I totally can relate to wanting to go along with the crowd and be "straight". Totally understand about feeling that who you sleep with is no one else's business and not telling family. Glad things for you worked out with minimal drama, because you would definitely HATE that. :) (all those people looking at you) You guys are so great together and seem so happy, your videos always make me smile.
Tommy, your brother Roman is a real charmer, and very handsome. I love the way the three of you are so comfortable with each other, almost like brothers by birth. It must be fun now that you have someone in your family close to your own age that you can hang with who accepts you and Peter and that you are a gay couple living together. You are both lucky guys.
Indeed! Roman is the same age as Peter and the three of us spent a lot of time together travelling around North America. We all get along really well 😊
Nice story, thanks for sharing. The band-aid approach is totally underrated (for most things). I'm impressed you knew and were 'ok' with it so early - saved yourself any struggle for self acceptance.
Thanks, glad you liked it! I love the band-aid approach, I'm a straight-to-the-point kinda guy 😊 I'm fortunate I didn't have to struggle with the fact that I'm gay - keeping it a secret for years was challenging enough.
So interesting. I knew I was Gay but was determined to be "str8" but as you both know that is so hard on us psychologically. It's such a strong feeling and was too much for me. Now I accept myself as being Gay and really would have it no other way.😊💖💕
Hey John, I agree. Being gay is as valid as being straight. When I first realised I was gay in my late teens I embraced it. I thought, well, if this is me, then it’s what I’ll be and I’ll enjoy it. I’ve been with my husband now for 20 years. We were made for each other. 😀
This is beautiful and heartfelt awww Tommy and his brother roman who are both handsome lovely kind people thank you for sharing Tommy more power to you ❤️ ,coming out was so different for me here I was 22 at the time and being gay was still illegal in my country back then luckily the laws have changed now and we are fighting to make marriage equality happen here in india lots of love to you guys , your family and I'm sorry your dad feels this way big hugs 🤗
Thanks Dale! Glad you liked my story. Coming out in your country is way more difficult and must be a little dangerous to you so well done for managing to do it yourself! We're very happy the situation is improving in your country ❤️
Thanks for sharing. I love that you brought your brother into the story as well. In your part of Europe, was being Gay something that got you killed? I grew up in Texas in the 80's where we were Gay bashed and many died. Was that a fear when you grew up or came out? On a lighter note, it is reassuring to realize, given time, family do come around and accept us all. My Mom used to go down to a pay phone to call me and discuss my coming out so my Grandma would not hear her. Only she did not realize my Grandma told me I was Gay when I was 18 and my Mom was calling me when I was 29...Oops! Oh, well!
I love the story with your mom and grandma! Fortunately most family members come around after they have some time to think about it and realize that we're still the same. When I was a teenager, I wasn't really afraid of physical violence - something like that might have happened but very rarely. I was just afraid that my family and friends would hate me and I wanted to avoid possible conflicts and the drama.
Great story. I grew up in a small town too. I confided in a “good” friend who proceeded to tell all of my other friends. I moved to a big city far away from there and didn’t find out until years later. Haven’t seen her since but none of old high school friends have ever been hostile in fact I still remain friends with most of them. Keep safe.❤️
That sucks when you confide in someone and they tell others behind your back. But then again it has its advantages when you don't have to tell people face to face and then wait for their reactions so maybe she helped you in the end 😊
Tommy you had my sides splitting when you rendered yourself “fresh meat” in the melee of that 1990s gay club. You’ve a way with words. Can’t think why you don’t like attracting attention, because we’ve all seen what Peter also sees: that you’re incredibly handsome. That said, Roman ain’t bad either. 😉 Really enjoyed your coming out story. Despite the lack of drama, there was still plenty of meat in it! Can also highly recommend being gay together with a gay partner. It’s life affirming. It’s truly wonderful. I sometimes find it difficult to find the words to describe the depth of my love for my husband. 😀 Keep those videos coming guys, your fans need entertaining in 2021. Cheers, from Stefan in Ireland. 😀
I miss being fresh meat! Can't really call myself fresh at 36 anymore. When I was growing up, I considered myself ugly so that probably contributed to me trying to avoid attention. I'm glad you liked my meat! Thank you for helping us spread gay agenda 😃
I enjoyed hearing your coming out story. One of the wonderful parts of being gay is that even though we grew up on different continents, thousands of miles away, there are common threads that we share and can identify with. I grew up in a small working class town in a western state (USA), but being different or standing out from the crowd didn't feel very safe. I too knew that I looked forward to the day that I could move away from this small town and go to a university and meet other people that were more like me. Thanks for sharing your story. Next I will watch Peter's coming out experience. Hugs from California.
