@Starlight-l4o In a verse when Chad's and Tyrone's exist most of "those" guys thinks they're just good guys, but every man needs a bit chadness in his life or his brain. Man is the pillar of the household while wife is the creator of the house itself. (Least my father told me this when he was alive) if you don't have any backbone in your body, then don't date at all just improve yourself. But alas women in this verse also evil as heck. It's kinda sad news 😅
@ I was asked out by a 16 year old when I was 19 and immediately turned her down cause it made me uncomfortable. No way in hell any normal ass adult would be ok with dating a teen.
Because you've been brainwashed into thinking you're committing a crime. 3 years gap in your case is barely an issue. You should've been free to date and take things really slow, nobody is actually forcing you to have intercourse and even if you both wanted, condoms are freely distributed at hospitals, if not just buy them. Ask yourself how much of an actual difference did you feel when being 16 and then 19. Being "adult" is such an arbitrary term, most men don't have a solid emotional maturity until way past 25+ years, and women menstruation is such a huge impact in their biology that ot forces them to mature faster due to the new responsibilities it places on their body. Also, from a pure social standpoint the Older people get, the more emotional baggage and traumas they can carry because of failed relationships, if you have a solid and slow burning relationship you could've had a person that is more balanced in the long run, the same goes for you.
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@ even in the small age gap I provided, the mental spaces both parties occupy are completely different. They are in drastically different stages of life because of societal expectations. This is greatly exaggerated by the age gap in the actual post. Hell, it’s not uncommon for me to hear that people who are like 27-29 don’t even want to date people who are like 20-22. The age gap might seem small to you, but especially given what a tumultuous period of growth this age space occupies, it is a lot more severe than one could think.
>meet Gf online in MMO >super hit it off, we vibe well even if where a country away IRL >game together in a super supportive way, content or casual, she tells me when shes tired and we stop to do something else >she's a real kinkster, uses modded sims game to great effect and interestm even sends me screenshots about wanting to take charge sometimes in bed. >talk to her everyday, yet do not act clingy or suspicious when she goes out and do stuff >write her roleplaysmut that ties into her modded sims reality she has made. >all of a sudden she breaks down one day after a few months and accuses me of being overly sexual and forcing her to do things she didnt want >bipolar activate.exe >not once did she say anything or showed any hint of this, i did infact go the extra mile to write her the smut on her request and behalf. >blame me for her missing several appointmets she had over months because according to her i was abusive in wanting to do kink stuff with her via text roleplay in a universe she created and showed me herself. >a thousand daggers in my heart as she cuts off all contact. it still hurts
Any 23yo who's willing to date a 17yo is full of redflags anyway. I'm 22 and I wouldn't see myself dating anyone below 20 (not that I could anyway lmao)
TL;DR: Incels are assholes, I don't want to turn into one. I need to learn to trust myself again. I know a random comment on TH-cam is not the best place for this, but recently, my fear of becoming like this disgusting asshole resurfaced. All of that was based on my habits. No gf ever, etc. However, one thing that I realized is that I have lost trust in myself to not become that. If I can learn to trust myself again, I hope I can finally start healing.
@@franck-oq4jv I'd say the video itself is cool, some stories are interesting as long as you don't treat them as reality. It's the comment section that they should stay away from..
Probably vow to work on it together or break up and work on it yourself. I’ve never been in a relationship though so I wouldn’t know, safest bet is probably the latter. I’d imagine communication is important, it’s probably good to ask her if she feels the same way and in which case, you can talk it out together. Again, never been in a relationship. Practice listening and be more accepting of yourself, that way you’ll probably be more accepting of others. I think the common consensus is that how you think of yourself or treat yourself is how you think of or treat others. Actively try to think about your partner’s feelings. I think that generally, it’s a misconception that being good to other’s and being a good person isn’t a pain and a burden, atleast if you’re not that way already. And in case you sometimes ask yourself if you’re really a bad person or if you are just being insecure, that distinction doesn’t matter, because being a ”bad person”, and being insecure may not always be different from eachother, so either way that insecurity is what you should work on. But what the fuck do I know, just get a therapist man.
