1. Mike will get cheated on too. 2. If you're uncomfortable blocking them, you just need to stay off social media. 3. Dave is a G 4. Use this time to work on yourself; pick up a hobby, go to the gym, eat better, feel better.
Well, here's what's gonna happen. One day. One day, you're gonna wake up, eat your breakfast, brush your teeth, go about your business. And sooner or later you're gonna realize you haven't thought about it. None of it. And that's the moment you realize you can forget. When you know that's possible, it all gets easier.
Because she's a woman, she is incapable of any higher brain functioning or rational thought. It's literally o harder to understand than that. Women are like demons that feed on emotions, is fueled by self-inflicted drama, and in general sees manipulation as a valid substitute for "normal" human interaction.
If Mike and Emma weren't committed enough to actually become a thing within those 2 and a half years you were being cheated on, they aren't gonna be committed enough to stay in a relationship with each other. Friend groups that do this kind of thing will slowly eat away at themselves one by one before they completely break off. You came out of this lucky that you weren't in that environment for that long, you will find someone worthy of you king.
It may be that Emma and Mike had their moments before anon was introduced to the group by Dave. Emma still had feelings for Mike and could have felt that she was "losing" him so she wanted to sleep with Mike. Its possible that Mike accepted as a "secret" between him and Emma, advocated by Emma as a way to start a relationship. Mike did not want a relationship with Emma, Emma did and she bet on the casual sex would lead to a relationship with Mike. Emma told the girls to let them know that she is "the girl" and gauge if they approve of them. The girls in the group were cheering Emma on for Mike and of course, the drama. To the girls, anon was just the new guy and someone to fill the role before Mike did, which I doubt Mike even wanted a relationship with her. For that one girl to tell anon that his then girlfriend had been sleeping with Mike it is likely that the girls, based on that which Emma told them, were anticipating Emma and Mike to be boyfriend and girlfriend. That those two sleeping with each other would amount to a relationship between them. Anon announcing to the group that he planned on proposing to Emma was by viewed as a threat to the Emma and Mike show. They giggled as in their mind Emma and Mike were getting closer or were at the precipice of a relationship they were excited about. Mike changed position as he thought she was sweet and her friends encouraged him to get into a relationship with her. Emma cheated anon, Mike was complicit. No, "I did not know", "she did not tell me anything"; he knew the whole time. Them tagging anon in the pictures is just for provoking drama by the girls of that group. For them it was a love triangle. That is going to haunt them as a group as they would be regarded as very untrustworthy and treacherous. They would tell the story to the new people they meet as "Isnt that hilarious? OMG the drama, I love Emma". The girls they meet would flake on them, the ones that stay in the short term would be the ones that just want to have a social life again before stopping it. Emma is probably eyeing Mike's other friends or friends of friends. Eventually they are going to include nasty people and the group is going to implode. Dave and anon can start a new friend group now. Thank you for reading my blog.
Honestly, the Mike guy probably isn’t serious about the “relationship” now it is most likely just a friend with benefits to him still. Though the girls probably convinced themselves its more. They probably at this guy, because he still comes up as someone emma mentions still on her mind.
Bro, those 4chan videos are rotting my brain into thinking that 99% of girls are like that. This isn't true, right...? I mean, maybe in the US to some extent (never have been there), but surely not in other countries, right????
don't worry brother it's not happening every day all the time. But shitty people do exist, which creates horrific stories, that people have the need of sharing. Hope life will be good to you and merry christmas.
Not all rot. You really shouldn't ever fully trust a person because one, personality disorders exist, and two, if you don't think a story like OP can happen then if and when it does happen to you it will be one of the worst experiences of your life. I'm not saying to be paranoid about it but you need to at least be prepared for the possibility of betrayal happening.
