Zero Degrees of Empathy

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  • Professor Simon Baron Cohen presents a new way of understanding what it is that leads individuals down negative paths, and challenges all of us to consider replacing the idea of evil with the idea of empathy-erosion.
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  • @CognosSquare
    @CognosSquare 13 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The sound-guy should use an Audio-effect kalled "de-esser" on this video.

  • @Engladko
    @Engladko 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What an unbelievably crude and unscientific way to assess a persons empathy. (4:40) First point: It's necessary to distinguish the cognitive ability to understand that one is being rude or inappropriate, from the willingness and propensity of an individual to back off of that behaviour as the result of empathy. You cant assume a lack of practical social action to be synonymous with a lack of empathy. The lack in a person with aspergers, is the knowledge of which social action is appropriate

  • @gargoylesama
    @gargoylesama 13 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    There are also those that have 'empathy burn out'. Not that they don't have empathy, but have used their empathy to their breaking point and just can't really access it. Sometimes the only fix for that is to take me time and be a bit selfish to allow your own empathy to recover.

  • @AliciaM5555
    @AliciaM5555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Untrue about BPD. I have attempted suicide and I meant it, twice, and this came on the heels of losing my mother, bf, and great grandmother in one year. Typically, cluster b disorders are PTSD behaviors and specifically BPD can be 100% healed. DBT therapy works and I am enjoying almost complete remission, thank you very much.

  • @keithklassen5320
    @keithklassen5320 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I feel that the word "empathy" isn't specific enough for the purposes of this talk; it seems to me that the "lack of empathy" shown by a psychopath is a radically different thing from the "lack of empathy" of some people on the autism spectrum. Perhaps we can distinguish between empathy as expressed by *understanding* of the emotions of another, and empathy as expressed by *care for* the emotions of another.

    • @depizixuri58
      @depizixuri58 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My toughs exactly.
      It confuses understanding with caring for.
      As example, a mother may understand that applying a vaccine to a child causes pain, but voluntarily ignoring that pain, because she cares for his child being protected from diseases.
      So, she may understand or not the emotions of another, care or not about those emotions, and there is also the issue of the mother and the child, having or not having, the same scale of values, which changes the meaning of what "caring for" is.

    • @dreamwithinadreamfilms
      @dreamwithinadreamfilms 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Both autistic and psychopathic individuals experience *negative* anti-social symptoms, such as lack of empathy; however psychopaths also experience so-called *positive* anti-social symptoms; such as Narcissism and Sadism.
      (Note: "Positive" in this case doesn't mean "good", but simply "the presence of", versus the "lack of"; such as a lack of empathy.)

    • @jbrewerman2
      @jbrewerman2 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think in the simplest way to put it is thst psychopaths cannot feel pain when they see anorher person in pain. They cannot feel negative emotion when they discover or become aware thst another is experiencing negative emotion. They can only feel the opposite of what the person is feeling combined with a desire to do something to the person or they feel indifference combined either with the desire to do something to the person or the desire to not interact with the person at all.

    • @antosharboonian6110
      @antosharboonian6110 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ill explain what you are comprehending. empathy is a tool to understand the needs and uses of others' their emotions. empathy by itself does not provoke compassion or kindness, it does however show us the choice between acting righteous or malicious. How we train or use our empathy is entirely up to each person.

    • @jogriffiths5766
      @jogriffiths5766 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jbrewerman2 callous freaks. (Sorry, I've had so many in my life.)

  • @colloredbrothers
    @colloredbrothers 13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thats why I say an intelligent person is not necesairily a person that knows alot of stuff, it is a person that is caring and loving and non judgmental that truely is an intelligent person.

  • @idea1407
    @idea1407 11 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    In my recent years, I've discovered that I lie more to the right of the empathy scale as a highly sensitive person. I think we can all benefit from this information by using our own empathy or relying on the empathy of others. Just because someone has low empathy does not mean they cannot operate appropriately in society.

  • @BadgerBotherer1
    @BadgerBotherer1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    A disproportionate amount of psychopaths, paradoxically, end up working in the 'care professions' - i.e., in social work, mental health, etc. I've lost count of the number of reports I've heard of abuse of vulnerable people by social services, including my own experiences.

    • @anniestaes430
      @anniestaes430 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      it is because they love to create a beautiful image to those around them and themselves, called 'a front'.... they use people, occupations, projects or anything else they can, to support this image. So next to being a downright victim for pure mental or physical abuse, one also risks being used as a front, by psychopaths. Those are two totally different kinds of abuse.

    • @cesteres
      @cesteres 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Everywhere you can leach you'll find leaches

    • @g.s.5868
      @g.s.5868 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Alpha Centauri your avatar's name says enough... alpha...you sure are not an alpha and chose a name that shows power & prestige while you are empty & powerless, except the people you know you can abuse... WTF with your statement: "abusing a person doesn't automatically make one a psychopath"

    • @KennethHuntington1
      @KennethHuntington1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@g.s.5868 are you saying that psychopaths are the only ones capable of abuse? That's not very sound logic.

