Something I would like to point out is that when a guy has low self-esteem and doesn't think a girl could possibly be into them, they miss all of these signs. The hints could be obvious and his thoughts are "Oh, she's just friendly" "She's just being nice."
1. mirroring your movements 2. moving closer to you 3. physically touching you 4. fixing her hair 5. blushing/ nervous behaviour 6. eye contact (7. her feet are facing towards you)
For any women listening …girl tip: Courtney has an attractive feminine voice…. If you have one too …don’t change it, I’ve noticed a lot of women today try to deepen their voice and adopt a boyish voice etc….. don’t do that.
They say first impressions are most important. I agree. If it sounds like she has been smoking for 20 years, it is a big turn off. Men naturally want a feminine friend.
@@DrewJones-o3c As I say to Charlie above, I am drawn to female smokers. I find their deep raspy voice to be very highly attractive. Think of Lauren Bacall.
Your comment is very interesting, Charlie. I am quite the opposite. I find deep, raspy voices that rise on occasion and crack in emotion to be very highly attractive. I like Lauren Bacall's voice as well as Debra Winger's. I don't find high pitched voices to be as attractive. I might like someone in spite of speaking in a high voice, but it's a turn-off in itself. A number of my girlfriends have been smokers, which heightens this effect that I like. Strangely, they also drive standard transmissions. I don't know what is going on there.
Heads up on the touching thing, lads... I was once infatuated with a lady who touched my arm when telling me I needed to get some sleep before going on her way. Literally EVERYONE that witnessed this turned and essentially asked me when I would be making my move because she just blatantly flirted with me. Having low self esteem, no part of me thought that she had been flirting. Turns out she wasn't flirting. I took my shot and got rejected. I don't doubt that it usually means flirtation, but itnot ALWAYS flirtation.
Yea man..women do NOT give clear indications that they are interested. A woman that is interested and a woman that is being friendly give the same "signs" there is no difference. Women are just kids in adult bodies. Us men have to initiate everything and figure who likes us while they just sit back and do absolutely nothing. They complicate finding love for everyone including themselves.
Context is always Key, personally i wouldn't of made a move on a girl that told me i should get some sleep it sounds just friendly,But if a girl tells you how much she thinks you're handsome, get all the girls or stuff like that, it's pretty much a green light
@@HumanoidSnow well this was less about her suggesting I sleep and more about her touching my arm when she said it. Physical contact is not always a green light was what I was trying to say.
If she is constantly on her cell phone while being in front of you. She definitely not in to you and is probably on social media trying to get another lad to replace you. :-D
She wasn’t showing any of those, but when I said my family owns 5% of all Apple stock all of a sudden I saw 6/6 signs. I guess once she saw my personality she liked me. :)
Money matters in being a husband. The key to a wife's happiness is twofold: 1. The man brings in at least 2/3 of the family income 2. He is very emotionally committed to her and shows it in his being attentive to her. See the study on this by UVA sociologists Steven Nock and Brad Wilcox, "What's Love Got to Do with It? Equality, Equity & Commitment," *Social Forces,* March 2006.
Sunday night 05 September 2021. 1. Mirrors your movements. 2. Moving closer to you. 3. Physically touching you. 4. Fixing her hair, playing with her hair, twisting her hair, preening. 5. Blushing or nervous behavior. 6. Eye contact. 7. Feet pointing at you.
1,. If she reacts emotionally to you,good or bad! Women are pretty neutral to guys they dont like! 2 She tried to display obviously good personality traits. I’ve had boring women try to show me there are adventurous because they like me
I was always very socially inept. Due to my learned negative attitude toward girls growing up, I would usually either be completely non-reactive and confused as to why they were talking to me, or be just cold and/or rude to make them get away from me. In 2017 - at age 45 and 15 years into marriage - I, out of curiosity, started studying PUA, social dynamics, social cues, sex, etc. on YT and books and I realized how many times over the decades girls had tried to get my attention and I didn't see it. I missed out on dozens of opportunities to be with some wonderful girls. This realization caused me to go into some deep depressive states knowing what I missed in life. I see guys in these forums complain that girls never approach - how wrong they are. Now that I've learned over the last few years the signs (IoIs) to look for, I see them everywhere and recognize when a woman is trying to make an approach as well as just have much improved social/professional interactions. It's not hard, but it takes learning and practice because they are usually very subtle. I just wish someone had taught me this stuff when I was like 15yo - it would have saved me a lot of loneliness and depression.
Dam that’s unfortunate man, wish you good health, want to be my master and give me tips on what to look out for when a woman is wanting you to talk to her, I’d be honoured if you could take the time sir
Seriously. This has also happened to me before, but I'm fortunate that I still have time (30). Before covid hit, I was learning all of these signs. Now I'm having to relearn everything. I also noticed the signs are super obvious when you're not interested in the girl. Great chance to study/learn her body language. I also noticed when I'm my most confident (in shape, well-dressed, etc.) the signs become more apparent with even the girls that you are interested (mostly because they signal their interests harder due to liking what they see).
I know the feeling mate , since the age of 15 I somehow always missed the boat. I've had a ...lot of opportunities (all missed) 40 years on I'm still missing the boat. Pretty sad actually I appreciate your honesty. Thank you
Your videos are always the perfect length, 5 - 15 minutes. I've seen some TH-camrs that have 45 - 60 minute long videos on their topic, sad because they're usually good topics but who has 1 hour to spare? and if you can't convey your message in 5 - 15 minutes something is wrong. Kudos to you for knowing your audience!
I've never had this problem. I always know when a woman is in to me. Women try to send signs because they aren't outwardly aggressive about it. I think women don't typically know when a guy is into them if he isn't aggressive about it. Women assume if you're not fawning all over them, you must not be interested.
That’s an interesting point! I think it probably depends on the woman. I’ve always been able to tell when people are into me, even if it wasn’t super direct!
@@CourtneyRyan Definitely all women know when somebody is into them. 100% they know! Pass physical attraction test, be a challenge and mystery then she will not know HOW MUCH you like her or how many women you date. It is a dream for every beautifull women with high self esteem to get that type of man.
This could be simplified even more with the simple idea: "If a girl is acting weird, and it's not for a negative reason, she's into you". That sums up everything in this video. Weird is just anything unusual, which most girls are not ordinarily doing when around you.