Glad you enjoyed it! Indeed, your story sounds a lot like mine. I'm so glad I left my hometown and moved to Brno which helped open up in a lot of ways. I hope your move to a university also helped you and that you found what you were looking for 😊
Thanks for sharing your story Tommy. I am so happy you had basically a drama free coming out. I love that your brother is so loving and sweet to you. It is so apparent how much he loves you when he is speaking. One thing you said jogged my memory and that was you speaking about how it was at work. Interestingly, despite that I came out at around 15 or 16 years old, I didn't come out in a work setting till after 2009. Prior to 2009 I was living in The Woodlands, Texas and going to college. I met my husband Scott around 2008. He convinced me to move to his state of Louisiana which is next door to Texas. I remember that in Texas I was out to family and friends but not in the work or college world. So after I moved and we had been together for two years I decided one day to try. So when people would ask about my life instead of side stepping the conversation I would just tell them about Scott and my life but I would never actually say I am Gay. It felt so awkward and strange. People were nice to my face at least and I didn't have any problems. But it took me years from 2009 onward to become really comfortable. Today it doesn't bother me anymore to talk about my life and weirdly people seem to appreciate the frank way in which I speak about my life. So glad time has changed that people are this way and not like they were when I was born. It was a different world in 1979 lol! Lots of love from Louisiana! Thanks again for your story.
It's really good that the times are changing constantly in these things. It's never easy to start talking about yourself so well done that now you don't mind.
Dear Tommy, thank you so much for sharing with your brother. Dear Peter and Tommy, I really appreciate your videos, they are really nice, refreshing and so natural. Thank you that.Děkuji
Thanks for sharing your story. I am older than you two so in my day I played the straight good boy with a girl friend up through high school. Mothers loved me because I was such a perfect gentleman with their daughter. Their daughters were pissed because I never made a move. LOL. I knew I was different from early on but didn't know it was "gay". I just liked being with boys. At some point I realized I didn't just want to be like them but that I wanted to be with them. I never "came out" to anyone till college to someone who had first come out to me. Never came out to my judgmental family. I think when I came out to close friends and their reaction was "Yeah, duh." It was disappointing I didn't get a bigger reaction. So I stopped "coming out." LOL.
Haha, I wish everyone's reaction would be "Yeah, duh" 😃 That would make it way easier and less stressful for everyone. I always got along with older women as well, even though I didn't date their daughters 😁 I'm glad I knew I was gay since I was 15 and didn't have to go through the girl dating phase, that must have been rather unpleasant at times!
Well done Tommy 👍 thanks for sharing this part of your life 💙 A's I was proud of Peter so I'm proud of you as well 💙 you are amazing and adorable and love you guys till next time be safe and healthy ♥️🤠
Wow, what a great story, thanks for sharing, being European, I can see how that older generation needs time to adjust and process. Had no idea that your brother lives in Calgary, Ingrid and I live in Victoria, BC, and before Covid we visited and stayed in Europe many times. We actually made a very good friend, who drove us from Salzburg to Prague, Marek Mik, his part time job, but he plays for a group called the Drain., his love and passion. Anyways I am going on, glad I discovered you guys, big hugs and keep up the great content.
Thanks, glad you enjoyed the story! We visited Victoria in 2017 with my brother and his girlfriend. Vancouver Island is gorgeous! We only spent a few days there but we loved it 😊
@@tommyandpeter Wow, what a small world, glad you enjoyed our neck of the woods, LOL, and we really had a fun stay in Prague too. Okay, get back to work, get that next video up and bring joy to the world :-) Hugs.
Well that WAS quite a bit different to Tommy’s coming out. I really enjoy watching you guys. You are like a well fitted custom-made glove on the hand. You just belong together!
I loved hearing your story, Tommy! (My own has some similarities. :) ) And also thought it was so hilarious and great when you brought your brother in on Skype! :D
I think this is the longest that I’ve heard Tommy talk 🙂. It was cool hearing his story and also meeting his brother. Do Tommy have any other siblings? Even living in different countries, it appears Tommy & Roman have a good relationship. I’m wondering if you too traveled to Canada, b4 the pandemic, to visit Roman. Also, is Roman single or in a relationship?
Haha, it is my story so I figured I should probably tell it myself, at least for most part 😁 Both Peter and I have one sibling each so you've already seen all our family members. We've visited Roman 3 times so far and each time we did a road trip discovering many beautiful places in Canada and the US. Hopefully we'll be able to go back again one day. Roman has a girlfriend who also joined us on a couple of road trips.
I had a similar thing where at university a friend saw some shirtless pictures of male celebrities on my laptop. I wasn't ready or even accepted myself so I said I was bi-curious. I do wish I had been out at university, feel like I would have a good opportunity for me to explore and grow.