    • @nonelost1
      @nonelost1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Alpha Centauri
      If it gets reported at a higher rate, one likely reason would be because the care professions have a much higher societal expectation to “first do no harm”.

  • @SimonSverige
    @SimonSverige 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There is no such thing as a good person or an evil person. There are only people. All people are capable of good or evil. Love the sinner hate the sin. This is an ancient lesson that seems to have been forgotten. Many people do evil things every day.... when they believe they are doing good.

  • @felicianothorpe8998
    @felicianothorpe8998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is profound.So glad I found this.

  • @anormalgirl9804
    @anormalgirl9804 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lack of empathy can be induced through brainwashing, certain negative life situations or intense negative emotions like anger or fear.

  • @neilmcintosh5150
    @neilmcintosh5150 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree. My wife is always telling me that I don't have any empathy and is often dumfounded at how I can operate in business with such a lack of it. Suffice to say that I am self-employed and run a very successful engineering business employing over 40 staff. The talk at the end of this video on entrepreneurism and correlations with low empathy made me shiver!

  • @mrzeroten
    @mrzeroten 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He's effectively demonstrated that he does not have a clear understanding of what empathy means. He's combining empathy and compassion, whenever these linguistic errors are made I get really turned off by what someone has to say.

  • @EmperorsNewWardrobe
    @EmperorsNewWardrobe 11 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Love that this guy is related to Ali G

  • @Bobbiethejean
    @Bobbiethejean 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was an absolutely fascinating video.

  • @derhammerman
    @derhammerman 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love Borat.

  • @kerry-ch2zi
    @kerry-ch2zi ปีที่แล้ว

    A fascinating informative, straightforward, evidence-based discussion of a heavily subjective notion of human behavior. I was especially struck by whether the answer to political in-groups is more meta-cognitive than emotional. If all people don't have the same genetic tendency, then both approaches may be necessary to sustaining an optimal empathy level.

  • @AnAutisticPsychologist
    @AnAutisticPsychologist 13 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    @theakstonsrock No. Some of them lack empathy, others have too much. We just lack the ability to translate our thoughts and feelings into words, body language etc. But the empathy itself is very often there.

  • @MaReAnS
    @MaReAnS 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fascinating!

  • @daviddegreenlaw1418
    @daviddegreenlaw1418 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I agree with Dr Kavanagh. Simon Baron Cohen's assessment, lumping all people with BPD as having zero empathy is as unsubstantiated as it is inaccurate. It's also unkind and lacking in empathy.

    • @adambozym8762
      @adambozym8762 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      People with BPD are major assholes, I agree with Simon Baron Cohen completely that those with BPD are extremely selfish and repulsive people. Women with BPD are definitely very self absorbed and fake too, so he's not wrong.

    • @g.s.5868
      @g.s.5868 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      those sickos than fake emotions, that is what you should learn

  • @TheMinuteVlog
    @TheMinuteVlog 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @TheAnMish THANK you. AnMish says it best. We have a hard time with translation, but it doesn't mean we don't understand the sentiment.

  • @chandlerclemens1956
    @chandlerclemens1956 8 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    lol im autistic and i love to help people

    • @g.s.5868
      @g.s.5868 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      if you really were, you would not be on the internet but banging your head to the walls

    • @eatymceatison97
      @eatymceatison97 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too. I do a lot for strangers and never see anyone else do the same thing. Since childhood, it's been my dream to take in foster children, no matter how difficult they may be to handle, so that they experience what it's like to have one parent that loves you no matter what and that they don't end up in the hands of abusive foster parents or the system. I'm filled with empathy, lol. Yet, anyone whom I tell my dream responds like I said something awful and horrendous.

    • @jogriffiths5766
      @jogriffiths5766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@g.s.5868 How stupid!!

    • @jogriffiths5766
      @jogriffiths5766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have asperges's but lots of empathy. (Can be tactless at times though, then feel guilty & shameful!)

    • @paddleed6176
      @paddleed6176 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because you're highly moral, because of rules.

  • @stickaround7990
    @stickaround7990 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    interesting about the shift from identifying people as real people as opposed to objects. I think the internet (and more honestly porn) must have have had a negative effect on everyone (including myself) in the way we view people.

    • @dnbjedi
      @dnbjedi 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Capitalism

  • @joedanero
    @joedanero 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent.

  • @tangent272
    @tangent272 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You could do a whole undergrad module on this topic (about 25 hours, + reading) and never be borred.