While all of these signs are likely to indicate whether a girl is responding to your advances, the main thing is not working from the outside in but rather from the inside out. Do you, as the man, feel inextricably drawn to her so that you feel that you cannot live without her? If so, you can win her over in most cases whether she responds positively at first, but very likely she will respond positively fairly quickly. This is something that you should feel internally. I am speaking only of romantic love, not lust. Lust is a different story and for that you do need to reply more on these outward signs. In the case of lust, you would, in most cases, seek to hide your dishonorable intentions from her. In love, you can uses these outward signs as confirmation, but the main thing is how you feel, not how she feels at first. The man is the initiator and the woman is the responder; the man is the one who falls in love, not the woman. If the woman does initiate the interaction, then be very careful because women tend to be attracted to differences, not so much similarities. Many are also emphasizing a sexual attraction, not a personal attraction. If you are only interested in a sexual fling, then this girl is more of what you are looking for. Again ( in reference to other comments that I have made reacting to Courtney's analysis), women are sexually drawn to men who are significantly different from them as a rule because the genetic differences produce healthier children. This is an unconscious draw, but it is there and has been shown to be in studies such as women finding men's sweaty t-shirts who are very different from them genetically to be more appealing in terms of scent. This is also a big reason why women many times having a hard time being attracted to a man who is their close friend. The man might be very good looking and have a lot going for him, but she has a hard time opening up to him physically because he is more similar to her in temperament, which is also genetically determined. Such a man is best for her and for him, but the match is rooted more in compatibility rather than complementarity. The former is more important to men while the latter is more important to a woman. Incidentally, typically the reason that a man is only friends with a woman is because she is not good looking enough or there is some barrier to a romantic relationship such as one or both of them being married and moral. But in most cases, but not all, complementarity if it becomes too pronounced leads to conflict, misunderstanding, and alienation. See Jane Austen novels for how these issues play out. She was very realistic in pointing out how women are naturally drawn to the wrong man as they overlook or are even repulsed initially by the right man for her and her for him. Mr. Darcy was right for Lizzy all along, never George Wickham who was not only different but was a scoundrel. Many women tend also to be drawn to scoundrels. From my own experience, even though I am hardly a scoundrel, leftwing women who make the best mates for me find my conservative beliefs to be evil and so view me as a type of scoundrel.
Can’t remember if it was as How to Beast or Teaching Men’s Fashion that I was watching, but one or both of them gave good tips for maintaining eye contact. I’m excited to try these out next time I approach a girl! The first one is to look around the girl’s face when you’re talking to her and not just her eyes. That way it doesn’t feel like you’re giving her a death stare. The second tip is to look off to the side instead of looking down while talking to her because it gives off a more confident body language
Your videos are always a pleasure to watch. These are very solid points. Let me add a few more. #8 she is giggling all the time at anything you say. #9 Suddenly she becomes *extra* talkative. #10 she is rubbing her glass. If you see any of these my friend, you are in solid territory. Regarding touching... Another solid hint. But not every girl will break the "touch barrier" first. I recommend that you "accidentally" touch her (forearm, back of the hand...) very early in the date. Now watch her touch you back :-)
If a girl giggles or her voice goes soft, it’s a good sign. She is subconsciously trying to appear more feminine. Look at the vid on Teddy’s channel where He gives Courtney the Rado Captain Cook. Hear her voice change in pitch around Teddy, she goes super soft and girly submissive. As for eye contact, yes, if a girl likes you, as long as she’s not super shy she will return it. And if she is she’ll often look away but then look back to check you are still looking at her. You can even gauge attraction by seeing if she starts fidgeting or playing with her hair (again subconsciously indicating femininity). There’s a girl I know, if I give her strong eye contact into her left eye, she’ll start playing with the hair on that side. If I shift to the right, so will her fidgeting. If I wasn’t married……….
When they put themselves in your way, HUGE sign she wants to be spoken to. It's hard for me to differentiate women who have genuine interest from narcissistic attention seekers who feign similar "signs of interest" but reject you shortly after you make a move.
you make a great point here, some women just want to toy you, they can show all of these signs of interest but when you make a move they embarrass you by rejecting you, so be careful about these women.
It really is all about the eyes. Got one now that we make eye contact, hold it, and we both smile. Lasts for minutes at a time. Do you think we like each other? Guarded heart but looks like it's melting by degrees. This is fun.
I think one must also consider the context of the individual. For example, some people did not grow up in a physically affectionate home, and don't practice it a lot in their personal lives, so if they're into you, them not touching you isn't a sign, it's just her norm. I've been in this situation before, and I will naturally reach out to touch her, be close to her, and hug her when I feel like it, and she never responds badly to it. Some people are just not good with touch, but if you touch her and she doesn't react well, that is likely a sign, because though she may not be good with touch, as in, feeling comfortable about reaching out to touch you, when you touch her she will know very quickly if this is comfortable or not. I noticed that the more I touched her, the more she would feel comfortable inserting herself into my personal space.
I've women point out to me a woman I'd been talking with had ALL these signals. " Shes really into you! It's so obvious!" No she was NOT to put it delicately. So I'm not convinced, as this has happened more than once.
@@sukhmann5623 i agree totally. none of this signs matter when after finding out she doesnt like you at all...more often than not women send this signals and unfortunately theyre not attracted to the guy at all...the touching this is the tricky part cuz theyd be touchy out being comfortable only or just a way of extending friendship. as a matter of fact girls who actually like you will try their best not to do all this signals to not give away that theyre into you..
Could you possibly do a video for the younger audience? Such as teenagers and those in high school and college? I feel like it’s a different operation than what we’ve been seeing here
The feet pointing thing is real. I know a girl, she can be sitting next to me at a bar with her entire body facing away yet somehow her feet still point back towards me. Last weekend she was at a table with her good (girl) friend talking, I sat down about 10 feet away, looked over, her body was facing her friend, away from me but, somehow her feet still found me. It’s almost a contortionist move.
Great video Courtney!!!! I find having an open and honest friendship is a great start to a great friendship. If we can be friends, we can be lovers. That is why I value basic friendship so much. And in life we all need friends.
I dated a girl once for like 2 months and I felt really connected to her (hoping she would as well) but she ended the relationship saying it felt like friends having sex and so forth… 🤷🏻♂️
@@CourtneyRyan it may sound silly but when you see it happen it a light should go off in a guys head she's having a good time. Also the feet thing, I've noticed this at my work. When someone wants to talk to me that I don't want to, my feet will be pointing in another direction while my head maybe turned towards the person.
Theory is the woman is subconsciously indicating her femininity when playing with her hair, it’s often accompanied by her voice changing to a more ‘girly’ tone.
I found out someone was interested in me when she said “I wanna do you”. Stunned, flattered, and refreshing that someone was blunt with what they want.
Here's one that is not so obvious. If she gets angry with you over something dumb. Means she is emotionally invested and pissed you have not made a move yet.
I can tick almost anything of this list with a collegue of mine (she's single i have a gf) we like working with each other, however i feel it's more on a professional level. I think its more a sign of trusting each other 100% when working and making the right decisions (i work in health care). Long story short: i guess her liking you as a friend will get you these things aswell.
Those are good signs of attraction though as well. Trust = respect and that’s a good basis for a romantic relationship. It would be interesting to see if her behaviors cooled a bit if she got a BF or strengthened if you were no longer with your GF 😎
@@jleano609 i know your comment is 10 month old but let's say this girl suddenly cooled off like even got cold to him , what would you think of the situation? like she was definitively into him? i've got a story quite similar but the girl went completly cold on me and basically gave me the cold shoulders and was nowhere near as talkative or touchy or flirty ?
@@HumanoidSnow a girl you work with? Obvious answer is a guy she has romantic feeling for has entered her life and she’s distancing herself from guy friends. This is good woman behavior which begs the question why haven’t you hit her up? Because you work with her?
