Rich kids can fall back easily on track because they have resources of work , money , property to rely on so they can waste few years doing fun but middles class kids can’t fall back, they will lose mainly their time and efforts which could lead them ahead to success 👍🏻 Good topic sir
There is another reason, they are habitual of changing tastes, money allows them to change the kind of 'bhog' faster and then they get bored of these and quit whereas for middle class it's suppressed and that suppression incarnates into a more powerful revelation of the bhog
That's true. All my upsc friends who came from modest backgrounds went back to teaching. Whereas the ones who had some kind of back up went abroad to study and become stable again.
My 10 year old daughter's school fees is also extremely high - 2.5 lacs in 5th grade, I'm taking a loan to pay it this year.. had i known this point I would've put her in a cheaper school.. this was very enlightening.. thank you so much.. will change her school next year !!
If one can overcome peer pressure then he achieves the first stage of happiness 😊. Overcoming peer pressure is so difficult nowadays because of social media. Where family vlogs on TH-cam are scripted/unnatural/dramatized, Beauty/Handsome standards are so high & unnatural. Drinking/smoking/weed/substance abuse became a norm and people glorifies it. And polarization is at all time high and is here to increase further more. If you are bad you find bad social media content. If you are good you find good media content.
K. This peer pressure is not only in schools, colleges but also in the work. People drink to socialize and see people who don't drink, or smoke with indifference. People are succumbing to such pressure to have company.
Ek video aur banaye ....ki middle class parents kyun apne se jayda paise wali family ke Bahu dhonte hai..jabki wo uski maintenance nahi kar pata .and fall apart the marriages..huge difference ho jata hai dono family ke Rehan sahan mein...
Another on point topic. Thank you. I am also a victim of this unknowingly. Hamare bhi mata pita ne jaise taise uss society me bhej to diya ki hum bhi kuch ban jayenge, lekin uss process me jo hamare sath beeti wo time pe realize na kar sake ar na hi ab kisi ko bata sakte hai. Ab hum na idhar ke hai na udhar ke. Now living with an unbaked undeveloped personality. Would really be helpful if you can elaborate more on this. How middle class gets trapped and what should such children do once they are caught up in this?
Bilkul sahi sirji...middle-class wale mare mare firte hai ..agar ek baar bidg jaye to back karna impossible hai..rich family or affluent family ki baat kar reh ho..bilkul sahi kah reh hai ..
K..sir yeh haal office mein bhi hain...peer pressure mein akey , drinking, smoking...aur wapas aney ka rasta bhi nahin hota for aur family life disturb hota hai..mainly jab chote seher se ja k Mumbai k offc culture dekhte Hain tab ..ek hi haal hai, bacchon k sath bhi aur bacchon k baap k bhi 😀
NETFLIX India recently released a webseries on the same topic mentioned by you literally called "CLASS" portraying lower middle class students going to a posh school , would be really enlightening if you could do a special video on the same topic you discussed at 4:47 which is a higher order thinking concept
K Baat samajh mein aayi sir. I was strong enuf to understand that not drinking alcohol is good. I stay away from cold drinks too. But I cant see the same thinking in my 11 year old daughter. My wife drinks socially and I dnt want to force her to stop it unless she feels the need. I dnt know how I can keep my daughter away from it.
K Sir, Astro ki class kab shuru karenge ap...we are waiting aur na hi aapne numberology pe video banaya...sir February khatam hokar 11 march ho gaya...kam se kam ek video to bana dijiye hamen apki knowledge chahiye aur apki knowledge hi chahiye...pyase to kab tak tarpaoge sir...vaise apki har video ko dekh kar MAG aa jata hai sir...MAG ☺🥰
Just a perception...now a days middle class kids are too smart and they too understand the situation...if a middle class kids goes to top institutions then only next generation becomes rich..