  • @yourcamden
    @yourcamden 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of the ways to test associated or disassociated memories is that associated memories tend to be more colourful and richer in the other senses such as sound, tastes and smells. While disassociated memories tend to be greyer and lack other sensory imputes. An example of this is often reflected in charity visual media. Charity posters tend to be in black and white or greyscale, where as product promotion tends to be in vibrant colours.

  • @murihiku
    @murihiku 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for bringing up Rowling. I just finished reading Baron-Cohen's book on empathy, and was a bit shocked to find absolutely no references to the treatment of evil or empathy in literature (and apart from Arendt hardly anything on philosophy). I did find the book worthwhile, however. Also the discussion on this video is far superior to most TH-cam "debates." :)

  • @TheMinuteVlog
    @TheMinuteVlog 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @Skeluz I'm a high-functioning autistic. So there goes your assumptions.
    Yeah, we have a harder time reading subtle expressions and picking up on social cues. We also don't express our empathy as well because we don't show those cues as well. That doesn't mean we don't feel empathy. It doesn't mean we're sociopathic monsters.
    Professors like this and Baron-Cohen make ableist blanket statements like this all the time and it's deeply hurtful.

  • @AbelAbelsonFR
    @AbelAbelsonFR 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The concept of "appropriately" (3:12) is really problematic, scientifically speaking. A psychopath may find taking advantage of someone else's fear for instance very "appropriate".

  • @TheAdhdGardener
    @TheAdhdGardener 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a rather un-empathetic person..yet I LOVE animals n prefer to them than humans🤔 but when he said regarding low empathy n attachment at a young age..little emotional connection with other..makes sense

  • @bluenick305
    @bluenick305 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would like to add something to the discussion. These are my propositions, tell me if they are correct or not.
    Premises:
    Opposite of love is apathy not hate.
    Opposite of morality is amorality not immorality.
    Conclusions:
    Why? Because in platonic thought it would follow that hate and immorality are the products of ignorance, while apathy (zero-empathy) and amorality are the true evils.
    “All wrongdoing is done in ignorance.”
    Example:
    Where is apathy and amorality prevalent?

  • @keithleeuwen877
    @keithleeuwen877 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    GREAT !

  • @dudepal187
    @dudepal187 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    @ghoststar I see what you're saying, its not what you have but how you use it. All the empathy in the world doesn't necessarily make you a morally righteous person. I agree with that, seeing as calling empathy the answer to understanding is an oversimplification of the problem. Empathy is probably an important part but theres much more.

  • @bluenick305
    @bluenick305 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In our military and Three-letter Agencies where duty and rules bind some people to perform unspeakable actions even though they know full well they are wrong. I'm not saying that all military personal or government agents perform duties knowing that they are wrong; some believe out of ignorance that it's for the greater good, those people then are not truly evil.

  • @Jester123ish
    @Jester123ish 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    In my experience this is a circular thing. Low empathy may lead you to certain behavior but it also cuts the other way, certain behavior will decrease your empathy. People will respond to you differently if you behave badly toward others. Empathic people will read what you are like.

  • @tareqsirhan3729
    @tareqsirhan3729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have a question.
    How can we know that who did the empathy quiz didn’t pretend to be something other than themselves?and lied about there truly feelings?

  • @Cardywhite111
    @Cardywhite111 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    thought provoking video....I do agree we are all subject to change in our ability to empathise depending on how we are feeling at any one moment. If we as a human race were truly empathic....there would be no wars or famines....because we can already understand how horrific it is to fight others, taking by force their land. their lives, their ability to survive. As the population of this world increases unabated, whilst resources become more scarce, empathy is the first thing to erode.

  • @andre2679
    @andre2679 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I wanted to listen to this, but was startled by a warm liquid dripping out of my ears as my hearing began to fade. It was blood. RIP ears.

    • @keithklassen5320
      @keithklassen5320 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Andre Jussst exsssactly what sssssortssss of ssssssoundsssss ssssseem to caussssse thisssss ssssssituation of exsssssanguination from inssssside your ssssskull, would you sssssay?

    • @jogriffiths5766
      @jogriffiths5766 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@keithklassen5320 !!!!!!!! lol

  • @Skeluz
    @Skeluz 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    @TheMinuteVlog
    He said "people that struggle with empathy but doesn't necessarily lead to acts of cruelty" before introducing the audience to people with autism. He also said "low" empathy, not that it is non-existant.
    I don't believe any person is prejudiced - to say that autistic people are sociopathic monsters.

  • @Messier45_Pleiades
    @Messier45_Pleiades 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I spent time in the hospital when I was a child and the abuse from medical staff was exactly the same as those nazis. They had no empathy, no compassion, no human decency. They were the epitome of evil.

  • @atthehops
    @atthehops 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Baron-Cohen is discussing ways that we exhibit empathy. One of the questions I would ask about is how can someone receive empathy from others when they seem less deserving. There is obviously a ratio at work here if we can move up and down the empathy scale. What factors might contribute to building empathy in those with less? Does it work like forgiveness?

