You choose it you get it
*THANKS FOR THIS WISDOM*
I’m about to turn 21 and I watched a ton of my graduating class just graduate college and I felt stuck because I took a gap year and constantly failed my classes. I just now sat myself down and told myself to follow my goals in life. Since I was a junior in hs I wanted to study abroad but never did because I got a boyfriend and took my moms terrible advice and went to a uni in the states. Now I have an opportunity to go study abroad and imma take it. I don’t want to be stuck and unhappy, wasting time, money, and patience. Everything has set in motion
reading self help book hasn't done anything for me. It just makes me sad because it makes me feel like i'm doing something but then I realise that I'm not.
I'm 21, almost 22, and I'm in college. I'm working hard, and I'm still figuring myself out. this video is so helpful to me, i want to carry this with me. What do I truly want to do yet? I don't know. and i know i still need to do a lot of soul searching. hopefully i can learn to embrace life and all these moments, find more fulfillment in my life and self, and become more authentic and free
Aye I'm 26 and I was like shyt- I already lost my last chance 😱 But this made me realize some stuff about my current situation 🥲 I'm already on my 3rd year of med school and I feel like idk shyt, haven't matured and get so stressed with the unhealthy lifestyle that rn I'm slacking instead of studying 😭 then while watching this I thought.... I do like learning but at my own pace. And I met some really good people here and enjoyed moments with them. I really do feel like quitting my game rn but I also think that I might regret it in the future since I'm so close yet so far. Its a really bitter-sweet relationship but this made me decide to push forward because I don't wanna regret not being able to cross the finish line. Thank you for popping on my feed 🥰 Hahahah
You can do it :) Best of luck with the rest of med school!
I'm 23 right now, Thanks amy for opening my eyes to a new phase of world experiences. Now I am motivated than ever to do something more with my life.
Hi Amy!!!
I love all of the content that you put out for us!! Even more so the ones about your own experiences!!
I was not a studious person at all (I think I still amn't!!). I scraped average marks in high school, felt like studying was pointless, had no "objective" in life, and had no one I could call a friend.
I struggled in school, but once I was in 12th, and had to give my entrance tests, I trained myself to study. For the first time, studying did not seem exactly pointless!!
My exams would go on for 2-3 weeks. In my first unit test, I hadn't really studied but I knew i needed marks, so crammed as much as i could. I did not perform very well in it.
Then there was a mid term, for which I studied fairly well. In the pressure of constant examinations, I developed a habit of studying (almost everyday, but Idk how productive it was or wasn't). I just made a habit of sitting at the study table and trying.
There was a second midterm, which was made to be easier than the first one.
From then, it just came to me to study... as in, i had a good mindset, and i couldnt crack the national level exam with 11 lakh students, but I cracked the state level one with a decent rank. No one had ever expected that from me, and my mom cried when she found out.
We had a four month break after all the exams, and then counselling, college allotment, etc.
I lost my study habit in those 4 months completely and reverted back almost to how i was initially.
That's a bummer
I didnt try to preserve it, because it was like a treat of four months, a reward I wanted to fully enjoy!
So I began to watch anime and finished 30+ of them in those 4 months.
College began, and I didn't realize how much I degraded my own growth from the previous years.
I had gone from 60 to 20 in just 4 months!!!!!!
It was back to average student phase!
Now I am in sem 2 of college, and am trying to figure out how exactly i should get good marks.
But again, I have started to unsee the point in getting good grades...
In 12th it was to enroll in a good college, and get a fee benefit.
But now?
I noticed that fear of being left behind is as good a 'motivator' as any...
One of my friends has gotten an 8.85 gpa in sem 1 and aims for a 9.5. I'm sure they'll do it. But I am NOT sure of whether I can or not. I still struggle with keeping friends, constantly worried they'll hate me or smth...
Now I try drawing inspiration from you, from the top scorers in my class, from my friends, from the teachers that just support you, from family, from any place I can find it.
