Japanese woman files US$2.9 million lawsuit against sperm donor who lied about identity

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  • @Majeed.
    @Majeed. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2256

    Putting up the child for adoption because she doesn't like the father isn't any better of an act.
    The children always suffer the consequences of irresponsible parents

    • @raphaelsandy9012
      @raphaelsandy9012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +141

      but imagining the child under a parents that hate the child existence is even more terrible

    • @sinoroman
      @sinoroman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      adoption is harsh yet neutral. idk the woman but the possibility of her abusing the child is still on the table. adoption is probably the best option (from outside pov)

    • @sionc1372
      @sionc1372 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I think that is far better than being with someone who has no love for you.

    • @anonymousbrother218
      @anonymousbrother218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      يا أخي إنت مسلم؟ ليش حاطط هذا العلم النجس؟ الله يهديك.

    • @zoviqi2452
      @zoviqi2452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lying about your identity especially when you are married cheating from your wife ...

  • @UserInterface00
    @UserInterface00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1282

    She didn’t even do a background check on the guy to see his credentials? I feel so bad for the child. Almost to a point I hope he doesn’t know the truth about why he was born.

    • @chun_lisfii3596
      @chun_lisfii3596 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Not sure it's faisable. It's private data.

    • @knock-knockwhosthere9933
      @knock-knockwhosthere9933 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      He graduated from the school of fraud.

    • @クローメ
      @クローメ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😞

    • @XFHU
      @XFHU 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@knock-knockwhosthere9933 she graduated from the school of goldiggers

    • @JewTube001
      @JewTube001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@XFHU how? the story didnt say anything about her wanting to marry him.

  • @penguinpingu3807
    @penguinpingu3807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3216

    Lying is wrong but imagine abandoning a child for not doing a double check on that individual. That's 10 times worst.

    • @enibeni2071
      @enibeni2071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +258

      The child is her son, it's her blood.
      If she really wanted a child she wouldn't give him to adoption.

    • @kkkkuugggraaa
      @kkkkuugggraaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +218

      Maybe it is better that way, imagine raising that child all the way but at the same time the child experiencing physical and mental abuse from her mother just because she hate how they look and such.

    • @Rover.M07
      @Rover.M07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      @@kkkkuugggraaa it make me just hope she never pregnant again , she see her child is investmen , she can be bad mother for her child if she s not change her view

    • @twopercentflat4766
      @twopercentflat4766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Why should it be her responsibility to double check? She can do what she wants with her child.

    • @LeachingJack
      @LeachingJack 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@kkkkuugggraaa perhaps it is better for the child because that showed a fundamental wrong in the mother's thinking. Also that shows distress to the court and could help her to win the case.

  • @unit0261
    @unit0261 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1218

    I hope the child grew up to be a very successfull person someday and make his mother regret about giving him up for adoption.

    • @knock-knockwhosthere9933
      @knock-knockwhosthere9933 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Then the father must be guilt free.... 😁

    • @Comebackherein2050
      @Comebackherein2050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      What about man who deceived her?!

    • @vipvip-tf9rw
      @vipvip-tf9rw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@Comebackherein2050 man has no connection to her actions

    • @teebolt45
      @teebolt45 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Karma will pay both, the deceiver and the woman

    • @gweni
      @gweni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yeah, so sad for the baby 😔

  • @shiro2400
    @shiro2400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +761

    She basically wanted an investment. Didn’t want to be a parent. So don’t have a child and don’t be a parent. That child is now society’s responsibility due to both of their irresponsible actions. Shame on them both.

    • @morgueinduarte1977
      @morgueinduarte1977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She wanted her baby to be japanese like herself and was lied too...

    • @valconir1619
      @valconir1619 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Almost everyone in Asia do think of children as investment. Especially the lower income family hoping their kids to be top student, get top job and bring better economy to the family.

    • @musicandbooklover-p2o
      @musicandbooklover-p2o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Thing is, just because one, or both, parents attended a university doesn't mean the child will be bright in turn. Logic alone states this as obvious, maybe she isn't as bright as she'd like to think she is either.

    • @zoviqi2452
      @zoviqi2452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The emotional damage of what he did to her would make her hate the child so much

    • @taejo4975
      @taejo4975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@valconir1619 Agreed, though I do feel bad for the child being born like this

  • @elleem3951
    @elleem3951 2 ปีที่แล้ว +714

    The child shouldn't be treated like a product the woman purchased from a super market where she could just "refund". IMO she should take responsibility of the consequences of her own rash decision.

    • @jemmaj2919
      @jemmaj2919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Right? She's treating the baby like an object unfit for purpose 😔

    • @otto7556
      @otto7556 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly!

    • @averagesauceenjoyer7209
      @averagesauceenjoyer7209 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@jemmaj2919 most parents today do that to their kids, my mom despises me but when I got accepted with a free access to one of the best colleges of the country she kissed me in my mouth, she became crazy, she's so materialistic like most parents

    • @zoviqi2452
      @zoviqi2452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The man tricked her... He had a wife and cheated from them... No mother wants a child from a cheater manipulative lier sicko like him

    • @jemmaj2919
      @jemmaj2919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@zoviqi2452 so you throw the child away? Is that your solution?

  • @Paul_lammers
    @Paul_lammers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1892

    Society should not let both the man and the selfish woman get away from their irresponsible act.

    • @MTC008
      @MTC008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      i really feel bad for the baby that has been given up for adoption

    • @enibeni2071
      @enibeni2071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      I agree. It's his child, it's her child.

    • @MTC008
      @MTC008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      @@enibeni2071 the japanese woman fault here is she didn't researched first and she should had meet up that person and check his background personally to see that his claims are genuine she is like blaming the child for her own negligence

    • @94sweetmochi
      @94sweetmochi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Idk i find rhe man also very selfish

    • @Comebackherein2050
      @Comebackherein2050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      the woman was deceived and she paid a lot of money for the donation. What exactly is the woman's fault? You feel sorry for the child, right? But it's the fault of the man who deceived her. It's entirely the fault of the man who lied to her.

