We Can Finally Discuss This Incident

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  • @durhamguy
    @durhamguy ปีที่แล้ว +22

    What a ray of sunshine you guys are in the dark days of winter,keep it going.your chemistry is infectious

  • @lchristoffer
    @lchristoffer ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You guys are so real. If I could fill my day with people like you, I’d like people better and would want to spend more time with them. Honest!!

  • @dbatman63376
    @dbatman63376 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    I love you both. You make a bad day more tolerable. Your personalities are like shining lights in a deep, dark pit. Thank you.

    • @elainehick530
      @elainehick530 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @danbatten, I hope you can continue to find lights to help you climb out of the dark pit that you find yourself in.

    • @KristbjorgNymann
      @KristbjorgNymann ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YES, Dan Batten!!!!

    • @MrSamygirl30
      @MrSamygirl30 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree. You guys . make me happy t😅😊😂❤❤❤

    • @vasfengaripedi1030
      @vasfengaripedi1030 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree a billion percent :)

    • @jujushark63
      @jujushark63 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel the same, watching them first thing in the morning. Really helps me start the day with a smile. And a happy mood i adore yall so very much

  • @IDTKennels
    @IDTKennels ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I’m so sorry you have to deal with low life people like that. What type of person even does that? What kind of vial disgusting individual finds someone’s number, continually harasses them and then makes physical threats? It’s unbelievable and so disheartening to hear that you have to deal with this. I love your channel and thank you for sharing your life with us 😊💜.

  • @barbaramikan5222
    @barbaramikan5222 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    When the father initially put his foot down and told his daughter this was an anniversary trip for just her parents, she should have shut it, backed off and even apologized for presuming she could weasel her way in. Daughter is the a-hole, and the wife/mother borders on being an a-hole by conceding when she knew better.

    • @chantalpajot2388
      @chantalpajot2388 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      J aimerais bien que ce soit traduit en Français, pour comprendre, merci, vous êtes un couple formidable, j aime bien vous regarder. Je vous embrasse tous les deux. 🙏❤

    • @karine_c238
      @karine_c238 ปีที่แล้ว

      DAUGHTER A-HOLE... she wanted a free vacation and a free nanny... so entiteled brat... daughter super A-hole!

    • @julieprince77
      @julieprince77 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chantalpajot2388 ​clic droit pour traduire en français

  • @Hereforthevideos
    @Hereforthevideos ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I laughed out loud when you said you were waiting outside with the people that were there to see you 😂

  • @meltingpointcreations1457
    @meltingpointcreations1457 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I would never DREAM of infringing upon someone’s anniversary trip. I don’t even infringe upon an anniversary day. We’re scheduled to have a game night with friends on their anniversary, and I was happy to reschedule so that they can have the weekend to themselves. The nerve of that lady to weasel her way into her parents anniversary vacation…

  • @SunniRayzz
    @SunniRayzz ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I love Shane’s humor 😂

  • @carolyndignam3592
    @carolyndignam3592 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The guy is definitely NOT the A-hole! A person shouldn’t put their expectations on another person, and be rude a forward enough to invite themselves with the expectation of her parents babysitting while on their 40th wedding anniversary trip! In a heartbeat I would have done the same thing by changing the plans. Sadly so the daughter sounds very self entitled and selfish, plus childish for not speaking to her parents after the trip. She shouldn’t have gone on the paid for trip if she felt so strongly about the outcome!
    On another note, thank you both for sharing your lives with us, I absolutely enjoy watching you two🥰

  • @davidnsarah07
    @davidnsarah07 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the most genuine, real, down to earth awesome people to walk this planet! I just love, adore & admire yall like CRAZY! Been watching/following you 2 for sooooo dang long it's nutso, and have to say its been so awesome to watch yall grow & to see just how far yall have come, both as individuals & as a beautiful couple! Cannot wait to see what's to come! Thank you both for all the hard work, dedication & the many late nights *as I can only image the work it takes*!
    Sending ❤️
    🫶

  • @dmytroyakym
    @dmytroyakym ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey Shane and Hannah. My name is Dmytro I am 21 years old from Ukraine.
    I was born with cerebral palsy. But I don't let CP pull me down. I love seeing you guys always smiling and have a great time. I love listening to your podcasts. 😀

  • @kareemahmullen8940
    @kareemahmullen8940 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good luck on your Book Tour - may you have much success with your sales and your trip! The troll story and library meet-up...so sorry for the angst you had to endure. Amazing what you go through when being famous! Finally, It is so hard to know the all-round dynamics of such an extended incident that was described in the final segment of your podcast here. One wishes everyone could do the right thing each moment...perhaps the best lesson is to remember the story and try and catch ourselves to do the right thing in the moment. Thanks as always for your sharing your lives. Your humor and good nature is always uplifting.