  • @Aureamachado10
    @Aureamachado10 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alguem poderia colocar legenda, ainda não domina a lingua americana, e gosto do tema e adoraria entender sobre o que ele fala, assim divulgaria na minha faculdade a mais pessoas e grupos interessados no tema.

  • @BartenderMix
    @BartenderMix 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    @Allegro2500 You are correct because there is a psychological component which empathy is created but the religious institution is more important in the form of social support. Not all religious institutions use "fire and brimstone" to influence behavior but it did help us delve into certain human behaviors that harm us or others. If you review the 7 sins, that is one of the earliest forms of personality analysis. Then you have the counter 7 virtues which help us in our social lives.

  • @StargazerGemini
    @StargazerGemini 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is fascinating but I wish the audio were better.

  • @touristtam
    @touristtam 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh, yes the Cpt Kirk analogy bring the discussion to such hights, one wonder why Prof Baron-Cohen hasn't brought it up himself.

  • @pakize3802
    @pakize3802 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm reading his book which I found interesting and really good. Yep Sascha makes us laugh and Simon makes us think, what a lovely combination

  • @Durchbrechen
    @Durchbrechen 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    @diogenes0157 barring the case empathy lacks because of genetic causes the main reason of empathy being ignored is that people believe this life is the only one they have, and what you don't enjoy in it, you'll never enjoy. To give something to others without sacrifice is easy. Empathy becomes challenging when in giving to others you have to renounce. And if this life is all you have it will be more difficult to renounce a source of pleasure. Not impossible but more difficult.

  • @MrDoremouse
    @MrDoremouse 10 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Some ppl have described MDMA as an ''empathogen''. I suppose dosing the world's politicians with E might be ''controversial'' ?

    • @iam1smiley1
      @iam1smiley1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's the problem with today's politics, we've got too much empathy and no longer have "survival of the fittest" since females have been more widely accepted into politics. Females politicians and voters want more social programs and "free money"....everything real comes through effort to propel society, not "free" from government.

    • @realtruth3762
      @realtruth3762 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      A lot of ppl who take this stuff end up cheating on their partners with random strangers while on it...so much for empathy

  • @mikesmith5778
    @mikesmith5778 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have Aspergers and always see patterns no one else can no matter how hard I try to show them... I have low empathy

    • @1MooseyGoosey1
      @1MooseyGoosey1 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do tell, any examples of patterns?

    • @1MooseyGoosey1
      @1MooseyGoosey1 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do tell, any examples of patterns?

    • @mikesmith5778
      @mikesmith5778 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Adrian Avalos there is a pattern in your question because you repeated yourself... hahaha
      other than that, I can see patterns in people on the street and cars on the highway as well I can see lopsided patterns in newspapers and while reading the print in books, I know it sounds goofy but they are there. I have a way that in my mind I can flip objects and place them into patterns I want to examine like homes and buildings placed together like the Tetris game. I hope you can figure that out... trees and leaves, as well as clouds, have patterns in them too.

    • @1MooseyGoosey1
      @1MooseyGoosey1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When I observe any string of numbers, my mind always finds a way to arithmetically equate them to some power of 2. When I see the number 911, emergency # in the U.S.. My mind subtracts 1 from 9 giving 8, and then multiplying by the final number 1, giving 8, which is 2^3. Whenever I watch TH-cam videos, my mind tries to divide the image of the video into 3 parts, one being the outline of the person, and the other two being the remaining area of absence. Kinda like cutting a picture of someone out of a photo with scissors and diving the remaining paper in half. I also have spontaneous tendencies to extrapolate useless patterns out of nothing, but the strange part, is I don't have any noticeable degree of autism. I have OCD and socially awkward tendencies. The reason I ask is because I've always been interested in people with a view of the world, that isn't in the standard deviation of "normal"

    • @reynal_omnicide9217
      @reynal_omnicide9217 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ???

  • @JT2012a
    @JT2012a 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is an extremely interesting video on empathy. Im glad I found it. Thanks for putting it up.

  • @MsMixis
    @MsMixis 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    well, yes, if you simply look at the good teachings of the christian faith. The christian faith also teaches you to shun certain people, to stone the unwanted etc. The Roman society, before the rise of Christianity, was very harsh and they performed acts of violence, which the later Christian society adapted.

  • @GreyAutumn
    @GreyAutumn 12 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Without empathy we would have gone extinct a long, long time ago.

  • @raverali154
    @raverali154 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Empathy and Power Bell Curve differences between men and women is missing. Still very informative though.

  • @lt9316
    @lt9316 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    At 26:00why do you put M. Monroe's picture up?????

