its really bad that the adults of this fandom are also helping in force a vile cycle of adults being creepy attracting freaky minors creating creepy adults in some cases repeating the process, way to many processes watering down the fandoms likability.
I used to be like that but that's just teens being teens lmfao but first joining I never saw it all about nsfw I just saw it as a wholesome community ❤
My opinion on this is its ok to talk to them and even be freinds as long as you are not doing anything bad, like dont be creepy and there is no problem
Having to constantly tip toe around people to avoid minors and minors in disguise is mad annoying. And some of them are actively tryna cause trouble, like a month ago a guy in a former server of mine got gaslit into a relationship with and feed a bunch of fake info from a 15 year old saying 15 and 19 year olds can date and since the guy was from some different country he believed him. But once the guy wanted to stop the kid doxxed him and labeled him a pedo. Like the guy should've know better but still thats just messed up.
That's why my motto when replying to the community in DMs is, You do not RP. or talk sexual in dms, just in case.>w> And ESPECIALLY you do not speak in a sexual way towards the person you speak to.
Simple rule, age in bio or no DM. What if they lie? You're not at fault then, they lied about their age to trick you. Just stop DMing them if you find out they're lying
I should note I have no ill will towards you. You're merely one of many. That being said this stuff is worse than enraging. It hurts! In this video you don't talk to the ailing youth. You do not advise them, interface.with them on a human level. You talk *about* them. Like they're a creeping threat, some shadowy group of villains. For an unreasonable portion of the fandom minors are a political issue and not human beings. And this quite frankly sucks! I love the fandom as as a friend group and as an art form which I participate in. But this is soured by this nonsense. I agree hiding your age in the pursuit of uncouth gratification is a most repugnant act, but I can understand why someone might not want to tell everyone they're under 18 if doing so means rank discrimination! Pah. Well, sorry for bothering you. That's about what I had to say. C'ya bestie :3
You missed the entire point of the video. The problem is that literally anyone could be a minor hiding their age. To 100% avoid interacting with minors realistically means avoiding talking to anyone, which defeats the point of a fandom in the first place.
its really bad that the adults of this fandom are also helping in force a vile cycle of adults being creepy attracting freaky minors creating creepy adults in some cases repeating the process, way to many processes watering down the fandoms likability.
I used to be like that but that's just teens being teens lmfao but first joining I never saw it all about nsfw I just saw it as a wholesome community ❤
My opinion on this is its ok to talk to them and even be freinds as long as you are not doing anything bad, like dont be creepy and there is no problem
Having to constantly tip toe around people to avoid minors and minors in disguise is mad annoying. And some of them are actively tryna cause trouble, like a month ago a guy in a former server of mine got gaslit into a relationship with and feed a bunch of fake info from a 15 year old saying 15 and 19 year olds can date and since the guy was from some different country he believed him. But once the guy wanted to stop the kid doxxed him and labeled him a pedo. Like the guy should've know better but still thats just messed up.
Well said.
So, like, the internet as a whole
That's why my motto when replying to the community in DMs is,
You do not RP. or talk sexual in dms, just in case.>w>
And ESPECIALLY you do not speak in a sexual way towards the person you speak to.
That's accurate
That is true for me on facebook. Ask for my age, but cannot handle disclose theirs to me in private messenger.
Simple rule, age in bio or no DM. What if they lie? You're not at fault then, they lied about their age to trick you. Just stop DMing them if you find out they're lying
I would talk to anyone in the fandom the same way
We're just a bunch of fucking animals
But we're afraid of the outcome (the outcome)
Don't cry to me because the fiction that we're living in
Calling out my goat bad dragon are we?
Not minors!!!
I should note I have no ill will towards you. You're merely one of many.
That being said this stuff is worse than enraging. It hurts!
In this video you don't talk to the ailing youth. You do not advise them, interface.with them on a human level. You talk *about* them. Like they're a creeping threat, some shadowy group of villains.
For an unreasonable portion of the fandom minors are a political issue and not human beings. And this quite frankly sucks! I love the fandom as as a friend group and as an art form which I participate in. But this is soured by this nonsense.
I agree hiding your age in the pursuit of uncouth gratification is a most repugnant act, but I can understand why someone might not want to tell everyone they're under 18 if doing so means rank discrimination!
Pah. Well, sorry for bothering you. That's about what I had to say. C'ya bestie :3
This is... Wowie. I can absolutely agree with this. And yet...? I'm 13. Wow.
Then just don't interact with the minors
You missed the entire point of the video. The problem is that literally anyone could be a minor hiding their age. To 100% avoid interacting with minors realistically means avoiding talking to anyone, which defeats the point of a fandom in the first place.
Hey, i'm Johny and i'm 19 years old, can you talk to me?
Now, how can you tell if i'm telling the truth?