Mum Wants a Say on the Dress Since She Is Paying for Half of It | Say Yes To The Dress UK
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ค. 2019
- Alis is set on what type of wedding dress she wants to try on, however mum feels like she should have a say on what gowns she tries on since she is paying for half of it.
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trouble is, that the bride looks great in everything.
Ikr?
Deadass
yeah perfect figure
Agreed!!!
Her figure is beautiful
Say yes to the dress's slogan should be "It's her wedding dress not yours, mom"
Sinda lahouar every bridal shop’s slogan should be this
And for the bridesmaid version it’s “it’s your her wedding not yours, bridesmaids”
@Candy Girl The bride was far from an arsehole and no, she did not make her mum look stupid at all. The bride is the one wearing the dress and she paid half.
Sinda lahouar That mom can’t decide what her daughter wears just because she pays half your daughter has to be happy too
@Candy Girl the mother isnt the one who looks like a fool on national tv, the daughter is, for not rejecting the mothers half of the payment and getting her dress on her own. No, the mother looks like a controlling bitch on national tv, she did that on her own without the daughters help. The daughter made it clear she didn't want a ball gown dress, mom is rejecting anything that isn't that.
I'll make sure i have enough money to pay for my wedding dress when i get married. So that no opinion will matter that much but mine!
It's not always about the money or who's paying, sometimes it's about the love and respect you have for your mum so you would want her to be happy
@@fiona2110 think about it the other way around. So she should wear the dress other people choose for her even if she's not happy? And id she doesnt choose what her mum wants then she is now disrespectful and unloving? It's her wedding. Not her mums.
Some parents would still fight to have there way, and others don’t wanna have a say, my mum and I watch this together and she always says it your wedding it’s nothing to do with what I like even though she plans to pay for it
Exactly. Pay for it yourself, problem solved.💰
When I was getting my dress, the only thing my mom said about one of the dresses I tried on, was she thought the neckline was to low for a church wedding. I agreed with her.
Sometimes I think the moms feel like the wedding gown choice is the last thing they have control over before they lose their little girls forever.
well said.
Garden Plots there are other things that mother could help with, this is not it. You don’t want to wear a dress that your mother likes but not you. Daughters will always need their mother married or not.
@Kathleen Henson So did I. I didn't even show my bridesmaids until the final fitting as I wanted nobody to influence my decision or if I'd seen any funny looks on faces I would have been disappointed. Your wedding day is meant to be about you not what others want, some of them have already had their day and others will get their chance, but your day is your own and I think a bride should be able to have that time to look back on with no regrets just happy memories.
But you're not losing your daughter. She's just taking the next step in her life and getting married. Most women leave home, live alone/with a partner and make independent life choices for themselves wayyy before their wedding days, so the wedding day isnt when parents let go, that comes ages before and nobody is losing anyone! Mothers love their children and children love their mother (in most cases!) Lose is a strong word
Garden Plots you sound like a mom
I think the first dress looked best on her
Ilme Syed me too.
Agreed! That first dress was a show-stopper!
Me too
I liked third more
Me too
Everyone’s talking about the mother but I think we should acknowledge that her bridesmaids were so supportive. It’s like they were there to tell her she was gorgeous in everything, and she was. Those were some great friends, especially after seeing some of the other bridesmaids on say yes to the dress.
They were her knights 💘
@@annejia5382 yesss
Then again, why even bring people if you get angry if they have a different opinion? The true friends are the ones that are honest with you.
She said “everything I’ve ever wanted in a wedding gown.” Exactly but it’s not yours.
Exactly my thoughts. The way she kinda keeps on having to try to correct herself in the confessionals...someone’s a bit jealous of their daughter?
I was thinking she could get married and she could wear the dress
@@imansamuel7782 people always assume it's jealousy
Notice how the mom was referring to herself and not her daughter when she tried the second dress on
Exectly... People are selfish
If my mother would have told me that because she was paying half her opinion mattered more I would have told the consultant at that moment that my budget had decreased by half no one should have a greater say on your choice of wedding dress but you😆
That's exactly what I'd do
Same!
Bingo!
Yep!👏👏👏👏
Then you probably have horrible relationship with your mother. Mothers say these kind of things all the time, see the love here. But then love is a 2 way street.
I hate when ppl say that they are doing something nice for you and try to hold the deed over your head....IT'S NOT YOUR WEDDING!
Krazily Eclectic
I paid for my daughter’s dress and she didn’t even invite me to her wedding.
