She Che@ted On Her Husband With Her Work Husband - OFF THE RECORD

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  • @TRENDCNTRL
    @TRENDCNTRL  หลายเดือนก่อน +22

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  • @CxmoFlarj
    @CxmoFlarj หลายเดือนก่อน +883

    What kind of interviewer is she? Asking the lady why she told her husband the truth & saying that she would’ve never …

    • @philly1076
      @philly1076 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      I agree, it’s not that straight forward. I know someone who confessed to cheating on their partner with 8men, the guilt was getting to them.

    • @youngodyssey16
      @youngodyssey16 หลายเดือนก่อน +75

      The interviewer dont have integrity , she slept with and had relationships with her friends men … so when she was so understanding about the lady getting on stage and turning single, it make sense now

    • @philly1076
      @philly1076 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@youngodyssey16really? 😂

    • @youngodyssey16
      @youngodyssey16 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@philly1076 yes lol

    • @tineshaalleyne7590
      @tineshaalleyne7590 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Those were my exact tats she sounds like someone who wouldn't have owend up to her actions

  • @lillustpotion
    @lillustpotion หลายเดือนก่อน +785

    Sorry the interviewer just isn’t it.I don’t know if it’s just her tone but she comes across as mad fake, kind of a mean girl and judgy. She doesn’t seem to have much life experience or have interacted with a wide variety of people.

    • @philly1076
      @philly1076 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      i agree

    • @darksiderumpunch
      @darksiderumpunch หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Perfectly said!

    • @px8778
      @px8778 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      It's like she's forcing this Conservative image. She should do the bbc news. She needs to be herself

    • @pearlmckay7123
      @pearlmckay7123 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      I agree especially when she asked the question at 36:31. She could have phrased it in a better way “what does co-parenting look like now after separating from your ex-husband” but NOPE she had to mention “infidelity”, making a mockery out of the situation 🙄🥴

    • @nk7925
      @nk7925 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So did Wendy Williams so …

  • @factstalkmedia8306
    @factstalkmedia8306 หลายเดือนก่อน +612

    Can we just cancel this interviewer since shes not fixing her faults 🥲🙄

    • @merianviegas8822
      @merianviegas8822 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      Not everyone needs to be cancelled 🙄 if u don't like her stop watching lol

    • @user-bz7vt6gm6o
      @user-bz7vt6gm6o หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@merianviegas8822 Thanks fir that positive comment

    • @dekev7503
      @dekev7503 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      No we can’t

    • @Tracyaudu
      @Tracyaudu หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      We’re not watching because of her we’re watching because of the person being interviewed

    • @qweenzee7188
      @qweenzee7188 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Tracyauduexactly. And the interviewer is an interviewer. She’s not a therapist 🙄

  • @stefanmurrell5857
    @stefanmurrell5857 หลายเดือนก่อน +158

    The lady being interviewed should be the interviewer 🫣 she is way more empathetic and articulate

    • @curlieeloks3032
      @curlieeloks3032 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yes ! Definitely don’t like the interviewer

    • @connecttadot5168
      @connecttadot5168 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Of course she’s empathetic to her own situation that’s a dumb comment

    • @stefanmurrell5857
      @stefanmurrell5857 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Empathy is putting yourself in someone else’s shoes emotionally so what made you think my comment is about her empathising with herself - that’s doesn’t even make sense. You cannot be empathetic to yourself and your saying my comment is dumb, you have a lack of comprehension skills….. I’m talking about in regards to her being able to put herself in her fathers shoes, her child’s shoes, her former husbands shoes irregardless of his abuse etc. That’s a skill no everyone has, the interviewer is cold and clinical. More of a interrogation than a conversation she’s lucky the other girl has empathy as was able to deep dive into how the situation made others feels vs just herself or this would have been one dry interview…..

    • @connecttadot5168
      @connecttadot5168 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@stefanmurrell5857 just because you took time to write a long a paragraph it doesn’t make it true why would it matter in this case the person being interviewed who did the wrong and looking for sympathy, if they had empathy for others come one that’s just a bunch of mumbo jumbo

  • @ViolaSamia
    @ViolaSamia หลายเดือนก่อน +544

    The lady being interviewed is so stunning 🤍

    • @CTembo
      @CTembo หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      A repugnant cheat

    • @j.samuel9646
      @j.samuel9646 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Too much paint on her face tho

    • @Shenyeng_
      @Shenyeng_ หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      ⁠@@j.samuel9646her makeup is subtle not even close to too much

    • @karlmax6031
      @karlmax6031 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Not for any of my 3 boys

    • @queenknyoki5447
      @queenknyoki5447 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I agree. She is stunning.

  • @SisiM-fu4xq
    @SisiM-fu4xq หลายเดือนก่อน +239

    Takes a lot of humility to be vulnerable. I wish healing for both parties

  • @lagrace353
    @lagrace353 หลายเดือนก่อน +560

    The lady conducting the interview seems to have no empathy.

