@@akashcrazyboy Exactly bro, Suppose U r facing an enemy nation's army, invaders or maybe internal insurgents. Whom do you prefer to fight so to win, so to survive the fight, protect all those dear to you and maintain ur honour :- 1. Hard & strong, dominant, stoic (emotionless), focused, solid, logical, objective, masculine men 💪🏻🤛🏻🤜🏻?? OR ; 2. Emotional, soft, vulnerable, complaining this & that, readable (non-stoic) cringe, sobbing, watery eyes, sad, sleeping with his mom, crying men cum soldiers 🤡👽🤪 ..... and virtue-signalling all - "Men - it's Ok to cry, it's Ok to be emotional" ?? I would blindfold choose no. 2 as my enemy, invading army - to facewith !! 😆😁😄😁😆 P.S. Whatever Sigmund Freud and his students said are basic theories, anecdotal evidence, indivigual root-cause analysis & hypothesis of 1900s. They r no scientific laws, they aren't any Gospel Truth, are mere bubbles in the oceans of human psychology and open to be outrightly rejected, replaced, negated, criticized, scrutinized and questioned.
Seriously man, The way he is explaining such a big thing with huge maturity which won't hurt anyone's emotions in simple manner and with huge practicality and perspective is really great
I guess you should elaborate this a little as Vikas sir said ki Maa ki nazro ke saamne uska beta na guzre balki bete ki nazro ke aage Maa guzre of course ek achchi lambi, khushi wali aur healthy life jee kar.
मैंने अपनी जिंदगी में कोई ऐसा टीचर नहीं देखा जो इतनी सहजता से इतनी गहराई से इतने सटीक एग्जांपल के साथ अपनी बात को इतनी सहजता के साथ रख पाए और साथ में ज्ञान का असीम सागर
विकास सर ने पुरुषो को लेकर, उनकी भावनाओं को लेकर जो कुछ भी बाते बताई है ये सब मेरे साथ भी होता है... हम रो नही पाते हैं अपनी भावनाएं किसी से भी जाहिर नही कर पाते हैं दुःख में या फिर गंभीर परिस्थितियों मे हमे हंसी आ जाती है... समझ ही नही आता कि क्या करे क्या कहे😊
I only started crying when I was clinically depressed. Being Angry or Cynical was causing a lot of stress in my relationship within family, parents, wife, kids. It wasn't healthy, it wasn't getting any better. The outcome of anger or spite would make you feel awful about yourself. Guilt creeps in and fuels the depression even more. Only after therapy, I diverted that expression into crying, I felt so much better. Crying is a miracle treatment. Men should try it.
@@abhishekrawat4630 kuch nhi Kiya but tere jase chutiyon ko kya Diya divyakirtu ne bas bhashan suno fees do aur nhi hua to ghar betho. Hahahha sale adhi janta ko to loot liya h in logo ne
In today's world never ever get emotional in front of everyone... people will use this against you! Don't trust anyone! Never cry Never ever ! This is Kalyug..🙏🏻
For a change I taught my son to cry out his stress, sadness, anxiety...even happiness. He is 25yrs n practice this crying healing n move on I life. Males have full rite to cry as human beings. ❤
Vikas sir ke bolne ka tareeka excellent lagata hai mujhe ....❤ sir bilkul real life examples dete hai hamesha jo mujhe bahut aachaa lagata hai ....❤ sir aap jaise human se milna mera ek sapna hai ab patani aapse mai mil paunga ya nhi because sir aapse agar mai real life se related kisi topic par baat kru to I think ki aap mujhe bahut aache se explain kroge I 100% believe you sir ❤😊👏👏👏👏... Jai Hind sir 🫡🙏❤️🇮🇳
I went through same when I lost my mom. I thought I am a guy who won't be that affected on my mom's death. But first two days I blanked out. And it's very difficult to fit in this world again. This reaction of mine suprised me alot
Sometimes when u become emotional at home and feel for ur family and tears roll out still the word comes ki ye dekho emotional ho gaya ladkiyon jaisa when this is the condition at home then we only find our friends to share our feelings😢
Exactly. If you wanna cry, cry somewhere nobody's watching you and make sure your emotions don't leak in front of others. Being vulnerable in front of others is one of the biggest risks you can take. Becoz you never know when you're vulnerabilities will be used against you. Be mentally strong, and reserved. Don't be emotionally distant, but at the same time don't be emotionally vulnerable.
