Why I Quit My Corporate Job for Labour Work

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  • @user-nr2ej5sr5e
    @user-nr2ej5sr5e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4245

    I use to be a lawyer, than I was a teacher... now I stack shelves in a supermarket and I’m the happiest

    • @Lazarusrizing
      @Lazarusrizing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +502

      I'm blown away by this comment. It's so encouraging.

    • @danneil2219
      @danneil2219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +419

      Former 5 figures salary engineer job...working security job...I have time doing trading and online bussines at my security work...😂

    • @nathelm8693
      @nathelm8693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +251

      I work in a logistics company as an operator. Every moment I'm there I fantasize about skipping up to the roof and launching myself into the parking lot, right onto the bosses truck ;)

    • @danneil2219
      @danneil2219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@nathelm8693 hahahah...I feel u bro....

    • @melinoesedah9762
      @melinoesedah9762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      I've seen this at my company. People that used to work in leadership and management positions switched to regular floor work. They are content. I, myself, perfer to be in supportive positions.

  • @rayahagen1003
    @rayahagen1003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1739

    The youtube algorithm is trying to tell me something

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      😂

    • @meyleena
      @meyleena 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yeah this recommendation come up to me, right after i tried to transition my job to something else by applying other jobs hahaha

    • @samashakti
      @samashakti 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right

    • @rw7717
      @rw7717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same!!

    • @ritario530
      @ritario530 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😳

  • @droneographytv8848
    @droneographytv8848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1650

    Makes sense, humans were not designed to sit in an office motionless for 10 hrs 5-6 days a week.

    • @siberianmoonlight
      @siberianmoonlight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lol

    • @droneographytv8848
      @droneographytv8848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      I've moved from a sales corporation to a labour field, feels natural, I walk alot and its stress free. Couldn't be happier and earning more money.

    • @michaelj6392
      @michaelj6392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@droneographytv8848 what labor field?

    • @droneographytv8848
      @droneographytv8848 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@michaelj6392 train depot driver.

    • @zr1129
      @zr1129 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Humans weren't designed at all. We can adapt to being motionless.

  • @AJ-ox8xy
    @AJ-ox8xy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1355

    This is exactly why I quit medical school and became a plumber. My family thought I was crazy and so did most of my "friends" at the time. But I'm happy, I don't live in debt, I'm free to have a social life and live. I work to live now, instead of living to work.

    • @bethsharma4766
      @bethsharma4766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Good for you. Bravo!

    • @TheProjextopfive
      @TheProjextopfive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      In Australia plumbers are payed up to $120 an hour

    • @andrewb.2202
      @andrewb.2202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I've thought about getting into the trades. How are the work hours as a plumber?

    • @mechanicman3305
      @mechanicman3305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Plumber here 2 man ur gonna love it 😉

    • @MS-de7bb
      @MS-de7bb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Plumbers make awesome living and they're always in demand it's a no brainer. And if you're happy and content more power to you👍

  • @elvan12581
    @elvan12581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2286

    I have been fighting my soul for 13 years working a corporate job... I never wanted to get into it. I never wanted to do a master's in marketing. I just followed the herd.
    13 years later 39 years old now, I found myself crying in the bathroom trying to finish a presentation wondering how I got to this point over and over again... I am responsible for my anxiety and depression. I murdered my soul.
    Your video saved me. Articulated in 10 minutes what I was going through for 13 years. I still don't have the courage to stop... Especially with bloody COVID around now...
    But I have to, I just know I have to. I have to go blue collar and start all over again.
    I too was toying with the idea of landscaping or study to become an electrian.
    I want to work with my hands fewer people and less deadlines!
    You are a beautiful person and reminded me that we are all not cut from the same cloth... Something I knew in college but got lost in the noise of the world.
    I'm going to do it... I have to, for the sake of my mental health.

    • @VideoSiteAccess
      @VideoSiteAccess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      Elvan Rehman Please do! Give us an update when you’ve made the change. ❣️👍🏾

    • @elvan12581
      @elvan12581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      @@VideoSiteAccess I will... Covid 19 has given me an opportunity to look at a lot of things. And soon as I chalk something out I will update this space. Peace.

    • @emmanuellerose7450
      @emmanuellerose7450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Good luck friend! My sister got fired from her boring Corporate soul sucking job and it forced her to reassess and she’s going to study environmental and sustainability management in feb 2021. She was so sad but now she’s completely over the moon that she’s going to pursue her true dream and nurture her soul

    • @mahyarhajizade8821
      @mahyarhajizade8821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I am doing an MBA in order to get to the management consulting or some other jobs. But before making this mistake I realise that's not for me .
      I'll change directions and after graduation will do something that I enjoy while earn money .

    • @elvan12581
      @elvan12581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@mahyarhajizade8821 Good that you have insight to who you are at this point.
      Some of us are one thing and some of us are many things.
      I'm trying to see what is it that I can devote myself to for 4 to 6 years at least.

  • @katejones969
    @katejones969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +826

    I worked in finance for 15 years and quit to clean trains - at night and on my own. Best decision ever. Zero stress, zero drama

    • @nicolea8205
      @nicolea8205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      What job is that even called?

    • @stephannytorres3289
      @stephannytorres3289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Idk why this is so amazing to hear. Just the fact that you’re doing something of seemingly “low-importance” but there’s something sacred about making a space tidy and habitable for others that’s so fulfilling. Thank you for sharing.

    • @chelseashurmantine8153
      @chelseashurmantine8153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's tight

    • @DanwilsonArchive
      @DanwilsonArchive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Whether you are switching between night & day shift or you are working only night shift then I'd recommend optimizing your Circadian rhythm as best you can if you haven't already. "The Circadian Code" is a short book and probably the best read for People working nightshifts. After all shift makes you more prone to developing heart disease, obesity and even cancer to name a few. All the best and take care of yourself. 🙂

    • @PequenaNoobAmaPudim
      @PequenaNoobAmaPudim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      B-but what about the ghosts?

  • @theomnipresent1
    @theomnipresent1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +510

    No matter how far down the wrong road you’ve gone, turn back.
    - Turkish Proverb

    • @QuietlyCurious
      @QuietlyCurious 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That is gold. I know many people, myself included, who need to hear that

    • @redberryterf
      @redberryterf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow thank you!

    • @infiniity5529
      @infiniity5529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That really hit me :(

    • @ooievaar6756
      @ooievaar6756 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      In dutch it is kind of the same: "beter ten halve gekeerd, dan ten hele gedwaald" - which literally means better turn half-way, then to get lost in/at the end.

    • @raveturk3711
      @raveturk3711 ปีที่แล้ว

      Türkler her yerde

  • @rosahearn6132
    @rosahearn6132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +521

    My husband went from being in corporate finance for 25 years to a pool man. He has never been happier.

    • @TheMwendaa
      @TheMwendaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Whooooah!?

    • @41BOT
      @41BOT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      He has a good wife, as you still call him a husband. I have heard about a lot of immoral woman who look into a marriage more like in a strategic path, than a spiritual life element.

    • @rosahearn6132
      @rosahearn6132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@41BOT Thank you. It came about because he asked to be a stay home dad when our child was born. I knew I didn't want to stay home because I still wanted to climb the corporate ladder. Once our son started Kindergarten, I thought he would go back to corporate finance. He still wanted to be there for our child and be able to pick him up from school, etc...so he looked for a job that would fit his "parenting" schedule. All while I traveled and got into executive management.
      I thought to myself. If it were the other way around, I would expect him to support my decision, so it was only right to respect his.

    • @VentraleStar
      @VentraleStar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@rosahearn6132 That's beautiful. Love this! We need more dad's like him in the world!

    • @thatguy6207
      @thatguy6207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hmm 🤔 don’t know if that is good or bad... does he still service your ‘pool’? 😉

  • @danmiser9974
    @danmiser9974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +629

    I'm a contractor. Talked with a painter who used to be a therapist. Said he was tired of other people's problems. Changed my outlook on the trades.

    • @indianathe3rd742
      @indianathe3rd742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Said he was tired of other people's 🤣

    • @chelsea5595
      @chelsea5595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Wow I hope my therapist doesn’t feel like that lol but I get how hearing about negative things all day could really take a toll on someone. Shout to all the people that do it though, we need you!

    • @JM-md4ri
      @JM-md4ri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This is exactly why I changed my major and stopped pursing a psych degree. Was planning to become a therapist.

    • @kuhekaizen3426
      @kuhekaizen3426 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was also in corporate, learned farmer, now i sit in the office again because of bureaucracy, i hate it, but my office training helps me to connect the dots and that creates a sense for me.

    • @Mistical1982
      @Mistical1982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’d much rather talk to people and help them than watch paint dry.