    • @trevinoblack1
      @trevinoblack1 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      Clearly lacking in general interviewing skills, especially on a sensitive topic such as domestic abuse/ domestic violence. I get it, trend centrl is about vibes, but where’s the advice and information for viewers who might be experiencing DA/DV? Where’s the duty of care for others, could’ve at least signposted to services such as NIA, women’s aid etc. overall, interesting life story, terrible interviewer

    • @ietsdichterbijfer
      @ietsdichterbijfer หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      First comment i see, first thing i thought.

    • @CTembo
      @CTembo หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Empathy for a dirty fn cheat??

    • @simonlaw-dt3ye
      @simonlaw-dt3ye หลายเดือนก่อน

      She's a narcissist.
      Remember in the Tumelo interview she said “I’m an amazing person“ ot “it's giving part-time prostitution“ or when she said somewhere else she would date her friends ex and has done it before.

    • @wallacegreen6597
      @wallacegreen6597 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      She's not meant to have . Certainly not for a married woman who sleeps with next man and then wonders why her husband is annoyed about it

  • @cynthiasclosetplusasmr
    @cynthiasclosetplusasmr หลายเดือนก่อน +297

    I can just imagine the energy level in that interview. The energy from the interviewer seems so undeniably off. She doesn't seem genuine. Just what im picking up.

    • @Chinniglitz
      @Chinniglitz หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree

    • @freedom9330
      @freedom9330 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Because she don't know how to speak properly, that young lady who had gone viral taught her a lesson and yes she is very rude with attitude that make she guests feel uncomfortable

    • @gilberttakyi3265
      @gilberttakyi3265 หลายเดือนก่อน

      110% its all a numbers game

    • @truthhurts7045
      @truthhurts7045 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree she does not seem genuine at all

  • @LOVELYLONDONGURL
    @LOVELYLONDONGURL หลายเดือนก่อน +145

    Entertaining things like a “work wife” or “work husband” is essentially keeping the door ajar for infidelity down the road. It’s starts a slippery slope.

    • @fayegillespie8426
      @fayegillespie8426 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      I will never & have never fixed my mouth to call no man my “work husband”

    • @LOVELYLONDONGURL
      @LOVELYLONDONGURL หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@fayegillespie8426 yup.

    • @ugccdrum
      @ugccdrum หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@fayegillespie8426it's not a matter of you calling it's work husband or work wife but it's a matter of entertaining another person while in a relationship. That's what the issue comes because if you are married then there is no reason to entertain the opposite gender.

  • @berrysauwce3680
    @berrysauwce3680 หลายเดือนก่อน +220

    The interviewer can’t even pretend to have empathy for her. How is she speaking about her deceased father and her response is “mmm, mmm”

    • @subtitlesonplease
      @subtitlesonplease หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      It’s so strange. Her reaction to the violence and domestic abuse was so wooden and cold.

    • @priincebrvce7213
      @priincebrvce7213 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      She shouldn't have empathy for a cheater.

    • @SherryMoore-ij1qc
      @SherryMoore-ij1qc หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      why should she have empathy for her she cheated

    • @a.b5625
      @a.b5625 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Lol empathy is something you either have or do not have , it's relative not a default trait.

    • @oopsie8866
      @oopsie8866 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@SherryMoore-ij1qcno one should feel bad for a domestic abuser and a woman beater being cheated on. He deserved a lot worse than that for being a terrible spouse. You can’t behave like trash and expect your wife to remain loyal to you

  • @obibuaku
    @obibuaku หลายเดือนก่อน +129

    The interviewer is weird. Ugandan Sis was baring her soul and the interview is staring at her like she is more interested in watching paint dry. No wonder that other girl (Think its Tomello or something) dragged her to hell

  • @DrJessicaKatanga
    @DrJessicaKatanga หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    There’s actually A LOT to learn from this interview- thank you sis for sharing your story ❤

    • @rayanbe84
      @rayanbe84 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah, never trust a women talking about men's control....

    • @lindaa6527
      @lindaa6527 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @DrJessicaKatanga, there really is!🙂 And she is honestly brave for having this conversation openly for others to learn from her mistakes. I would have taken it to my grave.🤣

  • @emmangtherapper
    @emmangtherapper หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    For me personally I want to first commend this woman for her bravery and courage to do this interview despite the interviewers lack of empathy and compassion but this also is a eye opener for men who are in ministry and are young and want to get married about the things that’s could cause your wife to cheat this is very powerful ❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
    ✨Cheating isn’t allowed but domestic violence is also a no I just think if the man knew he couldn’t handle it he should’ve just left the marriage you know but easier said than done

    • @alanayu
      @alanayu หลายเดือนก่อน

      Really? Easier to beat your wife than to leave her .. interesting

    • @khoshalpashtoonmal1845
      @khoshalpashtoonmal1845 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why is it commendable to come out and be open about ur sins? This hoe has exposed herself now she Gona be a single mom till she die

  • @BadGirlMimi94
    @BadGirlMimi94 หลายเดือนก่อน +383

    Has she brushed up on her interview skills so she doesn't get dragged by her nostrils again 😂

    • @blackmuzunguu4525
      @blackmuzunguu4525 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      😂😂😂😂 that was an epic interview

    • @Laura-sg6ss
      @Laura-sg6ss หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      😂😂😂

    • @cu1728
      @cu1728 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      And the answer is: no, she hasn’t!