Vikas Sir is a great educator and has real knowledge n experience of life..More such concepts of society should be touched with Sir thru poacasts.. There is lot to learn from him..
This topic is very much important mostly for young men. The way society expects so much from men yet don’t even care about us. I think men should focus on themselves rather than society. 😢
I don't know about your house but even being a girl after growing little bit we siblings sleep together ; and mother don't have a lot of talk with daughters as well
Crying is NOT a weakness. Cry as much as you have to. Don't be afraid or ashamed to let your tears flow. Crying is a natural part of life. Cry makes you feel better.
Being a female...and not connected to the family emotionally 😔......here's the way of sukoon which is having lot of money, a big house cars and all....and as I have a male partner who is emotionally connected with his loving family....May he have a small house with peace and love in that house with his family❤.........it's just not a male unexpressive ness.....but also female sometimes 🙂
During school time, one of my friends committed suicide, and the rest of us decided to participate in his last rituals. We were filled with sorrow, and one of our friends began recording his cremation video. Suddenly, he stopped recording, and we asked him what happened. He replied, "What if he turned into an evil spirit, and like in the movie '13B,' his way of communicating with me is through this smartphone video?" Surprisingly, we found ourselves laughing at the cremation. The truth is that no matter the circumstances outside, we cannot hold onto sorrowful vibes for long.
Superb!!! I would request you to strongly present guests like this that can highlight the silent suffering that boys and men endure throughout their lives. In the modern era where every female issue is highlighted and exaggerated -- the injustices and oppression that men and boys face remains invisible though so ubiquitous in all cultures.
I am probably alive because I cried a lot in past years alone. Learning about myself and my emotions and being able to handle them and actually take control of it. Rather than pushing and running away from it in the name of being strong, but in reality, you are not even facing it. It helped me to have empathy for myself, which led me to love myself even more, which automatically makes me stronger and keeps you away from a lot of negativity. Now, since couple of months I am a lot less stressed, less mental breakdowns.
@@akworldinfo-m9s lives have been lost because of people like you, people and families have suffered including myself. i am a man and the best thing i have done is knowing my emotions and controlling them and not choose the same destructive path. It has also made me stronger so that i can confront people like you, in reality it's sad that it has to be that way which i don't want to but it is a cruel world and people like you don't care. I'll be crying while i fuck you up, and even after you're dead if it goes that way. There is no other way for people like you.
Nice detailed discreet description about gender equality it's perspectives & emotions.😍 Please keep on streaming and showering such podcasts for a change it's delightful to hear such discussion. ☺️
Mere father bht emotional h , wo Aaj v dada-dadi k liye (Puja m) unko yaad krke baccho ki tarah ro dete h , 2004-5 m mjhe azeeb lgta tha - Mera baap ye kya kr rha h , lekin Aaj papa k sth mjhe v aansu aa jata h .
Ye banda Bohat positive hai inhone jo hur ek baat boli hai Vo hum sabi Ladko ke dil ki baat boldi hai 😢mere baap ki death ho gyi c jab main 4 Saal ka tha Thoda Sa bada huya to mujhe padhayi vgera sab shodna padha ma or shoti behn or shote bhai ke liye phir mujhe kaam karna jeyada jaruri ho gya bache ke kandho par he Samjho boojh daala jaata hai to phir main dubai gya 17 saal ki umar me or phir behn ki shaadi ki bhai ko bhi padhaya or abhi bhai mera Australia 🇦🇺 me hai vahan Bheja usko or Aaj meri umar 28 saal ki hai or filhaal main abhi bhi dubai me he hu 😢😢 bus shaadi b nhi kiya tha kyunki mera pehla pyar tha Vo bhi mere haalaat dekhkar shod gyi thi or shaadi b Karli Usne lekin mera pehla pyar thi main to Aaj bhi use aapna lu ga aagar Aa jaaye yehi soch soch kar Maine shaadi b nhi ki bhi shayid vo Kabhi loot Aaaye 😥😥😥😥 Maine to aapne liye Kabhi Kapdy tak nhi liye dhang ke Aapne baare me to Kabhi Socha he nhi 😢😢 phir b mujhe sab shod kar chale gye 😥😥😥 main punjab Se hu Abhi to mera punjab Jaane ko b dil nhi karta pta nhi kya ho gya hai akela Baitha Paglo ki tarah divaaro ki taraf dekhta rehta hu Lekin Main phir b kisi se baat Nhi Kar Paata Na Aapne Dil Ki Baten Bol skta hu anadr he Andar ghut ghut kar jee Raha Hu or Upar Wale C Poochta Hu Waheguru ji mere sath Aaise Kyu Kiya Maine To Aapni Zindgi bhi daayo Pe Lagaadi sabke liye 😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥
Its not about male or female, its all about their socialisation, past experiences,emotional intelligence ,priorities and value system of that person..... Hyper masculinity is definitely a problem, which we can't disagree..
