What I am noticing is that after following Brendon and then following Dean and Tony, Brendon is the kinder, gentler, messenger. It feels so right to be here.
*Most people sit around and wait for inspiration, just some rare people get up and get to work.* *I may not know you personally, but I believe in you that you will succeed!* 🙏
Out of the three Ted talks I’ve watched on conflict resolution the past few days, this video was a quarter of the length and many times more engaging and effective. Thank you, I learned some great stuff here.
So well said - especially at the end about how the longer you wait to resolve the conflict, the more your stance is calcified and harder to change as opposed to resolving the disagreement in the moment where you’d be more fluid. These skills would’ve been such a blessing to have in my younger years and I’m grateful to be able to teach and share them with others now. 🙏
“We need to accept that we won’t always make the right decisions, that we’ll screw up royally sometimes - understanding that failure is not the opposite of success, it’s part of success.”some of us we see failing as failure. Have a delightful day sharing some positivity to your side
Thanks Brendon! I need to reach out to someone who I had a conflict with long ago. I can use some of this. I appreciate you. Happy to say, my daughter was in a conflict resolution group in elementary school and it was really good for her to learn how to do people-ing.
Sometimes when you apologize first in a toxic relationship or environment, they can blame you anyway and tag you for trying to find excuses for your mistakes. Maybe that's the parameter for a healthy interaction...when they accept apologies and work together to repair.
Thank you, Brendon!; You are succinct and to the point! Continued prosperity, health and never ending blessings to you and your beautiful family full family
People always tell me I am "afraid" of confrontation. I feel that I am just a positive person so I constantly trying to keep it focused on a positive light. I focus on how it is okay to have differences but it doesn't have to be a fight. So people call me a doormat, a push over, I avoid conflict. I just choose to reserve my energy for positive.
If this video had 100 million views and ppl were open to change, this content could change so many negative outcomes in leadership, government and personal relationships
There IS a school that teaches Conflict Resolution ... at each developmental level PS through 8th grade. I designed it specifically to address the relevant to life topics and subjects that are not covered in typical schools, and Conflict Resolution is certainly tops on that list for our school. We teach people how to do peopling! *I could not just scroll on through without piping up on that. There is hope, one school at a time! 》》 Woodson Branch Nature School in the mountains of NC ♡♡
What to do if ur person keeps repeating the same thing over n over again and keeps breaking his promise everytime. I m referring to thing thts been really damaging to our relationship ....You are bound to get mad that time. How do you resolve such conflict tht time
What do you do when you come across people who don't apologize? Or, who don't even acknowledge their own mistakes and don't consider they should apologize because they consider they havent done anything wrong.
Love Brendon, but this video assumes one person in a conflict is "right" and the other is "wrong" and therefore an apology is appropriate. Conflicts, however, simply have a right and wrong -- both (or all) parties simply have different needs that are in conflict with one another. Like on person likes the toilet paper over, and the other likes If under. One person wants to go to the movies, the other wants to stay home. One person wants to go to her mother's house for Christmas, the other wants to go to his. Etc. Etc. Etc. Figuring this out based on right-and-wrong is counterproductive.
What I am noticing is that after following Brendon and then following Dean and Tony, Brendon is the kinder, gentler, messenger. It feels so right to be here.
*Most people sit around and wait for inspiration, just some rare people get up and get to work.*
*I may not know you personally, but I believe in you that you will succeed!* 🙏
Out of the three Ted talks I’ve watched on conflict resolution the past few days, this video was a quarter of the length and many times more engaging and effective.
Thank you, I learned some great stuff here.
So well said - especially at the end about how the longer you wait to resolve the conflict, the more your stance is calcified and harder to change as opposed to resolving the disagreement in the moment where you’d be more fluid. These skills would’ve been such a blessing to have in my younger years and I’m grateful to be able to teach and share them with others now. 🙏
I don't think I would be able to argue with this guy. He is the skill !
“We need to accept that we won’t always make the right decisions, that we’ll screw up royally sometimes - understanding that failure is not the opposite of success, it’s part of success.”some of us we see failing as failure. Have a delightful day sharing some positivity to your side
Conflict resolution is critical and learning to repair is so important. Thanks for sharing!
Indeed! It is more rewarding to repair and resolve a conflict than to dissolve a relationship !!
Thanks Brendon! I need to reach out to someone who I had a conflict with long ago. I can use some of this. I appreciate you.
Happy to say, my daughter was in a conflict resolution group in elementary school and it was really good for her to learn how to do people-ing.
Sometimes when you apologize first in a toxic relationship or environment, they can blame you anyway and tag you for trying to find excuses for your mistakes. Maybe that's the parameter for a healthy interaction...when they accept apologies and work together to repair.
Is it still toxic ?
Thank you, Brendon!; You are succinct and to the point! Continued prosperity, health and never ending blessings to you and your beautiful family full family
People always tell me I am "afraid" of confrontation. I feel that I am just a positive person so I constantly trying to keep it focused on a positive light. I focus on how it is okay to have differences but it doesn't have to be a fight. So people call me a doormat, a push over, I avoid conflict. I just choose to reserve my energy for positive.
If this video had 100 million views and ppl were open to change, this content could change so many negative outcomes in leadership, government and personal relationships
This man is wonderful. I'm using his videos to learn English. hehe
There IS a school that teaches Conflict Resolution ... at each developmental level PS through 8th grade. I designed it specifically to address the relevant to life topics and subjects that are not covered in typical schools, and Conflict Resolution is certainly tops on that list for our school. We teach people how to do peopling! *I could not just scroll on through without piping up on that. There is hope, one school at a time! 》》 Woodson Branch Nature School in the mountains of NC ♡♡
Thanks Brendon. I love your show!!!
Awesome advice for all of us…thank you!
You are speaking facts sir!!!
What to do if ur person keeps repeating the same thing over n over again and keeps breaking his promise everytime. I m referring to thing thts been really damaging to our relationship ....You are bound to get mad that time. How do you resolve such conflict tht time
What do you do when you come across people who don't apologize? Or, who don't even acknowledge their own mistakes and don't consider they should apologize because they consider they havent done anything wrong.
Wow, great video!
Some people like conflict
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Love Brendon, but this video assumes one person in a conflict is "right" and the other is "wrong" and therefore an apology is appropriate. Conflicts, however, simply have a right and wrong -- both (or all) parties simply have different needs that are in conflict with one another. Like on person likes the toilet paper over, and the other likes If under. One person wants to go to the movies, the other wants to stay home. One person wants to go to her mother's house for Christmas, the other wants to go to his. Etc. Etc. Etc. Figuring this out based on right-and-wrong is counterproductive.
This man has never been hurt. Trying having a husband that’s a psychopath with baby mother drama.
what are the six techniques now? 😅😒
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