  • @emp556
    @emp556 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The best part of your podcasts 22:46 is how real and genuine you both are. So, to all the hidden trolls out there, waste your time else wear. It's great just to laugh at stupid situations.

  • @janicemichaloski5292
    @janicemichaloski5292 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The fact the daughter felt so intitled to even ask says alot she obviously grown up with little boundaries or respect for her parents

  • @EBrenry
    @EBrenry ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Jane is an A-h for being immature, presumptuous and spoiled. The mom is an A-h for not having enough fortitude to shut down her daughter’s overstep. The dad is an A-h for his secretive flip-flopping. SIL is an A-h for yelling at his generous in-laws on the phone. Shane’s right EVERYONE is the A!!! Sorry, Grandkids. You’re walking in the footsteps of 2 generations of A-hs.

    • @boulevardiere1623
      @boulevardiere1623 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Well, now I don't need to leave a comment because you said it all. Preach!

    • @Cornerstonewtl
      @Cornerstonewtl ปีที่แล้ว +16

      40th anniversary romantic trip. NO KIDS OF ANY AGE. PERIOD

    • @alekhidell3644
      @alekhidell3644 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Preach it, sister! It sounds to me like mom and dad were wishy-washy like this when they raised Jane, letting her get her way far too often, and now Jane assumes she can get away with it. Such unmitigated gall she has! And I agree that dad handled it poorly, almost passive-aggressively (which may be another trait that runs in this family). I don;t have any grandchildren, but I have two grown daughters, and neither of them would ever DREAM of imposing upon my wife and me like this.

    • @kellybraille
      @kellybraille ปีที่แล้ว

      Nope. Only the daughter is the a-hole.

    • @nicholasjh1
      @nicholasjh1 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@alekhidell3644don't give the gma a pass for being a spineless weakling then blaming it on others

  • @cricketmcclure3458
    @cricketmcclure3458 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Suggestion ... consider hiring a 'security' person to cover your meet up sessions. Perhaps you can find a person at each location, once you get the route established, with stops reserved and confirmed. Don't be scared, be prepared (a la Ryan Hall, Y'all) - be safe!

    • @marlenetobin3242
      @marlenetobin3242 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I would and I think many more would offer to be your security at no charge....
      Shane, ask around.....

    • @Kklewis2223
      @Kklewis2223 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love Ryan Hall!

    • @pattyfluegel7816
      @pattyfluegel7816 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marlenetobin3242 they would need someone trained in security

    • @allisontaylor1818
      @allisontaylor1818 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Great advice🎉

    • @cricketmcclure3458
      @cricketmcclure3458 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @allisontaylor1818...I owe it all to "Ryan Hall, Y'all"! for his fantastic weather reporting! thru all the tornado and other wicked weather events here in ARkansas!

  • @MsWatsupwiththat
    @MsWatsupwiththat ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really just love you two! You were meant to be on this earth TOGETHER! Thank you for sharing. I think Josh Blue would be the perfect comic to start your book signing extravaganza!

  • @camillegodwin6398
    @camillegodwin6398 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I loved your Gulfport meetup! 😊 Would go to another. I will say the entire segment devoted to talking about that meetup I had a strong irrational fear that it was something I did 😂 Like maybe something I said was unacceptable or unintentionally ableist or I asked too many questions cause I love you guys! Deep sigh of relief it wasn’t me lol.

  • @sherylstradinger2052
    @sherylstradinger2052 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Hanna and Shane from North Dakota. I have been watching and 100% enjoying you videos for at least a couple of years - this is the first time leaving a comment. We have/had 2 young women with disabilities and find it so refreshing to hear the honesty of life with challenges and those that care and love unconditionally. When you do your book tour and should you decide to come to North Dakota, we would be front and center. Am sure you've already thought of this but will throw it out anyway. If you'd check with the support agencies in each state you visit - would get lots of people tha 25:26 t are dealing with the same issues as you - to come and be part of the event.