😳😫
@@user-hx7mi7ml8u don't do it again
@@evieaddy9580 no
Is it just me who fell in love with the first dress?? She looked amazing in the first one. Like it was made for her
Me too. She looks beautiful in it.
Yes and the third dress too
Yes I felt the same
Yes the first dress looked so good on her
Ok, here we go again guys. A mom who think her opinion should be number one.....
Well she did agree on the last one, which is good! It's win win
she is putting money into it though,, I get why she wants to like it too
no thx and? It’s still the bride’s dress, her wedding.
@@windbreakerlkb4040 at least her mother agree. Unlike the other one I've watched yesterday. Gross. Even Randy was disgusted.
@@brooklynbound0 aNd?1? the mom still gets to choose what she does or doesn't want to spend her money on. if the bride wants to be a 100% in control then she can pay for her own dress!
The first dress made her cry right away and looked gorgeous on her. The top and the color was more flattering to her face than the one that she chose.
That's why you NEVER let anyone else pay for your dress!
or anything else for that matter!
Well shes paying half only yet tried to say that "whoever pays the piper, picks the tune". She basically said that what she wants should go since shes paying but in truth they both are. It was very selfish of her.
Too many parents forget that helping to buy, or buying all, of the wedding gown is a gift. You don't give a gift with conditions attached.
Hilary C I agree, besides, isn’t a gift to see your child happy enough?
No one like her anyway
1st dress would definitely be my wedding dress...
Right😕...I fell in love with the 1st one...and i think that she should've chosen the first one bc it went with her hair and skin tone, showed all her curves. It just look beautiful❤
yes!
Rach # really? It’s so basic
@@redguccishoes6999 it's not about how basic the design is. It's about how much it suits the bride-to-be
Jenavee Azurin Valenzuela okay? But how do you know that the first dress would suit you if you’ve never even tried it on??🙄
I went with my daughter when she picked out her wedding dress..I never told her what to buy..its her wedding not mine I supported her choice..shame on these moms who disregard their daughters choice
laureen jewett same here. I gave my daughter what I classed as a healthy budget for her dress. If the dress turned out to be more she said she would pay. As it happens she had originally thought she was paying for the dress herself. So was excited when I offered. If it was less then the balance would go on other items. On the day I went with her to the specialist boutique . Along with Chief Bridesmaid and soon to be Mother in law. Loved her choice. The smile said it all. Still don’t know the final cost. Her dress, her choice, her day. 👰🏼
Same with me. If she loved it, I loved it. If she didn’t, neither did I. I was there to throw money at it and enjoy the experience. It was a win/win situation.
Amen! I’m a mom and agree 100%!
This is why my daughters and I could never be in the show. Her day,her dress,her party. I was however super picky about the groom.
Mother had a strong preference but at the end the bride was able to stand her ground while both being respectful of each other. The bride did really looked great on all dresses.
I love how David quickly put the mom in her place. "Mom, this your daughter's dress, not your dress." Good for you!
I would have been insulted to be reprimanded by a dress shop owner in front of my child and all of the other people that was there! If I'm paying for it or even paying for half I at least deserve the respect of my opinion being taken respectfully!!!
@@sharcrum David is just stating a matter of fact, if she can't see past that, she deserves to be reprimanded. She is paying half of it as a gift, and who wants a gift the sender likes but not the recipient.
@sharcrum The mother embarrassed herself for acting like she gets to choose the dress. David did the right thing reminding her she isn't thr bride.
She looks just like her mom! I liked the 1st dress better but I'm glad to see her mom respected her choice in the end :)
Yes, the 1 dress was stunning and beautiful!!!! I love it, 💞
i think the colour of the first one suited her skin tone better. made her look very ethereal. the one she chose in the end is a more mature look and maybe that's what she was going for. her figure is perfect for the style of dresses anyway
surprising, a SYTTD UK ep that hasn’t shoved an over-the-budget gown at the bride
Well they listened to us
I’m wondering if it’s maybe cultural. In the USA, our budget usually means the absolute maximum we would pay. In the UK, I wonder if it’s more of a connotation of a ballpark figure. Because it’s common for the UK brides to be put in dresses that are a bit off budget but few of them seem upset by it. It seems that in the UK, they put the brides into what they think is the bride’s dream dress without as much regard for price.
J. Holan Ah, yes. Maybe that’s it. Thanks for your insight!
No it's just the consultant with black curly hair that goes over budget
Lol no, it just happened to be a dress the girl liked thats within her budget... She would have tried a few
The veil doesn't fit well with the dress in my opinion - I would prefer a veil that reiterate the lace of the dress :)
But all in all the dress suits her perfectly, beautiful bride!
