Young Bride Wants a Wedding Dress That Makes Her Feel More Grown Up | Say Yes To The Dress UK
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- Ellie wants a sophisticated fishtail wedding dress that will make her look more mature, but mum wants to see her little girl in a princess gown.
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I got married when I was 18, 60 years later we are still happily married.
Gloria Koch aww that’s amazing best wishes xx
That's beautiful!
That's so beautiful. Stay blessed!!
Good for you guys!!👍😁
Congratulations I’m so happy for you !!!
She's 19, and getting married.
I'm also 19, but never got a boyfriend and never been kissed 🙂
All you need is your hand brother
Same! (Also that’s one of my favorite pictures of Jinwoo, you have good taste 😊)
@@flywithme8865 omooooo! 😚 i love this too. Arohaaaa 😍
People are different 🤷🏼♀️
I has my first kiss at 19, and my first boyfriend/ fiance at 23 and 4 yrs later we were ingaged and and 2 years after we're getting married 😉 don't worry take your time to know if that special someone is right for you
None of the dresses shown did anything for her figure, that's disappointing.
Daisy Sanders because 99% of the time dresses won’t be the correct size, they’ll have to be tailored to fit the bride properly before the special day.
@@itsminxy_ no, that's not the issue. The size isn't the issue, it's the shape and how it works with her frame. I'm skinnier than her by a mile and know to stay away from anything that cuts off the shoulders or makes her look boxed in.
Daisy Sanders no, it is the issue. I’ve worked in this industry and most of the time it’s the fit of the dress.
Exactly!! Fashion “rules” are almost always bullshit. Fit and color are most important, and any seamstress will tell you so
@@circusfreak2256 I have and continue to make clothing as a hobby, I don't say so.
Why do mother's do this? It's horribly unfair. Your daughters wedding day is not your day. Cop on, live your own life and stop trying to live through your daughter. It's pathetic!
Eileen Cullen probably because their mothers did it to them
Eileen Cullen
I agree.
I will never do that to my daughter.
Her wedding, her day, her choice!
I must admit that if I was prepared to fork over 2,000 pounds for my daughter's dress, I'd find it very, very hard to keep my mouth closed. I know I'd have to, but I'd be biting my tongue constantly.
I also must admit that I am surprised at the number of brides - and not just young ones like this one, but women in their late 20s - whose parents are paying for the dress.
@@pandorabox8094While I do agree that they should pay for the dresses themselves, paying for something doesn't mean you get to control someone else's choices. It's supposed to be a gift, not a chance to manipulate.
@@bettynolo23 Did you miss that I wrote: "I'd find it very, very hard to keep my mouth closed. I know I'd have to, but I'd be biting my tongue constantly?" This obviously implies that I'd be supportive, and keep my mouth shut.
However, even a gift can come with strings attached, and the sooner these brides realise it and face facts, the better for them. Additionally, a lot of these brides need someone to tell them that although they might love the dress, they look ridiculous. It's possibly the train wreck effect that is the appeal of some - not all - of this type of programme.
Additionally,it would be interesting to know how many brides actually wear the dress t they select.
I don't know WHY I watch these! I end up screaming at the screen....." but its NOT your wedding!!!!!" I'm a mother too and I have NO vision of what my kids will get married in, if they'll get married or even have kids. Its not my place to tell my ADULT kids what I WANT THEM TO DO! If they ask for advice or opinion ill give it but I'm HAPPY if THEY ARE HAPPY! #selfishmums
I agree Jen. It's one thing to say how you visioned to see your daughter,it's another thing to impose it on her.
You had your chance on your wedding day.Now is her chance to do the wedding in her style,to live her dream.
PREACH
Jen Loves Nails your an ideal mom! My mom chose my dress. I just wore it. My mom is the one who chooses most of my decisions even though I’m 22, have 2 kids, and am married. She pretty much controls my life and if I don’t do what she wants, she gets upset or mad at me.
Can you be my mom please ? 😂😂 It's seriously pisses me off to see these moms act like they can do whatever they want when it's not their wedding
dish3.14 !! I was about to say the same 😂
Bride wants a mature, lace, fishtail with long sleeves and buttons down the back.
Consultants bring her a youthful ballgown???
they always want to bring them another style to make them try many different things and most of the time it's also to please someone in the crowd.
It seem that they suddenly have become deaf... It happens a lot in this particular show. Soon annoying. I think she would have looked the part in a nice fishtail. With her youthful figure she could carry that style of easily.
