What To Do When Meeting His Family
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It's coming up to holiday season, and if you're in a new relationship, it's likely you're going to be meeting your partner's family.
There's no getting away from it... this can be a terrifying time for anyone.
I don't want you to feel like you're going in on your own without support here, and so in this week's video I've put together 10 clear action steps that you can follow to relax and leave a lasting impression that will cause your guy to think, "I knew I made the right decision".
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"compliment people nothing can go wrong"
"that skirt is so fetch"
+vidycz15 "OMG that is the ugliest effing skirt i've ever seen"
"Everyone should just STAB CEASER!!!"
Hahahahahahahaha
vidycz15 I love this so much😂 and the funny thing is most guys probably don’t understand it
vidycz15 hahahahaha love it!!!
Now that I've realized how much you can do wrong, I NEVER want to meet the parents haha. Seems so damn stressful!
Same .-. I have to next Wednesday and don't want to .
What do you mean "I have to"?
If you are not feeling comfortable doing something, don't rush into it.
Maybe you aren't ready to meet the parents as yet...
I do wish you good luck on that day
Be afraid, be very afraid.
How did it go?
I have to meet them tomorrow night for dinner :/ helpp
I like that part about respecting the protector.
I'm going to his parents house tomorrow and I am very good at ruining any conversations I hope I don't ruin this one 😂😂😂
Michelle Riman Marakus how did it go?
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
🙌🙌🙌
@@Solydathaifan No, reply after 3 years. RIP
Michelle, time to report back
In short just be yourself! That's it, you don't need to impress them to become a person that they want you to be.
1. Don't try to impress too much, give your own opinions
2. Don't be cold with the colder person in the room
3. If in doubt, be affectionate
4. Complement liberately
5. Respect the protector in the family
6. Help out when you can
7. Bring something that shows you thought of them
8. Don't be in a hurry to show how much you love your partner
9. Don't be to eager to show your success
10. Don't gossip
#4 freedom for all!
I'm a senior in highschool and I'm meeting his parents but he's the principals son, I couldn't be more nervous!!!
Aww good luck! Like Matthew said let your personality shine through :)
Are you still with him?
How did it go?!
Are you still with him?
What you said about gossiping reminded me of a guy I used to date who used to say only mean things about his exes. Every time he was talking about them I immediately tought: "who knows what he's gonna say about me once we break up". It is indeed very unattractive
This video scared me😂😂
Great video Matt. These tips are great for meeting anyone at anytime - not just the family. This is important advice for anyone out there.
Sexy Confidence g
I actually, agree with you Sexy confidence. I've just watched now and thought of replaying again with that mindset -of meeting anyone
The one that looks cold but is the nicest
I am meeting my boyfriend's mother tomorrow and I am excited... she seems like a great person... from what I hear. I am not really nervous... I feel really confident that she will really like me... parents usually do like me. 🥰
My boyfriend met my parents a couple of weeks ago and it went so well. My family is really likeable and creates the most amazing environment that people usually wanna be a part of. That really put my boyfriend at ease. My dad has a lot of respect for my boyfriend for being an upstanding guy who treats me well.
Wish us luck! Things are going well!
Yeah my family is really accepting but then my boyfriends family is super if not overly cautious about anyone dating their son. They don’t know what to think about me yet.
You need your own TV show all young women needs to hear things these real rules of life I love It. True words keeping it real
1)Don't try to empress too much
2)Don't be cold to the coldest person in the room. Don't alienate them. Kill them with kindness
3)If in doubt be affectionate. If you are an hugger, hug.
4)Complimate people and be kind
5)Respect the protector of the house (mother or older sister)
6)Help when you can. At least offer to help.
7)Bring something. Better if it is something connected to them. Try to be original and specific.
8)Don't be over-affectioned with your partner. Don't try to show how amazing is your relationship
9)Don't try too hard to show your achievements and good qualities. Don't seek attention, let them find out your achievements with time.
10)Don't gossip!!!
I'm the girl everyone wants to match up with their sons. I've never met parents that didn't like me. But the guy himself, I sometimes find, gets annoyed because his family likes me so much he feels pressured to consolidate the relationship and all of a sudden it is their idea that he should settle down with me, not his. :/ Guess I've got to wait till I find a guy who is secure enough in the knowledge of whether he loves me for me, not because I tick all the boxes.
After meeting the family, say sth like: "I loved meeting your folks, but I love you and us the most and want us to progress at our own pace." Assuming you are happy with the pace the two of you are prgressing. If you want things to move faster, mention sth about how it's great the family sees the two of you as a couple and how that will help you two grow your relationship
teach me your ways!