  • @fabsmaster5309
    @fabsmaster5309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +719

    I wouldn’t say that your 4 years were wasted. It’s like Jim Carey said “I wish everyone could become rich and famous so they’d see it wasn’t the answer to anything.” Now that you’ve tried the other path, you can appreciate the path you’ve chosen rather than wondering what might have been.

    • @jamescollier3
      @jamescollier3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I loved Jim Carey, but he Really went off the deep end

    • @Ebb0Productions
      @Ebb0Productions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ​@@jamescollier3 he sure did but I don't see how that makes him less lovable. He's dealing with some huge questions most of us take for granted.

    • @jamescollier3
      @jamescollier3 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Ebb0Productions oh. I didn't know they were personal too

    • @lolwtnick4362
      @lolwtnick4362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Ebb0Productions yeah some people love delusional celebs. he's super TDS.
      it's like loving hitler for his art.

    • @streetrossi4966
      @streetrossi4966 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ndd

  • @ugladden
    @ugladden 3 ปีที่แล้ว +816

    Spent a ton of money for a degree in Information Technology... ended up a truck driver 😂😂 lmao best decision i ever made! I love my blue collar career! 👍🏾

    • @recheveste31
      @recheveste31 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Damn bro... i too like taking the same steps you did.

    • @theonly9
      @theonly9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Got a degree in Manufacturing Engineering now I'm a beekeeper. Couldn't be happier lol.

    • @itsteatime6805
      @itsteatime6805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Alien West farmer is the best....probably because I am a foody :p . I am in IT and I want first to start gardening and see how I feel like.

    • @zainelias5455
      @zainelias5455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Alien West I'm a CPA as well in Ontario, I feel something blue collar would be better for me too. Used to work in retail, loved it and thrived in it but a part of me feels that's just me being in my comfort zone.

    • @kfrancis1872
      @kfrancis1872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @Alien West I am a black woman, started Trucking at 48 years old after being an insurance adjuster for 20 years. I've never been so happy, never worked so hard physically and Been So Satisfied. I'm 52 now, between the big cranes that lift the shipping containers at the railyard on to the back of my truck, they are just paying me to go play with big toys. It's a ball, good money, go for it.

  • @minuit6305
    @minuit6305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +887

    I hated with a passion being an administrative assistant or having to sell people stuff. I was good at it but everything about it was agonizing. My best job was the post office as a mail handler. The hours were crazy and at times the labor was brutal but i was so active and i loved it. My mother said i had the mind of a poor person and that i was accepting my life as a pack mule. I ended up quitting and going back into something i hated and now im miserable again. Sometimes it's the people closest to you that make you obsessed with money and status.

    • @nancycorrea538
      @nancycorrea538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Wow! this resonated with me so much. I love nature, animals and being outdoors. Growing up I wanted to be a zookeeper, but my mom told me I wouldn't make any money there. So, now I make 6 figures and am miserable from the time I wake up to the time I go to sleep. I need to make some drastic changes for me. I don't care what people think anymore..
      Best of luck to you!!

    • @brothertn708
      @brothertn708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Wow I’m sorry about your mom... but don’t feel bad about the things she says because she is talking about herself and not about you. The simple life is the best life. And since she’s so “amazing” I hope she will leave you a nice inheritance, if not tell her to shut her trap!

    • @PigeoneerToy
      @PigeoneerToy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Being successful does not mean being rich and famous as many may think. Being successful is enjoying your life even if you work sweeping the floors of an airport. It has nothing to do with status and it has everything to do with what makes you feel good, what brings you enjoyment and a sense of fulfillment.
      Your mom wants the best for you, I'm sure, and she might think that post job is not enough for your potential. You can do whatever you want in life. Notice the characteristics of that post job. Did you like interacting with people? Customer service? Moving a lot instead of being glued to a chair? Doing this exercise can help you funnel your preferred work profile to know what to look for, in case you can't go back immediately to the post office. I wish you the best ♥

    • @melbee9521
      @melbee9521 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯🙌

    • @Itjusthappened0
      @Itjusthappened0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      This sounded like my parents. I love my family but they also contributed lots to my depression without them knowing

  • @dardalion3199
    @dardalion3199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +729

    I really want to just build a small self sufficient farm/homestead and have a wife and kids and friends with me.

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      SAME

    • @dardalion3199
      @dardalion3199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@AshleyEmbers I remember as a kid in school we visited this historic farm and there were reenactors showing how to bake bread and raise chickens and maintain tools and sew, etc. I want all that to help reconnect with real life, but with internet and electricity. Ya know, not full Amish.

    • @nathelm8693
      @nathelm8693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Dreams do come true! Let me know when I can place a large order of eggs and bacon, thx.

    • @zylemacruz8400
      @zylemacruz8400 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same!!!!

    • @treyellis3
      @treyellis3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

  • @stace_d
    @stace_d 4 ปีที่แล้ว +670

    I wish high schools didn't push the college route so hard and encouraged students to check out all their options, like trade schools for example. A lot of people I've met went to college with no idea what they were in for and how much debt they'd accumulate, only to end up in a job that didn't make them happy... One of my friends from university never pursued a career with her biology degree. She's super happy running an independent coffee shop and living more simply

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I couldn’t have said is better myself 😊

    • @dardalion3199
      @dardalion3199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same. I got a degree in Biology because I initially wanted to go into medicine or pharmacy but then got into a field that didn't require biology. New tech and social media opened up so many new areas.

    • @MrSivram28
      @MrSivram28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      High school is too groom you to be part of the system. They don't want you to be self sufficient

    • @nathelm8693
      @nathelm8693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Must become fuel for the world engine.

    • @vodkaandlime
      @vodkaandlime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My sister got a French degree and I think the only roundabout way she ever used it was on her cv to get her first graduate job. She's a writer now.

  • @elizabetha8565
    @elizabetha8565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    I am a nurse and the sickest people I meet are the ones that worked in a corporate job, the ones with the fewest problems that make it the longest without intervention are the once that had some type of labor job.

    • @bri-chimchimcher-ee6955
      @bri-chimchimcher-ee6955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@x3unkow Do you work from home? I'm about to, and I've been researching different types of desks that would allow for some activity. There are standing desks that you can move up and down to alternate between sitting and standing. Or "treadmill desks" (sounds crazy, I know) where you get a flat treadmill that can fit under a standing desk. Even if you have to work in an office, see if you can get a standing desk converter. There are a lot of people in my office that have one they got from corporate after applying for health reasons

    • @kamilareeder1493
      @kamilareeder1493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Hahaha I work in a gym as a trainer and this is a fact.
      One time I saw a young man struggling to squat and rerack 200lbs. I was getting ready to go run and help him, but this tiny old Chinese lady, who is about 70 came up, took off him and squatted it and re racked it for him 😂😂😂😭😭.
      She told me it was because she'd spent her whole life squatting and carrying water buckets and such on a farm.

    • @edi8656
      @edi8656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Haha I hear ya, I was a senior nurse until last year, ended up quitting and studying vehicle mechanics now and hoping to get a truck license soon love it!

    • @elizabetha8565
      @elizabetha8565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@edi8656 I agree I think nursing is the worst. I used to work at a mill and my body has gone to crap. I think I need to go back or do some kind of a labor job.

    • @edi8656
      @edi8656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@elizabetha8565 yep my body and mind feel incomparable compared to a few months ago. I dont know how I was functioning living off junk food and caffeine and actually having nightmares about my work. Miss a few faces mostly patients but honestly do not miss the job one bit, trying to offer so much with minimal resources and limitations is soul destroying.

  • @lanchesternaanyane
    @lanchesternaanyane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    Hearing my dad talk about how miserable his job makes him is so sad. He only stays and takes the stress because he had to take care of us. He’s retiring soon and is so excited about it. Do what makes you happy. We are brainwashed to think that only certain careers can make us happy.

  • @avgholson8143
    @avgholson8143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +558

    We often struggle with prioritizing work and validation over quality of life.

    • @nathelm8693
      @nathelm8693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I prefer life in the gulags too.

    • @MechaHood
      @MechaHood 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PREAAAAACH

    • @mikrowave123180
      @mikrowave123180 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i dont

    • @victorugo3875
      @victorugo3875 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would have scrolled past this comment some months ago without giving it a second thought, but now, this is everything.

    • @Spacemuffin147
      @Spacemuffin147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When you read the 4 gospels and realize Jesus was arguing this.

  • @dshoec
    @dshoec ปีที่แล้ว +144

    I'm kind of on the same path. Got my Master's degree, worked for 6 years in my field and was miserable every day. I cannot stand small talk and working in a cubicle is my worst nightmare. On top of that, I have never liked authority and being told what to do. I just started my own business because I decided I no longer want to be part of the corporate world and my happiness is through the roof right now. I am also making more money right now as well. So it is a win win.