  • @Antraxjoy94
    @Antraxjoy94 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    When we invite my mom to travel with us, it's to take her ON VACATION. Her own room. If the kids want to bunk one or two nights with her, they have to ask her. Jane is a huge ah and a brat. Also, phew! Fear makes us panic and act out of sorts!

  • @AlanBrownArt
    @AlanBrownArt ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Passive-Aggressive behavior is a short term conflict avoider. The father probably never said 'no' to his daughter. Love you guys!

  • @Drewy62
    @Drewy62 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I am supporting the book tour idea, especially if each stop has a chocolate fountain for attendees to enjoy!

    • @loisxander6321
      @loisxander6321 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don’t forget Allentown ,Pa

  • @dimpledarling55
    @dimpledarling55 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I work at a bookstore in NYC and have been a supporter of yours for years! If you guys come to NY on a book tour I would love to help facilitate an event with you :)

  • @dianehilliard9256
    @dianehilliard9256 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You two always make me smile

  • @reneequalls5878
    @reneequalls5878 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m dying 😂😂😂. You guys are great. I’m exactly that awkward hahahaha. I can’t get the image of you guys just hanging out silently with the crowd that was there to see you 😂😂😂😂 you guys will be laughing about this for the rest of your lives lol

  • @OverkastKellu
    @OverkastKellu ปีที่แล้ว +7

    you guys are great XD listening to your book tour plans 10/10 and that meetup story was terrifying. And hilarious.

  • @rodgerfoughtsr3592
    @rodgerfoughtsr3592 ปีที่แล้ว

    I haven't seen all yer videos, but have followed you guys from when you first met. It's been a good journey so far. Gives me a few smiles ti get me through the day.

  • @rebeccahamilton-james9914
    @rebeccahamilton-james9914 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your sense of humour is brilliant. Love it.

  • @tamiosher3679
    @tamiosher3679 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love all of your videos. You are both so natural and REAL. I don't know how anyone can think that your love is not real. Ignore those comments. Thank you for sharing. Xoxo ❤❤

  • @grantpicklesimer2995
    @grantpicklesimer2995 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would travel out to California from Ohio just to meet you guys in person! You guys are awesome and ive enjoyed watching your videos and following your journey. Also I must say that I have obtained the inspiration from you guys to start my own blogging and then write my first book at some point. Keep on shining a light on an otherwise dark world we live in. You both are amazing and very inspiring.

  • @PhoenixGoddess4444
    @PhoenixGoddess4444 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Shane- you should be a sit-down comic!!!!

  • @SuperOptiman
    @SuperOptiman ปีที่แล้ว

    The sound quality was excellent. Far better than previous episodes. I usually have a hard time understanding Shane. This senior enjoyed the entire broadcast. What ever you did, keep it up. I enjoyed the story and will try to watch for you on meetup in the South California area. I look forward to seeing you face to face. I wish you well.

  • @cindybaker5408
    @cindybaker5408 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm watching from a country town in South Australia 🇦🇺
    I Love watching you both, you always make me smile!!!
    I hate the negative things that people say/message to you, that Hannah reads out ~ Happy you both laugh at them and don't let it bother you!!!
    Can't wait to read your book, will Definatly buy one/some ~ will be good for chrissy presents 😊
    Keep being yourself!! Love you Both ❤

  • @zamakhosimpanza3902
    @zamakhosimpanza3902 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😅 What a relief about "the camera man"! I burst out and laughed so much, constantly triggered by the anticlimax of it!!😂
    Glad your book outing was safe afterall. Keep well both of you.

  • @SunniRayzz
    @SunniRayzz ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Shane’s hair looks good like that. I would definitely attend your book signing. That would great! Texas here 🤍

    • @lyricalaska
      @lyricalaska ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We're in Fairbanks, Alaska. Make a stop here!

  • @strongmomma4u
    @strongmomma4u ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2:40 alaska is a state, don't forget us. Just in case you forget, you said all 50 states. Come in the summer, the polar bears will be too busy with the tourists 😂

  • @jujushark63
    @jujushark63 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The banter between yall is so fun

  • @David-qm7ww
    @David-qm7ww ปีที่แล้ว

    You both have such loving hearts, souls and spirits....thank you for sharing who you are, and your journey, with the world💞💞💕💕💕💕💕💕♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

  • @dinkusmcgee1015
    @dinkusmcgee1015 ปีที่แล้ว

    "TAKE THE COOKIES, EVERYONE".
    😂😂😂.
    OMG I spit my coffee out

  • @reneelewis7187
    @reneelewis7187 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Janes parents are definitely NOT the a-holes.
    The daughter and son in law had no business inserting themselves in their 2nd honeymoon more or less.
    And then expect the grandparents to babysit? Hell NO!!!