    • @kenaugustin396
      @kenaugustin396 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      wtf😂😂😂

    • @deborah4941
      @deborah4941 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I think this was a good interview 👌🏿

  • @cristnas143
    @cristnas143 หลายเดือนก่อน +99

    She hasn’t learned at all. Now, it makes sense why that Tumelo interview went the way it did. 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @sethsmith8531
      @sethsmith8531 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I really wanted to bring this up😂😂😂. That Tumelo show was something else. At least Tumelo was bold enough to go toe-to-toe with her. That was an awkward interview.😅

    • @saiyansaba
      @saiyansaba 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      shes terrible 😂

  • @SherryMoore-ij1qc
    @SherryMoore-ij1qc หลายเดือนก่อน +235

    I am starting to see what men say. When a woman cheats its the man's fault and if a man cheats its the mans fault .We as women never take accountability

    • @michealsafo9732
      @michealsafo9732 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Right??? It's so crazy the narrative she's trying to push

    • @br0broe436
      @br0broe436 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But it’s true though! If a woman cheats it’s definitely the man’s fault and if a man cheats it’s his fault

    • @alicerp2008
      @alicerp2008 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I was looking for this comment

    • @RETROESKIMO3ATC
      @RETROESKIMO3ATC หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      I thought this she cheated but then does some mental gymnastics to take butter up her actions is crazy

    • @loycenagawa8638
      @loycenagawa8638 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@alicerp2008THANK YOOOOOOOU 🔥🔥🔥 spot on

  • @louiseaori
    @louiseaori หลายเดือนก่อน +167

    I love her honesty and standing in her truth

    • @SupremeCyril
      @SupremeCyril หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yasss gurllll💁🏻‍♀️
      If it was a nigga I’m sure u wont be saying “I love his honesty and standing on his truth” gurlllll🙄

    • @youngodyssey16
      @youngodyssey16 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Im going to start using that phrase.. i see alot of women say that when a women destroys their relationship or be a ho … when men cheat on their wife and instead of communicating what they wabt and need in a relationship , just cheat, im going to say i love his honesty and stand in his truth ..

    • @louiseaori
      @louiseaori หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yeah, rightfully so. I do not applaud it, but she learned from it.

    • @ChrisCollins-oj2fx
      @ChrisCollins-oj2fx หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@louiseaori well she can live her truth. How do u find this inspiring.

  • @DaintyAbby
    @DaintyAbby หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    Why is the interviewer rude?????

    • @xSalamz
      @xSalamz หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      She cheated on her husband. Do you want the interviewer to big her up or something?

    • @user-pb9ch2im1v
      @user-pb9ch2im1v หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      I think the interviewer should have had a neutral standpoint. This allows the lady to be more free, comfortable, and honest. Not to be judgemental or personal, However, i think the lady handled it well.

    • @iffysd9864
      @iffysd9864 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Maybe interviewing a cheater won't bring out her friendly side

    • @lillustpotion
      @lillustpotion หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@iffysd9864she already said if she cheated she would lie to her husband. She’s no saint either.

    • @khoshalpashtoonmal1845
      @khoshalpashtoonmal1845 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ultimately this interview has no need at all. It’s showing it’s ok to cheat and come out about it like it’s nothing. Girls are advocates to infidelity but to put the notion on a platform is spreading more toxicity

  • @RebeccaImbs-vr8yq
    @RebeccaImbs-vr8yq หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    If you don't know the value of loyalty, you'll never understand the damage of betrayal 💯

  • @kity5787
    @kity5787 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Why is everyone complaining about the interviewer, I don’t see anything… she’s just asking questions and being direct

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust หลายเดือนก่อน +178

    Next subject should be how Black People have helped each other in the workplace especially know how challenging it can be getting the job and maintained it with all the workplace politics

    • @cognacszn7789
      @cognacszn7789 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Beautiful topic

    • @aj-cf9xr
      @aj-cf9xr หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      My worst bosses have been black 😂

    • @louiseaori
      @louiseaori หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That would be a good topic 😊

    • @er.8109
      @er.8109 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      nobody asked for that, we want the mess we want to be entertained 🤨

    • @mateo5600
      @mateo5600 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Start your own TH-cam and talk about it

  • @strongagain9916
    @strongagain9916 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Loved this interview, she was so open and honest it’s refreshing! Host could have been friendlier though

  • @halihali5577
    @halihali5577 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    She needs to find a different job interviewer has really issues with herself her attitude is a no no 😊

  • @renemae8601
    @renemae8601 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    Side note. Body is TEAAAA 😍

  • @itsestheerr
    @itsestheerr หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    Mide please learn how to show empathy. Even if you don’t agree with someone’s life choice. This is your job. You chose to enter a field where you’d be exposed to things that don’t align with your morals. But hey that’s life. So please reflect on how you could conduct an interview more better.