  • @Rosula_D
    @Rosula_D 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1903

    Absolutely disgusting! Giving up your child just because you didn't like the father's academic credentials? The child is better off without these parents. I hope the baby finds a loving family.

    • @sssssssss111
      @sssssssss111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      I think it’s about this being Chinese more so

    • @zilalibayan6030
      @zilalibayan6030 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@sssssssss111 what's the Difference between Japanese and Chinese?
      They are just the Same Race just look at their pale skin color and Eyes do you see any Difference.?
      Chinese is just Japanese but Communist Rules , Race isn't a Factor here it's just Japan hate Communist Government and spur Racial BS to them.
      Imagine Americans Being Racist To Europeans

    • @JewTube001
      @JewTube001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @@sssssssss111 yeah, japanese tend to be racist and are against interracial couples and children.

    • @dkwhattouseasusername1012
      @dkwhattouseasusername1012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      @@zilalibayan6030 well they separated from each other from their recent common ancestor 3,000 ~ 3,600 years ago, roughly corresponding to the Shang Dynasty in Chinese history. And also Japan was a closed nation for 214 years so that also played a part, plus they hate each other mainly because of ww2 stuff

    • @kimcaudle125
      @kimcaudle125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@zilalibayan6030 Ignorant comment.

  • @EzDegrees
    @EzDegrees 2 ปีที่แล้ว +446

    this phrase repeated so often that i tired of reading it but, "Every child deserve a parent, but not every parent deserve a child" poor kid

    • @MTC008
      @MTC008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i actually feel bad about the baby whose nothing to do with case imagine being reincarnated to that baby you are very unlucky!!!

    • @angryzombie8088
      @angryzombie8088 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      very true indeed

  • @megumi_0
    @megumi_0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1039

    this is really terrible. i feel so bad for the kid, he's done nothing wrong and suddenly he will never see his mother or father. the woman is truly irresponsible.

    • @Shirokuma15
      @Shirokuma15 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Cannot see his parents is nothing compared to the fact that they rejecting him..like how would you felt when you realize that your own parents dont even want you..thats would really heartbreaking experience, i would pray that he would never knew the truth..

    • @GorgieClarissa
      @GorgieClarissa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Both are truly irresponsible

    • @sinoroman
      @sinoroman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      wait until the kid will grows up and hears about this news

    • @zoviqi2452
      @zoviqi2452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Well it's much more responsible than letting the child live with hatred because the father first fault of cheating from his wife and lying to the child mother's. Both the mother and child didn't deserve this.

    • @zoviqi2452
      @zoviqi2452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I mean no human actually want a child that came from a men who cheated and tricks you the amount of hate that will make you hurt the child instead tho

  • @GeorgiaAndrea
    @GeorgiaAndrea 2 ปีที่แล้ว +492

    Hence why not everyone should be allowed to have a baby. The shady things they do would always be at the expense of that child. I am not pro life but I think it’s very unfair for a child to pay the price of their parents’ stupidity.

    • @RIFLQ
      @RIFLQ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Your profile pic looks scary

    • @GeorgiaAndrea
      @GeorgiaAndrea 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@RIFLQ my stylist took some photos after he did my hair. This one is actually my fav though I get what you’re saying. It’s just too mysterious. 🤣

    • @stephanieyee9784
      @stephanieyee9784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This isn't a Lonely Hearts Page.
      She's not looking for a husband or a root. She's merely making a comment do it doesn't matter what her photo looks like.

    • @lawrencel2544
      @lawrencel2544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@GeorgiaAndrea actually you have nice beautiful shiny hair. I like it👍

    • @zoemaple7752
      @zoemaple7752 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This news grossly gloss over important details from the Japanese New's

  • @thoibee
    @thoibee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    Because of two careless and selfish people, the child will have to go through hard times. It's terrible that the man lied but I'm more amazed by the woman for giving up the child. After all, even if she was deceived, the child is still her baby. It would have been fine if she sued the man and still keep the baby. Totally concerning for someone like her to be a mother!

    • @uckthis8079
      @uckthis8079 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      New born babies have a great chance to be adopted. Mostly by parents that are already checked by govt institutions so there is a hope for this child.
      All this sounds like a nightmare 😔

  • @gjune36
    @gjune36 2 ปีที่แล้ว +580

    This women need to get her head checked. What she did to the child was unfair.

    • @linadecrava895
      @linadecrava895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Agreed. The child didn't do anything wrong to deserve this. She's so selfish. She doesn't deserve to be a mother.

    • @gg31hh
      @gg31hh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Some part of me understand the women and where she is coming from.. but on the other hand, made me question if she is suited to b a mother. Where she would love her kids unconditionally.

    • @denisaceto-zeybek8249
      @denisaceto-zeybek8249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Hopefully this child will find someone that will be the mother they deserve, that will give them a lot more than this silly person.
      And maybe one day, that child will be a top student and do great things.

    • @maolo76
      @maolo76 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      She probably a racist. It said she prefer an educated Japanese. Upon finding out the donor was Chinese. She gave up the baby. No doubt if the guy was an uneducated Japanese. She may of accept the baby. She also said he was married. What's that got to do with getting a donor. It's not like she will be with the donor.

    • @saintsrowisntcancelledanym7099
      @saintsrowisntcancelledanym7099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@maolo76 Absolutely brain dead take

  • @MC-874
    @MC-874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +432

    Its kinda scary and oddly specific. Even with high best premium genes, if its grow up with someone like that, it will still turn bad.

    • @NAA-sk1ov
      @NAA-sk1ov 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Yup no child of hers will go to Kyoto university. She is dumb and sick.

    • @Rover.M07
      @Rover.M07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@NAA-sk1ovit remindme in my country have minister is junior high school graduate , she have airline company, she have fishing company , and pro traditional fisherman
      She work hard to be succesful have alot company in her hand , she is not born from man/woman gen top univ graduate, she is born from poor parent cant give her education , and work hard af for her succesful
      That woman need work hard to be succesful not from gen top univ graduate

    • @NAA-sk1ov
      @NAA-sk1ov 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Rover.M07 great points

    • @zoviqi2452
      @zoviqi2452 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      In March 2019, she and a young man in his 20s began to get in touch.
      The man introduced that he was a Japanese graduate from Kyoto University , he was not married, and he had no girlfriend.

