As european citizen who moved to egypt I met a egyptian man 😁 here. He could not speak english in the beginning and my arabic was bad. We talked with google translate and now 1 year later we are happily married. He never touched me before that and we followed the islamic rules (was my wish). Best decision ever. Middle east man are an awesome blessing 🤲🏽
Simple but every girls should remember this.. when an Arab man loved you and care too much about you don’t abuse him, instead show him that whatever he do for you and gave is you’re grateful..when an Arab man is serious to you and act like the one do not play his feelings❤ generally only few man nowadays are real so if you have that kind of man with you please be faithful ,loyal and be the women he wanted to be with.
Valid points, friend! Very well said. It's important for a man to see that you're grateful for him. This is also a form of respect and it strengthens the bond in the relationship. Great advice!
This explains my partner (Iraqi) so much. He was acting like this before he proposed to me. Mostly with the protective part, he was always checking up on me...if I had eaten, asking about my day, checking if I got home safe. Love him so much!! 😊
Me too! I'm dating an Iranian and he is so lovely. He always checks on how my day is going, what I've eaten. He is so considerate and never let's me pay for anything, even if it was my idea. I had to get used to that because I felt it was my responsibility, but I realized by letting him pay, it was a sign of respect and appreciation that I accepted it ❤. I so appreciate everything he does.
they want to spend time with their male friends and they want you to stay home.. eventually the girl will find someone else and her ex will get offended..
I love this. I've met an ME man, and all of these things are happening. We both are Christian. He's nothing like I've ever met in America... it feels weird in a good way❤
I'm talking this guy and we're always playing games and he always sleeps late because we're different timezones but he makes time for me or let's me know when we can call each other. I'm not sure if he's interested in me or just wants a friend T^T
4:40 another game.. I prefer honest relationships.. upfront.. especially about guy intention. Why games? Treat each other as friends on some level. You wouldn't do it to your friend but you can do it to a woman..
@@Anna2W no the boy don’t care . He said he even okay living in Mexico . I’m both citizen. When a man cry’s for you it’s says a lot . We don’t need USA . USA is not all the shit . We can go to UAE . He smart in stocks . I’m but paying nothing . Visa my ass. Fuck the USA . United emirates is better and safer than USA . 4 real . Have you been to foreign countries.
@@Anna2W maybe you need to educate yourself outside than shitty USA. It didn’t matter . lol we can migrate to United emirates. USA is not all that . I’m American blessed Mexico just next door . Mexico is not dangerous as USA . At least they respect more . Social media hell talk shit of Mexico bad so many Americans of a lot white folk leave to Tijuana or tourist town cause of the high medical bills cost and lack of care of retirement too high . Damn . I live in California. Boo . How about educate your self before you judge . I hate being born in the USA . I travel to Middle East . Jordan , Turkey , London , Mexico , Canada , united emirates, Egypt , Saudia Arabia. I speak Arabic . I work as an expat in Jordan Amman . I speak Arabic , English, and Spanish. USA is a benefit. He getting Mexican and USA passport. Mexico passport has more benefits than USA . Mexico the homeland the food is cleaner . UAE . You can migrate there if you buy a home for 200,000 usd . It’s worth it cause it’s safer easier to travel anywhere .
They want to be admired and showing them respect all the time. But if you do something for yourself he will give you silent treatment. Completely difficult culture
Hey Afiah, imagine creating a video on request for someone and they end up not watching it? That would be a shame! I'm glad you did :). Congratulations on your engagement. Wish you and your future husband all the best!
Met Arab man, bought me flowers, we've been intimate, he texts me daily but we don't see each other much. He works a lot, and his younger siblings live with him, so I can't go to his house. I feel like he cares about me but I'm not really sure. He told me that it's hard for him to express his feelings. I feel a connection but I'm scared. I'm falling for him Update..I think he cares but I'm just a FWB
@Fuadtalks he stays in touch daily. I feel like he is afraid to tell me how much he has to be there for his siblings. I understand the culture. I respect it. I just feel like he really likes me, and he's told me that, but he said it's hard for him to express his feelings. I've never ever felt this way about a man, and we act like we've known each other for a long time. Arabic men are so passionate and I love that. I just want to know if he has good intentions with me.. maybe a future
The uncertainty is certain, and you'll have to wait to see what the future unfolds for you. :) Love in action can be harsher than love in dreams. If you want to be cautious, you can. But if nothing requires you to be, I would say you can surrender ❤️
Well, I'm dating a Indian man in the only problem. We are having that they love to work. And they love to make money especially if they're just getting here from overseas. He tell me he loves me. But we highly ever spend time. But when we around each other it's like heaven. Buddy has to take care of his family too I try to understand but it leaves me being lonely sometime.@@oliviatherealtor
@oliviatherealtor if he is TOO MUCH making excuses that he is too busy then he isn't really that into you. Don't be too clingy...they take you for granted that way.
Nope, not my now Exhusband from Mauritania. He NEVER made time for me, he never remembered ANYTHING about me, other than trying to SCAM me for his own personal gain of U.S citizenship . And he left Mauritania because of WARRANTY for his ARREST in Mauritania. He's been EXPOSED .
I am a Kenyan in Iraq there’s this iraq guy I met recently and he asked me where I come from if I am married After two days again he asked me if I am married then I wondered why he asked the same question twice He asked me if I can marry him 😜he’s actually cute but been thinking because I am a Christian and he is a Muslim And as well wondering if he is really serious or just playing with my mind
For example...there's someone from saudia..even I'm in Kuwait and even I go back in Kuwait..he gave all..he understnd me .he don't angry to me.and he always said to me even I don't go in Saudia because he still love me..he do all for me .and I feel he is serious feeling .
Great to hear that you found someone who cares about you and treats you with love and respect! Thanks for sharing this with us. When it comes to how serious a man is, it's usually best to trust your instincts while being observant. One video cannot cover everything, and many things are subjective, and people interpret things differently. I'm glad you're happy, friend!
I got to know his mom via video call and she said I’m fine and he was happy for it but his father is the main problem who only wants him to marry one of his three cousins he gave him to choose. And we are not talking because he needs time to think about everything… I’m going to reach out. I’m really sad.