    • @CTembo
      @CTembo หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Why show empathy for a dirty cheat? I’m confused?

    • @speedy.gonzahles
      @speedy.gonzahles หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Show empathy to a cheat?? That's why people don't take accountability for their actions cos people like you show empathy which tells them that what they did is not so bad.

    • @leonkilbury3754
      @leonkilbury3754 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@speedy.gonzahlesExactly

  • @CeeCee962
    @CeeCee962 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    Wheeew no offence to the interviewer but maybe do some introspection about the energy given off because the snarkiness is really… off putting. It feels like you bring flawed people on just to belittle and judge them in order to feel superior. I know criticism is hard to hear so I hope this is received in good faith and not as an attempt to be malicious.
    Also glad this woman decided to tell the truth, do not hide affairs, your partners deserve better and God requires confession, repentance and accountability in order to absolve you of your sin. All truth IS good truth because it’s God who requires the truth before anyone else. Anyone who tells you otherwise is leading you away from Him and that’s a dangerous path.

  • @kewongcohen9845
    @kewongcohen9845 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    What ppl don’t talk about is the way they both felt is actually normal in a marriage especially when the children come along. If you haven’t lived with someone before it’s difficult adjusting to someone being in ur space and having to manage each other’s emotions on a daily basis. All they had to do was stick it out and talk through everything

  • @BBJ21441
    @BBJ21441 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    Cheating is an active decision. If you love God you’d fear to hurt him by disobeying his commandments towards adultery. However, the bible also says husbands should cherish and love their wives. He neglected her and created an environment for her to feel the need to even crave someone else’s love and affection. The real question is - was there a conversation between the two to understand where the marriage was going wrong/communication ? I do think the interviewer would excel if she demonstrated more empathy and really dug deep into marriage,love and infidelity. Asking her questions and then also simultaneously judging her through tone of voice, body language was really off putting.
    Domestic abuse was also going on which is a valid reason for divorce and separation under Gods eyes. She went through a lot and growing up in an Ugandan community probably meant she was fed negative and sexist ideologies that a woman shouldn’t leave if she’s abused.. I really do feel sorry for her and I think this interview did a massive disservice to this lady. This interview just felt pointless.
    “Take your time” instead of giving comforting her was kind of disgusting to watch. Domestic abuse turned into domestic violence ☹️.

    • @jeremiebazeyi1734
      @jeremiebazeyi1734 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      zx

    • @coolrunnings1936
      @coolrunnings1936 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      There's no excuse! Women like his have no sense of duty, because all I'm hearing is 'me, me, me, me' what about breaking up her home, her child not growing up with her father in her household?? There was no abuse from her ex-husband she just wanted attention and gave into her lust... but still claiming she's a woman of God! 😂

    • @jamese5936
      @jamese5936 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      SMH, always an excuse. There is no excuse to cheat. Its incredibly disgusting that you would bring the Lords name into this. She could've done the Godly thing and tell the truth, leave him before cheating and pursue the "work husband". Anything other than that is filth.

    • @BBJ21441
      @BBJ21441 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jamese5936 how is it disgusting? Please explain! If you’re a Christian how is referring to his teachings a bad thing? If she’s not Christian or religious I’d understand why it may be problematic. But this is my understanding and opinion.

    • @BBJ21441
      @BBJ21441 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jamese5936 and I never excused her cheating!

  • @michealsafo9732
    @michealsafo9732 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    And the fact that she said she would never tell her husband she cheated like??? What in the hell are you tryna say?? I wanna show her grace but I've watched several interviews right from the girl from Omah lay concert, the girl she last interviewed before this. It's just terrible. But the lady did well to speak her truth. Owned her wrongdoing and she will be able to grow from there

  • @staceyjones1000
    @staceyjones1000 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    When she said leg work I just knew he was a Nigerian😂

  • @Markdizzledazzle100
    @Markdizzledazzle100 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    The lady being interviewed, Lois, is BEAUTIFUL❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @FF-vz7wg
    @FF-vz7wg หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    So vulnerable and so honest. Thanks for sharing. Wishing all parties healing and blessings❤

  • @PettyPebbles38
    @PettyPebbles38 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I remember hearing about this happening at our church and she received a lot of judgment. I’m happy she was able to share her story.

  • @_.whoischandler
    @_.whoischandler หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    What i notice is that when these women cheat with the fun guy, 9 times out of 10 they want to be with him, but he doesn't want to be with her. i think that when women say they weren't getting at home they really are, but they block it out because it ruins their fantasy of this other person, that's what give it a rush.

  • @er.8109
    @er.8109 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    The interviewer is so bad that's why this show is so good idc idc 😂😂😂

    • @BigGTheBusiness
      @BigGTheBusiness หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly!😂

    • @MegaLadylove2012
      @MegaLadylove2012 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      It’s like African and Careibean restaurants? The customer service is so bad but the food is good 😅

    • @betelehemmulugeta3573
      @betelehemmulugeta3573 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@MegaLadylove2012exactly 😂😂😂 u described it perfectly.