Masculinity and femininity is not a problem as they are natural. But the problem is people don't understand these terms. I've seen some people say stupid stuff like kindness is a feminine thing. Aggression is a masculine thing. Wheras, good behaviour is a good behaviour for all and bad behaviour is a bad behaviour for all. Our behaviour is controlled by our minds, not our male/female hormones.
@@tulipbubbly3748 Hyper masculinity is toxic and imposed on male children from the beginning.... Mard ko dard nahi hota hai, kind of stuff feeding to them....
@@Dileep_ChampionSuppose U r facing an enemy nation's army, invaders or maybe internal insurgents. Whom do you prefer to fight so to win, so to survive the fight, protect all those dear to you and maintain ur honour :- 1. Hard & strong, dominant, stoic (emotionless), focused, solid, logical, objective, masculine men 💪🏻🤛🏻🤜🏻?? OR ; 2. Emotional, soft, vulnerable, complaining this & that, readable (non-stoic) cringe, sobbing, watery eyes, sad, sleeping with his mom, crying men cum soldiers 🤡👽🤪 ..... and virtue-signalling all - "Men - it's Ok to cry, it's Ok to be emotional" ?? I would blindfold choose no. 2 as my enemy, invading army - to facewith !! 😆😁😄😁😆 P.S. Whatever Sigmund Freud and his students said are basic theories, anecdotal evidence, indivigual root-cause analysis & hypothesis of 1900s. They r no scientific laws, they aren't any Gospel Truth, are mere bubbles in the oceans of human psychology and open to be outrightly rejected, replaced, negated, criticized, scrutinized and questioned.
Most important line Maa ki mrityu ke Baad 1 saal roya 😢😢, m bhi apni beti k Jane k baad kuch 1 saal depression Mein rha, ab bhagwan ne mujhe beti wapas krdi, 🙏 woh bhot dayalu hai
bhai ye video dekh na hi mere liye mental peace sabit hua. vikas sir ne kitna beautifully mens ke mental health ko samzaya h. Muze laga jai se mai kisi psychiatrist se mil aya❤
What an amazing eye-opener.... so true and so realistic... Every Man's story " Mard ko Dard nahi hota" .............Kahe be..... hum log Zinda nahi hai kya ??
Great informative video,I have lost the smile right from my engineering till upsc 6 attempts got exhausted in 2021 not able to come back to track from the hangover
Told the same thought to students other day,, ladka agar roye toh, kya ladki tarah Rita hai... parents should be councelled not to tell such non things to boys...they must hv equal freedom to express their emotions...crying is the best medicine.....
What a flawless explanation of such a complex psychological behaviour , that’s why Vikas Sir is special!
It's flawed at multiple level
@@akashcrazyboybhai explain karoge
@@akashcrazyboy we are living in a absolute flawed world brother 😁
@@akashcrazyboy Exactly bro, Suppose U r facing an enemy nation's army, invaders or maybe internal insurgents. Whom do you prefer to fight so to win, so to survive the fight, protect all those dear to you and maintain ur honour :-
1. Hard & strong, dominant, stoic (emotionless), focused, solid, logical, objective, masculine men 💪🏻🤛🏻🤜🏻??
OR ;
2. Emotional, soft, vulnerable, complaining this & that, readable (non-stoic) cringe, sobbing, watery eyes, sad, sleeping with his mom, crying men cum soldiers 🤡👽🤪 ..... and virtue-signalling all - "Men - it's Ok to cry, it's Ok to be emotional" ??