They did that to please her mom
Yeah what a disappointment.
Such a contrast to other SYTTD versions where they strongly advise their staff to side with the bride.
My opinion; that was the worst dress she tried on! Totally swallowed her up. Mom's shouldn't push their dreams on the their daughters but respect what they want!
I so agree what ugly dress
i think she looked gorgeous of course but so uncomfortable. she looked so much more comfortable and happy in the other dress
I agree! Horrible choice! Poor girl doesn't have a voice.
Totaly agree. This mother should marry a second time, than she could wear this dress herself
Agree with the comments about the dress she choose, swimsuit her and made her look pregnant. Mum although your opinion does matter it's her wedding and she should wear what she's dreamt of.
they should have put her in another fishtail (that *actually* compliments her figure) instead of two of what the mom wants. that last one was the most kid-ish of all three.
Nope it was pretty and she's doesn't look like a lil kid at all I'd think she's 24 or smthin
I absolutely agree
She seems so sweet, she's so soft spoken. I hope she'll stand up for herself and pick a dress she really loves and not let her mom sway her
I'm sure she will choose another dress to get married
Why is her face looking like she's sad
Merry Dj because her mother is constantly getting in her head and forcing things down her throat
She comes across as being very passive; used to going along to get along and she herself, gets lost in life.
Because she's getting married at 19...
Dee Perry that wouldn’t make her miserable, it’s her choice.
@@rach2708 im not saying it isnt her choice im just saying its a sad choice
I feel like she can sing...she has such a soft soothing voice
I dont like it. I am so tired of seeing these moms overtaking the appointment with what they want. It kills me.. these mother's already had their wedding and chose their dresses. I hate that they sway the bride from the vision she has. I went dress shopping with my mom and sister and showed them the dress I loved. They saw how happy I was and they loved that but not the dress. Which sucked bad. Then they picked a dress for me the exact opposite of what I was wanting. I put it on and they both started crying talking about how beautiful and look at your waiste and shape. Ya it was nice and looked pretty. But wasn't what I wanted or loved. I didn't get anything. I wanted moms approval and didn't get it But I didn't give in either.. Still looking
I think you should get what you want because it's your wedding not theirs
I wish you luck with your shopping lol☺️☺️
That's why I made two appointments. One for my mom and mother in law and a second with my sister and friends who would not overtake the appointment with what they like. Worked out. Let my mom picture me in dresses as well as my mother in law, and chose the one I loved with my friends. She had no room to say no. Bahahaha
I feel so bad for you... Get the one you love. When I went dress shopping, i found the perfect dress. I had my mom, my grandma, my best friend, and my best friends mom with me. When I put on the dress and said this is the one, everyone agreed with me that they thought it was perfect. My husband who doesn't even like red (the dress had red incorporated into it in the sash and design) was a little deflated when I told him red and white was the color scheme. After he saw me, he told me it was the prettiest dress hed ever seen and that I looked absolutely stunning. Get what you want because it's your wedding!
I work in a bridal shop, and I think that the mothers are living on what they missed because of their mother.
Why is nobody talking about how much relaxing her voice is?
That bottom skirt of the third dress looked like piles of tissue paper on top of each other.
Erika Rivera you’re right. She was so afraid a ball gown would swallow her up. Um, this one did. I liked the bodice.
I thought the third one was so ugly why would she of all dresses choose THAT one
Exactly, don’t like it .
yeah it isn't cute on her
That dress was hideous
The way she talk is quite emotionless and she look sad. Im not judging her. Just wondering is she really happy and ready to get married at 19?
:/ Yeah I don't think she knows what *she* wants. If you notice, she said that she wants people to take her seriously and then went with the dress that everyone liked. All of that stuff shouldn't matter when you are setting up YOUR wedding. 😕
Many people aren’t emotional and do not show their emotions easier. I love the dress they ended up choosing
I think she’s just shy
Isn't that how Darcy perceived Jane Bennet?
Loraine Spencer exactly. ☺️
She doesn’t look 19, she looks much older!!!
I thought that she was atleast 23
She looks in her 20’s
Yes she looks older. Maybe 24 or 25 🤔😅
she looks 19 for a caucasion girl, but yea older if you compare her to like everyone, ive noticed white girls or pale girls in general tend to age faster due to more wrinkle and damage prone skin.
@@shristisilwal492 that def can be the case because people tend to disregard the value of spf in keeping you young looking, but I think she looks her age 19 year olds have a tendency to look 16-25 depending on who's looking at her.
