Monk's Message For Heartbroken Men & Women - Spiritual Aspect Of Break Ups
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For the past few years, I have been keenly interested in the world of Spiritualism which has led me to connect with some great minds. This episode is with one of those great minds, Palga Rinpoche who helped me learn about meditation, mantras, and spirituality.
Chokyong Palga Rinpoche was born in a small village in Ladakh and was recognized as the reincarnation of the Chokyong Palga line of tulkus. He entered into the monkhood at a very young age and later on left the monkhood to pursue money-oriented goals in Europe. He soon found the worthlessness of the material world and went back to monkhood and continued his journey thereafter.
In this episode, we touched on a lot of spiritual topics such as Tara Maa and the significance of Maa in our lives, the reality of Mount Kailash, Relationships, and much more.
Episodes like these give me a lot of joy because I'm able to give out precious knowledge to my audience. I hope you enjoy this episode and learn the spiritual aspects that are there in all of our lives. Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments!
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Ranveer has not forgotten that girl completely. He tries spirituality to forget her. But only time heals it 👍
Really he somewhat tries to justify his deeds and past deeds
It's a case like obsession.
Who is that girl?
@@soumojeetdas9736 I am f girl.
One day Ranveer just thanks to that girl ,becoz of her he choose spiritual path ....and spirituality is path of Nirvana 🙏
It's very hard to find a spiritual partner these days. Nobody stays. People change like seasons. And that's so heartbreaking. 💔
You are right
Very true. Same here.
True why people do this don't know after living with 8 years
A heartbroken soul is the prerequisite for a spiritual practice. Remember, Buddha abandoned all his possessions after witnessing a few unpleasant things.
@@Songtsen-Gampo so true
Trust the process of Life. If God took something from you even if you were so much in love is because somewhere your mind attachment was higher than the other person's mind connection for you. You put more into something you don't deserve. You deserve more. And God knows this. So trust the process of Life. Stop feeling guilty. Everything has happened for a reason. Just Smile in Gods name. Now you have yourself completely. Embrace it. Grow. ❤🎉 Love yourself. People will Love you. ❤ i love you my friend.
Nhi re , humari generation ko toh sirf explore krna h ,
Being characterless is seen today as something cool
Im proud of Ranveer! Many of us have had a bad past when it comes to relationship. Ranveer has a platform to express himself and find answers to questions that some of us are seeking (both, those who have been heart broken and those who have broken hearts). Go Ranveer! You are our voice
And his point about 'her' friends is also relatable. Most of us have major hatred towards 'her' friends who may have influenced her. I think forgiving them would have been a major challenge
Shi kha paaji🔥🔥🔥
@@jaijoshi27💯
Spiritual people never fall for people so easily, its very hard for them to fall for anyone, but in the case of Ranveer (after listening to his stories of multiple breakups) he's still at the infancy stage of spirituality, he has so much go ....
I read somewhere that because of a heartbreak, our heart physically breaks literally, in the sense that the heart literally aches physiologically - and that's very true.
Ya i thin sidhhant agnihotry sir told it once
Yes I have experienced it
It literally burns
People really don't realize how much pain they inflict upon others when they break up despite the other person's endless efforts
Happened to me and happening to others
It's like it has become a norm or something
I was told that if I love him then it's my own problem but whenever he needs me in bed everything used to become matter of love
Exactly bro, people think it as a joke nowadays
This video has awaken the sense of my spiritual side and the meaning of having a true relationship.
Yes, where there is attachment is no love.😊
The very first way to build a long lasting relationship is to become friends.😊
And, we suffers because of our past life karma.
But, we will all heal one day...!!🤟😁
If u are a good peraon than congratulation ....u have many breakup...😂😂
Dont no allbout past live karma but your are point js right tho
Ranveer has a hard time letting go. So do I, and so do most of us... Sometimes the scars stay even after a long period of time. But you will be alright my friend. By gods grace every sorrow will pass away and then one day in the future u ll remember these days and will have a laugh. Some memories will be sweet some will be bitter but without these memories you won't have experiences and without the experiences you won't be YOU. Remember everyone is sent in ur life for a purpose. Nothing is accidental. In the end they come to teach us something and they may become the reason what we become in the Future that's YOU.
How much time did it take for you to move on? It's been 4 months and I'm still standing at the same place where my ex girlfriend of 4 years left me 😢
@@LoneWolf-sl6uv it takes a lifetime for me to even move on from a couple of months relationship.