    • @KDu400
      @KDu400 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Right!! Even if they had all ended up in the same place, how dare you expect the grandparents to watch YOUR kids on their anniversary trip!

    • @reneelewis7187
      @reneelewis7187 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KDu400
      Absolutely!!!

  • @DisabledInNature
    @DisabledInNature ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yes, book tour!! I think that sounds awesome. Can't wait for the book to come out

  • @pyb.5672
    @pyb.5672 ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching you together is like a masterclass in "complicité".

  • @sharonsue441
    @sharonsue441 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The book tour story gave me my first ( and probably my only) laugh of the day…..thank you…love you ❤️❤️

  • @lucylopez1995
    @lucylopez1995 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    They were right to spend time alone. Me and my husband celebrated our 40th anniversary and 8 months later he passed away. Nov will be 2 years he passed

    • @outoftheklosset
      @outoftheklosset ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m sorry for your loss of your husband.💔😭

  • @thermalnoise2976
    @thermalnoise2976 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wish you both good health.

  • @gerimarsh1563
    @gerimarsh1563 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m sad you moved, but happy you are in a warmer climate. I enjoy your vlogs, no matter what you discuss.

  • @AubutCatherine
    @AubutCatherine ปีที่แล้ว

    The suggestion from Shane for the book tour is perfect and you need to add every city in Canada too because we are very friendly. Love the groopies, band, "sleeve dates". You could have a professional chef for the food too. You guys need to do a rock star tour type, nothing less! Oh, it could become a international tour with your private plane so you won't have to deal with the airlines rules anymore. Ahhh, it's so much fun to dream for you guys! Lol Love your videos and what you do for the community.

  • @karengarson5715
    @karengarson5715 ปีที่แล้ว

    You two are AWESOME! You often make my day lighter and put smile on my face. Thank you Shane 😊
    Thank you Hannah😊

  • @Luigi88765
    @Luigi88765 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That was a pretty badass move from Dad, not gonna lie

  • @sherrylegary7418
    @sherrylegary7418 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a 40th Anniversary for the parents, the kids needed to respect that. And they need to day sorry. Grandparents love to look after their grandbabies but they were not there to baby sit the kids so you can have a vacation. Daughter is way out of line, she needed to ask and respect parents when they said no.

  • @boss2234
    @boss2234 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are a blessed couple a tough young man and a smart beautiful wife. The mountains you have already concurred .

  • @imscanon
    @imscanon ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You two are my favorite comedy act. I adore your banter so much. How harrowing yet ending funny was that story!!
    NTA: We ALL know this daughter, either from our family or someone else's. She's the one who is always angling for herself. She's taken advantage of nice parents MANY times before, no question about that. They know her. Dad also knows Mom and had he told Mom, she would have felt bad and told daughter and there would have been a huge fight and the vacay would have been ruined. He gave his wife his intended gift of a great vacay with the two of them. In this case, with this daughter, it's better to ask forgiveness than permission because no permission would have been given and they would have been stuck on vacay with their grandkids while daughter and her hubby were off having the great time Mom and Dad SHOULD have been having. So no, NTA and it's high time this daughter had to deal with the No. She was told NO in the beginning and hassled Mom til she relented. Now she'll just have to get over it as it's already done, they had the fun vacay they originally planned, (and daughter actually GOT a vacay too) and should not care at all that daughter is mad. It's her own fault for not caring one wit that Mom and Dad deserved a romantic 40 year anniversary trip by themselves and not being grateful she actually still got a vacay too. I'm sure she'll find plenty of other things to horn in on and get free things as she always does. That's my take. NTA. The daughter is TAH.

  • @risi7634
    @risi7634 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Come to Portland, Oregon for your book tour! :P

  • @michellebrockway4759
    @michellebrockway4759 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you guys talking about Swift and Kelce. Funny!

  • @pauluw1
    @pauluw1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please do not underestimate your drawing power on your book tour. I can see easily a couple hundred people at each stop. You guys are great and people are excited to meet you.