I'm confused 2:47 suddenly the first and second dress are changed haha and again at 3:29...
They cut the film wrong..
I noticed that too .. the editor got confused it seems 😂
2:18 too
@@brunaqueiroz7074 exactly
I think it might be because they look very similar aside from the straps lol. Still tho terrible editing skills
TEA
She turned from 20 to 30 really quick in the dress she liked
I mean, she DID want to look older
@@mirrimazduur8041 exactly.
She already looked 30.
No. 1 is overwhelming on her
No. 2 is "frumpy"
No. 3. isn't bad..
But she "caved" to her mom's wishes.
3:21
“The back looks amazing”
~zooms into the awful back of the dress~
Lmao I read that just as she said it.
True😂
I get cramps when moms say "I Always wanted see you in this and this dress!!" Also second one is so beautiful
It was the same dress as the 1st one. Just mermaid style
Yes second one was way better!
I totally disagree. Her Mother's pick was the best. The other dresses made her look matronly.
I am just annoyed when moms are like: "yeah yeah I know what you like" and they overrule the bride- like no, you know what YOU like, you had your day already now be quiet and let the bride pick what SHE likes and feels comfortable and confident in.
She looks like she’s being forced to marry lol
I have the feeling she's pregnant, her hands are always around her belly. :( I hope she's happy wherever she is.
Lumi RC they would’ve had to mention that in the appointment though, wouldn’t they?
Lala Sisli that was sarcasm lol, settle down.
I saw and thought that too
From other comments it seems she indeed was pregnant and she didn’t get married then.
This is ridiculous I can’t believe people actually get up there and let other people sway their choice on their wedding day. It’s why I went by myself pick up my dress in 30 minutes and had an amazing coordinator to help me out. I felt like a princess in my dress. ❤️
Let the bride pick her dress please stop with "the mom's dream" as the most important thing in the world it's her daughter's day after all
She has an absolutely beautiful face. But it's interesting that she's one of those people who simply doesn't wear clothes well. It may be her youth, and that she simply lacks confidence.
I love how the mom is like I don’t want her to get in a rut where she just wants one thing, however that’s exactly what she’s doing!
She’s so so cute! She speaks so softly as well. I wish her marriage well.
For the first time, he bought her a dress lower than her budget
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It give me smile to my face 🙂
Only because the mom was the one that picked it out. He seems nice though.
All of the dresses she tried on were under budget
Michelle M true but he didn’t choose higher in her budget
I feel like deep down even she wants a princess wedding dress but she’s insecure about the fact that she’s getting married so young
Allison Mei
I agree
she does not have the glow a bride should i wonder if she is happy or not
Lol. So brides are "meant" to glow are they.....like they are radioactive. 😆
I didn't have glow when was getting married I been married 4 years and 6 years together
i think she’s just nervous. i hate shopping, especially for formalwear. i remember being terrified while shopping for a prom dress, i can’t even imagine wedding shopping
I hope she has a voice and/or a backbone when it comes to her relationship with her fiance
shes got the vibe of an emo 14 year old thats actually 16 whos kinda dead inside... but when she got her dress she seems dramatically refreshed.
She has such a peaceful , crystal voice ❤. I could hear her for hours
I love the third dress I loved how sophisticated the top is while the bottom is different
I got married at 18 and 1.5 years later I was divorced. But then I remarried at 38 and it’s been 20 great years!
I first thing i think of: the bride's voice is so sweet!!!!
She seems like she doesnt want to be married.. she looks sad. I'm 19 too and I don't want to be married anytime soon.
Each to he's own. Everyone has their own time. I'm 21 and getting married in a few months and I couldn't be happier. But it's not for everyone 🤗
The bride is a year older than me and I could never imagine getting married in a year
I said the exact same thing a year ago.
Exactly
Finally someone actually thinks the same way like i do. She is too young to get married.
@@AdriannieBio And what happened
You got married?
@@AdriannieBio And what happened
You got married?
Wow, I’m 19 but I still have a baby face and have never dated. Still very innocent in the relationship factor. I wish her the best 🤗❤️
Ummm.....me at 19.....crying coz my brother ate my share of the snacks,😂😂😂
meme squad I cried about it last week and complained to my mother. I’m 22 😂😂😂😂
I am very, very glad that this woman is not my mother. My mother would never try to force me to wear something I didn't like just because she liked it - she would be supportive of my choice because after all I'd be the one getting married! Idk what's with these crazy ladies...