6 months and counting... she leftme but it was so impactful that led me to do things that made my other relationships toxic
And because of her I did things I shouldn't have and some other very very close friends and people left me too
It's like the overwhelming pain she gave me the pain I couldn't control or what I felt just got out of me and I gave it to others around me
Dear friends
Do not get disheartened you are becoming strong from within nothing is permanent realise this people will hurt you get attached to nature it will heal you love yourself 😊
Actually it's true I am heart broken now Attached to a wrong person then That person cheat me with my best friend it's more than 4 months but still not able to move on feeling lost inside they both make me feel this but I believe in God may every scar heals ! One Day
Every relation comes with a lesson . We attract relation based on the energy we Send out . When people come in our life it’s an opportunity to learn . There’s always some hidden flaws about us that the relation projects and we need to learn it . If we learn the lesson and accept the lesson it is trying to provide the relation will be good but if we ignore the lesson and try to manage the other person , it leads to disappointment . And then the other person comes again with the same lesson and same opportunity to change and the pattern continue until we change our flaws .
I think we should accept the person as he or she is and not expect things from them because we can’t change a whole individual entity . That person has a differnt purpose in life , differnt upbringing , differnt experiences and we cannot ever force change . It’s better to trust the divine timing and learn the lesson which every relation holds within . It’s an opportunity to grow . 😅 instead of managing the other we should enhance our life and our way of being .
@@atuldwivedi3959 ??
Bravo 👏👏 well said girl. The important thing here to notice and remember is to be aware of the energy one sends out. Energy has got no bad or good tag attached to it. What ever one sends it reflects the same... Thou we call it divinity in motion, but actually it's all within us and what we seek from this world. Things will happen even if one aspires subconsciously. Nature doesn't decide what is good or bad for us. It's us who have to do it for ourselves...all that nature does is to grant all that we seek in its capacity irrespective of the character of our want. That's why the term UNCONDITIONAL goes synonymous with NATURE.
@mahadev bro I tend to contradict with your version, it's not us I guess it's the nature who decides what kind of person we are, the gunas are in nature, if someone is not good in academics and he want to learn and read but still his mind doesn't let him and he wishes I should be good in academics n all but still he doesn't, so instead we put on ourself about the kind of person we are rather we put it like we know our shortfalls and we try to correct and its upto time or nature to decide, also people who speak negatives are lot more happy n content than people who always speak positive but its upto us what we want and how we want to grow, inner realisation of flaws and working on it is real growth. If one wishes and nature gives ( in whatever amount ) thn I guess the would b less suicides and lot less ppl sleep hungry..
Nature only gives what we deserve and what nature want us to have, our role is simply the path we choose, tht defines the sustainability of the gift nature gives
@@aanshulgoyal indeed I agree with you gentleman. But everything you mentioned has to do with the past karma. Besides the karmic influence a being is also given some space of independence. Now in that space whatever sort of the energy one sends out is intact reflected. If it's all the good things that has to happen and that's all what nature gives then this planet is no more Earth, should be called a heaven! For instance a prayer as such is done by a doctor before he attempts to do a surgery and also a murderer who attempts to kill some one who he desires to for his own reasons...now both the prayers are considered by the nature when prayed with such intensity. Nature Is not a care taker or conscience keeper for the mankind my friend, it's just a mere mirror which reflects.
@@MahadevShivoham-gy1kj true that bro, conscious karma is the freedom we have and the act do send out the energy that attracts like energy
"Atleast you can fall back on friendship if any turbulence in relationship happens...."
Thank you so much for this particular show. The monk's words are so enlightening .
Whenever I see Ranveer bhaiya is also facing this …I just feel I’m not the only one …when such mature person with such level of intellect can be rejected..then I’m not the only one who is in this worse phase ….love you ranveer bhaiya ❤❤❤
Don’t worry Palga, you made space for new people to come.
I swear, people we grow up with are really random. It don’t give space to grow up as individual, we become similar. As you detach, you find your hub. Social media shows it works
Rightly said by the monk. Solid practical wisdom indeed. People come into our lives and give us joy/suffering as a consequence of our individual and mutual karma. One should avoid attachment and focus on loving all unselfishly, unconditionally and without any expectations.