I would blindfold choose no. 2 as my enemy, invading army - to facewith !! 😆😁😄😁😆
P.S. Whatever Sigmund Freud and his students said are basic theories, anecdotal evidence, indivigual root-cause analysis & hypothesis of 1900s. They r no scientific laws, they aren't any Gospel Truth, are mere bubbles in the oceans of human psychology and open to be outrightly rejected, replaced, negated, criticized, scrutinized and questioned.
the whole world is being run by men across globe....and look up to his anti Man stand !
Seriously man,
The way he is explaining such a big thing with huge maturity which won't hurt anyone's emotions in simple manner and with huge practicality and perspective is really great
Yes, I could understand each and every line he said. It made me cry. ❤
"Beta hi gujare toh accha hai, Maa na gujare toh hi accha hai." @9:50
RESPECT!
Baat bohut sahi kaha heh vikas sir ne
❤
I guess you should elaborate this a little as Vikas sir said ki Maa ki nazro ke saamne uska beta na guzre balki bete ki nazro ke aage Maa guzre of course ek achchi lambi, khushi wali aur healthy life jee kar.
Kaun ho tum kaha se aye....aise nahi kaha hai....ulta kaha hai.....maa ke samne beta na Jaye to accha ....🙏aise
Bhai tu exactly opposite keh Raha hai sir ne Jo kaha uske.
I cried as a mom and sister and a wife for men I have in life. Thanks.😢
He expressed the reality so simply.... Vikas Sir is our practical hero
He is leaving legend
Vikas sir is a very rare breed.
I wish I had a teacher in school like Mr.Vikas Divyakeerti
they are present there you just litsen to them with patients
मैंने अपनी जिंदगी में कोई ऐसा टीचर नहीं देखा जो इतनी सहजता से इतनी गहराई से इतने सटीक एग्जांपल के साथ अपनी बात को इतनी सहजता के साथ रख पाए और साथ में ज्ञान का असीम सागर
विकास सर ने पुरुषो को लेकर, उनकी भावनाओं को लेकर जो कुछ भी बाते बताई है ये सब मेरे साथ भी होता है... हम रो नही पाते हैं अपनी भावनाएं किसी से भी जाहिर नही कर पाते हैं दुःख में या फिर गंभीर परिस्थितियों मे हमे हंसी आ जाती है... समझ ही नही आता कि क्या करे क्या कहे😊
Im crying rn , this man actually expressed everything which is needed , I hope my was like him or atleast my mother
The way he explains things is too good. Just love it.
he is one of the wise men we have in india
Bond among brothers are harder than 💎, they will never leave how bad the situation gets
This is the Greatest video not only about the motivation but also to every Students and Working men in their life to understand everyone's situation.
Please Please Please More Videos with Vikas Divyakirti Sir..❤❤❤love the way he explains ..and his angle of looking at situations
Thanks for bringing such a learned person to your show. He is an inspiration to millions and influencing lives of millions of students.
This video is the complete package of boys emotional condition.... everybody should see this video atleast one time to understand their conditions
Dr. Vikas Divyakriti Sir is really such a respectable personality 😊😊❤❤
I only started crying when I was clinically depressed. Being Angry or Cynical was causing a lot of stress in my relationship within family, parents, wife, kids. It wasn't healthy, it wasn't getting any better. The outcome of anger or spite would make you feel awful about yourself. Guilt creeps in and fuels the depression even more.
Only after therapy, I diverted that expression into crying, I felt so much better.
Crying is a miracle treatment. Men should try it.
Vikash sir is legend❤
Vikas Divyakirti sir is not just a Guru to his students but for a lot of us and we’re just so glad to have him!!✨
Yes
What has he done. He is a businessman playing with the emotion of youth and earning crores of money.
@@sumitmanhas2151gadhe ho tm...tmhre pass sochne samjhne ki shakti nhi hai kya...tmne kya kiya society ke liye ya tmhre pitaji ne kya kiya
@@sumitmanhas2151 does not matter what he is doing as long as he is adding meaning to millions of life.