    • @MrCFoley
      @MrCFoley ปีที่แล้ว +1

      did you make a labor type business?

    • @insertmyidentityhere
      @insertmyidentityhere ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What kind of business did you do?…

    • @jonathanjovonovich4348
      @jonathanjovonovich4348 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What business is that please

    • @Chillingisbae
      @Chillingisbae 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This sounds like me, except I don’t have a business yet! Pls what type of business did you set up?

    • @CheerfullyCynical829
      @CheerfullyCynical829 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's been 9 months, how did that business idea work out? Are you thriving? Making profit?

  • @Rihanna865
    @Rihanna865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +583

    I’m a teacher but I quickly realised it’s not “the job” for me. I started doing labour work & I was the happiest. Less stress, less drama, less work at home... the days flew by very fast...
    Unfortunately I got fired last year b/c of covid. I’m back to teaching again (for 4 months) & I’m already stressed out & I cry every morning on my way to school. Can’t wait to find another job soon... I’m counting down the days!

    • @nickuk997
      @nickuk997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Which labor job u did

    • @lifeandmorechannel2987
      @lifeandmorechannel2987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same.... hope we will be okay soon...

    • @nancycorrea538
      @nancycorrea538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Keep your head up Sarahh!! you got this!! I tear up every now and then between my back to back meetings and presentations! Follow your heart and true passions. I will be doing the same very soon!

    • @17dmsh
      @17dmsh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I went to nannying. Still work with kiddos and none of the paperwork and other stressors. I love it!

    • @syrusangi8743
      @syrusangi8743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope you are doing ok lately. How are you? Take care of yourself n I wish you a good day (and more to come) ❤️

  • @matthews7805
    @matthews7805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Been a delivery man for the last 20 years and always loved it. The pay is good, no stress and the best part is I’m alone all day.

    • @arleneg6040
      @arleneg6040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Heaven!

    • @michaelj6392
      @michaelj6392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I work alone most of the time and I’ve always had a lot of depression so sometimes I get really stuck in that depression being alone so much.

    • @CurlyGirlLife1
      @CurlyGirlLife1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's the same reason why I love doing food delivery! I set my own hours, have no boss, and very low stress

    • @justinedse8435
      @justinedse8435 ปีที่แล้ว

      Always being alone isn't good.

  • @devonmarshall1211
    @devonmarshall1211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    I used to be a Police Officer, that was the worst job I've ever worked. The stress of the supervisors and the people who hated me for the badge I wore made me almost suicidal. I left and got a modest job for almost the same amount of money. I will never go back! I truly feel bad for those who feel stuck, they judge you for leaving and they judge you for staying.
    You don't owe anyone anything! life is too short, i've held dying children in my arms, held dying young folks who died from drug overdose.... I can't imagine laying on my death bed and looking back at all of the suffering i've seen. I want to smile and feel good about the life I lived.

    • @tustazowiowao
      @tustazowiowao 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I like what you said ,we didn't own nothing anyone.degree didn't make People happy.

    • @grumpyschnauzer
      @grumpyschnauzer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Gosh, this is how I feel about becoming a therapist. Seeing all the suffering... not sure I have the stomach for a lifetime of that.

    • @marzs794
      @marzs794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I was in the same boat. Thought at age 23 I wanted to be a police officer. Turned it was not worth it at all. Working endless OT. No time to take care of yourself, your days off are spent in court. At 27 I now work a super relaxed job that is work from home and I am loving it

    • @fittomakeup9890
      @fittomakeup9890 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💝💝💝

    • @francism9782
      @francism9782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good for you, man. Life's too short to waste.

  • @xXinsaneboyXx
    @xXinsaneboyXx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    "Your body is going to be broken down by the time you're 40." 7:35
    Lol you should see some of the people that work in an office 50 hours per week.

    • @vitos7483
      @vitos7483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That's the average American though. Obese and half broken at 40.

    • @supergirl1386
      @supergirl1386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      manual work actually makes you live longer because your body is always active and sweating, you dont even need to exercise to be fit. just look at the farmers and everyone else who does manual work.

    • @SoldierofGodAki
      @SoldierofGodAki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Doing hard labour - broken before you are 30😂😂😂

    • @andreas3850
      @andreas3850 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SoldierofGodAki Really ,what do you do all day? Dig ditches ?

    • @SoldierofGodAki
      @SoldierofGodAki 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@andreas3850 yeah kinda but thats not the worst part.

  • @RedGirl006
    @RedGirl006 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    I wasn't strong or brave enough to be a disappointment to my parents, and let me tell yah, I regret it so much... do what makes you happy.

    • @Kif_Lee
      @Kif_Lee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It's never too late to change :)

    • @Wilkins325
      @Wilkins325 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What did you do?

    • @gretashapiro4118
      @gretashapiro4118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Are you Asian?

    • @ClayMastah344
      @ClayMastah344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Being a disappointment isn’t so bad when you’re happy

    • @jonathan-3008
      @jonathan-3008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Problem is I don’t know what makes me happy.. I guess video games but I can’t make any money from that

  • @duckyluver12
    @duckyluver12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    Got a degree in architecture, got a job in architecture, felt on top of the world. A few years in I felt like my life was over and I was so insanely bored. So I tried working at a few different companies to see if it was just the place I was working and nope, I just absolutely hate office work and my work stress was ruining my marriage.
    So I quit and got a job coordinating habitat restoration, which is half office half outdoors doing things like pulling invasive plants, planting trees, placing fish traps, doing streambank stabilization, it's awesome! I couldn't imagine sitting in a chair all day.

    • @zylemacruz8400
      @zylemacruz8400 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I’m the same way!’ I’m just like you! I can’t sit on a desk all day! I love moving around work spaces! Plus I hear it’s healthier when your body is able to move around throughout the day

    • @nancycorrea538
      @nancycorrea538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's so awesome!!! Congrats!!!
      Stress at my work has been putting a strain on my relationship as well.. But most inportantly on my mental health .. I hope to be liberated from the corporate chains soon though.

    • @benjaminreinsch392
      @benjaminreinsch392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I am curious, how did you land this job? Did your degree qualify you for it? It sounds amazing and just what I would love to do. I am happy for you, you deserve it!

    • @emilybickel9712
      @emilybickel9712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I did a very similar job in habitat restoration after working mostly office jobs and really enjoyed it! Working outside and exercising while you do it makes such a difference! Good for you!

    • @duckyluver12
      @duckyluver12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@benjaminreinsch392 no my degree didn't qualify me for it. I just wrote a really honest letter of Intent and emphasised that I'd self-taught the needed skulls and knowledge just from personal interest over the years and that I was willing to do a longer probation period. Sometimes being super enthusiastic gets you in :)

  • @thatotau7478
    @thatotau7478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    My family was baffled when I left law (south africa) to work in a bakery (germany) 5 years ago. Changed my life. I discovered how little I knew of the world, and how much I love languages.
    Since then I worked in a hotel, bakery, and taught English at a university, and half the time I was doing them at the same time, minus the stress of law. I also traveled more than I could dream of. I didn't think life could feel this good and I'm not even rich or anything. Wild

    • @Accune
      @Accune 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Germany has some of the best bread that I've ever tasted.

    • @andreas3850
      @andreas3850 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Do you feel financially insecure ? How did you manage to get a job without geman ? How hard was it learning the language ?

    • @jansan9125
      @jansan9125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Makes me think of the book 5 love languages (if I recalled the name right)

    • @arleneg6040
      @arleneg6040 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Thato Tau: friggin phenomenal!!

    • @hecatrice2064
      @hecatrice2064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@andreas3850 Germans speak really good english and working at a bakery (unless you're a cashier) doesn't require using the language. As for working at a hotel, most people are gonna be tourists and will be speaking english, so being a native english speaker is an advantage.Also german is considered to be the easiest language for english speakers to learn.

  • @hollygoodson6025
    @hollygoodson6025 3 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    My husband was a BDM in sales and started having panic attacks after 20 years. I thought he was having a heart attack and I was going to lose him. He was made redundant and now a few months later is a handy man. And he’s so much happier! Best choice for us

    • @userl697
      @userl697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bless him

    • @aoutsky
      @aoutsky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Sales careers are brutal. Constantly chasing targets is so stressful. Glad he is happy now.

    • @depressedessendonfan5702
      @depressedessendonfan5702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      welldone :D

    • @kayumochi
      @kayumochi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aoutsky I gave up sales and am now much happier and healthier. And I sleep better too!

    • @peacebewu
      @peacebewu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your husband is so lucky to have a wife that is supportive.