Am African lady who has just relationship with oman , he wants to know every detail of myself and he tells me about him and his family , we are still on step of building the foundation but i have this that he may not be serious , so i don't know what to do
Hey Diane, thank you for your kind words. I understand your concern about potential scams from overseas men. I am actually working on a video that discusses why some Arab men might be interested in women from the West. I think some of the points in that video may address your concerns, so be sure to check it out when it's released. Thanks again for watching!
I became great friends with an Arab man. He travelled over to my country in Ireland to see me last year. We have kept a great friendship. He knows I have feelings for him but he keeps very quiet about his feelings for me. I’m due to travel over to his country very soon. We also went to Edinburgh together the start of this year. He has been a lovely gentleman very respectful and never once crossed any boundaries which I love about him. He knows I am a Christian. He rings me three times a week and has done over the last year and a half. I’m wondering though does he just see me as a friend only or does he have genuine feelings for me? If I try to bring this up he definitely doesn’t give anything away. Also I was married before and have children which he knows but I’ve been separated for 6 years and just waiting for my divorce to come through. He has been such a great friend to me but I definitely have fallen in in love him. He knows this but like I said he never says anything. Now I don’t mention my feelings as I don’t want to come across to forward or pushy. Plus I wouldn’t really be like that. X
He's probably not ready but respects you. I had an Egyptian friend too, I loved his eyes and would try to let him know I like but he kept quiet and I respected that. They are nice and decent and will tell you if they want anything like commitment with you, if they don't just see them as that good friend.
I dated an Egyptian man and he was lovely. He also respectfully kept quiet about his feelings when I would express mine for him. We ended up becoming friends, he was not in a place in his life to commit, at least to me, but he always treated me well, and was honest with me. I will always value the time we had together.
Be aware that according to our Islamic values, we cannot show admiration or express interest or desire to marry a woman if she has not yet officially ended her previous marriage, especially if your friend is religious.
Absolutely 5 signs get it but the problem is he want our relationship will be secret he want us to get merried but secret what will I do sir? I hope you give an advice
Secret marriages aren't valid in Islam, and to be honest, that's a red flag. Both your family and his need to know. A proper marriage includes an announcement and witnesses. So, pay attention to that and avoid unnecessary mistakes.
@Fuadtalks yes I second this request. I am dating an Iranian man and love him. I want to treat him as well as he treats me. I pay close attention to what his likes are and respect his time with friends and family. I have read on his culture and that helps a lot, especially about the importance of family. My family is not close, so that was new for me. He is so great and I am so happy he and I are together 😊
Darn i needed to know about the one that is open to other cultures and not seriously practicing their religion. So the only thing u said was they will want to be open to our culture right i already see that
I just started someone that’s Middle Eastern and I’m latina, he’s older than me. He courted me before asking me to be his girlfriend, he chased me and locked it down fast lol. I didn’t be intimate until we were boyfriend and girlfriend because that’s one of my boundaries. It’s my first time dating a Middle Eastern man so I do want some advice and tips lol I’ve met his coworkers and friends so far😊
I am talking to a Christian arab from Palestine, I am also Christian from Europe. We’re still getting to know each other but I really like the way things are going. Are arab Christians also strict about having sex after marriage ?
@@Fuadtalks yes I am getting to know more and more about him everyday and wow.. I am from Malta and I never imagined how much similar we actually are.. thank you for replying🙂
@@Pssst.JesusLovesYouI’m Palestinian and we love Malta! Of course we have a lot of similarities even our language. I’m happy to hear of a Palestinian with Maltese such beautiful mixture🥰 I wish you good luck and a beautiful happy future full of blessings🙏
@@Pssst.JesusLovesYouChristians are less strict about this in my opinion and experience. You do find many Christians who stay virgins until marriage, but you find many who don’t because we are human in the end. Our religion tells us that we should save ourselves for marriage and that’s what we grew up hearing and older generations especially are pretty serious about it. That is why if something happens we keep it to our selves. This does not mean that he’s bad or a player or something! Most Palestinian man are very respectful and husband material, I hope yours is one of them🥰
@@mia03-xj6rh We love Palestine too! Such kind and sweet words thank you so much🥰 Yes it’s true so similar we can understand each other sometimes haha! Always in our prayers🙏 God Bless you all.
This is a beautiful video, however, I must disagree. Just like nothing in the world is completely black and white, my experience with a Persian man was not like this. We were cordial, went to dinner, and enjoy time together, and we slept together within the first month. He did not judge me, nor did I judge him. We are now married.❤
Thanks for sharing your personal experience. I'm glad your experience was a positive one. In Arabic, there's a saying that means 'not every time the jug makes it safely to the well.' Just like winning a lottery yesterday doesn't mean you will win it today. While Persians are different from Arabs, I consider your case to be the exception rather than the norm. The video's advice emphasizes safety measures that don't involve risking your chastity, emotional well-being, and purity. It's about finding out sooner, rather than later, whether a man is serious about you or not. If you apply this approach, you will see no harm. However, if hypothetically, we consider your experience as a guide, there is more harm than good, and a significant amount of risk at stake. Physical connection should be something sacred and shouldn't be treated casually, like lighting up a cigarette.
Persians are ethnically way different from the (semitic-speaking part of) the Middle East. This Persian man is of a different culture than which Fuad speaks of in this video.
@@Fuadtalks , I agree with you. Caution is key. time exposes human intentions. if I tell a man no sex until marriage and he throws a fist, then that's a wrap for me. I believe a man who genuinely wanna be with me will respect that. To each its own, I guess.
I met an Algerian Arab guy through an online dating app, then took it to WhatsApp be chatting for a month....the communication has been going on really well, chats and video call everyday .....but am not sure if this is real or it just a phone thing due to where we met. Does he mean it when he says he love me?
Hey there, in the early stages of a relationship, there is usually heightened emotions and excitement which can influence the way someone expresses their feelings. So, it is possible that he means it, and it is possible as well that he likes you more than he loves you, love is subjective and means different things to everyone. So, it could be that the man got caught up in the excitement of a new relationship and said 'I love you' impulsively. What would you do differently if you knew he doesn't mean it? If you would maintain some tiny level of caution, then I don't think that there is harm in that.
