I’m in nursing school and I been struggling with working overnights and going to school those following mornings. It’s taken a toll on my mental and physical health. I want to quit but I don’t want to be homeless. My university is in a rural small town with limited job opportunities. Adulting really sucks when you’re a poor college student.
Thanks for saying this in a responsible way. I think there are a lot of videos promoting this concept of “just quit” but people don’t mention the harsh question ... “can you afford to quit”. Don’t stay just to stay but why quit just to be more stressed about how to survive. Unpopular opinion but I appreciate you’re guidance ☺️
Yes, like the girl on another channel I just watched who quit but then moved back in with her mother (so she has a safely net). Some (like me) can't move back in to anywhere because I'm not close to my family at all. We don't even see each other for holidays so i know they are not letting me sit up in their homes paying no rent figuring out life, LOL. I saved six months rent, phone payments, laundry money, transportation, internet bills - six months of all that. So when I finally have had enough, I will at least be able to pay rent for six months lol.
Sounds like you learned a lot because of this experience. I agree with 100%. I planned all 2020 to leave my job in 2021. I’m an RN and working 40 plus hours a week during Covid. I saved a ton of money during that year (lockdowns). I just stopped buying stuff and worked like a fiend. I think I experienced adrenal fatigue and burnout. I’m still on call there so will still work up to three days a week. I got all dental and MD visits taken care of knowing I was leaving. I tried doing self care but being on my feet for 10 hours a shift and wearing a 5 layer N95 mask was just too draining. The only solution was to work on call. I’m 47 now so I think I’m just doing to transfer to semi retirement. I think all your tips are great. The number one is “have a plan”. Good job and you are beautiful!!!!
Thank you so much for your selfless service throughout the pandemic, I know that wasn't easy! But yes I totally understand how you're feeling and glad that you are taking steps to make moves that are better for you! Praying for the best for you!
I quit my well paying corporate without another job, but I did build up my online coaching business and my TH-cam channel while still in the job. I never suggest anybody to take the LEAP but rather advice to make a transition so that there's no loss of MONEY. We need money and it's too important. I'm not saying money makes you happy (I made a video about that), but the truth is we need money, so I didn't jump, I made a plan and then, after a bit of time and part-time work, I said ''GOODBYE'' Whoever is here and stuck in a job, make a PLAN and take action NOW before you get older with regrets!
After nearly 9 years as a registered nurse, I retired two years ago. It was not an easy decision, but life is too short to dread going to work every day. No amount of money can buy real happiness Lol. But, friends, I'm not asking you to quit your work or forsake your business, but rather be wise!
@Olivia Jayden While I was still in the service, I prepared for early retirement, earning roughly $2,000 per week from my investment portfolio and working hard to establish new side hustles and extra income
@Brown Jones There are numerous investment options available, including real estate, exchange-traded funds (ETFs), stocks, and cryptocurrency, but my best suggestion is to hire a professional to guide you through the process
I am SO glad you are making this transparent video! I'm currently in the planning stages of quitting my job by December 2023 and I am planning my exit and clawing my way out, but YES, I definitely am going to have a savings account specifically for quitting my job. I'm already fantasizing about it, but I'm determined to do it the smart way to avoid additional stress of not having enough money saved for my expenses.
I am not in tech but am an up and coming hairstylist. I had quit my job thinking i would back in back in January now here i am back in a raggedy ass call center working again HOWEVER now we have a solid plan, we know better so we are doing better lol thanks for sharing this.
I've watched a number of presentations on this subject, and I must say, your presentation is by far the most informative and offers wise counsel on the do's and don't do's. I have mad respect for that. You remind me of a time I worked in a toxic environment and endured 2 years of the most toxic people ever in my career. I didn't have the courage to quit, but I was blessed to find something that was far less toxic and offered me time to heal without losing a beat financially. Bless you my sister...Keep the journey and thanks for the content.
This video could not have found me at a more relevant time. Massive respect to you...thanks for sharing your journey and your tips. I’ve recently handed in my resignation - but now rather than brooding on what I hated about my job....I’m going to use my notice period to its fullest and to reconnect with old contacts etc.
So glad you found it helpful! Give yourself time to heal and focus on the positive. I was hurt by the way things ended with my job but it ultimately worked out for the best. Good luck to you on your new chapter. Rooting for you!
Great advice, I was planning on quitting on August 31, but I'll do it on December 31👍🏾. I also got a mentor (paid) to deal with workplace toxic personalities.