  • @kristenjameson6788
    @kristenjameson6788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    I was a teacher, and became a housekeeper for a vacation rental company! I love that when I leave work, it’s done and that’s that. I feel good at the end of the day that I accomplished something, and cleaning for me is very therapeutic 😄 I get some great alone time too, can listen to music, TH-cam, podcast, whatever. I love the relaxed environment, and all my coworkers are so nice, because we work at the beach ❤️

    • @nancycorrea538
      @nancycorrea538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So cool!😊

    • @tatianapavlova7497
      @tatianapavlova7497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I used to work at a hotel in Virginia Beach when I was a student, also by the ocean. Literally, it was the best time. And now I am a teacher. The work never finishes

    • @nancycorrea538
      @nancycorrea538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@tatianapavlova7497 Definitely go with your gut!! I always thought I wanted to be in technology and make a 6 figure income. And now that I do I want anything but that. I plan on quitting soon and taking some time to evaluate what I feel passionate about!! We literally are the only ones that walk in our shoes.. Screw what anyone else has to day for it.
      I have come to realiE that I am that crayon that doesn't fit in the box lol and thats okay. Makes me more special.

    • @brothertn708
      @brothertn708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I want to be a housekeeper so bad but my family thinks I’m nuts since I have a college degree. I really hope I get the balls to do it one day. I love cleaning, especially for other people... I too find it therapeutic and I love seeing other people’s homes.

    • @GlamGoddes101
      @GlamGoddes101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@brothertn708 i know people who have started small housekeeping businesses, they work for themselves and find their own clients, and set their own rates

  • @zunigar87
    @zunigar87 3 ปีที่แล้ว +309

    I bang my head against the wall every time I have to sit in yet another useless meeting!

    • @bigvalley4987
      @bigvalley4987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      When I worked in HR we use to have at least three meetings a day. A waste of time, we had meetings to plan another meeting. And the main reason for the meetings, were for management to drill us of why the productivity is so low. Clue: if we did not have sooo many meetings we could actually get more work done🤔

    • @viczvapo
      @viczvapo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bigvalley4987 lol

    • @Martina_E
      @Martina_E 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bigvalley4987 I hate useless meetings

    • @SoulfulVeg
      @SoulfulVeg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I have one in 10 minutes. Jesus!

    • @jaredm6931
      @jaredm6931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hear you. Sometimes I'm in 8 meetings a day. It gets old really fast.

  • @sparkle92x03
    @sparkle92x03 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    I finished my degree and got offered a job as a probation and parole officer. Everyone in the office looked miserable and stressed out. This observation made me decline the job offer and now I work part time in a supermarket. I think I saved myself a lot of stress. Self love is first!

    • @gggf4766
      @gggf4766 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      fr now i rethink abt manual labor its fun the job it self its hard but fun and just kinda low paying

    • @CheerfullyCynical829
      @CheerfullyCynical829 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bet you regret working in a supermarket now

  • @kurts3252
    @kurts3252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    This isn’t so bad, huh? Makin’ bucks, gettin’ exercise, workin’ outside

    • @nineteenfortyeight6762
      @nineteenfortyeight6762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Free staplers

    • @PistolSovereign
      @PistolSovereign 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Getting paid to workout

    • @syproductions456
      @syproductions456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      F***in A

    • @franciscoreyes7370
      @franciscoreyes7370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Its all good until your car brakes down and you can't afford to fix it, or you get sick with no insurance...

    • @syproductions456
      @syproductions456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@franciscoreyes7370 she literally said she makes more money doing this than in her corporate job. So for her at least, that isn't a problem.

  • @andreamartineau1197
    @andreamartineau1197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    This is something I struggle with. I know I "should" want to excel in my office job and get promoted, but I see those with more seniority than me spending more and more of their personal time working the higher up the ladder you go, and I don't want that. I want to do a great job and try my hardest but clock out at the end of the day and not think about work until the next work day, and have my priority in life be my family, hobbies, pets, and personal life

    • @benjaminreinsch392
      @benjaminreinsch392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You said it perfectly. I feel you.

    • @kamilareeder1493
      @kamilareeder1493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah I feel this. I worked a really high paying sales amd personal training job and hated it.
      Now I teach children's dance classes 😌 and train on the side and i'ts much nicer.

  • @AlexasArtRoom
    @AlexasArtRoom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I’m a 30yr old female, leaving my professional career and starting welding school next month! I am so excited. I love working with my hands.

    • @chelsea5595
      @chelsea5595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good luck!

    • @dhanishe6235
      @dhanishe6235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good one..i too lost job let me know if u have vacancy

    • @RebelRebelRose
      @RebelRebelRose 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am thinking about doing the same thing

    • @seasaltisland
      @seasaltisland 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Do it girl! I did the same, turns out I'm really good at welding too

    • @callie6146
      @callie6146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m in welding school rn too 💪🏽

  • @Cocktailsandlacenh
    @Cocktailsandlacenh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I worked an office job for 20 years. Now I’m a package handler for a shipping company. I don’t know how to express what a positive, life altering change it has been.

    • @paulb1383
      @paulb1383 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, that sounds awesome!

    • @arleneg6040
      @arleneg6040 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @CheriePrior: sounds PERFECT! NO explanation needed!

  • @outaboutwithleeyamcgeeya2571
    @outaboutwithleeyamcgeeya2571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I’m a custodian and I love it. It’s simple and pure. I’m doing something that’s genuinely helpful to people. I have no stress and really enjoy my life. I’ll never go back to my so called career. My career is enjoying life and the people I love.

    • @TheWarriorLV
      @TheWarriorLV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank u for all u do💕

    • @user-lu6yg3vk9z
      @user-lu6yg3vk9z 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What career you leave to be a janitor?

    • @outaboutwithleeyamcgeeya2571
      @outaboutwithleeyamcgeeya2571 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-lu6yg3vk9z I worked in medical research as an animal tech

    • @user-lu6yg3vk9z
      @user-lu6yg3vk9z 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@outaboutwithleeyamcgeeya2571 ok , medical field crazy itself. I hear Physicians are being replaced with kid-level providers and machines.

    • @outaboutwithleeyamcgeeya2571
      @outaboutwithleeyamcgeeya2571 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-lu6yg3vk9z yes just all around toxic environment. I dont miss it.

  • @monolith94
    @monolith94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    At 37, I recently became a mail man. Right now, my biggest anxiety about it is being judged by women on dates because it’s not a lucrative job.

    • @patrickgono6043
      @patrickgono6043 3 ปีที่แล้ว +156

      You can say you're working for a multi-million government supervised business, facilitating communication and the interchange of goods and consumer products. You spend most of your working hours travelling for business. And of course, you have a company vehicle!

    • @monolith94
      @monolith94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@patrickgono6043 well played sir

    • @barbellsamurai8014
      @barbellsamurai8014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@monolith94 middle class women will not give you the time of day. Single moms with three kids, on welfare, no savings and a ton of credit card debt, that is who you will be dating now lmao

    • @D1AZ
      @D1AZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@barbellsamurai8014 damn you said it best. But many not all woman want the top one percent of men making bank. They usually hang out in the finish line 🏁 but I assume there’s still woman who will give you the time of day. But they do judge, very hard.

    • @pablomuzzobar8940
      @pablomuzzobar8940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@barbellsamurai8014 nah, middle class women will still go for him if he is decent looking. Middle class men are all out there pretending they are rich to get sugar babies so middle class women got nobody to aim for and rich men won't give most the time of day. So middle aged corporate women all are stuck with lower class men lol .

  • @Quilt4Joy
    @Quilt4Joy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    People who work as laborers are nicer than the folks in corporations.

  • @idi.h5460
    @idi.h5460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I left my tech company making over 100K after just 10 months of being there and I was so miserable, the micromanaging, the lies, the pressure brought me into such deep depression I quit and moved across the country and become a staff cleaner, I make decent money, I live simply and I’ve had so much time to get therapy, start planning my business, painting, taking care of my body, eating better, dealing with my anxiety etc and I’m a lot happier, I’m 25 btw and I’m really glad I learned early not to sacrifice my mental and physical health for financial health

  • @bri4550
    @bri4550 3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    I think it's so incredibly mature of you to realize that you are an individual and have needs that are not met by the conventional corporate system. Good for you!! I wish more people would take their education and appreciate it for the learning, growth experience it was and not force themselves to get a job in the field in which they majored. Happiness prevails!!!

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you! I thinks it’s so important to be self aware and not to settle!

    • @nate9198
      @nate9198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's ironic because I want to migrate to another country and they want my work experience to be what I majored in and I didn't do that. Fuck them. I'm fine being a square peg in a round hole.

    • @nathelm8693
      @nathelm8693 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happiness is an illusion. Give up right now, you must be molded into a systemic specimen.