Its like with toys. Theres trash toys and Theres toys u never want to loose. Everyone is different and thinks different so Theres bound to be Bad apples
Honestly, mike probably wasn’t the only one. Hopefully he is smart enough not to date her. Edit, i know it says mike is dating her, but that doesn’t necessarily mean he is serious about her I know i would never be. Hopefully he is just there for the easy sex
Stop checking up on them online. It's genuinely awful, but a man needs to move on. If his mind wallows in tragedy, he'll be drawn back to a dark place repeatedly. Trying to not cry won't help. Making plans to move on with life will. This should be a time of improving himself. New (and better) friends will be drawn to a virtuous lifestyle built upon self-respect.
He wasn't in the girl's groupchat. Neither was Mike or any other dude, probably, but if any other men in the group heard about it, it was probably from their girlfriends among the girls who knew.
Probably he was not THAT much their friend, I had been in friend groups like this, thought people were my friends them discovered they weren't telling me things, I started to be out of the loop in many things, and them, I realized I was not really their friend. The same happened with anon and Dave.
People have different ways and feelings of expression For example I personally cry quite frequently, about once a month while my best friend hasn't cried in public since 3rd grade
1. Mike will get cheated on too.
2. If you're uncomfortable blocking them, you just need to stay off social media.
3. Dave is a G
4. Use this time to work on yourself; pick up a hobby, go to the gym, eat better, feel better.
They can't hear you
@@sanguinumlacrimisofangeli3076 Thank you captain obvious.😮💨
Those people were not your friends
Damn right, vile people every last one of them.
dave is a good friend and a good person for sticking by you, and i know they will all get cheated on sooner or later, either with eachother or worse
Well, here's what's gonna happen. One day. One day, you're gonna wake up, eat your breakfast, brush your teeth, go about your business. And sooner or later you're gonna realize you haven't thought about it. None of it. And that's the moment you realize you can forget. When you know that's possible, it all gets easier.
Bad Choice Road
Thanks, finger
Thanks I needed this
Friends?
Dave was the only friend here.
They were worthless.
Dave is a real friend, that girl missed out on a real dedicated man, hope OP will find his other half one day ❤
why not LITERALLY just date the person you cheated on if your 3 months in
For benefits, most likely. Cheaters think in potential short term gain not the consequences or the people they're hurting.
It could be that the Mike guy did not want a relationship, just a "secret" between him and that Emma chick
Because she's a woman, she is incapable of any higher brain functioning or rational thought.
It's literally o harder to understand than that.
Women are like demons that feed on emotions, is fueled by self-inflicted drama, and in general sees manipulation as a valid substitute for "normal" human interaction.
Bro has every right to become villain
He lost some fake friends and a 304, sounds like a win win to me.
Not sure what not blocking them achieves
Honestly, I wouldn't block them, just ignore them for strategic purposes
Not blocking = you will never get over them, blocking is always the correct thing to do if you want to move on and find peace
@@youyou01101honestly just mute them. Then they can waste their own time thinking about you.
Which if they at him they clearly do
The real solution is to stop using social media since it barely adds anything to life other than a time sink and misery.
Now start revenge
Can't lose something you never had . But a friend gained a true friend is more precious than gold . (Depending on inflation )
If Mike and Emma weren't committed enough to actually become a thing within those 2 and a half years you were being cheated on, they aren't gonna be committed enough to stay in a relationship with each other.
Friend groups that do this kind of thing will slowly eat away at themselves one by one before they completely break off.
You came out of this lucky that you weren't in that environment for that long, you will find someone worthy of you king.
Fake : Anon had a gf
Gay : Anon slept with Dave
It may be that Emma and Mike had their moments before anon was introduced to the group by Dave. Emma still had feelings for Mike and could have felt that she was "losing" him so she wanted to sleep with Mike. Its possible that Mike accepted as a "secret" between him and Emma, advocated by Emma as a way to start a relationship. Mike did not want a relationship with Emma, Emma did and she bet on the casual sex would lead to a relationship with Mike. Emma told the girls to let them know that she is "the girl" and gauge if they approve of them. The girls in the group were cheering Emma on for Mike and of course, the drama. To the girls, anon was just the new guy and someone to fill the role before Mike did, which I doubt Mike even wanted a relationship with her. For that one girl to tell anon that his then girlfriend had been sleeping with Mike it is likely that the girls, based on that which Emma told them, were anticipating Emma and Mike to be boyfriend and girlfriend. That those two sleeping with each other would amount to a relationship between them. Anon announcing to the group that he planned on proposing to Emma was by viewed as a threat to the Emma and Mike show. They giggled as in their mind Emma and Mike were getting closer or were at the precipice of a relationship they were excited about. Mike changed position as he thought she was sweet and her friends encouraged him to get into a relationship with her. Emma cheated anon, Mike was complicit. No, "I did not know", "she did not tell me anything"; he knew the whole time.
