A guy that is so persistent even though he knows you're in a relationship is a big red flag. There's a difference between interest and not taking "no" for an answer🧐
@Angela Ross I think everyone has one or two experiences they could've lived without having (not saying this to discredit but to let you know you're not alone💙). I'm glad you are safe and still moving forward. 🌹
Narcissists can't handle "no" it's a great test of someone's cool; smile and say no without an excuse. If they say it's alright you've got a keeper. If they freak out at you, that's a huge red flag !!
Yeah, that part gave me the creeps the most. I’ve crushed on so many women in my life (often one-sided), but if she’s not interested or taken, I dial it back. If you truly admire someone, you put their feelings first, not yours.
As a scuba diver, this was really "woah". I have no words to describe it. Anyway, I definitely believe Gabe is GUILTY. Firstly, as a "rescue diver", he would have learned how to "avoid" these 3 (THREE) dangerous situations. FIRSTLY, Tina's heart condition would require for her to get a medical certificate from a doctor to justify that she was fit to dive. Gabe completely ignored this, so it was a super red flag. Yeah, he does what she likes doing so she "should" do what he likes doing too, but not to the extent of putting her life in danger. SECONDLY, Gabe refused to have a guide. In my experience, I rarely let any divers go without a guide, especially when there is someone as inexperienced as Tina on a dive. Of course, we would "trust" that their buddy would take care of them but Gabe obviously took care of her in a different way. THIRDLY, the extra weights Gabe requested were completely unnecessary. After you reach a certain depth in the water, it would just get very easy to sink even with the regular amount of weights. ///I believe Tina's dad did the right thing going around asking relevant questions to relevant people, because yes, accidents can happen on a dive, sometimes they can be fatal. In this situation, there are many factors that factor into the death of Tina, she could have had an episode underwater and lost consciousness. BUT AGAIN, Gabe is supposed to be this rescue diver with over 50 dives. While we are taught to first keep ourselves safe and then aid others, I don't believe that Gabe was in any sort of danger to just "drop" her and surface. BUDDIES SURFACE TOGETHER UNLESS ONE OF THE OTHER IS NOT COOPERATING. Gabe is totally guilty imo. Can't change my mind. I've "lost" divers in a terrible current and I had a boat drag me around to find them. Gabe is an INSULT to the dive community.
Absolutely agree. I’ve logged hundreds of dives and his behavior was murderously negligent at best. The weight issue is a common pattern with newer/anxious divers… ALWAYS use a guide when acclimating to a new area… 50 dives is low (IMO) to be certified as a “Rescue Diver”… UGH.
I was thinking the same thing!! Another red flag for me was the fact that he wouldn't take no for an answer and just kept asking her out even though she was engaged🙄
if someone asked me out repeatedly after saying no it'd just become another reason for me to keep saying no. more women need to understand its a SERIOUS warning sign that he does not respect you or your choices, and not cute or romantic.
The fact that her dad just KNEW something was wrong (multiple times) and he worked so hard to try to expose the truth and seek justice just melts my heart and breaks it at the same time He got no closure
A narcissistic sociopath who thinks he's God's gift to women the way he dangled the engagment ring like a carrot stick and so self entitled even trying to claim the travelers insurance for a ruined trip. Talk about the King of Sloppy Premeditation!
@@Peanut_taco_muffin Yes dogs at least have integrity and could probably figure out how to be a little more discreet about committing a crime. He thinks he got lucky getting away with this crime. Little does he know that karma has a far more fitting punishment waiting for him. He might have been happier with the jail time.
Exactly! I would bet money that the only reason she took him back was because he was truly scaring her. It happened to my best friend. I tried and tried to help her but she was so terrified she went back.
Bailey, I'm an Alabamian (you said it correctly) and remember this case. Everyone here (except the court) believed that Gabe was guilty as sin! This case was a travesty of justice.
I feel like the court knew nothing about the process of scuba diving and how to get a certificate.. If that actually knew about it properly they would know without a shadow of a doubt that he was guilty
Right!! I was like but wait that's the whole point of a rescue class! If you're not bringing people to the surface you are just drowning people, take several seats sir 🤦♀️
I cannot imagine how scared this poor woman was sinking to the bottom while her new husband surfaces. I'm at a loss for words and just feel so sad for her. I hope shes resting in peace 💔
Same. I went scuba diving once and had a panick attack (although everything was going well per se), so I can't imagine how scared and desperate she must have felt :'( I feel really really sad for her poor dad too
I believe she was passed out from loosing her oxygen as he pretended to hug her! So I'd like to think she just passed out and didn't feel it realize anything and went as peaceful . I pray so anyways cause ya that s just horrible
She most probably wasn’t conscious, because if she were, she had a tankful of oxygen that’d keep her alive until Wade went after her to get her, or she would have a whole lot of water in her lungs. Having very little water suggests she wasn’t breathing at all.
Lol, that was my reaction too. Crushing on ladies who are already spoken for *NEVER* goes well. He needed to take several seats, a step back, a cold shower ... anything other than the actions he took instead.
I HATE how judges can decide what evidence will be allowed in a trial and how often so much that applies to a case is left out for no reason. I believe in order to make an honest and fair decision you NEED ALL the evidence. It so absurd and frustrating
The moment he started teasing her with the ring and blew off the parents about her safety I knew something was off. Her husband definitely weighed her down on purpose. Aslo Tommyis the best dad ever
I've been looking for another diver, haha finally......also...getting a sinking diver... isn't anything rescue specific, right? Like of my buddy was sinking I'd go after him? Also going like "I'm soooo experienced" with 55 dives is a bit of a stretch.
I was talking to my husband and isn’t there a flotation device on every dive tank that can be pulled and bring you up to the surface? Like all this guy had to do was pull a string to set off her floatation device and she would be floated to the surface right? Idk I’ve never scuba dove before and my husband has only gone once so we’re definitely not experienced at all lol.
@@madirichardson7952 It's your inflation string (I can't remember what its called lol) on your BCD that will inflate your BCD and can send you shooting up through the water (not recommended lol). She would have had to use it to deflate her BCD to get her into the water in the first place so it's strange she didn't know.
I’m not anywhere close to being a certified diver (only been on 2 dives) but when bailey mentioned Tina had been resurfacing quickly on the other dives in the trip because she was panicking, my mind immediately went to the bends? Could decompression sickness have contributed to her death? I thought I’d ask, because I reckon you’ll know better than me!
Same🤦🏻♀️😂 Or if someone THINKS I’m lying but I’m NOT lying. I get awkward and start smiling and/or laughing. Which makes someone believe I’m lying bc like, who does that 😂
What is that this man hated so much about his wife that he defaced her grave by removing flowers. For flowers to disappear immediately after being placed means he was obsessively watching it. What a dark dark mind. I fear for the next woman who would trustingly fall for him and marry him.
Yes, I wouldn't be interpreting it as "Isn't that sweet, he can't live w/o me" but that he can't handle rejection and if he won't respect boundaries, he won't respect anything if he doesn't get his way...about everything!
I learned this the hard way. once I said yes to a guy who kept asking for a date, then to be his girlfriend. I wasn't confident enough to say "no and also buzz off", and I didn't want to hurt his feelings. it was my worst relationship so far, I felt relieved the moment I was out of it.
@Vara Lyn Truth! Any man (or woman) who wants you to cheat on another person has no respect for ANY relationship, and that includes if they get into a relationship with you. Anyone who will cheat with you will cheat on you.