    • @ansumuth5626
      @ansumuth5626 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thought provoking... Ya people should be more aware

  • @brequeen0725
    @brequeen0725 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I've been a dental assistant for 11years. My mind says its what I want to do but my heart begs to differ.. i took a break once and worked a warehouse MARLEY LILLY and i loved it. I walked around listening to my headphones, looking for items to pack for customers. It was like solving puzzles all day. I enjoyed the freedom of working alone, walking, listening to pod cast/music. And leaving by 3pm. Im currently interested in trying a serving postion (never done it) bc Marley Lilly is seasonal.

  • @dudybug
    @dudybug 3 ปีที่แล้ว +440

    “Are there any jobs where you sit outside all day? I don’t think that’s a thing”
    Lifeguards: 👁👄👁

    • @pablomuzzobar8940
      @pablomuzzobar8940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Truck driving is like a big camping trip but it's very isolated, no social life.

    • @alejandropreciado1814
      @alejandropreciado1814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I really get irritated when i see this meme format over and over. i need to stop looking at comments

    • @LISBONKULT
      @LISBONKULT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@alejandropreciado1814 I feel you man, its always the same uncreative format just to get likes

    • @_CL
      @_CL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pablomuzzobar8940 truck driving isn't fun like a camping trip, you don't get to move or exercise and you have no time for yourself, only when you sleep

    • @marilynphan277
      @marilynphan277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      US Forest Service

  • @BillLaBrie
    @BillLaBrie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Work sucks no matter what you do; that’s why they have to pay you to do it. Don’t get attached to luxuries, and find something you can tolerate that pays the bills.

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Hahaha I like your mindset

    • @P8860
      @P8860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Reminds me of that Jerry Seinfeld interview on Howard Stern where he was saying that every job is torture. The key to success is finding a torture you're comfortable with.

  • @KittyClark4433
    @KittyClark4433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Mental work is far more exhausting than physical work. U can recover quickly from physical exertion by resting. Not true with mental work. Like u said it stays with u, it piles up. Kudos to u for realizing this early in life and jumping off the insane train 👍

    • @KasieMusic
      @KasieMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mental work is okay, but corporate is rather a lot of mental bullshit! At least at my work

  • @RedSkyHorizon
    @RedSkyHorizon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    The best laid plans of mice and men... Trained to become a computer programmer. I was good at it. Wanted nothing else. Realised that I'm not a people person. Couldn't work in an office environment. Rather than working in offices I started cleaning them. That was thirty years ago and I'm still a janitor, working for myself. Best decision I ever made. Freedom!

    • @susansemrow5370
      @susansemrow5370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I was a custodian years ago in various positions--nursing home, private homes, cleaned outhouses at a state park. Currently I am finishing my 30th years of teaching in higher education, and many days I think back to my custodial work and wish I were still doing it. I could see an end result; I was physically active; I was working outside at the state park, and I didn't have to grade essays and listen to people whine and be ungrateful. It was really nice to read that you are happy with your business. Thanks for posting; your post lifted my spirits.

    • @P8860
      @P8860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm an ex programmer also. Left 3 years ago to become a stone fabricator. It's amazing how your mental health improves when your not constantly on the computer debugging code. I still code on my free times when I want but will NEVER go back in the tech field. So toxic.

  • @vodkaandlime
    @vodkaandlime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    I started studying law a couple of years ago because I never felt 'good enough' compared to my friends in high flying corporate roles. Halfway through my course I realised that I actually already have an incredibly enviable life. I have a job that I mostly like, where I work with people that I like , and that pays me enough to do the things I like in my free time. Sure, I have to save hard for some things, and I can't afford to be frivolous, but a major key factor is that I have the free time to enjoy in the first place. I work 10am-6pm and leave my work at work. It never eats into my evenings or weekends.
    My friends that I thought were doing better than me routinely work 12 hour days and into the weekends, and carry a lot of stress as a result of that. I think I'd rather stay where I am and save harder instead of work harder.

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I love this. It’s actually so rare to be able to leave your work at work

    • @adrianmcleod3067
      @adrianmcleod3067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Being frugal with less money is better than being frivolous with more money. No matter how wealthy a person may be, frivolous spending leads to debt.

    • @johnaddaquay1114
      @johnaddaquay1114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But what work are you doing tho?

    • @SuperUsername147
      @SuperUsername147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I work in a lab and honestly I need to appreciate it more. Am I happy with my career...I don’t know. I’m stressed out without really knowing why because I work in a low stress position. I get to leave work at work and just focus on home when I’m home. I’ll tell you what though, she made landscaping sound pretty good... I think if I lived somewhere warm year round it would be great.

    • @P8860
      @P8860 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SuperUsername147 I would probably still work in an office if I were able to leave work at home. As a web developer it's impossible. Left 3 years ago and am in a happier place physically and mentally.

  • @laventerilla6139
    @laventerilla6139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I agree! I was an IT engineer, now a pastry chef. Best change ever! Im very glad that u brought uo this topic, there's not enough talk on this! There's nothing wrong with blue collar jobs and I dont understand why an engineer would be "better " than plumber?

    • @giveuponyourdreamsbro
      @giveuponyourdreamsbro ปีที่แล้ว

      The engineer contributes more to society, and is in a very high skill position. This doesn’t make them a better person, but in the sense of actual value they produce they would be greater in that aspect.

  • @danielle3063
    @danielle3063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Left my corporate job this year to become a full time photographer and I love it so much. Outside photographing in beautiful places, connecting with people, photographing a lot of dogs (amazing), creating heirloom artwork, total flexibility over my schedule (I love popping in to have coffee with my grandparents during the week, my Mum and I do thrift shopping and lunch once a week). Best decision ever! I don't view the years I did at university as a waste, it was all part of the journey of getting to where I am.

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Wow this is so inspirational. You’re really living the dream 💛

    • @aysenurai
      @aysenurai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How can we earn money from that?

    • @pawsnotclaws2772
      @pawsnotclaws2772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow that’s awesome! I wish I could do that

    • @Champ0222
      @Champ0222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wanna do this but I think it would be hard to live off of photography

    • @iliveinsideyourhouse3943
      @iliveinsideyourhouse3943 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Serious question, how do you make living off that?

  • @iyanavee2632
    @iyanavee2632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I looove working by myself. I hand out parking tickets on a college campus by myself. No one to talk down to me or unnecessary gossip. I'm relaxed at work.

  • @alvinlim7601
    @alvinlim7601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Happiness is having less in life.. fullfillment in life is not measured on education it is one's conviction and principle that matters..

  • @vincentnnyc
    @vincentnnyc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    I do IT support in nyc making 6 figures. But with the recent work at home for almost a year...I needed to do some exercise. I always enjoy bike riding. So I started doing door dash and ubereat food delivery with my bike as part time while doing my full time job. I found it more enjoying doing food delivery because I get some exercise and ppl always happy to see you with their food. Also you can make as much or little as you want for food delivery. You are in charge of your own schedule. I think if I ever get laid off from my IT job, I will do ubereat/door dash full time

    • @duncanbug
      @duncanbug 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think I’d like doing IT support. Did you get a degree for it or just certificates?

    • @vincentnnyc
      @vincentnnyc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@duncanbug i majored in computer science in college but didn’t enjoy programming. So I went into desktop/help desk/IT support instead. Now I’m doing IT support for a financial company.

    • @kamarae.2444
      @kamarae.2444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This so pure, it makes me so happy 😭😭 tears

    • @olivetree5670
      @olivetree5670 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think about this too esp when my work takes a lot of mental/emotional energy

  • @martianfromspace8292
    @martianfromspace8292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I have a Bachelor's degree in psychology. I quit that boring office life style now i'm an Electrician, the trades are bad ass and better money. I regret going to college wasting all that time and money

    • @user-lu6yg3vk9z
      @user-lu6yg3vk9z 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      College is a scam these days. TH-cam Peter Schiff College.

  • @ColinAdventures
    @ColinAdventures 3 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    I started out as a mechanical engineer, realized I didn’t enjoy anything about the work environment. I couldn’t even make it past an interview at large corporations because I found the people and culture so repulsive. Ended up going back to school, finishing my piano performance degree, and taught piano for about five years. I always missed having physical activity and being outside though so when my teaching business died at the beginning of the pandemic I took a job as a delivery driver while I got my skoolie going. Now I’m living in a skoolie, traveling, making TH-cam videos while playing piano and occasionally designing boats. I guess I just like doing a bit of everything and working at my own speed for myself.

    • @25maxman
      @25maxman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How do you jump from job to job so seamlessly? That sounds great

    • @P8860
      @P8860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I guess mechanical engineer and computer programmers both have the same repulsive and toxic culture as you mentioned. Went through the same thing but only as a developer. Worked as a Stone Fabricator for a couple of years until I got injured on the job. Now medically retired and living off my military compensation. Life is good when you're not working in an office.