Im pretty sure its just a sample veil
@@joellabauza1936 ahh okay, thanks for your explanation :) All my knowledge about bridal fashion is from this show - so its relatively limited :D
I LOVE the first one on her, she looked so much more happy in it. But she chose the dress that made her happy :)
a cathedral veil would be perfect
The veil needed something on it. Just too plain
“What do you want?”
“A-line.”
“Got it fam.”
*puts her in all fit-n-flares (+1 ballgown for mom)*
What does this show have against A-line dresses??
Tibia Jones my guess is they put her in a fit and flare as a compromise, and because she fell in love with the fit and flare, they kept at it. Plus we don't see every dress, I'm sure.
I know right? I love A-line but see so little of it
Personally I love the a-line dresses!!! The fit and flare are nice but idk lol
Maybe Dando London doesn't do many a-line
RIGHT? My dress was an A line and it was perfect
Imho the first dress was just flattering on this bride. The third one is classy and beautiful but too "mature" and I preffered the neckline od the first dress, suited the bride better
@MiekoNeko so stop watching the show if you hate seeing mermaid dresses? Not your wedding so you dont get to tell them that they shouldn't do a mermaid gown, back off.
I liked the 1st & 2nd dress. I agree about the 3rd; it doesn't do her justice.
Agree with you
The first dress was the best, it brought out an inner beauty of sophistication.
The first wedding dress made her look like a queen, the second made her look like a princess.
When a parent says it’s “everything I’D want in a bridal dress”... you already know they’re not even talking or thinking about their daughter... she either has really fond memories of HER wedding back in the day OR she wasn’t able to afford a princess dress when she got married, so this is her opportunity to project on her daughter her OWN wishes, while also taking advantage by holding 1/2 the purse strings, which is a default thought process that parents do all the time & most don’t even realize it... 🙄🤦🏼♀️
6:29 that guy in the back is running like i would run if somebody said mcdonald's is giving away free chicken nuggets as much as you want lmao
The Bridesmaid supportedher from the beginning
The first dress was absolutely stunning!!!
Whenever moms say that since they are paying for the dress, that they should have a say, is like if someone offered to buy you lunch but it has to be what they want but not what you want.
Not rlly. Mom and daughter can love a dress, n their paying half so they should get a say
Not majority say, but they should atleadt like it while bride loves it
" I think my mum just sees me still as i'm her little girl "
Wow, mind blow.
Sara Mc Lean mind blown? Really?? That's how all parents see their kids as. It's normal.
@@Life-vu5te exactly! Lol. My mum still thinks of me as her little girl and i dont mind that! That's how a lot of mothers feel!
You can tell this has been edited to make the mother look worse. I don't think she's that bad. At least not as bad as others I have seen.
LeahSaurus I’d agree with not judging her too harshly, if it weren’t for the fact that the bride said she brought bridesmaids as moral support for dealing with her mother. She might just be playing nice for the cameras. Unless, of course, the bride was coached or led to say that line.
Howw
Scripted "reality"
Flyingmartini Hurricane yeah, no shit. What reality show do you know that ISN’T fake?
@@nickloveskangin exactly. There's no way to edit that reaction unless they cut it out from another scene and pasted it there
She is beautiful in all the dress, but the third ones just so stunning together with the good price and I’m so glad that finally her mom like the dress the bride choose.
If you want to be nice and help pay for the dress, do that WITHOUT the entitlement of a “say”. Having that sense of entitlement turns a positive gesture into a negative, controlling thing. Might as well not help pay for it and keep your mouth shut at that point
Huh, I thought the first dress was more “bridal”...
Can we just take a moment to appreciate how sweet and supportive her friends are.
i'd rather prefer bankruptcy than paying half of a dress my mother loves but I hate on what's supposed to be one of the greatest day of my life
This is why I just went dress shopping on my own - got a never-worn dress from a charity bridal shop, was everything that I knew I liked and only cost £350. I knew that if I had other people there trying to push their opinion on me I would have ended up with a dress that I would have never picked for myself, so no regrets!
I did that too and I dont regret it as well! Only me and the consultant and I loved how it turned out. And, after all, I think all these brides bring that many people because they want to be in television lol... it is just not that easy to gather everyone.
Is nobody gonna talk about how supportive those friends are?