Actually parents themselves put children in peer pressure, parents by listening to teachers want their children to be smart & outgoing like other in majorly cases rich , They don't classify that they want their children only to be smart in studies, which truly happens in other rich classes , true they know when to stop & come back, There is a role of teachers ruining any students life , because teachers want only smart ppl chattering in class dying to answer simple questions sk that entire period us over in this only Also here middle class & rich depends on innocence & how much experience ppl have, Innocent first timers can be called as poor or middle class, like middle class ppl who keep struggling due to less money, just the same way they keep struggling with less experience, &by the time they have accumulated wealth in this case experience entire life is gone, Here parents support play a big role Parents from childhood should have open communication with children, if any teacher or outsider want their children to behave differently they should talk openly & try to understand what is the outer environment
Hi Sir, Tier 2 MBA graduate here.I am earning 15lkh p.a 2 years of workex. So confused if I should go abroad for MSc in finance or stay here and continue here. What I can see is within 10 years I will become VP/Director if things go right. But I want more from life. My parents want me to get married and settled by 28 age and I have only 2 more years to decide If I want to move abroad or not. I am also facing this issue where most of the girls who are working want to settle abroad eventually. Where as I want to go there and earn some money for next 4-5 yrs and eventually stay here only. I believe it is very tough to find a girl with same thinking. I recently broke up with my ex because she wanted to settle abroad. I am so confused if I should pursue education abroad or not. Because I believe it's one of the things that girls are looking for in a groom. One of my friend's sister got divorced 3 years after marriage because his husband didn't want to go abroad. I mean it has become one of the major factor which can break the marriage apart. What will be the right step. If you can make video on this topic it will be really helpful for those coming in the marriage market. P.S.~ I am also skepticall about the rise of Indian economy. I have been hearing about bullet train since I was in class 6th. Now I am 25 years old and still bullet train is work in progress 😢. This makes me to question my decision of staying back here and not pursuing my Masters abroad.
You’re doing pretty decent for your age, why is there a need to go abroad for a few years and then come back when you can already live a peaceful life with a good job??
There is a old video of Amitji where he said first decide which city you want to stay rest of your life, thn choose the girl who want to stay with you in that city and thn find the best job in that city.... you can find out that video too... perhaps it give you more clarity...
Rich kids can fall back easily on track because they have resources of work , money , property to rely on so they can waste few years doing fun but middles class kids can’t fall back, they will lose mainly their time and efforts which could lead them ahead to success 👍🏻
Good topic sir
Happy holi sir ji 🙏🙏🙏u are great teacher sir ji very nicely u are explaining each every content sir ji I definitely agree with you words sir ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Agree fully...
There is another reason, they are habitual of changing tastes, money allows them to change the kind of 'bhog' faster and then they get bored of these and quit whereas for middle class it's suppressed and that suppression incarnates into a more powerful revelation of the bhog
That's true. All my upsc friends who came from modest backgrounds went back to teaching. Whereas the ones who had some kind of back up went abroad to study and become stable again.
Happy Holi To All
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Happy holi budhau
Happy holi sir🙏
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I am 34 and father to two, 2 year old and 4 year old. These words of knowledge will gear us for the future ahead. Dhanyawad Guruji!
6:00 "Sanskar ghuse pade hain aur exposure alag type ka daal diya" truly some HOTS (Higher Order Thinking Skill)
Most poweful parenting fundamental shared in this video - "Aapka bachcha aap hai."
Very true sir..... Ameeri logon ka bachche will come back on track... I have witnessed it
My 10 year old daughter's school fees is also extremely high - 2.5 lacs in 5th grade, I'm taking a loan to pay it this year.. had i known this point I would've put her in a cheaper school.. this was very enlightening.. thank you so much.. will change her school next year !!
aap loan chukaoge kaise agar har saal fee ke liye loan loge to.🙏 T C
Online platforms are there to learn and any school is good to clear classes.
School is useless. Do home schooling n let her appear for matriculation as a private student
No point in sending the child to very expensive school.
If one can overcome peer pressure then he achieves the first stage of happiness 😊.
Overcoming peer pressure is so difficult nowadays because of social media.
Where family vlogs on TH-cam are scripted/unnatural/dramatized, Beauty/Handsome standards are so high & unnatural.
Drinking/smoking/weed/substance abuse became a norm and people glorifies it.
And polarization is at all time high and is here to increase further more.
If you are bad you find bad social media content.
If you are good you find good media content.
K. This peer pressure is not only in schools, colleges but also in the work. People drink to socialize and see people who don't drink, or smoke with indifference. People are succumbing to such pressure to have company.
Pehla bnda aisa h jo 15...16 walo ki problem samjhta h....25...26 walo ko bhi samjhta h
Sir aapki sari video sunkee life Mai hope si lagati hai .. nahi toh hum bhatak kae kho jaate... thanks for sharing ur knowledge
High on energy and high on confidence... Parents ka hi baat bacche sunenge
Great sir ji. 100% agree. I have been propogating this thought for many years. I observed this on myself during college and professional life.