  • @UpRoaryus
    @UpRoaryus 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Intriguing - The concept of "HSP" persons is also related to a genetic predisposition which affects approximately 8-15% of the population - apparently in animals as well.

  • @johnerskine4553
    @johnerskine4553 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Empathy is a beguiler, greed and cruelty is very much the order of the day. We reward the undeserving, neglect the wretched and whatsmore you fucking love it.
    How does the world get empathy? Make society's of people worthwhile, give them purpose, be fair and have principles, and if they don't, then at very least stop judging people that dont come up to the mark, if a human is treated like shit don't bitch that they have no worth. Just leave it and carry on with your life.

  • @colingeorgejenkins2885
    @colingeorgejenkins2885 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    And just what did they get up to behind the veil at the time of the enlightenment? Not to many talking about that

  • @wunspun
    @wunspun 9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I feel sorry that this guys voice whistles on every fucking S it bothered the fuck out of me holy fuck.

    • @ArnoldTohtFan
      @ArnoldTohtFan 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was thinking the exact same thing!

    • @yellowmr1
      @yellowmr1 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      ArnoldTohtFan
      me 3

    • @pointblurmusic
      @pointblurmusic 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      semour hoffman I think it's soothing.

    • @SweetcheeksMcGee
      @SweetcheeksMcGee 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Point Blur what?? it sounds like rubbing polystyrene together

  • @tcorp
    @tcorp 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @EvanChaim He's his cousin.

  • @EmperorsNewWardrobe
    @EmperorsNewWardrobe 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I also don't buy the reincarnation and karma aspects, but I do think the 'awakening' aspect of buddhism to be worth further inspection. Ekhart Tolle claims to be awakened, but doesn't claim to be strictly buddhist, rather, he has naturally experienced a transcended realm without the teachings. Dalai Lama apparently isn't trusted by many buddhists and unfortunately I don't know enough about him to comment, but, if indeed he is corrupted somehow, that wouldn't jell with the idea of enlightenment.

  • @omgpurple
    @omgpurple 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    @Willayam91
    I'm not saying that they don't care. I was challenging your assertion that they give "more." I'm also challenging your assertion that people "living in lack" are somehow lesser for not being able to give as much. A person who gives 1 of their 2 apples to someone else is sacrificing more than someone who gives 100 of their 1,000 apples. The person who only has one apple should not be judged for feeding themselves and for doing what they need to to survive. You sound very privileged.

  • @murihiku
    @murihiku 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    The book is not purely scientific: it argues for the importance of empathy, and includes some suggestions about how to improve empathy, such as oxycontin nasal inhalation spray (!) and "forms of role play that involve taking the victim's perspective." The latter example could have led into discussing the role of literature and film in inspiring empathy, but didn't. But you are right: debating evil is a very delicate, dangerous thing to do.

  • @samagoz6331
    @samagoz6331 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    FROM RESSOURSES OF DA7EE7 ^^

  • @mihirmaiden18
    @mihirmaiden18 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don't particularly agree with the generalization of Aspies and autistic people lacking empathy (which can also be said of neurotypicals), as I have Asperger's and I show a lot more empathy than most of the generalized Aspie's and even a lot of neurotypicals from my experience and from the experiences of many.. It's a different kind of empathy that we show that was described earlier in this video.

    • @lockshore1
      @lockshore1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I believe Cohen is doing a round up. Averaging a population. For example, he says that men are less empathic than woman. I, as a man, know woman who are less empathic than me. That does not mean Cohen is wrong, nor that he is labing me. Rather that he is using a wide population-level average, while I am talking in a individual-level.

    • @karenumland1091
      @karenumland1091 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Perhaps you have a comorbid condition,@Curteous?

    • @karenumland1091
      @karenumland1091 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm sorry to hear that@Curteous . It sounds lonely.

    • @LinYouToo
      @LinYouToo 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Curteous that sounds challenging for you. Professional counseling may help you heal from the difficult effects of attachment. I’m both anxious and avoidant. My dad was narcissistic too. Counseling helped me tremendously.

  • @ellenlehrman9299
    @ellenlehrman9299 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Speaking of attention to detail, get a load of those murals! Where was this filmed?

  • @EmperorsNewWardrobe
    @EmperorsNewWardrobe 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think you're right about not isolating credit to only Christianity. For what reason do you think it's innate tendency for societies to act upon empathy?

  • @Willayam91
    @Willayam91 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @omgpurple All the "rich people" I know are far more generous with their time, money and effort than people living in lack. Being poor is a recipe for desperation, where the person excuses their behavior with the argument that they "Had to in order to survive."
    Of course there are people who have a complete disregard for how others are affected by their actions. But saying that "rich people" don't care is a huge generalization that's just not accurate.