So many of the moms I see on this show seem like they’re trying to relive their wedding day through their daughter
She looked amazing in all 3 dresses!
My daughter is getting married in a couple of years and no matter what dress she chooses I know she will look amazing in it. And no way will I be like this mum trying to say what she should be wearing, after all it's my daughter that is getting married.
The shop owners are incredibly diplomatic and supportive, as were the friends. The bride looked stunning in everything plus she had good instincts.
I feel like the UK version has better dresses than the USA version.
I agree!
All the dresses looked stunning on her I'm glad her mom loved her enough to give up her dream!
She looked beautiful in everything, but that last one was amazing on her😍
She is so pretty, no matter what gown she selects
I'm just happy she realized it wasn't HER wedding in the end. That lessened my anger a touch.
2:37 I like how the music is all happy and then as soon as the mom talks, it cuts off and switches to dramatic music
The one she chose was definitely my favorite. It looks like it was made for her and it's just so unique and beautiful.
The dress she picked looked perfect on her figure. Fits like a glove too.
Absolutely gorgeous
All three are beautiful, but the first dress OMG!!!
I'd rather work with half the budget than that mother. She looked amazing in that first dress.
This bride is so beautiful, everything looks good on her.. I personally loved the first one on her. The entourage is beautiful too!
mom, just because you’re paying half doesn’t mean you’re going to be wearing it.
I love how supportive the bridesmaids are
After I watched the Lebanese mom in SYTD C, this mom looks so nice
The first dress was beautiful on her. Her body looks amazing on it
I think that's one of the most beautiful lace wedding dresses I have ever seen! It's so nice that her mum softened and supported her choice.
I love the first one better 😍 it was stunning and it fits her perfectly..
Edited: OMG ! Thank you so much guys for the 64 likes ! 😘 I never get these much likes before..
Second Edited: Thank you so much for the 116 likes ! 😘
sTraNgE GiRL same.. first one was the best tbh
ItzNina! yeah .. Ikr ..
sTraNgE GiRL you’re gonna have to edit again, girl
😃
Once again mom is happy with her daughters choice nice dress ❤️❤️💗💗
This show is really blowing things out of proportion. Although they had differing opinions, I thought the conversations between the mother and daughter to be very congenial. They actually showed a lot of understanding between them, and they were able to give way to their own preferences all while being respectful of each other.
Aww she looked so beautiful in her chosen dress...really lovely. Her Mum came round to it too which made it so nice xx
The second dress was stunning too!
I love the first dress for the bride. It was perfect for her.
I'm so lucky that if I do need help paying for my wedding, my dad and stepmom focus on me being happy, not what they want.
yayyyyyy mom changed her mind, lovely. I'm so glad she did. and I have joyful goosebumps.
Thanks to mom and also to the great friends that came along. The were a very supportive group.
The dress is sooo beautiful, fits her very well
You can tell the mom is Scottish! Reminds me of my grandpa lol I’m glad she compromised in the end
It’s nice that mom comes round to it in the end, putting her daughter first.
The bride is gorgeous, she looks beautiful in all 3 gowns really.
This made me cry...a good cry. Stunning! Bravo Mama!
I felt very sad when the reaction of my mom to my engagement was: "Okay", changing the subject soon after, as she really never was into marriage (she gave me a huge amount of money for the wedding nontheless, really, I'm a lucky daughter). But watching this, I'm kinda thankful for her lack of interest. Rather have a mother with no interest in your dress, than a mother who thinks anything happening at the bridal salon is supposed to be about her.
I liked all three dresses very much, she looked gorgeous in all of them.
This bride phrased it perfectly right and exactly how I feel: "I dreamed of a big dress/poofy dress when I was 5. That's what I imagined when I was that age. I'm not 5 anymore." I've been to about 5 weddings now and a majority of them have worn poofy, big gowns. And their reasoning is that they wanted to feel like a princess. I even remember the most recent bride to be married saying, "it's exactly what I drew when I was a little girl!" Which is great that they're getting what they want, but I feel like brides pressure themselves to look like a princess. They pressure themselves to wear the big gown because when else will you get that? But I didn't want to look like a princess. I wanted to look like a queen. So I got a fit-and-flare dress with beautiful, intricate beating and a long train. I know so many girls that regret ballgowns because they take up so much space and are difficult to move with. Not to mention, they're heavy. I just wish girls would go for what they want NOW, not what they wanted when they were 5.
I've worn a ballgown once for my sweet 15, and it was suffocating tripped over myself a dozen times. If I get married I want a simple flowy dress.