How??? The guy is stronger and obviously trying to take advantage/manipulate the girl, if they were the same age it could look like the typical toxic teenager banger, but this is an adult, trying to use a teen for their exclusive benefit.
@@0-kingsloth-020 it doesn’t, but it makes a significant difference where someone can be more vulnerable and the other can have the advantage, which makes the situation even more dangerous.
Anon's boyfriend is a classic narcissist. All their flaws, hangups, emotional instability, and insecurities are all someone else's fault.
Yeah this one was actually written by a woman
I'm 17 he's 23. Hold up.
Wokeness got to yall
@andidyouknow8208 bro what. How does wokeness have anything to do with a 23 year old dating a minor get off the internet bro
@@theCreamyCrusher
yeah better if she waits another 30 days, because as everyone knows you turn into a different person when you are 18
@@theCreamyCrushery'all acting like he is a 50 y/o dude with a 17 y/o.
@Sir_Cole
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sis is a victim
every 23 year old guy who would date a 17 year old is exactly like this. ask yourself why no girls in their 20s will ever date him
I assume you got experience ? Yikes...
@@HoxtonRulesbruh, if she doesn’t I do, but I never dated the man, but he was like this, and was in his 30’s 🫥…
@Starlight-l4o In a verse when Chad's and Tyrone's exist most of "those" guys thinks they're just good guys, but every man needs a bit chadness in his life or his brain. Man is the pillar of the household while wife is the creator of the house itself. (Least my father told me this when he was alive) if you don't have any backbone in your body, then don't date at all just improve yourself. But alas women in this verse also evil as heck. It's kinda sad news 😅
@ I’m sorry, I don’t get it, what does this has to do with hm… the topic we were talking about?
@@HoxtonRulesstop whining.
So uhh no red flags from him being an adult and him being ok with dating a teen? I feel like that might matter a tad bit more here.
Women don't care about age as much as you think buddy.
If you only knew what some of those young OF girls do while in Dubai 🤣🤣🤣
She should have seen it coming since that moment
@ I was asked out by a 16 year old when I was 19 and immediately turned her down cause it made me uncomfortable. No way in hell any normal ass adult would be ok with dating a teen.
Because you've been brainwashed into thinking you're committing a crime.
3 years gap in your case is barely an issue. You should've been free to date and take things really slow, nobody is actually forcing you to have intercourse and even if you both wanted, condoms are freely distributed at hospitals, if not just buy them.
Ask yourself how much of an actual difference did you feel when being 16 and then 19. Being "adult" is such an arbitrary term, most men don't have a solid emotional maturity until way past 25+ years, and women menstruation is such a huge impact in their biology that ot forces them to mature faster due to the new responsibilities it places on their body.
Also, from a pure social standpoint the Older people get, the more emotional baggage and traumas they can carry because of failed relationships, if you have a solid and slow burning relationship you could've had a person that is more balanced in the long run, the same goes for you.
@ even in the small age gap I provided, the mental spaces both parties occupy are completely different. They are in drastically different stages of life because of societal expectations. This is greatly exaggerated by the age gap in the actual post. Hell, it’s not uncommon for me to hear that people who are like 27-29 don’t even want to date people who are like 20-22. The age gap might seem small to you, but especially given what a tumultuous period of growth this age space occupies, it is a lot more severe than one could think.
>meet Gf online in MMO
>super hit it off, we vibe well even if where a country away IRL
>game together in a super supportive way, content or casual, she tells me when shes tired and we stop to do something else
>she's a real kinkster, uses modded sims game to great effect and interestm even sends me screenshots about wanting to take charge sometimes in bed.
>talk to her everyday, yet do not act clingy or suspicious when she goes out and do stuff
>write her roleplaysmut that ties into her modded sims reality she has made.