@@FuadtalksI also met an Egyptian man in January on one of the dating sites, I am black from Zambia, we have been video chatting and we communicate well even on WhatsApp, he says he loves me and would want us to be together, I was once blocked and we stayed 3 weeks without communication, thereafter he contacted me that his accounts were hacked and blocked all the friends in his phone. But I am scared that he might be lying to me, is there racism towards black women in Egypt. This man claims to love me very much. Advise me if it's possible our relationship can workout😊
What does it mean then, when uses things like the L Word and things like this. Then when I told him that I do like him, but communication can be better. He says I’m trying to be controlling then blocks me to make the long story short.
Hey there! By the 'L word,' do you mean 'Love'? Without the full context of your situation, it's hard to determine the exact meaning behind his actions. I know that if someone blocks you over a simple statement, it makes you question their emotional maturity. But I don't know the whole story; I assume it is not only because of a single statement, I think there have been ongoing issues before that. I would say the best move is to take a step back and reflect on what you can learn from this experience. Maybe there are some things you can avoid in future relationships. And of course this is if you see that the relationship with this man is beyond repair. Best of luck!
I was dating a Palestinian man, he took me to meet his family and i would stay over at his parents place. Im from New Zealand, i think his parents adopted me lol. I moved home and havent see him again.
Yeah, hospitality of strangers is a must in Arab culture, and from my experience, Palestinians are one of the best Arab nations. But in terms of the man you dealt with, it would have been better if he had communicated with you. Hopefully, you are over it now. And let's also hope that he is not dead or something.
Ok i started fall in love with my boss in a first sight. Until i confess to him that i like hime but i dont know if he have feelings to me soo what did u advice to me.
When you are a victim of sihir no man will ever be interested in you and they will ALWAYS leave you after treatment I find out I’m a victim since I’m young. Now I’m 28 and have failed. All those rejections I’m even giving up living this life
I met online on a dating app Jordanian-Palestinian guy,he was raised in Jordan but now he moved to The Netherlands.Im from Poland but im half Gypsy.We've be chatting since April everyday.We never see each other in real and via videochatts(i dont like videocalling🙄) but we change our photos.He says he is okay with it😅.when i go outside he gets mad at me 🙄 we as gypsies we have similar cultural rules to you ,when i told him that i think he liked me more😅.He doesnt practice Islam in the netherlands and he said if we marry maybe i will change my mind and change my religion to Islam.He calls me Habibi all the time i told him i dont like it 🙄 but he does it all the time..he plans to live with me when i come to Holland,to marry me and have a baby (onced he had a situation in NL one girl wanted to help him for money by having a baby with him for his longer stay in that country because he doesnt want to get back to Jordan).He says me he loves me ,he wants to create his future with me he says he doesnt want me for documents and when he sometimes misunderstand me he says i broke his feelings 🙄Do you think is it a red flag for me? Im confused bc if i meet him in real i dont want to be used for his stay in the netherlands 🙄🤷🏽♀️ how do you see it?
I understand your concerns. I suggest you give yourself some time to understand the man's real character. If it is marriage, I think it would be good. Just make sure it is not merely a rush of blood and words coming out of excitement. You could ask him about his family's involvement in the marriage, whether they would know about it if it happens, and overall, see realistically if he is genuine about what he says he wants with you. Ultimately, I don't suggest going to a foreign country to meet a man you have never met in person. If he comes to your country, it is better; this way, you won't feel pressured to do things you didn't plan to do. At the end of the day, everything will depend on you and what you are willing to allow. It is less likely for a man to play or use you if you require a certain amount of commitment from him. So, it will greatly depend on your motives and what you were looking for before you met him on this App.
Hi Fuad.. I have a question regarding to your suggestion to pull back when it's needed. But if the woman is hard to get, in what point will the man give up and leave her? Thank you.
Hi, I spoke about this in another video, I think it was in the "player test" video. Basically, when you pull back, you do communicate to the man what are your aspirations from the connection you both have, if he's serious, he will take what you say seriously, if he's not, he'll move on.
I'm dating a Man from morocco .... right now I'm having issues with the no intimacy thing.... I respect him and his beliefs ... also tho I'm having an issue when he tells me he doesn't want to discuss things because he already prayed to Allah about it so leave it alone.... I feel like he's blowing me off
Hey Fuad, I'm just curious about something... I've been talking to a guy and he's a very busy and hard working guy. But he updates me A LOT, going out, going to his friends, and even when he's at a vacation. Can that be considered as a sign?🤔 + I've been applying the tips you have said in your past videos. He seems more caring about me now.
What if a man hasnt added you on wats app and chats oj snapchat and said he has a ex eho he brikebuo with 3 weeks ago due to lot of jeolousy and over behaviour but is trying to get too close and intomate and you met on dating app after 2 dates and no intimacy he suddenly doesnt reapond to snap as he said he travels in gvc for work would you believe it ?
Can't tell if what he claims is true or not. However, if what you want out of this relationship is marriage/ serious relationship, then you better take things slow with him, especially if he is Arab.
My friend is Arab and fro Syria. He dont want to marry non muslim. Im christian nut i brluwve we both God loving People. I want to Lear to be muslim too . He saggest that is very good
What if that person told you. 'even if i love you so much I will not force you anything especially love. If you show me no love anymore even if i love you so much i will not pursue my feelings
That's a sign of maturity. I can love you deeply, but I understand very well that love can't be negotiated. My emotions and feelings are irrelevant and mean nothing when they are not mutual. So, the battle will be between me and my emotions, and even if you remain in my mind forever, I will let you go.
My bf is Palestinian. He is very sweet checks innon me multiple times a day, alqays open with me about what he feels about me, that he only want me and all that. He really wants me to get pregnant😂 and he's brought up marriage a couplenof times. Im not allowed to go out with full make up on, thats unacceptable according ro himselves.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 At not allowed to go with full makeup on. He sounds like a caring dictator. That will make me think carefully about whether I want to be with this person or not and talk less about having a child with them.
My jordian fiance explained to me arab jealous isn't like normal jealousy do I had to research this concept. I starting to feel it was possessiveness or controlling
Seriously Question as an American and African American Woman...What type of women does Middle Eastern Men prefer/like? I'm talking ethnicity/race, height, weight, age, skin tone, etc. P.S. Any Arab/Middle Eastern Men can answer these. Thanks In Advance.