My Mum’s dress was a giant meringue and she loved it, never once regretted it. Some women do just want to look like a princess, and it’s not because they pressured themselves. Everyone’s different.
When our daughter got engaged, my husband worked very hard to make money for her wedding. He gave her $10K and said, "This is your wedding gift from us. It's yours to do with as you please. You can spend it all on your wedding, put a downpayment on a house, or put it in the bank. It's yours, no strings attached." I think it was a brilliant thing to do, and put her in full control of the money and her wedding. She picked out her dress, invitations, planned the reception, all just as she pleased. Any expenses over that $10K she paid for. She had a beautiful wedding.
What a beautiful dress. She looked gorgeous. Glad mum came round in the end
I loved that first dress!😅
A msg to the bride you're absolutely gorgeous bless you, also everyone keeps saying the first is better but I think her choice was great made her look even more pretty and fits well even if it's not a white dress.
I love all three dresses, and they all look astounding on her. I think the third one was the best choice. Alis looks stunning even in her grunge glam. She will be a gorgeous bride.
If my daughter ever gets married, I would like to just see one beautiful princess gown on her. Then we’ll buy the steam punk one she wants to get married in.😄
I'm afraid of mothers who jumble the letters of her name to name her daughters.
Isn't that what happened to you?
I had a dress picked by and paid for by my mother. But I was lucky - she has great taste and picked a dress that was fabulous! Seeing some mothers and daughters on these shows makes me appreciate my own mother even more.
What a smart mother. I am glad she came along. Love her attitude (at the end🤣) and the fact she didn't make her daughter lose her own vision and compromise
Okay but her bridesmaids were so supportive🥺❤️
👏It's 👏The👏 Daughter's 👏 Choice, 👏Not 👏 The 👏 Mum's 👏 Choice
Finally!!!! Three dresses that haven't already been tried on . 😂
She looks stunning in every dress like omg!
Wow the first dress really complimented her body it's gorgeous 👗❤️
Mom: “I love you so much.”
Also mom: “I dOnT lIkE thAt DrEsS. I WaNt ThIS-“
Gorgeous dresses❤️ But did anyone else see the running man at 6:27 😂
WOW i don't know how you actually noticed it! Good job😊😁
Have a great day!!
OMG! I saw that
@@ALBI7295 Thanks a lot and you too 👍🏻
Secretly I wish that random running guy had his own show about his adventures running in the background of other tv shows
Line B yes!!! Like something was on fire!!!
I love how the bridesmaids were totally there to talk about her bridal beauty and that mom completely changed her mind at the end xoxo she looked gorgeous in everything but this was totally her dress xoxo
Love when David told the mum 'its your daughter's dress not yours' lol her face
Why do mothers (or whoever may be helping with paying for the dress) use that as leverage to try and get what they want..
The first dress was the best
The bride has that awesome figure to carry the fitted dress perfectly 😍 but i want that second dress 😭😭😍
I do love how the consultants come to the bride's defense as they should💜
Tbh I love the second dress! Personal opinion!
Me too. The Mum's right in that the bride will look amazing in any dress, but I loved her in the 2nd dress. The skirt isn't even that big. But at the end of day it the bride's choice.
MiekoNeko Red for the ceremony, White for the reception?
Same here, my favourite was the 2nd one, then the 1st.
MiekoNeko form fitting dresses is also beautiful...... it’s really down to preference. Doesn’t mean that other dresses aren’t pretty tf
It’s pretty but the bride didn’t glow in it.
How great Body that Bride have. I am also trying to loose weight. I lost 7 kgs till now. I hope so I can be fit and happy again. Btw I am not getting married 😂
Good luck! I'm sure you already look amazing, and that you'll look incredible once you reach your goal:)
@@derekjones1794 Thank you so much. But believe me everyone around me says How ugly and disgusting I look. Maybe they are right I don't know. anyway now I am loosing weight for myself. I just hope so then maybe People around me stop hating me.
Reema pope you need to surround yourself with different people, then. i'm sure you're beautiful and a wonderful person. lose weight because it makes you feel better, not because you want to please others. true friends would never call you disgusting.
Good luck with your goal!
@@Thisispope568 that's extremely disheartening. Don't associate yourself with such people, you need support and love. They don't deserve you, you're beautiful the way you are.
The first dress is the best. Looks glamour, chic and elegant at the same time.
A dress bellow budget and looks great on her love it! 👏👏
such wonderful and supportive friends