Power to you. It took me 11 years to secure my pension, and then I peaced out. My heart wasn't there, nor the impact, BUT NOW! :) It's a joy. Love your share and your focus on networking and being brave! Definitly an area I'm leaning into as I grow as an entrepreneur. What's been the most challenging part of the transition for you mentally? I don't think we talk about that enough.
That's awesome. Wishing you the best on this new journey. It can be scary and exhausting going through this change. I went on many emotional roller coasters from being super excited and motivated and discouraged and feeling like I made a mistake. but consistency got me to where I wanted to be.
Make sure you use all your sick pay before quitting then put in a notice. PTO they pay out, sick they don’t. So don’t leave any money sitting on the table.
I have about 10-months-worth of savings due to procrastinating quitting, lol. I still have such cold feet about quitting (haven't quit yet). I feel guilty to my coworkers (who are wonderful), and I'd miss them SO much. But the job... UGH. It's just a job. Not a career. Data entry. Blegh. I have the skills to transition to making at least SOME money from art. Just gotta grow the cajones to actually take the jump.
@@joharilarosa6230 it's an easy trap to fall in. Some people love the people they serve and it's hard to imagine having them. People need to remember most of the time people won't stay in your life outside of work.
Your video was very detailed and you were straight to the point. You didn't venture off talking about topics unrelated...thank you! Very professional and well spoken...refreshing! Sending you good vibes a light that everything continues to work out well for you!
1. Have a saving fund ready to sustain when you jump ship, have a saving account ready with stacks plan and save ahead of the leap. 2. Make use of your skills and learn to develop in your current role as much as possible to you ready for a new role with more confidence and greater skill sets. 3. Have side hustle / another stream of income/ multiple streams of income so your not stuck when you leap. 4. Reflect on why you want to leave, weigh up the pros and cons - make sure it’s the right choice and be confident in that choice. Knowing the pros and cons can allow you to not fall in the same hole 🕳 again. 5. Utilise the staff benefits of the environment your in 6. Have greater levels of self care, this depends on how depressing the environment is and the toll it takes on you. Minimise self neglect whilst there and try to remain productive and positive. 7. Set a plan have a exit strategy. 👍🏾
I am a nurse for 11 yrs now. I am still 31 but I am already tired with bedside nursing. I am planning to quit soon. I was already diagnosed with stage 1 thyroid cancer at age 28 due to stress. Working 60 hours a week here in UAE for 7 yrs now. I am just tired and thank u for this video
Same here…I also have the golden parachute situation. I am working my way out and using this time to get new skills, build and redo my resume, and networking like crazy doing virtual meetings off the books. I am a senior level employee working in a very crazy situation where we essentially have a boss with chronic depression. It’s gone on for 3 years…it’s draining and he has filed ADA
I just quit my job at McDonald's saved up like 1500 but spent it on rent and Christmas ..now im broke. Wish I'd saved more money , next time i will plan better.
@@nicoleyoungtech update , got my 2 Stimulus checks and a new car. Started a New job way better than my old one. Things were tough at first but now everything is Great! Follow your heart not a check.
Hey! Thank you! Here is the like to one very similar from the same vendor I got just straight #613 but they also have other color options amzn.to/389abx8
I'm disabled. I have a full time job and part-time job(60 hrs unrelated to tech) and I have about 2 months rent in savings. I'm taking some coding classes right now. I have applied to masters program. I'm also looking at boot camps I'm planning on cutting my working to 35-40 hrs to focus on coding and self care. It's just hard aF cuz I don’t have stable income due to my disabilities. I will be doing deliveries and dog boarding for extra income. I'm struggling with motivation
I know that can be tough but based on your comments I feel confident that you will get exactly where you want to be. You're already thinking and planning in the right direction. Keep going, rooting for you!
@@nicoleyoungtech omg thank you for responding! I love how honest and open you are on your channel about this process so please don't change that. I sat down yesterday for a couple of hours coding SQL till my arms went numb literally. Day 1 down. More to go! Thank you for the inspiration
Just quit your job at least these days we have Obamacare over just cobra. Canadians do it all the time and move in van and start TH-cam channel and decide side hustle. I would not leave if you will lose your ride or credit card debt out of control. Have at least two months worth of basic expenses but leave job on good terms. If you have home loan or kids you will need a lot more planning.
Stop with these clickbait thumbnails. You don't have any authority to tell others to quit or not to quit. Your situation is unique to you, don't project on others and tell them "don't quit."
I only watched 4 seconds of this video. as soon as she said she quit without a plan, i knew i didn't need to watch the rest of the video. What kind of idiot quit his/her job without a plan?. you just don't do that.