कितनी जबरदस्त बात की sir आपने,,,, जानते सबके मां बाप है पर बताते किसी के नही है,,,🙏🙏
True
Ek video aur banaye ....ki middle class parents kyun apne se jayda paise wali family ke Bahu dhonte hai..jabki wo uski maintenance nahi kar pata .and fall apart the marriages..huge difference ho jata hai dono family ke Rehan sahan mein...
bahut achha vichar he apka.i m mom of 17 y boy .its really helpful for me. 🙏
Sir, you're 120% right with your analysis and understanding. Thank you for highlighting❤
Another on point topic. Thank you. I am also a victim of this unknowingly. Hamare bhi mata pita ne jaise taise uss society me bhej to diya ki hum bhi kuch ban jayenge, lekin uss process me jo hamare sath beeti wo time pe realize na kar sake ar na hi ab kisi ko bata sakte hai. Ab hum na idhar ke hai na udhar ke. Now living with an unbaked undeveloped personality. Would really be helpful if you can elaborate more on this. How middle class gets trapped and what should such children do once they are caught up in this?
I feel sorry for you. And after a certain age it is very hard to make new close friendships that we make in schools.
Yes totally agree with you. I have noticed that rich kids get back on track somehow after few years of getting spoilt
Bilkul sahi sirji...middle-class wale mare mare firte hai ..agar ek baar bidg jaye to back karna impossible hai..rich family or affluent family ki baat kar reh ho..bilkul sahi kah reh hai ..
Very knowledgeable video. Thank you sir.
Thanks for bringing this topic.... apparently i send my kid to one of such institutions ....i totally agree of your take 💯👍🏼😁
Namaskar Mr. Sangwan. Wise and practical advice!
Namaskar sir ! Holi ke din bhi aap itna mehnat kar rahe hain . Truly a guru 🙏
K..sir yeh haal office mein bhi hain...peer pressure mein akey , drinking, smoking...aur wapas aney ka rasta bhi nahin hota for aur family life disturb hota hai..mainly jab chote seher se ja k Mumbai k offc culture dekhte Hain tab ..ek hi haal hai, bacchon k sath bhi aur bacchon k baap k bhi 😀
How to keep parents from peer pressure...uncleji ispar pakka ek video baiye... 🙏
Mazza Aa Gaya, Amit Sir! 🔥
Absolutely wonderful session..
Thank you Sir
Very good observation
Seedhi baat hai Ameer can afford bigda bacha, daru drugs ladki ghumi ghumi ka paisa khandan uta sakta hai, gareeb ka nhi 😂
I enjoy ur videos, thank you
गुरु ग्राम के गुरु जी को होली की बधाई।
the thing is to teach children to be proud of who they are
Great observation..
Sirji, thank you so much for this video. I really needed this guidance and thought process. More parenting videos please 🙏
Jo taane marte hai aur compare karte rehte hai,woh bhi to peer pressure hai jo parents create karte hai
Great knowledge sir.....🙏🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐💐
Thanks very much sir
With Gratitude 🙏🙏
Very valuable as well as interesting topic... 😊
Thanku sir for this valuable advice
New topics are awesome 😎 life upsc wale uncle ho aap
Very pertinent podcast. Thank you. Happy holi
Kya baat great sir ji. Mag
Very intresting topic .....and what you said about schools is absolutely true.....
Great eye opener video.
Bilkul sahi baat h sirji
Very practical thinking!
Good content
Thank you sir K 👍
I can relate this with myself...
Excellent advice.
Happy holi sir❤
Well said
Very clear as always
Thank you sir. K
K
Thank you
This is so true sirji
Thank you sir for bringing such topics n giving us clarity, means a lot
K
Thank you Sir
K
With lots of thanks
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Thank you sir ji. K
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Life changing
Felt every word of this masterpiece💎
Of course k hai sir always. Happy holi
K. Sir , ji 🙏
Wonderful k
NETFLIX India recently released a webseries on the same topic mentioned by you literally called "CLASS" portraying lower middle class students going to a posh school , would be really enlightening if you could do a special video on the same topic you discussed at 4:47 which is a higher order thinking concept
Happy Holi Amitji !! Keep spreading Happiness
Right ❤❤
Thank you sir... :-)
Buying property in Mumbai pls make video on it
Thankyou sir
Rich kids come back on track or their parents can financially help them to settle in life
K
Baat samajh mein aayi sir. I was strong enuf to understand that not drinking alcohol is good. I stay away from cold drinks too. But I cant see the same thinking in my 11 year old daughter. My wife drinks socially and I dnt want to force her to stop it unless she feels the need. I dnt know how I can keep my daughter away from it.