    • @zoviqi2452
      @zoviqi2452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No mother want a child from that kind of men

  • @sle7936
    @sle7936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    Punished the child for her failure to do her due diligence and then have the nerve to sue! The Audacity!

    • @gadgetgasspoll2923
      @gadgetgasspoll2923 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Crazy mom

    • @YElle-fd6kj
      @YElle-fd6kj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@gadgetgasspoll2923 not even qualified as mom, a mother's love is something I'm not sure she has

    • @twopercentflat4766
      @twopercentflat4766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why is it her fault that she was lied to? Why should she need to do a background check.

    • @syasyaishavingfun
      @syasyaishavingfun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@twopercentflat4766 I don't think it's her fault to be lied to, but I do think her reason for putting the child up for adoption is kinda racist.

    • @YElle-fd6kj
      @YElle-fd6kj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@twopercentflat4766 she needs tho,, but I think the most important thing was supposed to be the health of the donator, not educational background. And of course the way she just put the child on adoption is just. . . . .

  • @thephantom9227
    @thephantom9227 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    The child should sue the parents. That's very cruel for the baby.

    • @zoemaple7752
      @zoemaple7752 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      this news grossly gloss over important details from the Japanese New's

    • @JR-vc4gm
      @JR-vc4gm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@zoemaple7752 like what?

    • @dannyzero692
      @dannyzero692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's not happening, at least for another 18 or 20 years but by that time he would be either out in society and forget about it or someone adopted him and hide it from him.

    • @thephantom9227
      @thephantom9227 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dannyzero692 Yeah.... That's not happening for now.
      But that's not what i mean.

    • @mira-uf1ie
      @mira-uf1ie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The child should only sue the mother, since she was the one who gave up on him.

  • @Eclipse-lv1oq
    @Eclipse-lv1oq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    At least she gave the child up for adoption to someone who would care for the child, rather than becoming emotionally unstable due to stress and abuse the child.

    • @christopherordonez9366
      @christopherordonez9366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Exactly, Honestly I don't see anything wrong with what she did. People would have still be complaining if she kept and was unstable to take care of it.

    • @comradeleppi2000
      @comradeleppi2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@christopherordonez9366 exactly

    • @2PMisTimeless
      @2PMisTimeless 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      @@christopherordonez9366 na, this kind of person should never become a parent.

    • @franciscor390
      @franciscor390 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You gotta be given that point.

    • @MyFirstHandle
      @MyFirstHandle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I am glad she did the right thing because she knows she cannot prove her love to a child that was lied by her donor. She should be careful next time so she don't suffer for abandoning her child like that.

  • @The_Jaded_One
    @The_Jaded_One 2 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    Regardless of who the father turned out to be that was still her child, how could she just give up her own flesh and blood like that? She's worst than the man who lied to her in my eyes. Hope the baby finds a loving family and never learns of his birth circumstance.

    • @connordrake5713
      @connordrake5713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Exactly my thought here. 😔

    • @doggypi1532
      @doggypi1532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They are most likely to be some sort of elite that has an image to maintain~ and expectations to fulfill~

    • @ramenomirice2767
      @ramenomirice2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Shut up she didn't do anything wrong, infact she gave it to someone who would love him rather than keeping than child with her people would complain both ways .And she paid for something she has her rights

    • @com3144
      @com3144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@ramenomirice2767 feminist

    • @hopebby3750
      @hopebby3750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why does it matter if they have the same blood, I never understood this boomer argument

  • @unvaccinatedAndPureBlood
    @unvaccinatedAndPureBlood 2 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    She did her research ONLY after getting pregnant???

    • @coolcat6341
      @coolcat6341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I know poor baby

  • @yashny
    @yashny 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    This is why you should only have children for the right reasons. A child is a little person and this surely creates a void in his life. I hope someone better adopts him and nurture him.

    • @zoemaple7752
      @zoemaple7752 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They did have the right reasons...

    • @zoemaple7752
      @zoemaple7752 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She just want a child... but she was abused and manipulated like this...

    • @zoemaple7752
      @zoemaple7752 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This news grossly gloss over important details from the Japanese

    • @zoemaple7752
      @zoemaple7752 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      news

  • @Annie-ZA
    @Annie-ZA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    😨😱 She gave her OWN FLESH AND BLOOD up for adoption! Heartless, horrible woman doesn't EVER deserve to be a MOTHER!!! 😥😭

    • @zilalibayan6030
      @zilalibayan6030 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Should be born as a Man

    • @JewTube001
      @JewTube001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      well she isnt one now

    • @ramenomirice2767
      @ramenomirice2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shut up you id0it ,she didn't do anything wrong better than making a child grow up in terrible house

    • @DustyKneezz
      @DustyKneezz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dumb comment

    • @seanlee3863
      @seanlee3863 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@ramenomirice2767 she DID do it wrong and trying to escape accountability because it was her choice to let him bust inside her WITHOUT properly VERIFYING him first. AND she gave the baby up because of the baby daddy's credentials rather than the kid itself goes to show she was trying to baby trap a successful man but got played instead and now playing the victim avoiding accountability

  • @Jackie_Chan-w2m
    @Jackie_Chan-w2m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    Poor child. He was rejected by his own flesh and blood!

  • @velfcookie4734
    @velfcookie4734 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This makes me think about someone breeding dogs to sell puppies and if the puppy isn't what they wanted, they dump them in a shelter and never look back.

    • @yuitachibana6145
      @yuitachibana6145 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      In our society, that animal is a product that was paid for and certain things were promised. Let’s say, the person paid $10,000 for a purebred puppy to show in dog shows, and it turned out to be a mutt. Not only was it improperly advertised, but now the owner cannot profit from or practice dog showmanship. If the person only wanted one dog and cannot take care of another, that dog may be given to someone else in exchange for a dog that suits the person’s wants and needs. Don’t understand how the deceiver gets off scot free here. It’s illegal.