  • @Calcifurr
    @Calcifurr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I’m 25, currently a teaching associate at a college level, and almost done with my masters degree in biology. I too don’t know what I’m going to do once I’m done. People around me seem like they know it all, where they’re going. I don’t know what I want, but I love gardening & baking. I sometimes just want to start a side business and bake goodies or a business on gardening. Or I hope to find success in an industry in where I’m happy and have purpose. Just not sure where I want to go.

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It’s hard to feel that conflict of that you love vs what you feel like your supposed to do. I hope that at least you can find a way to prioritize baking and gardening in your life 🧡

    • @susansemrow5370
      @susansemrow5370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I will have taught in higher education for 30 years at the end of the current semester. Trust me, those teachers who look as if they have it all together and praise academia mindlessly are just as flawed as others. The others around you may have plans, but that guarantees nothing. I enjoy being in the classroom, but there are MANY aspects to teaching that I don't enjoy or even agree with. I agree with Embers and Ash that you need to definitely strive to make baking and gardening a priority in your life. No matter what you do with your degrees, make your soul a priority. Never disregard the whispers of your soul, NEVER!

    • @jessedelgado3545
      @jessedelgado3545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Alien West I just got into my masters in accounting and plan to eventually sit for the CPA, I currently work in industry and feel loss in life, im 25 and dont really know wherr I'll end up but i keep telling myself that after the cpa, if I truly hate my job, ill walk away but I want to at least reach cpa first

    • @Spacemuffin147
      @Spacemuffin147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mix biology with gardening. Seek God's majesty through nature. Seek sacred geometry.

  • @kerim.peardon5551
    @kerim.peardon5551 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I was just listening to a preacher who said something very applicable here: "Our culture doesn't teach young people how to identify their gift [i.e. the talent that God gave them to make a difference in the world and to become valuable and irreplaceable]. It teaches them how to get a job. And a job doesn't make you valuable. It keeps you poor."
    There's also a book that I haven't read, but which I have seen a summary of called "Bullsh*t Jobs." It basically says if you're not making something for someone else--including all the steps involved in that process, such as shipping and retail sales--or providing a service that they need but can't or don't want do themselves--e.g. plumbing, building, delivery driver, food prep, etc.--then you have a bullsh*t job. Just about every government job is a BS job because the government provides no products and doesn't provide services that others can't provide better. Most of the time, government jobs are related to taking money from one set of people, skimming off most of the money to feed the government beast, then passing what's left on to someone else. Most legal jobs are BS jobs because they're about complying with government regulations (this also applies to a lot of admin jobs at schools and universities, as an example). If the government disappeared tomorrow, those jobs would as well because they do not provide a service or product to customers; they only provide papers to the government (which then takes money from people so it can pay other people to shuffle the papers).
    Long story short, his argument is that the reason why so many people are unhappy with their jobs--and this became very obvious during Covid lockdowns--is that they have BS jobs and deep down inside, on some instinctual level, they know it and it makes them feel dissatisfied. Like I said, a lot of people realized during Covid that they were working "non-essential jobs." That means your job is not necessary to keep the country going--at least in the short-term. But I think more than a small number of people realized their job isn't really essential long-term, either. And if your job isn't essential to anyone, then what the hell are you doing with your day? You might as well be in a Puritan prison walking on a treadmill all day--busy, but producing nothing.
    This is my last week in my legal job. I'm taking a year sabbatical to take care of family obligations and myself. I am working on growing a side hustle into a business and my plan is not to go back to legal work when the year is up. I have to admit, I've been seeing "help wanted" signs at the grocery store and at local factories and warehouses for a while and I have found myself thinking, "Hmm, that sounds better than my desk job." Some of those factory jobs pay almost what I'm making now and I'm sure they have a lot more room for advancement. I'd rather have more time in my life to pursue what's meaningful to me, but it's nice to know I have options. Non-BS options.

  • @legallydiy-trademarks
    @legallydiy-trademarks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I love this! I agree we’ve been lied to with the narrative that we should strive to work for a big corporations and that it will bring us money and happiness. 2 years in and I’ve found it doesn’t

    • @nathelm8693
      @nathelm8693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The system always needs more organic fuel.

    • @nancycorrea538
      @nancycorrea538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same 3 years in! 6 figures and miserable... 😓
      My health feels like its tanking from all the stress...
      But plan on making a move soon. And taking time off and rethinking my true passions. 💕

    • @legallydiy-trademarks
      @legallydiy-trademarks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nancycorrea538 I’m doing the same thing. I’m rooting for you to bet on yourself too!

    • @nancycorrea538
      @nancycorrea538 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@legallydiy-trademarks Thank you!💕💕💕

  • @badpopmusic
    @badpopmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I was an office drone for years. I tried to fix it by going into the non profit sector, at least I was Doing Something. Now I work in dog grooming. It's amazing. I'm happy. I feel good. I spend my day with people I love being around. And I make WAY better money. I don't worry about work. I work less days. Work makes me happy now, and I'm not on a rapid road to sedentary middle age, isolated from everyone for less than I'm worth.

    • @bethanytalbot2445
      @bethanytalbot2445 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This sounds like me, but I'm still in the first phase moving to the second!

  • @dianafrances6880
    @dianafrances6880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As you said, corporate jobs are not for everybody. I am self-employed, cleaning private homes. The families I cleanfor are genuinely happy to see me and that makes me feel appreciated. I tell my friends and family if it were not for my job I would never get my 10,000 steps in a day. I love the sore, glowing, tired feeling of my muscles at the end of every day. And nothing beats working for yourself 😁

    • @arleneg6040
      @arleneg6040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sounds like my kinda job. Perfect combination of everything including 10000 steps per day!

  • @curatingcuriosity
    @curatingcuriosity 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    This is me right now!! I did school, now am in consulting, and am contemplating leaving to pursue firefighting. Thank you for this video!

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That’s so cool!! Good luck!

    • @firebellymel5557
      @firebellymel5557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Do it

    • @flyingcoconut2807
      @flyingcoconut2807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good luck! I just quit my well-paid job as well simply because I did not enjoy it at all even though I did it well. Life is too short.

    • @MrSivram28
      @MrSivram28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I worked as an emt for 8 years. I've been working as an IT consultant for 3 years now. The money is good, but it's stressful and dehumanizing. I would rather go back to EMT work. More peace of mind

    • @nathelm8693
      @nathelm8693 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same.. But, that's only because I love starting them.

  • @jerome5009
    @jerome5009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I’ve been working as an engineer since university for the past 10 years earning a six figure salary. I realise that the more experience that I have, the more demanding my work becomes and more responsibilities under my belt. So I decided to do a side hustle business and work for myself which I truly enjoy. If it goes well even for lesser money that I earn right now, I will eventually leave my work. Nothing beats working for yourself.

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love this!

    • @garyadamos
      @garyadamos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fr I just want low stress entry level work

    • @angeliair2967
      @angeliair2967 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If I may ask what type of engineer we're you working as?

    • @debcomly2481
      @debcomly2481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can do it!!! My Side hustle is a full time Business now for the last 7 years and I love it :-)

    • @jerome5009
      @jerome5009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@angeliair2967 I’m a mechanical design and project engineer.

  • @spoilthasoil
    @spoilthasoil 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I really enjoyed watching this video. It's so great hearing from others that have the same experience. I used to think that I was crazy for feeling the way I did about my work. I worked blue collar jobs all of 20's while I was in college. I did a masters degree and I thought that I would finally feel happy and successful after I got the fancy office job and I hated it. The silence in the office and the strict routines and lack of social relationships made me feel like I was being sucked lifeless, just super soul crushing. I'm back out in the field exploring my options but much happier being outdoors.

  • @isbrahona2045
    @isbrahona2045 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I had a leadership position at a company with good pay. Very stressful and I worked 11-12 hours per day. I gave it all up and started my landscaping company I make more in just 6 hours per day. I now just work to live.

    • @haarew8336
      @haarew8336 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amazing, would love to know more, what do you do exactly in landscaping?

  • @annaviehbeck72
    @annaviehbeck72 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I did a similar thing, from a young fired up stressed translator/teacher to a chill part-time Costco manual labor worker:) Feels so good having control over my time and priorities.

    • @ialo5884
      @ialo5884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is the comment that I needed to see! Teacher here and thinking of working at a plant nursery.

  • @TiffanyWestNyc
    @TiffanyWestNyc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I know exactly how you feel. Quit my corporate job for a waitressing job I love it. although humans could be a little mean but it’s so much better than sitting in an office! I love humans I don’t need to request vacation days! I make more money than my corporate job anyways!

    • @shomshomni2314
      @shomshomni2314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I hated waitressing almost as much as I hated the office 😭

    • @TiffanyWestNyc
      @TiffanyWestNyc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@shomshomni2314 everyone is different remember we can’t have it all lol

  • @pawsnotclaws2772
    @pawsnotclaws2772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Girl I’m just like you! I’m a receptionist and hate it. I never wanted an office job. Currently trying to find something else. I love working my hands.