@@jleano609 basically the girl flirted with me for like 2 months and i never flirted back because i had a girlfriend back then and as i said she went super cold suddenly and basically rejected me twice saying she's not interested, she's was only being very very friendly but like 90% of the people i said this story to tells me that i most likely missed my chance because this is strong flirting and was extremely on the defensive
Thanks for sharing these Courtney and i think these tips work more if you know the girl already because they kinda become obvious. In my experience, women do things subtly to show they like you. If she does anything to find a way to get closer to you, to talk to you, or even touch you; that's definitely the big sign. Especially if she wants to hang out with you; she'll bring up random things she wants to do. Yeah we just need to man up and ask her out for a lunch/coffee date lol 😄. Anyways, i appreciate you making this stuff easy for us. Have a great day my friend ♥️
Hi Courtney! Currently in a CO-WORKER situation. It's been a few months of healthy flirting, signages in the atmosphere, and definitely mutual attraction. It's natural, classy, etc. Just wanted to glean on some advice on next steps. Ive been watching ALL your videos as of late. Thanks. Reyne from Hawaii
Women will flirt with you as well as display interest, and the second you reciprocate in the slightest way they lose interest. I simply stopped feeding into their games years ago. Also I'm tired of one night stands, and want something sustainable in life.
If you're at a movie with a girl on a first date and she isn't cool with you touching her because she's "not there yet", she never will be there. Be honest Courtney, why were you on a date with that guy in the first place?
Makes sense. I've been on both sides of that coin. I've learned the unfortunate way to not go to movies with a woman I'm not interested in romantically or that I'm pretty sure isn't interested in me. If unsure, it's actually a good way to push the boundary. It's worked in my favor most of the time. The main problem is finding someone to go with in the first place.
So on the first date, it's an interview, you have to dress right, no Crocs LOL , watch her body language then you have to decipher her movements and you have to be a real good listener to hear what she's actually saying and wonder WTF she's thinking. On top of that you have to figure out if she's just looking for a free meal or if she's looking for someone to pay her bill's. *FOR ME:* She needs to have a good decent job, likes to work, good credit and a car, with a positive attitude and kind to others.
I really like this woman and not just because she looks great too. I think she’s putting out legit information that is true and I really like it too. It’s really helpful too I think.
One thing I had noticed when I was dating, in every one of the women I had ever met before taking out. Guys, that whole "making the first move" thing is not really all that accurate. Or at least it isn't when you're in person meeting someone as we had to do in pre-internet dating apps. The first move is a woman's move. That's why it is important for men to keep on their frame, which involves head and eyes forward. Intentionally make eye contact. When you do this, a woman will look back at you and smile if she is at all interested in you. Look at her and smile back. What happens next determines if she is just being polite, or if she wants pursued. Once you've smiled back at her, she will often show teeth in response, and then playfully glance away. There is your window of opportunity. She wants to be pursued. And smart people like me will look at her left had for, gee, I don't know, to look for a wedding ring, or marks suggesting she was wearing one. And let's not bullshit around here, if she has a ring, go no further. Be a man of character, and keep on your frame. If she has the indent and signs she either was wearing one, or stopped wearing one, leave that one on the lot. It's better to look quickly for disqualifying criteria beforehand than to learn it afterward. I haven't dated in a long long time. I haven't dated in the 12 years since my last divorce because I'm tired of it. And prior to that, I hadn't stepped out on my wife during the 3 years of courtship or 7 years of marriage. I'm sure a lot has changed. Now it's a matter of swiping left or right, and today's men and women are on a pathway to Hell, never knowing how to be real men or women, and take care of their business in person.
I took this beautiful girl on a date last night and I noticed alot of mirroring movements aside from the closeness and touching :)))))) Thank you Courtney for this information
I think most of these are true, I sensed a coworker liked me but she had a boyfriend (lived with) so I was never sure, I just sensed she wasn't 100% happy. We had good rapport, chemistry, but it was a waiting game to see. Then one day she told me she missed me out of the blue, and another night at work she just said very quickly to me " I love you". Generally you can sense it and you know.
Fastest way to know if she likes you or you have a chance! You ask her out , if she says yes then you’re good. If she says she’s busy or straight no then MOVE ON.
Reading body languages and recognizing the signs are the quickest way to a misunderstanding. In this day and age women have to let go of this silliness. If you are interested in a guy then just approach him and say it. Men are not going to continue to put themselves at criminal and financial risk trying to "read the signs".
What no one has been able to my satisfaction answer me is do most of the women in question actually consciously know what they are doing when they "play with their hair, shift their feet or position their body in your direction? I want and need a woman who is honestly conscious of her own desire for me first. When she is fully aware of what she is feeling and/or communicating then it seems to me there is reason to believe she won't be making huge self-sabotaging moves like trying to control the entire relationship or try to manipulate me into doing something I really don't want to do. That's the kind of person/pearl of great price I'm looking for.
She licking her lips and bite them. She smiles you back when you give her a smile. She dances in front of you. She crosses her legs, aiming to you and plays with a shoe. She asks you for your help in doing something. She likes your jokes and laughs at them. She looks at you when you are talking to another girl and she jealous and goes crazy when you flirt with some one else. She shows you how flexible and fit she is. She wants to feed you or take a bite from your meal. She looks at your hands to see if there is a wedding ring. She strokes something when talking to you, for example a glass of wine. She likes to touch your things, like your phone or car keys.
So I have a bit of a confusing situation. I've been seeing someone, either "just friends" or "not just friends, but nothing more yet," I'm not sure which. She's said in the past that she's not looking to date right now, but: 1. She often sits with her knees pointed toward me. 2. Eye contact is good. 3. She often initiates text conversations. 4. And other things. But, when we sit next to each other in a restaurant booth, she puts her purse between us, which of course sounds like it indicates no interest. There are a good deal more positive indications than negative. I know it should be obvious when someone is interested, but this one's really hard to figure out. And a general question: How much of what's discussed in your videos, Courtney, might vary depending on what country someone grew up in?
Or some other things coach corey wayne talks about. Bumping "by mistake" into you, plays with her hair, keeps eyecontact, be shy, laughs at ur jokes, even if you know they are not funny etc, compliments clothing style/body, = taking care of urself etc. Is 100% interested to keep the conversation going from curtain topics. Try's to impress you, banters back when ur teasing her, any more toughts? Experiences,?
well, if im on a date i never go to the movies or a concert or group dates...Its not good because basically you wonnt be talking during the movie or concerts or when her friends are there! Also NEVER do group dates with her friends don't meet her friends because woman always have something negative to say! Be alone with her so you will be in a intimate setting, may lead her to touching and kissing and 1 thing leads to another with the beast with 2 backs! Aside from that Ms. Courtney spot on with the advice!
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I think the biggest giveaway is when she is paying extra attention to you out of everyone and everything else in the room/place e.g. eyeing you from the corner. Go and talk to her at this point my young Chad full of potential!
Never experienced mirroring me. But their eyes l noticed right away. Some girls have f’d me with their eyes. It’s super duper flattering every time it’s happened. ❤
...also known as common courtesy or "being nice". Remember, she has a boyfriend 101% of the time. I've had many stories shared (not that I asked) about females doing all of this and more but later on feel repulsed when the male suggests another meeting.
It seems to me that feeling of repulsion or revulsion is more about her feeling very internally conflicted(she wants a serious relationship, just not with you/me(more like that perfect fantasized 10 she carries around in her imagination) that neither you nor I or anyone else could ever be.