  • @cuekinaja
    @cuekinaja 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    A cruel mother she is. Giving up her baby like that. It's your child not a refrigerator.

  • @polaris1985
    @polaris1985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Intelligence is not passed onto next generation otherwise Eiensteins son would be famous

    • @canyou7670
      @canyou7670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@jomonger-g1f "made big things"

    • @2PMisTimeless
      @2PMisTimeless 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jomonger-g1f lol

    • @aiman_yt
      @aiman_yt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@jomonger-g1f he transformed our understanding of the universe and has an IQ higher than ur entire family combined.

    • @hardboiled7467
      @hardboiled7467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@jomonger-g1f Ah yes... those famous theories and equations definitely didn't come from his intelligence, he made it with some random big rock he found on the street during WWII when he fled germany

    • @mikicerise6250
      @mikicerise6250 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jomonger-g1f 🤣 That may be what makes him famous to Nazis, but to the rest of us, he's famous for his intelligence.

  • @winniechen4311
    @winniechen4311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    This women is an atrocity to society. She's not fit to be a mother, ever.

    • @zoemaple7752
      @zoemaple7752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This news grossly gloss over important details from the Japanese New's

  • @theintrovertadventurer9640
    @theintrovertadventurer9640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    Shocking story! Hopefully the child never learns about it!

    • @gg31hh
      @gg31hh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      its so sad to hear the women given up on the child for adoption. basically thrown away for not being his fault

    • @alienspecies6872
      @alienspecies6872 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That won't happen I think.

    • @lil_jong-un6668
      @lil_jong-un6668 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@gg31hh Not defending her, but as sad as it gets, at least the child has the chance to have a loving parent now instead of being a victim of her physical & mental abuse that might happen later on or straight up being dumped on the street. It could be worse.

    • @gg31hh
      @gg31hh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lil_jong-un6668 That is true, provided that no stigma and the parent that take him in would b a loving parent. I pray for the kid's future.

    • @JewTube001
      @JewTube001 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alienspecies6872 DNA databases get bigger by the day. it's pretty likely they'll figure it out if they look into it when they get older.

  • @leeweesquee
    @leeweesquee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Something tells me she wanted a child for all the wrong reasons.

    • @evalinacesarcassule5097
      @evalinacesarcassule5097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Something tells me that you not a woman...

    • @2PMisTimeless
      @2PMisTimeless 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@evalinacesarcassule5097 na I agree with that person above and I am a woman . This human being in the video is not meant to become a parent .

    • @MJ18888
      @MJ18888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I agree. She has a healthy baby that’s all that matters, and yet she gave the baby up. Was she looking a co-parent to raise the baby?

    • @leeweesquee
      @leeweesquee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@evalinacesarcassule5097 having male bits negates my opinion?

    • @twistedbliss58
      @twistedbliss58 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@evalinacesarcassule5097 So women are allowed to use children for their own selfish gain but not men?

  • @ronald3639
    @ronald3639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I mean why give the child for adoption just for this.
    Edit: Its my OPINION. Im allowed to make it and ur allowed to disagree. Dont scold me for it. this may create controversy so pls be respectful

    • @94sweetmochi
      @94sweetmochi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Because it looks bad and its not what she wanted. Its like paying for a pure breed yorkie and then when you get it its a mutt with bad hair and overbite.

    • @nekemalo312
      @nekemalo312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She's a crazy woman

    • @VinceNYCRapper
      @VinceNYCRapper 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@94sweetmochi Imagine comparing bearing and raising children to picking out dog breeds at a pet store. You absolute brainlet.

    • @zilalibayan6030
      @zilalibayan6030 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@VinceNYCRapper Yes
      Humans but no Humanity

    • @muhamadfikri6145
      @muhamadfikri6145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@94sweetmochi regardless it's still her child, but yeah all things considered if she were to kept that child, maybe the child would be abused by her growing up, so maybe giving up the child for adoption are better choice than raised by her. Idk, i think this woman shouldn't have a child yet, she isn't prepared for that, she clearly made bad choices, and now the child will be the one who has to pay for it.

  • @tvp-rbe-betterworldstem7535
    @tvp-rbe-betterworldstem7535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Lol When she said "I was forced"

    • @ashleyhill6697
      @ashleyhill6697 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Watch out the Me too movement is gonna be on this. He might get an assualt charge.

    • @Unknownplsyer
      @Unknownplsyer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ashleyhill6697 dude is already married so what does that tell you?

    • @pucca95776
      @pucca95776 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashleyhill6697 ashley shut up

  • @michaeldaude6374
    @michaeldaude6374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    this woman is unbelievable, she gave her own child for adoption because the father was not japanese and didnt go to university?? i am speechless and horrified

    • @chao1322
      @chao1322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      well, alot of japanese do not like chinese so ye

    • @almostthere6098
      @almostthere6098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Different culture than yours. Not that I agree. Maybe now the baby will have two parents who love him instead of one who just wants to prove something to others and maybe herself. That’s how she got in the mess in the first place. Pray for the baby to grow up loved and strong after he learns this.

    • @michaeldaude6374
      @michaeldaude6374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@chao1322 still, it doesnt justify giving away her own child, i just feel its wrong, for someone that wanted a kid

    • @michaeldaude6374
      @michaeldaude6374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@chao1322 why do they dislike the chinese? i understand some chinese people having misgivings about japan because of the invasion and atrocities they committed during World War 2, not the other way around

    • @twistedbliss58
      @twistedbliss58 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@almostthere6098 Do you use the different culture excuse when it comes to child marriage in the Middle East too?

  • @IKEMENOsakaman
    @IKEMENOsakaman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The child is the biggest victim here

  • @theweatherisaokay4964
    @theweatherisaokay4964 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    What a sad start to this baby. Wishing his/ her new parent will love and give the best life.

  • @bejoybenice
    @bejoybenice 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Adoptees are four times more likely to be driven to commit suicide. I was that kid.
    Shame on her. The child should sue for emotional distress.. so should most adoptees.