It depends middle eastern men prefer european or asian while you would see North Africa men more with white and black women but that doesn't apply on every arab men but every arab men want a shorter wife than him race and color IS not a thing since arab men Come in diffrent colors and features
can you please advice me, my bf is an egyptian christian man, we met in an app 2 months ago, we've never had seen each other and only communicating online.. is an arab man can be loyal bout what his saying, in his 30ish years in life he doesn't experience having a gf or sleeping with any women due to him being workaholic.. so when he first saw my photo he immendiately message me and starts communicating until 2 months of wooing we became a couple.. is it possible that their such a kind of a man like him being no experience cous i'm having doubts about him and he said that he can't wait to fly over to my country just to see me ,this will be our first meet up.. i dont know if his intentions are true but atill i do truat him.. please do enlighten me on this before i get so deep into him, thank you and godbless
Everything is possible, it's not uncommon to find a man in his 30s in the Arab world who's still a virgin. So, I'd say, first figure out what you want from him and the relationship, then talk it out with him. Take things slowly, as I mentioned in the video, until you see that his actions match his words. All the best! 🙏
You know, there's racism even among Arabs themselves. It's kind of sad, but it's there. And if you've traveled around, you'd see that racism exists in almost every corner of the world, just in different amounts. I can't say there's no racism in Muslim communities because there is. But Islam actually speaks out against it. Real Muslims get that there's no difference between someone who's white, brown, or black.
Manny Egyptians are also very dark skin, specialy more south there is racism all over the world, they should not treat darker skin people differently if they remember the importance of Bilal
I have a boyfriend in Saudi 2 yrs ago he want me to come in Saudi Arabia to stay with him my papers is ready to go in suadi but i refuse i don't know why he is already married
I have a Saudi boyfriend too and he’s back in Saudi at the moment with his family. We’ve been together two years now. I’d say he’s serious but I do fear he hides me a bit.
how to win a arab mens heart is it by looking beautiful and becoming fair like skin lightening treatment?pls let me know lately i would love a arab guy for myself 😊
Hi can i ask, if this arab man love in you whe he always follow you when we are you go, and he always observed when i'm cooking, he always taste the food that i cooked, and he is verry protective
He wait me almost a year to go in Saudia..so that even I have a contract in Kuwait .I broke that because of him..I feel he is serious what his feeling..and he protect me so much...
Iranian men, Middle Eastern men, and Arab men are so attractive!
Also turkish!!
iranian is also middle eastern
Indian men are gorgeous too! 🥰
@@katherinefields250pakistani are indian ain't
Uuuff Yessss so true!!! ❤
As european citizen who moved to egypt I met a egyptian man 😁 here. He could not speak english in the beginning and my arabic was bad. We talked with google translate and now 1 year later we are happily married. He never touched me before that and we followed the islamic rules (was my wish). Best decision ever. Middle east man are an awesome blessing 🤲🏽
That's amazing to hear, wish both all the best!
Am I allowed to ask you if you are Muslim? Or are you Christian or Jew? Because from my information it's not allowed to marry if you are non-believer?
I am from Egypt and the best thing is the fact here in Egypt that the majority of Egyptians always tell jokes and always laugh unlike the Arab world
Egyptian people are so kind. Bless you sister. May he bless your marriage ❤so happy for you walah
Egypt- isn’t a Middle East. And egyptian people are different from syrian
Simple but every girls should remember this.. when an Arab man loved you and care too much about you don’t abuse him, instead show him that whatever he do for you and gave is you’re grateful..when an Arab man is serious to you and act like the one do not play his feelings❤ generally only few man nowadays are real so if you have that kind of man with you please be faithful ,loyal and be the women he wanted to be with.
Valid points, friend! Very well said. It's important for a man to see that you're grateful for him. This is also a form of respect and it strengthens the bond in the relationship. Great advice!
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Thanks for sharing this with me
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Woow...man who cares too much...unfortunatelly its the situation unimaginable for me😅would be nice to experience😊
This explains my partner (Iraqi) so much. He was acting like this before he proposed to me. Mostly with the protective part, he was always checking up on me...if I had eaten, asking about my day, checking if I got home safe. Love him so much!! 😊
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Me too! I'm dating an Iranian and he is so lovely. He always checks on how my day is going, what I've eaten. He is so considerate and never let's me pay for anything, even if it was my idea. I had to get used to that because I felt it was my responsibility, but I realized by letting him pay, it was a sign of respect and appreciation that I accepted it ❤. I so appreciate everything he does.
@@HannahBrowsleyPacific Islander to be exact! My bloodline goes back to Tanzania. So yes, I am black!☺️
@@desanson So happy for you!! Glad to see others seeing how great they are! All the best in your relationship!😌
My boyfriend Persian man he take care about me so much, he wants to talk with my family he so seriously we are 6months in relationship ❤
You men are so beautiful!!
Don't fall for it...guard your heart
they want to spend time with their male friends and they want you to stay home.. eventually the girl will find someone else and her ex will get offended..
Not really
Thank you .. I am right on track and not caving on my belief in marriage. ❤
I met an Egyptian Copt 2 years ago and have been in love since. Ladies, don't be shy to take the plunge!
I love this. I've met an ME man, and all of these things are happening. We both are Christian. He's nothing like I've ever met in America... it feels weird in a good way❤
Me too
very valuable video clip, please make more.
Hey there, thanks for the feedback! Glad you enjoyed the video.
It will apply to all men
Thanks for watching! I appreciate your input!
He sleeps at 5am to talk to me😳
I'm talking this guy and we're always playing games and he always sleeps late because we're different timezones but he makes time for me or let's me know when we can call each other. I'm not sure if he's interested in me or just wants a friend T^T
😂 xD lol your emoji at the end T^T made me laugh @bunneyrice8792
You are right Faud thank you for sharing this message ❤
Always welcome!
4:40 another game.. I prefer honest relationships.. upfront.. especially about guy intention. Why games? Treat each other as friends on some level. You wouldn't do it to your friend but you can do it to a woman..
@@angelsandocean2853 I agree with everything you saying
My Egyptian man was a Muslim . He left Islam for Christian that is gold he loves me .