Right after you teach the students that in a severe emergency, ditch the weights and buoyancy will do the job of getting people to the surface, correct? Although the first rule I was taught was that if anyone is stressed, panicking and/or uncomfortable, you call off the dive, no questions asked and no shame imparted.
@@Kryschenn there will always be people who will push you, but you must understand that if you don't feel safe, you won't be safe and can be a danger to others also! Safe diving you guys! ❤️
That and hearing his issues with the regulator being knocked out of his mouth were huge red flags for me. We practiced how to deal with that so much during training. He should have been fine with that.
Exactly!! Also him claiming to be a rescue diver which would mean he’s well taught with the weights,fresh water and salt water weight difference,and how to bring someone safely to the top. Also divers are equipped with extra oxygen mouth piece for emergencies incase someone’s tank runs out of air or they panic and use up all their air. I’m a open water rec diver and know many rescue divers. A close friend of mine husband is a rescue diver. Another thing is if she kept coming to the surface then why didn’t anyone on the boat insist she stays on the boat or at least on top of the water and snorkel instead??? All divers are equipped with snorkels too.
As a certified diver myself, you ALWAYS have to have a secondary breathing apparatus. He shouldn’t have been panicking if the regulator came off, especially if he took the rescue course.
I don't have very much knowledge of diving & the dynamics of it, but this is what I thought. It just seemed very suspicious that he'd immediately panic, even though he was supposedly a "rescue" diver. Thanks for the insight!
My gut says repeatedly asking someone in a serious committed relationship to go on dates with you is inappropriate and annoying af. Anyone else see red flags at that point?
If anyone is asking anyone out repeatedly without a circumstance change (say break up only after time to get over it is given, or time after just breaking up with a different partner, sexuality/romantic experimentation) then don’t date them.
@@gloriamiles9194 Agreed! This was the first red flag for me. if someone can't respect that someone else is in a committed relationship/ or even if they're not and they can't accept a decline.... something is off.
After everything Bailey said, poor Tina seemed like she had low self-esteem, which was why she was with Gabe in the 1st place. From the beginning he sounded like an awful partner. She just deserved so much better in life, may she rest in peace.
I'm from Australia and i remember that whenever this case was talked about on the news they would constantly play the video of a another diver videoing there friend from that trip and in the background you can see Gabe hugging Tina and reaching up to the top of her oxygen where the on/off valve is and then shortly after you can see Tina sinking. So from the start as soon as this video was made public all of Australia knew Gabe was guilty AF
i dont want to sound weird but is this video on yt or something? if so can i have a link i kinda want to see this for myself which probably makes me sound insane but still
I cannot believe that monster had the AUDACITY to move her body after all he put Tina through. Let alone leave her grave unmarked. I feel so bad for her and her family. I hope she rests in peace
It’s weird it’s almost like narcissists _hate_ their significant other but it’s actually because they feel their s.o. are so much inferior to them. They find pleasure in belittling and disrespecting their s.o. making sure their s.o. know how little they mean to them. It’s so disgusting.
I think he was doing it on order to distract everyone from something?? Like, ppl said he was giving her a hug while they were diving and he wanted to make ppl around him believe that that's just a thing he liked doing? Or to rub of evidence or something like that idk
Red flag one: he kept asking her out WHEN SHE WAS ENGAGED AND HE WOULDN'T STOP Flag two: flipping out on her dating someone else after they broke up Flag three: taunting her about the engagement Flag four: forcing her to start diving Flag five: talking about insurance SMH! He was trouble from the beginning
He shouldve understood how serious heart conditions are especially as a rescue diver which honestly tells me from the start he wasn't concerned for her safety or experience
Ok so in comments we always discuss the tragedy that happens in the story but, like Can we also appreciate how your makeup is always ON POINT?? Like that’s a talent right there
Actually most people DON’T talk about the tragedy of the story in these comments, which is disturbing. It’s why TH-camrs absolutely should not introduce trivial stuff like makeup into true crime videos because it cheapens the tragedy and desensitizes people.
It makes me absolutely furious that even after he DEFINITELY killed her, he moved her to an unmarked grave for 3 years and stole the flowers left on it. It’s like stripping her of any respect when she’s already dead.
I’m a dive instructor which means I’m able to teach dive students, I’m also a qualified scientific diver and have done some commercial diving. I’ve dived in Aus & live in NZ. 9kg of weight (20 pounds) is way too much especially for a small girl. I use around 9kg+ when I have a super thick wetsuit and I’m diving in 10 degree Celsius water not the tropics. 15 ocean dives is NOTHING. He was very inexperienced BUT someone we teach in rescue courses is how to save someone who is conscious underwater, unconscious underwater, conscious on the surface and unconscious on the surface. The protocol is different for conscious divers as it could put you in danger yourself due to irrational and aggressive behaviour, an unconscious diver gives you no immediate threat or danger therefore there is no reason what so ever not to grab or help an unconscious diver. You learn to grab them in a number of different ways, the most common from behind, drop their weights and hold their breathing apparatus in their mouth. It’s suspish, he knew this and he let her die for sure.
Her scuba diving teacher is an old friend of mine. He now has a talk with his students about why they want scuba lessons and tell any of them (the students) that say their learning so they can do this with friends or their partner this story. She was a sweet girl and the fact that she died because of this man, doing something she did not feel comfortable with, for him makes my friend rather suspish with other people who are learning for similar reasons. Also, for those of y'all wondering. Most of Alabama refuse to have anything to do with him. He and his family have been socially shunned from most places, so he hasn't built much of a "new life"
@@stephaniekampf8205 so they know not to do things that make them uncomfortable even if its for their significant others. Its one thing to join a hobby because you enjoy it and another to be forced into doing stuff you don't like or make you feel unsafe. If their SO cannot respect that then they ought to find a new SO.
@@stephaniekampf8205 He doesn't have to, he chooses to to help prevent this from happening again. Some people are decent human beings and want to step in to help others...
Actually her dad TOLD her to tell Gabe that she had upped the insurance and she did, even though he wasn’t even listed as a beneficiary yet, so you’re right! I always thought it was weird that her dad told her specifically to do that- almost like he had an omen something like this would happen on their honeymoon.
Whenever you said that he would throw the ring around like “oh you want it, well your not going to get it” my immediate thought was “manipulator, toxic, BIG red flag”.
The fact he kept asking her out for years, which was borderline harrassement, should have been a red flag! If your family isn't super thrilled about the person you are with, you should really pay attention bc if the ppl that love you and know you most are saying that something is weird, they are never wrong. And yes, the fact he wanted to be beneficiary was super weird.
He was probably emotionally abusive. The relationship started with him not leaving her alone. I'm sure he made her feel like less of a person. She seemed to not understand the issue of asking her dad to switch over the life insurance. If my dad had a policy and my fiance asked me to ask him to switch it..before we were married. I'd have noped on out of there!
Am I the only one who sings her theme song with her??? I get crazy looks while I do it!! I shimmy my shoulders and everything!! Also, I’m loving that saying in the beginning “the Lord is testing me... and I didn’t study”. That’s the story of my life!! I legit binge Bailey every day. I love how personable she is. It’s like having your BFF tell you a story. Love this. 💕💕
I met this girl who is my friend now in my school who also watches you and we clicked thro you and now we always watch your vids together and sing the intro everytime we see each other ❣️
For him to say " He was never taught to bring someone surface... Taught or no it's his wife FIND AN EFFIN WAY!! Especially when he kept pursuing her while she was in a relationship. I bet he put Tina up to asking her father to add him to her life insurance.