  • @koneye
    @koneye 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    The first quote in the intro is all you need to know about economics

  • @EmperorsNewWardrobe
    @EmperorsNewWardrobe 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think that's probably the point of his book - it's purely scientific without stepping into the territory of 'shoulds'. I can also imagine that to debate on the topic of evil would be a very tricky and delicate subject, and any objective debater - in other words not a religious zealot - would risk implying some serious condemnation to those used as examples of evil!

  • @shedininja001
    @shedininja001 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    very intreging. I wonder if that meens we can geneticly incress the likely hood of being emptatic, but we would also have to rase the person in such a way to produce that outcome

  • @mrzeroten
    @mrzeroten 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    @mrzeroten My first comment was not fully thought out, but it doesn't really matter. I stated that I thought an argument over something arbitrary such as a personal definition is pointless. I'm not going to spend hours writing a comment to avoid a challenging response from someone.

  • @Willayam91
    @Willayam91 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    @omgpurple Sure their degree of empathy might be higher as they make greater sacrifices than a wealthy person.
    But don't forget the effort that's gone into amassing that wealth. In order to help others as much as possible we first need to help ourselves. That's why you're told to put your oxygen mask on BEFORE helping others in an airplane emergency. If you die by giving away 1 of your 2 apples you won't be able to collect more apples that allow you to help BOTH you and others...

  • @JeannetteK2
    @JeannetteK2 9 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    As a psychotherapist who works with people who have Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) I question Professor Baron Cohen's superficial and somewhat dismissive representation of the diverse group of people who have BPD.
    He includes them in a very questionable Venn diagram with other personality disorders all of whom have zero empathy - according to him. Baron Cohen represents the varied group of people with BPD in a somewhat dismissive and unempathic way describing them as people who have "unstable relationships and extreme mood swings". He adds that 'they' - as if there's a monolithic they - tend to switch from expressing affection one minute to expressing anger the next, lashing out at people close to them.
    My years of experience and my research suggest that yes, many or most people with BPD have difficulties in establishing and maintaining relationships. After therapy, the story is very different. Even within that population, there are huge variations in the way people form and maintain attachments. I have most definitely met people who have BPD who also have great empathy for others.
    In a statement completely devoid of empathy, compassion and accuracy he tells his audience "They often also threaten suicide with no intention of carrying it out but also with no real consideration of the impact their threat has on the other person." Yes, people who have BPD express their high levels of distress by self-harming including attempting suicide. Baron Cohen would do well to look at the stats around the rate of premature death through suicide among that group before claiming that they have no intention of carrying out a threat of suicide. It's also the case that many people with BPD do not threaten or attempt suicide. None of them contemplates or talks of suicide or commits suicide it 'with no real consideration' for others.
    It's interesting that in the later discussion, Professor Baron Cohen discusses how we can lose empathy via many routes - genetically, early experience and acculturation. He discusses in-groups and out-groups and the empathy differential we feel and show to those who are part of our kinship or cultural networks. He admits that losing our empathy can be about how we define ourselves in relation to other groups. It's been my experience that many health professionals lack empathy for their clients whom they can dismiss as people from 'the other group' - via a label and superficial, unkind generalisations.

    • @veagle4605
      @veagle4605 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      > None of them contemplates or talks of suicide or commits suicide it 'with no real consideration' for others.
      Isn't this you speaking in the exact same monoliths for which you are railing against? Definitely BPD people exist that do that. Especially if they only threaten suicide or self-harm with specific people over and over again, and yet consciously hide this behavior with other "favorite" people.

    • @lockshore1
      @lockshore1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      As a psychologist, I believe Professor Baron Cohen was accurate. He is doing a rounding, using general information which is statiscally significant.
      Of course, statistical information is a general aproximation which cannot be implied to manifest in every individual within that group. Saying that in average a group has certain caracteristic does not mean that every member of the group has said characteristics. I have also worked with people with BDP and we all know they have a tendency to self-harm without intent of suicide, and threat to suicide without the intent of doing so. Also, it's true that there is a tendency towards mood change, that is why BDP is also know as "emotionally unstable personality disorder". That does not mean they cannot improove their relations, nor that they will never execute their suicide threat.
      I believe Baron Cohen is referring to untreated people wih BDP, it's obvious that with proper treatment almost all conditions tend to improove.
      Lastly, we need to label, that's how we can define a diagnose and treat accordingly. That does not mean we will treat everybody within a group as they had the same life experiences and intervene without context. But we cannot deny the usefulness of a diagnostic label, and that people with said label when conducting research tend to show in average certain traits, and even we can show with research which kind of treatment is most appropiate.

    • @thenarcissistsscapegoat5091
      @thenarcissistsscapegoat5091 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Probably the most un-emphathic thing any stranger has every done to me was when a psychatrist diagnosed me with borderline then immediately pulled out a form for me to sign that dismissed her from having to treat me! Lucky for her (and my freedom) I had already seen videos online that indicated that was a possibility or I may just have strangled her right there in the office.