Maybe he left for visa idk
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@@Anna2W no the boy don’t care . He said he even okay living in Mexico . I’m both citizen. When a man cry’s for you it’s says a lot . We don’t need USA . USA is not all the shit . We can go to UAE . He smart in stocks . I’m but paying nothing . Visa my ass. Fuck the USA . United emirates is better and safer than USA . 4 real . Have you been to foreign countries.
@@Anna2W maybe you need to educate yourself outside than shitty USA. It didn’t matter . lol we can migrate to United emirates. USA is not all that . I’m American blessed Mexico just next door . Mexico is not dangerous as USA . At least they respect more . Social media hell talk shit of Mexico bad so many Americans of a lot white folk leave to Tijuana or tourist town cause of the high medical bills cost and lack of care of retirement too high . Damn . I live in California. Boo . How about educate your self before you judge . I hate being born in the USA . I travel to Middle East . Jordan , Turkey , London , Mexico , Canada , united emirates, Egypt , Saudia Arabia. I speak Arabic . I work as an expat in Jordan Amman . I speak Arabic , English, and Spanish. USA is a benefit. He getting Mexican and USA passport. Mexico passport has more benefits than USA . Mexico the homeland the food is cleaner . UAE . You can migrate there if you buy a home for 200,000 usd . It’s worth it cause it’s safer easier to travel anywhere .
A good indication that he is not serious about anything.
As always, thank you.
They want to be admired and showing them respect all the time. But if you do something for yourself he will give you silent treatment. Completely difficult culture
Whats. Silent treatment
@@kgpink5041when you talk to them they are SILENT they don’t answer you they IGNORE you completely for hours days sometimes WEEEEKS.
This is true. I'm getting the silence treatment right now but the joke is on him because I enjoy the silence and time to myself@@Adelina24244
I’ve found that a lot in western men too. That’s not a culture difference 😂 you need to find a different man
True that is why i ended mine ... he even wanted to propose... but i dont wanba feel like an own object
It's me again. Alhamdulillah I'm already engaged with Syrian guy :)
Hey Afiah, imagine creating a video on request for someone and they end up not watching it? That would be a shame! I'm glad you did :). Congratulations on your engagement. Wish you and your future husband all the best!
Good luck with that !
Omg I’m talking to a Syrian guy now , he’s very long distance but he’s cool
Met Arab man, bought me flowers, we've been intimate, he texts me daily but we don't see each other much. He works a lot, and his younger siblings live with him, so I can't go to his house. I feel like he cares about me but I'm not really sure. He told me that it's hard for him to express his feelings. I feel a connection but I'm scared. I'm falling for him
Update..I think he cares but I'm just a FWB
Don't be scared. :) This fear is normal.
@Fuadtalks he stays in touch daily. I feel like he is afraid to tell me how much he has to be there for his siblings. I understand the culture. I respect it. I just feel like he really likes me, and he's told me that, but he said it's hard for him to express his feelings. I've never ever felt this way about a man, and we act like we've known each other for a long time. Arabic men are so passionate and I love that. I just want to know if he has good intentions with me.. maybe a future
The uncertainty is certain, and you'll have to wait to see what the future unfolds for you. :)
Love in action can be harsher than love in dreams. If you want to be cautious, you can. But if nothing requires you to be, I would say you can surrender ❤️
Well, I'm dating a Indian man in the only problem. We are having that they love to work. And they love to make money especially if they're just getting here from overseas. He tell me he loves me. But we highly ever spend time. But when we around each other it's like heaven. Buddy has to take care of his family too I try to understand but it leaves me being lonely sometime.@@oliviatherealtor
@oliviatherealtor if he is TOO MUCH making excuses that he is too busy then he isn't really that into you. Don't be too clingy...they take you for granted that way.
Nope, not my now Exhusband from Mauritania. He NEVER made time for me, he never remembered ANYTHING about me, other than trying to SCAM me for his own personal gain of U.S citizenship . And he left Mauritania because of WARRANTY for his ARREST in Mauritania. He's been EXPOSED .
I just met a man who wants me to say the words marriage to build a relationship. I have so many questions and concerns.
He’s paying your bills is the only strong sign he’s serious about you
Can you making a video about silent treatment ? Thank you!😊
Hey there! Thanks for the suggestion. I'll keep it in mind for future videos. 😉
@@Fuadtalks Can't wait🙏 I want really understand that from male aspect.
I am a Kenyan in Iraq there’s this iraq guy I met recently and he asked me where I come from if I am married
After two days again he asked me if I am married then I wondered why he asked the same question twice
He asked me if I can marry him
😜he’s actually cute but been thinking because I am a Christian and he is a Muslim
And as well wondering if he is really serious or just playing with my mind
More like these please
Im heart broken i have to leave him
❤ GREAT ADVICE ❤
100% accurate!
For example...there's someone from saudia..even I'm in Kuwait and even I go back in Kuwait..he gave all..he understnd me .he don't angry to me.and he always said to me even I don't go in Saudia because he still love me..he do all for me .and I feel he is serious feeling .
Great to hear that you found someone who cares about you and treats you with love and respect! Thanks for sharing this with us. When it comes to how serious a man is, it's usually best to trust your instincts while being observant. One video cannot cover everything, and many things are subjective, and people interpret things differently. I'm glad you're happy, friend!
I agree 100% with you. Thank you.
I got to know his mom via video call and she said I’m fine and he was happy for it but his father is the main problem who only wants him to marry one of his three cousins he gave him to choose. And we are not talking because he needs time to think about everything… I’m going to reach out. I’m really sad.
Am African lady who has just relationship with oman , he wants to know every detail of myself and he tells me about him and his family , we are still on step of building the foundation but i have this that he may not be serious , so i don't know what to do
Great, this video was made exactly for you! :)
please do a video on if your being scammed by overseas man. ps you are so handsome yourself I hope you are happy!
Hey Diane, thank you for your kind words. I understand your concern about potential scams from overseas men. I am actually working on a video that discusses why some Arab men might be interested in women from the West. I think some of the points in that video may address your concerns, so be sure to check it out when it's released. Thanks again for watching!
I became great friends with an Arab man. He travelled over to my country in Ireland to see me last year. We have kept a great friendship. He knows I have feelings for him but he keeps very quiet about his feelings for me. I’m due to travel over to his country very soon. We also went to Edinburgh together the start of this year.