  • @br0broe436
    @br0broe436 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    So nobody has Shame anymore? I’m sick of these negative topics in the black community. We need positive topics on relationships, marriage and careers

    • @laxi8305
      @laxi8305 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      You clearly haven't watched this video if the first thing you think about is having shame

    • @CTembo
      @CTembo หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@laxi8305 so you don’t think people should feel shame/be shamed for cheating? Problem with cheating is it destroys people. There is a real possibility that that man will go through life never trusting a woman, and worse, tormenting good women for what she did to him.

    • @Kumari_44
      @Kumari_44 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@CTembothats not even the worse. Some men will even self delete over it.

    • @LutherMahoney
      @LutherMahoney หลายเดือนก่อน

      Black people and especially Black women, love dysfunction. It's why BW in the comments 5 defending another BW making bad choices.

    • @greatergodage5219
      @greatergodage5219 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@laxi8305 The major reason why the Japanese nation is as strong as it is economically and socially - one of the safest countries to live in, one of the greatest economies with not too a big a population - is that an individual understands that family is supreme and that nothing should be done to bring shame to the family. In black nations like Nigeria, South Africa, Jamaica, etc and places like the UK, the US, etc where black people are becoming an integral part of the society, we have lost shame and accountability, We have started to normalize certain behaviors and our communities are breaking down. This woman was part of a church, she had people who elevated her, people who emulated her, she had her Ugandan community, her parents and siblings. I don't know a society that doesn't look at this and say she didn't bring shame to them. I don't know a parent that would look at this and don't feel let down. And she did it with a man who was also in a relationship

  • @Williams19275
    @Williams19275 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    By being so vulnerable online regarding her journey, how does this affect her work, and being in education, I know that you are told to be careful about what you post online once it's on the Internet its permanent. I commend her honesty and being raw and open about her journey. I wish only the best for her going forward.❤

  • @hassangoodman2054
    @hassangoodman2054 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The interviewer actually asked the right questions thus far. She's getting everything from her actual thoughts. Even the part that everyone hates in the comments on "why did you tell him" 95% wouldn't even had told they own spouse but quick to discredit someone for being open about how they handle something know if they ever got in those shoes then they would change their thought process

  • @joshuaokoli4236
    @joshuaokoli4236 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Thanks for being so open with your story

  • @Jayxxxxxxxcc
    @Jayxxxxxxxcc หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Mide is a great interviewer who asks the right and difficult questions. Those who know her can tell she's very sympathetic but she tried her best to keep her cool for professional reasons

  • @thelovelylucinda
    @thelovelylucinda หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    Whats up with the interviewer!?

    • @Babanla420
      @Babanla420 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yeah. She seems like a piece of work herself

    • @jow8480
      @jow8480 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Interview title should be a cheater interviewing another cheater 😂

  • @juniorlion6752
    @juniorlion6752 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I don’t like the interviewer but this guest is incredible thanks for sharing your story ❤

  • @dejidraws2734
    @dejidraws2734 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    She’s playing the victim like mad, get off the interviewers back you nerd, expecting her to just have all the empathy in the world for a cheater

    • @MrChelseafc2010
      @MrChelseafc2010 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Bro!!! It's f**King mad!
      They're actually expecting her to have sympathy, ffs 🙈

    • @alicerp2008
      @alicerp2008 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      After watching the whole thing... I think she's accepted that's she's not the victim of the cheating.

  • @PacmanTv
    @PacmanTv หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Loyce is beautiful

  • @MsxWeTTHolLY2307
    @MsxWeTTHolLY2307 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    You admitted? Why? Is wild 😂😂😂😂

  • @wallacegreen6597
    @wallacegreen6597 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    This is how you know cheating sucks and is painful for both parties with no good outcome. You can tell she's hurting knowing what she has done has not only caused her marriage and family to break down but she gets stigmatised errrday by it and it hurts her. Let alone knowing how much pain she caused her husband and child. In a nutshell she's hurt herself by her own actions cheating on her husband.
    Any new guy that goes there knowing this woman is capable of stepping out easily is asking for unnecessary trouble. She had no respect for herself her husband or her child or marriage values or youth pastor duties. She Wrecked her relationship and marriage for what exactly?! It's mad yo. Hats off for being honest and speaking about it tho. The pain still sits deep inside her

  • @Thebaddiespodcast
    @Thebaddiespodcast หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I like this is woman from backchat London s6 and I can’t be a hypocrite but this isn’t a flex I hope she is doing this for closure, healing , self awareness and real-ness. I hope she’s learned and gone through what God was teaching her in the suffering 💛 sending you healing sis.