Thank you so much ranveer for sharing your story and also big thanks to the Honourable monk who taught us to be detachef .This video really made me realize the value of detachment and peace .Thabks for the mantra .Thnks ranveer
This is so deep.. I should have heard this beautiful explanation many years ago
Loving without getting attached is not that easy. It will be best if we got the idea on how to love without attachment❤
With proper meditation after a certain time people are able to detach not to get entangled in anything
True bro
True bro
Agree....speaking of one's heart...
"You can give without loving, but you can never love without giving"
Oh my dumb friend loving someone cannot be performed without attachment 🤦
So thankful to this episode literally going through attachment issues
Yes we all have that one person we can't forget for life 😊.
I really needed this video ❤ thank you 2 both of them and Universe 💜
+1
Beautiful message 😇
Makes sense.
Love but don't be attached is the key.
And be friends first.
this is a very genuine and helpful discussion which potrays the situations that we face everyday.
Explained soooo beautifully ❤
I needed it right now.Thanks Ranveer❤💫🙏
Just as we enjoy the loving phase it’s also good to go through all the emotions involved after break up, understand ourselves and use spiritual path to heal. Every person takes their own healing time. And that’s absolutely ok and talking about it is also normal, it’s ok to cry. Give your body and mind what they want. Every wound teaches us something. Time will come and things will be back and better. Sending love and happiness Ranveer and many others going through this phase. Be gentle and kind to yourself.
😢
I was feeling very low and anxious from last 2 days, today when I woke up I skipped my work and took a leave because my body and mind both were tired even after 6-7 hrs of sleep. After reading your comment I felt a little better I don’t know for how long I am gonna feel this relief but for now I am a little fine. Thank you❤
@@vidhitaneja8250 hang in there dear. Things will be fine. Please keep divine in mind. Reminding ourselves that Bhairav ji is the doer, removes so much anxiety. Chant your Ishta devta. 🙏🙏.
@@vidhitaneja8250it has been one months going through panic attacks ...and it fluctuates some times I become happy and the other times I cry like hell mesmerizing those past memories..and the morning times is the worst part of the day ..i started running here and there to keep busy my mind but it sticks to that memories...deep inside I am very very sad. .I don't know when this will get heal ..I try to talk unknown people I try watching spiritual things ...but the realaxation I get is from after crying so hard only. ...it's so pathetic phase ...I know lord Krishna will heal everything ..but when 😔😔
Thank you! 🙏✨
The video is so helpful for me❤, thank you so much Ranveer and Monk g🙏💗
People only stay with you until they find a better option. And breakups really are the reality checks about how cruel the life is.
I think i needed to hear this. Found this video randomly but it best suits my situation
So beautifully explained ..❤
Thank you puja Didi really thank you I never felt such positive Energy in me ... This was really really helpful:)
Thanks for this video Ranveer ❤
Thank you for this video Ranveer Sir ❤🙏
I get a really good aura from this Monk.
Wonderful 🌸🙏 thank you
No one is better than yourself ❤
Love your own life ❤
When one says wow!! Definitely remember’s his ❤
I am going through this . Constantly humiliated by people where they rip off my soul like something .
*SO MUCH WISE WORDS WOW*
Yes rimpochee la well said. Great inspirational and inspired. Clear cut.
Loved someone very much and trusted way beyond I could. Ended up getting cheated! Other person did not even had the courage to tell the truth before going. I was pinned down for the blame, and other person went and blocked never to be seen again. I came to know a lot later about what really was happening and how I was being cheated everyday. Can’t forget and cannot move on. Trying since last so many months but it comes haunting automatically at random times of the day. Exactly my thought why fell in love with wrong person that u break all your boundaries to be with other and even trust so much that u go blind.
That's sad..... How are you now? Do you feel any better?
And if you don't mind me asking... 😅how old are you?
Listen, brother...
Your girlfriend cheated upon you. She cheated on you either because he was rich or because he was charming.
I am sure you have never gone for any advanced meditation things just as parmahamsa yogananda's or Sri Sri Ravi shankar's art of living or prem rawat's aatma Gyan prachar sangh, etc. Go for any one and follow what you learned for at least 2-3 months. I bet moving on with be very very easy... You won't feel a bit of pain... From the first 3-4 days of their technique itself, you will feel far better...
1000s of people going through suicidal tendencies have become normal within a swap of fingers.
Also, these techniques will help you become best version of yourself. Your ex will cheat upon her bf to come to you and you will be detached enough to tell her to go back😂😂.