That’s the point of the video! I quit without a plan and then learned from that what to do if I ever had to do it again. Just sharing some advice from my hard learned lesson
@@adrian3747_ I was young and didn’t have much guidance. I’m happy to be able to share my experiences because not everyone is as privileged as you to be able to plan ahead or to know how. Thanks for stopping by long enough to comment, though🖤
I’m in nursing school and I been struggling with working overnights and going to school those following mornings. It’s taken a toll on my mental and physical health. I want to quit but I don’t want to be homeless. My university is in a rural small town with limited job opportunities. Adulting really sucks when you’re a poor college student.
Hang in there, you're not alone 😢
You’re not alone sis
Are you able to take out a small loan to cover your expenses for the semester?
I so feel this similar situation 😞
Ugh I feel you sis
If you gotta go, you just gotta go, simple. It is not (x+y). Put things in place and go. Even if i hated it. If you can afford to, do it.
For sure your mental health isn't worth staying in places that are toxic. Life is too short!
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Thanks for saying this in a responsible way. I think there are a lot of videos promoting this concept of “just quit” but people don’t mention the harsh question ... “can you afford to quit”. Don’t stay just to stay but why quit just to be more stressed about how to survive. Unpopular opinion but I appreciate you’re guidance ☺️
Yes, like the girl on another channel I just watched who quit but then moved back in with her mother (so she has a safely net). Some (like me) can't move back in to anywhere because I'm not close to my family at all. We don't even see each other for holidays so i know they are not letting me sit up in their homes paying no rent figuring out life, LOL. I saved six months rent, phone payments, laundry money, transportation, internet bills - six months of all that. So when I finally have had enough, I will at least be able to pay rent for six months lol.
Sounds like you learned a lot because of this experience. I agree with 100%. I planned all 2020 to leave my job in 2021. I’m an RN and working 40 plus hours a week during Covid. I saved a ton of money during that year (lockdowns). I just stopped buying stuff and worked like a fiend. I think I experienced adrenal fatigue and burnout. I’m still on call there so will still work up to three days a week. I got all dental and MD visits taken care of knowing I was leaving. I tried doing self care but being on my feet for 10 hours a shift and wearing a 5 layer N95 mask was just too draining. The only solution was to work on call. I’m 47 now so I think I’m just doing to transfer to semi retirement. I think all your tips are great. The number one is “have a plan”. Good job and you are beautiful!!!!
Thank you so much for your selfless service throughout the pandemic, I know that wasn't easy! But yes I totally understand how you're feeling and glad that you are taking steps to make moves that are better for you! Praying for the best for you!
I quit my well paying corporate without another job, but I did build up my online coaching business and my TH-cam channel while still in the job.
I never suggest anybody to take the LEAP but rather advice to make a transition so that there's no loss of MONEY.
We need money and it's too important.
I'm not saying money makes you happy (I made a video about that), but the truth is we need money, so I didn't jump, I made a plan and then, after a bit of time and part-time work, I said ''GOODBYE''
Whoever is here and stuck in a job, make a PLAN and take action NOW before you get older with regrets!
Thankyou for the advice
Awesome advice!
After nearly 9 years as a registered nurse, I retired two years ago. It was not an easy decision, but life is too short to dread going to work every day. No amount of money can buy real happiness Lol. But, friends, I'm not asking you to quit your work or forsake your business, but rather be wise!
@Olivia Jayden While I was still in the service, I prepared for early retirement, earning roughly $2,000 per week from my investment portfolio and working hard to establish new side hustles and extra income
@Brown Jones There are numerous investment options available, including real estate, exchange-traded funds (ETFs), stocks, and cryptocurrency, but my best suggestion is to hire a professional to guide you through the process
@Brown Jones I recommend the services of Rachel Blanc, she's a licensed financial expert and she has been very helpful in my financial journey
@Ava Alice you can just search her name online to reach her fast
She's available on Facebook
I am SO glad you are making this transparent video! I'm currently in the planning stages of quitting my job by December 2023 and I am planning my exit and clawing my way out, but YES, I definitely am going to have a savings account specifically for quitting my job. I'm already fantasizing about it, but I'm determined to do it the smart way to avoid additional stress of not having enough money saved for my expenses.
I am not in tech but am an up and coming hairstylist. I had quit my job thinking i would back in back in January now here i am back in a raggedy ass call center working again HOWEVER now we have a solid plan, we know better so we are doing better lol thanks for sharing this.
I've watched a number of presentations on this subject, and I must say, your presentation is by far the most informative and offers wise counsel on the do's and don't do's. I have mad respect for that. You remind me of a time I worked in a toxic environment and endured 2 years of the most toxic people ever in my career. I didn't have the courage to quit, but I was blessed to find something that was far less toxic and offered me time to heal without losing a beat financially. Bless you my sister...Keep the journey and thanks for the content.