@@abhishekrawat4630 kuch nhi Kiya but tere jase chutiyon ko kya Diya divyakirtu ne bas bhashan suno fees do aur nhi hua to ghar betho. Hahahha sale adhi janta ko to loot liya h in logo ne
In today's world never ever get emotional in front of everyone... people will use this against you! Don't trust anyone! Never cry Never ever ! This is Kalyug..🙏🏻
True )
Sir sell something with he got money
Blunt true.. Not nowadays only.. It always
It's all agenda
True man. Be strong, be resilient.
For a change I taught my son to cry out his stress, sadness, anxiety...even happiness.
He is 25yrs n practice this crying healing n move on I life.
Males have full rite to cry as human beings. ❤
U were not suppose to do that.
U broke a fundamental law of nature.
@@Pantheon-nu5kl lol sorry
@@Pantheon-nu5klwhat the law of nature ,
@@Pantheon-nu5klwhat law?
@@randomshots6206relax man, he's just ranting about societal norms
भारत के सर्वश्रेष्ठ विद्वान शिक्षक हैं, सर जी आपको प्रणाम
Vikas sir ke bolne ka tareeka excellent lagata hai mujhe ....❤ sir bilkul real life examples dete hai hamesha jo mujhe bahut aachaa lagata hai ....❤ sir aap jaise human se milna mera ek sapna hai ab patani aapse mai mil paunga ya nhi because sir aapse agar mai real life se related kisi topic par baat kru to I think ki aap mujhe bahut aache se explain kroge I 100% believe you sir ❤😊👏👏👏👏... Jai Hind sir 🫡🙏❤️🇮🇳
I went through same when I lost my mom. I thought I am a guy who won't be that affected on my mom's death. But first two days I blanked out. And it's very difficult to fit in this world again. This reaction of mine suprised me alot
Get married or have a woman life partner
@@NA-vt6mz😑🙄
Same here. My father also taught me not to cry. Crying is normal. If u r upset or angry, plz cry. Be a human 1st. Emotionally n physically.
Ranveer you are so connected with Vikas Sir. So respectful and open.
Ese hi situation ke liye is duniya main dost naam ka praadin hai sir
parr bhai har kisi ke paas nahi hote hain
Har kuchh share nahi ho sakta, yahan sirf apki baat nahi ho Rahi hai aur sabka situation aapke jaisa nahi hota
Sachchi dosti aaj kal ki duniya me bachi hi nahi , sare swarth ke sambandh hain
Yes bro❤
Dost hote hai
Sometimes when u become emotional at home and feel for ur family and tears roll out still the word comes ki ye dekho emotional ho gaya ladkiyon jaisa when this is the condition at home then we only find our friends to share our feelings😢
Never cry infront of others. Your emotions will be used against you
Exactly. If you wanna cry, cry somewhere nobody's watching you and make sure your emotions don't leak in front of others.
Being vulnerable in front of others is one of the biggest risks you can take. Becoz you never know when you're vulnerabilities will be used against you.
Be mentally strong, and reserved. Don't be emotionally distant, but at the same time don't be emotionally vulnerable.
Cry in front of God 👍
@@rishabhvishwakarma5956 oh!!!!!! respect bro .....
@@rajdeepdutt625 absolutely true
@@rajdeepdutt625thank God women dont have such problem. Women can cry
Vikas Sir is a great educator and has real knowledge n experience of life..More such concepts of society should be touched with Sir thru poacasts..
There is lot to learn from him..
This topic is very much important mostly for young men. The way society expects so much from men yet don’t even care about us. I think men should focus on themselves rather than society. 😢
1 of the great comments .....
I don't know why but this totally felt completely true for me even when I'm a girl. Maybe because I'm the eldest and was always treated as a boy.
I don't know about your house but even being a girl after growing little bit we siblings sleep together ; and mother don't have a lot of talk with daughters as well
Iska video dekha nahi bai.. fir bhi comment kr raha hu, Ranveer bhai bharat mein ache logo ki kami nahi.. unhe laya kro..❤️🇮🇳❤️
Crying is NOT a weakness. Cry as much as you have to. Don't be afraid or ashamed to let your tears flow. Crying is a natural part of life. Cry makes you feel better.
Crying is weakness only if are not harmed physically.