You can also read bhagwad Geeta. It will add up to whatever you are practicing.
Trust me. I can describe how well it has worked for me.
@@serialroaster3968 25 yrs bro. Still feel the same. I don’t know why not feeling good
@@serialroaster3968 thankyou so much. Will follow the same. Any useful resource or anything for what type of advanced meditation to follow kf sri sri or yogananda since there are many
O God !my thoughts are the same for the relationship and about humanity
I 100% agree people don't know how to treat people
I can sense that coz of this dating application
People tend to keep things casual and looking for better options again n again
Only one argument and you switch to the different person
That's not the love
Love is
You accept each other in every way and still not giveup from each other
Exactly my dear, now people are jumping to another after a breakup via this so called dating app 😅 miserable 😅 mene kisiko smjhane ki kosis ki thi, mujhe he bura & judgemental bana diya 😅
If people are toxic you can’t hang on to clean up their shit all the time. You have to love yourself enough and walk away. Thats love. You cant waste years on someone who has abused your wellbeing (emotional, spiritual, mental or physical).
True..True love doesn't focus on flaws..they both embrace each others flaws and never give up on each other.Tge thought of breaking up or ending the relationship clearly signifies there isn't love..hard to accept but true.And by the way getting detached if there's toxicity is whole another story..I think all this is the perfect karma cycle planned by God.
So true, I loved ppl a lot ! I love helping them , be in their tough times but slowly they outgrow on my efforts . Disrespect is just like my bff now, ultimately forcing me to change my habit of helping
Ranveer! Thankyou for this. ❤
❤ this is wht i needed the most .
Rinpoche is doing a great service to the whole humanity
Beautiful questions by Ranveer ! Beautiful helpful suggestions by guest esp at 8:10 onwards. I will give it a try. Thank you both🙏
Loving without getting attached ❤🙌
Those who are going through a break up. I suggest praying to kamakya. Coz I am a Shakti bhakt. This form of Devi worked well and calmed my mind. I consider this msg as a msg from ma kamakhya for people in need.
Reason is she is kameswari, hrydaya devi. Jai ma kamakhya
i heal just listening to this guest. loved it honeslty💞
Very nicely he explained. Don't get too attached to anything.
People nowadays takes Relationship,trust,standing by words ,loyalty & respect for granted, and hurt is permanent..
its true the frenship should be the basics of the relationship
I wanna say one thing that ur podcast base on genuine talking which inspires us
I love the way ranveer literally listens so carefully.. his face is sooo focused. lol Im so grateful for his channel. he really is doing such a great job awakening the youth of India
Lmao thoda tharak kam karlo , fir spiritual ban jaogii
@@jaylogu5675 which part of that paragraph had “tharak”? Apna soch badale.. bohot aage jaoge ✌️
Like it is the monk saying the words and you are appreciating ranveer for listening? 🤣🤣 the monk needed to have biceps and look fair then you would have complimented him
@@jaylogu5675 hahahaha the monk has biceps and he is fair too. There’s no point conversations with you. You make no sense!👋
@@Soniworld Sorry was just feeling low and insecure why women always go for good looking men
Ranveer i just waned to say i love it how you make him elaborate more about it ❤
Thank you for that women women ❤️
Thank you Rinpoche ❤😊
Very nice discourse.
Everything is energy and love is the pureset energy of this entire universe...attachment, desires,fulfillment etc etc we put into relationship now days this is all we carry low vibration energy if we put these energies into the energy of pure Love Then it is not Love it is something very low energy we carry inside and it reflects outside.
Really nice topic nd thank you sir❤
Ranveer looks much mature, calm, and receiving 😇 in this video 👍🏻
I was wondering why you are looking so drained out! Got the answer. Lots of love and blessings
Those swollen eyes of Ranveer I can completely relate brother!!
Perfect ❤ what a questions renveer👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
Totally agree on all what the Monk explained spiritually speaking about. We are spiritual beings anyway living on a human journey paying our karmic debts
I think a man has answers of its questions about pain and sorrow he is going through, but he himself don't want to accept the answer.
Thank you 🙏
So profound and beautiful
When you r stop searching fr right person ,the actually right person will find your naturally. .
@Ranvir, that girl came in your life in the form of tara. 🙏🏻 love you ranvir . Get heal. Sending you hugs.