  • @christabella2185
    @christabella2185 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    We see why tumelo dragged her😂😂

  • @ugccdrum
    @ugccdrum หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    A self respecting men will never accept infedelity from a woman. If he says yes then he just want get a piece and dip

  • @tamiaocean
    @tamiaocean หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    They cut out so much of this

  • @freemind5454
    @freemind5454 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I liked the interviewer most ppl hate the truth,the reason society failed nowadays coz of lack of accountability,ppl looking for sympathy then continue the same mistakes over and over.

  • @Tracyaudu
    @Tracyaudu หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Worst interviewer ever!! Her facial expressions are SCARY!!!

  • @rosemaryobanobi6638
    @rosemaryobanobi6638 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Such a beautiful woman ❤ Loyce provides an example of self reflection and vulnerability that I pray to reach one day as a woman. Great interview !

    • @karlmax6031
      @karlmax6031 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She's calculating rather.

  • @ToxProductionz
    @ToxProductionz หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    This interview is so wild solely because Loyce is so articulate, smart and seems really nice (despite the situation), but Mide seems cold and uneducated. Complete opposites

    • @helgapataki4156
      @helgapataki4156 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, very cold. Idk if it's triggering for her to hear what the young lady is saying, but she's ice.

  • @teetee6456
    @teetee6456 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I can appreciate the transparency and the honesty

  • @CxmoFlarj
    @CxmoFlarj หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    First of all, you have or had an actual husband… there’s no such thing as a “work husband”. All these silly titles and narratives being pushed forward are ridiculous

    • @mknmkn4135
      @mknmkn4135 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      🤦‍♂🤦‍♂

  • @loveniiveda.2543
    @loveniiveda.2543 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    The interviewer is not obliged to feel empathy. She remained neutral so what’s the problem here? 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @ChrisCollins-oj2fx
      @ChrisCollins-oj2fx หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you. Its mainly women asking to be sheltered in this comments.

    • @loveniiveda.2543
      @loveniiveda.2543 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ChrisCollins-oj2fx exactly if this was a man saying this about having a work wife and cheating on his wife, women would be expecting her as the interviewer to read h to filth.. keep the same energy regardless of gender. Ain’t nobody cuddling feelings. Nope.

  • @growwhatyoueatandeatwhatyo3099
    @growwhatyoueatandeatwhatyo3099 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks for this great interview...🙏🙏🙏 I learn ALOT ❤❤❤❤

  • @suziesmith9076
    @suziesmith9076 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I don’t think this interviewer is bad she’s just using a presenter persona instead of interview. For example how you’ll introduce love island is not the same as an 1-2-1 interview.
    You lot be easy on her she defo has potential to be great. Zeze millz wasn’t better than her when she started

    • @cu1728
      @cu1728 หลายเดือนก่อน

      From what I see, Zeze is still erratic, polarising and somewhat unlikeable by quite a few even now though😅

    • @suziesmith9076
      @suziesmith9076 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cu1728 the point wasn’t to bash zeze but to say this lady is good. She will grow better the more she puts herself out there. You lot want perfection from the jump

  • @dmystro7585
    @dmystro7585 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I’m confused about what the issue with the interviewer is…are y’all that soft??

    • @merianviegas8822
      @merianviegas8822 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thats what I'm saying lol people are too sensitive 😂

  • @maritawanazw
    @maritawanazw หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    She does give off that mean girl vibe especially since she's wearing pink😂. But her eyes do seem empathetic towards the interviewee's situation especially when she talks about the DV.

    • @lillustpotion
      @lillustpotion หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Nah how did the lady say she was going to attempt on her life and she’s “omg that’s so deep” PARDON ME?!! 😭😭😭😢

  • @waveybaby8939
    @waveybaby8939 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Lol why’s this interview so fast. It’s like it’s been sped up

  • @_Frans01
    @_Frans01 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Hold this woman accountable for her actions

    • @JayWilliams-fq3gm
      @JayWilliams-fq3gm 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      She has literally literally held herself accountable

    • @marcusblack8768
      @marcusblack8768 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@JayWilliams-fq3gmNo she did not try to put it on him because real

    • @deerodriguez8992
      @deerodriguez8992 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She is not holding herself accountable if she thought she would cheat and the marriage not change she is dumb

  • @speedy.gonzahles
    @speedy.gonzahles หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I don't understand why y'all are coming for the interviewer, she asked the hard hitting questions instead of soft ball questions. She did nothing wrong in my opinion.

    • @freemind5454
      @freemind5454 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Ur right ,I thought I’m the only one thinking the interviewer asked good questions.nowadays ppl looking for sympathy instead of accountability then continue the same mistake over and over.

    • @iffysd9864
      @iffysd9864 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Because they are also cheaters

    • @seanjohnbig2664
      @seanjohnbig2664 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She asked good questions but lacks emotional intelligence

  • @stf648
    @stf648 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    He was the first for everything. Including the first person to cheat on 😂😂😂

    • @MK-qb3rl
      @MK-qb3rl หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not funny

    • @stf648
      @stf648 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Shes funny, you have to be a whole walking joke to say that seriously!

    • @Robhimsis
      @Robhimsis หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ok..