I guess I was lucky nobody ever confronted me face to face even after finding out so I didn't have to make up lies. Not sure how I'd get out of it, at that time I didn't even know that there were such options such as bi-curious 😃 It's never too late to explore and grow 😊
@@tommyandpeter I think that why it took me so long to accept it because it wasn't talked about. If someone had said there are such things as being gay and it's okay to be it then it would have really helped. Glad that the different relationships are now being taught in schools
Enjoyed the video and am glad that I got to hear both your stories of coming out. Am sure it is painful to do regardless of either parents response. Good that you had each other to rely on. Thoroughly enjoyed seeing and meeting Tommy's brother. There is a great resemblance to each other. It is also good that Tommy also had him to rely on. I did go back and watch Peter's coming out story again to refresh my memory. Had been looking forward to hearing Tommy's story and enjoyed it. Thank you both for sharing your experience. Wishing both of the much luck and happiness during 2021. The coming week is the start of the distribution of Covid vaccine for my age group. Already have my name down for an appointment to get the shot. It is being received with mixed feelings by many local people. Tony
We're glad you liked the video! I'm glad I had both Peter and Roman by my side to help me go through everything. Roman and I never really saw the resemblance, we feel like we look quite different from each other 😊 Good luck with the Covid vaccine! It should be our turn sometime in summer, we'll see which year.
That's a huge different story that with Peter's parents. It took time for your dad to accept and understand, but at least he didn't want to hurt you or disown you at any point. By the way, your brother is very handsome! Shame he's straight lol. I didn't see any resemblance, though. I don't mean that you're not handsome lol.
Indeed, our coming out stories couldn't be much more different! Fortunately there wasn't much drama in mine, not sure how I would have dealt with that. I don't think Roman and I look alike either - Peter and Monika are definitely way more similar looking. Sorry that he's straight but at least he's in Canada with you 😄
Good story Tommy. Your brother seems very cool. I see you 2, you and Peter, only speaking english with each other, but what language do you usually speak to each other in, Czech? Is Czech much different than Slovak?
Hi Jeff. We speak to each other Czech/Slovak (our own mix, haha) - the languages are very similar, and people understand each other well. We just find it somehow embarrassing on video, so when we film, we speak only English 😀 If you'd like, you can watch our video about languages we speak, how it is with our English and so on. Also about our citizenships. You can find the video here: th-cam.com/video/LkrEqAfz8f4/w-d-xo.html
@@tommyandpeter is the difference between the 2 similiar to the difference between spanish/french/italian, or is it closer than the romance languages are?
I am sooo glad I found your channel right from the start. It's so great that I can follow you along week to week. TOO FUNNY..........."To summarize, I am gay". HA HA HA You are too much Tommy.
You think meeting the parents is stressful, try meeting the ex-wife. Even though they had been divorced for 20 years but I had been told she could be violent. Loved hearing your both stories.
Tommy, I played with dolls too. I had a few girlfriends too but I broke them off I was never really attracted to them. The first person I told was my friends then my sister; my dad was not thrilled at first but he got over so long story short my whole family knows now and we're all cool.
HA HA HA "Secondary Character" Gentlemen........still LOVING both of your senses of humor. Was your country the former Czechoslovakia? If so, what year did that country break up? Sorry......horrible with history and geography. lol Tommy's brother seems like a good sport and of course very handsome. I would have been pissed if he told my mom about me being gay. UGH Too funny......the bother says he found Tommy's "Romantic" stash on the computer and Peter directly blurts out GAY PORN. OMG.......Peter you kill me. HA HA HA HA Why are you both wearing T Shirts in the dead of the winter? It's 25 degrees Fahrenheit in the Northeast US. Sorry, I don't know what that is in Celsius. May I ask why your brother moved to Canada? Girlfriend? Job? I hope you know how much I and all your loyal fans enjoy you both putting out your Vidoes every Thursday without fail. We know it's a lot of work but I hope it's keeping Peter busy. HA HA HA :)
Glad you found my coming out story funny 😃 We were both born in Czechoslovakia which split up in 1993. That's when we became foreigners to each other. I probably would have been pissed at Roman too back then. Good thing I had no idea what was happening behind my back! It's cold here as well but we do have radiators at home 😉 I wear t-shirts most of the year in our condo as its' really easy and quick to heat up the place. Roman moved to Canada for adventure and to find a job. It seems he succeeded as that was over 6 years ago. Peter hasn't been bored for a long time so mission accomplished!
Hallo Tommy and Peter.. I really enjoyed watching videoboth of you coming out. It turns out that even in European countries there are any people who are still not open minded. I live in Bali, Indonesia. Most people on here don't accept that their children are gay. I'm 46 years old, and until now I haven't come out yet.. I don't know how to tell my family about my sexual orientation. anyway I'm also an introvert, it seems that having a partner with fellow introverts must be very happy like both of you.. maybe you have friends who are single and look for an introverted partner, there is one person in Bali waiting for him... 🙂🙂🙂. sorry my english is not good.. have a nice day..