  • @kriskohnke3382
    @kriskohnke3382 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As usual you two are adorable. Thanks! Ha. Hope you eventually make it to Kansas.

  • @hola6164
    @hola6164 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤HI love you both. So happy you are in California I'm jelly I went to visit my son serving in the US Navy in June in San Diego and I loved it! Beautiful weather and landscape. Keep my son in prayers currently deployed😢 love you both. Missy in San Antonio

  • @norm11gray27
    @norm11gray27 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Shane and Hannah, Your account of the meet up was nerve wracking. I'm relieved to know that the troll did not present himself. I appreciate your candour and humour as you share aspects ofyour lives. Very Courageous, Kudos. Norm

  • @melissaaddison-webster212
    @melissaaddison-webster212 ปีที่แล้ว

    love you guys so much.... loved your last book shane. RV book tour sounds amazing, please come to canada. i'd happily host your book reading!

  • @clairey6407
    @clairey6407 ปีที่แล้ว

    That story about the troll is hilarious!! 🤣

  • @rubyredlopez4
    @rubyredlopez4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys should never do anymore meet and greets without having some security personal, especially with the times today. Criminal behavior has no bounds, you are always responsible for your own safety at All Times no matter time or place.
    Love y'all please make safety a priority for events 💞 it's better to be safe than sorry💞

  • @stephylynne4226
    @stephylynne4226 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Yeah I definitely don't think he's the asshole , good for him. Jane is 100% the A-hole . Love you guys . And if you do a book tour come to Oregon 🥰🥰🥰 .

  • @katmatrac
    @katmatrac ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Jane and her husband who wanted to tag along for a free vacation and to use the grandparents as babysitters knowing it was their 40th Anniversary, were the A-h. The father just wanted this Anniversary to be special . The mom of course broke down because she always gives to others and wants to make sure everyone is happy. So, the father decided to give the kids what he thought they wanted, which was a free vacation, but also do something special for his wife. This trip was about the two of them, not a family vacation and for Jane and her husband to take that away and think the vacation was going to be all about them and use the parents for babysitting service on their 40th was so very selfish ...

    • @nicholasjh1
      @nicholasjh1 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you look at it that way he probably was trying his best, but he still should have told them plans had changed in advance.

  • @pamelaferebee3648
    @pamelaferebee3648 ปีที่แล้ว

    The daughter should not want to go with her parents on their trip. Love watching you'll. Blessings to you both 🙏🏾

  • @SerendipitousButterflies
    @SerendipitousButterflies 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I found your channel about a week ago. I love you guys! You’re such a good fit and SOOOO funny! 😃

  • @missjenny702
    @missjenny702 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you to your personalities and humor is so refreshing

  • @danamama6766
    @danamama6766 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes they lost their babysitters and they knew it was their 40th anniversary and the kids and their kids should have been happy to go but know that they would need to let there be some space for the love birds to celebrate and not just be the care for them. I really think that good for Grandmas husband :)
    And the daughter kinda forced herself in so to many people take to many people for granted. Loved this. hugs

  • @unforgivinglyhappy9697
    @unforgivinglyhappy9697 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love to me you both! Awkward or not, I’m sure, at the end of the day, it would be a great memory. I love your humor and your willingness to share your lives with us. Please bring your tour to Oregon (the Oregon Coast is especially beautiful!). If you will have merch on this tour, please have T-shirts available that read “I’M A FREAK IN EVERY SETTING “. I will buy one for sure!

  • @PrairieRose4
    @PrairieRose4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the book tour idea! 👏 You guys always make me laugh

  • @KathySchwanke
    @KathySchwanke 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can’t think of his name but there is an awesome comedian with CP

  • @chelseabest282
    @chelseabest282 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yay! Junkyard mayhem is back!

  • @LindsayLemon-sy8fp
    @LindsayLemon-sy8fp 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Shane you are so funny…”a family dinner”…love you guys!!!

  • @cherishedlotus
    @cherishedlotus ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am nominating the book store in Peddlers Village as your Pennsylvania stop!!

  • @theboogeyman9813
    @theboogeyman9813 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Plot twist: It was him. He was both people communicating through different online names.

  • @andrewpetersen5249
    @andrewpetersen5249 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It would be so rad to meet you both, I hope this dream is realized.

  • @SJane3
    @SJane3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly, would be glorious to see if Josh Blue would be able to open for yal! Stand up comedian that absolutely mastered being able to elicit laughter for everyone! Wishful thinking of course, but when you said disable comedian he came to mind! He is great!!

