He was already sitting with her in a coffee shop. He needed to fluff her up - chat, light conversation, get her name, eventually lead up to ""any plans for the weekend"?
Maybe it's because I went through some stuff with rejections, but this feels like a 2/10 on the rejection hardness scale at best for me. Barely a step above a regular rejection.
Nah, it's just that he stepped out of his comfort zone and tried something that he normally wouldn't do. Kinda like riding a bike for the first time, falling over, and skinning your knee.
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He was already sitting with her in a coffee shop. He needed to fluff her up - chat, light conversation, get her name, eventually lead up to ""any plans for the weekend"?
Ikr lol what a noob
Maybe it's because I went through some stuff with rejections, but this feels like a 2/10 on the rejection hardness scale at best for me. Barely a step above a regular rejection.
Yeah, I've seen guys who were much more invested, face plant much harder inside the friendzone.. lol
IMO harsh rejection starts with "How could you possibly think *I* would ever be interested in YOU?!" 😆
It’s funny to me that he has had more than one gf and actually gets dates from dating apps but he is still like this.
Massive cope over something completely insignificant.
Nah, it's just that he stepped out of his comfort zone and tried something that he normally wouldn't do. Kinda like riding a bike for the first time, falling over, and skinning your knee.
@@Colzline I understand that. However, he didn't realize that th-cam.com/video/Lrr_VVtyUA8/w-d-xo.html
From the holistic perspective that takes into account how men and women interact in modern world it's completely meaningless what he did. I am talking about level 5 or 6 of the hoe math levels video here th-cam.com/video/kse87ocS0Uo/w-d-xo.html
Unless he takes this perpective, he is like a chicken running without head, a snake that eats itself or a cat that chases its own tail. Yes, he will learn but only how to headlessly run farther, how to eat more and how to chase more quickly. He will still be locked in his own models, his own worldview, limited by his interactions and experiences. I am speaking from that holistic perspective, so it's kind of difficult to explain it. But the core of the problem is that he is ascribing way too much importance to the actual experience which limits his scope of future interaction as well as understanding of that future interaction. I wanted to write "how he approaches stuff" but I didn't eventually write that expression earlier because it can also mean "approaching people" while I strictly mean it only in the sense of "approach towards problem, or experience".
I must also apologize, I might write less coherently now because I just had several massive dopamine bursts. Completely legal high, my thinking is like "wtf".
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