If a woman flirts with 2 different guys, with one guy she's always making eye contact, checking him out, smiling alot, and small talk. And with the other guy she engages in longer conversation and completely has her body facing towards him. Who is she into more?
Let the other.guy have her. I was into a woman for months. I thought she felt the same way. Then I saw her flirting with some alcoholic guy right in front of me. I waited a couple weeks, deleted her from FB and I'll never see her again. That drunk guy can have her. Don't be a simp, a good woman won't flirt with other dudes around you.
@@aodh5966 thats exactly what's been happening to me as she flirts with this guy, or engages in longer conversations with him right in front of me, its already happend 2 times. So I basically walked off as they continued, I don't know the guy or spoken with him, but that also could be another thing as he could have bad issues. Yeah I'm basically over it 😆
@@charliemedina6362 Find a woman who will reject other guys advances in front of you. I like a woman who can be friendly with other men but has boundaries when it comes to general flirting. I've never been the flirty type, I see it as trashy behaviour. I flirt when I am in a relationship, and consider flirting cheating because it's showing sexual interest. Cut her off and she might come back, but then do you still want her after what you seen?
I really appreciate these videos Courtney. Thank you very much for these tips and advices because they're helping me learn how to come out of that shy and nervous way of thinking.
So I'm kinda bad at picking up signs directed at me, but my best friend of a little under a year is always teasing me, hitting me playfully, she bites my shoulder when I hug her, we always make strong eye contact when talking, and every time I'm at her house for a few hours and she starts watching things on her phone she'll sit or lay in ways that makes me have to lean against her or put my arm around her to see the videos, I would usually just assume she's into me because of these things, but when people around us talk about why we aren't dating or if we are she'll look at me and say we're just friends, so it's kind of confusing, but I've also asked why she wouldn't date me and her only answer is "I just wouldn't" or she'll try to change the topic, can anyone give me a little insight on your thoughts, it would be greatly appreciated 😅
Great vid Courtney. I often wonder if it works the same way for women with mirroring. If you are interacting with a man, and you notice him start to mirror your movements, is that a sign that you're building some connection or rapport? Or is it more like a lead-follow dynamic, where it only shows connection or rapport if the woman is sort of subconsciously doing it in response to a man's gestures or expressions? I find i've been able to put people (women included) at ease, by smiling or laughing when they do, or going "oh no!" and doing a mock facepalm suchlike when they relate an embarrassing incident. So I just wondered. Looking for the "tells"....
Yes! The chest bumps/redness. This almost got me tangled up with the law when I was a teen. Wearing a sleeveless undershirt, driving a loud, multi-colored car with all the windows rolled down on a scorching Texas summer day; could I look any more like I sell prohibited substances? Cops - "Why is your skin turning so red and spotty"? Me - "It does that when I'm nervous or pressured"! Oh, the quick, incriminatingly honest tongue of a naive teenager. 😬🙊
I just left a job interview with a really attractive young lady, I'm about 20 years her senior at 52. It was easily the best interview I've ever had, as she was really easy to talk to, as well as being easy on the eyes. I'm older, but I'm still in decent shape. I certainly wasn't flirtatious with her, as I am married, but i did notice that she was twirling her hair during most of the interview. She was a highly confident woman, so I doubt she was nervous. Was she subconsciously attracted to me?
Something I would like to point out is that when a guy has low self-esteem and doesn't think a girl could possibly be into them, they miss all of these signs. The hints could be obvious and his thoughts are "Oh, she's just friendly" "She's just being nice."
That is a problem for many dudes.
Haa! I know that all to well. 😂
@@urineaid Unfortunately, I'm speaking from experience 😔
Hey! I resemble that remark
All the time mate ALL THE TIME!
If her feet are above her head she really really likes you
Ahaha
Did you see the vid from Ribby the Party Frog?
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Great insight!
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I knew a girl who put something behind her ears to attract men .... her ankles 😁
1. mirroring your movements
2. moving closer to you
3. physically touching you
4. fixing her hair
5. blushing/ nervous behaviour
6. eye contact
(7. her feet are facing towards you)
You are a legend
@@antoinecharlesdegaulle580 I am but a humble soul, trying to help others :D
Thank you.
good just easier to get a good 100 nuts out of the 100 women that do this a day
@@antoinecharlesdegaulle580 we need more people like you
"Women can be pretty complicated." Yes, yes they are...but this channel definitely helps!
So right!
That's an understatement 😂
On some level but get most of your advice from men who have been with hundreds of women. Women are very emotional and won’t always tell you the truth.
For any women listening …girl tip: Courtney has an attractive feminine voice…. If you have one too …don’t change it, I’ve noticed a lot of women today try to deepen their voice and adopt a boyish voice etc….. don’t do that.
True true
They say first impressions are most important. I agree. If it sounds like she has been smoking for 20 years, it is a big turn off. Men naturally want a feminine friend.
@@DrewJones-o3c As I say to Charlie above, I am drawn to female smokers. I find their deep raspy voice to be very highly attractive. Think of Lauren Bacall.
Your comment is very interesting, Charlie. I am quite the opposite. I find deep, raspy voices that rise on occasion and crack in emotion to be very highly attractive. I like Lauren Bacall's voice as well as Debra Winger's. I don't find high pitched voices to be as attractive. I might like someone in spite of speaking in a high voice, but it's a turn-off in itself. A number of my girlfriends have been smokers, which heightens this effect that I like. Strangely, they also drive standard transmissions. I don't know what is going on there.
Heads up on the touching thing, lads...
I was once infatuated with a lady who touched my arm when telling me I needed to get some sleep before going on her way. Literally EVERYONE that witnessed this turned and essentially asked me when I would be making my move because she just blatantly flirted with me. Having low self esteem, no part of me thought that she had been flirting.
Turns out she wasn't flirting. I took my shot and got rejected. I don't doubt that it usually means flirtation, but itnot ALWAYS flirtation.
yeah ususally a girl likes you when she shows a couple of these signs, cause some girls are just extra touchy or nervous around ppl
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Yea man..women do NOT give clear indications that they are interested. A woman that is interested and a woman that is being friendly give the same "signs" there is no difference. Women are just kids in adult bodies. Us men have to initiate everything and figure who likes us while they just sit back and do absolutely nothing. They complicate finding love for everyone including themselves.
Context is always Key, personally i wouldn't of made a move on a girl that told me i should get some sleep it sounds just friendly,But if a girl tells you how much she thinks you're handsome, get all the girls or stuff like that, it's pretty much a green light
@@HumanoidSnow well this was less about her suggesting I sleep and more about her touching my arm when she said it. Physical contact is not always a green light was what I was trying to say.
If she is constantly on her cell phone while being in front of you. She definitely not in to you and is probably on social media trying to get another lad to replace you. :-D
Wow that's messed up but you are soooo right... damn...
Dude I'm having the total opposite experience and I don't know if she just doesn't text much or
She wasn’t showing any of those, but when I said my family owns 5% of all Apple stock all of a sudden I saw 6/6 signs.
I guess once she saw my personality she liked me. :)
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Damn! Imagine all that premium collected if you sell covered calls!