She should be proud of her age and whatever decisions she has made no matter the circumstances.. she is beautiful .
Omg I can’t stop getting angry about this. The dress she wanted suited her so much I hope she doesn’t let her husband manipulate her as much. Mom should be ashamed
She doesn't look 19, I wouldn't have guessed
Why do I watch these!?? I am forever single 😂😂😂
In my opinion, her dream dress didn’t do her any favours, especially around her midsection.
I know what you mean - it made her look bigger through the middle, which she's not. I think the low back didn't help either.
Eloise Kelly Right! All three were terrible to me.
Allie Benson I thought it was a baby bump...
But if it made her happy, who are you to judge
@@bellaelleira maybe, but the mermaid gowns are just terribly unforgiving on all but those with a TOTALLY flat stomach.
"Thats the look I was going for" Your not wearing it mum...
The people who are concerned about her getting married at 19 are exactly what is making this poor woman feel so insecure and wanting to look older, it's not your business.
I was married at 24 and my SIL was married at 30, we both had ball gowns so I personally don't feel they look young or immature. My advice to any bride reading this would be to try every style before you rule something out.
24 is so so so fucking far from 19
um t Right? I was a completely different person at 24 than I was at 19.
I would have walked out when he asked her how old she was.....she got Exactly what her Mom wanted....
S Bradley you were 24 not 19 she is as far away from 24 as she is from 14 also 30 is by no means a young bride
S Bradley & it may not be our buisness but we are allowed to express our opinions
I know we all have our own timelines but damn I'm 21 and I don't know what to do with my life
nam ify
Same
That's okay. No rush
I am 26 and i can't even stand the idea of relationships
Me at 23
When I was 15 People thought that I was 20-22 and now I'm 22 they think I'm 15...ok lol😂
Same🤣
The way he said "Oh you're a baby!" cracks me the fuck up
"I'm used to brides being slightly older trying to look younger", he is literally most famous for dressing a 19 year-old Lady Diana in the most famous wedding dress ever. But I guess he's had a few older clients since her...
She’s younger than me🤭 I’m 21 and I haven’t even been on a date.
PS. I love that WHITE ball gown.
I’m 19 and I can’t even begin to imagine getting married to my boyfriend right now
Ida HB Proud of you darling. Live your life, grow with him and be happy for now ❤️
I'm 25 and I still can't imagine.
@@athulyamuralidharan9421 same just turned 26 don't want kids and I have been with my partner six years and still not sure if I want marriage
@@athulyamuralidharan9421 same.
I was married at 19 and my Mother's opinion was very important to me. It was a big step in my life and her support was invaluable if not frustrating at times. She passed away not long after my wedding and I miss the times we had together. This just brought back fond memories.
And the dress looks amazing!
🙏❤️
Fiona Me May God bless her soul
I'm glad that you had the time together that you did
Why is she getting married at 19? Also wheres the part on fiance and their story ? ???🧐🧐
I wouldn't be surprised if they broke up before the episode came out lmao
The person who posted probably cut it out.
Sri Devi kka out curiosity I searched her name on Instagram and there’s a private profile of her (I think) and it looks like she’s a teen mom. She probably broke up with her baby daddy.
@@katelynnguyen8973 glad to know I'm not the only person being curious.
Katelyn Nguyen why are you assuming she broke up with him?
Her mum made really great choice 😁😘
It wasn't her DRESS , IT WAS HER MOM'S DRESS. !! SHE TOO YOUNG AND BEAUTIFUL FOR THIS DRESS !!!
I loooooove Jemma, the consultant. Her voice
I looked her up because I’m weird like that🙄
She has the cutest babyyy😍😍
I guess she had him in 2016 and decided to wait until she finished school to get married
I was looking for a fellow stalker 😂😂😂
Joke, does that mean she was pregnant at the time this was recorded? And did you see any wedding photos by any chance?
I can't believe all the nasty and judgmental comments about this lovely young bride.
The first step in looking older... Confidence! It's okay to look young darling, smile, enjoy life and be happy.. you re getting married!! ❤
I love that last dress on her she looks gorgeous
Oh what a coincidence this young bride episode was posted today! My brother just got engaged to his girlfriend, now fiance, today. They're 20 years old. Been together since they were 15. Young love is still love!
The one she chose chopped her up, made her look very short waisted. Wish she would have tried on what she liked.