Hello, thank you 😊 We got lucky we found each other, it really is the best when we are two introverts. Sadly it can be tough anywhere in the world, even though in Europe it might seem better, it's not always. Sorry to hear about Bali, that it is not very accepted, it's a shame that people are close minded 🙁 Love is love! Hopefully it will get better for you one day ❤️
Hmm.... you may want to replace traditional dolls (Chucky) with G.I Joe ones. You can take his clothes off, I mean, change his clothes and lots of other stuff. ;-)
I just love you Two you make me laugh especially recommending being gay together bit. Your both beautiful great people. I love your attitude it doesn't matter . Good on you . It's must have been very difficult especially living in a country with such strict rules. Even in today's society it can be very difficult to be yourself. You still have to be careful of certain people and places. I hope I find a love like you both have. Maybe one day if I'm meant too. Been on my own (ie no partner all my life and in 63) my life has been taking care or my parents especially since mum dies 35 years ago and dad has been with me ever since and is nearly 93. A choice I made to care for him but I hope to possibly have some special some day. Love watching you both. ❤️🇦🇺🙏🏻
Thanks! Glad you enjoyed it. You're right, even nowadays we're still rather careful, you never know what might happen. Taking care of your dad for so long is very admirable. Not many people could do that. We do hope you meet someone special soon, you deserve it ❤️
@@tommyandpeter hello lads , I've watched your coming out videos ,and couple of others , house insulation ,garden ,congratulations on making a home together , I did it with my partner ,( he died aged 42 ) however we met when I was 21 and he 18 , coming out was tough for me because my father was a toxic man towards gays , my partner actually had come out aged 15 ,I learnt he was active involve D with older men from aged 12 , that scared me ! But We had 6 years together in our own apartment , sadly because I worked at my farm and long hours my partner played the scene whilst I worked , the relationship ended because of his infidelities , and left me broken hearted because I had sacrificed my integrity to be with him , He later died of Aids because if his life style , he should still be alive , God rest his soul ,
Thank you! We're proud of everything we've achieved together. Thanks for sharing your story. It's sad to hear it didn't end well. Sorry to hear about your ex-partner passing.
When You met Roman for the first time Tommy Did You imagine a Spitroast ? Lol sorry Guys I am only Joking I went to some challenging times been Outed while been a Corporal in the Military Policeman in the Irish Army ! Well keep up the good life in Your Country House ..
Can relate to the non verbal family, some families simply 🔇 ;) Would also recommend being gay living together as you do.. otherwise it kind of weird..🏳️🌈
So great to hear your story Tommy, especially from Roman’s perspective. ❤️😊
Thanks, Thomas! It was fun reminiscing with Roman and trying to remember all the details 😊
Thanks for sharing. Everyone's story is so different. 🌈
I'm lucky my story was one of the less dramatic ones 😊
I totally can relate to wanting to go along with the crowd and be "straight". Totally understand about feeling that who you sleep with is no one else's business and not telling family. Glad things for you worked out with minimal drama, because you would definitely HATE that. :) (all those people looking at you) You guys are so great together and seem so happy, your videos always make me smile.
Glad to hear that 😊 I'm very grateful for the lack of drama in my story 😁
Tommy, your brother Roman is a real charmer, and very handsome. I love the way the three of you are so comfortable with each other, almost like brothers by birth. It must be fun now that you have someone in your family close to your own age that you can hang with who accepts you and Peter and that you are a gay couple living together. You are both lucky guys.
Indeed! Roman is the same age as Peter and the three of us spent a lot of time together travelling around North America. We all get along really well 😊
Good story, with a good ending. Love it. I love watching you and Peter interact, I see there's real love there. Again a very interesting video. Thanks
Thank you, I'm glad you liked it! It was nice having Peter by my side helping me with the story 😊
Nice story, thanks for sharing. The band-aid approach is totally underrated (for most things). I'm impressed you knew and were 'ok' with it so early - saved yourself any struggle for self acceptance.
Thanks, glad you liked it! I love the band-aid approach, I'm a straight-to-the-point kinda guy 😊 I'm fortunate I didn't have to struggle with the fact that I'm gay - keeping it a secret for years was challenging enough.
Hello from Cleveland Ohio! Thank you for sharing your story! I think your channel is great.
Thanks, Val! That's great to hear 😊
I appreciate the honesty in your coming out story. “Oh no, I’m gay”… this statement broke my heart 💔.
That was the moment when I realized my life was gonna be more complicated than I originally thought 🙂
So interesting. I knew I was Gay but was determined to be "str8" but as you both know that is so hard on us psychologically. It's such a strong feeling and was too much for me. Now I accept myself as being Gay and really would have it no other way.😊💖💕
Nobody should feel that way, that being gay is something that needs to (or can) be changed. So glad you were able to accept yourself for who you are 🤗
Hey John, I agree. Being gay is as valid as being straight. When I first realised I was gay in my late teens I embraced it. I thought, well, if this is me, then it’s what I’ll be and I’ll enjoy it. I’ve been with my husband now for 20 years. We were made for each other. 😀
Great to hear Tommy's story and also nice to get Roman's perspective. I can also see the family resemblance. :)
Glad you enjoyed the story! I don't see the resemblance but it's good to hear 😃
This is beautiful and heartfelt awww Tommy and his brother roman who are both handsome lovely kind people thank you for sharing Tommy more power to you ❤️ ,coming out was so different for me here I was 22 at the time and being gay was still illegal in my country back then luckily the laws have changed now and we are fighting to make marriage equality happen here in india lots of love to you guys , your family and I'm sorry your dad feels this way big hugs 🤗
Thanks Dale! Glad you liked my story. Coming out in your country is way more difficult and must be a little dangerous to you so well done for managing to do it yourself! We're very happy the situation is improving in your country ❤️
Thanks for sharing. I love that you brought your brother into the story as well.