Exactly! My husband and I are not divers but I can tell you 💯 he would’ve at least done all he could to get to me and remove my weights. This guy is a complete narcissist and clearly thought she should be punished with death for dating someone else while hoping to get some sort of payout in the end.
There are untrained teenagers who save people from water on pure instinct and this donkeyhole is a certified rescue dover WHO DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO RESCUE. EF NO. You are not even getting that you tried golden star!
Too many red flags with that guy. Trying to ask her out when she is in a relationship, not worried about her safety, taunting her with a wedding ring. Also, she is way to pretty for him.
First we need merch that says “The Lord is testing me and I didn’t Study.” Second of all this makeup look is one of my favorites on you! 😍💖 And last of all GABE IS GULITY ASF BRUH
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right?? you learn a lot about helping rescue other people even in many basic courses, i'm not a rescue diver but i learnt how to deal with certain emergency situations in my basic open water diving course (and then even more, along with just practicing some stuff again, in an advanced course, which would be required before getting certified as a rescue diver, of course)
Man, it sounds like he punished her in life and then even after death. Why would he move her grave, then not have a tombstone for 3 years, and steal flowers?!?! It's like he wanted to devalue her and still control her after death.
Also, what was he doing? Going to her grave every few hours, just chillin' and checking to see if anyone had laid flowers down? Gross, get better hobbies.
same girl. all this gives bama a bad name and lets be real, we already have a hard time with our image lol I live in south alabama at the coast and its a whole different state down here tbh.
He did it thinking he was going to get her life insurance. So happy her dad didn’t put his name on the life insurance. That poor family, I can’t imagine
My first thought about the hugging thing: sounds like someone that doesn’t feel "normal" emotions not knowing how someone would act in this situation. "Oh! I’ve seen people hug when they’re upset, so I’ll do that." Reminds me of cases I’ve read about where in the perp’s search history is stuff like "how do people act when their wife dies" so they can attempt to pretend to be distraught when they’re so narcissistic that they’ve never felt distraught or even worried about anyone.
Maybe he'd also prepared (or tried to prepare) a cover up for his "underwater bear-hug" - so that he could say, he always "loves to hug" - just in case, other divers had witnessed his unusual underwater activities (which in fact they did).
Chris Watts googled, "How does someone feel when you say I love you", or something like that. What a psychopath.😱😱😱 But yeah, I thought he was trying to act upset too. But I guess he forgot, you wait for strangers to offer a hug, you don't ask for one.
I live 30-45 min outside of Birmingham and remember this .... He is so guilty and if the state did not have such " backwards" opinions on some things he would be rotting in prison where he belongs.
I am a divemaster in Townsville, Australia - and have worked for the company this happened at and other local companies - I’ve dived this site MANY times and Tinas story is told by visitors all the time! The new rules around this dive site are no “new” divers are allowed to dive because of currents. But someone with 9 dives could potentially have the 2nd level certification of “advanced diver”, being a rescue diver with only 15 ocean dives is crazy, and so unlikely to happen. This whole story for me just screams red flags, what Gabe did (in all versions of his story) goes against all training that divers do! Even taking your eyes off your buddy while replacing your regulator long enough that they sink out of risk is insane!? It’s such a quick fix/and a skill that is taught and retaught at each level of training. I am always so shocked and confused about the fact he wasn’t charged with anything in Alabama! Thanks for covering this story, loved binging your videos over the past 48 hours and glad to see this one pop up!!!!!
he should've at least been found guilty of manslaughter in Alabama for being a certified rescue diver and shirking his responsibility of properly rescuing a diver!!
I’ve only taken a couple dive classes (couldn’t continue because it made my asthma act up) and I could have sworn that literally the 2nd thing I learned was what to do to get the respirator back in if you lose it. It was like: Lesson One- this is how you breathe. Lesson Two- if your respirator comes out, this is what you do.
I don’t know all the legal stuff - could he be charged for something he allegedly did in Australia in Alabama? Shouldn’t he be charged in Australia? Curious.
Perhaps the judge said the father's conversation with his daughter would be heresy? But I also think there's another rule that concerns people who have died?
T Angle do you mean “hearsay”? If it was a conversation between Gabe and Tina’s dad, it should be a viable point of evidence. Hearsay is when a third party that didn’t actually witness the conversation would have reported it. I bet Gabe had connections and there were some back room dealings going on.
I’m from Australia and remember this being a big story here too. The part that makes me angry is if he was charged here he would at least do time, but because they insisted on taking him back, he gets cleared. Something suspish big time!
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J's Pei Babies thank you!! Finally a comment not mentioning merch, the theme song or using the “no one: absolutely no one: Bailey: “comment format. You actually care more about the tragedy being discussed, which I wish were true of everyone watching this video...
@@Peanut_taco_muffin Thank you so much, it really really bothered me. I just couldn't fathom the pain and complete disregard for the life that he had took away. They will never get their daughter back. It's just disheartening and sad. Hugs and blessings to you Britt Conester ♥
Is it bad that I was suspish from the minute Bailey said he just kept asking her out over and over, even though she had told him she was in a relationship and engaged so I'm guessing a serious one at the time. xAndyx
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“The lord is testing me, and I didn’t study” girl same 😂
New fave saying
Bahahah
Emileigh Frick I hope she puts this on merch😭👏🏾🙏🏾
Sameeeeeeee
I hope she does make this merch.
A guy that is so persistent even though he knows you're in a relationship is a big red flag. There's a difference between interest and not taking "no" for an answer🧐
@Angela Ross
I think everyone has one or two experiences they could've lived without having (not saying this to discredit but to let you know you're not alone💙). I'm glad you are safe and still moving forward. 🌹
Narcissists can't handle "no" it's a great test of someone's cool; smile and say no without an excuse. If they say it's alright you've got a keeper. If they freak out at you, that's a huge red flag !!
Agreed!
Yeah, that part gave me the creeps the most. I’ve crushed on so many women in my life (often one-sided), but if she’s not interested or taken, I dial it back. If you truly admire someone, you put their feelings first, not yours.
Angela Ross I’m sorry to hear a toxic person did you wrong. I hope you have since met better people. ✨
I can almost hear him telling Tina “C’monnnnnn I’m a nice guy.”
I know! Eewwww😆
Ugh 😑 I can too
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Been binging your channel during quarantine
As a scuba diver, this was really "woah". I have no words to describe it. Anyway, I definitely believe Gabe is GUILTY. Firstly, as a "rescue diver", he would have learned how to "avoid" these 3 (THREE) dangerous situations. FIRSTLY, Tina's heart condition would require for her to get a medical certificate from a doctor to justify that she was fit to dive. Gabe completely ignored this, so it was a super red flag. Yeah, he does what she likes doing so she "should" do what he likes doing too, but not to the extent of putting her life in danger. SECONDLY, Gabe refused to have a guide. In my experience, I rarely let any divers go without a guide, especially when there is someone as inexperienced as Tina on a dive. Of course, we would "trust" that their buddy would take care of them but Gabe obviously took care of her in a different way. THIRDLY, the extra weights Gabe requested were completely unnecessary. After you reach a certain depth in the water, it would just get very easy to sink even with the regular amount of weights. ///I believe Tina's dad did the right thing going around asking relevant questions to relevant people, because yes, accidents can happen on a dive, sometimes they can be fatal. In this situation, there are many factors that factor into the death of Tina, she could have had an episode underwater and lost consciousness. BUT AGAIN, Gabe is supposed to be this rescue diver with over 50 dives. While we are taught to first keep ourselves safe and then aid others, I don't believe that Gabe was in any sort of danger to just "drop" her and surface. BUDDIES SURFACE TOGETHER UNLESS ONE OF THE OTHER IS NOT COOPERATING. Gabe is totally guilty imo. Can't change my mind. I've "lost" divers in a terrible current and I had a boat drag me around to find them. Gabe is an INSULT to the dive community.