  • @michaelaliseberhard7677
    @michaelaliseberhard7677 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for sharing loise ❤

  • @cut-throat1147
    @cut-throat1147 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love the guest, what a beautiful woman! 😍 She seems humble, honest and genuine.

  • @EISSO180
    @EISSO180 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    cheating is wrong in a marriage 100%. Not condoning it at all but to then be violently abused for four months continuously is very cold. Anger can kill, we all need to learn how to use words.

    • @chi3812
      @chi3812 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Nobody cares

    • @karlmax6031
      @karlmax6031 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The moment you went "but" that was it for me.

    • @gamzilo
      @gamzilo หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trash

  • @imatyourwifehouse
    @imatyourwifehouse หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    So the cheats are suddenly the victims; I don't care what you're suffering through; you either talk about it or break up; the solution was not to connect with another person; the sheer audacity, you took a commitment; this generation is full of selfish individuals. The interviewer is for the streets; what kind of counsel is that? If any young women are watching this, please do not follow the advice of any of these people; instead, learn from their mistakes.

    • @chi3812
      @chi3812 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your too logical bro. These dumb hoes lack comprehension

  • @966minda
    @966minda หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I feel like everyone here are saint and never have made mistakes. Leave that girl alone, it’s clear she regrets doing it.

  • @greatergodage5219
    @greatergodage5219 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    She was "married at the tender age of 22." She had to qualify that it to make the woman who cheated less responsible. If At 22 you don't know that wrong is wrong, and that you pay a price for certain decisions, then you should see a psychiatrist.
    All through the interviews I have watched on this channel, this interviewer is always minimizing issues, making people appear stupid for being honest and straightforward, like telling this woman who said she confessed to the husband that she wouldn't have done it. Who cares about what you think? The interview is about the woman who cheated and had nothing to do with you. I have read commenters call her fake and I have come to agree with that.

  • @michaelmcfr
    @michaelmcfr หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    32:52 She knew damn well she couldn’t complain to her AFRICAN dad about no domestic violence that had no physical violence and was just him yelling or using the bathroom for 30 mins after work all day STAAAAWP THE BS

  • @papzofficial6933
    @papzofficial6933 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Why is everyone mad the interviewer ? She is asking direct questions that needs to be answered that no one else would dare to ask. I liked this interview

    • @KBJonesTheOriginal
      @KBJonesTheOriginal หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Because they feel that women should be 'cuddled' and it also shows that they have never been pressed with this honest type of questioning!

    • @spade401
      @spade401 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Women mad at the interviewer but aint said a word about the women who actually cheated..this world is crazy

  • @yp2654
    @yp2654 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Really enjoyed this. Thank you for sharing your experience. I wish you, your ex and the little one all the best and I hope yous all heal and have peace.

  • @ckk9329
    @ckk9329 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Loved this interview

  • @misst7923
    @misst7923 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I think this was a good interview dunno why peoole are angry at the interviewer, i didnt watch her first interview so i'm looking at it from a non biased view. She asked all the right questions & imo if we compare her to when zeze first started, shes waaay better. Zeze was always stuttering & you could see her thinking on the spot for questions to ask.
    In terms of loyce i genuinely dont know what to make of her & i really hate to say this but i question if everything she says is true. In the first podcast she did she put emphasis on the fact that her husband had let himself go and she was no longer attracted to him but there was no mention of that here apart from the church bit.

  • @elijahcharles9951
    @elijahcharles9951 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Respect you for your honesty beloved...

  • @TruthSlays
    @TruthSlays หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Always the man's fault ain't it... My HUSBAND wasn't doing enuff, the work husband was doing too much... accountability is these women's kryptonite... smdh...

    • @inthahous87
      @inthahous87 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I'm telling you it's absolutely nonsense

    • @chi3812
      @chi3812 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Especially black Women. Thats why they are the least married and most divorced race of Women for a reason

  • @amandaclarissa6053
    @amandaclarissa6053 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Interviewer: I give you your flowers for leading on these conversations🎉 Some constructive feedback; Please lean into the interviewees vulnerability, your tone, posture and body language can be vastly improved. You have the ability to sit with the greats study them plz 🙏🏾

    • @Laaaa-l2m
      @Laaaa-l2m 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This

  • @brendanyamichaba1100
    @brendanyamichaba1100 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Please, let's re-do this interview with a different interviewer. She is so beautiful, and her story is incredibly relatable to many women, especially those who marry young. Kudos to her for gracefully answering and sharing her side of the story despite the unsympathetic and odd follow-up questions. She deserves to be on a podcast that will do her justice. This interview just isn't it.

    • @bridget3163
      @bridget3163 หลายเดือนก่อน

      IMO (in my opinion) podcast has two ep up with her!

  • @shaeakins2670
    @shaeakins2670 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Let me guess, it's the man's fault?

    • @inthahous87
      @inthahous87 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It always is

    • @zeala1
      @zeala1 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You obviously didn’t watch the interview. She took full responsibility.