In your part of Europe, was being Gay something that got you killed? I grew up in Texas in the 80's where we were Gay bashed and many died. Was that a fear when you grew up or came out?
On a lighter note, it is reassuring to realize, given time, family do come around and accept us all. My Mom used to go down to a pay phone to call me and discuss my coming out so my Grandma would not hear her. Only she did not realize my Grandma told me I was Gay when I was 18 and my Mom was calling me when I was 29...Oops! Oh, well!
I love the story with your mom and grandma! Fortunately most family members come around after they have some time to think about it and realize that we're still the same. When I was a teenager, I wasn't really afraid of physical violence - something like that might have happened but very rarely. I was just afraid that my family and friends would hate me and I wanted to avoid possible conflicts and the drama.
Great story. I grew up in a small town too. I confided in a “good” friend who proceeded to tell all of my other friends. I moved to a big city far away from there and didn’t find out until years later. Haven’t seen her since but none of old high school friends have ever been hostile in fact I still remain friends with most of them.
Keep safe.❤️
That sucks when you confide in someone and they tell others behind your back. But then again it has its advantages when you don't have to tell people face to face and then wait for their reactions so maybe she helped you in the end 😊
"Fresh Meat!" - Every gay bar on the planet Lol Love you guys!
Haha, not surprising at all!
Tommy you had my sides splitting when you rendered yourself “fresh meat” in the melee of that 1990s gay club. You’ve a way with words. Can’t think why you don’t like attracting attention, because we’ve all seen what Peter also sees: that you’re incredibly handsome. That said, Roman ain’t bad either. 😉 Really enjoyed your coming out story. Despite the lack of drama, there was still plenty of meat in it!
Can also highly recommend being gay together with a gay partner. It’s life affirming. It’s truly wonderful. I sometimes find it difficult to find the words to describe the depth of my love for my husband. 😀
Keep those videos coming guys, your fans need entertaining in 2021. Cheers, from Stefan in Ireland. 😀
I miss being fresh meat! Can't really call myself fresh at 36 anymore. When I was growing up, I considered myself ugly so that probably contributed to me trying to avoid attention. I'm glad you liked my meat! Thank you for helping us spread gay agenda 😃
What a beautiful story! Parents often to get use of it but when they love you everything will be fine in the end...
Thank you 😊 Yeah, sometimes a bit of time is needed...
I enjoyed hearing your coming out story. One of the wonderful parts of being gay is that even though we grew up on different continents, thousands of miles away, there are common threads that we share and can identify with. I grew up in a small working class town in a western state (USA), but being different or standing out from the crowd didn't feel very safe. I too knew that I looked forward to the day that I could move away from this small town and go to a university and meet other people that were more like me. Thanks for sharing your story. Next I will watch Peter's coming out experience. Hugs from California.
Glad you enjoyed it! Indeed, your story sounds a lot like mine. I'm so glad I left my hometown and moved to Brno which helped open up in a lot of ways. I hope your move to a university also helped you and that you found what you were looking for 😊
Thanks for sharing your story Tommy. I am so happy you had basically a drama free coming out. I love that your brother is so loving and sweet to you. It is so apparent how much he loves you when he is speaking. One thing you said jogged my memory and that was you speaking about how it was at work. Interestingly, despite that I came out at around 15 or 16 years old, I didn't come out in a work setting till after 2009. Prior to 2009 I was living in The Woodlands, Texas and going to college. I met my husband Scott around 2008. He convinced me to move to his state of Louisiana which is next door to Texas. I remember that in Texas I was out to family and friends but not in the work or college world. So after I moved and we had been together for two years I decided one day to try. So when people would ask about my life instead of side stepping the conversation I would just tell them about Scott and my life but I would never actually say I am Gay. It felt so awkward and strange. People were nice to my face at least and I didn't have any problems. But it took me years from 2009 onward to become really comfortable. Today it doesn't bother me anymore to talk about my life and weirdly people seem to appreciate the frank way in which I speak about my life. So glad time has changed that people are this way and not like they were when I was born. It was a different world in 1979 lol! Lots of love from Louisiana! Thanks again for your story.
It's really good that the times are changing constantly in these things. It's never easy to start talking about yourself so well done that now you don't mind.
