I'm using no contact for my own healing. I don't want her back. I want her to feel bad about how she wronged me and used me when she's lying in bed at night, but I doubt she feels a thing. Maybe it's petty of me, but I hope she's miserable in her new rebound relationship. We were together for 13 years and turns out she was cheating on me with multiple men. Then she leaves and moves in with another man like I was nothing. She gets to move on with someone else, while I'm still piecing myself back together 6 months later. I can't even think about getting into another relationship right now. I don't know how they do it.
@@kiddytube3915 Thanks. In hindsight I can see clearly when she was pulling away. She got a head start on me, while not having to face being alone during the withdrawal. (She needed me so she'd have a free place to live, after all. Now she's living with her new man.) It's getting better. I'm healing much faster now, but I can tell this one left a mark on me. 13 years is a long time. I do have my friends for whom I'm grateful, though.
I agree. There is only so much shit you can take.There comes a time when enough is enough. If at some stage your ex comes back, then you re-asses the situation with him or her.. Use no contact for you!
My 5 yr relationship ended in feb abruptly, with almost no explanation or closure. It was really hard to deal with. First three months went by and i broke no contact and sent a letter. Not so much to get her back more about the fact that i had some things that needed to be said. Theres never been any response from her on it. It was harsh because i was good to this person. In the end i think our political differences broke us but nothing bad happened. This woman was poor at expressing things from inside all along so why should i be surprised. Recently she was seen with a new guy. That did hurt and it felt like the answer to all the riddles. Im glad i found out about the rebound at 6 mos because so much healing has happened. It did hurt tho.
@@YagoIsJustDreaming to be fair im not sure if this guy is a rebound or the real reason for the end of the relationship, but at this point it doesnt matter much. Both scenarios suck
I have been saying the same thing. No contact is not healthy. If your partner can’t communicate then It’s doomed anyway. Communication should always be in the forefront of a relationship .
@@freddynetwerk Yes! I like to put Easter eggs here and there when I talk to people, so I’ve done the same in my videos. Just in case someone notices. You’re the first one! 🏆
If your partner enters into a rebound, it means that she is not the partner for you and that there are better people out there for you. It is correct that you should not get involved in a tug of war with the new partner. This is unhealthy and only serves to massage her ego that she now has 2 men chasing her. No contact whilst the rebound is active is correct.
It really depends on who did the breaking up with. If it was her, she’s already in another relationship and already cheating on you. so why the hell does it matter what drives her to rebound relationship?? It’s already done. Now if you did the breaking up, again, why will it matter? It’s abit narcissistic to think that she doesn’t deserve to find another person after YOU did the breaking up with. She’s trying to move on from you.
I'm using no contact for my own healing. I don't want her back. I want her to feel bad about how she wronged me and used me when she's lying in bed at night, but I doubt she feels a thing. Maybe it's petty of me, but I hope she's miserable in her new rebound relationship. We were together for 13 years and turns out she was cheating on me with multiple men. Then she leaves and moves in with another man like I was nothing. She gets to move on with someone else, while I'm still piecing myself back together 6 months later. I can't even think about getting into another relationship right now. I don't know how they do it.
Borderline Personality Disorder BPD. Know how you feel my friend.
She doesn't care , your still emotionally invested
@@TheyCallMe_TC correct
She moved on while still in a relationship with you.
Let her go, and move on too. The people who matter will still be in your life.
@@kiddytube3915 Thanks. In hindsight I can see clearly when she was pulling away. She got a head start on me, while not having to face being alone during the withdrawal. (She needed me so she'd have a free place to live, after all. Now she's living with her new man.) It's getting better. I'm healing much faster now, but I can tell this one left a mark on me. 13 years is a long time. I do have my friends for whom I'm grateful, though.
so much wisdom and calmness and mindfulness here...thanks Yago
unironically the best breakup video
I agree. There is only so much shit you can take.There comes a time when enough is enough.
If at some stage your ex comes back, then you re-asses the situation with him or her..
Use no contact for you!
My 5 yr relationship ended in feb abruptly, with almost no explanation or closure. It was really hard to deal with. First three months went by and i broke no contact and sent a letter. Not so much to get her back more about the fact that i had some things that needed to be said. Theres never been any response from her on it. It was harsh because i was good to this person. In the end i think our political differences broke us but nothing bad happened. This woman was poor at expressing things from inside all along so why should i be surprised. Recently she was seen with a new guy. That did hurt and it felt like the answer to all the riddles. Im glad i found out about the rebound at 6 mos because so much healing has happened. It did hurt tho.
@@thepuffinburrow it hurts like hell and it feels like the end of the world, and in a way that's what it is.
Thanks for sharing 🫂🫀
@@YagoIsJustDreaming to be fair im not sure if this guy is a rebound or the real reason for the end of the relationship, but at this point it doesnt matter much. Both scenarios suck
Wise man! Loved what you said towards the end. Thank you, Yago!
- Another wise fool
I have been saying the same thing. No contact is not healthy. If your partner can’t communicate then It’s doomed anyway. Communication should always be in the forefront of a relationship .
Caveman spittin’
A few Dylan lyrics in there too. Love it
@@freddynetwerk Yes! I like to put Easter eggs here and there when I talk to people, so I’ve done the same in my videos.
Just in case someone notices.
You’re the first one! 🏆
If your partner enters into a rebound, it means that she is not the partner for you and that there are better people out there for you. It is correct that you should not get involved in a tug of war with the new partner. This is unhealthy and only serves to massage her ego that she now has 2 men chasing her. No contact whilst the rebound is active is correct.
No contact wouldn’t bring an avoidant person back to me. It would make it easier for them to move on. I’m using it but… It seems backwards.
It really depends on who did the breaking up with. If it was her, she’s already in another relationship and already cheating on you. so why the hell does it matter what drives her to rebound relationship?? It’s already done.
Now if you did the breaking up, again, why will it matter? It’s abit narcissistic to think that she doesn’t deserve to find another person after YOU did the breaking up with. She’s trying to move on from you.
Thank you Yago
Went no contact with my narcissistic sister.
Guess what she did? She set me a huge sum of money to my bank account, what should I do?
Return it
I feel like Jesus kinda looked like this
I've only seen the first 10 seconds, but fact that you are shirtless and with a full beard does NOT instill confidence!
@@sudhanshuvyas fair enough.
Don’t judge a book by its cover , any one who read or is smart should know this
I prefer to be shirtless in nature than in the toilet next to sh.t