Cry, but not in public
Crying is weakness for men
U cry in front of ur girl and she will leave u. Never show ur weakness in front of ur girl
Crying is weekness. Shivaji maharanapratp never cry because they're have mental power
One can listen to him all the time ....The way he explains things ..Thanks Ranveer ...grat job
..❤
Very well explained by sir , we never thought in this way , we should always respect mother's for what they did for us in our whole life
Being a female...and not connected to the family emotionally 😔......here's the way of sukoon which is having lot of money, a big house cars and all....and as I have a male partner who is emotionally connected with his loving family....May he have a small house with peace and love in that house with his family❤.........it's just not a male unexpressive ness.....but also female sometimes 🙂
Agree❤
How 🙄🙄🙄
So true ❤
He said generally there are always exception
@@ayushnayak3055 agree 💯👍🏻
Thanks sir
Aj is video se mene sikha k parents ko jitna hosage utna time doonga
During school time, one of my friends committed suicide, and the rest of us decided to participate in his last rituals. We were filled with sorrow, and one of our friends began recording his cremation video. Suddenly, he stopped recording, and we asked him what happened. He replied, "What if he turned into an evil spirit, and like in the movie '13B,' his way of communicating with me is through this smartphone video?" Surprisingly, we found ourselves laughing at the cremation. The truth is that no matter the circumstances outside, we cannot hold onto sorrowful vibes for long.
Bro 😂😂 😢😢😢😭😭😂😂
Nice
What a podcast!!! Totally relatable with that emotional expressing fact ❤
देश के विकास में ज़रूरी है दिव्य ज्ञान
तभी स्थापित होगा देश का विश्व में कीर्तिमान ; विकास दिव्यकीर्ति
Can't explain you Ranveer how much you understand me, every favourite topic of mine is found on your channel!!
Same bro❤
Superb!!! I would request you to strongly present guests like this that can highlight the silent suffering that boys and men endure throughout their lives. In the modern era where every female issue is highlighted and exaggerated -- the injustices and oppression that men and boys face remains invisible though so ubiquitous in all cultures.
Victim mentality is new norm...let the man be a men... World cannot function on extreme emotion...
Hone ka to kavi v kuchh ho sakta hai to phir present me jina chahiye. Sochana hi galat hai. Big fan Divyakirti sir❤❤❤
What a nice conversation. Hearing to Dr Vikas is always amazing 👏
Crying is one of the best feeling of comfort crying at night when no one is watching .crying allows me to express my sadness
Wonderful Pod cast🎉 Requesting you to make one pod cast with Sudha Murty ma'am
I am probably alive because I cried a lot in past years alone. Learning about myself and my emotions and being able to handle them and actually take control of it. Rather than pushing and running away from it in the name of being strong, but in reality, you are not even facing it.
It helped me to have empathy for myself, which led me to love myself even more, which automatically makes me stronger and keeps you away from a lot of negativity.
Now, since couple of months I am a lot less stressed, less mental breakdowns.
you are a girl, you have time to cry. We, the men don't have time to shed tears.
@@akworldinfo-m9s lives have been lost because of people like you, people and families have suffered including myself. i am a man and the best thing i have done is knowing my emotions and controlling them and not choose the same destructive path. It has also made me stronger so that i can confront people like you, in reality it's sad that it has to be that way which i don't want to but it is a cruel world and people like you don't care. I'll be crying while i fuck you up, and even after you're dead if it goes that way. There is no other way for people like you.
What a amazing guy he just revealed the gist of life, i hope my parents would have understood that. But love u sir
Emotional kar de rahe ho yaar.. 😢 this is a freaking heavy topic .. which boys don’t speak or don’t know what/how to speak about it .. Great Video 🙏🏼
Vikas sir is a great philosopher. His observation towards life is wonderful.
Kya Divya Vani hai sir ji dhanya ho gaya
Reality! Hardcore!
Parents ❤️
Exact same situation and same opinions vikas sir is legend ❤❤❤❤
Vikas needs an award for the knowledge he has 🏆👍🏻
Jahan bhi main vikash sir ko dekti hoon unko sunti hoon !jeene he liye kuch to mil hi jata hai
Flashback of my childhood! What a relevance.