I appreciate your comment. I believed he was guilty before reading context from an experienced diver. What a travesty that verdict was.
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@@joleneterry4649 Live a little
I appreciate the comment too. learned a lot...
Absolutely agree. I’ve logged hundreds of dives and his behavior was murderously negligent at best. The weight issue is a common pattern with newer/anxious divers… ALWAYS use a guide when acclimating to a new area… 50 dives is low (IMO) to be certified as a “Rescue Diver”… UGH.
He was guilty to me as soon as he disregarded her health condition and was “she should scuba because I do things she likes”
Gabe sounds like a 4 year old, stomping his foot. GROSS
I was thinking the same thing!! Another red flag for me was the fact that he wouldn't take no for an answer and just kept asking her out even though she was engaged🙄
Totally agree!! When I heard that I thought "well, this guy is an as**#".."
Same. Red Flag for sure.
Same
Never trust someone who doesn't take "no" for an answer when they ask you out.
if someone asked me out repeatedly after saying no it'd just become another reason for me to keep saying no. more women need to understand its a SERIOUS warning sign that he does not respect you or your choices, and not cute or romantic.
Exactly!!!!!
SkaIsNotDead sounds like my ex
RIGHT
Exactly what I thought!!!! Dude needs to RESPECT
Gabe: continuously asks out an engaged woman even though she’s repeatedly stated she’s not interested
Me: Girl, RUN
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Thank you! And dude was not cute. She was way out of his league
I agree completely. It was definitely a red flag for me.
Jim from the office: 🥺
That is strange and scary
The fact that her dad just KNEW something was wrong (multiple times) and he worked so hard to try to expose the truth and seek justice just melts my heart and breaks it at the same time
He got no closure
This guy sounds like such a narcissist. He's definitely guilty.
thought the same thing. too!
A narcissistic sociopath who thinks he's God's gift to women the way he dangled the engagment ring like a carrot stick and so self entitled even trying to claim the travelers insurance for a ruined trip. Talk about the King of Sloppy Premeditation!
Melanie Wall exactly- I don’t know who told this dude he was a catch but...woof woof (not to insult dogs. I love dogs)
@@Peanut_taco_muffin Yes dogs at least have integrity and could probably figure out how to be a little more discreet about committing a crime. He thinks he got lucky getting away with this crime. Little does he know that karma has a far more fitting punishment waiting for him. He might have been happier with the jail time.
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imagine being able to put on purple eyeshadow and not have it look like a bruise.........the talent
Righttt😭
Exactly
I know right I just showed my husband and said I’m trying this look this weekend. It’s freaking gorgeous on her. ~Rachel
I know!!! And how does she do the super shiny eyelids? Beautiful.
I know!! I can’t stop staring at her eyes! So gorgeous!
6 minutes in and this Gabe dude is really getting on my nerves.
Right? I don't really understand who the f*ck Homeboy thought he was.
Same.
For real ....red flags
Exactly! I would bet money that the only reason she took him back was because he was truly scaring her. It happened to my best friend. I tried and tried to help her but she was so terrified she went back.
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ikr. he was creeping me out.
Bailey, I'm an Alabamian (you said it correctly) and remember this case. Everyone here (except the court) believed that Gabe was guilty as sin! This case was a travesty of justice.
He will do it again..... yes they do. He thinks he can get away with anything. He will do it again.... just wait in the wings.
As a Townsville resident, I'm in total agreement. Everyone here knew he was guilty and were angry at the verdict.
I feel like the court knew nothing about the process of scuba diving and how to get a certificate.. If that actually knew about it properly they would know without a shadow of a doubt that he was guilty
Does anyone know why the family didn't pursue a Civil case against him?
I tried to look up what he's up to now. Is he still in Alabama? I can't imagine he's very welcome in the community. Is he still married?
“Never learned to bring someone to the surface” as a RESCUE DIVER. Ok dude
Right!! I was like but wait that's the whole point of a rescue class! If you're not bringing people to the surface you are just drowning people, take several seats sir 🤦♀️
You would think that would be like lesson two
Lesson one: dive to the person drowning
Lesson two: bring them to the surface
Lanacology I’m literally a scuba diver and it is REQUIRED for beginner divers to learn how to bring their peers to the surface and back on the boat.
As soon as she said that insurance thing I knew he was guilty
@@mazie349 you also learn how to replace your mask and/or regulator incase it becomes dislodged.
I cannot imagine how scared this poor woman was sinking to the bottom while her new husband surfaces. I'm at a loss for words and just feel so sad for her. I hope shes resting in peace 💔
Same. I went scuba diving once and had a panick attack (although everything was going well per se), so I can't imagine how scared and desperate she must have felt :'(
I feel really really sad for her poor dad too
@@clarawdk i have panic disorder. i would have died.
I believe she was passed out from loosing her oxygen as he pretended to hug her! So I'd like to think she just passed out and didn't feel it realize anything and went as peaceful . I pray so anyways cause ya that s just horrible
If she was unconscious by this time, she wasn't scared at all.
She most probably wasn’t conscious, because if she were, she had a tankful of oxygen that’d keep her alive until Wade went after her to get her, or she would have a whole lot of water in her lungs. Having very little water suggests she wasn’t breathing at all.
Bailey: so he kept asking even though she was in a relationship...
Me: oh, I know how this ends.
That was the first red flag
Lol, that was my reaction too. Crushing on ladies who are already spoken for *NEVER* goes well. He needed to take several seats, a step back, a cold shower ... anything other than the actions he took instead.
@@nehdoll Yeah. Crushing is one thing because we can’t always help our feelings. It’s the actions in response to those feelings that speak volumes.
He kept asking after she said no. That's enough. It doesn't matter if she was in a relationship.
I HATE how judges can decide what evidence will be allowed in a trial and how often so much that applies to a case is left out for no reason. I believe in order to make an honest and fair decision you NEED ALL the evidence. It so absurd and frustrating
I agree
That's because these days many of them are former defense attorneys
That’s the American CJS for ya
Yeah I think it's weird too now that you say that .
Too much information is not a bad thing. As long as they are fact.
"The lord is testing me...and I did not study."
Valid content😂
ArtGirl 74 time stamp?
Terrance 0:15
Me taking tests 😂
He's the only"certified rescue diver" in the world that doesn't know how to actually rescue a person.
Like, isn’t it the whole purpose of a RESCUE diver?? Lol
Exactly what are you rescuing if not a person as a rescue diver???
Lol
Oh he knows how to rescue, he chose not to 😳
Well, he could rescue people... he just couldn't bring them up 🤯🤬
The moment he started teasing her with the ring and blew off the parents about her safety I knew something was off. Her husband definitely weighed her down on purpose. Aslo Tommyis the best dad ever
YES! The teasing her with the ring thing was a GIGANTIC red flag to me.
The constantly asking her out even though she was engaged was the first red flag. Anyone who doesn’t respect your boundaries will not respect you.