He has been a lovely gentleman very respectful and never once crossed any boundaries which I love about him. He knows I am a Christian. He rings me three times a week and has done over the last year and a half.
I’m wondering though does he just see me as a friend only or does he have genuine feelings for me? If I try to bring this up he definitely doesn’t give anything away.
Also I was married before and have children which he knows but I’ve been separated for 6 years and just waiting for my divorce to come through.
He has been such a great friend to me but I definitely have fallen in in love him. He knows this but like I said he never says anything. Now I don’t mention my feelings as I don’t want to come across to forward or pushy. Plus I wouldn’t really be like that. X
He's probably not ready but respects you. I had an Egyptian friend too, I loved his eyes and would try to let him know I like but he kept quiet and I respected that. They are nice and decent and will tell you if they want anything like commitment with you, if they don't just see them as that good friend.
If he’s not open and honest after a year I suggest moving on!!
I dated an Egyptian man and he was lovely. He also respectfully kept quiet about his feelings when I would express mine for him. We ended up becoming friends, he was not in a place in his life to commit, at least to me, but he always treated me well, and was honest with me. I will always value the time we had together.
Be aware that according to our Islamic values, we cannot show admiration or express interest or desire to marry a woman if she has not yet officially ended her previous marriage, especially if your friend is religious.
Absolutely 5 signs get it but the problem is he want our relationship will be secret he want us to get merried but secret what will I do sir? I hope you give an advice
Secret marriages aren't valid in Islam, and to be honest, that's a red flag. Both your family and his need to know. A proper marriage includes an announcement and witnesses. So, pay attention to that and avoid unnecessary mistakes.
RUN AS FAR AWAY AS YOU CAN
do one on how to show respect to an arab man since that's not a big thing in the west and it is in the middle east.
Thanks for the suggestion! That's a great topic idea. I'll definitely consider it.
@@Fuadtalks yes please do the "how to show respect to an Arab man"
Please
@Fuadtalks yes I second this request. I am dating an Iranian man and love him. I want to treat him as well as he treats me. I pay close attention to what his likes are and respect his time with friends and family. I have read on his culture and that helps a lot, especially about the importance of family. My family is not close, so that was new for me. He is so great and I am so happy he and I are together 😊
@اdesanson
الايراني ليس عربي وليس مسلم هذا مختلف تماما
Hello I am a new follower from Thailand and I wish I could use this information
Im very sad. I knew all these but i did not do it and now i have problem in love and im sad
S i have idea now😊❤️thank you 🙏💓😊
Darn i needed to know about the one that is open to other cultures and not seriously practicing their religion.
So the only thing u said was they will want to be open to our culture right i already see that
When he adopts your culture, he has chosen the easier path, where he can have everything from you without committing to you with anything.
I just started someone that’s Middle Eastern and I’m latina, he’s older than me. He courted me before asking me to be his girlfriend, he chased me and locked it down fast lol. I didn’t be intimate until we were boyfriend and girlfriend because that’s one of my boundaries. It’s my first time dating a Middle Eastern man so I do want some advice and tips lol I’ve met his coworkers and friends so far😊
I am talking to a Christian arab from Palestine, I am also Christian from Europe. We’re still getting to know each other but I really like the way things are going. Are arab Christians also strict about having sex after marriage ?
Every person is unique, but you can discern a lot by observing him and the way he lives his life
@@Fuadtalks yes I am getting to know more and more about him everyday and wow.. I am from Malta and I never imagined how much similar we actually are.. thank you for replying🙂
@@Pssst.JesusLovesYouI’m Palestinian and we love Malta! Of course we have a lot of similarities even our language. I’m happy to hear of a Palestinian with Maltese such beautiful mixture🥰 I wish you good luck and a beautiful happy future full of blessings🙏
@@Pssst.JesusLovesYouChristians are less strict about this in my opinion and experience. You do find many Christians who stay virgins until marriage, but you find many who don’t because we are human in the end. Our religion tells us that we should save ourselves for marriage and that’s what we grew up hearing and older generations especially are pretty serious about it. That is why if something happens we keep it to our selves. This does not mean that he’s bad or a player or something! Most Palestinian man are very respectful and husband material, I hope yours is one of them🥰
@@mia03-xj6rh We love Palestine too! Such kind and sweet words thank you so much🥰 Yes it’s true so similar we can understand each other sometimes haha! Always in our prayers🙏 God Bless you all.
Why some people never get tired of playing?😢
This is a beautiful video, however, I must disagree. Just like nothing in the world is completely black and white, my experience with a Persian man was not like this. We were cordial, went to dinner, and enjoy time together, and we slept together within the first month. He did not judge me, nor did I judge him. We are now married.❤
Thanks for sharing your personal experience. I'm glad your experience was a positive one. In Arabic, there's a saying that means 'not every time the jug makes it safely to the well.' Just like winning a lottery yesterday doesn't mean you will win it today.
While Persians are different from Arabs, I consider your case to be the exception rather than the norm. The video's advice emphasizes safety measures that don't involve risking your chastity, emotional well-being, and purity. It's about finding out sooner, rather than later, whether a man is serious about you or not.
If you apply this approach, you will see no harm. However, if hypothetically, we consider your experience as a guide, there is more harm than good, and a significant amount of risk at stake. Physical connection should be something sacred and shouldn't be treated casually, like lighting up a cigarette.
Persians are ethnically way different from the (semitic-speaking part of) the Middle East. This Persian man is of a different culture than which Fuad speaks of in this video.
@@Fuadtalksagree.
@@Fuadtalks , I agree with you. Caution is key. time exposes human intentions. if I tell a man no sex until marriage and he throws a fist, then that's a wrap for me. I believe a man who genuinely wanna be with me will respect that. To each its own, I guess.
I met an Algerian Arab guy through an online dating app, then took it to WhatsApp be chatting for a month....the communication has been going on really well, chats and video call everyday .....but am not sure if this is real or it just a phone thing due to where we met. Does he mean it when he says he love me?
Hey there, in the early stages of a relationship, there is usually heightened emotions and excitement which can influence the way someone expresses their feelings. So, it is possible that he means it, and it is possible as well that he likes you more than he loves you, love is subjective and means different things to everyone. So, it could be that the man got caught up in the excitement of a new relationship and said 'I love you' impulsively. What would you do differently if you knew he doesn't mean it? If you would maintain some tiny level of caution, then I don't think that there is harm in that.