Dear Tommy, thank you so much for sharing with your brother. Dear Peter and Tommy, I really appreciate your videos, they are really nice, refreshing and so natural. Thank you that.Děkuji
Thank you for the kind words, Pierre. We enjoy reading your comments. Merci 😊
Thanks for sharing your story. I am older than you two so in my day I played the straight good boy with a girl friend up through high school. Mothers loved me because I was such a perfect gentleman with their daughter. Their daughters were pissed because I never made a move. LOL. I knew I was different from early on but didn't know it was "gay". I just liked being with boys. At some point I realized I didn't just want to be like them but that I wanted to be with them. I never "came out" to anyone till college to someone who had first come out to me. Never came out to my judgmental family. I think when I came out to close friends and their reaction was "Yeah, duh." It was disappointing I didn't get a bigger reaction. So I stopped "coming out." LOL.
Haha, I wish everyone's reaction would be "Yeah, duh" 😃 That would make it way easier and less stressful for everyone. I always got along with older women as well, even though I didn't date their daughters 😁 I'm glad I knew I was gay since I was 15 and didn't have to go through the girl dating phase, that must have been rather unpleasant at times!
Thanks for sharing your story. Also good to hear from Roman too. Everyone's story is different.
Thanks, you are right. Luckily this story ended up quite nice 🙂
Well done Tommy 👍 thanks for sharing this part of your life 💙 A's I was proud of Peter so I'm proud of you as well 💙 you are amazing and adorable and love you guys till next time be safe and healthy ♥️🤠
Thanks, Bob! Much appreciated 🤗
Wow, what a great story, thanks for sharing, being European, I can see how that older generation needs time to adjust and process. Had no idea that your brother lives in Calgary, Ingrid and I live in Victoria, BC, and before Covid we visited and stayed in Europe many times. We actually made a very good friend, who drove us from Salzburg to Prague, Marek Mik, his part time job, but he plays for a group called the Drain., his love and passion. Anyways I am going on, glad I discovered you guys, big hugs and keep up the great content.
Thanks, glad you enjoyed the story! We visited Victoria in 2017 with my brother and his girlfriend. Vancouver Island is gorgeous! We only spent a few days there but we loved it 😊
@@tommyandpeter Wow, what a small world, glad you enjoyed our neck of the woods, LOL, and we really had a fun stay in Prague too. Okay, get back to work, get that next video up and bring joy to the world :-) Hugs.
Well that WAS quite a bit different to Tommy’s coming out. I really enjoy watching you guys. You are like a well fitted custom-made glove on the hand. You just belong together!
You mean different to Peter’s coming out?
I'm quite glad it was different, I couldn't handle all the drama 😬 Thanks for the kind words, we're glad you like our videos 😊
Great video! Thanks for sharing! How fun to hear from/see your brother, too!
Thanks, glad you liked it! It was fun to involve Roman, he was the last family member who hadn't made an appearance 😁
I remember ICQ...lol. Thank you for sharing your story. Glad everything worked out and you have peace and love in your life.
ICQ, those were the good old times 😁 I'm very happy about how everything turned out ❤️
I loved hearing your story, Tommy! (My own has some similarities. :) ) And also thought it was so hilarious and great when you brought your brother in on Skype! :D
Thanks, Uldis! I imagine us non-conflict people share a similar story 😃 It was a lot of fun calling Roman and reminiscing together 😊
I think this is the longest that I’ve heard Tommy talk 🙂. It was cool hearing his story and also meeting his brother. Do Tommy have any other siblings? Even living in different countries, it appears Tommy & Roman have a good relationship. I’m wondering if you too traveled to Canada, b4 the pandemic, to visit Roman. Also, is Roman single or in a relationship?
Haha, it is my story so I figured I should probably tell it myself, at least for most part 😁 Both Peter and I have one sibling each so you've already seen all our family members. We've visited Roman 3 times so far and each time we did a road trip discovering many beautiful places in Canada and the US. Hopefully we'll be able to go back again one day. Roman has a girlfriend who also joined us on a couple of road trips.
@@tommyandpeter: Ahhh! Ok. Thanks Tommy! It’s cool to hear that you & Peter have been to the US.
I really enjoyed this video for the comunication and your brother seems really cool 👍✌️
It was a nice chat, Roman is great. Thanks 😉
Tommy, so proud of your video.
Thank you, Keith ❤️
So great to hear your story Tommy! Love your videos. Keep it up! 😍
Thanks guys! I'm happy to hear that 😊
I had a similar thing where at university a friend saw some shirtless pictures of male celebrities on my laptop. I wasn't ready or even accepted myself so I said I was bi-curious. I do wish I had been out at university, feel like I would have a good opportunity for me to explore and grow.