  • @DirectorxMizuki
    @DirectorxMizuki 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Adoption seems very cruel in this scenario. Yet, I find myself unable to see this child staying with either parent.
    If the birth mother is going to resent the child, they need to go to a different loving family. Unfortunately, his cheating father's house probably won't be too accepting either.

    • @Shirokuma15
      @Shirokuma15 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lying maybe, but i dont call it cheating..they are not in relationship in the first place. I mean, you know sometimes your father maybe go to red district without anybody knowing,.and we didnt call that act as cheating right 😅😅

  • @stephanielim5544
    @stephanielim5544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She treats that baby as if an object she bought and when she found out there's a flaw proceeded to sell it to get a refund.

  • @mingyuhuang8944
    @mingyuhuang8944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She literally just abandoned that innocent baby. Yes even though he lied about his identity but now the poor child is motherless and fatherless the moment he is born... So cruel

  • @mikamendoza5495
    @mikamendoza5495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I agree that the man who lied needs to be punish by the law. But the mom should be punish too. Such a disgrace for abandoning your OWN child just because you don't like his father. It will never be the baby's fault!

    • @hopebby3750
      @hopebby3750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why should she be punished, she just put it somewhere who wants it

    • @sigure.inspiration
      @sigure.inspiration 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@hopebby3750 She's still wrong. She shouldn't have wished to be pregnant then.

    • @hopebby3750
      @hopebby3750 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sigure.inspiration not really, she wanted something then got another thing, she got scammed, she has the right to not want it anymore

    • @sigure.inspiration
      @sigure.inspiration 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@hopebby3750 I understand your stand, but I believe that every children are the responsibilities of their parents. I can't really speak to her behalf as I don't know her intentions, but I still view her actions wrong. The same with the man/father.

    • @hopebby3750
      @hopebby3750 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sigure.inspiration yea every child is the responsibility of the parents who WANT them

  • @not0mrh
    @not0mrh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Why is it important if her donor's a university graduate? Was she trying to send her child to him for financial security? Is she sane??

  • @akeelaboomful
    @akeelaboomful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She wanted someone with high qualifications? It's not like it runs in the blood to be smart in school. I know more brighter and respectful people who doesn't have high qualifications. I hope the baby will be adopted by a caregiver who is sincere and loving to raise him/her.

  • @richardcoreno
    @richardcoreno 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Dumps the baby because her social media fantasy turned out to be as fake as social media.

    • @ramenomirice2767
      @ramenomirice2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's Japanese culture RACE is extremely important. She did the right thing you need to get off your high horse of thinking women should accept there kids no matter what ,she paid for a service she did what's right better than letting someone grow in unloved household. She gave someone else and the baby a chance for a loving house

  • @franciscocz8384
    @franciscocz8384 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    The child will grow up and he will become an astronaut, because he has chinese genes and he is strongly motivated to show his biological mother that she was wrong.
    She will regret that she abandoned him, you will see.

    • @phrenike
      @phrenike 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'll remember this.

    • @fanalt6971
      @fanalt6971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      That’s oddly specific. I just hope he lives a happy life and not have to endure the burden of expectations.

    • @EJH989
      @EJH989 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i think it is because there is still a stigma between chinese and japanese

    • @ashleyhill6697
      @ashleyhill6697 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Imagine if you're Chinese and the donor was me a white American. I think a lot of people on here would change their opinions. Lol

    • @luiscarlos5695
      @luiscarlos5695 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well IDK but I think she gave up the child because I think she knows to herself that the child deserves better

  • @pressurexz
    @pressurexz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I believe it’s better for the sake of the baby. Because in this video, it is said that the mother suffer mental depression. This could lead to the child being abused growing up.

  • @franciscor390
    @franciscor390 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    To be honest the Chinese guy should adopt the child seeing as he already has a family and children.

    • @MrMannyhw
      @MrMannyhw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      As if. He was just messing with her for free. He also won’t have a complete family now as the wife will ask what he was doing and why this woman was suing.

    • @davyliyang
      @davyliyang 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MrMannyhw He is not technically cheating. I think he would get a pass from his wife.

    • @nopperabosfathersasshole4944
      @nopperabosfathersasshole4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@davyliyang 0:58 she slept with him to get pregnant. If that doesn’t count as cheating then what does? If he lied to this woman, what makes you think he will be honest to his wife and tell her he’ll bed another woman?

    • @davyliyang
      @davyliyang 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nopperabosfathersasshole4944 He'll get into trouble alright, but chinese woman won't divorce unless have too

    • @nopperabosfathersasshole4944
      @nopperabosfathersasshole4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@davyliyang you mean the only thing that’s tying her down is her children and maybe her financial situation, otherwise divorce is super easy. One of my cousins(Chinese woman) divorced her first husband after a month. It was a piece of cake

  • @sheene.c9455
    @sheene.c9455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    People ignoring the fact that she said “she was forced…with a partner that didn’t meet desired conditions” ??????? Isn’t this insensitive to people who were actually forced and had no control.

    • @alanmakoso1115
      @alanmakoso1115 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly. People flaming the mother who is a vicitm

    • @billkar6479
      @billkar6479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@alanmakoso1115 she’s the one to blame. She wasn’t forced to do anything.

  • @minaawa
    @minaawa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You had 9 months to find out who he was
    And now you punish this child
    Given up on humanity!

  • @americo9999
    @americo9999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Are we going to ignore the fact that she gave the child up for adoption ? I mean, what's wrong with this woman, there should be more regulations on that matter, the child has no fault on this, it is a shame but still poor child, is like throwing away something you bought online because is not what you expect... what the heck

  • @jemmaj2919
    @jemmaj2919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    She gave the baby up for adoption? Wow that's a Japanese Karen. The poor baby, brought in to this world cuz his mum failed to do due diligence on the guy before getting to bed with him

    • @ramenomirice2767
      @ramenomirice2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shut up she didn't do anything wrong, infact she gave it to someone who would love him rather than keeping than child with her people would complain both ways .