That "taking better care of yourself" part, that right there, is something I really need to do.
Hoping you are finding ways to do that more!
Soo true, learning the skills while at your job really can make the transition much smoother after!
This video could not have found me at a more relevant time. Massive respect to you...thanks for sharing your journey and your tips. I’ve recently handed in my resignation - but now rather than brooding on what I hated about my job....I’m going to use my notice period to its fullest and to reconnect with old contacts etc.
So glad you found it helpful! Give yourself time to heal and focus on the positive. I was hurt by the way things ended with my job but it ultimately worked out for the best. Good luck to you on your new chapter. Rooting for you!
Girl im dying to quit my job 😫 but i have to be patient and keep working hard into my small business to make it possible.
Keep going! You can do it 💪🏾
Same and God knows I am so tired but I’m trying to hold on
Great advice, I was planning on quitting on August 31, but I'll do it on December 31👍🏾. I also got a mentor (paid) to deal with workplace toxic personalities.
Thank you for this video. All excellent points. I appreciate it.
Thanks for watching:)
Power to you. It took me 11 years to secure my pension, and then I peaced out. My heart wasn't there, nor the impact, BUT NOW! :) It's a joy. Love your share and your focus on networking and being brave! Definitly an area I'm leaning into as I grow as an entrepreneur. What's been the most challenging part of the transition for you mentally? I don't think we talk about that enough.
That's awesome. Wishing you the best on this new journey. It can be scary and exhausting going through this change. I went on many emotional roller coasters from being super excited and motivated and discouraged and feeling like I made a mistake. but consistency got me to where I wanted to be.
Totally agree with you! Add more source of incoming if you dont have a plan before quitting as well as save "F** Money" are super important.
For sure!!
As they say hindsight is 20/20. You made the best decision for yourself at the time💗
Make sure you use all your sick pay before quitting then put in a notice. PTO they pay out, sick they don’t. So don’t leave any money sitting on the table.
Great advise!!
I have about 10-months-worth of savings due to procrastinating quitting, lol. I still have such cold feet about quitting (haven't quit yet). I feel guilty to my coworkers (who are wonderful), and I'd miss them SO much. But the job... UGH. It's just a job. Not a career. Data entry. Blegh. I have the skills to transition to making at least SOME money from art. Just gotta grow the cajones to actually take the jump.
You really considering your co workers??
@@joharilarosa6230 it's an easy trap to fall in. Some people love the people they serve and it's hard to imagine having them. People need to remember most of the time people won't stay in your life outside of work.
Do it scared. Just do it.
Your video was very detailed and you were straight to the point. You didn't venture off talking about topics unrelated...thank you! Very professional and well spoken...refreshing! Sending you good vibes a light that everything continues to work out well for you!
Thank you so much, glad you liked it!
1. Have a saving fund ready to sustain when you jump ship, have a saving account ready with stacks plan and save ahead of the leap.
2. Make use of your skills and learn to develop in your current role as much as possible to you ready for a new role with more confidence and greater skill sets.
3. Have side hustle / another stream of income/ multiple streams of income so your not stuck when you leap.
4. Reflect on why you want to leave, weigh up the pros and cons - make sure it’s the right choice and be confident in that choice.
Knowing the pros and cons can allow you to not fall in the same hole 🕳 again.
5. Utilise the staff benefits of the environment your in
6. Have greater levels of self care, this depends on how depressing the environment is and the toll it takes on you. Minimise self neglect whilst there and try to remain productive and positive.
7. Set a plan have a exit strategy.
👍🏾
Thanks:)
Thanks for the advice, Great Video!😁
Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching😁
I quit my job in England in 2019 and moved to New York 2 weeks after. Best decision I ever made.
Happy for you! Hope things are still going well for you!
@@nicoleyoungtech yes they are
I am a nurse for 11 yrs now. I am still 31 but I am already tired with bedside nursing. I am planning to quit soon. I was already diagnosed with stage 1 thyroid cancer at age 28 due to stress. Working 60 hours a week here in UAE for 7 yrs now. I am just tired and thank u for this video
Too many people step out on fear and not faith
this was so informative, thank you so much! ❤️
So glad it was helpful in some way! thanks for watching!
Wow! What an impressive hairstyle change!
You look amazing!
Thanks Yuliya!😊
My biggest concern is health insurance. I want to quit so bad but then I’m screwed.
I can relate but with the pandemic it scares me.