@@meredithmonroe9723 exactly! All red flags and that was the first one.
Harassing her to date him when she was engaged was the first red flag to me. Definitely what you mentioned were more
I said the same thing. SMH
The picture of her lifeless body on the ocean floor and Gabe nowhere to be found still haunts me
What time stamp is this at
Imagine being the one who took it. Knowing she had been dying right next to them while they were taking pictures must be horrible.
@@PopRocker104 it’s not in the video you can google it, I saw it on the news when this story happened
I just googled it and it is horrifyingly sad 😥
Wow. You're not kidding. I just looked it up.
Certified rescue diver here! He’s definitely guilty 😅 the way he handled her sinking and panicking was NOT how you handle those situations
I've been looking for another diver, haha finally......also...getting a sinking diver... isn't anything rescue specific, right? Like of my buddy was sinking I'd go after him? Also going like "I'm soooo experienced" with 55 dives is a bit of a stretch.
Diver here too!! So many things wrong with his story
I was talking to my husband and isn’t there a flotation device on every dive tank that can be pulled and bring you up to the surface? Like all this guy had to do was pull a string to set off her floatation device and she would be floated to the surface right? Idk I’ve never scuba dove before and my husband has only gone once so we’re definitely not experienced at all lol.
@@madirichardson7952 It's your inflation string (I can't remember what its called lol) on your BCD that will inflate your BCD and can send you shooting up through the water (not recommended lol). She would have had to use it to deflate her BCD to get her into the water in the first place so it's strange she didn't know.
I’m not anywhere close to being a certified diver (only been on 2 dives) but when bailey mentioned Tina had been resurfacing quickly on the other dives in the trip because she was panicking, my mind immediately went to the bends? Could decompression sickness have contributed to her death? I thought I’d ask, because I reckon you’ll know better than me!
"I'm laughing because I'm uncomfortable" why is that me in every situation though????
Julia Nunes I literally said “same” out loud to myself when she said this 😂
Same🤦🏻♀️😂 Or if someone THINKS I’m lying but I’m NOT lying. I get awkward and start smiling and/or laughing. Which makes someone believe I’m lying bc like, who does that 😂
I used to do this in my classes in highschool when the teacher would start yelling
Stefani McClure Literally!!! Same!!!
He's a certified rescue diver that never learned how to rescue people? How did that lie even pass?
Natila Zehra Farooqi I was thinking the same thing!!
Girl.... (smh)
What is that this man hated so much about his wife that he defaced her grave by removing flowers. For flowers to disappear immediately after being placed means he was obsessively watching it. What a dark dark mind. I fear for the next woman who would trustingly fall for him and marry him.
I was thinking the same thing, like he has to be just checking on her grave constantly.
Its all about control
Gabe: asks Tina to increase her life insurance and have him be the beneficiary.
THATS NOT WEIRD AT ALL
Yeah, like "Darling, I know u have health problems, u need better life insurance... By the way, u should do diving! Much fun!"
I heard life insurance and my mind went: Yep...he shady...
Suspishhhhh!!
He did it without a doubt ....
It does sound suspicious, although they did just get married.... that is something that’s normally changed once two people get married.
Ladies! never date a guy who continues to ask you out over and over even though he knows you’re in a relationship. BIG red flags all over
Yes, I wouldn't be interpreting it as "Isn't that sweet, he can't live w/o me" but that he can't handle rejection and if he won't respect boundaries, he won't respect anything if he doesn't get his way...about everything!
Exactly. She was nothing more than a conquest and a tool to him. People, you are worth more than this!
I learned this the hard way. once I said yes to a guy who kept asking for a date, then to be his girlfriend. I wasn't confident enough to say "no and also buzz off", and I didn't want to hurt his feelings. it was my worst relationship so far, I felt relieved the moment I was out of it.
@Vara Lyn Truth! Any man (or woman) who wants you to cheat on another person has no respect for ANY relationship, and that includes if they get into a relationship with you. Anyone who will cheat with you will cheat on you.
I was literally about to say the same thing, a big red flag 🚩
I'm a certified scuba diver, advanced in open waters. One of the first things we teach students is how to help/rescue other divers... He's a monster.
Right after you teach the students that in a severe emergency, ditch the weights and buoyancy will do the job of getting people to the surface, correct? Although the first rule I was taught was that if anyone is stressed, panicking and/or uncomfortable, you call off the dive, no questions asked and no shame imparted.
@@Kryschenn there will always be people who will push you, but you must understand that if you don't feel safe, you won't be safe and can be a danger to others also!
Safe diving you guys! ❤️
That and hearing his issues with the regulator being knocked out of his mouth were huge red flags for me. We practiced how to deal with that so much during training. He should have been fine with that.
Same, anyone who has dove before knows he killed her. We are taught how to rescue our buddy for OW cerification.
Exactly!! Also him claiming to be a rescue diver which would mean he’s well taught with the weights,fresh water and salt water weight difference,and how to bring someone safely to the top. Also divers are equipped with extra oxygen mouth piece for emergencies incase someone’s tank runs out of air or they panic and use up all their air. I’m a open water rec diver and know many rescue divers. A close friend of mine husband is a rescue diver. Another thing is if she kept coming to the surface then why didn’t anyone on the boat insist she stays on the boat or at least on top of the water and snorkel instead??? All divers are equipped with snorkels too.
As a certified diver myself, you ALWAYS have to have a secondary breathing apparatus. He shouldn’t have been panicking if the regulator came off, especially if he took the rescue course.
I don't have very much knowledge of diving & the dynamics of it, but this is what I thought. It just seemed very suspicious that he'd immediately panic, even though he was supposedly a "rescue" diver. Thanks for the insight!
My gut says repeatedly asking someone in a serious committed relationship to go on dates with you is inappropriate and annoying af. Anyone else see red flags at that point?
Yes!!! I was thinking the same thing! Like, she’s engaged, back off.
Yes, but this is so normalized and romanticized. Re: The Notebook.
If anyone is asking anyone out repeatedly without a circumstance change (say break up only after time to get over it is given, or time after just breaking up with a different partner, sexuality/romantic experimentation) then don’t date them.
@@gloriamiles9194 Agreed! This was the first red flag for me. if someone can't respect that someone else is in a committed relationship/ or even if they're not and they can't accept a decline.... something is off.
Meanwhile he might have killed her because he was salty af that she went on a date while they were broken up 🙄
Tinas dad was smart for not changing the life insurance. So much for your plan gabe.
This story broke my heart. I’m so glad her father is a smart man.
You:" he was acting inappropriate"
Then me : he looks inappropriate
Same
😂 same
special kittie 🤣
Time stamp?
Caroline Taylor 16:18
After everything Bailey said, poor Tina seemed like she had low self-esteem, which was why she was with Gabe in the 1st place. From the beginning he sounded like an awful partner. She just deserved so much better in life, may she rest in peace.
*"the lord is testing me, and i did not study"*
this is my new senior quote
❤️😎💁🏽♀️
jamato same
420th like. i feel special
@@5ksubswithnovideos236 honestly, one of life's greatest achievements
steals.
I'm from Australia and i remember that whenever this case was talked about on the news they would constantly play the video of a another diver videoing there friend from that trip and in the background you can see Gabe hugging Tina and reaching up to the top of her oxygen where the on/off valve is and then shortly after you can see Tina sinking. So from the start as soon as this video was made public all of Australia knew Gabe was guilty AF
Thats crazy!!!
i dont want to sound weird but is this video on yt or something? if so can i have a link i kinda want to see this for myself which probably makes me sound insane but still
Then why only 12months!