    • @jemmaj2919
      @jemmaj2919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ramenomirice2767 it wasn't an accidental child, it was planned, she was already preparing to be a mum. You don't give up on a baby because you want specific genes that you don't even have yourself!!

    • @ramenomirice2767
      @ramenomirice2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jemmaj2919 she didn't want genes it was RACE .

  • @muhamadfikri6145
    @muhamadfikri6145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Well, regardless it's still her child, to just give it up for adoption seems irresponsible, but yeah all things considered if she were to kept that child, maybe the child would be abused by her growing up, so maybe giving up the child for adoption are better choice than raised by her. Idk, i think this woman shouldn't have a child yet, she isn't prepared for that, she clearly made bad choices, and now the child will be the one who has to pay for it.

  • @sundelong2727
    @sundelong2727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As mother of five , including one adopted child , it’s sickening to see mother deserted her child cause her superiority complex.
    Gene doesn’t makes a family but love does .

  • @MarcoCS2
    @MarcoCS2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Imagine that child will be a successful businessman in the future who owns the biggest corporations and dethrone Apple, Google, Sony and many more.

    • @ramenomirice2767
      @ramenomirice2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That isn't going to happen? Even if he does why does it matter now ? Grown adults don't need the same care as kids

    • @water6133
      @water6133 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Their parents probably will regret

    • @eldonwijaya3879
      @eldonwijaya3879 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So this is the mindset that people are saying is disgusting? When you look at a child based off his future potentials?

  • @Lurkzor
    @Lurkzor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The woman needs some jail time too!

  • @xxmareixx
    @xxmareixx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Is the woman also a scammer, abandoning your own child just because the father was not the ideal man u knew?

  • @darkmatter3112
    @darkmatter3112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Discarding a child for something they didint even do. It's not like they asked to be born. Hopefully he doesn't live a hard life...

  • @kyodonewsagency1182
    @kyodonewsagency1182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    She wanted pure Yamato baby. Racial purity is an obsession in Japan. If you are Ainu or Ryukyu, very often you suffer discrimination. To her consternation, the inseminator turned out to be Chinese. But then again, 70% of all Yamato have Chinese blood originating from Zhejiang region. That's according to recent Japanese genomic study.

    • @VashtheStampede007
      @VashtheStampede007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I figured as much. Racial “purity” was her top reason for giving up the baby.
      It's weird though how could she not be able to tell the difference from the man’s accent? Unless the guy had moved there at a very young age or was born in Japan.

  • @chrisathian5450
    @chrisathian5450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    people are condemning the mother. but she clearly didn't in the right state of mind to take care of the baby. She didn't abort the baby, and she give the baby up for adoption. what do you guys expect her to do?

    • @Shirokuma15
      @Shirokuma15 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She didnt have right state of mind from beginning, and unfit to became mother in the first place.. think about it from that baby perspective when he grew up and learn that his own mother give up on him because he is not 100 percent Japanese..like seriously,.

    • @chrisathian5450
      @chrisathian5450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Shirokuma15 will you prefer her to abort the baby then? she know she has no capacity to love her baby, so she put the baby for adoption. i think that is the best she can do

    • @davfar459
      @davfar459 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@friendlywhale6923 You're obviously just like the woman, never accepting responsibility and always making yourself out to be the victim.

  • @martiddy
    @martiddy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Why do some people think that if the father has a great academical background, their child will automatically have the same thing too?. Genetics only play a small part about how succesful a person's life will be. I mean, look at Jack Ma, his parents were poor and he's not very athletic nor very handsome. And yet, he's one of the most richest men in Earth.

    • @jjba3571
      @jjba3571 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ikr , like she is crazy crazy !!!!

  • @gabriellebertrand3054
    @gabriellebertrand3054 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I kind of understand why the woman gave up the baby for adoption. Wouldn’t it be worse for a child to grow up with a mother who would be reminded of how she was lied to every time she saw her own child’s face? Better for the child to be raised by another family than by a mother who would detest them.

    • @linadecrava895
      @linadecrava895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      It would be better if she become a better person by not blaming and detest an innocent child because of her incompetence

    • @2PMisTimeless
      @2PMisTimeless 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      She doesn't even deserve becoming a mother. Not everyone is meant to be a parent. This is not a circus where you pick your child to be pretty or less pretty

    • @vipvip-tf9rw
      @vipvip-tf9rw 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RAJUBHAI-ww7em one should always try to achieve that, if one couldnt, then one should not exist

    • @enibeni2071
      @enibeni2071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@linadecrava895 Yes. She doesn't want a child, she wants a trophy.
      She wants to brag about her child...She thinks a child is a diamond ring.

    • @MissyxAkunai
      @MissyxAkunai 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Japan has an orphanage system, so likely the baby will be cared for by the government/growing up in the system rather than a family (unless they get adopted which very rare as raising children is extremely pricy in an already expensive country, plus there's a large emphasis on having children of your blood to continue the family name/heritage/status).

  • @leesteal4458
    @leesteal4458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She is heartless for giving up her child. She will regret doing so.

  • @mechacream
    @mechacream 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The woman secretly gave birth to the baby and was planning to have her unknowing husband pay for child support. If she isn't the personification of evil, I don't know who is.

    • @jemmaj2919
      @jemmaj2919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The story talks about him being married not her. Where did u read this plz?

  • @Dragonfury3000
    @Dragonfury3000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is racism pure and simple. There's no other way to put it.

    • @ramenomirice2767
      @ramenomirice2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's Japanese culture. She isn't wrong you can't lie about race of kid he was fraud and selfish

    • @winkekatze5593
      @winkekatze5593 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ramenomirice2767 Racist. What does the race of a child matter?!

    • @ramenomirice2767
      @ramenomirice2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@winkekatze5593 it does and it is Japanese culture. Try loving a strange kid as your own then it's easy to do the all talk on internet

    • @winkekatze5593
      @winkekatze5593 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ramenomirice2767 Youre implying that japanese culture is racist. Strange kid as their own? But it is HER kid. SHE gave birth to it. Also, whats strange about a japanese-chinese child? Do you think a german-french child is strange too? The only strange persons here are you and the "mother". The child is innocent and not "strange". "Then its easy to do the talk on the internet" You are the one who is 2 months on youtube and talks easy about a innocent child.