Share some tips please :)
I really want to talk to you. I'm curious about that quality
@@sophiaaguado9483 I'm so surprised that others are curious about this too
"They will ruin your shit!" Lol
Lol i know right. Best thing ever
Meeting my boyfriends family for the first time, and spending Xmas with them. 😊
This was a great video way more helpful than the others I've seen, where they state obvious "tips" like "smile" and "be nice"! These tips were actually informative thank you!
When I see you uploaded a video, I rush to see it as soon as possible
It gives me a big smile
It's so heartwarming to see how generous and caring you are
Thank you for your existence matt^^
THANK YOU SO MUCH! I've been feeling nervous about meeting his family and I'm really happy you made this video.
Thanks a lot for this video Mat! Even though I already met my partner's family in 2008 for the first time and I get along with them very well it's always good to be reminded of the small things that make life easier - especially around this time of the year when everybody is very ambitious & eager to create special moments for the whole family to enjoy. Right now there are quite a few changes happening in our life and my sister in law is going through a rough time, so my husband's parents are a little worried, because at this point we're all in transition and nobody knows how / if our plans will work out. This video was really what I needed to remind myself of what they need from me right now. :)
I used your advice and his mom loves me! It was such a great meeting. thank you for the advice!!
Thank God I'm watching this right now, I'm going to a baby shower this Sunday, and I needed to know what to do and what to say! Thank you so much Mathew You!
Everything you said in this is completely spot on. So impressed with your broad insight and depth.
i loved the "be kind".... thats the best advice!
Love this video already met them so stressful and it was around the holidays too! Thanks Matthew for the video needed this.
I love how applicable your videos are, to so many different situations in life. :)
You're like a friend to me Matt. I don't know if it's solely because of your videos, but I found the man of my dreams this summer. I'm meeting his family this weekend and of course I came here for a quick check.
I'd been wondering about this exact topic lately... Thank you for posting it :D
Thank you for this, truly gonna rewatch and prepare myself. I’m so scared but also excited…
I love you so much for the contribution you have made by teaching people how to communicate, thus perfecting their life. Sincerely. - Elizabeth
this is wonderful advice for meeting ANYONE!!!! thank you
OMG I found the right video! southamerican meeting my boyfriend's family this thanksgiving!. You're the best Matt!
This is the most and only helpful video especially for mature relationships!! Ty!
Thank you Matthew! Your tips are so dead on accurate! :) Everything you say really makes sense and have a reason. I was nodding my head & agreeing throughout the video hahaha. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving Matthew! :)
Oh my God, he looks a lot like Daniel Radcliffe. He even sounds like him and has similar movements.
Aisling Kelleher He belongs on Grey's Anatomy. McHunky.....hahahaha
married for almost a year, currently on the train to meet the family for the first time. this video helps tremendously.
I Love you to Matt this was a very clear & concise vid/info good job.! Shout out to Jameson also lol.!
Nice video.
I met my in Laws for the first time in the Philippines in May 2019. Awesome experience!
Matt,
Looking at your videos I can't help but ask myself, 'why isn't Matthew married?"
I later realized that people like you come in the world to help others. Knowing what you know, the love will find you. You seem to put us first. X
He doesn't discuss his own relationships, so he may be. At his events none of his team wear a ring. I saw him say in an interview he didn't want his own relationship status to come under scrutiny so he keeps it private.
Because he is waiting to marry me loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool i'm play he is amazing though
maybe he's just one of those people who chooses not to (get married and just stay single). Doesn't even have to be a player kind of mentality, just for some people that's not the end game, like some people not wanting kids.
He's literally wearing a ring lol
The coach doesn’t play the game
gosh this gave me so many helpful tips! Thanks so much!!!
Thanksgiving 2017 is tomorrow!!! Super excited to have found this video to add to my arsenal of relationship tools.
Matthew you are a treasure. Thank you. Hope your day is awesome! 💖🙏🕊🌞
Amazing video!! I am greatful for all of your advice it's spot on!! Keep being you 😁
Love your thoughts and words Matthew H every time!!
I love you so much Matt!!!!! Just what I needed ❤️
First video that gives me hope. thank you. You are truly awesome (:
I’ve been doing dishes and setting the table, and taking peoples plates when they are done with their dinner. It’s the least I can do for the wonderful meal they provided!
this is such a good video, thank you for some more great content Matt! :)
This is what I need to hear today! thanks :)
Very timely for me as im meeting my guy's family this TG.