  • @melisamoen967
    @melisamoen967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    It is such a coincidence that this video popped up in my video feed! I work for the culture sector of a Municipality in British Columbia and my job was to permit filming companies and organize city events. With Covid, our department was pretty much dismantled and although many were laid off, I was redeployed to the city's Parks department. I will say that at first I was nervous and a little disappointed since it felt like a demotion. However I am so grateful that life gave me this unexpected opportunity! I spent one year cutting blackberry, pulling ivy, planting, spending entire days blowing leaves of beautiful trails, picking up garbage by the beaches and I absolutely loved it.
    It was a little tough getting used to the cold and all the rain, it is a mental game sometimes, but even that seems like such an accomplishment. I had never done anything like this and as an "office girl" it felt very empowering to roll up my sleeves and do work that I never in a million years thought I would do. Everything that you describe regarding comradery, connection with your team, doing physical work that feels good, being outside in beautiful forests, is exactly what I experienced. Last month they moved me back into working three days in the office and two days in parks and I am sincerely missing being outside.
    Never in a million years did I think that I would have thoughts that working in this field would perhaps bring my life more fulfilment. I have always loved being outside, active, connecting with people, nature and it does make me question why growing up I never saw this kin of job as an option.
    Love the video!

    • @MisterMister5893
      @MisterMister5893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very serendipitous.

    • @chrisf1600
      @chrisf1600 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I really like this comment, you articulate it all so well. Covid has brought lots of unhappiness but it's had some surprising positive effects too !

  • @CaptApril123
    @CaptApril123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Worked at a big bank in a data centre for nearly 20 years and that was fine but then the 'corporate' side started moving in..One of the big things I noticed was much of the 'stress' was manufactured to generate a 'sense of urgency'. I just couldn't take that seriously. Yes there are stressful situations but when pretending things are stressful when they're not to the point of believing it leads to a very toxic work culture.

    • @AdrianLopez-sc6zw
      @AdrianLopez-sc6zw 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol i just saw an att "documentary about telephone system migration" it happens in 2 minutes... But one of the comments said "I worked in a similar environments and protect got pushed uno, two month later, it happened four times... What is the urgency ?? Just built a manufactured ilusion.,

  • @sgtbender1335
    @sgtbender1335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    You'll probably live a lot longer because of your decision. You'll definitely have a better quality of life because of your decision. It takes courage to do what you did. Congrats!

  • @odieanna
    @odieanna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I thought I was alone! I graduated in marketing and have been miserable during my internships, so I was really scared to continue on this path because I couldn't stand the thought of it being like that for the rest of my life! So now I am actually studying to get a job in a museum and work with beautiful objects everyday! Most people around me think I lack ambition and I have a bigger potential, but I feel it is the other way around... Just like you, I know what will make me happy and I am working towards it instead of just accepting to be unhappy!

  • @samanthacook9648
    @samanthacook9648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    "We are all dealt a different hand and it takes more steps for people and fewer steps for some to get to where they want." Thank you.

  • @ioanaploscaru3172
    @ioanaploscaru3172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    At first, i only intended to take a year off from my teaching job and the school was keeping my job until i was supposed to come back. But after only 3 months of working in food production, i realised that i felt so free, i was clear headed and not stressed after so many years, i had so much free time, that i let the head teacher know that he doesn't have to keep the job for me anymore. I didn't have second thoughts or regrets for a single second. 3 years later and i'm so happy with my choice. I also chose the career path because that was "the way" and because my Mom pushed me into going to Uni and because i was always the "nerd" in my class, all my teachers expected me to pick an "intellectual" career. It turns out that i never really wanted to have a career, even if i was the nerd. I don't want a career now, i don't dream of it, i just want to have a job to pay my bills and live my life.

  • @a75826
    @a75826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I was a social worker for 6 years, and I felt the same. The stress was always weighing down on me
    Some unforeseen events led me to take a job in labor and leave my long term position. It was the most carefree 2 years of my adult life. Then I had a spine injury :( I now cannot do labor and I am back in social work and back to stressing. I want to get back into my artwork and somehow make that career. But I dont know if it is good enough to make a living off. Pray for me y'all

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      You can sell your art online. Millions of people would get to see your art and purchase it.

    • @bethsharma4766
      @bethsharma4766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Or maybe art therapy?

    • @joaquin67
      @joaquin67 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Try to figure out some business skills. Many artists don’t seem to make it because they get too romanticized with art in general. Perhaps looks into a book called The Spark and The Grind. Very interesting author

    • @gabbym333
      @gabbym333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You could be an art teacher

    • @faceofghana8459
      @faceofghana8459 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your health will be fine. Stay on top of therapy and your dr recommendation. To answer your question: I worked in business for few years ranging from accounting to administrative roles at top companies. Suddenly I realized I wasn't happy and that I was really interested in music. Two years later, I'm a recording studio manager, and I have a producer at an independent label. Follow your dreams the results so amazing that it will be scary how far you go!

  • @gingerztube
    @gingerztube 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I have a Master's degree & taught at a university for many years, it slowly became more & more stressful as I was expected to do more for the same pay. I was also bullied by my boss & had no rights apparently.
    After 20 years, I decided to quit teaching and now I clean houses! I don't make as much money, but I am my own boss. I love the people I work for and they treat me well & care about me. And I get payed to exercise, it's great! When people give me that funny look why I'm not doing work that uses my education, I tell them I'm an educated house cleaner :-)

  • @Ladida386
    @Ladida386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm a chemical engineer. I was constantly between jobs. 2 years here contract ended, 1 year there - I left, 2 years there, 1.5 year there. I learned a lot. I had really toxic people around me, job gave me a lot of stress. I found out that people who like to work in a team are +50 yo, most often than not are there to manipulate or to hurt young people.
    Now I opened my own company and found a supporting network. I work more than I used to, but I know I work for myself. At the same time I go out and stop working whenever I want. If I was working late last day, I won't push myself today.
    I am a hard worker just not on demand.

    • @eltonwild5648
      @eltonwild5648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agree. Many times older folks at work pretend to be your friend but aren't. Manipulation

    • @jonasbaltrunas1636
      @jonasbaltrunas1636 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm a chemical engineer and I don't like my job also. What business did you open?

  • @laurend.258
    @laurend.258 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    my sister's boyfriend left his Wall Street finance job to become a firefighter and he is the happiest he's ever been.

  • @jessmercedes2669
    @jessmercedes2669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    i’m so happy you’re being honest about this experience because not enough people talk about it.. especially women. i’ve tried it all and finally becoming a trucker with my husband is looking to be the answer to our dreams and wishes. we are about to get our licenses. i can’t wait to begin. god bless all of you who are struggling right now with the soullessness of corporate jobs- you will find your way- just know it’s possible and never give up. you deserve a peaceful and fulfilling life even if others don’t understand

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so happy for you!!!!

  • @siberianmoonlight
    @siberianmoonlight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I’ve felt this way since day one because I have adhd, it’s nice to know others are experiencing this too.

    • @angelnumber2002
      @angelnumber2002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yup I have to have set tasks and be on my feet I felt so scared trying to figure out what path I want to take like um i wanna take them all

  • @DanwilsonArchive
    @DanwilsonArchive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Having a simple physically active job that has set hours also allow you to proper sync your Circadian rhythm which ultimately improves almost every aspect of your life.

  • @Ja50nkAt
    @Ja50nkAt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Feel exactly the same, long hours and a stressful work environment will erode the soul over time.

    • @nathelm8693
      @nathelm8693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Listen to your soul.

  • @JonathanS89
    @JonathanS89 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I feel like you needed that corporate job in order to arrive at the point in your life where you know where you are happier. Otherwise if it had happened the other way around you have always wanted to get into a corporate job but unable to because of a lack of the right degree etc.

    • @alex-vs4hh
      @alex-vs4hh ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn this hits hard. Just started a corporate job I don't enjoy at all but since it's only for 6 months I'll try to stick it out. But this point of view is really enlightining. Thank u.

  • @bikinibaetay6803
    @bikinibaetay6803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Went to law school and passed the bar! Now I work as an admin assistant for a physician and I love it so much more haha 😂 🥰

    • @arleneg6040
      @arleneg6040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pretty, smart, and happy!! You've got it made!

    • @veronikaw2627
      @veronikaw2627 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's cool and very encouraging. Thanks for sharing!

  • @stephanie8336
    @stephanie8336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    A few years back I got my certification to be a yoga instructor and never did anything with it. I’ve been in corporate Sales for 17 years (I started at 19 in college). After I took a lay off during Covid I needed to find an additional income. So I started to teach yoga classes virtually. I love it so much that I didn’t go back after I was called back and found a way less stressful weekly job at a different company to help substitute my income as well as teaching classes. Just get a plan and do it! It’s so worth it. I also am making way more money and can enjoy my work.