I am trying to study regularly. Just making that habit is hard, without a tangible deadline or goal in front of my face.
I will power through it!!! And work on my electrical studying part right now!!(Though I am not getting the answers correctly rn😭)
Lots of ❤ from India!!!
Every once in a while, it is encouraging to meet a young person, who to some extent advances the same principles that are dear to my heart when teaching inspiring messages to businessmen, businesswomen, managers, and CEOs. What you have said is music to my ears; it reinforces everything I have been saying.
Thank you for your valuable contributions. I wish you the very best in your endeavours. Keep up the excellent work!
i felt so relatable
Hi Amy. Appreciate your response to my comment about your Spotify success in India.
Loved this video. Can you make one about if someone is in their late 20s (29) and is lost in life and having an existential crisis about turning 30??
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Idk if she can help with that because she is only 24
before i watched this video, i've been having the idea of needing some alone and quiet time so that it gives me motivation to finish my tasks.
after watching this video, i decided to focus on finishing my tasks quickly so that i can spend more time with my family.
thank you for making this video, you gave me another reason to stay productive and more motivated for my work!
i'm still trying to figure out what to do in my life exactly as a 22 years old but i'll follow your advice and hopefully I can shape the life i want to live. thanks again!
Really needed this video, im 18 and im finishing trade school this week. I got a job offer from a commercial HVAC company that will give me good benefits and pay. But it doesn’t lead me in the direction I want to go in. I want to do my own work on the side take my own money independently and you have inspired me to towards a company. I’ll help me focus in this field more. Thank you!
There's a varieties of goal in people and yes your advice is uplift me so as a reminder for myself, it's freer to choose the life you want to live without being based on other people's standard lines it's very a good thing to learn about myself! not only help me with being myself and also be a lot more like giver to others too thank you sm❤
Thanks sister... lots of helpful advice ❤❤
Wow this feel nice , I'm entering college next 2 weeks as a freshman, its really helpful that this type of video popped up in my reccomendation
me watching as a 29 year old: "hmm nice"
Thank you 🥺🩷 I needed this.
Hello, I'm a big fan from Thailand.🇹🇭 I am learning English. Your accent is very good.😊
This is also a good reminder for the paradox of choice. The only way to know what the "right" decision was is by looking in retrospect as you can only control yourself and hope the world responds the way you want it to.
The best you can do is to try and move forward with the information you have in the present.
I'm 14 yr old but still it helped me a lot to know what to do and what not when I'm gonna be in that age of 18-24 thx a lot
lots of love from India
i love ur video as it helped to grow my attention span
I'm 25, and still to this day I can't believe people don't consider the end before taking on anything. I have always been like this my whole life, since I was 7 years old. I like to remind everyone, where are you going? What do you want? Why do you want it? And how can you achieve it? In the end, you are crafting your own life and your story. Care not what others think too much, be brave, keep a high spirit, and march forward.
Thanks for telling your experience as I was also facing same kind of problems.
May all your wishes come true in your heart feeling soul
be careful with tip 3 yes learn from others but don’t compare ur life with others be ur self and enjoy the journey that life is
I'm turning 17 in 3 months. I'm so scared of growing up 😭😭
Don’t be scared, you learn so much about yourself and you will change into a person you hate, and then into someone you adore. I promise it’s lovely ☺️ ❤
Don't be dear. Just live in the moment!!!❤❤
Don't be. I'm 27 and in my opinion, I enjoy life way more now than I did when I had your age. I'm a lot more free and wise and I get treated like an adult instead of a kid.
I'm 20 and i remember being 17 like it was yesterday and I get you, I too am scared of growing up but I think this fear goes away with time cause my fear of growing up has decreased over time
Literally, knowing everything is gonna be on you is scary💔
Good hand body language. I didn't notice you did those hand movements until I was looking for the snake ring 8:47
I turn 24 in 3 months and felt like I could have done a lot more with my life, socially, academically and professionally. I’m going back for a degree this September and try to remind myself that it isn’t over and I still have so much time left to figure things out. It’s not a race guys.