    • @SomeKindOfHalfsie
      @SomeKindOfHalfsie ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Josh came to mind for me, too!

    • @SJane3
      @SJane3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @SomeKindOfHalfsie yes!! I'm so glad you thought of him too! I know he does shows all over, but if this book tour ever went to Denver he is right there!! I unfortunately don't know any other disabled comedians!

  • @graciecarter1312
    @graciecarter1312 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVE the AITA segments!! Keep finding good ones! Love you guys ❤️💖❤️💖

  • @Shamelslife
    @Shamelslife ปีที่แล้ว

    Come to Cleveland!! I’d love to see your outrageously expensive book tour! Plus, Hannah, we have awesome pierogi here! And sausages! Come come come!!

  • @cindyweekes6280
    @cindyweekes6280 ปีที่แล้ว

    YES,, Come to Boise, Idaho!! I absolutely love you both!! ❤️

  • @mb-the-enby
    @mb-the-enby ปีที่แล้ว

    That AITA is for sure an ESH situation. That family needs to communicate more.
    Excited for your book tour! I’ll start saving now, and testing potluck recipes. 😉

  • @sued1116
    @sued1116 ปีที่แล้ว

    I never had heard of this AITA stuff, now I had to look it up and listen to them on TH-cam, thanks🤣. Love listening to you're videos, you two are great fun.

  • @LushCrush828
    @LushCrush828 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not the a-hole. Not even close! And Shane, you could never be the A hole! 😊 Love you guys ❤

  • @jamesonroddie7204
    @jamesonroddie7204 ปีที่แล้ว

    Y’all better do a book tour!! I literally can’t wait!!

  • @staceyfitzgerald4476
    @staceyfitzgerald4476 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh yes, it ‘s a yes from me. I’m with Shane 100% on this. The grandfather was sleezy to change plans last minute and not tell anyone. It was his, or the grandparents responsibility to set boundaries with the adult children if they didn’t actually want it to be a whole family trip. Yeah I’d be pissed if my parents told me yes, it was planned a family trip and then backed out last minute. Nope nope nope!
    As someone with kids, I can see the desire to have parents come along. Again if they didn’t actually WANT to come then it’s THEIR responsibility to hold that boundary, not just say they will go and back out last minute and not even communicate that. Coward move. I get why they haven’t answered calls and texts.

  • @bettybarclay8877
    @bettybarclay8877 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I can’t judge theme because I had a similar incident after my first grandchild was born. She was born in Minnesota in October and they had 36 inches of snow still on the ground at Thanksgiving. My husband is from Michigan and we were going to drive up over the 4 day holiday, he was used to snow. My parents wanted to see their first great granddaughter. THEY decided they would rent a motor home since my Mom had health issues. I really didn’t want to change our plans and they didn’t let us know they had already rented the RV. We went and were there for Thanksgiving dinner with my daughter-in-laws step mom and our son and new baby. The weather news peas on and lots more snow was predicted for the day we were to start home. I was furious when we had to leave the next morning! I went for my little granddaughter and I had not had enough time with her! I pouted in the rear of the RV all the way home
    Looking back I realize I was the a___ hole. My Mom saw her first grgreat grandchild 3 months before she died. Seeing her was the highlight of my Moms last few weeks. There is always two sides of each story.
    Keep on mak😊ing everyone laugh. I wish I could be at a book signing but I live so far in the country in Texas that you would have to come to Waco, TX for me to see you.❤️

    • @outoftheklosset
      @outoftheklosset ปีที่แล้ว

      Why did you have to leave?

    • @jenromano19
      @jenromano19 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@outoftheklossetThere was a lot more snow forecast, and I'm assuming they couldn't drive the RV in the snow, so they had to leave sooner than planned. Still, maybe Grandma could've stayed and flown back later?

    • @marzulie
      @marzulie ปีที่แล้ว

      NTA most people don't want to provide childcare on a romantic once in a life time trip.

    • @chantalpajot2388
      @chantalpajot2388 ปีที่แล้ว

      6:01 6:03

    • @bettybarclay8877
      @bettybarclay8877 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@outoftheklosset
      Lots of snow was predicted again so we didn’t want to be stranded. It took away my visiting time. Selfish, yes. My Mom had health issues and couldn’t have flown. Had to forgive my parents but I needed their forgiveness for pouting all the way back home.