  • @suziesmith9076
    @suziesmith9076 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I wonder what her daughter will think when she watches this back in 10/20 years.
    I also wonder what her ex husband who was defo imperfect but loyal.

  • @nompumelolo
    @nompumelolo หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Ngl i love how this interview is conducted. If a man sat and excused his cheating like this, there would be outrage but bc its a woman??????

  • @MrNigeriaboy
    @MrNigeriaboy หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Interviewer asked why she was honest 😂😂. This why I NEVER trust these terrorists. Always remember there's 3 sides to a story.

  • @user-cz1qp5eh9o
    @user-cz1qp5eh9o หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I can’t lie, as wrong as what she did, she has a high level of accountability, which can be respected on the basis that she isn’t a bad person but just found herself making a foolish mistake…
    Hats off to her, because 95% of women have no accountability in these things!!

    • @CTembo
      @CTembo หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She showed no accountability. She’s manipulative.
      She just wasted you and my 40mins diplomatically explaining she got bored in her marriage, was seeing all her girlies on social media in their 304 phase and she wanted on
      Women will scuttle a marriage and entire family because they got bored which will never be a good enough reason to stray out or end a marriage

  • @dre9813
    @dre9813 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The lady being interviewed is beautiful. Just the way she conducts herself and her honesty.

  • @15heartz
    @15heartz หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    Always remember the guy's side is the truth. I learned that the hard way

    • @shedparker
      @shedparker หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      🎯🎯🎯🫡

    • @tamiaocean
      @tamiaocean หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Depends on the guy

    • @brandonwhitner4104
      @brandonwhitner4104 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@tamiaocean not really.

    • @pearlmckay7123
      @pearlmckay7123 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Abeg that’s not always true 😭

    • @subtitlesonplease
      @subtitlesonplease หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      The truth isn’t dictated by gender. That may have been your core experience but it just doesn’t apply to all scenarios 🙃

  • @wk8724
    @wk8724 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Modern relationships won't last without old school values as people are easily distracted and have no real values ,longterm is an idea of the past

  • @wallyhyppolite7002
    @wallyhyppolite7002 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It's good that you tell all the guys that you cheated on your husband, but they will never trust you enough to marry you. ut they will get a piece and move on.

  • @joeyblakx9699
    @joeyblakx9699 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love the honesty

  • @letspray4778
    @letspray4778 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    To make the matter worse is that, shes a youth pastor. Damn! Jesus come end this world!

    • @inthahous87
      @inthahous87 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lead the youth

    • @nelsona3468
      @nelsona3468 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That means nothing - a lot of young people in churches are walking contradictions

    • @karlmax6031
      @karlmax6031 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They're worse, trust me.

    • @noirbeautyafrica.
      @noirbeautyafrica. หลายเดือนก่อน

      She’s a human being. Lower your expectations with Pastors if you want to enjoy your Christianity my dear 🙏🏽

    • @karlmax6031
      @karlmax6031 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@noirbeautyafrica. This is why Christianity is in a state.

  • @MsEast8
    @MsEast8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    First time watching the show. Great interviewee, she was so articulate and I fully understood her journey, in this interview. I'm glad she survived her marriage, mentally and physically.

  • @youthmatterswithmr.o9310
    @youthmatterswithmr.o9310 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I see all the comments bashing the interviewers tone, however if it was a man she was interviewing many of the ladies commenting wouldn't be saying the same thing. Men and women are treated with a different yardstick. Cheating is cheating period.

  • @isholajoshua5446
    @isholajoshua5446 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Emotions is worst foundation for a marriage... For a principled man he can control his emotions for the greater good but for women.. Most can't they'll almost always yeild to emotions and that union will not work... Do your best to find one not ruled by emotions and you'd have found a rare gem

  • @Sew-Ronica
    @Sew-Ronica หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I only watched because the interviewer doesn't seem fake nor insecure. Rare to see.❤

  • @misslouise9778
    @misslouise9778 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Really enjoyed the interview.

  • @chrisavadu4984
    @chrisavadu4984 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    See the power of legwork! 🤣

  • @AndreCHatchett
    @AndreCHatchett หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    The chest tattoo told it all

    • @inthahous87
      @inthahous87 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Eve Ruff Ryders

    • @chi3812
      @chi3812 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Big man ting

  • @SherryMoore-ij1qc
    @SherryMoore-ij1qc หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    So after watching this it was her husband fault that made her cheat .I am seeing its never a woman's fault when we cheat its always the mans fault

    • @user-uy7yz2cf3l
      @user-uy7yz2cf3l หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly my thought, and I have been looking for this comment. If a partner is not content with the marriage or relationship, just leave or divorce rather than saying the man/woman made you to do it because you weren't getting all the attention. Do you know what your partner is going through in their own life, work, family stress, new child in, bills/debts etc and have to keep up with their own life. Just divorce or leave rather cheat and blame someone else.

    • @chi3812
      @chi3812 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Its never the woman fault love. Always our fault. Even if we worship the ground you walk on and give you the world, if you cheat, its our fault. Its why men are not interested in dating anymore.