@@Fuadtalks Thank you so much
@@FuadtalksI also met an Egyptian man in January on one of the dating sites, I am black from Zambia, we have been video chatting and we communicate well even on WhatsApp, he says he loves me and would want us to be together, I was once blocked and we stayed 3 weeks without communication, thereafter he contacted me that his accounts were hacked and blocked all the friends in his phone. But I am scared that he might be lying to me, is there racism towards black women in Egypt. This man claims to love me very much. Advise me if it's possible our relationship can workout😊
What does it mean then, when uses things like the L Word and things like this. Then when I told him that I do like him, but communication can be better. He says I’m trying to be controlling then blocks me to make the long story short.
Hey there! By the 'L word,' do you mean 'Love'? Without the full context of your situation, it's hard to determine the exact meaning behind his actions. I know that if someone blocks you over a simple statement, it makes you question their emotional maturity. But I don't know the whole story; I assume it is not only because of a single statement, I think there have been ongoing issues before that. I would say the best move is to take a step back and reflect on what you can learn from this experience. Maybe there are some things you can avoid in future relationships. And of course this is if you see that the relationship with this man is beyond repair. Best of luck!
Please feel free to reach out to me via email. I have added it to the channel's about page.
I was dating a Palestinian man, he took me to meet his family and i would stay over at his parents place. Im from New Zealand, i think his parents adopted me lol. I moved home and havent see him again.
Yeah, hospitality of strangers is a must in Arab culture, and from my experience, Palestinians are one of the best Arab nations. But in terms of the man you dealt with, it would have been better if he had communicated with you. Hopefully, you are over it now. And let's also hope that he is not dead or something.
@@Fuadtalks yes over it with only wonderful memories of him and his family. I always feel blessed to have been introduced to that culture.
@@VikkiG1970Hugs girl . It made me feel pride and love to read your beautiful words 🙏🏽🤲🏽❤️🇵🇸
@@Fuadtalksgreat video and thank you 🙏🏽❤️🇵🇸🤲🏽
Yeah .. I wonder where he is now during the war....
Arab men are so beautiful and romantic, wish more of them were genuine in their pursuit.
Ok i started fall in love with my boss in a first sight. Until i confess to him that i like hime but i dont know if he have feelings to me soo what did u advice to me.
When you are a victim of sihir no man will ever be interested in you and they will ALWAYS leave you after treatment I find out I’m a victim since I’m young. Now I’m 28 and have failed. All those rejections I’m even giving up living this life
Don’t say that! Me too & im 36!!! Allah saved you from bad things!!!
Don't give up. You still have a chance.
I met online on a dating app Jordanian-Palestinian guy,he was raised in Jordan but now he moved to The Netherlands.Im from Poland but im half Gypsy.We've be chatting since April everyday.We never see each other in real and via videochatts(i dont like videocalling🙄) but we change our photos.He says he is okay with it😅.when i go outside he gets mad at me 🙄 we as gypsies we have similar cultural rules to you ,when i told him that i think he liked me more😅.He doesnt practice Islam in the netherlands and he said if we marry maybe i will change my mind and change my religion to Islam.He calls me Habibi all the time i told him i dont like it 🙄 but he does it all the time..he plans to live with me when i come to Holland,to marry me and have a baby (onced he had a situation in NL one girl wanted to help him for money by having a baby with him for his longer stay in that country because he doesnt want to get back to Jordan).He says me he loves me ,he wants to create his future with me he says he doesnt want me for documents and when he sometimes misunderstand me he says i broke his feelings 🙄Do you think is it a red flag for me? Im confused bc if i meet him in real i dont want to be used for his stay in the netherlands 🙄🤷🏽♀️ how do you see it?
I understand your concerns. I suggest you give yourself some time to understand the man's real character. If it is marriage, I think it would be good. Just make sure it is not merely a rush of blood and words coming out of excitement. You could ask him about his family's involvement in the marriage, whether they would know about it if it happens, and overall, see realistically if he is genuine about what he says he wants with you.
Ultimately, I don't suggest going to a foreign country to meet a man you have never met in person. If he comes to your country, it is better; this way, you won't feel pressured to do things you didn't plan to do. At the end of the day, everything will depend on you and what you are willing to allow. It is less likely for a man to play or use you if you require a certain amount of commitment from him. So, it will greatly depend on your motives and what you were looking for before you met him on this App.
Hi Fuad..
I have a question regarding to your suggestion to pull back when it's needed. But if the woman is hard to get, in what point will the man give up and leave her? Thank you.
Hi, I spoke about this in another video, I think it was in the "player test" video. Basically, when you pull back, you do communicate to the man what are your aspirations from the connection you both have, if he's serious, he will take what you say seriously, if he's not, he'll move on.
I see. Thank you for your answer. :)
One day when i got praying suit package and meet up with his parents. ❤
I'm dating a Man from morocco .... right now I'm having issues with the no intimacy thing.... I respect him and his beliefs ... also tho I'm having an issue when he tells me he doesn't want to discuss things because he already prayed to Allah about it so leave it alone.... I feel like he's blowing me off
Hey Fuad, I'm just curious about something... I've been talking to a guy and he's a very busy and hard working guy. But he updates me A LOT, going out, going to his friends, and even when he's at a vacation. Can that be considered as a sign?🤔 + I've been applying the tips you have said in your past videos. He seems more caring about me now.
What if a man hasnt added you on wats app and chats oj snapchat and said he has a ex eho he brikebuo with 3 weeks ago due to lot of jeolousy and over behaviour but is trying to get too close and intomate and you met on dating app after 2 dates and no intimacy he suddenly doesnt reapond to snap as he said he travels in gvc for work would you believe it ?
Can't tell if what he claims is true or not. However, if what you want out of this relationship is marriage/ serious relationship, then you better take things slow with him, especially if he is Arab.
My friend is Arab and fro Syria. He dont want to marry non muslim. Im christian nut i brluwve we both God loving People. I want to Lear to be muslim too . He saggest that is very good
I think it's awesome that you're open to learning more. While I'm not a scholar in Islam, if you need any pointers, let me know. I'm here to help!
