"Rishton se itbar uth jana" hits me hard, my father invested alot of love and time in his nephews and nieces but on his death, only one of his nephews came to console me, all others were completely unbothered and even after 10 years i still can't forget their behavior. We shouldn't neglect ourselves while investing our time and love in the relationships.
Your podcasts are very thoughtful and knowledgeable thinking about how toxic our southasian culture is that we go onoard for people and they dont value that we just do it to seek validation but in return our mental health is detoriated but in some rare cases it is fruitful too But I wanna conclude by saying that these coversations literally talk about more sensitive and important topics in a very beautiful and respectful way So hats off to u guys✨
Yes, you people are right. It depends on the people you are living with, i live in a joint family but its so toxic. And everyone is in each others business. We had covid and none of our extended family were there to support us. But when there is something that they want, they expect us to be there for them. They know what there rights are but ignore others rights. And in todays time people fail to notice or take hint when other person is setting boundaries.
25:38 thats so true pakistani women need to decide what they want and take step.Accepting unpleasent situations and doing nothing for it ,is wrong.Having said that ,its not an easy thing to deal, in majority of pak.Families dont validate such concepts and many people dont even have choice.But another issue is that people don't even know their rights and obviously responsibilities as it is not taught in schools.But it is more of a cultural problem which i guess new generation is understanding and will brougt change slowly slowly.
resonating with dure sameen like 100% all the way !!! but i want to mention here, that sometimes its your direct family members like mother father siblings who do not look for your happiness instead looking out for their own benefits as well , and sometimes it is the extended families members like khala etc, who really support
"Rishton se itbar uth jana" hits me hard, my father invested alot of love and time in his nephews and nieces but on his death, only one of his nephews came to console me, all others were completely unbothered and even after 10 years i still can't forget their behavior. We shouldn't neglect ourselves while investing our time and love in the relationships.
So sorry that happened to you 💕
so good to see finally someone from Pak is talking about these things.Enjoying your podcasts so much.😊🌸
Thanks!
Your podcasts are very thoughtful and knowledgeable thinking about how toxic our southasian culture is that we go onoard for people and they dont value that we just do it to seek validation but in return our mental health is detoriated but in some rare cases it is fruitful too But I wanna conclude by saying that these coversations literally talk about more sensitive and important topics in a very beautiful and respectful way So hats off to u guys✨
Yes, you people are right. It depends on the people you are living with, i live in a joint family but its so toxic. And everyone is in each others business. We had covid and none of our extended family were there to support us. But when there is something that they want, they expect us to be there for them. They know what there rights are but ignore others rights. And in todays time people fail to notice or take hint when other person is setting boundaries.
That’s unfortunately so common and so hard to live with!
Plz don't interrupt when someone is talking. It breaks the flow of important conversation
I have set boundaries with my very toxic sisters, life is much more peaceful now
Good for you 💕
What a refreshing podcast.. bravo girls!
Thank you 💕
Marianna is the best! I liked her perspectives
25:38 thats so true pakistani women need to decide what they want and take step.Accepting unpleasent situations and doing nothing for it ,is wrong.Having said that ,its not an easy thing to deal, in majority of pak.Families dont validate such concepts and many people dont even have choice.But another issue is that people don't even know their rights and obviously responsibilities as it is not taught in schools.But it is more of a cultural problem which i guess new generation is understanding and will brougt change slowly slowly.
You are so right!
Very nice topic ❤ please talk about how to avoid toxic people, thanks
Love love love your podcast ❤🙌🙌👏👏
Thanks 💕💕
Love this podcast ❤
Thank you 💕
Please include video chapters in your podcasts. All TH-camrs include it. That makes it easy to watch
That’s a good suggestion! Thanks.
resonating with dure sameen like 100% all the way !!! but i want to mention here, that sometimes its your direct family members like mother father siblings who do not look for your happiness instead looking out for their own benefits as well , and sometimes it is the extended families members like khala etc, who really support
Love love your podcasts ❤
Very valid and neutral views👌
the best podast, keep 'em coing
Thank you so much!!
You are lucky Laila mjeh tu father aur sisters ache nh milen jbke meh kb bemar prhi 5 saalbut khair ALLAH ne boht sth diya❤
Please make it atleast 1hr long .. itni jldi khaatam ho jati hay😢
Awww okay noted
Totally agreed with durre sameen, yahe name hai i guess🙂
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Wow good job
I like Laila the most and Dure..
I want to be durre😂 want to say a direct Noooo😂❤
Hahaha
Need to talk in little soft way. Topic is important,discussion is good but way of talking needs improvement.
These girls are so loud esp. Summiya.
Yaar girls dont shout in the mic atleast 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️