I guess I was lucky nobody ever confronted me face to face even after finding out so I didn't have to make up lies. Not sure how I'd get out of it, at that time I didn't even know that there were such options such as bi-curious 😃 It's never too late to explore and grow 😊
@@tommyandpeter I think that why it took me so long to accept it because it wasn't talked about. If someone had said there are such things as being gay and it's okay to be it then it would have really helped. Glad that the different relationships are now being taught in schools
Enjoyed the video and am glad that I got to hear both your stories of coming out. Am sure it is painful to do regardless of either parents response. Good that you had each other to rely on. Thoroughly enjoyed seeing and meeting Tommy's brother. There is a great resemblance to each other. It is also good that Tommy also had him to rely on. I did go back and watch Peter's coming out story again to refresh my memory. Had been looking forward to hearing Tommy's story and enjoyed it. Thank you both for sharing your experience. Wishing both of the much luck and happiness during 2021. The coming week is the start of the distribution of Covid vaccine for my age group. Already have my name down for an appointment to get the shot. It is being received with mixed feelings by many local people. Tony
We're glad you liked the video! I'm glad I had both Peter and Roman by my side to help me go through everything. Roman and I never really saw the resemblance, we feel like we look quite different from each other 😊 Good luck with the Covid vaccine! It should be our turn sometime in summer, we'll see which year.
Thanks for sharing your story with us Tommy :)
Thank you for watching, Dan 😊
Love you guys. For me, it is the best coming out video I have ever seen. So, keep going and I'm sure the suscribers will soon come.
Thanks a lot, Marc! We're really happy you liked it so much 😊
Hi guys you both are looking handsome me and my partner are super fans thank you for the update loved the video.
Thanks, Carlos! We love having super fans 😁
happy that things turned out ok for both of you.....stay safe
Thanks, Jerry, so are we 😉
Good story guys. One of the less painful ones. Happy New Year!
Thanks, Burt. I was rather fortunate. Happy New Year!
That's a huge different story that with Peter's parents. It took time for your dad to accept and understand, but at least he didn't want to hurt you or disown you at any point.
By the way, your brother is very handsome! Shame he's straight lol. I didn't see any resemblance, though. I don't mean that you're not handsome lol.
Indeed, our coming out stories couldn't be much more different! Fortunately there wasn't much drama in mine, not sure how I would have dealt with that.
I don't think Roman and I look alike either - Peter and Monika are definitely way more similar looking. Sorry that he's straight but at least he's in Canada with you 😄
Thank you for sharing.
Thanks for watching!
Another interesting video guys and Tommy your brother Roman is soooooooo darn good looking. Stay well........................Jack, Windsor, CT USA
Thanks, glad you enjoyed the video! People keep saying that about Roman for some reason 🤔
Good story Tommy. Your brother seems very cool.
I see you 2, you and Peter, only speaking english with each other, but what language do you usually speak to each other in, Czech? Is Czech much different than Slovak?
Hi Jeff. We speak to each other Czech/Slovak (our own mix, haha) - the languages are very similar, and people understand each other well. We just find it somehow embarrassing on video, so when we film, we speak only English 😀
If you'd like, you can watch our video about languages we speak, how it is with our English and so on. Also about our citizenships. You can find the video here: th-cam.com/video/LkrEqAfz8f4/w-d-xo.html
@@tommyandpeter is the difference between the 2 similiar to the difference between spanish/french/italian, or is it closer than the romance languages are?
It's closer, maybe it could even be like British vs American English 😉
I am sooo glad I found your channel right from the start. It's so great that I can follow you along week to week. TOO FUNNY..........."To summarize, I am gay". HA HA HA You are too much Tommy.
We're glad you found us as well 😁
HI Guys loved both your coming out video...
Thanks, we're glad to hear that.
You think meeting the parents is stressful, try meeting the ex-wife. Even though they had been divorced for 20 years but I had been told she could be violent. Loved hearing your both stories.
Haha, doesn't sound ideal with the violent ex-wife 😀 Glad you liked our stories.
Tommy, I played with dolls too. I had a few girlfriends too but I broke them off I was never really attracted to them. The first person I told was my friends then my sister; my dad was not thrilled at first but he got over so long story short my whole family knows now and we're all cool.
That's great to hear! We're happy it worked out for you 😊
@@tommyandpeter Thanks! Stay safe and blessed Tommy and Peter!!
HA HA HA "Secondary Character" Gentlemen........still LOVING both of your senses of humor. Was your country the former Czechoslovakia? If so, what year did that country break up? Sorry......horrible with history and geography. lol Tommy's brother seems like a good sport and of course very handsome. I would have been pissed if he told my mom about me being gay. UGH Too funny......the bother says he found Tommy's "Romantic" stash on the computer and Peter directly blurts out GAY PORN. OMG.......Peter you kill me. HA HA HA HA Why are you both wearing T Shirts in the dead of the winter? It's 25 degrees Fahrenheit in the Northeast US. Sorry, I don't know what that is in Celsius. May I ask why your brother moved to Canada? Girlfriend? Job? I hope you know how much I and all your loyal fans enjoy you both putting out your Vidoes every Thursday without fail. We know it's a lot of work but I hope it's keeping Peter busy. HA HA HA :)
Glad you found my coming out story funny 😃 We were both born in Czechoslovakia which split up in 1993. That's when we became foreigners to each other. I probably would have been pissed at Roman too back then. Good thing I had no idea what was happening behind my back! It's cold here as well but we do have radiators at home 😉 I wear t-shirts most of the year in our condo as its' really easy and quick to heat up the place. Roman moved to Canada for adventure and to find a job. It seems he succeeded as that was over 6 years ago. Peter hasn't been bored for a long time so mission accomplished!