    • @anniestaes430
      @anniestaes430 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As a multiple-victim of pscyhopathic, sociopathic and a.s.p behavior, i have to say that it is a little normal to generalize people who suffer these conditions yet it is a generalization for sake of conversation, by which i mean it would be hard having a discussion or debate on this topic when having to specify each and every person suffering this condition, and the specific way his or her condition will manifest itsself. So to make things a little easier, we tend to generalize. But it's important to atleast categorize the kinds of psychopathy, as they're not all the same. There is a much more bizar way of thinking which i've encountered when reading about emotional intelligence... written by Dr. Goleman where he looks at this topic in a stricktly instrumental way to such degree i have to wonder if this Dr. is a sociopath or psychopath himself. Emotional intelligence can serve as much, much more than just a good quallity on a workfloor, or in management.... or to be succesful. Goleman does nothing else than looking at it from that perspective...To get back at Cohen, he should understand the smashing nuance between a low scoring empath and a pscyopath, or bds-case or whatever. There are people who score very low on empathy scale but they don't even remotely suffer anti social tendencies. This is a large section of humans which could evolve to higher levels of empathy and the erosion of it should be encountered. Unfortunately we live in a world where we are indoctrinated by the idea that we should learn to function in function of functionallity and that's that.

    • @localsocial6689
      @localsocial6689 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is an incoherent and unprofessional rant. Professor Cohen is scientifically describing phenomenon. It's not a therapeutic session for triggered people. To quote your quote, "They often also threaten suicide with no intention of carrying it out but also with no real consideration of the impact their threat has on the other person." This is simply a true statement. The discussion is about empathy, not suicide. BPDs also have higher rates of autoimmune and that also wasn't discussed. Your rant points to an illogical and disordered mind. You should NOT be treating people with BPD.

  • @UpRoaryus
    @UpRoaryus 11 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The autism thing might actually be linked to the HYPER sensitivity or hyper empathic from what I have been reading. Perhaps it is some need to isolate that else they become completely overwhelmed.

  • @yourcamden
    @yourcamden 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One of ways of testing empathy in texts is the use of the definite article "the" in descriptions of groups of people such as in 'The Jews' rather than 'Jewish people', 'the blacks' rather than 'Black people', 'the elderly', 'the disabled' and so on. Its use reveals the author's lack of empathy with the individuals concerned. This disassociation leads the people to consider these individuals as just simply numbers. This added with induced phobias can lead to hate crimes and holocausts.

  • @007rosin
    @007rosin 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would like to think that empathy is nature not nurture, while moral is a mixture.

  • @AbelAbelsonFR
    @AbelAbelsonFR 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So if you "lose" your empathy, you suddenly become worse at the "reading the mind in the eyes" test? That doesn't happen, does it? Doesn't make sense, this idea of "losing empathy" or "eroding empathy".

  • @Snurre86
    @Snurre86 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    13:33 The pattern was really inconclusive in my opinion.

  • @t3mpl3guardian
    @t3mpl3guardian 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree. Articulation has been buried under lols and lmaos. This desire to say something using as little effort as possible is the basis for American culture.

  • @aspierants
    @aspierants 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    more on empathy and Asperger syndrome:
    google for the 2007 publication "Who cares? Revisiting empathy in Asperger syndrome" (pdf)

    • @maggamold
      @maggamold 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you

  • @nappybiscuit
    @nappybiscuit 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Deep

  • @yourcamden
    @yourcamden 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Unfortunately, one of the whole ethos's of lack of empathy are induced by the academic training where often disassociation (lack of empathy) is created and the removal of emotion in decision making is encouraged.

  • @RiquinhoNojento
    @RiquinhoNojento 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    @ELDK2008 Empathy is just a way to preserve our genes, it's an adaptive advantage but in certain situations it is not.

  • @Civilis1980
    @Civilis1980 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    'Appropriate social response'? Science should stand apart from culture, but it never does.

  • @CognosSquare
    @CognosSquare 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @TehHumblePie its his cousin according to wiki. Interesting that they both are into techmology.

  • @TipoQueTocaelPiano
    @TipoQueTocaelPiano ปีที่แล้ว

    Why would they have empathy for someone in the out-group. That's not how empathy works.

  • @Willayam91
    @Willayam91 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    @omgpurple I don't think people living in lack are lesser for not being able to give as much. Naturally someone who gives 1 of 2 apples is making a larger sacrifice than someone who gives 10% of 1000. But how many people do you know that give 1 of 2 apples? And besides, what feeds more mouths? 1 or 100 apples? It you want to have a competition in sacrificing more the person with less obviously wins. But in my mind it's not about making a sacrifice. It's about making a contribution.