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Hiii are you want to marry with me I need real entrepreneur girl on my business
K 🙏🙏
Guru Ji 🙏🏼🙏🏼Wish you and family a very Happy Holi 🎉
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Nice video
Good topic
Nice
Totally understand the 3rd, 4th, 5th order thinking. Thanks for explaining it so well
Boht h sahi sir higher class bhjj ke merriage vali bevkoofi nai krde sune
K
Sir, Astro ki class kab shuru karenge ap...we are waiting aur na hi aapne numberology pe video banaya...sir February khatam hokar 11 march ho gaya...kam se kam ek video to bana dijiye hamen apki knowledge chahiye aur apki knowledge hi chahiye...pyase to kab tak tarpaoge sir...vaise apki har video ko dekh kar MAG aa jata hai sir...MAG ☺🥰
Sir parental tips ke upar please toda aur gyan 🙏🙏🙏
Just a perception...now a days middle class kids are too smart and they too understand the situation...if a middle class kids goes to top institutions then only next generation becomes rich..
Actually parents themselves put children in peer pressure, parents by listening to teachers want their children to be smart & outgoing like other in majorly cases rich ,
They don't classify that they want their children only to be smart in studies, which truly happens in other rich classes , true they know when to stop & come back,
There is a role of teachers ruining any students life , because teachers want only smart ppl chattering in class dying to answer simple questions sk that entire period us over in this only
Also here middle class & rich depends on innocence & how much experience ppl have,
Innocent first timers can be called as poor or middle class, like middle class ppl who keep struggling due to less money, just the same way they keep struggling with less experience, &by the time they have accumulated wealth in this case experience entire life is gone,
Here parents support play a big role
Parents from childhood should have open communication with children, if any teacher or outsider want their children to behave differently they should talk openly & try to understand what is the outer environment
D crest are you indicating sir???
Hi Sir, Tier 2 MBA graduate here.I am earning 15lkh p.a 2 years of workex. So confused if I should go abroad for MSc in finance or stay here and continue here. What I can see is within 10 years I will become VP/Director if things go right. But I want more from life. My parents want me to get married and settled by 28 age and I have only 2 more years to decide If I want to move abroad or not.
I am also facing this issue where most of the girls who are working want to settle abroad eventually. Where as I want to go there and earn some money for next 4-5 yrs and eventually stay here only. I believe it is very tough to find a girl with same thinking. I recently broke up with my ex because she wanted to settle abroad. I am so confused if I should pursue education abroad or not. Because I believe it's one of the things that girls are looking for in a groom. One of my friend's sister got divorced 3 years after marriage because his husband didn't want to go abroad. I mean it has become one of the major factor which can break the marriage apart. What will be the right step. If you can make video on this topic it will be really helpful for those coming in the marriage market.
P.S.~ I am also skepticall about the rise of Indian economy. I have been hearing about bullet train since I was in class 6th. Now I am 25 years old and still bullet train is work in progress 😢. This makes me to question my decision of staying back here and not pursuing my Masters abroad.
You’re doing pretty decent for your age, why is there a need to go abroad for a few years and then come back when you can already live a peaceful life with a good job??
There is a old video of Amitji where he said first decide which city you want to stay rest of your life, thn choose the girl who want to stay with you in that city and thn find the best job in that city.... you can find out that video too... perhaps it give you more clarity...
Dear Sir,
Make video on Women's day
Men's day pe jaroor bnana pehle bol raha hoon,nhi toh dono channel unsubscribe kar dunga
So true
Super K
Happy Holi
Can somebody tell me what school is he talking about?
Sanskar middle class Wale aur exposure ameeron wale 🙏wah
Sir kaise bachayenge phir aapne baccho ko kuki ye to ho raha hai ya hone wala hai
🙏
K
K pitaji. Always.
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