  • @yoclark2723
    @yoclark2723 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh, you guys! What a stressful day! I don't understand why people think you are not married or are scamming in some way. That AITA happened to my mom. She was invited to go to Spain with some friends. They had two kids. Mom paid her own way, got her own hotel room and was excited to see the sights with her friends and their kids. The friends asked her to watch the kids one day as they wanted some alone time and she agreed. pretty soon the parents started leaving the kids with her every day. Mom realized they invited her just to watch the kids. She ended up telling them she would not watch the kids and she took off for another city. and having a fun time in Spain alone.

  • @traildancer22
    @traildancer22 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my gosh please go on a book tour!!!! Come to Salt Lake City 🙏🏼 you guys are the best. You are so funny. I love your relationship and I've learned so much about disability from your stories.

  • @joannejepson5333
    @joannejepson5333 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ll be a groupie for your tour!! Like in “Almost Famous” (but no drugs).
    But I have to have my knees replaced first!
    You guys are so fantastic! Love you!!

  • @sharoncorley5099
    @sharoncorley5099 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well Shane there are wheelchair accessible RV's reach out to companies that do them , maybe they would give you one to use during duration of tour as sponsor and bring awareness that there are RV's for everyone 😉 worth a try

  • @omieleguacita3523
    @omieleguacita3523 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you ❤guys both .. wish I could meet both of you guys in person one day .. I love how funny you guys are .. ❤

  • @kaykaynaay
    @kaykaynaay ปีที่แล้ว

    Please come to Iowa! Would love to come to your book tour and meet you guys! 😩❤️❤️

  • @cocorunny6597
    @cocorunny6597 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys crack me up it was the reporter you knew was coming 😂

  • @bloxburgbuilds4765
    @bloxburgbuilds4765 ปีที่แล้ว

    Guys this is sweet u guys are so sweet. U guys deserve to be together forever

  • @markdfranke
    @markdfranke ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bad decisions all around! Daughter should not have invited herself along, especially when told this was a special anniversary trip. Once the parents agreed to have the daughter and family come...they should have honored that decision. To change plans at the last minute AND not tell the daughter is more than rude. (Perhaps we have just figured out where the daughter gets her decision-making processes.)

  • @marsharennels9911
    @marsharennels9911 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The Dad is NTA. He could have canceled all the travel arrangements and just rebooked for himself and his wife. Instead, he decided to ensure both he and his wife had the 2nd honeymoon they originally desired while still gifting his daughter’s family a vacation. It was extremely presumptuous for the daughter and SIL to assume her parents would babysit - especially considering the purpose of the trip was to celebrate her parents’ 40th anniversary. Daughter and SIL are entitled AHs, Mom is a pushover, and Dad had difficulty with boundaries.

  • @elliehuman9710
    @elliehuman9710 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is amazing Shane and Hannah honestly can’t wait to get the book as I have all of Shane’s books you both are absolutely wonderful individuals and I hope to meet you both in the future I’m from the UK and you both inspire me to keep living my life and being myself I’m autistic and dyspraxic and proud and I hope you guys keep making amazing videos I’ve been here watching you guys since the beginning of your journey and I’m loving being on the journey with you guys and ignore the haters they’ll never get anywhere in life keep doing what you are doing :)x

    • @The315fan
      @The315fan ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m also from the UK!

  • @dreamcrone
    @dreamcrone ปีที่แล้ว

    So horrible and hilarious! I’m in my living room laughing and feeling guilty!

  • @kaitlinvazquez1565
    @kaitlinvazquez1565 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    AITA: I actually agree with Shane. I'm glad the wife wasn't angry, but I definitely would have been after finding out my husband changed everything without consulting me, especially the destination. BUT the daughter was completely out of line and entitled forcing herself along in the first place, and then explaining she basically just was thinking of herself and not her parents anniversary at all. I think they're both the assole.

  • @GentleFD25
    @GentleFD25 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    omfg the episode this time was hilarious! I'm sorry that it was such a stressful time for you, dealing with a deranged stalker like that but I'm glad it's a funny story now haha I definitely relate to being an awkward potato when meeting up with people for the first time 😂
    also i remember reading the anniversary story on reddit the other day! daughter was definitely the asshole

  • @MeeblesSporella
    @MeeblesSporella ปีที่แล้ว

    Come to Wilmington, NC! I'll be there.