Yeah and the famous photo of her body on sinking and him going up. Crazy, I didnt know they came to Townsville thats where I live haha
Jamie B. Shane dawson talks about it and shows it on scariest pictures ever taken watch that
I cannot believe that monster had the AUDACITY to move her body after all he put Tina through. Let alone leave her grave unmarked. I feel so bad for her and her family. I hope she rests in peace
It’s weird it’s almost like narcissists _hate_ their significant other but it’s actually because they feel their s.o. are so much inferior to them. They find pleasure in belittling and disrespecting their s.o. making sure their s.o. know how little they mean to them. It’s so disgusting.
Rest in power Tinna 🥺, Thank you beautiful angel for covering this case.
He was hugging everyone on the boat because he was celebrating thinking he'd just won a huge life insurance policy.
sabbboy Thats a great point and in a sick way makes sense for his weird behavior
I think he was doing it on order to distract everyone from something?? Like, ppl said he was giving her a hug while they were diving and he wanted to make ppl around him believe that that's just a thing he liked doing? Or to rub of evidence or something like that idk
@@sina3602 Probably thinking "if I keep cuddling her, then I would be the last person they would bame" smdh, narcissists at their finest.
Yup.
The dad should have told him in person with a few witnesses to get his reaction.
:0
Im glad I don’t “light up a room”
Murderers really seem to love those kinds of folks.
😂😂😂that's messed up buuuuuut... 🤷🏾♀️😂😂
Amy Ashley now that dark humour..😅😅😂😂
I literally just said this 😓
I’ve said this before... glad to know I’m not alone! Never been so glad to be considered “mediocre” by “nice guys” 🤣😂🤣
Bruh
Red flag one: he kept asking her out WHEN SHE WAS ENGAGED AND HE WOULDN'T STOP
Flag two: flipping out on her dating someone else after they broke up
Flag three: taunting her about the engagement
Flag four: forcing her to start diving
Flag five: talking about insurance
SMH! He was trouble from the beginning
Total control freak...basically stalker status.
From the LITERAL beginning!!
And when her dad goes to talk about him about how he worried he was about her heart condition and Gabe just pushed it off
And even after her death the whole flower thing.... so creepy. Poor girl
exactly what i was thinking!!
He shouldve understood how serious heart conditions are especially as a rescue diver which honestly tells me from the start he wasn't concerned for her safety or experience
Ok so in comments we always discuss the tragedy that happens in the story but, like
Can we also appreciate how your makeup is always ON POINT?? Like that’s a talent right there
Yesss🥺
一kats right
Incorrect
Banana Love you can leave ^-^
Actually most people DON’T talk about the tragedy of the story in these comments, which is disturbing. It’s why TH-camrs absolutely should not introduce trivial stuff like makeup into true crime videos because it cheapens the tragedy and desensitizes people.
Red flag anytime life insurance is mentioned.
I sell life insurance and people really think they're slick...in all sorts of ways. 😐
jen5487 gosh, I can’t even imagine the stories you must have. 🤭
@@Kyery73 I sell all kinds of insurance and people never cease to amaze me. Their lies are so much dumber than the truth!🤣
I’ll never get life insurance I don’t want money to my name
Kiriuu I’m pretty sure as long as its being paid monthly any one can take a policy out on any one
It makes me absolutely furious that even after he DEFINITELY killed her, he moved her to an unmarked grave for 3 years and stole the flowers left on it. It’s like stripping her of any respect when she’s already dead.
that part is so confusing to me. Like... why? I wish Bailey would’ve gotten into what his early life was like
@@SM-yz4hi i have a feeling its more about guilt than respect
Like he feels what he cant see doesnt exist so does his crime maybe
@@IraQxNajafia ohh that makes sense too. he seems pretty guiltless to me, but he could be hiding it
@@SM-yz4hi power over her
@@RashaSardest ohh yes that makes a lot of sense too, considering the way he treated her when she was alive. i bet it’s power over her family too
This is one of the most obvious cases I've ever listened to, and I just want to start screaming because of how badly the court f***ed it up! 😭
Poor Tommy, he looks absolutely heartbroken in every picture.
😂😂
@@seraphinefontana3058 what's funny about that?
Right, and even the German parents, either they or their government, were trusting that putting her up for adoption would give her a better life.
@@brendamoon2660 the government...her bio parents put her in an orphanage
@@seraphinefontana3058 ?
"I'm not a mermaid I shouldn't I couldn't" lololol
Bruce Wayne 😂😂😂😂
I just heard that part, you made me replay it 🤣
Me to!! No one will catch me scuba diving.
I need a shirt that says "the lord is testing me and I didn't study", ASAP.
We also need SUSPISH merch
Aubrey Miranda There is
Agreeddddd
Me too!!!!
I wanted to thumbs up but it's at 420 and well you know
I’m a dive instructor which means I’m able to teach dive students, I’m also a qualified scientific diver and have done some commercial diving. I’ve dived in Aus & live in NZ. 9kg of weight (20 pounds) is way too much especially for a small girl. I use around 9kg+ when I have a super thick wetsuit and I’m diving in 10 degree Celsius water not the tropics. 15 ocean dives is NOTHING. He was very inexperienced BUT someone we teach in rescue courses is how to save someone who is conscious underwater, unconscious underwater, conscious on the surface and unconscious on the surface. The protocol is different for conscious divers as it could put you in danger yourself due to irrational and aggressive behaviour, an unconscious diver gives you no immediate threat or danger therefore there is no reason what so ever not to grab or help an unconscious diver. You learn to grab them in a number of different ways, the most common from behind, drop their weights and hold their breathing apparatus in their mouth. It’s suspish, he knew this and he let her die for sure.
Her scuba diving teacher is an old friend of mine. He now has a talk with his students about why they want scuba lessons and tell any of them (the students) that say their learning so they can do this with friends or their partner this story. She was a sweet girl and the fact that she died because of this man, doing something she did not feel comfortable with, for him makes my friend rather suspish with other people who are learning for similar reasons.
Also, for those of y'all wondering. Most of Alabama refuse to have anything to do with him. He and his family have been socially shunned from most places, so he hasn't built much of a "new life"
I’m confused why would he have to tell them to say why they are learning how to do it?
@@stephaniekampf8205 That's a common question for any instructor in any subject.
@@stephaniekampf8205 so they know not to do things that make them uncomfortable even if its for their significant others. Its one thing to join a hobby because you enjoy it and another to be forced into doing stuff you don't like or make you feel unsafe. If their SO cannot respect that then they ought to find a new SO.
@@stephaniekampf8205 He doesn't have to, he chooses to to help prevent this from happening again. Some people are decent human beings and want to step in to help others...
Read the comments for the deets thank you!
can we get a shirt that says "I'm laughing cause I'm uncomfortable" because I want that.
Yes please!
Yes🙌🙌🙌
I would buy!
Same
What about one that says “suspish” or does she already have that?
Im sure Tina told Gabe “Yah, yah the life insurance is taken care of” and gabe thought it golden for him. 😔😓😣
EXACTLY
Actually her dad TOLD her to tell Gabe that she had upped the insurance and she did, even though he wasn’t even listed as a beneficiary yet, so you’re right! I always thought it was weird that her dad told her specifically to do that- almost like he had an omen something like this would happen on their honeymoon.