Damn ... Aankh me aansu aa gye ... Respect sir for u
Nice detailed discreet description about gender equality it's perspectives & emotions.😍 Please keep on streaming and showering such podcasts for a change it's delightful to hear such discussion. ☺️
Mere father bht emotional h , wo Aaj v dada-dadi k liye (Puja m) unko yaad krke baccho ki tarah ro dete h , 2004-5 m mjhe azeeb lgta tha - Mera baap ye kya kr rha h , lekin Aaj papa k sth mjhe v aansu aa jata h .
Best Part of the Podcast & very well explained by Dby Drikas Divyakirti sir.
thankyou
so complex matter explained in so easy way..amazing
No one will ever live without guilt because when parents leave we always feel that they went early.....
Emotional expression kam krte krte emotional hi ni reh pate ek samay ke bad... This line... Hits hard
Thank you रणवीर भाई for having him on show!❤
Vikas sir ko sunke bhaut accha lagta hia thank you 🙏🏻
Vikas Sir One and Only Piece ❤
Ye banda Bohat positive hai inhone jo hur ek baat boli hai Vo hum sabi Ladko ke dil ki baat boldi hai 😢mere baap ki death ho gyi c jab main 4 Saal ka tha Thoda Sa bada huya to mujhe padhayi vgera sab shodna padha ma or shoti behn or shote bhai ke liye phir mujhe kaam karna jeyada jaruri ho gya bache ke kandho par he Samjho boojh daala jaata hai to phir main dubai gya 17 saal ki umar me or phir behn ki shaadi ki bhai ko bhi padhaya or abhi bhai mera Australia 🇦🇺 me hai vahan Bheja usko or Aaj meri umar 28 saal ki hai or filhaal main abhi bhi dubai me he hu 😢😢 bus shaadi b nhi kiya tha kyunki mera pehla pyar tha Vo bhi mere haalaat dekhkar shod gyi thi or shaadi b Karli Usne lekin mera pehla pyar thi main to Aaj bhi use aapna lu ga aagar Aa jaaye yehi soch soch kar Maine shaadi b nhi ki bhi shayid vo Kabhi loot Aaaye 😥😥😥😥 Maine to aapne liye Kabhi Kapdy tak nhi liye dhang ke Aapne baare me to Kabhi Socha he nhi 😢😢 phir b mujhe sab shod kar chale gye 😥😥😥 main punjab Se hu Abhi to mera punjab Jaane ko b dil nhi karta pta nhi kya ho gya hai akela Baitha Paglo ki tarah divaaro ki taraf dekhta rehta hu
Lekin Main phir b kisi se baat Nhi Kar Paata Na Aapne Dil Ki Baten Bol skta hu anadr he Andar ghut ghut kar jee Raha Hu or Upar Wale C Poochta Hu Waheguru ji mere sath Aaise Kyu Kiya Maine To Aapni Zindgi bhi daayo Pe Lagaadi sabke liye 😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥
That's called speech power. 59k+ likes... with zero dislikes. ❤❤
Uff! I could relate each sentence he said.
Feel a lot lighter.
True ....everyone should spend their time with mother 😢
Its not about male or female, its all about their socialisation, past experiences,emotional intelligence ,priorities and value system of that person.....
Hyper masculinity is definitely a problem, which we can't disagree..
Masculinity and femininity is not a problem as they are natural. But the problem is people don't understand these terms. I've seen some people say stupid stuff like kindness is a feminine thing. Aggression is a masculine thing.
Wheras, good behaviour is a good behaviour for all and bad behaviour is a bad behaviour for all.
Our behaviour is controlled by our minds, not our male/female hormones.
@@tulipbubbly3748 Hyper masculinity is toxic and imposed on male children from the beginning.... Mard ko dard nahi hota hai, kind of stuff feeding to them....
@@Dileep_Champion toh phr randi Rona krrr tu 😂😂😂
@@Dileep_ChampionSuppose U r facing an enemy nation's army, invaders or maybe internal insurgents. Whom do you prefer to fight so to win, so to survive the fight, protect all those dear to you and maintain ur honour :-
1. Hard & strong, dominant, stoic (emotionless), focused, solid, logical, objective, masculine men 💪🏻🤛🏻🤜🏻??
OR ;
2. Emotional, soft, vulnerable, complaining this & that, readable (non-stoic) cringe, sobbing, watery eyes, sad, sleeping with his mom, crying men cum soldiers 🤡👽🤪 ..... and virtue-signalling all - "Men - it's Ok to cry, it's Ok to be emotional" ??