>all of a sudden she breaks down one day after a few months and accuses me of being overly sexual and forcing her to do things she didnt want
>bipolar activate.exe
>not once did she say anything or showed any hint of this, i did infact go the extra mile to write her the smut on her request and behalf.
>blame me for her missing several appointmets she had over months because according to her i was abusive in wanting to do kink stuff with her via text roleplay in a universe she created and showed me herself.
>a thousand daggers in my heart as she cuts off all contact.
it still hurts
It sucks
Cool, she had the average experience of dating a woman, but with a dude.
😂
Thats crazy 💀
Talking about incels and misogynists and there it is...
It was a joke... Stop crying@@Rupally
@shellow4143 it was a joke, stop crying
I used to behave like this guy.
Now I'm 18 and doing much better and would never do that again.
This man sounds like a covert narcissist.
that is not a man that is a toddler, you just described a toddler.
"Hurt people, hurt people".
fake: anon is female
gay: has a bf
i love those comments lmao
you know he made a 4chan post about how woman don't want nice guys after this
It’s ok to be abusive if he’s handsome though
@@acidity2k486 💀dead ass
@@jerisoslayer 😭
Any 23yo who's willing to date a 17yo is full of redflags anyway.
I'm 22 and I wouldn't see myself dating anyone below 20 (not that I could anyway lmao)
TL;DR: Incels are assholes, I don't want to turn into one. I need to learn to trust myself again.
I know a random comment on TH-cam is not the best place for this, but recently, my fear of becoming like this disgusting asshole resurfaced. All of that was based on my habits. No gf ever, etc. However, one thing that I realized is that I have lost trust in myself to not become that. If I can learn to trust myself again, I hope I can finally start healing.
Acknowledging the problem is a big step, try to avoid content like this as much as possible. It hurts your brain.
@@franck-oq4jv I'd say the video itself is cool, some stories are interesting as long as you don't treat them as reality. It's the comment section that they should stay away from..
Sounds like a league of legends player
TRUE as fuck
fake: anon is female
gay: anon left her boyfriend
Sounds like a typical discord gamer bf
Pretty sure 23 and 17 is illegal
Nope not really sadly. Age of consent most places is 16.
Pretty sure it’s not
Real and straight. Unfortunately.
Fake: anon had a relationship
Gay: anon identifies as a woman
Terrible bf. He needs to work on his flaws and be a better person.
The FBI would like to know his location.
lol literal woman
I was gonna say that this is the typical experience of having a gf just with the roles reversed.
I think you missed the part where the bf demands that the girl has long hair and makeup, as well as physically beating her...
I feel like I’m the guy in this (my gf is NOT 17 tho 🤮) what should I do?
Probably vow to work on it together or break up and work on it yourself. I’ve never been in a relationship though so I wouldn’t know, safest bet is probably the latter. I’d imagine communication is important, it’s probably good to ask her if she feels the same way and in which case, you can talk it out together. Again, never been in a relationship. Practice listening and be more accepting of yourself, that way you’ll probably be more accepting of others. I think the common consensus is that how you think of yourself or treat yourself is how you think of or treat others. Actively try to think about your partner’s feelings. I think that generally, it’s a misconception that being good to other’s and being a good person isn’t a pain and a burden, atleast if you’re not that way already. And in case you sometimes ask yourself if you’re really a bad person or if you are just being insecure, that distinction doesn’t matter, because being a ”bad person”, and being insecure may not always be different from eachother, so either way that insecurity is what you should work on.
But what the fuck do I know, just get a therapist man.
Based
That sounds like me! Joke
The age aint the problem
How??? The guy is stronger and obviously trying to take advantage/manipulate the girl, if they were the same age it could look like the typical toxic teenager banger, but this is an adult, trying to use a teen for their exclusive benefit.
@@Starlight-l4o the age doesn't relate to the toxicity
@@0-kingsloth-020 it doesn’t, but it makes a significant difference where someone can be more vulnerable and the other can have the advantage, which makes the situation even more dangerous.
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