Great advice and its not to late for me to be the better me. Thank you. I do agree reading is such a great way to get more knowledge.
Just came here to say that your how to study videos have changed the whole game for me! Thank you 🎉🎉🎉🎉
this video just appeared in time🥺 I really need these advises at the moment because of feeling lost. It's scary how YT knows and recommended this video to me😂 Thank you for making this video!!!
well, this makes sense, but its really hard for some people to know the end goal. sometimes we dont know what we want
Wamy really it's fun to watch your videos 😊 That's so good as well 😄
I'm 19 now, I choose coding faculty, and never got any job in my life (at least for now)
But I must say, your advices didn't help me... But not because they're not good, they're precious, but I already have them in my mind since my 18~
You see, I lost my entire childhood and adolescence due to my family... Trauma is much more serious than it looks like, believe me... But was exactly for it that I were able to get my mind through the thoughts in your video. When I healed myself from most of my trauma in my 16s, everything I wanted was to gain as max as experience I could get... No matter if I was wrong or hurt myself, every single of these would be of some use for me... And I was right. Most of them were complete mistakes and hurts, and they all helped me improve and have a more built mind.
And with 18 years old, I already saw myself pretty mature. I discovered so much about myself, so much about things that I love, also about how I want a calm and cosy life... Ahh... I can really be in peace with myself.
Trauma did played a great role to build myself, made me don't have a life that I could think now that's more easy like a lot of people do when they become adults, and boosted me up to be healthy with myself and don't let me get down like I was doing before... But even if I can say it helped to build me, I can never say that it defines me. I am Aurora, a trans girl who loves cosy and cute things and bright colors (principally pink and white), and no one will ever be allowed to change me.
I’m at the start of that demographic, have absolutely no clue what to do with my life after I finish high school next year, thoughts have just been all over the place thinking about it
1:38 "I picked chemical engineering because I liked chemistry and math" I did the same thing and it was a bad decision. I picked materials engineering and biological science, because I loved biochem in high school and thought studying these two things would be enjoyable. I guessed that simply meant I'd become a researcher one day, and didn't think much of what it meant to go into research. But the more I progressed through my degree and was being confronted by the fact what I was studying was supposed to be building me towards an end goal, the more I knew I didn't want to do research despite how much I enjoyed learning about these interesting topics. In fact, thinking about doing research made me depressed and dislike what I was learning. At the end of second year of university, I finally decided to change degrees into Civil Engineering. I enjoyed the first-year unit on it, but importantly, I could envision the end goal better. I wanted to study civil engineering not just because the math was interesting, but because I wanted to contribute to civil engineering projects as part of my career once the studying part was over. Knowing why I was studying and what goal I was working towards definitely helped improve my studies, and it taught me the importance of goal setting too
Thank you again, Amy. I'm in my 30's and this video helped me out so much.
Much awaited video
I am a 18yr old guy begining my journey..thanks amy ❤
Can you make a video on brain fog....
Watching this at 3am in a random burst of productivity 😭
Damn... thank you so much for this, I am so glad I know this now, I am already 20 and I just want to thank you for this fr!
I have strict parents and Can’t do nothing with my life since they control my university tuition and I still live with them , the only chance I will ever get to truly experience life is after I graduate and get a job , they won’t even allow me to get a job rn cause they think it will affects my studies and look down at students who work and study which is just depressing
Thank you so much for this video! I really need this right now. I just graduated from highschool. I'm very much being thrown in this adult life so I've been kinda lost in life. I've always living with the goal to enroll at my dream university (which I have achieved, thanks god). But because of that I'm currently in lost of what I'm gonna do in my adult life. Right then, I found your youtube channel and I've been watching some videos. I think you are an awesome mentor and I'm looking forward toward your other videos!
thank you Amy. I'm 21 and i feel so lost. I don't know which career should I choose or which way I should go. But you made me feel better. Thank you :)