I would blindfold choose no. 2 as my enemy, invading army - to facewith !! 😆😁😄😁😆
P.S. Whatever Sigmund Freud and his students said are basic theories, anecdotal evidence, indivigual root-cause analysis & hypothesis of 1900s. They r no scientific laws, they aren't any Gospel Truth, are mere bubbles in the oceans of human psychology and open to be outrightly rejected, replaced, negated, criticized, scrutinized and questioned.
@@Dileep_Championanother male feminist
Vikas sir ki baaten Shunkar aisa laagta hai ki wo machine ban Gaye Hai parhate parhte 🙏🙏
Beta hi gujare toh accha hai, Maa na gujare toh hi accha hai." @ 9:50 ❤❤
Most important line Maa ki mrityu ke Baad 1 saal roya 😢😢, m bhi apni beti k Jane k baad kuch 1 saal depression Mein rha, ab bhagwan ne mujhe beti wapas krdi, 🙏 woh bhot dayalu hai
bhai ye video dekh na hi mere liye mental peace sabit hua. vikas sir ne kitna beautifully mens ke mental health ko samzaya h. Muze laga jai se mai kisi psychiatrist se mil aya❤
Or mujay laga ki psychologist say.
Aap ka comment dekh kar pata chala.
Ki sir ji teacher hay.
Sachi
I am watching many videos of vikas sir ji
What an amazing eye-opener.... so true and so realistic... Every Man's story " Mard ko Dard nahi hota" .............Kahe be..... hum log Zinda nahi hai kya ??
Great informative video,I have lost the smile right from my engineering till upsc 6 attempts got exhausted in 2021 not able to come back to track from the hangover
VIKAS DIYYAKIRTI SIR I M NOT A IAS STUDENT, BUT I LIKE YOUR APPRICH TOWARDS THE QUESTIONS YOU ANSWERS
I like the way Vikas sir speak 😊😊😊😊
Sir aapka beta jab apse baat karta hoga toh bahut sukoon milta hoga usko.
I think this is the must watch clip for every men ❤🎉
when men cry they don't drop tears they drop sweat💪💪
Aur yahan bhi bakchodi rona normalize karne ki baat chal raha aur thu beere gym ka
When boy's go through breakups they don't get sad they get angry he is so good in human thoughts
Philosophy का वास्तविक स्वरूप sir ने समझा है
Literally one of the best video so far I have seen in a while ☺️
OMG, His voice and explanation are top-notch!
Khan sir ko leao
Koi teacher hai wo..??? Bakwaas Godi admi... Paise aur fame ka bhukha... ❤❤
@@kamaldeepsingh3988paise ka bhukha pata nahi par Godi poora hai vo
Khan sir se kya karwayegaa be
abe lavrhe abi jo aya hai usko to sunn le
@@kamaldeepsingh3988Madrasa chap spotted 🥵🤫
Osm Preacher Mr.Vikas Divyakirti..Great...Best Teacher of india...❤🎉
Being a Girl, i can also feel this pain. Dont like to expree my emotions because of past experiences 🥺🥺. It feels hard sometimes.
What happened?
Be aware
@@gauravrawat3586 so many things at a time.
He is so insanely insightful always. He should get into human psychology rather than IAS
Vikas sir is amazing..lots of respect for him🙏🙏🙏
I always listen vikas sir... profession ek hai per difference bahut hai
I'm father of 4 year old son. thanks for such information 🙂
Jab vo bada hoke hilaye to marna mat.
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@@Familyfashion7 bhai itna bi sach nahi bolna tahh
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I really felt very good to watch this video
Vikas sir your each word is really amazing
Thank you so much
Very glad to have been there for my younger brother and help him out regarding these issues ❤
Hope he's expressive 🎉
I am medical student but I love hearing DR. VIKAS DIVAYKIRTI❤❤
Told the same thought to students other day,, ladka agar roye toh, kya ladki tarah Rita hai... parents should be councelled not to tell such non things to boys...they must hv equal freedom to express their emotions...crying is the best medicine.....