Yup I bet
i am still on my bailey binge😆💗 commenting on all the videos i’ve watched back to back within the past few days😁
I swear Bailey is the only person I will fully listen to when she has a sponser, she could talk about paint drying and I'd listen
Same
Yup ☺️
Same
She is totally captivating!
Yes!!’
Whenever you said that he would throw the ring around like “oh you want it, well your not going to get it” my immediate thought was “manipulator, toxic, BIG red flag”.
Right!?! What a freaking nut job.
YUP! That’s what I thought
NARCISSIST!!!! Im married to one!
Him asking her out repeatedly was definitely a red flag. At least to me. That’s creepy.
reminded me of all of my exs
The fact he kept asking her out for years, which was borderline harrassement, should have been a red flag! If your family isn't super thrilled about the person you are with, you should really pay attention bc if the ppl that love you and know you most are saying that something is weird, they are never wrong. And yes, the fact he wanted to be beneficiary was super weird.
Oh yeah
He was probably emotionally abusive.
The relationship started with him not leaving her alone.
I'm sure he made her feel like less of a person.
She seemed to not understand the issue of asking her dad to switch over the life insurance.
If my dad had a policy and my fiance asked me to ask him to switch it..before we were married.
I'd have noped on out of there!
She was probably attracted to abusive guys, the parents didn’t like the first boyfriend too. She might of suffered from poor self esteem.
That part freaked me out
I was thinking the same thing!
Am I the only one who sings her theme song with her??? I get crazy looks while I do it!! I shimmy my shoulders and everything!!
Also, I’m loving that saying in the beginning “the Lord is testing me... and I didn’t study”. That’s the story of my life!! I legit binge Bailey every day. I love how personable she is. It’s like having your BFF tell you a story. Love this. 💕💕
❤😂Yes I sing the theme song 🎵 🎶 all the time!!! It sets the mood for the story AND humor to come!🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤😂😂
I met this girl who is my friend now in my school who also watches you and we clicked thro you and now we always watch your vids together and sing the intro everytime we see each other ❣️
Molly Jackson thank you x
Oh, that is so sweet. I'm so happy for you 😁👍🏻
This made me tear up lol! That's so sweet. TH-cam videos and creators creating bonds between people 💜
Lucky Lex truly yeahhh I’m so greatful for bailey I’ve got two new friend bc of her ❣️
swedishlina thanks babes x
For him to say " He was never taught to bring someone surface... Taught or no it's his wife FIND AN EFFIN WAY!! Especially when he kept pursuing her while she was in a relationship. I bet he put Tina up to asking her father to add him to her life insurance.
EXACTLY!
Exactly! My husband and I are not divers but I can tell you 💯 he would’ve at least done all he could to get to me and remove my weights. This guy is a complete narcissist and clearly thought she should be punished with death for dating someone else while hoping to get some sort of payout in the end.
He definitely put her up to asking her parents to up her life insurance and make him the sole beneficiary
@@SwedishBs im glad he received nothing
There are untrained teenagers who save people from water on pure instinct and this donkeyhole is a certified rescue dover WHO DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO RESCUE. EF NO. You are not even getting that you tried golden star!
I remember reading up about this one. I hate the cases that seem SO obvious on what happened but there’s no actual justice, extremely disgusting.
It's so aggrivating, the LaVena Johnson case was the worst, I can't stop thinking about it.
K you are innocent till proven guilty that’s the problem ...
He was asking for hugs on the boat so that it won’t be that significant when the people who saw him bear hugging her underwater said they saw him
This!!!
100%
Yep!!
i watched this so many times & never thought of this
“I’m laughing ‘cuz I’m uncomfortable”
I NEED THAT ON A SHIRT, PLEASE
same
Seriously, this should be my life motto
Me too
I need that as a shirt as well I love it
YES
Instead of saying “I wanna die” at any inconvenience ima say “the lord is testing me and I didn’t study” 😂
you really shouldn't have been saying that to begin with
Miles Sometimes the weight of everything in life can be too much, you’ll be surprised what some people would say!
Nancy León Just take the L
Miles it just comes out idk what to tell you 🤷🏽♀️
Charlottes Online idk what you’re referring to by that but ima just say ok 👌🏽
Too many red flags with that guy. Trying to ask her out when she is in a relationship, not worried about her safety, taunting her with a wedding ring. Also, she is way to pretty for him.
Ok but your makeup in this one is FIRE, Bailey! Love love LOVE!!!
the wedding ring part raised some flags for me, that's so manipulative 😢
Certified scuba diver here! 100% suspis. Sounds guilty to me.
I can’t imagine how horrible Tommy felt. He tried his best to help his daughter and he ended up losing her.
I love how your aesthetic both in hair and background gets darker and darker over time
First we need merch that says “The Lord is testing me and I didn’t Study.”
Second of all this makeup look is one of my favorites on you! 😍💖
And last of all GABE IS GULITY ASF BRUH
Amen
totally love the maekup look too!
Dude I would totally buy that!
Yes yes and yes!💓
Would 100% want that merch lol
Me: It’s 7am. I should put on another podcast and sleep. Sleeping is my life.
Bailey: *uploads*
Me: Sleeping is overrated. 👀
*natalie* it is weird she kinda helps me sleep her voice is so soothing
Jacqueline Olamendi try ASMR 😇
H Meza Yes, seconding this. My go-to cure for my insomnia is podcasts, but nothing beats those ASMR tingles. ☺️
Could you recommend some podcasts? I usually listen to long videos on YT, mostly crime stuff, but want to try some podcasts, but don’t know where to start!! It’d be much appreciated!
HOW did this random thought get almost 800 likes?! 🙃 I’m n.e.harman on Instagram if some of you wanna connect. 🤗 Always looking for new Internet friends.
when she said
"The Lord is testing me and I did not study,"
I felt that.
How adorably pre-Covid is it that Bailey's 2020 goal was having a clearer, less stressed life? 😂 WE HAD NO IDEA
Tommy holding his daughter's wedding photo is heartbreaking! His face says it all. So sad!!
Was looking for this comment.. his eyes look so sad.. uh! 😣
Yes, that made me tear up. :'(
That made me tear up too , that's so sad , I hope he finds peace ..
Exactly. That's what caught my attention and my heart broke. Poor man. What a loss for the family :'(
I was looking for this comment!! I had to pause the video at that point I just couldn’t
A Q U A T O F A N A A A A for this man.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Agreed😄
This comment 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Yes sirrrrrrrrrrr
Yes sirrrrrr
“The lord is testing me and I didn’t study.” Lol can I get that on a T-shirt?
Leanne Michele yesss!!!!
IKR 😁
Me too ❤️🤣😂
Merch idea!! haha
She's one of the only youtubers I'd actually buy merch from
“I’m laughing because I’m uncomfortable” I feel you girl…
Bailey honestly makes my Monday's better.
Cloudy Vision same!
Samee
Trueee! Shout out to Queen Bailey
How tF could a "certified rescue diver" NOT have been trained to bring people out of the water? THAT'S THE WHOLE POINT OF THE CERTIFICATION!
right?? you learn a lot about helping rescue other people even in many basic courses, i'm not a rescue diver but i learnt how to deal with certain emergency situations in my basic open water diving course (and then even more, along with just practicing some stuff again, in an advanced course, which would be required before getting certified as a rescue diver, of course)
the word "narcissist" is screaming loudly in my head... and you can SEE it also in his pictures, not only his actions!