    • @ramenomirice2767
      @ramenomirice2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@winkekatze5593 what does being 2 month on youtube matter ?? She was lied about race and I stating facts

  • @rmdhn1
    @rmdhn1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    First off, the guy should be sued
    Second, the mother needs to be charged
    Third, the child needs a sane parent

    • @Jake-dh9qk
      @Jake-dh9qk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Suing the guy creates alot of complications down the line. Its creates a precedent of people being sue in similar situations, like being sued because you lied to a woman in the bar about your wealth and job after impregnating her etx.

  • @bysh9077
    @bysh9077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I still can't get over the fact that this grown Japanese woman only decided to do proper checks on the man's identity after giving birth to the child. That's top-class ignorance, she shouldn't try to play the victim for her errors

    • @accsum6630
      @accsum6630 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very very agree with you. Find donor from online, not from legal procedure. Sure she know the consequences, but now playing victim and seek background when she pregnance and the baby born. That dumb excuse that I ever heard.

  • @koshisunuwarrai
    @koshisunuwarrai 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    the most thing shocking for me is how easily she's ready to give up the baby for adoption. Where is the connection, the emotion/feeling and the responsibility of motherhood? even animals take care of their babies till they grow up and are ready for life. Well, I hope the baby gets a better family rather than an abusive mother who sees her kid as a mistake throughout life.

  • @sssssssss111
    @sssssssss111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Honest question - is it that disgusting to have a half Chinese child in Japan? The man was wrong , but the child is innocent ..

    • @VashtheStampede007
      @VashtheStampede007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      A lot of Japanese have been racists since before WWII.
      They believe they are the “superior” Asians.

    • @edenassos
      @edenassos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@VashtheStampede007 lol Asians are racist towards each other

    • @ritu8985
      @ritu8985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@VashtheStampede007 superior Asians😂😂

    • @mira-uf1ie
      @mira-uf1ie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Japanese look down on fellow Asians. They consider themselves to be Whites thus will only accept Whites as alternative spouse options.

  • @itstankcraft7221
    @itstankcraft7221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    She doesnt even want to take responsibility for the child. Shame

  • @Miles_2003
    @Miles_2003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    What a heartless woman to reject her own flesh and blood baby like seriously...and to sue for 2.3million dollars??..i highly think shes doing it intentionally just for the sake of money

    • @godzillamothra5983
      @godzillamothra5983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It is also suspicious that she tried to find out about the father after giving birth. I suspected that she probably think she is giving birth to a successful single man's baby, and later want to use the baby to force the marriage onto the man.

    • @ramenomirice2767
      @ramenomirice2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh please men leave kids all the time you don't see people calling them heartless. And she paid for a service,she did a better job for her son instead of letting him grow up in a abused home

    • @ramenomirice2767
      @ramenomirice2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@godzillamothra5983 this isn't k drama that doesn't happen you id0it she is already married, and if you know anything about Japanese culture RACE is extremely important here .

    • @ramenomirice2767
      @ramenomirice2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@godzillamothra5983 always try to paint women into something bad

    • @godzillamothra5983
      @godzillamothra5983 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ramenomirice2767 more important than your own child?

  • @zoviqi2452
    @zoviqi2452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    However, she learned soon after the donor was in fact a married Chinese man and had not attended the university.
    She decided to put the baby up for adoption as it was too late for an abortion and is now reportedly suing the man for fraud, citing "emotional distress".

  • @zacharylee6405
    @zacharylee6405 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    someone needs to sue her back gave the child away...

    • @ramenomirice2767
      @ramenomirice2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For what ? Making the right decision. She paid for a service which was not provided. Also even if she kept the child people would complain ,she gave someone else a chance to love the child instead of letting it grow in a unloved home .

    • @winkekatze5593
      @winkekatze5593 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ramenomirice2767 She didnt pay for a service. She slept 10 times with the man. It was her decision. A baby isnt a product you can select like an online product.

    • @ramenomirice2767
      @ramenomirice2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@winkekatze5593 yeah so ? Again it was race which is the problem here

  • @lumi5056
    @lumi5056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When did intelligence become something that u can inherit from parents??

  • @awkwardniqaabi
    @awkwardniqaabi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Going through all that just to give the child up, why did you want a baby to begin with? 😒🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @theblueskyandrainbow
    @theblueskyandrainbow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    praying for the child to grow up healthily and always surrounded with love and care.

  • @jorei2731
    @jorei2731 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So sad for the child... i hope he grows up well

  • @luciferx2550
    @luciferx2550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hope she doesn't win the lawsuit. A terrible mother shouldn't be rewarded. The father should maybe get some jail time.

  • @David_Camerwrongun
    @David_Camerwrongun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Yet more proof people should be vetted and evaluated before even considering conceiving

  • @MomMom4Cubs
    @MomMom4Cubs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    As a birth parent that made the heartbreaking decision to give our first born up for adoption due to a congenital heart defect not covered by the Medicaid we had at the time, this APPALLS me! We have an excellent relationship with the adoptive family, she is definitely aware of why she doesn't live with her sister. Their insurance far surpassed ours and everyone felt she deserves to live beyond age 5, with every advantage (which she totally does).
    I hope this child never discovers that he was essentially thrown away because his atrocious birth "mother" is lazy and racist.
    I feel sterilization should be required to receive her settlement of 1 yen.

  • @myfatetrulygreat2910
    @myfatetrulygreat2910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    People here are blaming both, and mostly to the woman. But let's be honest, nobody wouldn't want to be constantly reminded of the pain of being lied whenever they look at somebody. You may already accept or forgive, but you may not forget. This could result you somehow taking it all out to the kid, even though you know full well it's not the kid's fault.
    Y'all are easily judging the woman just because you don't experience it yourself.