She looked stunning in that dress. Disagree with you completely
19 is normal age to get married in my country. Both my grandmas got married at 19, and lived happily with my grandpas till their death. My mother also got married at 19, and she has been married to my father for 42 years now. I got married at 21, and 8 years later we are still madly in love with each other.
Her Mom's choice was exactly what she needed
5:53 that dress was absolutely beautiful in my opinion her mom did good picking that one dress for her. 😇☺🙂☺👏👏👏It had the wow factor that she was looking for. 😇☺😎👏👏👏
Bride is soo gorgeous
Every time that I see this final dress on a bride,it is Stunning!!!
Third dress was easily the most flattering.
I'm glad the birde chose a dress she liked and made her feel beautiful, instead of wanting to feel older and mature. She looked beautiful in the dress she chose. 😊😍
I felt the same.. she met her mom in the middle without giving up too much of her vision of the perfect dress.
So nice and gentle and kind girl
I love that 2nd dress its beautiful
Her voice is so soft and gosh, she is CUTE!
This bride doesn't look like she is 19. She looks older. Even though david says she does look young
It should give David some flasbacks. Lady Diana Spencer was 19 when she married Prince Charles. Though that's certainly not the Happily ever after story we want to hear...
I have a feeling she is pregnant and now she has to reluctantly get married
Why do people feel the need to judge like this?!?!
How about maybe cos she's actually happy
@@bethany8854 if the wedding is soon enough... or long enough after the baby is born...? But I was wondering, too, because of the way she put her hand on her belly when she introduced herself and those with her. Not "judging"- just stating, in a very neutral way. 😉
@@shelbys27501) She doesn't look happy, and 2) she chose the dress that everyone else liked. Looks like a girl who doesn't know what she wants and is trying to please everyone. *Very sad.*
She wasn’t pregnant, but already had a baby
I love the quiet way the young bride speaks.
Its because she knows she dont have a voice or knows how to set boundaries & cant speak up for herself, probably cause her family is crazy n overbearing n will abuse her in any way they can if she doesnt obey them. Its not cute. Its sad. Ik cause I have the same voice n same family. People who are quiet like this were probably abused n shut down. Cause nobody else talks like this especially when it comes to speaking up for themselves. I saw an adult young man and his mom at the store recently n he was quieter talking to her about choices on something n she wouldnt listen to him on his opinion which I knew he was right based on what he said, but she still did the opposite.
She's so soft spoken.
I don't mean to be rude but she seems a bit "off" I'd say
Probably just because she is very nervous, being on camera and trying to give an actual thought out opinion can be hard
🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
She seems depressed, controlled...not herself... agreed
2:36 "I feel like a little kid dreesing up" LMAOOOOOOOOO
She is so soft spoken...
She looks absolutely gorgeous in the princess dress
It might be her makeup or something but I was surprised to hear that she was only nineteen, I would have guessed 25-30. Honestly I don’t think she needs a certain dress to look older
5 years later she will look at the pictures and will definitely regret that she did not follow her instinct.
Love the dress she bought, it was the most flattering on her
Her voice is as sweet as candy ❤️
My dream wedding dress is something a little Elvish. Whimsical, feminine, ethereal.. in other words, relatively simple; flowing, with little to no bling. Maybe a bit of lace. "Simplicity is the keynote to all true elegance" - coco chanel
I love that they have a younger bride on the show! I'm 18 and going to be 19 when I get married to the love of my life 💕 4 years together this year! together 9-30-15 getting married 9-28-19 😍
Becca Loves you Omg congrats honey !❤️
I was married at 19. 51 years later, still together, still happy. I tried on 1 dress. Boat neck, scalloped lace edge. Long sheer, lacie sleeves, pointed on my hand. Full skirt with lace appliqué. I still have it and still love it to this day.
Fishtail, mermaid. Let’s call the whole thing off 😂😂😂
I see Randy's dress in the background. With Randy's collection on hand no one should be pulling Dando London.
The top of the third dress is beautiful, but the bottom...? SSS: toilet roll
Cannot imagine myself getting married at 19, I am 26 yo right now and I am completely a different person than I was at 19
I have seen this video maybe 20 time already and still not sick of it!!!! you rock Atara!!!! you got to love that smile of yours!!!!!!
This girl needs an asmr channel
Every mom wants a ball gown wedding dress.
I can't believe she said Yes to that Dress either...😲
It’s never the look of someone young, it’s their actions. Simply beautiful choice in a dress.