"The Lord is testing me...and I didn't study!" -Bailey
I feel it. Love that quote😅
Man, it sounds like he punished her in life and then even after death. Why would he move her grave, then not have a tombstone for 3 years, and steal flowers?!?! It's like he wanted to devalue her and still control her after death.
He basically saw her as a possession. This is so sad, I can’t imagine how her father felt chasing after him.
You're probably right and that just makes me sad
Also, what was he doing? Going to her grave every few hours, just chillin' and checking to see if anyone had laid flowers down? Gross, get better hobbies.
I hate this fact.
Maybe he did it out of spite because her dad never put him as a beneficiary of her life insurance policy.
I live in Alabama and I personally think he should have gotten life in prison without parole
I came to the comments just say that. I do agree
Well I hate to break it to ya sis but your state failed ya/:
Exactly!!!
I live in Australia and I think the exact same thing!!
same girl. all this gives bama a bad name and lets be real, we already have a hard time with our image lol I live in south alabama at the coast and its a whole different state down here tbh.
He did it thinking he was going to get her life insurance. So happy her dad didn’t put his name on the life insurance. That poor family, I can’t imagine
That makeup look is 😍😍😍
My first thought about the hugging thing: sounds like someone that doesn’t feel "normal" emotions not knowing how someone would act in this situation. "Oh! I’ve seen people hug when they’re upset, so I’ll do that."
Reminds me of cases I’ve read about where in the perp’s search history is stuff like "how do people act when their wife dies" so they can attempt to pretend to be distraught when they’re so narcissistic that they’ve never felt distraught or even worried about anyone.
It's sickening they are soulless ugh 🤮🤮🤮
Creepy, but true. I feel be could've done something like this. Especially because everything is premeditated. Apparently not in Alabama though! Ugh
Maybe he'd also prepared (or tried to prepare) a cover up for his "underwater bear-hug" - so that he could say, he always "loves to hug" - just in case, other divers had witnessed his unusual underwater activities (which in fact they did).
Psychopaths do this! They're born without empathy, but to fit in with the people around them they become masters at mimicking human emotions.
Chris Watts googled, "How does someone feel when you say I love you", or something like that. What a psychopath.😱😱😱
But yeah, I thought he was trying to act upset too. But I guess he forgot, you wait for strangers to offer a hug, you don't ask for one.
I live 30-45 min outside of Birmingham and remember this ....
He is so guilty and if the state did not have such " backwards" opinions on some things he would be rotting in prison where he belongs.
Can you say what specifically Alabama's opinions were that got him free? I'm curious.
exactly.. i hate living here😭😭😭
we all hate living here 😂
Wait there's a Birmingham in America?? I thought she was finally going to talk about a case in the UK 🙂🙂
Yes there is and whew the ghetto hunny
I am a divemaster in Townsville, Australia - and have worked for the company this happened at and other local companies - I’ve dived this site MANY times and Tinas story is told by visitors all the time!
The new rules around this dive site are no “new” divers are allowed to dive because of currents. But someone with 9 dives could potentially have the 2nd level certification of “advanced diver”, being a rescue diver with only 15 ocean dives is crazy, and so unlikely to happen.
This whole story for me just screams red flags, what Gabe did (in all versions of his story) goes against all training that divers do! Even taking your eyes off your buddy while replacing your regulator long enough that they sink out of risk is insane!? It’s such a quick fix/and a skill that is taught and retaught at each level of training.
I am always so shocked and confused about the fact he wasn’t charged with anything in Alabama!
Thanks for covering this story, loved binging your videos over the past 48 hours and glad to see this one pop up!!!!!
he should've at least been found guilty of manslaughter in Alabama for being a certified rescue diver and shirking his responsibility of properly rescuing a diver!!
I have gone diving a few times and they DRILL into you how to replace your regulator and not panic (like this dude claims to have panicked)
I’ve only taken a couple dive classes (couldn’t continue because it made my asthma act up) and I could have sworn that literally the 2nd thing I learned was what to do to get the respirator back in if you lose it. It was like: Lesson One- this is how you breathe. Lesson Two- if your respirator comes out, this is what you do.
I don’t know all the legal stuff - could he be charged for something he allegedly did in Australia in Alabama? Shouldn’t he be charged in Australia? Curious.
I know nothing about diving. But when I heard this story on the news, I knew he was responsible for not even attempting to help her.
It angers me when the "courts" DON'T allow ALL the evidence in!!!!! 😡🤬 Isn't that failing the victim!!??!!
Alabama: there’s not enough evidence
Me: WELL MAYBE ITS BECAUSE YOU REJECTED ALL THE EVIDENCE
So much this! Everyone failed that girl and her family
seriously tho, very suspish.
Perhaps the judge said the father's conversation with his daughter would be heresy? But I also think there's another rule that concerns people who have died?
T Angle do you mean “hearsay”? If it was a conversation between Gabe and Tina’s dad, it should be a viable point of evidence. Hearsay is when a third party that didn’t actually witness the conversation would have reported it. I bet Gabe had connections and there were some back room dealings going on.
@@sarahmant3745 the conversation was between father and daughter, and there is only one party alive to confirm that claim
I’m from Australia and remember this being a big story here too. The part that makes me angry is if he was charged here he would at least do time, but because they insisted on taking him back, he gets cleared. Something suspish big time!
He did get charged in Australia and only got 18 months
Kim Parish more than he got in Alabama
Kim Parish but he didn’t do the time for it because he went back to the states
I’m from Australia as well, I literally live in Townsville 😶
Melanie, exactly! i was thinking the same thing!
As an Alabamian and a friend of Tina's sister's ex husband, we all believe that Gabe is GUILTY!!
So you kinda knew Tina?
@@crystallamay1085 no, I know her sisters (husband at that time) now her ex husband.
Camille Whitfield yea but but like you distantly knew her
@@crystallamay1085 no ma'am. He never talked about it for real until the movie on Lifetime came out.
I hope karma comes for him bc he looks guilty af, I feel so bad for her dad.
Your eyes look fantastic Bailey
The most relatable beauty guru out there! The fact that you don't have over 2 million followers yet is crazy! Ive been watching you for over a year now. I love your videos! ❤
Shes getting there lol
Guilty! Guilty! GUILTY!!!! Ugh! I'm so dissapointed. Her family, I couldn't imagine how they must feel.
J's Pei Babies thank you!! Finally a comment not mentioning merch, the theme song or using the “no one: absolutely no one: Bailey: “comment format. You actually care more about the tragedy being discussed, which I wish were true of everyone watching this video...
@@Peanut_taco_muffin Thank you so much, it really really bothered me. I just couldn't fathom the pain and complete disregard for the life that he had took away. They will never get their daughter back. It's just disheartening and sad. Hugs and blessings to you Britt Conester ♥
“The lord is testing me, and I didn’t study” i need this on merch IMMEDIATELY!!! Thanks, love you, bye 💜
That eye makeup is amazing and makes your eyes pop and look so beautiful.
Is it bad that I was suspish from the minute Bailey said he just kept asking her out over and over, even though she had told him she was in a relationship and engaged so I'm guessing a serious one at the time. xAndyx
nope that was it for me right there
You know, my first thought was that he did away with her as revenge for multiple rejections.
I was sus the moment she said his name
me: studying for exams
bailey: uploads video
me: puts everything down to watch
ILY SO MUCH BAILEY
SAME!
S A M E
Same, I legit have an exam in 12 hours but oh well
SAME. There goes my grade
This case actually bothers me. It makes me so mad. He’s clearly guilty as heck.