    • @mm-wn8vm
      @mm-wn8vm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Aight! You are right mate. I bet she'll forget how she made that US$2.9 million and all those stuff she'll buy with that load of money if she wins the lawsuit.

    • @bltzcstrnx
      @bltzcstrnx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ddhalia actually people are upset because an innocent person is the one who takes the consequences.

    • @syasyaishavingfun
      @syasyaishavingfun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      People blame her because her reason sounds elitist and racist - she doesn't want a Chinese kid and wants someone from an elite school. It's like she wanted to engineer a baby for a bragging right and not for someone to love.
      But even so, no one really wants her to take back the kid because clearly if she is a mother she will be the type that force their kid to study till they are suicidal.

    • @jr9973
      @jr9973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Oh please. She wasn’t forced against her will. She CHOSE to find a stranger on the internet and believe every word out of his mouth without doing a thorough background check. They’re both trash people.

    • @martyvenkman860
      @martyvenkman860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ddhalia 99% of people don't solely blame the woman you idiot. Noone talks about the man cuz everyone already knows he's terrible person just from the title, people are just mostly focusing on the woman cuz they didn't expect the mother would be a trash human being too.

  • @mortemblank6502
    @mortemblank6502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope that woman would not get pregnant ever again. She is clearly the type of a parent where they can only see their child as an investment for their own benefit.

  • @BRAIN-qp6jf
    @BRAIN-qp6jf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Crimes against humanity, unforgivable

  • @bigroundwatermelon6456
    @bigroundwatermelon6456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And just wait until the child sues her for even more millions for dumping it over the level of university quality

  • @IamAnonymousforonce
    @IamAnonymousforonce 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    did she sue me

  • @MISSTY1234
    @MISSTY1234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And the baby should sue her mother for emotional distress for being abandoned later

    • @mariatheresavonhabsburg
      @mariatheresavonhabsburg 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@apotex12
      Were robbed of a happy life? The man was a donor, nothing more.
      This vile women is the only one responsible for her actions and she decided to abandon her own child.

  • @Commievn
    @Commievn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am 1000% agree with suing the man, the man deserve to be imprisoned and punished.
    Quite frankly, $3 mill is a bargain.
    However, the fact that she abandoned him make her no better than that disgraceful man.
    Both are disgusting in my eyes.

  • @gisannramharack6332
    @gisannramharack6332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why give up the child. The baby did nothing wrong neither did he or she asked to be here. I am also curious as to y she did a background check after the fact..Lady get ur head checked out...That's really sad for this child

    • @Ruka_Sarashina777
      @Ruka_Sarashina777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      People can give up their child all the time

  • @Qahtanite
    @Qahtanite 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    wow that woman has a problem with her head

  • @linda102380
    @linda102380 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lying is not right and action should be taken, but giving up your own child is the worst thing a person can do, it should not be forgiven. Absolutely disgusting and she shouldn’t be a mother to begin with.

  • @minominmina5672
    @minominmina5672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What can she expect from online? People can easily lie, pretend.
    I hope the woman will feel guilt on abandoning the child, half of the child’s genes are hers.
    I hope the child will grow up happy, strong and loved by many. The child will find the loving parents.

  • @keptarareach4810
    @keptarareach4810 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I get where she’s coming from but then again, is she fit to be a mother? I think not. Society must hold them both accountable for that poor baby’s existence just to be put up for adoption after birth. Truly disgusting

  • @avocadotalks1426
    @avocadotalks1426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sick society. Why dont just married??

    • @Shirokuma15
      @Shirokuma15 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maybe she cant, if you are a woman that already in 30s and unmarried, the best chance you wouldnt get married. Men usually looking for the younger one..this is sadly how our society works.

    • @epsilonxvi5675
      @epsilonxvi5675 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Shirokuma15 30 years old is consider young in Asiia..

    • @Shirokuma15
      @Shirokuma15 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@epsilonxvi5675 30 years is young ofc, but this like age limit of marriage..normally young woman in Asia already marriage at least in mid 20s..so if you are 30 something, the chance you getting marriage is lower and lower..(i am not saying that there are no possibility at all).

  • @BeautifulZionHeroes
    @BeautifulZionHeroes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You can sue the man but abandoning your child?shame on you woman!

  • @goatkid5
    @goatkid5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thousands of people cry in search of a son/daughter and people who have this precious opportunity, what can i say more 🙂

  • @azlirazli7500
    @azlirazli7500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pity to the child.. i hope the abandoned child will sue the woman in future for simply abandon him because the father 'isn't educated enough'.

  • @connordrake5713
    @connordrake5713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I don't feel bad for the woman but for I feel bad for the child.
    What a selfish woman. She knows her child would not be the top ones because her Father wasn't🙄.
    If she wants a best child, then she should starts to find a best Dad which is literally impossible to find because none of us is perfect.

    • @lialia3796
      @lialia3796 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      what kind of theory her child would not be the top one because father wasn't? not all genius born from genius. life is not as simple as 1+1 =2

    • @rishabhraj8233
      @rishabhraj8233 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lialia3796 I think there English is not his native language and he is saying something different than what he actually wanted to say

  • @shaniceb.5129
    @shaniceb.5129 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Imagine that child one day learning that the mother gave him/her up for adoption because the guy she slept with didn’t have the right academic credentials. That’s so messed up.

  • @ytaccount11
    @ytaccount11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My heart goes to the baby. I hope the baby finds the family he or she deserves.

  • @nickyliu8762
    @nickyliu8762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Imagine she wins the case and somehow got awarded the $3M from that liar, and the kid is growing up in an orphanage

  • @neumylee
    @neumylee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The way this story is presented here makes it seem like this could have been just a scheme to sue…

  • @ramcharge2704
    @ramcharge2704 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So you didn't get the desired credentials of someone you met online. And as a result you abandoned your child that you carried and gave birth to all because you didn't double check someone's background. Why should the baby suffer for your negligence.

  • @unknown_wanderer69
    @unknown_wanderer69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Facepalm moment.

  • @oneone8318
    @oneone8318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Put this lady to jail instead. Thanks.