That's why I buy fake ATM receipts and accidentally drop them near her
@@Chris-de2qc Instead of buying fake ones, you could put the money in your account and get real ones for free.
Money matters in being a husband. The key to a wife's happiness is twofold: 1. The man brings in at least 2/3 of the family income 2. He is very emotionally committed to her and shows it in his being attentive to her. See the study on this by UVA sociologists Steven Nock and Brad Wilcox, "What's Love Got to Do with It? Equality, Equity & Commitment," *Social Forces,* March 2006.
Courtney give a presentation in class. All the guys: "Wow, she's really blushing. She's totally interested in me!"
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And many voices cried out all at the same time: I saw her first!
many voices cried out in jubilation ... then were suddenly silenced :P
Sunday night 05 September 2021.
1. Mirrors your movements.
2. Moving closer to you.
3. Physically touching you.
4. Fixing her hair, playing with her hair, twisting her hair, preening.
5. Blushing or nervous behavior.
6. Eye contact.
7. Feet pointing at you.
1,. If she reacts emotionally to you,good or bad! Women are pretty neutral to guys they dont like!
2 She tried to display obviously good personality traits. I’ve had boring women try to show me there are adventurous because they like me
The first point is kind of confusing. What if a girl reacted emotionally (bad) one day, and then switched neutral the next? Rinse and repeat?
@@cobra8888 I would say emotionally unstable or rocky life. Either way negative in my experience
@@pidiokouloup5355 So in other words…she is NOT liking you?
I was always very socially inept. Due to my learned negative attitude toward girls growing up, I would usually either be completely non-reactive and confused as to why they were talking to me, or be just cold and/or rude to make them get away from me. In 2017 - at age 45 and 15 years into marriage - I, out of curiosity, started studying PUA, social dynamics, social cues, sex, etc. on YT and books and I realized how many times over the decades girls had tried to get my attention and I didn't see it. I missed out on dozens of opportunities to be with some wonderful girls. This realization caused me to go into some deep depressive states knowing what I missed in life. I see guys in these forums complain that girls never approach - how wrong they are. Now that I've learned over the last few years the signs (IoIs) to look for, I see them everywhere and recognize when a woman is trying to make an approach as well as just have much improved social/professional interactions. It's not hard, but it takes learning and practice because they are usually very subtle. I just wish someone had taught me this stuff when I was like 15yo - it would have saved me a lot of loneliness and depression.
Dam that’s unfortunate man, wish you good health, want to be my master and give me tips on what to look out for when a woman is wanting you to talk to her, I’d be honoured if you could take the time sir
Seriously. This has also happened to me before, but I'm fortunate that I still have time (30). Before covid hit, I was learning all of these signs. Now I'm having to relearn everything. I also noticed the signs are super obvious when you're not interested in the girl. Great chance to study/learn her body language. I also noticed when I'm my most confident (in shape, well-dressed, etc.) the signs become more apparent with even the girls that you are interested (mostly because they signal their interests harder due to liking what they see).
I know the feeling mate , since the age of 15 I somehow always missed the boat. I've had a ...lot of opportunities (all missed) 40 years on I'm still missing the boat. Pretty sad actually I appreciate your honesty. Thank you
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Your videos are always the perfect length, 5 - 15 minutes. I've seen some TH-camrs that have 45 - 60 minute long videos on their topic, sad because they're usually good topics but who has 1 hour to spare? and if you can't convey your message in 5 - 15 minutes something is wrong. Kudos to you for knowing your audience!
just change up the speed. I'm really into long videos, bc topic is able to be explored more. But i watch it on speed x2 so it goes much faster
Money is the reason. The longer the vids, the more ads they can put.
*Women get higher pitch if she likes you.
Her: Morgan freeman voice*
Or maybe Kanye west
*Dikembe Mutombo
*Barry White voice
*Redd Pepper voice
*James Earl Jones voice
I've never had this problem. I always know when a woman is in to me. Women try to send signs because they aren't outwardly aggressive about it. I think women don't typically know when a guy is into them if he isn't aggressive about it. Women assume if you're not fawning all over them, you must not be interested.
That’s an interesting point! I think it probably depends on the woman. I’ve always been able to tell when people are into me, even if it wasn’t super direct!
@@CourtneyRyan Definitely all women know when somebody is into them. 100% they know! Pass physical attraction test, be a challenge and mystery then she will not know HOW MUCH you like her or how many women you date. It is a dream for every beautifull women with high self esteem to get that type of man.
@@CourtneyRyan you didnt know with cinema guy 😉
@@kku6857 Doc Love?
@@jleano609 Yes, those are his rules
This could be simplified even more with the simple idea: "If a girl is acting weird, and it's not for a negative reason, she's into you". That sums up everything in this video. Weird is just anything unusual, which most girls are not ordinarily doing when around you.
Imagine if women told you how they felt instead of keeping you guessing.
Glad to see someone cover this more in-depth since the body language of someone can say a lot. :)
Happy to help 😊
drinking my coffee and listening to a new Courtney video, lets goooo
While all of these signs are likely to indicate whether a girl is responding to your advances, the main thing is not working from the outside in but rather from the inside out. Do you, as the man, feel inextricably drawn to her so that you feel that you cannot live without her? If so, you can win her over in most cases whether she responds positively at first, but very likely she will respond positively fairly quickly. This is something that you should feel internally. I am speaking only of romantic love, not lust. Lust is a different story and for that you do need to reply more on these outward signs. In the case of lust, you would, in most cases, seek to hide your dishonorable intentions from her. In love, you can uses these outward signs as confirmation, but the main thing is how you feel, not how she feels at first. The man is the initiator and the woman is the responder; the man is the one who falls in love, not the woman.
If the woman does initiate the interaction, then be very careful because women tend to be attracted to differences, not so much similarities. Many are also emphasizing a sexual attraction, not a personal attraction. If you are only interested in a sexual fling, then this girl is more of what you are looking for. Again ( in reference to other comments that I have made reacting to Courtney's analysis), women are sexually drawn to men who are significantly different from them as a rule because the genetic differences produce healthier children. This is an unconscious draw, but it is there and has been shown to be in studies such as women finding men's sweaty t-shirts who are very different from them genetically to be more appealing in terms of scent. This is also a big reason why women many times having a hard time being attracted to a man who is their close friend. The man might be very good looking and have a lot going for him, but she has a hard time opening up to him physically because he is more similar to her in temperament, which is also genetically determined. Such a man is best for her and for him, but the match is rooted more in compatibility rather than complementarity. The former is more important to men while the latter is more important to a woman. Incidentally, typically the reason that a man is only friends with a woman is because she is not good looking enough or there is some barrier to a romantic relationship such as one or both of them being married and moral. But in most cases, but not all, complementarity if it becomes too pronounced leads to conflict, misunderstanding, and alienation. See Jane Austen novels for how these issues play out. She was very realistic in pointing out how women are naturally drawn to the wrong man as they overlook or are even repulsed initially by the right man for her and her for him. Mr. Darcy was right for Lizzy all along, never George Wickham who was not only different but was a scoundrel. Many women tend also to be drawn to scoundrels. From my own experience, even though I am hardly a scoundrel, leftwing women who make the best mates for me find my conservative beliefs to be evil and so view me as a type of scoundrel.