Only time can heal❤ Self experience
Kya mujhe use janmfin wish krna chahiye
Thank you Rinpoche 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
This is my first-ever comment and this is for u Ranveer I think u meet the wrong people everytime just don't be in a hurry to be with someone u will always end choosing the wrong one
Superb video..keep it up ranvir
The Wisdom These 10 Minutes Lite Up On My Mind... Truly Amazing
Absolutely right
M going through this phase nd n sure that I have payed that karmic debt with him... ryt now i feel sorry for myself and him too and wishing well for him... hope he grows ❤🌈
Same here...😢😢
Same stories all over
Wow.. Namami bhante🙏🙏🙏🙏
7:22 did exactly the same, Loved on the basis of trust and loyality. Always kept the thpught process of giving. BUT in the end it doesn't even matter, got cheated on after 2 years, even after that tried stabilizing our relationship , somehow carried it for 3 more years and eventually ended in breakup.
So i guess it not only depends upon what you do but more on what karmic balance is.
agreed
True 💯
Very intelligent question - Why does god send us wrong people. Answer : Hokum. Therein lies the cruz of desire/attraction which atleast Indian parents shy away from sharing with their kids. What manifests as desire/attraction for someone is personal. In case the desire is reciprocated then most likely it is the inability to tap/perceive into the unsaid that causes most amount of friction. If your partner can't look you at you holistically and just you without getting society into their understanding about you, not sure if they are the one.
No women no money no luxury can give u happiness, its only you who is the owner of you, your responsibility to keep yourself happy, even if slapped or beaten up never feel low, its only society who taught us yo feel low as we were at receiving end, but our body learned how to fight and how to manage situation, everyone is not elon musk and everyone is not osama, we r different and best as we r...
Ego is only enemy of every human being.
amazing 👏🏻
Spirituality is the only solution for any suffering of life.... Ranveer I would request to bring Sister BK Shivani of Brahmakumaris in TRS
True torn broken stuff not disposed
Love without attachment is just like a just like body without soul....without soul life is meaningless...still ❤❤❤to your session
Understand first the deeper meanings, relate them, feel them. ❤
Wonderful Absolutely Wonderful 🥰😌😌🥰🥰 doing Sadhana and Kriya together 👑👑 Fantastic!
Yoga Yoga 💛🌺
Keep everything aside but that sir monk is jacked 🔥.
I can feel it bcoz after 8 years of relationship, i found him cheating on me. No word can explain the pain 😔
jalan hui ??
sabko hoti h beer pee daba ke
@@lol_manuTu na bilkul funny 🤣 hai bhai...
I understand your pain don't find me wrong laughing at some random persons reply to you just laughing at the way he sounds..I hope everything heals in your life and you could feel better and find your way back to the old you that you were before but with that great learnings
Ranveer is still missing her😊
After years of all the trust and love, why some get back only manipulation, insult, betrayal
1:20 truest words haven't been spoken!
Om maane padme hom .
Wow 🔥
How amazing it is people changes according to there priorities....Just broke up with the girl after 5 years of long relationship........ people changes like season🥺🥺🥺
Wherever they go they wants a partner..... to bhai aisa tha to humko 5 saal tk q ghumaya..
Main apne Bhai Behno ko yahi kehna chahta hu bhai chodd ne phle talk with your partner about issues ur facing.... Aise suddenly choddke jane boht gehra sadma lgtaaa hai.....
I request her the same but she doesn't even listen to me and my feelings...
Forgetting the memories we share for 5 years is damn hard and challenging😞😞
Yeah I think that proper closure before break up plays a crucial role for the other to move on..but I don't know why that people who wanted to break the relationship never cares about that closure just forgetting about all the memories,feelings ,love and all that they shared before..:(
Someone somewhere ditches you for their own benefits . It’s just their personality, just thank god that this particular person is not your life partner, otherwise the pain you share after marriage is worst. Pray to god for their well being , forgive them. Sometimes we have to forgive others even without proper apology
Don't have any words ..just crying,and torturing myself for whom ,,who left me after 4 years of relationship for his family.. don't know how to heal but hopes that that period will end in near futurer .just praying to Krishna ,make me feel good
😢 please
Listen aachaya parsant n connect to god he/she will heal u
3:18 deep 😔
Bro that's exactly what just happened to me! My girlfriend broke up with me about negative influences from her friends. This is crazy I found your video