  • @leslietayloriii8405
    @leslietayloriii8405 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I have been in the refrigeration field for 35 years. 25 years ago I told my wife that the trades would be the new white collar. My last year in the field was 6 figures. I retired for 6 mo and returned to the work force bat $35 an hour rebuilding ice machines.

  • @nik1128
    @nik1128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I have had every job from the military to high government positions. Hated every second of it. They worked me to death. I now work retail part time and I am stress free lol. I think sometimes we put entirely too much emphasis on work.

    • @P8860
      @P8860 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What branch of service and how many years?

  • @dwittlief
    @dwittlief 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Technology is slowly crushing everyone's souls. I loved my career in the beginning but the work has changed and it's morphed from mechanical work into coding, IT work and a phony statistics focused office environment which I no longer enjoy. Every Sunday is just dreadful thinking about Monday. There's no room or tolerance for mistakes, creativity and you can never be wrong. IT work and scripting automated tasks is mind crushingly boring and that is the direction everything is heading in. (Automation, AI) Been thinking for a couple years now about what else I could do to escape and feel productive and fulfilled again.

  • @Lazarusrizing
    @Lazarusrizing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I really appreciate that you made this video. You don't hear enough of these type of stories or see them portrayed in movies or talked about on TV. It's encouraging in many ways. Thanks for sharing.

  • @sandragustafsson3125
    @sandragustafsson3125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Exactly how I feel! I used to work as a receptionist and in retail. This year I realized that I don't want a job where I go to the exact same place everyday, where I just sit on my butt and stare at a screen day in and day out. I want a job where I actually DO something, work with my hands. So now I'm studying to become an electrician. It's super fun and I can't wait to get out there and start actual work!
    I just have to learn how to deal with judgement from others. Some see this as a failure, to go from a university educated woman to an electrician. But to me it's not a failure. It's a big step forward. Instead of settling for a job I hate, I actually take action to find what I feel good doing. And also, the pay is good and this gives me real skills I can use outside of work too.

    • @duncanbug
      @duncanbug 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’ll do great :)

  • @lordvader6378
    @lordvader6378 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    It's quite a simple decision really. It's do you want high wages in a corporate job that could earn you 100k a year but you'll have a boring life in the week. Or do you choose a lower paid job like bricklayer, nurse, military, retail etc and are up and about all day meeting new people that aren't as toxic in the corporate world.

    • @paulherring587
      @paulherring587 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can still make a 100k a year as a bricklayer

    • @lordvader6378
      @lordvader6378 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@paulherring587 yes but that's an extreme case maybe if you own you're own bricklaying company

    • @save.withjess
      @save.withjess ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not sure about other countries, but nurses and tradies in Australia can earn 6 figures or more than some office jobs

    • @gggf4766
      @gggf4766 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@save.withjess yeah people just keep saying that these jobs sucks low paying bla bla bla but iv seen people earning 50k-100k per year just doing these jobs

  • @XYZ-mn2zu
    @XYZ-mn2zu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is such a great video to see. I left an office job that paid really good but killed me with boredom. I'm now working part time with kids and taking cleaning jobs. Every time I leave a cleaning job I feel the best I ever have. I'd love to do work like you mention doing in this video. And I love the different jobs shared by all the viewers. I needed this, thank you.

  • @CelineandMerlin
    @CelineandMerlin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    The only stress in my life is not having enough money its not even about following my passions.

    • @gabbym333
      @gabbym333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It's definitely a privilege to be able to change your job whenever you want. Some people have limited choices when it comes to their work.

    • @chulo6561
      @chulo6561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That is the trade off. If you don't have a stressful job many times the stress will come when you can't pay your bills. People who had money before they left these careers had accumulated wealth I would assume.

    • @trompeta79
      @trompeta79 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm happy for all the people who "quit their high level job to pursue happiness" but I also feel salty about it because they will always have the resume and financial advantage of starting at the top.

    • @CeritaFandaVancouver
      @CeritaFandaVancouver 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gabbym333, it can be another struggle but having overwhelming stress and pressures is insane. Dilemma eh

    • @CeritaFandaVancouver
      @CeritaFandaVancouver 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chulo6561, yes it's the trade off. Without accumulated wealth is fine, just have a little back up while steering to a different direction. Strategic plan and hope it works.

  • @DaniNahmanPedras
    @DaniNahmanPedras ปีที่แล้ว +15

    this is brilliant. I am in a transition phase. I quit my 20yrs corporate job in Government Office as a Senior Finance Analyst. Was exciting at the initial years of my career but last 6 to 7 yrs I was less and less excited and finally boom and crashed out of it. Now I am so relieved. My health has improved, stress eliminated, seriously high improvement on my self growth physically and mentally. I was getting stress and depression and pressure issues working under management who is not satisfied ever, inside a mental hush-hush cubicle filled with people who talk and pretend polished. Yes, I have my Masters and Bachelors and if possible wanna study something more in the area of my interest. I have been in Top corporate jobs right from the age of 18yrs (yes 18) until I hung my boots off that rat race. I am now looking for something more in the area of my interest just as the video explains. Thank you for this video once again. God bless.

  • @sammitchell2338
    @sammitchell2338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    My last day at my corporate job is this Friday! Feeling very grateful I’m able to switch to freelance work and get some of my time back. Great vid!

    • @arleneg6040
      @arleneg6040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Best of luck. Success to you!

    • @shivambijoria
      @shivambijoria 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      what exactly was your job?

    • @sammitchell2338
      @sammitchell2338 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shivambijoria i worked in clinical marketing for a big medical system in Pennsylvania

  • @darthwyvvern
    @darthwyvvern 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    After getting out of the military, I worked whatever job I could. Most of the jobs I took were call center jobs. And it killed my soul. I hated the customers, the pay was terrible, sitting in a cubicle made me wanna shoot kittens, and I fucking love cats. So I decided after leaving my last call center job to switch to manual labor jobs. Currently I am a Materials Tester for construction, and it's a pretty sweet gig. The pay is middling but the job itself is pretty cool. You learn about how construction works. I'm glad you're happier.

  • @ZUUL117
    @ZUUL117 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I was a CPT in the Army and I was HAPPY. Best mix of blue and white collar. I had to leave and then I went to Amazon Corporate. I was getting less and less excited about the gig. I have a good boss and colleagues, but I wasn't feeling fulfilled. I interacted with Owner-Operator Truck Drivers in my role and though they were working long hours and making less, they were HAPPY! Thankfully my job helped me get a CDL. As soon as I pay my debts off, I 👏 AM 👏 QUITTING 👏
    Going to be a Truck Driver! 🚚

  • @giulia5636
    @giulia5636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I hope this video blows up. This resonated so much with me. You're very brave and inspiring 💙
    honestly, whatever makes YOU happy is the best. Life is too short to care about anything else.

  • @becca377
    @becca377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Congratulations on the move towards a happier future. This is such a great video and it’s so nice to see someone thinking outside the box, and following what makes them happy.

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for the support!!

  • @jenniferthompson5146
    @jenniferthompson5146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don’t fit into the average career box either. I was fired from my first salaried job in my field of study after 8 months. It was high pressured and overall a toxic workplace, and I wasn’t good at the job.
    People also force themselves into careers out of ego (having an interesting, or prestigious job).
    Now I am working towards building my dream job as an entrepreneur, using the sewing skills I have practiced over the last 20+ years.

  • @re8746
    @re8746 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I have been outside sales since 2000. I am 53 and I have decided to make a career change into something less stressful. I know it will pay less, but wife and i are debt free. And I am tired of sales quotas, metrics and always on edge. The corporate life is for your recent college grads and those ages 28-50. 25+ years of outside sales wears on you.

  • @EDS33
    @EDS33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    “If you are just sitting there in a cubicle watching this on your lunch break and you are feeling like you don’t want to be there” - personally attacked 😳😂

  • @kirisaki5584
    @kirisaki5584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Much respect for being this self-aware and chasing your preferred lifestyle in spite of prejudice and social pressures.

  • @nataliakitmusic
    @nataliakitmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video popped up in my recommendations and i'm crying my eyes out because you were able to word the thing that had been stuck in my head for ages. I just couldn't phrase what was wrong with how i feel about my corporate job. I am so thankful I found this video, it definitely did something for me. Something has to change, i just need to find the courage to do it. Thank you!!

  • @jessicarestrepo1588
    @jessicarestrepo1588 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for mapping this out so beautifully! About how we were always taught that we need to follow a certain "equation" to be happy and if we fall off it, it's frown up! I agree with you 100% in this video! Currently, I'm on the same boat as you to see which path works best for me because the one I thought wasn't exactly it so thank you!