Same here…I also have the golden parachute situation. I am working my way out and using this time to get new skills, build and redo my resume, and networking like crazy doing virtual meetings off the books. I am a senior level employee working in a very crazy situation where we essentially have a boss with chronic depression. It’s gone on for 3 years…it’s draining and he has filed ADA
That was really helpful, thanks for making the video.
I love your videos and the quality 💕
Thank you so much!! Thanks for watching
I just quit my job at McDonald's saved up like 1500 but spent it on rent and Christmas ..now im broke. Wish I'd saved more money , next time i will plan better.
I understand how tough things are right now. Will be praying things turn around for you if they haven't already!
@@nicoleyoungtech thanks love , they are 😊 you're very beautiful btw
@@nicoleyoungtech update , got my 2 Stimulus checks and a new car. Started a New job way better than my old one. Things were tough at first but now everything is Great! Follow your heart not a check.
Rent is required. Christmas is not.
@@thechemi5083 proud of you! Thank you for updating!
This is great, thanks
Glad you liked it!
This was very helpful. Thank you
Thanks for sharing.
I just quite with out getting a new job
And am so worried about what is next
Hope things are going well!
Such a good video thanks for making this! Subscribed!
Thanks for the sub! and thank you for watching! Glad you liked it!
Unrelated to the video but you are gorgeous!!!!
great video!!! also please link your hair, you look amazing!
Hey! Thank you! Here is the like to one very similar from the same vendor I got just straight #613 but they also have other color options amzn.to/389abx8
I'm disabled. I have a full time job and part-time job(60 hrs unrelated to tech) and I have about 2 months rent in savings. I'm taking some coding classes right now. I have applied to masters program. I'm also looking at boot camps
I'm planning on cutting my working to 35-40 hrs to focus on coding and self care. It's just hard aF cuz I don’t have stable income due to my disabilities. I will be doing deliveries and dog boarding for extra income. I'm struggling with motivation
I know that can be tough but based on your comments I feel confident that you will get exactly where you want to be. You're already thinking and planning in the right direction. Keep going, rooting for you!
@@nicoleyoungtech omg thank you for responding! I love how honest and open you are on your channel about this process so please don't change that. I sat down yesterday for a couple of hours coding SQL till my arms went numb literally. Day 1 down. More to go! Thank you for the inspiration
List starts @ 04:10
Liked and subscribed❤️
Good advice.
great content my beautiful sister and I'm your new subscriber
So happy you are here:)
Just quit your job at least these days we have Obamacare over just cobra. Canadians do it all the time and move in van and start TH-cam channel and decide side hustle. I would not leave if you will lose your ride or credit card debt out of control. Have at least two months worth of basic expenses but leave job on good terms. If you have home loan or kids you will need a lot more planning.
Reflecting on why is a big one! Truly processing what I dislike about my job is what I needed to do. And I’m out of here 😆
100% agree lol puts things into perspective
What coding languages did you learn?
I’m afraid this may be a sign for me.lets hope not.
If it is, stay positive! Only great, better things are in store for you next.
Gah you look stunning !!!
Thank you!!
You are incredibly beautiful and insightful.
RJ
How do u make your videos???
I use a canon m50, with a tripod and edit in premiere pro!
The beginning tho lol
😂😂
Ya'll need to watch that life style too. Stop doing stupid shit with your money. Leaving urself in a position where u cannot bargain.
I was going to stop smoking and drinking but I was told to never quit! Never give up ... don’t be a quitter.
Hahahaha that u can 🤣
🤣😂🤣 and then covid hit. That's cold
Lol right! great timing
Hi! The background music is unpleasant, unnecessary. You're great! You don't need that racket in the background.
1. Get another job.
100%
You. Are. CUTE!
Thanks!
Stop with these clickbait thumbnails. You don't have any authority to tell others to quit or not to quit. Your situation is unique to you, don't project on others and tell them "don't quit."
Did you read the whole thumbnail?
I only watched 4 seconds of this video. as soon as she said she quit without a plan, i knew i didn't need to watch the rest of the video. What kind of idiot quit his/her job without a plan?. you just don't do that.
That’s the point of the video! I quit without a plan and then learned from that what to do if I ever had to do it again. Just sharing some advice from my hard learned lesson
yep a stupid idiot would do that. I saw ur comment right away and i agree. i wont even start watching after the advertisement lol
@@adrian3747_ I was young and didn’t have much guidance. I’m happy to be able to share my experiences because not everyone is as privileged as you to be able to plan ahead or to know how. Thanks for stopping by long enough to comment, though🖤
Get out of here you fool she mentions clearly that she wants to guide people how not to quit like her.