Can’t remember if it was as How to Beast or Teaching Men’s Fashion that I was watching, but one or both of them gave good tips for maintaining eye contact. I’m excited to try these out next time I approach a girl! The first one is to look around the girl’s face when you’re talking to her and not just her eyes. That way it doesn’t feel like you’re giving her a death stare. The second tip is to look off to the side instead of looking down while talking to her because it gives off a more confident body language
was the video 7 minutes long with a 4 minute pube shaving trimmer advertisement? if not, then it was HTB. if it was, then TMF.
Your videos are always a pleasure to watch. These are very solid points. Let me add a few more. #8 she is giggling all the time at anything you say. #9 Suddenly she becomes *extra* talkative. #10 she is rubbing her glass. If you see any of these my friend, you are in solid territory. Regarding touching... Another solid hint. But not every girl will break the "touch barrier" first. I recommend that you "accidentally" touch her (forearm, back of the hand...) very early in the date. Now watch her touch you back :-)
If a girl giggles or her voice goes soft, it’s a good sign. She is subconsciously trying to appear more feminine. Look at the vid on Teddy’s channel where He gives Courtney the Rado Captain Cook. Hear her voice change in pitch around Teddy, she goes super soft and girly submissive.
As for eye contact, yes, if a girl likes you, as long as she’s not super shy she will return it. And if she is she’ll often look away but then look back to check you are still looking at her. You can even gauge attraction by seeing if she starts fidgeting or playing with her hair (again subconsciously indicating femininity). There’s a girl I know, if I give her strong eye contact into her left eye, she’ll start playing with the hair on that side. If I shift to the right, so will her fidgeting. If I wasn’t married……….
When they put themselves in your way, HUGE sign she wants to be spoken to. It's hard for me to differentiate women who have genuine interest from narcissistic attention seekers who feign similar "signs of interest" but reject you shortly after you make a move.
you make a great point here, some women just want to toy you, they can show all of these signs of interest but when you make a move they embarrass you by rejecting you, so be careful about these women.
It really is all about the eyes. Got one now that we make eye contact, hold it, and we both smile. Lasts for minutes at a time. Do you think we like each other? Guarded heart but looks like it's melting by degrees. This is fun.
Courtney could you do a video about texting girls and even a video on how to reconcile after a fight.
I can do that!
I love the gentleness and brutal honesty in your videos
A video with teaching men fashion is needed!
I like the times you upload the videos, it’s good and good words today :)
I’m so glad! Thank you 😊
@@CourtneyRyan you’re welcome 😊
Thanks for sharing these great points with us, Courtney. We really appreciate what you’re doing! 😌❤️
Courtney is a true example of a great woman. Young women today should aspire to be at least a fraction of what she is
Yes Courtney is very elegant and classy
Yes I like her for that reason
I think one must also consider the context of the individual. For example, some people did not grow up in a physically affectionate home, and don't practice it a lot in their personal lives, so if they're into you, them not touching you isn't a sign, it's just her norm. I've been in this situation before, and I will naturally reach out to touch her, be close to her, and hug her when I feel like it, and she never responds badly to it. Some people are just not good with touch, but if you touch her and she doesn't react well, that is likely a sign, because though she may not be good with touch, as in, feeling comfortable about reaching out to touch you, when you touch her she will know very quickly if this is comfortable or not. I noticed that the more I touched her, the more she would feel comfortable inserting herself into my personal space.
I've women point out to me a woman I'd been talking with had ALL these signals. " Shes really into you! It's so obvious!" No she was NOT to put it delicately. So I'm not convinced, as this has happened more than once.
Yeah, you need to get in conversations yo find out, sometimes signs don't mean anything.
@@sukhmann5623 If signs don't mean anything then this video's a waste of time.
@@sukhmann5623 i agree totally. none of this signs matter when after finding out she doesnt like you at all...more often than not women send this signals and unfortunately theyre not attracted to the guy at all...the touching this is the tricky part cuz theyd be touchy out being comfortable only or just a way of extending friendship. as a matter of fact girls who actually like you will try their best not to do all this signals to not give away that theyre into you..
Have a great Labor Day weekend Courtney's absolutely another brilliant presentation 🤟🌟💯
You too! Thank you, my friend! 🥰
Could you possibly do a video for the younger audience? Such as teenagers and those in high school and college? I feel like it’s a different operation than what we’ve been seeing here
Yes for sure!
bro all you need to know at your age is: "If a chick likes you, that loser won't ever leave you alone!!" 😂
forreal
Some of your comments gave me the chills. Thank you!!
The feet pointing thing is real. I know a girl, she can be sitting next to me at a bar with her entire body facing away yet somehow her feet still point back towards me. Last weekend she was at a table with her good (girl) friend talking, I sat down about 10 feet away, looked over, her body was facing her friend, away from me but, somehow her feet still found me. It’s almost a contortionist move.
Great video Courtney!!!! I find having an open and honest friendship is a great start to a great friendship. If we can be friends, we can be lovers. That is why I value basic friendship so much. And in life we all need friends.
I dated a girl once for like 2 months and I felt really connected to her (hoping she would as well) but she ended the relationship saying it felt like friends having sex and so forth… 🤷🏻♂️
The hair twirling and playing thing is a huge sign.
It really is! Sounds silly but I’ve definitely done it
@@CourtneyRyan it may sound silly but when you see it happen it a light should go off in a guys head she's having a good time. Also the feet thing, I've noticed this at my work. When someone wants to talk to me that I don't want to, my feet will be pointing in another direction while my head maybe turned towards the person.
Theory is the woman is subconsciously indicating her femininity when playing with her hair, it’s often accompanied by her voice changing to a more ‘girly’ tone.
the eye contacta means something since I am single again I need to make a move on a single woman just to introduce myself and just be kind ❤😊
I found out someone was interested in me when she said “I wanna do you”. Stunned, flattered, and refreshing that someone was blunt with what they want.
Here's one that is not so obvious. If she gets angry with you over something dumb. Means she is emotionally invested and pissed you have not made a move yet.
I can tick almost anything of this list with a collegue of mine (she's single i have a gf) we like working with each other, however i feel it's more on a professional level. I think its more a sign of trusting each other 100% when working and making the right decisions (i work in health care).
Long story short: i guess her liking you as a friend will get you these things aswell.
Those are good signs of attraction though as well. Trust = respect and that’s a good basis for a romantic relationship. It would be interesting to see if her behaviors cooled a bit if she got a BF or strengthened if you were no longer with your GF 😎
@@jleano609 perhaps. Not gonna test it out volunteerly though and turn my 'case' in an empirical study 😁.
@@jleano609 i know your comment is 10 month old but let's say this girl suddenly cooled off like even got cold to him , what would you think of the situation? like she was definitively into him? i've got a story quite similar but the girl went completly cold on me and basically gave me the cold shoulders and was nowhere near as talkative or touchy or flirty ?
@@HumanoidSnow a girl you work with? Obvious answer is a guy she has romantic feeling for has entered her life and she’s distancing herself from guy friends. This is good woman behavior which begs the question why haven’t you hit her up? Because you work with her?