Just piece of advise dont fall from syrian guy, you will end up with heartbreak, he will still want to end up with his own race and religion.
What if that person told you. 'even if i love you so much I will not force you anything especially love. If you show me no love anymore even if i love you so much i will not pursue my feelings
That's a sign of maturity. I can love you deeply, but I understand very well that love can't be negotiated. My emotions and feelings are irrelevant and mean nothing when they are not mutual. So, the battle will be between me and my emotions, and even if you remain in my mind forever, I will let you go.
I met a middle eastern man . I love him . 😊 he coming to USA . He is Egyptian Z sex
Don’t forget he will happily tell you that he can have 4 wife’s, and he’ll happily marry another, then another, then another, lol
Na thats not true. 🤣
Were you happy or sad when you wrote this comment?
افضل من رجل يخبرك بانه سوف يتخذ عشر عشيقات ثم كل سنة عشر عشيقات جديدات
My bf is Palestinian. He is very sweet checks innon me multiple times a day, alqays open with me about what he feels about me, that he only want me and all that. He really wants me to get pregnant😂 and he's brought up marriage a couplenof times. Im not allowed to go out with full make up on, thats unacceptable according ro himselves.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 At not allowed to go with full makeup on. He sounds like a caring dictator. That will make me think carefully about whether I want to be with this person or not and talk less about having a child with them.
Hr wants you to get pregnant!! and you can't wear makeup outside !! 😢😢😢be very careful for what you wish for!! 😢😢😢😢
My jordian fiance explained to me arab jealous isn't like normal jealousy do I had to research this concept. I starting to feel it was possessiveness or controlling
:D yea xd I m too jealous to idk why AHHHHH
Not really it's just jealous cuz u has only heart
It’s Karama, they don’t want to lose face and protect your and his dignity by all what he can do
I really miss someone
Seriously Question as an American and African American Woman...What type of women does Middle Eastern Men prefer/like? I'm talking ethnicity/race, height, weight, age, skin tone, etc.
P.S. Any Arab/Middle Eastern Men can answer these. Thanks In Advance.
It depends middle eastern men prefer european or asian while you would see North Africa men more with white and black women but that doesn't apply on every arab men but every arab men want a shorter wife than him race and color IS not a thing since arab men Come in diffrent colors and features
Usually white Slavic women. Lebanese Arab here. You like Lebanese food?
So Gentelmans ❤
Yeah right
can you please advice me, my bf is an egyptian christian man, we met in an app 2 months ago, we've never had seen each other and only communicating online..
is an arab man can be loyal bout what his saying, in his 30ish years in life he doesn't experience having a gf or sleeping with any women due to him being workaholic..
so when he first saw my photo he immendiately message me and starts communicating until 2 months of wooing we became a couple..
is it possible that their such a kind of a man like him being no experience cous i'm having doubts about him and he said that he can't wait to fly over to my country just to see me ,this will be our first meet up..
i dont know if his intentions are true but atill i do truat him..
please do enlighten me on this before i get so deep into him, thank you and godbless
Everything is possible, it's not uncommon to find a man in his 30s in the Arab world who's still a virgin. So, I'd say, first figure out what you want from him and the relationship, then talk it out with him.
Take things slowly, as I mentioned in the video, until you see that his actions match his words.
All the best! 🙏
Which app did you meet him on?
All your videos should be taught at school to girls from their teenage years. If you existed 20 years ago my life would be so much easier now.
Thank you for the compliment! Don't worry, life isn't always complicated. Things do get better, and after hardship, there is always ease.
Is it true that theres too much racism in Egypt? Can an Egyptian man genuinely love a black woman from africa? How do they treat their women ?
You know, there's racism even among Arabs themselves. It's kind of sad, but it's there. And if you've traveled around, you'd see that racism exists in almost every corner of the world, just in different amounts. I can't say there's no racism in Muslim communities because there is. But Islam actually speaks out against it. Real Muslims get that there's no difference between someone who's white, brown, or black.
I have many friends married to Egyptians dont fear
Manny Egyptians are also very dark skin, specialy more south there is racism all over the world, they should not treat darker skin people differently if they remember the importance of Bilal
I have a boyfriend in Saudi 2 yrs ago he want me to come in Saudi Arabia to stay with him my papers is ready to go in suadi but i refuse i don't know why he is already married
Unmarried couples are not supposed to stay together in KSA. Never heard of a boyfriend in Muslim culture. Married a Saudi but it’s a lot of paperwork.
You better do your research.
I have a Saudi boyfriend too and he’s back in Saudi at the moment with his family. We’ve been together two years now. I’d say he’s serious but I do fear he hides me a bit.
Im got palestinian man care me so much event im staying in singapore
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I love Egyptian men
Looking for one tbh
They will be the one to find you 🙏
I met an Egyptian man we talk everyday but he hasn't introduced me to his family... and he wants me to convert to islam.. what do i do
If he wants you to revert to Islam, it's a good sign.
If you're a non- believer, he cannot have anything with you.
It is very nice that you converted to Islam
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how to win a arab mens heart is it by looking beautiful and becoming fair like skin lightening treatment?pls let me know lately i would love a arab guy for myself 😊
Be formal with him when talking because appearances don't help you at all, and respect his culture, customs and traditions. He will be drawn to you.
Hi can i ask, if this arab man love in you whe he always follow you when we are you go, and he always observed when i'm cooking, he always taste the food that i cooked, and he is verry protective
Please find me one❤
Chat he is very serious about me. :3 (i won in life)
Bt are there Arabia men who love black women coz I don't think so❤❤❤
Of course there is.
Hello,new subscriber here ..nice video and thank you for this video ..maybe it can help on me ..from philippines
Hey hey hey, welcome to our little corner of the internet. Glad you enjoyed the vid :)
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He wait me almost a year to go in Saudia..so that even I have a contract in Kuwait .I broke that because of him..I feel he is serious what his feeling..and he protect me so much...
His a Saudi man .I hope so...I feel he's true his feeling..almost a year he's waiting for me
Serious the first 2 weeks. No, thanks.
This is true. My ex Omar Majeeb 😅..
This video is clearly aimed at non Arab , western women 😂
You're right
I have another one for Arabs though