Everything you say in this video is spot on. 👌
What worked well for me was at a family gathering, which had my anxiety through the roof. But forcing myself to be away from my GF as she would be my safety blanket.
And speak with as many people as I could manage, then return back to my GF and relay any bits and pieces of information I gathered..
Massive win-win. I learned loads of cool stuff from a diverse range of people. And i think it showed her that "hmm, he wants to be part of the tribe" [or words to that effect].
Plus having a sort of order of gentle questions to ask.. I'm from the UK, and my GF's family loves football and film, so I could have some pretty interesting conversations pretty quickly.
I'm scareeeed I'm meeting his mum today this is so stressful she's really nice and kind but I'm still panicing god
How did it go?
Thank you! Really helped, meeting the Parents tonight lol wish me luck ! Oh, I also bought the a bottle of their favorite wine b4 I saw this
This is such a great video. Thank you!
This was right on time thank you.
This was great, love you too Matt!
You re a wizard! Fantastic dude.
I'm supposed to meet my boyfriend's mom, brother and sister today. And I talked to his mom and sister a little on the phone and they seem nice. 🙏
Thanks for the great advice as always :-D
Thank you speak so much facts ! Helped me a lot
These tips were on point!!!!! 👌 especially in regards to respecting the protector of the family and not showing too much affection for your boyfriend in front of the family. Makes things very uncomfortable for the family!!!
Needed this! My boyfriend is the youngest/only male in his family, so I’m meeting two protectors, his mum and his older sister.
this was very useful, thank you so much!
Literally lying down in the same way as you are in your pic xD
haha
05:36 serious face lol
your so smart mathew wow your friend and your family and your girlfriend if you have they are all lucky. im amazed by your attitude and the way you speak and everytime im watching your videos i was like wow. im so amazed the way you speak. im one of you fan mathew.
This was an awesome video!
please do a video on tinder and your thoughts on it! i think its ruining dating for everyone!
Loved this so much help !!
What awesome advice!!
There can’t be a Matt video without mentioning Suzan 🤣😂 what a lucky girl 😊
2:45 compliment honestly. Fake compliments are obvious.
So helpful!
When talking to a new friend I always say 'do you have any song recommendations I have completely run out of songs I like' some people will explode at the question and open their Spotify ect. If they say no then idk start talking about songs u like HAHABA
fantastic advice!! i agree!!!!
great advice thanks Matt :)
Happy Thanksgiving Matthew!☺
This video caused so much anxiety in me!!!
I tended to do most of this already, except the helping out part, when I met my ex-fiance's family for the first time and every time after. Our (second) first date was him inviting me to a family wedding :p
This videos so helpful
Very helpful! Thanks!
Great video!
Its not that you have to show it in front of other people. I think the easiest way to show it is to be it. To be kind, to be thoughtful, to be respectful, to help out, to avoid gossip.
I meet his family this weekend, I’m nervous 😬 I’ll be using your tips thank you 🙂
this was soooo useful
I met his family this week. Few days before thanksgiving... I'm glad it happened tht way being tht I won't be able to make it to his family's thanksgiving
Great advice!
Great tips✔💯
I really liked your advice like always. I don't have a partner, now. But I check your tutorial every week. I think most of them are necessary lessons for daily life in any kind of relationship with men or women, young or old. I feel you a close friend of mine who's a profession. I do thank you.
Raha
Thanks again. As always
You're amazing ❤
Watching this in 2019 before thanksgiving and freaking out...
I remember during my University time, my boy friend brought me home to see his parents and friends. I screwed up and didn't regret. Now I work as an expat, it's so difficult to meet someone serious enough to bring me to their parents.
Meeting my bfs mom tomorrow who is from Kazakhstan, I don't speak Russian and she doesn't speak English lol. The anxiety levels are so high!! But something my bf said is to ALWAYS help clean up after a meal etc.
Good advice.
I would offer to help with food and dishes , but i wish they wouldn't let me.. I want to have fun chatting and snacking=))
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 me too
I found this video at a good time because I’m meeting my gf’s family on Black Friday when they’re having their Thanksgiving dinner. I’m nervous as heck because yAaAy, social anxiety
Thank you so much!!
Here's a question for you: What should you do if the "protector"(i.e. mom) finds out something about you that makes them not like you anymore? My ex's mom found out I was an atheist after we'd been together about two years and went from loving me to hating me almost immediately. I didn't tell her, but it is a part of my life, she was bound to find out eventually.
Can you make a video about meeting his friends? ❤️