@@jleano609 basically the girl flirted with me for like 2 months and i never flirted back because i had a girlfriend back then and as i said she went super cold suddenly and basically rejected me twice saying she's not interested, she's was only being very very friendly but like 90% of the people i said this story to tells me that i most likely missed my chance because this is strong flirting and was extremely on the defensive
Thanks for sharing these Courtney and i think these tips work more if you know the girl already because they kinda become obvious. In my experience, women do things subtly to show they like you. If she does anything to find a way to get closer to you, to talk to you, or even touch you; that's definitely the big sign. Especially if she wants to hang out with you; she'll bring up random things she wants to do. Yeah we just need to man up and ask her out for a lunch/coffee date lol 😄. Anyways, i appreciate you making this stuff easy for us. Have a great day my friend ♥️
Your videos have literally helped me soooooo much! I can’t even tell you how much this all works !
The one that helped me the most was when you said have conversations with everyone to help practice !:)
Hi Courtney!
Currently in a CO-WORKER situation. It's been a few months of healthy flirting, signages in the atmosphere, and definitely mutual attraction. It's natural, classy, etc. Just wanted to glean on some advice on next steps. Ive been watching ALL your videos as of late. Thanks.
Reyne from Hawaii
stay away from coworkers. trust me on this. unless you dont like your job.
@@jerseytt Exactly. Don't mix business with pleasure.
Simple and to the point. Well done, Courtney.
Women will flirt with you as well as display interest, and the second you reciprocate in the slightest way they lose interest. I simply stopped feeding into their games years ago. Also I'm tired of one night stands, and want something sustainable in life.
If you're at a movie with a girl on a first date and she isn't cool with you touching her because she's "not there yet", she never will be there. Be honest Courtney, why were you on a date with that guy in the first place?
We were friends. I didn’t really think it was a date 😬
Makes sense. I've been on both sides of that coin. I've learned the unfortunate way to not go to movies with a woman I'm not interested in romantically or that I'm pretty sure isn't interested in me. If unsure, it's actually a good way to push the boundary. It's worked in my favor most of the time. The main problem is finding someone to go with in the first place.
Today I was talking to my coworker in her office . She kept flapping her hair backwards behind her neck.
I would like tips on how to read body language without looking like I'm staring. That's a tough line to walk
Look out for the things I’m talking about and you won’t have to look as long! They happen pretty naturally
So on the first date, it's an interview, you have to dress right, no Crocs LOL , watch her body language then you have to decipher her movements and you have to be a real good listener to hear what she's actually saying and wonder WTF she's thinking. On top of that you have to figure out if she's just looking for a free meal or if she's looking for someone to pay her bill's. *FOR ME:* She needs to have a good decent job, likes to work, good credit and a car, with a positive attitude and kind to others.
I really like this woman and not just because she looks great too. I think she’s putting out legit information that is true and I really like it too. It’s really helpful too I think.
One thing I had noticed when I was dating, in every one of the women I had ever met before taking out. Guys, that whole "making the first move" thing is not really all that accurate. Or at least it isn't when you're in person meeting someone as we had to do in pre-internet dating apps. The first move is a woman's move. That's why it is important for men to keep on their frame, which involves head and eyes forward. Intentionally make eye contact. When you do this, a woman will look back at you and smile if she is at all interested in you. Look at her and smile back. What happens next determines if she is just being polite, or if she wants pursued. Once you've smiled back at her, she will often show teeth in response, and then playfully glance away. There is your window of opportunity. She wants to be pursued. And smart people like me will look at her left had for, gee, I don't know, to look for a wedding ring, or marks suggesting she was wearing one. And let's not bullshit around here, if she has a ring, go no further. Be a man of character, and keep on your frame. If she has the indent and signs she either was wearing one, or stopped wearing one, leave that one on the lot. It's better to look quickly for disqualifying criteria beforehand than to learn it afterward.
I haven't dated in a long long time. I haven't dated in the 12 years since my last divorce because I'm tired of it. And prior to that, I hadn't stepped out on my wife during the 3 years of courtship or 7 years of marriage. I'm sure a lot has changed. Now it's a matter of swiping left or right, and today's men and women are on a pathway to Hell, never knowing how to be real men or women, and take care of their business in person.
I took this beautiful girl on a date last night and I noticed alot of mirroring movements aside from the closeness and touching :)))))) Thank you Courtney for this information
That’s awesome about the blushing thing. Too bad that I have daltonism and can’t see red.. very lucky
Need this advice before I head out today!
Hope you enjoy! ❤️
I think an underrated body language sign is if she crosses her legs toward you meaning she is attentive and listening to what you have to say.
I think most of these are true, I sensed a coworker liked me but she had a boyfriend (lived with) so I was never sure, I just sensed she wasn't 100% happy. We had good rapport, chemistry, but it was a waiting game to see. Then one day she told me she missed me out of the blue, and another night at work she just said very quickly to me " I love you". Generally you can sense it and you know.
I can honestly say in my 23 years on the earth I have never experienced a girl do any of these things lol
Lol, im getting it from Like 6 Out of 10 Girls.
But a Lot of Girls are Just way to below my League and still try it
Fastest way to know if she likes you or you have a chance! You ask her out , if she says yes then you’re good. If she says she’s busy or straight no then MOVE ON.
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Prisoner #482019: Misunderstanding some signs that woman gave me 😥
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I noticed in elementary thru high school that girls who liked me would stare at me thru their peripheral vision. Anyone else notice this?
Yeah. Now they take sideways pictures with their phones, too.
Just today a female co worker fixed her hair when I got to her register and she maintained eye contact the whole time.
As a guy I overreacted to some "signs" and now I just don't pick up on any hints and just think she's being friendly 🤷♀️
Twas so good I've watched it 6 times. I hope it boosts the algo and you gain a dozen+ subs, today. Thank you, sis.
You´re so sweet and positive Cortney. And your voice is also beautiful and sweet. Thanks for all the men you´re helping daily. All the best
Reading body languages and recognizing the signs are the quickest way to a misunderstanding. In this day and age women have to let go of this silliness. If you are interested in a guy then just approach him and say it. Men are not going to continue to put themselves at criminal and financial risk trying to "read the signs".
What no one has been able to my satisfaction answer me is do most of the women in question actually consciously know what they are doing when they "play with their hair, shift their feet or position their body in your direction?
I want and need a woman who is honestly conscious of her own desire for me first.
When she is fully aware of what she is feeling and/or communicating then it seems to me there is reason to believe she won't be making huge self-sabotaging moves like trying to control the entire relationship or try to manipulate me into doing something I really don't want to do.
That's the kind of person/pearl of great price I'm looking for.
True
She licking her lips and bite them.
She smiles you back when you give her a smile.
She dances in front of you.
She crosses her legs, aiming to you and plays with a shoe.
She asks you for your help in doing something.
She likes your jokes and laughs at them.
She looks at you when you are talking to another girl and she jealous and goes crazy when you flirt with some one else.
She shows you how flexible and fit she is.
She wants to feed you or take a bite from your meal.
She looks at your hands to see if there is a wedding ring.
She strokes something when talking to you, for example a glass of wine.
She likes to touch your things, like your phone or car keys.
I forgot to congratulate you on your live stream on your 2k. Rooting for that 1million coming.
Thank you Lenin! 😊
I experience all of these signs of attraction when I am at the gym...