Them tagging anon in the pictures is just for provoking drama by the girls of that group. For them it was a love triangle. That is going to haunt them as a group as they would be regarded as very untrustworthy and treacherous. They would tell the story to the new people they meet as "Isnt that hilarious? OMG the drama, I love Emma". The girls they meet would flake on them, the ones that stay in the short term would be the ones that just want to have a social life again before stopping it. Emma is probably eyeing Mike's other friends or friends of friends. Eventually they are going to include nasty people and the group is going to implode.
Dave and anon can start a new friend group now.
Thank you for reading my blog.
Honestly, the Mike guy probably isn’t serious about the “relationship” now it is most likely just a friend with benefits to him still.
Though the girls probably convinced themselves its more.
They probably at this guy, because he still comes up as someone emma mentions still on her mind.
Fake: he had a girlfriend
Gay: he was the one sleeping with Mike1
Break the streak
"perfect... *_Suspiciously perfect_** ..."*
Bro, those 4chan videos are rotting my brain into thinking that 99% of girls are like that. This isn't true, right...? I mean, maybe in the US to some extent (never have been there), but surely not in other countries, right????
Western chicks are just hoes man. Especially the Americans.
don't worry brother it's not happening every day all the time. But shitty people do exist, which creates horrific stories, that people have the need of sharing. Hope life will be good to you and merry christmas.
@christiankotsakidis7506 Thanks, man. I don't celebrate Christmas, but thanks for that too. Happy Christmas.
Not all rot. You really shouldn't ever fully trust a person because one, personality disorders exist, and two, if you don't think a story like OP can happen then if and when it does happen to you it will be one of the worst experiences of your life. I'm not saying to be paranoid about it but you need to at least be prepared for the possibility of betrayal happening.
Its like with toys. Theres trash toys and Theres toys u never want to loose.
Everyone is different and thinks different so Theres bound to be Bad apples
Honestly, mike probably wasn’t the only one.
Hopefully he is smart enough not to date her.
Edit, i know it says mike is dating her, but that doesn’t necessarily mean he is serious about her I know i would never be. Hopefully he is just there for the easy sex
Real and straight
Dodged numerous bullets if true
Stop checking up on them online. It's genuinely awful, but a man needs to move on. If his mind wallows in tragedy, he'll be drawn back to a dark place repeatedly.
Trying to not cry won't help. Making plans to move on with life will. This should be a time of improving himself. New (and better) friends will be drawn to a virtuous lifestyle built upon self-respect.
It does she know how to make grilled cheese?
Dave is part of the friend group, how did he not know?
He was probably left out of the loop because they thought he would snitch
He wasn't in the girl's groupchat. Neither was Mike or any other dude, probably, but if any other men in the group heard about it, it was probably from their girlfriends among the girls who knew.
Probably he was not THAT much their friend, I had been in friend groups like this, thought people were my friends them discovered they weren't telling me things, I started to be out of the loop in many things, and them, I realized I was not really their friend. The same happened with anon and Dave.
Bro wdym the no cry streak???
What? I haven't cried since my dad died when I was 17...
People have different ways and feelings of expression
For example I personally cry quite frequently, about once a month while my best friend hasn't cried in public since 3rd grade
i dont remember the last time i cried
I haven't cried for 2 years by now.
@@AnekoF90 bro you have a anime profile stop lying
Don't block them. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.
That's a good quote, but you have to become stronger to be able to let go of the past.
Yep I completely believe this
Oil up
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