@@tommyandpeter Thanks so much for responding to me Tommy. Have a great weekend.
@@MP-xf6gq You too!
Lovely storry!
Thank you 😊
Thank you for sharing your history :-)
Thank you for watching it 😊
tak konečně jsem zkoukla ;)....mám vás oba ráda :-)
Děkujeme, my tebe taky 💕
Tommy's style is fun lol
It makes things more memorable 😃
@@tommyandpeter very lol
Hallo Tommy and Peter.. I really enjoyed watching videoboth of you coming out. It turns out that even in European countries there are any people who are still not open minded. I live in Bali, Indonesia. Most people on here don't accept that their children are gay. I'm 46 years old, and until now I haven't come out yet.. I don't know how to tell my family about my sexual orientation. anyway I'm also an introvert, it seems that having a partner with fellow introverts must be very happy like both of you.. maybe you have friends who are single and look for an introverted partner, there is one person in Bali waiting for him... 🙂🙂🙂. sorry my english is not good.. have a nice day..
Hello, thank you 😊 We got lucky we found each other, it really is the best when we are two introverts.
Sadly it can be tough anywhere in the world, even though in Europe it might seem better, it's not always. Sorry to hear about Bali, that it is not very accepted, it's a shame that people are close minded 🙁 Love is love! Hopefully it will get better for you one day ❤️
you guys are very sweet.
Thank you ❤️
I'm gay but I was too scared of playing with dolls because of Child's play LMAO 😅. Chucky was scary LOL 😂
I didn’t know Chucky back then so I was all for dolls 😁
@@tommyandpeter Good. I still get triggered when I see real dolls LOL 😂
Hmm.... you may want to replace traditional dolls (Chucky) with G.I Joe ones. You can take his clothes off, I mean, change his clothes and lots of other stuff. ;-)
@@DragonLightz OMG 😂
I just love you Two you make me laugh especially recommending being gay together bit. Your both beautiful great people. I love your attitude it doesn't matter . Good on you . It's must have been very difficult especially living in a country with such strict rules. Even in today's society it can be very difficult to be yourself. You still have to be careful of certain people and places. I hope I find a love like you both have. Maybe one day if I'm meant too. Been on my own (ie no partner all my life and in 63) my life has been taking care or my parents especially since mum dies 35 years ago and dad has been with me ever since and is nearly 93. A choice I made to care for him but I hope to possibly have some special some day. Love watching you both. ❤️🇦🇺🙏🏻
Thanks! Glad you enjoyed it. You're right, even nowadays we're still rather careful, you never know what might happen. Taking care of your dad for so long is very admirable. Not many people could do that. We do hope you meet someone special soon, you deserve it ❤️
Finally found Your tubesite ,
Welcome 😉
@@tommyandpeter hello lads , I've watched your coming out videos ,and couple of others , house insulation ,garden ,congratulations on making a home together , I did it with my partner ,( he died aged 42 ) however we met when I was 21 and he 18 , coming out was tough for me because my father was a toxic man towards gays , my partner actually had come out aged 15 ,I learnt he was active involve
D with older men from aged 12 , that scared me ! But We had 6 years together in our own apartment , sadly because I worked at my farm and long hours my partner played the scene whilst I worked , the relationship ended because of his infidelities , and left me broken hearted because I had sacrificed my integrity to be with him , He later died of Aids because if his life style , he should still be alive , God rest his soul ,
Thank you! We're proud of everything we've achieved together.
Thanks for sharing your story. It's sad to hear it didn't end well. Sorry to hear about your ex-partner passing.
Do you guys ever have disagreements or arguments or is everything a bed of roses
Haha, we definitely do have arguments and disagreements, don't worry. We just don't film it because we argue in czech/slovak 😀
Roman the informer !!!
You’re so cute guys. Regards 🤗
Awww, thanks 😊
Beautiful guys. Xxxxxxxxxx
Thank you 😊
When You met Roman for the first time Tommy Did You imagine a Spitroast ? Lol sorry Guys I am only Joking I went to some challenging times been Outed while been a Corporal in the Military Policeman in the Irish Army ! Well keep up the good life in Your Country House ..
That must have been hard being outed in the army! Everyone should get a chance to come out on their own terms.
NICE :)
Thanks 😊
Can relate to the non verbal family, some families simply 🔇 ;)
Would also recommend being gay living together as you do.. otherwise it kind of weird..🏳️🌈
I can't really complain about my non-verbal family, saved me a lot of drama 😁
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