... From other guys.
I've had nervous laughter from a few. One even couldn't stop shaking and even grabbed my arm when we met up.
Great information and I’ll definitely keep these points in mind. - Thank you 🙏
That green top is fire. Keep it up Sport!
So I have a bit of a confusing situation. I've been seeing someone, either "just friends" or "not just friends, but nothing more yet," I'm not sure which. She's said in the past that she's not looking to date right now, but:
1. She often sits with her knees pointed toward me.
2. Eye contact is good.
3. She often initiates text conversations.
4. And other things.
But, when we sit next to each other in a restaurant booth, she puts her purse between us, which of course sounds like it indicates no interest.
There are a good deal more positive indications than negative. I know it should be obvious when someone is interested, but this one's really hard to figure out.
And a general question: How much of what's discussed in your videos, Courtney, might vary depending on what country someone grew up in?
Everything I need to know about female body language I learned from watching movies and television.
Or some other things coach corey wayne talks about. Bumping "by mistake" into you, plays with her hair, keeps eyecontact, be shy, laughs at ur jokes, even if you know they are not funny etc, compliments clothing style/body, = taking care of urself etc. Is 100% interested to keep the conversation going from curtain topics. Try's to impress you, banters back when ur teasing her, any more toughts? Experiences,?
well, if im on a date i never go to the movies or a concert or group dates...Its not good because basically you wonnt be talking during the movie or concerts or when her friends are there!
Also NEVER do group dates with her friends don't meet her friends because woman always have something negative to say!
Be alone with her so you will be in a intimate setting, may lead her to touching and kissing and 1 thing leads to another with the beast with 2 backs!
Aside from that Ms. Courtney spot on with the advice!
ye moving next to you , touching you, plays with her hair lots of eye contact and her letting you touch her hair
A pretty girl at work has been smiling at me and waving to me, blushing around me, and hugging me. I asked her out and she flaked.
U prob took waayyyyyy tooo long
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I think the biggest giveaway is when she is paying extra attention to you out of everyone and everything else in the room/place e.g. eyeing you from the corner. Go and talk to her at this point my young Chad full of potential!
Never experienced mirroring me. But their eyes l noticed right away. Some girls have f’d me with their eyes. It’s super duper flattering every time it’s happened. ❤
...also known as common courtesy or "being nice". Remember, she has a boyfriend 101% of the time.
I've had many stories shared (not that I asked) about females doing all of this and more but later on feel repulsed when the male suggests another meeting.
It seems to me that feeling of repulsion or revulsion is more about her feeling very internally conflicted(she wants a serious relationship, just not with you/me(more like that perfect fantasized 10 she carries around in her imagination) that neither you nor I or anyone else could ever be.
If a woman flirts with 2 different guys, with one guy she's always making eye contact, checking him out, smiling alot, and small talk. And with the other guy she engages in longer conversation and completely has her body facing towards him. Who is she into more?
Let the other.guy have her. I was into a woman for months. I thought she felt the same way. Then I saw her flirting with some alcoholic guy right in front of me. I waited a couple weeks, deleted her from FB and I'll never see her again. That drunk guy can have her. Don't be a simp, a good woman won't flirt with other dudes around you.
Most of the time, woman talk less with guy she really likes. But send physical signs.
@@vince-1337 that could be true. Thanks for the reply 👍 😀
@@aodh5966 thats exactly what's been happening to me as she flirts with this guy, or engages in longer conversations with him right in front of me, its already happend 2 times. So I basically walked off as they continued, I don't know the guy or spoken with him, but that also could be another thing as he could have bad issues. Yeah I'm basically over it 😆
@@charliemedina6362 Find a woman who will reject other guys advances in front of you. I like a woman who can be friendly with other men but has boundaries when it comes to general flirting. I've never been the flirty type, I see it as trashy behaviour. I flirt when I am in a relationship, and consider flirting cheating because it's showing sexual interest. Cut her off and she might come back, but then do you still want her after what you seen?
I don't pay close attention to what you say, but I keep listening case you have a kind voice.
I really appreciate these videos Courtney. Thank you very much for these tips and advices because they're helping me learn how to come out of that shy and nervous way of thinking.
These videos of her make me blush but a certain thing in my body goes skyrocket! 😉
i quit the dating game 3 years ago and it was the best choice i ever made for myself
I love the way you explain this. Superb, I learnt so much. Thank you so much.
So I'm kinda bad at picking up signs directed at me, but my best friend of a little under a year is always teasing me, hitting me playfully, she bites my shoulder when I hug her, we always make strong eye contact when talking, and every time I'm at her house for a few hours and she starts watching things on her phone she'll sit or lay in ways that makes me have to lean against her or put my arm around her to see the videos, I would usually just assume she's into me because of these things, but when people around us talk about why we aren't dating or if we are she'll look at me and say we're just friends, so it's kind of confusing, but I've also asked why she wouldn't date me and her only answer is "I just wouldn't" or she'll try to change the topic, can anyone give me a little insight on your thoughts, it would be greatly appreciated 😅
Hey Courtney, I ordered my Imaginary Authors cologne that you reviewed some time ago. Comes in the mail today, can’t wait to try it!
Great vid Courtney. I often wonder if it works the same way for women with mirroring. If you are interacting with a man, and you notice him start to mirror your movements, is that a sign that you're building some connection or rapport?
Or is it more like a lead-follow dynamic, where it only shows connection or rapport if the woman is sort of subconsciously doing it in response to a man's gestures or expressions?
I find i've been able to put people (women included) at ease, by smiling or laughing when they do, or going "oh no!" and doing a mock facepalm suchlike when they relate an embarrassing incident. So I just wondered.
Looking for the "tells"....
Yeah i love when they give all the signs but then deny it and try and ruin your life instead
Thank you Courtney for all your great videos I appreciate all you do 😎👍
It’s my pleasure! Thanks for being here 😊
Yes! The chest bumps/redness. This almost got me tangled up with the law when I was a teen. Wearing a sleeveless undershirt, driving a loud, multi-colored car with all the windows rolled down on a scorching Texas summer day; could I look any more like I sell prohibited substances?
Cops - "Why is your skin turning so red and spotty"?
Me - "It does that when I'm nervous or pressured"!
Oh, the quick, incriminatingly honest tongue of a naive teenager. 😬🙊
I just left a job interview with a really attractive young lady, I'm about 20 years her senior at 52.
It was easily the best interview I've ever had, as she was really easy to talk to, as well as being easy on the eyes.
I'm older, but I'm still in decent shape. I certainly wasn't flirtatious with her, as I am married, but i did notice that she was twirling her hair during most of the interview. She was a highly confident woman, so I doubt she was nervous. Was she subconsciously attracted to me?
I’m 20 and I have never had a girlfriend i don’t know if this is a thing but I think I was too handsome for girls to even approach me idk
When girls smiles a lot when talking to her..., not a forced smile, but a spontaneous smile.
trust me that's not a good enough sign. I knew a few girls who was liked that and most of them left me seen.
The "accidental" touching of your hand while she hands you something at work
Please do a video on LUCK......Blind Stupid LUCK and how important it is to be LUCKY !
Jack Nicklaus- “the more I practice the luckier I get”