  • @mrzeroten
    @mrzeroten 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    @Agnotio Based on the various definitions of empathy I've read through. Compassion is not a component of empathy it's a potential product. Sharing a feeling does not necessarily constitute compassion. Furthermore he clearly states "my definition of empathy" inferring that he has modified/deviated from original definitions, which results in OUR argument over something arbitrary. I simply expressed my displeasure with his presentation, not the man himself, so why do you care so much?

  • @daviydviljoen9318
    @daviydviljoen9318 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    13:00 I have a question on this... wouldn't that be doing the same thing as the people at the beginning? You're not killing anyone, but still, you're doing an invasive experiment.

  • @mizubiart6230
    @mizubiart6230 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why would you even want to know how long a person can last in the cold? What use of that? I never understood the people who did those things. I think sadists are actually great empaths- why would they do that, if not to feel the misery? Why is empathy regarded as good, when in reality it could be quite terrifying on both sides. I think masochism is much more common though. You’d be surprised how enjoyable suffering is, it gives a sense of power where one feels is lacking. Just think of anorexics, purposefully weakening themselves- they are hungry for a sense of power in life, but without any real fulfilment. But, what do you think?

  • @eatymceatison97
    @eatymceatison97 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I challenge anyone who doesn't believe in evil to meet my brother, who is highly intelligent, knows exactly how the social world is constructed and who is the epitome of evil.

  • @EmperorsNewWardrobe
    @EmperorsNewWardrobe 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm an atheist, but I think Christianity may be deserve some credit in the promotion of empathy, even if outdated now. In her speech at Harvard, JK Rowling talked about the importance of imagination, stating that the ability to take the perspective of others was fundamental to empathising. As the belief in god is a stimulating imaginative exercise, combined with the teachings of Jesus to love thy neighbour these two ingredients must surely have contributed to improved empathy abilities. No?

  • @tobiasjulian
    @tobiasjulian 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mr. Baron Cohen: Do you agree that the immediate environment can be adjusted to create empathic behavior?

    • @g.s.5868
      @g.s.5868 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      once you go psycho, you don't go back

  • @vanessativa2418
    @vanessativa2418 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have bpd and highly empathic, even got a high score on the "eye test". I have a lot of trouble expressing my self and i lack communication skills

  • @ElLotdog
    @ElLotdog 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wonder if he is related to sascha baron cohen aka borat, bruno, ali g

  • @Jay_Flippen
    @Jay_Flippen 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm going to have to disagree about the importance of the eye-mood judging test. The subtleties that divide the choose-able emotions seem to be based off of a very narrow perspective of the individual, and goes no further than that slight bit of body language. I think when someone consciously (or semi-consciously) ignores or abuses another person, it should be much more of an indicator of a lack of empathy than what could be a misinterpretation from the person having dust in their eyes. However, I submit that Simon Baron Cohen is much more experienced and knowledgeable in the field of understanding psychopathology than me, although I have experienced those kind of people well enough in my life.
    Also, the depiction of Narcissus (by Caravaggio) doesn't seem to be like someone who is necessarily dysfunctional. However, one who does get lost in their own reflection probably is shallow. In fact, Narcissus (the mythological character) supposedly did not know that it was his own reflection. This reminds me of people with poor subjective awareness that likely are object relations deficient. On the other hand, one who becomes enamored by their social role (as in- their image to society) could become preoccupied with maintaining their self-esteem and reputation to the point that they become passive aggressive, negligent, manipulative, or outwardly abusive.
    Lastly, I feel the term "autism" is somewhat of a broad umbrella term that is cast upon people with communication deficiencies... or as wikipedia describes, "Autism is a neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by impaired social interaction, verbal and non-verbal communication, and restricted and repetitive behavior." So it probably wouldn't be wise to repetitively label differing individuals as "autistic" when they could have many variations in their neuropsychological predispositions. However, I realize more specific diagnoses are made nowadays followed by appropriate and somewhat effective treatments.
    P.S. I wonder how Simon's well-known cousin might be analyzed by him. He is very tangential in his full immersion of absurd characters and pushes the boundaries of social situations to the tipping point... very entertaining though.

  • @hectorandem2944
    @hectorandem2944 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    06:34 Perhaps I'm missing the point, but "stern", "sarcastic" and "suspicious" aren't emotions.

    • @antosharboonian6110
      @antosharboonian6110 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      actually, all of these characteristics have specific emotions latched onto them. i would do the research for you but i believe you'd be better off doing it yourself.

  • @NawidN
    @NawidN 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, that's a strong lisp.

  • @ELDK2008
    @ELDK2008 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    @ghoststar - I guess we'll have to agree to disagree.

  • @Xisla
    @Xisla 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Seems like low empathy is discussed in negative terms (except for asperger's/autism).
    But on the flip side - could higher than average empathy be associated with nepotism and cronyism?